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I walked in on my husband and my “best friend” together. It’s been 18 years, and I still see it in my mind every single day. No, I’m not with him anymore, and I ended my friendship with her as well. But it still hurts
I'm so sorry you have gone through that. In all seriousness, have you considered going to therapy so they can help you deal with this? It's hard but the quality of your life is what matters now.
Every day you let go by while you are hurting is a day you let them steal from you. Seriously, not to be trite, but find a counsellor and take back your life.
Something to lighten the mood. A new gal at work was in the smoking area outside telling these old time employees about me and this other girl at work. How she saw us riding in together, hugging and holding each other before we came in the building. She expressed her belief that I had to be cheating on my wife and her on her husband for a long LONG time. I had to add my two-bits and informed her that my fling has lasted over 30 years... As that's how long we've been married. The gossip gal was laughed out of the building as everyone knew she was just trying to start drama but found her entertaining. Ever since, my wife & I have had the running joke of, "Don't tell your husband and my wife about us!!!" Hey, if you're going to have a fling, your spouse is a great place to start.
Love it. Although, its sad she couldn't fathom a married couple having the love affair of a lifetime. To her, such passion is reserved exclusively for unmarried couples and hookups, it seems? Poor girl.
Oh I have a similar story: My biology teacher is really friendly and got along with the students so she was a favourite with students and her peers. She was once pulled aside by a set jealous and nosy teachers that she shouldn’t start anything with the physics teacher as they are both married and it is very unprofessional in the workplace. They were seen talking in the staff room and mind you not even flirting or doing anything inappropriate (pda is kinda shamed in my country). They are a married couple with a daughter who is in 4th grade…😑😶 It was fun as the students were aware of their relationship while the teachers were under the assumption of doing a good deed of trying to stop an affair happening when a married couple were discussing school work. 😂
@@carlimcelrath1901 I certainly did. This was very disheartening to watch. Especially the one who cheated on her husband of 18 years. I can’t imagine treating my husband (my best friend) in such a manner.
Yes, I was cheated on, got a divorce & went on with my life. I never remarried, just enjoy being by myself. The experience didn't kill me, but it did make me stronger. Dating is to stressful for me. I've got friends that I meet up with from time to time for movies, lunch, brunch/dinner. They're still in the work force, as I'm RETIRED! I'm very Blessed. The little things in life keep me happy & I'm taking time to enjoy it all.
I’m also 10 months behind and I must say that your attitude about it is awesome and inspiring. He certainly didn’t deserve you because he didn’t value you. I also agree with Say_What. If you’re truly happy being single that that’s great and you do you. But, if fear is holding you back.. even just a little.. Say_What has a point. The majority of people aren’t scumbags. You could also just date casually from time to time and get to know new people. If it doesn’t turn into romance it could turn into a new friendship. You don’t have to go the all-in, exhausting route. I know you didn’t ask but you seem like a great person and I wouldn’t want you missing out on new experiences. If you’re really not interested in casual dating.. ignore all I said except the part about you being awesome and inspiring. I wish you all the happiness life has to offer. And I wish your butthead ex all the misery and drama that comes with being a cheater. 💚
Me too. 17 yrs of marriage. I cannot date. It's too hard. I love being single and being alone😂😂. I cannot believe I spent so much time being married when I actually prefer being alone...who knew?
@@Khaleesi_Of_Kittens they are if you are me😂 every guy I have ever dated cheated and so did my husband of 17 years😂. I'm gonna stay alone. I'm loving being single
I was told by a coworker on another shift that my man of 16 years relationship was possibly cheating. I went through his car, found a love letter from her. Confronted him and gave him 30 minutes to pack as much shit as he could and get out. Both vehicles were in my name, so he had to walk. Two months later, when he begged me to take him back.... I laughed.
Preach my roommates ex girlfriend cheated to be with him. It was his first relationship and I dont know if he understood that it was cheating. But she went back to the ex, said she might be a lesbian and then tried to get back with my roommate.
I'd give an exception in cases of abuse. There is such a thing as "reactive abuse" where the devalued partner will do toxic things after being pushed to the limit. You see this in narcissistic relationships all the time where the narc will seem like a great person and the partner will seem like a POS, come to find out it's the other way around at home, and the devalue partner just snapped. This can include affairs. Usually removing the devalued partner from the abusive situation + therapy is enough for them to come to their senses.
@@jakemarie828 Well, yeah, abuse is a very different and comparatively rare situation. I was talking about the more "normal" cheating situation where someone cheats on their partner for the thrills or because the relationship "became stale", where they might leave their ex for their sidepiece, just to repeat the cycle of dishonesty.
So true! There's actually statistics on it too! Almost half the men who cheated in a previous relationship will cheat in the next one, 48%! More men cheat than women, with 25% of men admitting to cheating on their partner and about 15% of women. Often the cheaters will lie and say their relationship is over, they're single, etc., so sometimes I feel bad if the other person didn't know.
I was always a snoopy kid. When i was 12, I found out my mom was cheating on my dad and asked my dad about it. Turned out he didnt know anything until i asked him why she had these love letters and txts in her phone from some guy. Ive never seen my tough as nails dad cry before then. Hes great now though.
I discovered one of my parents was cheating when I was a kid too. Printed out the proof and gave it to the other parent to confront them with. Zero regrets.
Awee I'm so sorry for you guys, that really sucks and the fact that you got involved in it as well, I'm sorry you went through that! I'm glad your dad is okay now!
The other girl was getting on my nerves. Like, just SHUT UP. She was trying to get in the middle of the drama and then just walks off with a man that was just caught CHEATING. Hope karma kicks her hard in the butt.
@@jodie3950 I hope he cheats on her with her best friend and she feels so stupid because she knew from the beginning that he was and would always be a cheater
And then he pushed her! Like what? Number one he didn't have any right whatsoever to push her and number 2 its wrong. What a loser that guy he. I feel sad for her.
I feel bad, but she has no self respect. She sees him with another woman, the right thing to do is to walk up, look him in the eyes and then walk away without saying anything. Go home, get rid of his things, and block him.
@@allenjohnstone9945 That he likely started to do after she exhibited signs that something was going on. Blind trust leads to problems and at least this bloke had the sense not to ignore the signs.
I was also wondering, how can this Valery be on a BFs side - doesn't she understand, she can get cheated on too? She was also so chill about GF of 2 years as if she knew there is one, but totally didn't care. Furthermore she tries to shift the blame on a girl's "mental state". What would you feel like if you had found out about your BFs infidelity on Valentines day, while he was lying about working overtime, ms. Smartpants??
Why do cheaters always look completely unbothered when they get caught? Is it their sense of entitlement that strong? Or just a fundamental lack of morals?
Reminds me of the time I worked at Starbucks and witnessed a guy get broken up with over a phone call that was on speaker. I ended up giving him a free coffee, but lord was it awkward
@@JungleTunes94 I noticed the reactions seemed a little 'off', but it's hard to tell if it's just the absolute awkwardness of the moment (you trying to argue with someone you have proof is cheating who is playing dumb, in front of some stranger just trying to do his job). Easy to see how some people might just 'blank out' in expression/response.
I completely agree with you, if your gonna cheat just break up with the person. It'll make the person feel a lot better instead of you cheating and making the person feel worse.
I think that, for some people, it's all part of the game, the thrill, the high they get from doing something naughty. There is definitely shit going on in people's lives though, to stoop so low.
I think that's because they're confident they won't be caught. They like to be in control of the relationship, they want to leave it if they want or stay only if they want while having the convenience of a partner backup at home. That's messed up you can't have the best of both world. .those people are selfish, I bet you if they get cheated on they'll be equally as pissed
I always wonder why the cheated on party needs to confront it. It's one thing if you're married or share a residence but, otherwise, just back away slowly and dodge the person forever. The confrontation seems to make the cheated on person just feel shittier when they aren't treated with respect then either.
There are plenty of reasons for cheating, in the mind of the cheater. Loneliness (living with somebody doesn't always make you feel less lonely). Physical kinks and shame regarding them. Frustration and revenge regarding the relationship. End of a relationship people continue by habit or percieved duty (kids, partner that was once loved,... etc). I knew a woman who cheated on her husband of 15 years. 3 kids. They ended up separating respectfully. Agreed to sign everything in the marriage over to their kids. She still respected him, but she didn't love him anymore. And same for him. Both very decent adult people. Just drifted apart and felt lonely and stuck. Then you have the plain old cheater for whom it wasn't serious to begin with. But that's the minority.
@@viol3tsparrow I read that post. The dude hired a private investigation firm to find dirt on his wife as he wanted to divorce her and keep his money. As the husband had hired them he figured his own behavior was safe. The investigators found she was a good and faithful wife which pissed the husband off so he stiffed them on the bill. To get back at him the lead investigator gave all the proofs to the wife who divorced him and took him to the cleaners in the settlement.
@@rebeccaparker9703 Not in the case was talking about. It was made apparent he was looking for an excuse for a divorce that would make it look like it was her infidelity. As if people wouldn't see him instantly getting together with his mistress as the evidence it would be of his own infidelity.
It was a little vindicating to see people get busted, because I have been the cheated upon just, too many times. My first husband, I noticed every time I came home from college that he would always be mysteriously checking our bank account. So one night when I got home from school, on a hunch, I stopped my vehicle down the street, brought the garage door opener with me, and then went around the back of the house where I can see our computer room through the downstairs window. The monitor faces the window, and I saw him very vigorously servicing himself in a chat with his girlfriend who lived across town. It turned out that his cue that I was home was the garage door. I would hit the garage door opener to bring my vehicle inside and that sound alerted him to my presence at which point he would probably hang up on his… Whatever. End of story. I mean literally, his last name was Storie. Second husband: I have a successful business, we are fairly well to do, I have furnished our house and bought him every possible manly appliance he could want: Game consoles, big TV, re-finished the entire garage as a giant game room, and yet… I come home from work, it is Christmas Eve, the front window curtain is very slightly parted, maybe two or 3 inches, and I see him on the sofa, that I bought, in my house, on my wood floors, with his girlfriend. I don’t think I have ever stopped breathing for so long before. And if that wasn’t the most awesome thing ever, he twisted the entire event around to his family so that he could deny everything, and wouldn’t let me back into my own house. I had to get a court order to get into my own house to get my things. And during this, he had his dad take my five beautiful cats, who incidentally had name tags and collars with phone numbers and everything on them, to the animal shelter and had them all put to sleep. Why the animal shelter wouldn’t have found that suspicious or called the number on the tags or even verify that the man was the owner of the kitties is completely beyond me. As horrible and painful as these memories still are, I mean still it has been, what? 15 years? And I still mourn for those innocent kitties who didn’t have a clue what was happening nor did they deserve it. All he had to do was call me and I’d have come to get them. But he elected instead to murder terrified sweet kitties who had nothing to do with it. What I was saying, as much as those memories still hurt and give me nightmares and I’m choking up like a whiny little bitch while I’m making this, I have never wanted anything more than a family and kids. Now I have the most amazing man and the most beautiful child who is the freaking most amazing thing that has ever happened. I’ll say that again, amazing. Because I am amazed. I live every day in amazement that I could’ve gotten so lucky.
what kind of psychopath are both him and his parents to put down perfectly health animals??????? I don't see how family could go along with that, if i found this out about my sibling I'd bitch slap them so hard they wouldn't be my sibling
@@deannabrown3750 he was quite Mama’s boy. To the extent that she would make an entirely separate dinner, even thanksgiving dinner, for him if he didn’t like what everyone else was having. She would go pick up clothes off the floor in his room to do laundry, pay his bills, etc. so it was no wonder that his lies were the same as gospel truth to her.
OMG! That's tough! I feel for you! I'm glad you found a good man and after all you didn't need that selfish arse! Glad to know you are happy after everything you went through
So glad you have a happily ever after. Waiting to see if that happens to me. I've been through 2 marriages that did not end well. I had kids only with the 2nd one, so I decided it was better to wait until they were all grown before I started coupling again. On the other hand, I might be better off without a guy. Hard to tell. It will have to be someone quite special if I ever couple again. I just can't cater to the self-centered ones anymore.
Me and anyone one I know would fallow there suspected cheating spouse, that's a normal reaction to being deceived. And I totally agree, if you are the one to break your vows that terminates the marital contract that you guys had signed and you get shit
I have been cheated on by a guy that I dated over 6 years. I finally realized he wasn't it and found the love of my life that I have been married to for almost 32 years.
@Jasmin Royal Ugh, I'm so sorry you went through/are still going through all that, what a horrible thing to do to someone you're supposed to care about.
Yep, exactly. They didn't realize the impact of their behaviour, the bad stereotypes their ex-spouse would get, the bullies their kids might get. Man, it's domino effect. And the fact that I'm one of those people who received the damage makes me feel bitter
@@jelica9475 Yep...that's what happened when my dad had an affair. He didn't understand at all why I hated him. Why I didn't want to speak to him. He literally told me "You'll get over it..cause you still love me" Bitch you told me in day one that you loved her more than us. No I don't still love you...
Most cheaters are also disrespectful, after they got caught, that's the worst part. I didn't enjoy this. Negative thoughts and emotions in my brain and heart right now.
11:26 Her: calmly asks what he was doing with the other girl, *without* saying nor implying he was cheating. Him: immediately and loudly defensive claiming he wasn't cheating. Although I suppose it's a good thing people like him fall for that kind of trick question every time.
My best friend since I was seven was hooking up with my fiancé. It shattered me. I literally went crazy. I hated myself and had never felt more alone. It still hurts to this day if I let myself think about it. Time was the only thing that partially healed my wounds. That was 8 years ago
That sucks girl...I'm so sorry to hear that. Too many events like your story. One of my friends didn't hangout with the girls for a long time after she caught her bestie who was married at that time hookup with her hubby.
This situation is basically the worst cheating scenario that could happen to someone. One of my best guy friends had this happen to him and he hasnt dated since. And thst was like a decade ago. Its permanently changed him. I cant imagine going through that kind of trauma where the 2 people youre closest to betray you.
What pisses me off the most is their reaction when being caught, like they completely lack empathy. I would actually be scared of this kind of people cause they're literally hurting the person who is closest to them without feeling guilty. When they start saying stuff like "get out" or "stop filming" as if they even have the right to make a request at that point. Disgusting
Jeez some of these are just so sad. That poor guy who was married for 18 years, the woman who caught her man cheating on Valentine’s Day, just hurts my heart.
the home wrecker is not at fault, she has no relationship with the gf. it is the boy that is at fault here. You don't get the right to yell at the Home wrecker and think they have to take it. You should be yelling at the bf because he is the one who actually did something to you. Unless the homewrecker is your sister or something, then by all means!
@@theoverunderthinker Your theory is a bit fucked up. Lots of home wreckers didn't aware they are one. But that girl is definitely did. And instead of yelling at the guy, she was trying to have it out with girlfriend instead. She is already fucked on so many level. It's one thing to falling in love with someone, but how can one be dumb enough to be falling in love with a cheater? If he cheats on someone he once love for you, he'll cheats on you too. Sins have its Owners. She was literally aware he's a cheater and still walk with him. Either she was desperate or he have a good dick. lolzzz
@@austinjt4264 maybe it is fucked up, but you cannot be betrayed by a competitor, which is what she was. The only person who betrayed her is her bf of 2 years. I am not sure why women always blame the other woman, the character flaw is with the man. the man said "I love you". the man gave you promises that he did not keep. The man cheated on you, used you, and you blame the other woman. It is next level delusional. know the real villain in this, and it's not "the other woman" or "homewrecker". It's the one who cheated. he allowed it to happen and he was supposed to do better than that. He CHOSE to be a cheater, the woman didn't force him. there is no sisterhood among competitors. if your man will let another woman take him from you, a lot of them will (unless he ain't shit to begin with). She probably wasn't looking to marry him anyway, she was just hungry on valentine's day.
@@theoverunderthinker I agree with you that the guy is to blame but she did start by shouting at him and the other woman got involved and got physical, so I understand why she retaliated
@@paleflower but she started out yelling at him and allowed herself to be distracted by some 'round the way girl' and he just stood by and watched while the other girl soaked up her anger (which the new girl didn't care about because the original gf meant nothing to her) and took the heat for the bad actor in this drama. I am sure he appreciated it and showed he how much later that evening.
Yeah, this one was a bit uglier. But you’re still hilarious! Yes, I was cheated on. To get over it, I dumped the dude, stayed single for two years, and then met the man who I have been happily married to for 9 years. Oh, and the cheater got married after we broke up too, then they separated and he’s now in jail for attempting to kill her and killing her boyfriend. So, I literally dodged a bullet there!
@@bellasbrain9391 yeah, surprise twist at the end; my own personal Lifetime movie. But I seriously feel awful for the other girl. She’s now paralyzed and lost a man she was in love with just because she didn’t want to be with an abusive bastard anymore.
I usually know the routes my boyfriend takes when he is walking or his bike as well, and I do not own a drone or stalk him in any way. In a long-term relationship you will just get to know these things.
God, the man who caught his wife of 18 years just broke my heart. My husband and I have been together 18 years, married 16. I cannot imagine either one of us completely crushing the other's soul that way... Sad.
@@andrewthezeppo he may have already had suspicions. I couldn't say. He wouldn't randomly just do that, obviously. I hope it WAS fake. Because that's some f*cked up shit.
I thought that maybe he was checking to make sure she got to work ok, since he said she normally turns a different way to get to work. I dunno, though. Very sad.
@@vanessab8563 when you click on screen you will see 3 dots in a vertical line in upper right corner, click that. Then click “captions”, and then select the language you want them in. To turn off repeat everything but select “off” instead of the language you want. You can also just click the box that says cc next to the three dots to turn on closed captions
@@mads8270 Okay thanks for the suggestion. I did just that + went back to rewatch. The words are so small, at least on my 14-in laptop, that I have to have my head close to the screen to read them (20/20 vision w. correction) + I can't look at the video action on the right while studying the words as they unscroll across the bottom under Charlotte's face on the left. Complete frustration! Having volume at Max was horrible too. One problem with that was the intermittent squawking through my headphones blew out my eardrums, unbelievably horribly unpleasant + startling. New rule for myself: I'm happy for Charlotte that she can hear it, but if she cannot find a way to amplify it or make it audible for us, I don't need to watch it. Life is too short for voluntary misery.
My husband suspected his ex was cheating on him, so he drove 25 miles even though his leg was in a splint, because he had a fractured ligament in his ankle. When he reached her apartment, he parked one block away and went into her living room and waited for her to come home. Sadly, his gut feeling was right.. When she arrived she wasn't alone and he even heard the disgusting sounds of the smacks from their kissing, as they entered the hallway. When she stepped into the living room she obviously went pale as a ghost. A few months after that I was set up to meet him. We have been together for almost 19 years now and I feel like I'm the luckiest woman in the universe
Healing for me began with a poem “After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding hands and chaining a soul” . I think the poem is called “ You Learn”. That poem gave me so much strength.
So me and my husband just celebrated our 13 year anniversary yesterday. Not gonna lie, it's been a rough 13 years. In that time, we each had a single issue with this sort of thing. People, ya gotta think! The amount of emotional and literal physical hurt you cause your significant other when you do crap like this is beyond what you can comprehend. The trust you lose is so very hard to earn back. Thankfully we have gotten past our issues to continue on together as a couple who are still crazy in love, but it hasn't been without a ton of work on both our parts to let go of the past to work harder together for a better future. Think people! If you love someone, you will never want to cause this much hurt and pain.
For my 20th wedding anniversary, I got to meet my husband's mistress. She got in touch with me, unbeknownst to him, and we met up to compare notes. 18 months later I am living in a different state, going through a divorce and taking half his income in the process.
How do people cheat in this day of age? There's smart phones, cameras everywhere and social media. How did they think they wouldn't be caught? People are dumb.
@@africanlady2347 I had a ex cheat on me. And then he ghosted me. I was crushed. But jokes on him his mom still loves me. But I as better off without him he was being shady near the end
@@brittbecka8552 I’m so sorry. You’re really better off without him. In my marriage there’s always only 2 reasons I will walk away. They are if you cheat on me or physically or emotionally abuse me or my kids. There are no second chances.
3:28 she went off on him and his Valentine's mistress. Ladies and Gentlemen please don't date someone who cheated on their partners to be with you, they will probably do that to you too🤷
@@carolinegrova8707 one of my friend has such partner. He cheated on his two years gf with my friend... And they're a couple now. I dunno how she can trust him tbh🤷
I've been married 8 years and would be devastated to find out my husband was unfaithful. I can't imagine 18 years. That's like half your life with this person just thrown away. Broke my heart. ALSO felt so bad for that fast food employee
I have to wonder if the ones were there's a girl just fully dressed chilling out on a separate couch or playing xbox... like are they even being cheated on?
The thing my cheating ex did was yell at me and blame me for looking through his phone... ummm no you cheated mate I’m the one who should be yelling at you
thats the same thing my wife did. I actually came home one night from work and she was asleep with the phone in hand. I took it to plug it in for her. when i looked down i saw a guys name i didn't know and the word "creampie". I read through 33 pages of this shit before she woke up and started yelling at me about why i had her phone.
Same here but I didn't let him dominate the argument I simply said that me looking through his phone paled in comparison to his cheating so he should just stick to the subject at hand. I didn't miss my opportunity to tell him how stupid he looked trying to turn the table on me.
One of my friends found out that her boyfriend cheated because she went to his school to surprise him with a gift and lunch and saw him making out with another girl. He got so mad and started yelling at her for being there and that she should be in class and not there. It was so terrible but also kinda funny how he felt entitled to an answer from her of why she wasn't in class.
SAME! And I even waited to go through it till I had already found evidence on my own, so I already knew when I looked in it, I just needed to know it all, and then HE screamed at ME.
I really don’t know how I would respond if I came home where I share the bills with my spouse and caught someone in my house like this.... I think I’d drag them out by the hair
I love you Charlotte! You know when things are cruel and unnecessary. I love that you don't ever condone bullying. Coming from someone who was bullied my whole school age years. I appreciate that you are not ashamed or embarrassed to say that you were bullied and now that you are a public figure I love that you always stand up for those that are clearly being mistreated. Thank you for doing this!
I was making my boyfriends bed one morning and came across a used condom. I was crushed🥺 and yes, he made that face and acted like I was the crazy one. Ugh!🙄
I came here to say something about the cheating wife of “18 years!”.. since the wife cheated, in the u.s (in my state anyway) she would not only not be able to claim 1/2 their belongings/whatever else they share but because she cheated and broke the marriage she would get absolutely nothing-the husband gets the house and etc. if that makes any sense
Well that doesn't seem very fair. Cheating is totally wrong, but there must have been something wrong with the relationship for it to happen, and maybe the 'cheater' thought they had a reason. Maybe they were married to someone who threatened to kill themselves if the other person left the marriage, maybe one of them was emotionally abusing the other. Who knows? Relationships are complex and people outside the marriage don't truly know how others are in their private lives. I don't think one person should lose the rights to whatever they owned together because of it.
@@catclark9488 reason? I watched another video about a man who cheated on his wife bcs his wife spend most of her time taking care of her 3 kids, he needs attention, me that's is his excuse to cheat. Yeah, 'absolutely' good reason to cheat smh
Second clip: I will NEVER understand that mentality of, "Well, the fact that he's here with me..." and her defending him and still continuing her date with him. How!? She may feel like the winner in that situation, but how little brains and self-respect fo you have to have, to see that a guy was clearly lying to you, and cheating on his girlfriend of two years, but you're willing to accept his lies because he's clearly spending vday with you. Hello, girl! He's already cheated on you and he will again once someone new comes along. Other girl should sue her since she kept on touching her. Yes, I'm petty like that.
That video made me so bad. Like everything you said I pretty much agree with. How can you defend a cheater like that? And I don’t know statistics but I remember seeing something a long time ago that mentioned what you said about they’re likely to cheat again. That girl and guy are gonna get some major karma. I hope the one who was hurt found something happiness.
She's now saddled w. the primary carriage of his mess, & she's so blinded by infatuation or just feminine-relational -aggression that she genuinely seems to think she's won something.
The moment I knew my marriage was over, was when I starting getting a roving eye. I got sick of him not caring, and doing everything, and being lonely, so we split. And now I am on my own but not lonely :)
Mine was 10 years and I found out that he was hitting on a bunch of chicks, grooming them to be his gf. (3 of which were mutual friends. One apologized to me for it)
I'm 26 and I just separated from my husband because I found out that while I was working my 12.5 hr nursing shifts, he wasn't actually at home looking for a job like he said he would, he was on multiple dating sites chatting to other women. He recently told me that my asking him to leave was "very unexpected for him. :3" Dare I say it was very unexpected for me also :D
You never really get over being cheated on. You can say you're over it all you want, but that's a lie you tell yourself. That loss of trust gets carried over to every relationship ever.
Nah, you WILL get over it. It will take some efford and time. Try to forgive them, it will help you. Also the moment you truly fall in love with someone else, you wont think all the time about your exes. At least i hope
One: people are just turd nuggets sometimes. And two: the husband with the drone... I have questions...did be suspect cheating, hence the drone? I'm just going to assume people dont follow their spouses with drones lol
That was my assumption. It sounds like he figured something was up & decided to confirm it in the way least likely to be noticed (from above with the drone). Made me think about all the PIs that must utilize them now. A little disturbing to think about to be honest. ^^; (Not because I believe anyone should get away with dishonesty with their partner, but all the negative ways it could be used against people who don't deserve it, like custody/divorce cases, stalkers, god only knows what).
At first I thought that was very strange that he followed her by a drone, but at the same time because drones are out and about it's smart because she wouldn't have noticed. I could feel his anger twords her...but mostly sadness. If I where the guy myself, I'd lock the door and change the locks. Because she doesn't deserve his home.
I wondered the same thing. It's genius if he already suspected and wanted to confirm but super creepy if that was his normal routine and he just happened to see her cheat this time.
@@otterlyawkward912 Because he was so angry, I started thinking what if he's abusive and he always monitors her and she was escaping?? I watch a lot of crime dramas so don't mind me lol
So my dad cheated on my mom. A lot. Anyway, when I was around 18 he took me to his friend's place to train jujitsu with a few guys. The friend had a large warehouse /barn with MMA equipment so it was amazing. Anyway he was training people (working out, not martial arts) while I was jujitsu-ing. I thought nothing of it. Afterwards while we're packing up, he tells me not to tell mom about the woman he was training (which I hadn't even noticed at that point, i was naive). He said, "you know how crazy she gets about this kind of thing." Now I may be naive, but I do love psychology. I know what gaslighting is, and I knew thst instant he was gaslighting mom about his multiple affairs. What destroyed my faith in him was the fact that he never even considered that I wouldn't play along. Naturally, I told my mother immediately. I have never respected my father ever since he assumed I was just as deplorable as he is.
My husband cheated on me. I caught him...won't go into details. It almost pushed us into divorce, but with lots of therapy and time we're working on things
I don't understand because it seemed like she thought he was going to dump the new girl and beg her? after about 30sec, it was clear that he was not leaving the new girl, so she might as well have walked away. Dude let the "other woman" talk to her and tell her to go away, so it wasn't like he cared about her. He got caught, so he decided the old relationship was ruined, so he picked the new one.
I think more that she just wanted answers to why, why cheat on me, why lie to me and keep me around, why ruin my valentines with your lying and cheating when I probably could have been with some other guy etc etc But no cheaters ever gonna give you answers. She was just emotionally outraged.
If it makes you feel any better, it was obviously fake. They wouldn't be yelling at each other in broken Engrish, and the stopping to cry right in front of the camera was the cherry on top
As a child who had a cheating parent, LEAVE. Your child might be hurt but it hurts more for it to happen later and your child shouldn’t have to hear you screaming or find hearts and sex symbols sent to another women
Yes, I have been cheated on more than once and I had the pleasure of watching their entire life go down the toilet every time. I never cheated on anyone though, because once it happens to you you can't do it to someone else.
I just wrote that about seeing my Dad do it when drinking. I then later had it happen to me but I immediately broke up with him and now I could never even THINK of cheating. Ever!
I've seen two girls get together and confront the guy(me being one of the girls) but I've never seen 2 guys confront a girl. You could tell the girl was completely dumb founded. She couldn't even say anything. 😱😂
Although I’m “open minded”... I have been cheated on. It could have been something kinky, spicy, and fun in the relationship... but she decided to cheat and hide it instead. 🤷🏻♂️ Communication is key to a relationship
He cheated on me to break up with me. He announced it on Facebook like a coward. I'm not sure how I got over it. I had a stroke that basically erased him from my memory.
What do you guys want to see on my channel in the future?! It's gotta be something I can react to!
React to trumps speeches
Infomercials
Tattoo fails
Makeup fails
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What about a part two of the petty neighbour against the Karen I loved that vid
oh my god ! absolutely love your reaction videos,
please react to catfishing stuffs and gold digger pranks done on youtube,
loads of love
Pregnancy announcments....although that might just be a bunch of crying? 🤔
I walked in on my husband and my “best friend” together. It’s been 18 years, and I still see it in my mind every single day. No, I’m not with him anymore, and I ended my friendship with her as well. But it still hurts
I´m really sorry for that awful betrayal from 2 people that must love and care about you. I wish you the best on this new year.
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I'm so sorry you have gone through that. In all seriousness, have you considered going to therapy so they can help you deal with this? It's hard but the quality of your life is what matters now.
That certainly makes it hard to trust anyone anymore. Hope you finally come to terms with it. They didn't deserve you as a friend anyway.
Every day you let go by while you are hurting is a day you let them steal from you. Seriously, not to be trite, but find a counsellor and take back your life.
Something to lighten the mood. A new gal at work was in the smoking area outside telling these old time employees about me and this other girl at work. How she saw us riding in together, hugging and holding each other before we came in the building. She expressed her belief that I had to be cheating on my wife and her on her husband for a long LONG time. I had to add my two-bits and informed her that my fling has lasted over 30 years... As that's how long we've been married. The gossip gal was laughed out of the building as everyone knew she was just trying to start drama but found her entertaining. Ever since, my wife & I have had the running joke of, "Don't tell your husband and my wife about us!!!" Hey, if you're going to have a fling, your spouse is a great place to start.
Love it.
Although, its sad she couldn't fathom a married couple having the love affair of a lifetime. To her, such passion is reserved exclusively for unmarried couples and hookups, it seems? Poor girl.
Oh I have a similar story:
My biology teacher is really friendly and got along with the students so she was a favourite with students and her peers. She was once pulled aside by a set jealous and nosy teachers that she shouldn’t start anything with the physics teacher as they are both married and it is very unprofessional in the workplace. They were seen talking in the staff room and mind you not even flirting or doing anything inappropriate (pda is kinda shamed in my country).
They are a married couple with a daughter who is in 4th grade…😑😶
It was fun as the students were aware of their relationship while the teachers were under the assumption of doing a good deed of trying to stop an affair happening when a married couple were discussing school work. 😂
❤❤❤❤ This is ADORABLE!!
nobody needed the mood lightened tho...
@@carlimcelrath1901 I certainly did. This was very disheartening to watch. Especially the one who cheated on her husband of 18 years. I can’t imagine treating my husband (my best friend) in such a manner.
Yes, I was cheated on, got a divorce & went on with my life. I never remarried, just enjoy being by myself. The experience didn't kill me, but it did make me stronger. Dating is to stressful for me. I've got friends that I meet up with from time to time for movies, lunch, brunch/dinner. They're still in the work force, as I'm RETIRED! I'm very Blessed. The little things in life keep me happy & I'm taking time to enjoy it all.
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I’m also 10 months behind and I must say that your attitude about it is awesome and inspiring. He certainly didn’t deserve you because he didn’t value you.
I also agree with Say_What. If you’re truly happy being single that that’s great and you do you. But, if fear is holding you back.. even just a little.. Say_What has a point. The majority of people aren’t scumbags. You could also just date casually from time to time and get to know new people. If it doesn’t turn into romance it could turn into a new friendship. You don’t have to go the all-in, exhausting route.
I know you didn’t ask but you seem like a great person and I wouldn’t want you missing out on new experiences. If you’re really not interested in casual dating.. ignore all I said except the part about you being awesome and inspiring. I wish you all the happiness life has to offer. And I wish your butthead ex all the misery and drama that comes with being a cheater.
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Me too. 17 yrs of marriage. I cannot date. It's too hard. I love being single and being alone😂😂. I cannot believe I spent so much time being married when I actually prefer being alone...who knew?
@@Khaleesi_Of_Kittens they are if you are me😂 every guy I have ever dated cheated and so did my husband of 17 years😂. I'm gonna stay alone. I'm loving being single
So sorry that happend to you🤍
I was told by a coworker on another shift that my man of 16 years relationship was possibly cheating. I went through his car, found a love letter from her. Confronted him and gave him 30 minutes to pack as much shit as he could and get out. Both vehicles were in my name, so he had to walk. Two months later, when he begged me to take him back.... I laughed.
good!!
Well done.
Queen shit
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Thats awesome!!!
Everybody, keep this in mind: If you got together with someone while they were cheating on someone else, chances are they will cheat on you, too.
Preach my roommates ex girlfriend cheated to be with him. It was his first relationship and I dont know if he understood that it was cheating. But she went back to the ex, said she might be a lesbian and then tried to get back with my roommate.
I'd give an exception in cases of abuse. There is such a thing as "reactive abuse" where the devalued partner will do toxic things after being pushed to the limit. You see this in narcissistic relationships all the time where the narc will seem like a great person and the partner will seem like a POS, come to find out it's the other way around at home, and the devalue partner just snapped. This can include affairs. Usually removing the devalued partner from the abusive situation + therapy is enough for them to come to their senses.
@@jakemarie828 Well, yeah, abuse is a very different and comparatively rare situation. I was talking about the more "normal" cheating situation where someone cheats on their partner for the thrills or because the relationship "became stale", where they might leave their ex for their sidepiece, just to repeat the cycle of dishonesty.
So true! There's actually statistics on it too! Almost half the men who cheated in a previous relationship will cheat in the next one, 48%! More men cheat than women, with 25% of men admitting to cheating on their partner and about 15% of women. Often the cheaters will lie and say their relationship is over, they're single, etc., so sometimes I feel bad if the other person didn't know.
good, they deserve it
I was always a snoopy kid. When i was 12, I found out my mom was cheating on my dad and asked my dad about it. Turned out he didnt know anything until i asked him why she had these love letters and txts in her phone from some guy. Ive never seen my tough as nails dad cry before then. Hes great now though.
I discovered one of my parents was cheating when I was a kid too. Printed out the proof and gave it to the other parent to confront them with. Zero regrets.
Awee I'm so sorry for you guys, that really sucks and the fact that you got involved in it as well, I'm sorry you went through that! I'm glad your dad is okay now!
How ya gettin' along with Mom though?
He leave her ?
@Kylie Noelle this is so infuriating. But if he can’t make an effort to see what’s in front of him, let it be his choice then
I felt so bad for the Asian woman. Broke my heart ❤
The other girl was getting on my nerves. Like, just SHUT UP. She was trying to get in the middle of the drama and then just walks off with a man that was just caught CHEATING. Hope karma kicks her hard in the butt.
@@jodie3950 I hope he cheats on her with her best friend and she feels so stupid because she knew from the beginning that he was and would always be a cheater
And then he pushed her! Like what? Number one he didn't have any right whatsoever to push her and number 2 its wrong. What a loser that guy he.
I feel sad for her.
Me too! And then the other girl's like, "Well since he's here with ME on Valentine's Day, you must not be a good girlfriend"
I feel bad, but she has no self respect. She sees him with another woman, the right thing to do is to walk up, look him in the eyes and then walk away without saying anything. Go home, get rid of his things, and block him.
That 18 years of marriage one was really sad.
Shoulda dropped the drone down at eye level and then sped off. Just to add an extra layer of 'what the fuck' as her dumb ass tries to figure it out.
To be following her in the first place says there were issues already.
and to top it all off...she probably took him for everything he was worth.....same thing happened to me.
@@allenjohnstone9945 That he likely started to do after she exhibited signs that something was going on. Blind trust leads to problems and at least this bloke had the sense not to ignore the signs.
That one was especially painful to watch. You could tell the husband really cared about her too ☹️
"Who are you?"
"Valerie"
Oh, it's ok everyone. It's just Valerie.
Lol this comment got me :D
@@hydeperv same here 😂
When she kept saying "I don't know what this is about", I just kept yelling at my phone "this is about you being a side piece Valerie!" 💀
I was also wondering, how can this Valery be on a BFs side - doesn't she understand, she can get cheated on too? She was also so chill about GF of 2 years as if she knew there is one, but totally didn't care. Furthermore she tries to shift the blame on a girl's "mental state". What would you feel like if you had found out about your BFs infidelity on Valentines day, while he was lying about working overtime, ms. Smartpants??
I'm late to this comment, but you just made me ugly laugh. I just thought you'd like to know that.
Why do cheaters always look completely unbothered when they get caught? Is it their sense of entitlement that strong? Or just a fundamental lack of morals?
I got the impression that they're embarrassed and surprised to be caught, so to "save face" they try to act like they don't care anyways.
Cheaters always end up cheating again.
If they had morals they wouldn't be cheating in the first place.
I feel like they get a high out of getting caught...
Or just pure shock.
That poor guy in a drive-through trying to do his job. Lol
Reminds me of the time I worked at Starbucks and witnessed a guy get broken up with over a phone call that was on speaker. I ended up giving him a free coffee, but lord was it awkward
Definitely set up, acting is terrible
@@JungleTunes94 I noticed the reactions seemed a little 'off', but it's hard to tell if it's just the absolute awkwardness of the moment (you trying to argue with someone you have proof is cheating who is playing dumb, in front of some stranger just trying to do his job). Easy to see how some people might just 'blank out' in expression/response.
Freakin' King for his courage of convictions, though.
That’s dinner and a show 😂😂😂
I completely agree with you, if your gonna cheat just break up with the person. It'll make the person feel a lot better instead of you cheating and making the person feel worse.
I think that, for some people, it's all part of the game, the thrill, the high they get from doing something naughty. There is definitely shit going on in people's lives though, to stoop so low.
I think that's because they're confident they won't be caught. They like to be in control of the relationship, they want to leave it if they want or stay only if they want while having the convenience of a partner backup at home. That's messed up you can't have the best of both world. .those people are selfish, I bet you if they get cheated on they'll be equally as pissed
I always wonder why the cheated on party needs to confront it. It's one thing if you're married or share a residence but, otherwise, just back away slowly and dodge the person forever. The confrontation seems to make the cheated on person just feel shittier when they aren't treated with respect then either.
Some people don't want to be single. They hook up with someone new before they break off the old relationship. F'd up as it is.
There are plenty of reasons for cheating, in the mind of the cheater. Loneliness (living with somebody doesn't always make you feel less lonely). Physical kinks and shame regarding them. Frustration and revenge regarding the relationship. End of a relationship people continue by habit or percieved duty (kids, partner that was once loved,... etc). I knew a woman who cheated on her husband of 15 years. 3 kids. They ended up separating respectfully. Agreed to sign everything in the marriage over to their kids. She still respected him, but she didn't love him anymore. And same for him. Both very decent adult people. Just drifted apart and felt lonely and stuck.
Then you have the plain old cheater for whom it wasn't serious to begin with. But that's the minority.
I heard that a guy called people to setup cameras to catch his wife cheating.
She wasn't, but the cameras caught him cheating instead.
😮that’s crazy lmao
@@viol3tsparrow I read that post. The dude hired a private investigation firm to find dirt on his wife as he wanted to divorce her and keep his money. As the husband had hired them he figured his own behavior was safe. The investigators found she was a good and faithful wife which pissed the husband off so he stiffed them on the bill. To get back at him the lead investigator gave all the proofs to the wife who divorced him and took him to the cleaners in the settlement.
I heard about that story too
I think that happens a lot, sometimes the reason people don’t trust others is because their own behaviour can’t be trusted.
@@rebeccaparker9703
Not in the case was talking about.
It was made apparent he was looking for an excuse for a divorce that would make it look like it was her infidelity.
As if people wouldn't see him instantly getting together with his mistress as the evidence it would be of his own infidelity.
It was the "It WaSn'T tWo LaRgE fRiEs." for me. 😂😂😂😂
It was a little vindicating to see people get busted, because I have been the cheated upon just, too many times. My first husband, I noticed every time I came home from college that he would always be mysteriously checking our bank account. So one night when I got home from school, on a hunch, I stopped my vehicle down the street, brought the garage door opener with me, and then went around the back of the house where I can see our computer room through the downstairs window. The monitor faces the window, and I saw him very vigorously servicing himself in a chat with his girlfriend who lived across town. It turned out that his cue that I was home was the garage door. I would hit the garage door opener to bring my vehicle inside and that sound alerted him to my presence at which point he would probably hang up on his… Whatever. End of story. I mean literally, his last name was Storie.
Second husband: I have a successful business, we are fairly well to do, I have furnished our house and bought him every possible manly appliance he could want: Game consoles, big TV, re-finished the entire garage as a giant game room, and yet… I come home from work, it is Christmas Eve, the front window curtain is very slightly parted, maybe two or 3 inches, and I see him on the sofa, that I bought, in my house, on my wood floors, with his girlfriend. I don’t think I have ever stopped breathing for so long before. And if that wasn’t the most awesome thing ever, he twisted the entire event around to his family so that he could deny everything, and wouldn’t let me back into my own house. I had to get a court order to get into my own house to get my things. And during this, he had his dad take my five beautiful cats, who incidentally had name tags and collars with phone numbers and everything on them, to the animal shelter and had them all put to sleep. Why the animal shelter wouldn’t have found that suspicious or called the number on the tags or even verify that the man was the owner of the kitties is completely beyond me.
As horrible and painful as these memories still are, I mean still it has been, what? 15 years? And I still mourn for those innocent kitties who didn’t have a clue what was happening nor did they deserve it. All he had to do was call me and I’d have come to get them. But he elected instead to murder terrified sweet kitties who had nothing to do with it.
What I was saying, as much as those memories still hurt and give me nightmares and I’m choking up like a whiny little bitch while I’m making this, I have never wanted anything more than a family and kids. Now I have the most amazing man and the most beautiful child who is the freaking most amazing thing that has ever happened. I’ll say that again, amazing. Because I am amazed. I live every day in amazement that I could’ve gotten so lucky.
what kind of psychopath are both him and his parents to put down perfectly health animals??????? I don't see how family could go along with that, if i found this out about my sibling I'd bitch slap them so hard they wouldn't be my sibling
@@deannabrown3750 he was quite Mama’s boy. To the extent that she would make an entirely separate dinner, even thanksgiving dinner, for him if he didn’t like what everyone else was having. She would go pick up clothes off the floor in his room to do laundry, pay his bills, etc. so it was no wonder that his lies were the same as gospel truth to her.
Happy you came out on top. Without darkness the light would not be as appreciated. Blessings to you and your happy family 😊
OMG! That's tough! I feel for you! I'm glad you found a good man and after all you didn't need that selfish arse! Glad to know you are happy after everything you went through
So glad you have a happily ever after. Waiting to see if that happens to me. I've been through 2 marriages that did not end well. I had kids only with the 2nd one, so I decided it was better to wait until they were all grown before I started coupling again. On the other hand, I might be better off without a guy. Hard to tell. It will have to be someone quite special if I ever couple again. I just can't cater to the self-centered ones anymore.
I felt really sorry for the Husband who caught his wife on the drone camera. Cheaters should get Nothing if there is a divorce!!!
What kind of paranoid control freak follows his wife with a drone? And records video of her...maybe driving off with a lover. Or maybe taking an Uber.
Me and anyone one I know would fallow there suspected cheating spouse, that's a normal reaction to being deceived. And I totally agree, if you are the one to break your vows that terminates the marital contract that you guys had signed and you get shit
I think that one has been proven to be a hoax.
He was for sure being a creepier. I am relieved that people are saying it was fake
@@tintinismybelgian IDK about a hoax but they are still together
I have been cheated on by a guy that I dated over 6 years. I finally realized he wasn't it and found the love of my life that I have been married to for almost 32 years.
Good for you! Glad you found someone better! That other guy wasn't worth it in the slightest. Probably still single, I'll bet.
Oh that gives me hope!!
Happy for you :)
so happy for you!
Well I'm happy you found your happy ever after
Many of these cheaters are too selfish to realise it’s their entire family who suffer for their behaviour.
@Jasmin Royal Ugh, I'm so sorry you went through/are still going through all that, what a horrible thing to do to someone you're supposed to care about.
Yep, exactly. They didn't realize the impact of their behaviour, the bad stereotypes their ex-spouse would get, the bullies their kids might get. Man, it's domino effect. And the fact that I'm one of those people who received the damage makes me feel bitter
Someone that self-centered doesn't actually give a f*ck. It never crosses their mind it might cause damage because it is all about them.
@@jelica9475 Yep...that's what happened when my dad had an affair. He didn't understand at all why I hated him. Why I didn't want to speak to him. He literally told me "You'll get over it..cause you still love me" Bitch you told me in day one that you loved her more than us. No I don't still love you...
Caught my wife of 18 years cheating on me, I divorced her.
I don’t understand why women fight over a cheating man lol 😂
So true..😂
tbhhhh like nah you can have him now LMAO
Most cheaters are also disrespectful, after they got caught, that's the worst part. I didn't enjoy this. Negative thoughts and emotions in my brain and heart right now.
Its been 7 months since you posted that, I hope you're doing better now🌹
11:26
Her: calmly asks what he was doing with the other girl, *without* saying nor implying he was cheating.
Him: immediately and loudly defensive claiming he wasn't cheating.
Although I suppose it's a good thing people like him fall for that kind of trick question every time.
Charlotte: "He pushed her!"
Me: I deadass forgot you were there Charlotte..
Completely sucked in 😂😂😂
@@Brikole yess! Entranced.. that poor woman!
@@stephaniebrown9834 yea lol! Charlotte was so quiet too.. that story was hard to ignore.. I feel horrid for that woman
Any guy push me and I’d be so outraged, I’d attack blindly.
Was sucked in too 😂😂😂
My best friend since I was seven was hooking up with my fiancé. It shattered me. I literally went crazy. I hated myself and had never felt more alone. It still hurts to this day if I let myself think about it. Time was the only thing that partially healed my wounds. That was 8 years ago
That sucks girl...I'm so sorry to hear that. Too many events like your story. One of my friends didn't hangout with the girls for a long time after she caught her bestie who was married at that time hookup with her hubby.
This situation is basically the worst cheating scenario that could happen to someone. One of my best guy friends had this happen to him and he hasnt dated since. And thst was like a decade ago. Its permanently changed him. I cant imagine going through that kind of trauma where the 2 people youre closest to betray you.
I'm so sorry 😔❤ You didn't deserve that
Wow that’s absolutely horrible. That pain must be crushing and I hope you can see a counselor
Wow, what horrible people. I’m so sorry hun.
The 18 yr marriage one was ... heart breaking. 🥺
yeah, that was intense! I felt so sad for him. I'd be scared if I were the other guy...!
Done the rounds on social media. He simped!
What pisses me off the most is their reaction when being caught, like they completely lack empathy. I would actually be scared of this kind of people cause they're literally hurting the person who is closest to them without feeling guilty. When they start saying stuff like "get out" or "stop filming" as if they even have the right to make a request at that point. Disgusting
Jeez some of these are just so sad. That poor guy who was married for 18 years, the woman who caught her man cheating on Valentine’s Day, just hurts my heart.
He yelled “just push her!” No...
WHY do they think they have the right to talk back when they’re the one being cheated with? You’re a home wrecker
the home wrecker is not at fault, she has no relationship with the gf. it is the boy that is at fault here. You don't get the right to yell at the Home wrecker and think they have to take it.
You should be yelling at the bf because he is the one who actually did something to you. Unless the homewrecker is your sister or something, then by all means!
@@theoverunderthinker Your theory is a bit fucked up. Lots of home wreckers didn't aware they are one. But that girl is definitely did.
And instead of yelling at the guy, she was trying to have it out with girlfriend instead. She is already fucked on so many level.
It's one thing to falling in love with someone, but how can one be dumb enough to be falling in love with a cheater? If he cheats on someone he once love for you, he'll cheats on you too. Sins have its Owners. She was literally aware he's a cheater and still walk with him. Either she was desperate or he have a good dick. lolzzz
@@austinjt4264 maybe it is fucked up, but you cannot be betrayed by a competitor, which is what she was.
The only person who betrayed her is her bf of 2 years.
I am not sure why women always blame the other woman, the character flaw is with the man. the man said "I love you". the man gave you promises that he did not keep. The man cheated on you, used you, and you blame the other woman.
It is next level delusional. know the real villain in this, and it's not "the other woman" or "homewrecker". It's the one who cheated. he allowed it to happen and he was supposed to do better than that. He CHOSE to be a cheater, the woman didn't force him.
there is no sisterhood among competitors. if your man will let another woman take him from you, a lot of them will (unless he ain't shit to begin with). She probably wasn't looking to marry him anyway, she was just hungry on valentine's day.
@@theoverunderthinker I agree with you that the guy is to blame but she did start by shouting at him and the other woman got involved and got physical, so I understand why she retaliated
@@paleflower but she started out yelling at him and allowed herself to be distracted by some 'round the way girl' and he just stood by and watched while the other girl soaked up her anger (which the new girl didn't care about because the original gf meant nothing to her) and took the heat for the bad actor in this drama. I am sure he appreciated it and showed he how much later that evening.
Yeah, this one was a bit uglier. But you’re still hilarious!
Yes, I was cheated on. To get over it, I dumped the dude, stayed single for two years, and then met the man who I have been happily married to for 9 years. Oh, and the cheater got married after we broke up too, then they separated and he’s now in jail for attempting to kill her and killing her boyfriend. So, I literally dodged a bullet there!
girl when i say my jaw DROPPED
That was a wild ride...and I'm glad you're safe. O.O
@@bellasbrain9391 yeah, surprise twist at the end; my own personal Lifetime movie. But I seriously feel awful for the other girl. She’s now paralyzed and lost a man she was in love with just because she didn’t want to be with an abusive bastard anymore.
@@StudlyFudd13 thank you! Me too!
holy shit...glad you got outta there before he snapped
Thanks!
The drone guy explained; "she usually walks this way". Dude, how often do You dispatch your Predator drone on her?
Yeah haha I was like okay maybe there was a reason she wasn't happy 😑
Maybe he used to walk her to work? 🤷🏼♀️
I usually know the routes my boyfriend takes when he is walking or his bike as well, and I do not own a drone or stalk him in any way. In a long-term relationship you will just get to know these things.
You never know maybe he had a feeling
Yes I was thinking the same thing. What kind of “happy marriage” is he talking about he though they hade if he has to watch her every move.
The one person who disliked this video is probably a cheater. 😂
The person they cheated with has also seen it now.
I hate it
I’m not a cheater
Holy guacamole, that person cheated with a dozen and a half.
The 29 people its up to now 😒
I am a cheater and I liked the video!
Hey Charlotte... My daily dose of giggles, laughs and hissing 😜
I know right...the hissing lmfao 🤣😂😂😂
The 3:33 kinda happened in my country...in Singapore. Yup! I was hoping her to be the Super duper Karen. Or lots of nasty ideas but...🙄
God, the man who caught his wife of 18 years just broke my heart. My husband and I have been together 18 years, married 16. I cannot imagine either one of us completely crushing the other's soul that way... Sad.
It was fake 😖
Clearly fake, why would he have known to follow her with a drone?
@@andrewthezeppo he may have already had suspicions. I couldn't say. He wouldn't randomly just do that, obviously. I hope it WAS fake. Because that's some f*cked up shit.
Not sure if it's staged but the man forgave her..
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I thought that maybe he was checking to make sure she got to work ok, since he said she normally turns a different way to get to work. I dunno, though. Very sad.
I love that old line "It's not what it looks like..."
8:01 that little "'sup?" caught me off guard hahahaha
“It wasn’t 2 large fries”! 😂 Well...now my curiosity is killing me! WTH was the order then? 😂🤣😂
it’s really hard to hear what they are saying, we need subtitles
You can turn them on.
How @mads pruett
@@vanessab8563 when you click on screen you will see 3 dots in a vertical line in upper right corner, click that. Then click “captions”, and then select the language you want them in. To turn off repeat everything but select “off” instead of the language you want.
You can also just click the box that says cc next to the three dots to turn on closed captions
@@mads8270 Okay thanks for the suggestion. I did just that + went back to rewatch. The words are so small, at least on my 14-in laptop, that I have to have my head close to the screen to read them (20/20 vision w. correction) + I can't look at the video action on the right while studying the words as they unscroll across the bottom under Charlotte's face on the left. Complete frustration! Having volume at Max was horrible too. One problem with that was the intermittent squawking through my headphones blew out my eardrums, unbelievably horribly unpleasant + startling. New rule for myself: I'm happy for Charlotte that she can hear it, but if she cannot find a way to amplify it or make it audible for us, I don't need to watch it. Life is too short for voluntary misery.
@@heidikickhouse- no worries ! I understand.
18 years of marriage just in the trash.. Is so sad. ):
It happened to me, 18 years of marriage, I caught her, ended up divorcing her.
@@balung I hope that you're doing okay...that's hard to go through
My husband suspected his ex was cheating on him, so he drove 25 miles even though his leg was in a splint, because he had a fractured ligament in his ankle. When he reached her apartment, he parked one block away and went into her living room and waited for her to come home.
Sadly, his gut feeling was right.. When she arrived she wasn't alone and he even heard the disgusting sounds of the smacks from their kissing, as they entered the hallway. When she stepped into the living room she obviously went pale as a ghost.
A few months after that I was set up to meet him. We have been together for almost 19 years now and I feel like I'm the luckiest woman in the universe
Healing for me began with a poem “After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding hands and chaining a soul” . I think the poem is called “ You Learn”. That poem gave me so much strength.
It's funny seeing the cheaters get caught but my heart hurts so bad for the ones getting cheated on that 💩 leaves scars :(
Seeing videos of the cheater gaslighting REALLY angers me!
Same. It sends fucking rage down my spine. I’ve been through it and the sad part is I was convinced I was crazy. Never again
So me and my husband just celebrated our 13 year anniversary yesterday. Not gonna lie, it's been a rough 13 years. In that time, we each had a single issue with this sort of thing. People, ya gotta think! The amount of emotional and literal physical hurt you cause your significant other when you do crap like this is beyond what you can comprehend. The trust you lose is so very hard to earn back. Thankfully we have gotten past our issues to continue on together as a couple who are still crazy in love, but it hasn't been without a ton of work on both our parts to let go of the past to work harder together for a better future. Think people! If you love someone, you will never want to cause this much hurt and pain.
2:31 that little boy went "ooo drama?" 😂
For my 20th wedding anniversary, I got to meet my husband's mistress. She got in touch with me, unbeknownst to him, and we met up to compare notes. 18 months later I am living in a different state, going through a divorce and taking half his income in the process.
I hope you're doing better now!
@@omegasage777 Thank you! Life is good and getting better every day ^_^
Good! I hope you enjoy every bit of that money! ❤️❤️❤️
How do people cheat in this day of age? There's smart phones, cameras everywhere and social media. How did they think they wouldn't be caught? People are dumb.
I agree. If you’re not happy in your relationship, move on. You’re going to get caught and it’s over anyway. Smh
@@africanlady2347 I had a ex cheat on me. And then he ghosted me. I was crushed. But jokes on him his mom still loves me. But I as better off without him he was being shady near the end
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@@brittbecka8552 I’m so sorry. You’re really better off without him. In my marriage there’s always only 2 reasons I will walk away. They are if you cheat on me or physically or emotionally abuse me or my kids. There are no second chances.
@@africanlady2347 yeah no I've gave so many second chances before now I'm like yeah no more chances
3:28 she went off on him and his Valentine's mistress. Ladies and Gentlemen please don't date someone who cheated on their partners to be with you, they will probably do that to you too🤷
Exactly. If someone will cheat with you, they'll cheat on you. Who wants to be in a relationship with someone they KNOW is untrustworthy? Madness.
@@carolinegrova8707 one of my friend has such partner. He cheated on his two years gf with my friend... And they're a couple now. I dunno how she can trust him tbh🤷
The mistress didn't sound like she would care to be honest. She doesn't have any morals at all.
I've been married 8 years and would be devastated to find out my husband was unfaithful. I can't imagine 18 years. That's like half your life with this person just thrown away. Broke my heart.
ALSO felt so bad for that fast food employee
I have to wonder if the ones were there's a girl just fully dressed chilling out on a separate couch or playing xbox... like are they even being cheated on?
Cheat ... and get caught red handed. And Charlotte reacts to it for all of us❤️😂😂😂
The thing my cheating ex did was yell at me and blame me for looking through his phone... ummm no you cheated mate I’m the one who should be yelling at you
thats the same thing my wife did. I actually came home one night from work and she was asleep with the phone in hand. I took it to plug it in for her. when i looked down i saw a guys name i didn't know and the word "creampie". I read through 33 pages of this shit before she woke up and started yelling at me about why i had her phone.
Same here but I didn't let him dominate the argument I simply said that me looking through his phone paled in comparison to his cheating so he should just stick to the subject at hand. I didn't miss my opportunity to tell him how stupid he looked trying to turn the table on me.
One of my friends found out that her boyfriend cheated because she went to his school to surprise him with a gift and lunch and saw him making out with another girl. He got so mad and started yelling at her for being there and that she should be in class and not there.
It was so terrible but also kinda funny how he felt entitled to an answer from her of why she wasn't in class.
SAME! And I even waited to go through it till I had already found evidence on my own, so I already knew when I looked in it, I just needed to know it all, and then HE screamed at ME.
Yep same happened to me. My ex gaslighted me the whole way. I'm sorry that happened to you xx I hope you're doing okay now
I really don’t know how I would respond if I came home where I share the bills with my spouse and caught someone in my house like this.... I think I’d drag them out by the hair
I would too, particularly if they tried to get involved in the argument or did anything OTHER than GTFO of my house immediately. Such a violation.
No shit especially how they keep sitting there like they own the place or like they dont have to leave unless he tells them to
Worse yet, you're paying all the bills. I had to leave the state. Didn't want to do something I could do time for.
I've never been violent in my life but I don't think I could be chill in a moment like that either
@@andreabradley5837 good for you not worth catching a case for that POS. you dodged a bullet probably anyway hope life is better for you now
I love you Charlotte! You know when things are cruel and unnecessary. I love that you don't ever condone bullying. Coming from someone who was bullied my whole school age years. I appreciate that you are not ashamed or embarrassed to say that you were bullied and now that you are a public figure I love that you always stand up for those that are clearly being mistreated. Thank you for doing this!
Awesome video Charlotte
8:00 I'd be angry that my dog was tuckling in with the "other girl" 🤨
feel like there's more to the story with that one.
And yet he had enough sense to know something was wrong and to leave.....
I was making my boyfriends bed one morning and came across a used condom. I was crushed🥺 and yes, he made that face and acted like I was the crazy one. Ugh!🙄
The fact that YOU had to make HIS bed is a red flag. You’re not his mother. You dodged a bullet there
@@jennamorton7785 hell yes!
I love when you go “Next 👏 Cheater👏” or “Next 👏 [whatever] 👏 “ 😂
The McDonald's employee watching a couple argue about cheating: 🧍♂️
“You got her TWO LARGE 🍟 !!” 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 NOT THE FRIES!!!!!
I came here to say something about the cheating wife of “18 years!”.. since the wife cheated, in the u.s (in my state anyway) she would not only not be able to claim 1/2 their belongings/whatever else they share but because she cheated and broke the marriage she would get absolutely nothing-the husband gets the house and etc. if that makes any sense
Just curious, but what state is that?
Well that doesn't seem very fair. Cheating is totally wrong, but there must have been something wrong with the relationship for it to happen, and maybe the 'cheater' thought they had a reason. Maybe they were married to someone who threatened to kill themselves if the other person left the marriage, maybe one of them was emotionally abusing the other. Who knows? Relationships are complex and people outside the marriage don't truly know how others are in their private lives. I don't think one person should lose the rights to whatever they owned together because of it.
@@catclark9488 there are exceptions to every rule. What you're stating should be the exception, not the rule.
@@catclark9488 reason? I watched another video about a man who cheated on his wife bcs his wife spend most of her time taking care of her 3 kids, he needs attention, me that's is his excuse to cheat. Yeah, 'absolutely' good reason to cheat smh
Sadly, there are "no fault" states where cheating doesn't matter and it'll still be split. (I might be wrong)
Second clip: I will NEVER understand that mentality of, "Well, the fact that he's here with me..." and her defending him and still continuing her date with him. How!?
She may feel like the winner in that situation, but how little brains and self-respect fo you have to have, to see that a guy was clearly lying to you, and cheating on his girlfriend of two years, but you're willing to accept his lies because he's clearly spending vday with you. Hello, girl! He's already cheated on you and he will again once someone new comes along. Other girl should sue her since she kept on touching her. Yes, I'm petty like that.
That video made me so bad. Like everything you said I pretty much agree with. How can you defend a cheater like that? And I don’t know statistics but I remember seeing something a long time ago that mentioned what you said about they’re likely to cheat again. That girl and guy are gonna get some major karma. I hope the one who was hurt found something happiness.
100% agree, that one made my blood boil. But you can’t sue for things like that here in the east lol...
She better not be surprised when he does it to her too.
She's now saddled w. the primary carriage of his mess, & she's so blinded by infatuation or just feminine-relational -aggression that she genuinely seems to think she's won something.
The second that other girl put her hands on her, she should have whipped her ass. :/
The moment I knew my marriage was over, was when I starting getting a roving eye. I got sick of him not caring, and doing everything, and being lonely, so we split. And now I am on my own but not lonely :)
That is the way it should be done! Break up instead of cheating.
0:35 the way she got instantly more excited 😂😂😂 y’all were all going to hell 😂😂
Charlotte is really underrated. Her reactions and expressions are always up to the point and I never get bored while watch her!
11:19 This is why I had a half hour wait in the drive-thru...good to know. I thought the car broke down 😂
Mine was 10 years and I found out that he was hitting on a bunch of chicks, grooming them to be his gf. (3 of which were mutual friends. One apologized to me for it)
Ditch all of them, not worth it.
Good that one of them apologized. Not good that the same friend had done that in the first place. Hope you're in a better place now.
I'm 26 and I just separated from my husband because I found out that while I was working my 12.5 hr nursing shifts, he wasn't actually at home looking for a job like he said he would, he was on multiple dating sites chatting to other women. He recently told me that my asking him to leave was "very unexpected for him. :3" Dare I say it was very unexpected for me also :D
"you're lying, it wasn't 2 large fries" 😂😂 OMG the nerve of some of those ppl!
Felt sorry for the guy and the Asian girl, was sooo sad
You never really get over being cheated on. You can say you're over it all you want, but that's a lie you tell yourself. That loss of trust gets carried over to every relationship ever.
Nah, you WILL get over it. It will take some efford and time. Try to forgive them, it will help you. Also the moment you truly fall in love with someone else, you wont think all the time about your exes. At least i hope
Oh also, dont ever feel guilty and that it might be your fault that they cheated on you. They are at wrong, not you.
You can get over it but it definitely changes you when you have been cheated on.
The quietest we have ever seen Charlotte. 😲🍿
One: people are just turd nuggets sometimes. And two: the husband with the drone... I have questions...did be suspect cheating, hence the drone? I'm just going to assume people dont follow their spouses with drones lol
That was my assumption. It sounds like he figured something was up & decided to confirm it in the way least likely to be noticed (from above with the drone). Made me think about all the PIs that must utilize them now. A little disturbing to think about to be honest. ^^; (Not because I believe anyone should get away with dishonesty with their partner, but all the negative ways it could be used against people who don't deserve it, like custody/divorce cases, stalkers, god only knows what).
I' get a violence vibe in that one...
At first I thought that was very strange that he followed her by a drone, but at the same time because drones are out and about it's smart because she wouldn't have noticed. I could feel his anger twords her...but mostly sadness. If I where the guy myself, I'd lock the door and change the locks. Because she doesn't deserve his home.
I wondered the same thing. It's genius if he already suspected and wanted to confirm but super creepy if that was his normal routine and he just happened to see her cheat this time.
@@otterlyawkward912 Because he was so angry, I started thinking what if he's abusive and he always monitors her and she was escaping?? I watch a lot of crime dramas so don't mind me lol
So my dad cheated on my mom. A lot. Anyway, when I was around 18 he took me to his friend's place to train jujitsu with a few guys. The friend had a large warehouse /barn with MMA equipment so it was amazing. Anyway he was training people (working out, not martial arts) while I was jujitsu-ing. I thought nothing of it.
Afterwards while we're packing up, he tells me not to tell mom about the woman he was training (which I hadn't even noticed at that point, i was naive). He said, "you know how crazy she gets about this kind of thing."
Now I may be naive, but I do love psychology. I know what gaslighting is, and I knew thst instant he was gaslighting mom about his multiple affairs. What destroyed my faith in him was the fact that he never even considered that I wouldn't play along.
Naturally, I told my mother immediately. I have never respected my father ever since he assumed I was just as deplorable as he is.
My husband cheated on me. I caught him...won't go into details. It almost pushed us into divorce, but with lots of therapy and time we're working on things
That girl in a dress at 3:33 with the guy what is she even thinking that the guy is not gonna cheat on her?? Major Pickme/not like other girl vibe..
I don't understand because it seemed like she thought he was going to dump the new girl and beg her?
after about 30sec, it was clear that he was not leaving the new girl, so she might as well have walked away. Dude let the "other woman" talk to her and tell her to go away, so it wasn't like he cared about her. He got caught, so he decided the old relationship was ruined, so he picked the new one.
I think more that she just wanted answers to why, why cheat on me, why lie to me and keep me around, why ruin my valentines with your lying and cheating when I probably could have been with some other guy etc etc
But no cheaters ever gonna give you answers.
She was just emotionally outraged.
@@scarletspidernz yeah. you almost never find out why. Probably the guy doesn't know clearly, just a thing he chose to do I would bet.
If it makes you feel any better, it was obviously fake. They wouldn't be yelling at each other in broken Engrish, and the stopping to cry right in front of the camera was the cherry on top
@@drewpknutz1410 fyi, the accent is an obvious Malaysian/Singaporean accent. We do speak English on the reg here :)
I was watching cute couple tik toks today and feeling lonely but now I'm sure I don't feel lonely no more 😂
1:28 "looking stupid" lmao girl you didn't even need the caption we can ALL see that 😂
Wow dude used a whole drone! Good for him! He deserves so much better, poor guy.
As a child who had a cheating parent, LEAVE. Your child might be hurt but it hurts more for it to happen later and your child shouldn’t have to hear you screaming or find hearts and sex symbols sent to another women
The 18 years of marriage guy sounds like he can do a Flex Seal commercial. Boom! Right there!!! 🤣🤣🤣
I like the way you think lol
Yes, I have been cheated on more than once and I had the pleasure of watching their entire life go down the toilet every time. I never cheated on anyone though, because once it happens to you you can't do it to someone else.
I just wrote that about seeing my Dad do it when drinking. I then later had it happen to me but I immediately broke up with him and now I could never even THINK of cheating. Ever!
That 18 years one made me sad sad 😔
That 18 year marriage break up was very sad.
I noticed the genuine concern on your face. You care & that’s what makes you attractive. Mr right is on his way for sure. Don’t change. Peace!!
Yes we want a part 3 😂
"It wasn't two large fries" oh okay, well I feel much better now.🍟🍟🍟😁✌🏽💙
i feel kinda sad too watching some of this, too, ms. charlotte.
I had seen most of the videos so I just watched Charlotte, best reactions 😆 🤣 😂
18 years marriage guy is unhinged. Who the hell follows their wife with a drone? That’s some very creepy behaviour.
I've seen two girls get together and confront the guy(me being one of the girls) but I've never seen 2 guys confront a girl. You could tell the girl was completely dumb founded. She couldn't even say anything. 😱😂
Never clicked so fast on anyone else's video😂❤️
Although I’m “open minded”... I have been cheated on. It could have been something kinky, spicy, and fun in the relationship... but she decided to cheat and hide it instead. 🤷🏻♂️
Communication is key to a relationship
Is it just a coincidence? The open couples that I know have all been cheated on by their open spouse/partner.
Oh god - the guy that caught his wife on drone - 18 years. poor guy ..
Yeessss that drive through man said he wouldn’t accept that well done
Some of these made me sad but I’d love a part 3 and I’m glad you’re doing better you seem healthier
How do people are capable of maintaining more than one relationship at the time? I have one and is long distance... And is already enough
I’ve been cheated on LOTS!! This struck a cord! I’d like to see part 3!!!
Time to install surveillance cam.
He cheated on me to break up with me. He announced it on Facebook like a coward. I'm not sure how I got over it. I had a stroke that basically erased him from my memory.
Love your contents ❤️🤣
The drone guy made me sad.