76% of People Die With the Same Regret
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- Turns out you’re going to have to fight for your right to be happy. 3/4 of the population lay on their deathbed wishing they would have stayed true to themselves, not living the life others expected of them.
Here’s how I think you win that fight:
1. Build accountability around your personal goals. Writing your bucket list builds accountability because you’re turning a thought into something tangible and your list acts a reminder that your dreams exits. Sharing your goals also builds accountability and having someone check in on you (an accountability buddy) increases your chances of success by 77%.
2. Don’t wait to feel inspired to go after your dream, you’ll be waiting a long time. Create your own inspiration through small steps of action. Nike has been saying it for a while, Just Do It.
3. Remind yourself, anyway you can, that you are mortal. It might be tomorrow, it might be when you’re 80, but one day you will die. That means your time is limited therefore now is the time to write your list.
Build these muscles to win the fight! 💪
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Listen. 99.9 percent of all humans who have ever lived did not have time to worry about what they did or didn’t do when it comes to death. Mostly they have struggled in the mud for survival and are content with basic events of human existence. Don’t sweat it. Trust your decisions at the time. Don’t be preoccupied with decisions in the past that you can’t change. Enjoy the life you’re living now.
Where did they get these statistics from ? I think this is psychological click bait. What a waste of an education.
Awesome take. 100% correct
TY. As a black belt in procrastination I needed a rationalization for not doing what was suggested. 😀 IOW 100% wrong, how many of us watched a video or 2 or 5 before (or after) this one instead of acting on what might bring lasting fulfillment 🤷🏻 Just me?
@@gr8dvd❤
If you wanna live an average life 😂.
I don't, and haven't.
I didn't understand this until 15 years ago when I was about to die from chronic kidney failure. I thought about all the things I didn't do for one lame reason or another. I got very lucky and received a kidney transplant and things have been great since. Now I do all the things I didn't do before. I take that day trip. I clock out of work on time. I call that friend I haven't talked to in a while. I visit my family. I ask that girl out on a date.
Getting sick turned out to be one of the best things that ever happened to me.
I have the same experience when I lost my health...I have a completely new perspective on life and if I die tomorrow,no regrets...
That hits hard tysm for sharing brothers❤
Thanks, it's a wake up call to those who waste time, to take action and prioritize your health.
Regret is a waste of time.
If you aren't very old yet, regret is a good motivation.
Regret and remorse teach you. Don't ignore them.
@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 Sure. Learn from your regret, then let it go.
I’m in my 50’s and already regret having worked my life away.
Could you please elaborate on this if you dont mind
Start small. Complete small side quests of life which u wanted to do. Do that once every weekend. Then slowly start doing bigger things u wanted to do.
I would say, if u can then document your journey on youtube. Maybe name your channel like, following dreams post 50. Or completing my bucket list. I believe in you! I hope u live a great 🧬 life ❤❤
You need to work to support yourself though. That's life.
sarcasm @@FranzCev
@@paulbunyun3663 nah i dont think so
I'm pushing 80. Most of my regrets are over things I wished I done different in social situations. The best part of my life has been since I was in my late 40's. I look back and most of the regrets are how I should have treated others better or handled situations better. But I've lived a good life. Which in some ways makes my failings with others even worse. Just me.
Again, this is just me, I've realized at the end of my life, if I have any real self-awareness, that the only Judge I face is myself. There is no report card as you lay dying.
Can I ask you what to do If I don't know what my passions are in regards to a career? I see people say to follow your dreams, but what if I don't have aspirations. I'm 22 right now and slave away at a job that pays a little over minimum wage. I stopped going to college because I can't afford to waste anymore money on a major I don't care about (business). I can feel the time slipping away as years pass by in a flash. I want to make money and help my aging and sick mother but I also suffer from depression. I'm scared of making a choice and being stuck because it costs an arm and a leg to get an education these days. Could you please give me some advice?
@@Jinxser Wish I could help you. But I always had drive. I didn''t earn it. I was born with it.
I don't say this to frighten you or put you down. But life can be harsh. Other people realize some can't cope. Thus some people pay money so others can go on disability. Many Doctors realize that some just can't cope and agree to allow people to collect disability so they don't have to put up with life's struggles. So there is a bottom underneath you.
If you had the median income of your area, half make less, half make more. How would you spend your free time? Think hard on that. One day or one week's thinking isn't enough. Ask someone you know what they think you would do. The answer to that is the best way to determine what your passion really is, imho. Probably, rough guess, 90% of the earth's population don't get to do their passion.
Next best thing ask the college you went to, or someone in your State government to take a test that will tell you what field you would be best at. I did and mine said sales. I hated that when I got the results, but spent my life working in sales and enjoying it. You really need to make the effort to find out where you can take that test to determine what kind of work you're best suited at. Show enough effort to find out if you really want to solve your problem.
I know some people who have a hobby. And that led to them working in a retail store of their hobby or doing the hobby on the side. If only selling on eBay.
I'm a college grad. Due to an awful first marriage, I never used my college major to make a living. But the most important courses I took in college had nothing to do with earning a living. Most people can't comprehend this. I recently saw where at least 5 of the top 50 S&P Corporations were lead by people with a degree in Philosophy. That degree is almost useless at the starting level of work. But is of primary importance for running international corporations. The vast majority are clueless to this fact. Best of luck to you and I hope my reply will be a tiny bit of help.
Thanks for sharing
there's a good analogy with food, it goes like this "How do you know what do you like If you haven't tried?". The same is with things in life. You gotta dip your toes in as many different things as possible. Give yourself a year if you can to try a new thing every week for that week, at the end of the year you will have so much knowledge of different fields you will be able to choose from. From music making and coding to car repair or cooking the list is looong@@Jinxser
Actually there is a report card its called life review after you pass away
I met a lady in 2008 and at that moment consciously thought "I have ZERO regrets." Things did not work out with her and now at the age of 50 my only regret is that I did not start a family at a younger age.
What age did you start a family?
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Has anyone ever really approached someone on thier death bed and conducted a survey?
No but at death many i’ve seen few hours days or weeks most thing important was kind loving care takers family or friends . A combination of wealthy to poor they all felt the same . Not one person I visited and close family had a bucket list .
Nawh man, no matter what you do and what goals you do you’re gonna regret the ones you didn’t. If you did it, you might have ended up 10x worse. Butterfly effect.
Shut up
You cant do everything, so you'll always regret the things youn didn't do.
Yeah, let's just focus on doing what you wanna do
From the Supreme Buddha There’s only two things that peoples regret on their deathbed No.1 Is that i have love a little and No.2 that i have travelled a little
I do regret the things I did. I went after my dreams. I took chances. They weren't ridiculously unrealistic dreams, but changes in government policy and the pandemic ruined everything. And I continue to pay for those unmet dreams.
You can go after the things you want. You can try and try and try and fail forward. And you will not force a breakthrough no matter how hard you try. Don't try. Just live.
For me, if I have regrets on my death bed, that means I didn't understood life. The purpose of life is to live. If it's my time, then it's my time. I will rest in peace rather than rest in regret.
I don't care because it's life .just ask yourself have you really lived and 90per cent will say no all they've done is work and watch other people live .
That’s all humans do in this society is work then die. Only young hippies are lucky enough to do what they want, travel the world etc.. That 75% is pretty much a snap shot of the human population who has to work to survive. It’s probably higher tbh.
@@seyfert8820❤
We all die, one day, some sooner than others but thats what life is all about and theres no reverse trying to find a resolvement because it probably wouldnt have mattered.
Yep and that I believe that regret is that they did not invite Jesus Christ into their lives!!💯
And this is the type of regret that we have a lifetime NOT to have. It's in finding ways to start moving toward or asking for what we want. A little bit everyday or whenever we can.
We don't have control of many things in life...
The summary of this 2:06 video is do not PROCRASTINATE period.
I’m nearly 50 not worked for over a decade, drifting with issues, depression.no relationship for a decade . It’s so hard to change
Its a good way to motivate people, however I respectfully disagree. What he is talking about here in terms of deadlines, goals etc are all "external factors". People who live their lives to satisfy them with fame, money, goals can only temporarily make themselves happy.
If before dieing tomorrow, I ask myself, - Did I create most joyful, peaceful and loving world inside of me and around me ? And if my answer is yes. I needed all I wanted from this life.
Exactly....and in this case you would have lived a "well-lived life" based on your own metrics of success :)
I consider my life to be a failure. I never hit the standards i had set for myself but i absolutely went for everything i ever wanted regardless of the outcome. I always chose myself over following anyone else or their believes. Its the only thing i know I'll be able to live with when i pass.
Then why do you consider your life a failure? you did everything right, even if you didn't meet anybody standard
@@kingofthejungle2894 only because I didn't meet the mark I had set for myself. No other reason besides that.
@@robertrossi9364 you only have control over your effort, not the outcomes. Sometimes you need a bit of luck to get where you want to be.
@@mattstevenson5849 I've put that into account. I try to be as objective as possible. Noting what I was responsible for and what other variables could have been.
The only regret after death is not trusting the Lord Jesus Christ and his death burial and resurrection for the remission of sins.
Guys, please read the Book... A life with purpose by Rick Warren.
I plan on making some plans someday
This video was motivating!.
Yeah, the Yanks thinks everyone got money & time like them !( Not all Americans)
There’s a old saying that puts this nonsense to rest: “The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.”
But at least this young guy made some dough passing this foolishness off as a big revelation 😂
Happiness comes from inside.
I already regret this and I am not even on my death bed 😒 And the realization that most missed opportunities never present themselves again once the opportunity has past 🤔
I don't think it's about what you want! God has a plan for everyone. Perhaps if you suffered depravations you might look at a glass of clean water or an apple differently. And maybe think about being happy and finding joy in the moment. You might find little love and Big Love all around you. What happened for a reason.
Ridiculous. God has a plan…Why in the world would an omnipotent being have a plan for us? We serve no purpose if any deity exists.
not true, There is a God and he has plan for everyone. He gives us free will and we can make good or bad choices in this life its up to you how your going to live. Just know their will be a day every knee will bow to Jesus. Jesus loves you bro so much and I know this comment may seem weird but hes real and alive, have faith and walk in Love! Have a good day bro !@@lieslceleste3395
If Eu Died watt wud Eu Tell a New Sole Combing Into This Whrild that They Absolutely Have to Experience?
Big regrets are the issues, there will always be little things we'll regret doing/not doing.
76% ? can you post your proof and how you worked out the statistics ?
I gotta few regrets but i will make up for it in my next incarnation ! ❤❤
That’s what you said last time
Set priorities, REACHABLE DREAMS NOT FANTASIES
Don’t wait for tomorrow, tomorrow never comes…
If everyone say you are fokin crazy because they can see your goal, fock them, just leave them behind and keep going..
There’s a very big difference between REGRET AND FAILURE
THE BIGGEST REGRET IS NOT TAKING ACTION, NOT TRYING TO DO IT EVEN WHEN ALL THE ODDS ARE AGAINST YOU, FAILURE, MISTAKES ARE PART OF GROWING UP. So don’t get yourself confused by thinking what others lived or experienced is what it has to be, break family cycles, question everything, never assume nothing, take advices, listen to people but never buy their ideas that life is like they think it is.
Remember, the airplane departs with the gust winds against it keeping it on the ground…
Don't regret hissar
This is normal though. Everything is coulda woulda shoulda. I know some people who did some the kinda stuff and they kinda regret it. It messed with there moral compass. We all have regrets that's just life. It's up to you of course to figure that out.
I doubt the statistics.
True
That is a bad question to ask someone on their death bed, why to remind them of their regrets.
I did today and i accept it comes with a lot of sacrifices but it was worth it if not i would have regretted missing this moment
Yes I don't want to be one of them.
Being thankful can override regret ❤
I think that you could make great videos if you really wanted to. I learnt about you via Matt d'Avella's video, and find that what you say is really true. You can be like a motivational speaker, but not for the short term but the long term (that's not clear). Like making people realize they can do whatever they want if they want to.
God is in control
They mostly regret watching this dumb video.
Ha Ha Ha dumb
no ragrets
Hog bog
I have no regrets because god planned it that way
That’s an unsubstantiated claim.
religious copium
Wow. So no matter what you do or become, it was God's plan? Interesting
@@TheOutlierToday Yup. Pithy and moronic.
@@TheOutlierToday yes dont you know how powerful he is! The creator of the heavens and earth!