"The 5 most common regrets of the dying were: Number 1: I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me. Number 2: I wish I hadn’t worked so hard. Number 3: I wish I had the courage to express my feelings. Number 4: I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends. Number 5: I wish I had let myself be happier."
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*Biggest anxiety comes on a death bed, because of unrealised potential.* It's better to feel pain now and achieve, than suffer throughout the life dreaming about what could’ve been.
I’m turning 50 in a few days and I just lost my daughter...it’s very sad because she was only 23, and she fought hard against the illness, but the illness won 💔 She died slowly over a two month period...it was very painful to watch 😢💔 I want to live the rest of my life really enjoy every day...that was the promise I made to my daughter Alexus 💖
I am 65. From 35 to 65 .... 30 years I wonder what happened? Opportunities I have let go unnoticed ... because I was so inwardly focused. Opportunities to spend time with loved ones, travel, expand my career, invest... poof. All gone never to return. I have done a few good things recently that will change that. Now to push the gear into lever and try and make it to 95 ... and make 30 glorious years. If I don’t make the 30 I will go out in a positive frame of mind.
I actually think that from the kids of now the biggest regret would be: -I wished I didn't wasted too much time comparing myself to other in social media and on mobile games.
I’m still 15 and all I WANT is to let my parents understand what I REALLY WANT IN MY LIFE. That they can’t control my choices because this is my life. One day, I’m gonna have the courage to do it. Praying for everyone also!! 🙏🏻
I'm 25. When i was your age i would sit in the library researching college and what an amazing thing it would be to study the Classics and linguistics. I was told by my mother she would not finance my college or help pay for it. Growing up in rural Mississippi, even though parents made great money, the thought of being told to relegate my life to welding for a scholarship was unsettling. But thats all she was willing to help finance. Today, I travel across the United States for well over what some mid-career software engineers make, but despite all the money, I regret never finding a way to chase my dream. Monsy will not give you happiness. Take it from someone who once thought it was the key to my personal fulfillment. Don't let your parents dictate your life or listen to what they think will bring you fulfillment. If you know what your passion is, and you happen to be one of the few who knows your calling, let nothing stop you. Do not let relationships or other connections relegate you to a life of misery. Fail, try again, fail, then you will approach success. But dont let life pass you by always wishing you could do the thing you loved most. If you find sometime later that what you wanted wasnt, indeed, for you, at least thats part of your life you will not regret. If you never try for that goal, you will eternally regret not knowing if you would enjoy it or not. Lead a life of action and take calculated risks. Life is too short to think about missed opportunities.
@@davidrimbauer1591 thank you for sharing this. Can you please tell me how you knew you wanted to study classics and linguistics? I dont know if that wjat I want to do, is really what I want to do, or if I want it bc of the money, or bc my mum / friends tell me to do that. Or even if I want to do anything.
@@milica.075 When I was six years of age, my first run-in with language was at a Chinese restaurant. I was always fascinated that humans could communicate in such a myriad of ways. As I grew older, the interest still remained. But the path to wanting to understand the science of language presented more so a path, at least to a job. So a double major was what I sought after, studying dead languages as a hobby and for potential reference should I decide to pursue a PhD in the same. Sometimes, you just know. Very few, however, genuinely know what they wanted to do. I did, and still do, yet now I'm at the age where such financial risks and lack of income for four years might not be economically sensible. At least in my teenage years, being able to study such things in college would have been more efficient considering my present circumstances and then, at least, I didn't much mind the harrowing debt I would face. If you know you are passionate about something, pursue it, even if in the end you might have to pay off some debt. Don't spend your life regretting as I do.
My mantras: Don't work too much Take career risks Push your career to align with your purpose Don't mute your own personality Be authentic and independent Believe in yourself Don't take life too seriously Don't let good friendships die Choose happiness Remain positive always Share how you feel Be emotionally vulnerable Be bravely honest and forthcoming Listen better to people Spontaneously give to others Respect and value every individual Resolve conflicts immediately Travel often Stay fit and active Jot down moments that make you smile Communicate with your parents Avoid becoming comfortable Say 'yes' to new experiences Be playful and light-hearted
I'm 25. When i was in high school, i would sit in the library researching college and what an amazing thing it would be to study the Classics and linguistics. I was told by my mother she would not finance my college or help pay for it. Growing up in rural Mississippi, even though parents made great money, the thought of being told to relegate my life to welding for a scholarship was unsettling. But thats all she was willing to help finance. Today, I travel across the United States for well over what some mid-career software engineers make, but despite all the money, I regret never finding a way to chase my dream. Monsy will not give you happiness. Take it from someone who once thought it was the key to my personal fulfillment. Don't let your parents dictate your life or listen to what they think will bring you fulfillment. If you know what your passion is, and you happen to be one of the few who knows your calling, let nothing stop you. Do not let relationships or other connections relegate you to a life of misery. Fail, try again, fail, then you will approach success. But dont let life pass you by always wishing you could do the thing you loved most. If you find sometime later that what you wanted wasnt, indeed, for you, at least thats part of your life you will not regret. If you never try for that goal, you will eternally regret not knowing if you would enjoy it or not. Lead a life of action and take calculated risks. Life is too short to think about missed opportunities.
The best way to avoid regrets during dying is to have a meaningful life. Not that life which starts from us and ends with us, but a life which embraces all good around us and leaves inspiration to millions after we leave this world.
I'm very happy since I left my parent's home at age 21 and have been living on my own. I've been doing everything that I want to do and so far at 68 years old, I've NO regrets in life. In the same situation, if I had to do it all over again I shall do the same; I'm doing things to please God and myself! I've one daughter whom I've taught to lead a good life; be kind and honest, and do things that would please God and herself so there would be NO regrets! Although my daughter doesn't like hearing it, I frequently say to her: we all have to die someday so when it's my time, don't cry for me but whenever you feel sad, pray and God would give you the courage and strength that's needed. I've had a happy and fulfilling life with NO regrets! Cherish the good memories, and remember the good things that I've taught you, especially helping those who are less fortunate! DON'T LET ANYONE EVER abuse or take advantage of you IN ANY WAY! Keep me in your heart so I shall be close to you and remember that God and your mom would ALWAYS love you, so continue my sweet girl to live your best life; perhaps someday we shall meet again!
Don’t assume you have decades, plans can be destroyed by an unexpected Cancer Diagnosis, Car Accident, or other tragedy. Never take for granted that the plans you make will become reality. Scratch things off your Bucket List, want to travel to an exotic location with your loved one, just do it, don’t wait!!
The Nerd, I teared up reading your comment. It reminded me of the late actress Farrah Fawcett who died from Cancer. I wish you the very best and God blessing 🙏🌹
I had near death experience about 7 years ago and i felt from that, that it is the small moments that matters! Like spend some time with your family, do everything with your heart 😊❤
I’ve seen and experienced too much death in my life and one thing I’ve learnt is that the only thing that matters is the people you love and care about. Money and material things aren’t important. My dad had bowel cancer, and even though he was seriously Ill and taking the horrendous medication and felt tired, exhausted and ill all the time he drove the 30 minute drive everyday to be with my mum who had had a stroke and was in a nursing home. He never complained about his suffering. He did this everyday for 11 years until the day he eventually died.
If you live like they wished they had I can tell you it's hard going and you will be punished and rejected beat on even hated you won't be successful and chances are you won't have people loving you. But you will be free. And that is priceless. Much love
Number one covers all my regrets. Not having the courage to follow my instinct, live my dreams out of loyalty to others or feelings of guilt.Now alas it is too late for me. I say to all you younger people: have the courage and confidence to follow your own path and become what you dream of, don't let anyone stop you.When the time comes for you to die you will regret not the things you did but the things you didn't do.That is so, so true !
Be yourself 💟 Love yourself Spread love ...be brave enough to lead your own life in your own terms.. Thank you fearless soul always by giving us such a wonderful motivational videos..
We will all die. Treat everyone like you want to be treated. Make written and audio recording daily. No regrets..I love my life doing, what makes me happy.
This motivates me to study in graphic design, yet there's still a certain sense of doubt within me whenever I think about it. Currently in nursing school but it's not what I'm truly passionate about, more like an obligation. I'm 19 and barely in my first semester, I like to believe I still have a chance to change but I dont know if I should. But I'll do everything I can so then in the future I'd at least be content in knowing I did my best.
You're still so SO young and have more than enough time to pivot. Get into graphic design. Don't do nursing because you feel like you are obligated or because you're already in school. You can change now. Do what you love. Let this be a reminder or the sign you were looking for.
I have few regrets. I took my family to Guatemala every year at Christmas to spend it with a children's home. I travelled a lot. I always said I only had three aspirations. One to be a builder of nice homes. Two to be a farmer, three, to be a missionary. I accomplished all three and I'm not done yet. For all that I made bad choices in women. I chose very badly there. I am writing a book of my adventures. It's called "Memoirs of a Vagabond for God"
The real regret would be after death, in the afterlife we will all (no exceptions) regret that we did not spend more time remembering & connecting with God.
Be true to myself!! Yeah Im alcoholic!!! After this video I will stop being sober, for 10 years and going to do what I love most, drink till I am passed out.
I agree with most of this there is a lot of it I am working on now I am retiring in July to take care of my husband who is disabled and more then that to also not be owned by a boss any more . For the first time in my life I am putting my self before others and if I have to make some money by working it will not be over 20 hours and they will be told I do not have to be here treat me well or I will quit. I will never hear but over time is more money because I would rather live on nothing and be free then to be rich and be owned .
I'm glad that I'm living my life without regrets - good to know. Of course, I didn't get to this point of my life without tough experiences. Thank you for this video, I've shared it.
I wish I could love myself! Had I love myself my entire life would have been different. I wouldn't have lived with a man who hates me. My children would experience love and grow up with self esteem. Feeling good enough about themselves. They would not struggle with suicidal thoughts. How horrible a life growing up feeling unloved, unworthy, unintelligent. You live in misery with depression, anxiety self harm, self hate and the cycle continues passing on from parents to children. If only we could love ourselves enough. The world would be a beautiful place. Your whole life path is different with self love.
Wow, how interesting I see this video this morning! My best friends husband only has a couple of months left. I look at him and think, "If only he had done something to improve his health, he may not be going in such a slow and painful way!" But he didn't. Then I think, "In 22 years, I will be his age! Do I want to look back at my life and wish I had done things differently!" My answer to myself...No! Every time I start to slack off, I think of him! Thank you so much for this video! This confirms to me...I am on the right path!!!
This book has inspired me to share my story and demonstrate the relaxation technique that has brought me joy , pleasure and a incredible imagination. Namaste
Yes! Indeed I choose to be Happy without Any Regrets. My life has been very hard I’ve been Broken Yet The Almighty Mended Me I’ve Loved and Love Lost But the Most High picked me up and dusted me off and put me back together again. From there I Still Choose To LOVE ONCE AGAIN AND NOT SETTLE AS BEFORE. I’ve Finally found True Love and I Have Absolutely Not Regrets. Thank you 🙏🏽 for Sharing Your Much Needed Inspirations in a time of chaos and unforgiving Hatred 😢😩🥺
Risk management should always come first, the reason many traders lose money is not simply due to inexperience or a lack of knowledge of the market, but because of poor risk management
i've noticed that all of the regrets/ comments are not mentioning about spirituality. if we lack spirituality and then we suffer all of these regrets. but I didn't mean that material things are not important. the difference between material and spiritual things is that... material things can only give you temporary satisfaction but spiritual things can give you a permanent solution all of these regrets. HE will give you peace of mind and make your heart happy and so it's desire. ❤😊
True. And I love that you even showed older people enjoying and doing things they love too. It’s not over till it’s over. Live, love one another and enjoy being alive! God bless!
If I had put myself and wants first, I wouldn't have the family I have today! Married young..if I regretted it, I may not have lived to see great grandchildren! Stayed married...if I thought of what I wanted, I wouldn't be married 67 years! Worked hard in home and out! If I hadn't I wouldn't have my comfortable life in my old age! Lost a child...my only regret...but if I wouldn't have had hard knocks and a steady faith before, I may have lost my sanity! When you look back at life, you may not have done what you Wanted to do, but did what you had to do. You can't look back with regrets bc you don't really know if you did the things you Wanted to do, if your life would have been better! Keep the faith! Keep your family first and top of mind! Work for the things you want bc they will mean more to you than if they came easy! Take what life gives you and PERSEVEER!
I feel releasing, surrendering, and trusting god, angels, fairies, and universe on things that we can’t control and no longer serve our true purpose to be guided to what is truly meant for us
One should have free mind, no wife, children, friends are true all these will be around you only for advantage, benefit, try to be honest and helpful but never ever expect anything from them, during distress you alone have to move on, you can be happy only when you want to be happy, not being with people or friends, etc
Ask Jesus Christ to forgive your sins and accept Him as your Savior and Lord. After you die and meet with Jesus Christ, you will never regret that prayer.
These 3 first peoples that dislike this video and everyone else their after that give dislike to this videos will regret they dislike a beutiful and inspiring video like this on their dying bed..
When we are born we are made to run in the race started by society. Race of education, race for jobs, race in companies we work in. We never give time to look and live happily and be our ownself. I wish when I die my last words to be "I enjoyed my journey".
You are lucky if you learn this while still alive ans have chance to make things right. I lived as other wanted me to live for soo long.. Now, I have regular fights with people who want to put me back in the box that I finally escaped from. There is no way they are going to do that, not while I am still breathing.. I know who I am, and I know my talents and I am willing to work on them hard, while still having quality relationships with people.. Remembering that every day could be the last day. I dont want to have regrets in the end..these 5 are relly good advice and good to be reminded of because it is so easy to get preoccupied with all the stuff going on in life.
Such a powerful video I will take on these thought s and power on to my true self in every day life .... Rest in peace for those who lost there life and gave us hope and wisdom to follow I own dreams ....
stay family orientated. do not separate yourself from family and friends. dont travel very far to stay unless its pretty close where you and them can visit back and forth. I moved to Florida to make huge money and sold my soul.
There are always regrets, to say otherwise is disingenuous, that's life but there's no need to dwell on it, just accept there are always pros and cons to a life well lived.
Not only cool info but truthful as well. Others want to define your life for you. Once you become an adult you have the right to live your own life. Some parents are afraid to let go. In a way they've become dependent on you. That's because they're afraid of losing you. If you've seen the movie "Throw Momma From The Train," you get the picture of what I'm talking about. Some parents are scared to live alone and that one day they'll die alone. They'll say that they looked after their aging parents and it's your obligation to look after them. The thing is that they lived their lives. Now is your turn to live yours because you can't always, be putting your life on hold on account of them. Many controlling and over protecting parents have ruined their children lives. Children once they become of age they have the right to leave home. There comes a time that the little birdies leave the nest.
My top five biggest regrets are. 1. At times when in life I have been disloyal 2. This caused pain in my relationships, which I then had to justify through psychological machinations. 3. I always waited to get approval before I did anything. Later in life I was able to work through this learned behaviour. 4. # 3 made it so I always had to wait before I ventured out to do things? 5. Now I am in recovery 18 years. I had a near death experience 20 years ago. I got a new chance. trying new things and working on better habits.
Wow! I have watched more than 5 times and never get tired of it! Worth the time to keep reminding myself on how important doing things I love the most.
Are we listening out there American Patriots World Wide? What regrets are you prepared to live with at the end of your life ? If the problems you deal with on the journey to that end aren't on that list , it doesn't matter. Let it go. Live your life. Right here . Right now . God Bless you All and Much Love
Well I must be in GREAT SHAPE , I have done and am doing all 5 but I still am going to be a multibillionaire and buy anything I want and be very charitable and live past 100 before it's my time. And most of all teach ,teach the young .
@@10RBREEZY 53 but that's just a number . I feel GREAT ! I don't ( EVER ) think old .I don't look old at all I get mistaken for being in my 30 s, ALL the time. I have a VERY GOOD long term memory almost photographic memory when it comes to things in my childhood. I don't have many grey hairs and I have a twin that looks just as young as me. I never stop thinking I'm to old to do that. I live life to the fullest. By the time the weekend is over from having fun come Monday morning at work I am already planning what fun I'm going to have in the upcoming weekend . You have to live life to the fullest , every minute of every day . There's plenty of time to sleep when you die. When your time comes you want to say I did it ( ALL ! ) . I DIDN'T WAIST 1 SECOND MY CREATOR HAS GIVEN ME , ON fighting ,bickering,staying home, not getting to meet new people or try new things, not going to so many good food resteraunts , not seeing all the beautiful places in this world there are to see, not learning everything there is to know about life our existence or religion. I hang out with ALL age groups ,races and types of people with no discrimination . I talk to VERY WEALTHY people and VERY POOR people ALL the time. I LOVE PEOPLE AND THERE STORIES . I do not care to be around negative people or mean people - NOTHING ever comes out good being around them . If you truly are a dream chaser THAT IS AWESOME !! -- DON'T EVER STOP CHASING YOUR DREAMS ,,,,AND TRULY KNOW IF YOU REALLY ,REALLY BELIEVE IT (( IT WILL HAPPEN - WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT ))
@@888huckleberry Wow! I hope you stay protected. Meaning with your personality you seem phenomenal! I'm surprised you're still full of life. It reminds me of the old me when I was full of life before life kept suppressing my light. I hope to continue 1 day at a time and hopefully have my final wish which is to have eternal life in heaven. I still have that little light in me. Thank you so much for responding seriously. It gave me a positive perspective to live again!
@@10RBREEZY Just keep yourself surrounded with GOOD PEOPLE ,, and stay away from the negativity , try not to watch the news... ask Our Creator for help. And NEVER ,EVER ,GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS.. THE REWARD WILL BE WORTH EVERYTHING YOU PUT INTO IT. Just ALWAYS remember the "" Law of attraction "" is a true law of quantum physics ...just like say the law of gravity. WHATEVER you think about GOOD or BAD , YOU WILL ATTRACT --'-- So it's VERY ,VERY IMPORTANT TO ALWAYS THINK GOOD THOUGHTS...Inspite of the reality that is currently around you. I know that is VERY DIFFICULT to sometimes. It takes atleast 30 days of repetition of focused good thought to make changes for the better. And depending on the 1st 7 years of your life and all the negative stuff that was fed to you ( example - money can't buy happiness ) --- or ( I'd like to buy that but it's to expensive .) You can't have ANY thoughts like that at all . Just act as if you already have what you want . Nothing is to good for you to have ,,including a GREAT LIFE. 😉 AND ALWAYS GIVE THANKS TO OUR CREATOR. And the peaneal gland that helps send out and receive good vibes can not be messed up . So no drugs , no tap water that has Floride in it . No aluminum antiperspirants, no smoking , drinks to a minimum . If you want to send out a good signal your body has to be healthy. Now if you have a second person that has the same goals as you and zest for life ( get together with that person and discuss your future , and watch the miracles unfold . YOU GOT THIS!
Very nice and motivational.absolutly wonderful...value the life,express ur feeling,keep in touch with ur friends ,do what is important for you,live a life of ur own choice .
I expressed myself my feelings and my supervisor said you should not always tell your feelings and what you think. Which doesn't make sense because I only open up when I needed to and NOT ALWAYS. Worst people to be around with are prideful people that doesnt hear your emotions but wants their words to be heard at the top of the stack
Literally being negative takes up time. Real time. Minutes, hours, days, years. You only have so much time on earth. Stop being negative. Because it's just gonna take that much longer to be positive. Choose positivity now.
Worldly regrets are so painful yet finish after the last beat of the heart. However, the eternal one is the worst. Those who surrendered to God's commands will regret their shortcomings and those who chose to be free and careless will discover that the worldly world lasted just a day if not part of a day. All the prophets ' mission was t invite people to surrender and submit willingly tand eagerly to God's teachings. I love you all and wish you would give the real Islam a think . People r hard t please the political systems r mear idols . Yet, Allah is easy to please. So, let not spend our precious life on others. Thanks
Good, BUT understand that some forms of depression are not 100% within our mental control. If your physical brain suffers from a chemical imbalance from within your body, you can't think yourself out of it. Therapy? Sure, it can help. But sometimes medication is just as needed to feel better as insulin is to a diabetic. Please remember that & pass it on. There are still too many fallacies about mental health out there
"The 5 most common regrets of the dying were:
Number 1: I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
Number 2: I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
Number 3: I wish I had the courage to express my feelings.
Number 4: I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
Number 5: I wish I had let myself be happier."
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@Chloe Moore Because of that quote ,maybe?
@@FearlessSoulOfficial you have been always inspiring , thank you so much for everything you at the life of the viewer...God bless u!
Fearless Soul Thank You 🙏🏽 Thank You 😊 ☺️ MUCH LOVE ❤️👍🏾😘
Appreciate U 💗
*_Don’t waste your time in anger, regrets, worries, and grudges. Life is too short to be unhappy. That's why i took the risk to follow my passion in making youtube videos_*
100% agree
Agreed my man.
Life is the longest thing you will experience, so it isn’t exactly short
Wow
Thank you🙏
Can u guide me ; I wanna do the same thing making UA-cam video
*Biggest anxiety comes on a death bed, because of unrealised potential.*
It's better to feel pain now and achieve, than suffer throughout the life dreaming about what could’ve been.
You're in every video 😅
yes
Perfect!
you are right brother
Whew....tears..
I’m turning 50 in a few days and I just lost my daughter...it’s very sad because she was only 23, and she fought hard against the illness, but the illness won 💔 She died slowly over a two month period...it was very painful to watch 😢💔 I want to live the rest of my life really enjoy every day...that was the promise I made to my daughter Alexus 💖
Much love to you Mary
Sorry for your loss ❤️ Stay strong 💪
Mary Lee Bless you and Alexus ❤️
I wish u to be happy life is full of idiots
The illness didn’t win nothing can win against a good person
"Your life is short. So don't waste it on anyone else's"
STEVEN JOBS
yes sir
Thanks 😘😘❤️❤️👍👍
Thanks Steven
Facts
I am 65. From 35 to 65 .... 30 years I wonder what happened? Opportunities I have let go unnoticed ... because I was so inwardly focused. Opportunities to spend time with loved ones, travel, expand my career, invest... poof. All gone never to return. I have done a few good things recently that will change that. Now to push the gear into lever and try and make it to 95 ... and make 30 glorious years. If I don’t make the 30 I will go out in a positive frame of mind.
*_One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself_*
Yep this has been me......
Time to stop
This is why I don't have any regrets. I lived and created a life that worked for me as an individual. Isn't that really what we should all be doing?
Then why are you here?
I actually think that from the kids of now the biggest regret would be:
-I wished I didn't wasted too much time comparing myself to other in social media and on mobile games.
I agree 🙏🏾Comparison is the thief of joy.
It's true :'(
Underrated
Or just wasting their precious time with that!
My regret is not going to be: I regret not using social media to my fullest potential and made money out if it instead of it making money off of me 💯🙏
I’m still 15 and all I WANT is to let my parents understand what I REALLY WANT IN MY LIFE. That they can’t control my choices because this is my life. One day, I’m gonna have the courage to do it. Praying for everyone also!! 🙏🏻
I'm 25. When i was your age i would sit in the library researching college and what an amazing thing it would be to study the Classics and linguistics. I was told by my mother she would not finance my college or help pay for it. Growing up in rural Mississippi, even though parents made great money, the thought of being told to relegate my life to welding for a scholarship was unsettling. But thats all she was willing to help finance.
Today, I travel across the United States for well over what some mid-career software engineers make, but despite all the money, I regret never finding a way to chase my dream. Monsy will not give you happiness. Take it from someone who once thought it was the key to my personal fulfillment.
Don't let your parents dictate your life or listen to what they think will bring you fulfillment. If you know what your passion is, and you happen to be one of the few who knows your calling, let nothing stop you.
Do not let relationships or other connections relegate you to a life of misery. Fail, try again, fail, then you will approach success. But dont let life pass you by always wishing you could do the thing you loved most. If you find sometime later that what you wanted wasnt, indeed, for you, at least thats part of your life you will not regret. If you never try for that goal, you will eternally regret not knowing if you would enjoy it or not.
Lead a life of action and take calculated risks. Life is too short to think about missed opportunities.
@@davidrimbauer1591 thank you for sharing this. Can you please tell me how you knew you wanted to study classics and linguistics? I dont know if that wjat I want to do, is really what I want to do, or if I want it bc of the money, or bc my mum / friends tell me to do that. Or even if I want to do anything.
@@milica.075
When I was six years of age, my first run-in with language was at a Chinese restaurant. I was always fascinated that humans could communicate in such a myriad of ways.
As I grew older, the interest still remained. But the path to wanting to understand the science of language presented more so a path, at least to a job. So a double major was what I sought after, studying dead languages as a hobby and for potential reference should I decide to pursue a PhD in the same.
Sometimes, you just know. Very few, however, genuinely know what they wanted to do. I did, and still do, yet now I'm at the age where such financial risks and lack of income for four years might not be economically sensible. At least in my teenage years, being able to study such things in college would have been more efficient considering my present circumstances and then, at least, I didn't much mind the harrowing debt I would face.
If you know you are passionate about something, pursue it, even if in the end you might have to pay off some debt. Don't spend your life regretting as I do.
@@milica.075 its also my question pls tell us if anybody knows how to know your passion
Life is so much more meaningful with Jesus Christ in your heart. Seek him while he may be found. Don't let religion get in the way.
My mantras:
Don't work too much
Take career risks
Push your career to align with your purpose
Don't mute your own personality
Be authentic and independent
Believe in yourself
Don't take life too seriously
Don't let good friendships die
Choose happiness
Remain positive always
Share how you feel
Be emotionally vulnerable
Be bravely honest and forthcoming
Listen better to people
Spontaneously give to others
Respect and value every individual
Resolve conflicts immediately
Travel often
Stay fit and active
Jot down moments that make you smile
Communicate with your parents
Avoid becoming comfortable
Say 'yes' to new experiences
Be playful and light-hearted
I'm 25. When i was in high school, i would sit in the library researching college and what an amazing thing it would be to study the Classics and linguistics. I was told by my mother she would not finance my college or help pay for it. Growing up in rural Mississippi, even though parents made great money, the thought of being told to relegate my life to welding for a scholarship was unsettling. But thats all she was willing to help finance.
Today, I travel across the United States for well over what some mid-career software engineers make, but despite all the money, I regret never finding a way to chase my dream. Monsy will not give you happiness. Take it from someone who once thought it was the key to my personal fulfillment.
Don't let your parents dictate your life or listen to what they think will bring you fulfillment. If you know what your passion is, and you happen to be one of the few who knows your calling, let nothing stop you.
Do not let relationships or other connections relegate you to a life of misery. Fail, try again, fail, then you will approach success. But dont let life pass you by always wishing you could do the thing you loved most. If you find sometime later that what you wanted wasnt, indeed, for you, at least thats part of your life you will not regret. If you never try for that goal, you will eternally regret not knowing if you would enjoy it or not.
Lead a life of action and take calculated risks. Life is too short to think about missed opportunities.
The best way to avoid regrets during dying is to have a meaningful life. Not that life which starts from us and ends with us, but a life which embraces all good around us and leaves inspiration to millions after we leave this world.
I'm very happy since I left my parent's home at age 21 and have been living on my own. I've been doing everything that I want to do and so far at 68 years old, I've NO regrets in life. In the same situation, if I had to do it all over again I shall do the same; I'm doing things to please God and myself!
I've one daughter whom I've taught to lead a good life; be kind and honest, and do things that would please God and herself so there would be NO regrets!
Although my daughter doesn't like hearing it, I frequently say to her: we all have to die someday so when it's my time, don't cry for me but whenever you feel sad, pray and God would give you the courage and strength that's needed. I've had a happy and fulfilling life with NO regrets! Cherish the good memories, and remember the good things that I've taught you, especially helping those who are less fortunate! DON'T LET ANYONE EVER abuse or take advantage of you IN ANY WAY! Keep me in your heart so I shall be close to you and remember that God and your mom would ALWAYS love you, so continue my sweet girl to live your best life; perhaps someday we shall meet again!
That's why we have to LIVE FULLY in the PRESENT MOMENT and VALUE our TIME.
Brian Power And look for and be grateful for all the good in life and all the meaningful people in your life
Well Said...
🦋🦋🦋 May we all have the courage to lead the life actually want. Thank you for sharing! 🦋🦋🦋
Amen sister...Amen.
Hi ur write
Don’t assume you have decades, plans can be destroyed by an unexpected Cancer Diagnosis, Car Accident, or other tragedy. Never take for granted that the plans you make will become reality. Scratch things off your Bucket List, want to travel to an exotic location with your loved one, just do it, don’t wait!!
Why did this made me cry inside.
The Nerd,
I teared up reading your comment. It reminded me of the late actress Farrah Fawcett who died from Cancer. I wish you the very best and God blessing 🙏🌹
I had near death experience about 7 years ago and i felt from that, that it is the small moments that matters! Like spend some time with your family, do everything with your heart 😊❤
I’ve seen and experienced too much death in my life and one thing I’ve learnt is that the only thing that matters is the people you love and care about.
Money and material things aren’t important.
My dad had bowel cancer, and even though he was seriously Ill and taking the horrendous medication and felt tired, exhausted and ill all the time he drove the 30 minute drive everyday to be with my mum who had had a stroke and was in a nursing home.
He never complained about his suffering.
He did this everyday for 11 years until the day he eventually died.
If you live like they wished they had I can tell you it's hard going and you will be punished and rejected beat on even hated
you won't be successful and chances are you won't have people loving you.
But you will be free.
And that is priceless.
Much love
I BET #1 I WISH I KNEW JESUS, SERVED JESUS, TRUSTED JESUS, AND LOVED JESUS ALL THE WAY TO HEAVEN❣
JESUSJESUSJESUSJESUSJESUS
That is more than anything in this world.
Amen! :) 🙏🏾
Number one covers all my regrets. Not having the courage to follow my instinct, live my dreams out of loyalty to others or feelings of guilt.Now alas it is too late for me. I say to all you younger people: have the courage and confidence to follow your own path and become what you dream of, don't let anyone stop you.When the time comes for you to die you will regret not the things you did but the things you didn't do.That is so, so true !
Its never to late lovely lady. Be strong. Be bold. And thank you for your kind words.
@@Khh444 Thank you so much Alice.
Be yourself 💟
Love yourself
Spread love ...be brave enough to lead your own life in your own terms..
Thank you fearless soul
always by giving us such a wonderful motivational videos..
❤
We will all die. Treat everyone like you want to be treated. Make written and audio recording daily. No regrets..I love my life doing, what makes me happy.
Be yourself...the world needs the real you😍
Be bold
Be brave
Be you ❤️
....& BE TRUE ♥️
Be bold, but don't be bald 😆
Life is what happens while your busy making others plans !!! John Lennon
Thank you. Yes life can be this simple to bring about the ultimate joy we seek and yet we complicate life. Live a true and happy life!
I wish l had more time and straight to spread the word of God with more people when younger and heathy. I regret waisting time
If people do the right thing, I don't care which god they follow, or if they follow no god at all.
So far I have lived the life true to myself. Thanks for your presentation
Its honestly heavy for someone who lost someone. There is also regret for those who are left.
Be yourself follow your own path and do you know is right for you , I Had let my self be happier👌👌🙏🙏thank you for sharing this video👍👍
Often those who regret the most are those who never attempted to fulfil their ambitions. Great video
This motivates me to study in graphic design, yet there's still a certain sense of doubt within me whenever I think about it. Currently in nursing school but it's not what I'm truly passionate about, more like an obligation. I'm 19 and barely in my first semester, I like to believe I still have a chance to change but I dont know if I should. But I'll do everything I can so then in the future I'd at least be content in knowing I did my best.
You're still so SO young and have more than enough time to pivot. Get into graphic design. Don't do nursing because you feel like you are obligated or because you're already in school. You can change now. Do what you love. Let this be a reminder or the sign you were looking for.
I have few regrets. I took my family to Guatemala every year at Christmas to spend it with a children's home. I travelled a lot. I always said I only had three aspirations. One to be a builder of nice homes. Two to be a farmer, three, to be a missionary. I accomplished all three and I'm not done yet. For all that I made bad choices in women. I chose very badly there. I am writing a book of my adventures. It's called "Memoirs of a Vagabond for God"
Is it the book already written? Do you have a pdf copy to download and to read it? Thanks
Looking forward to the book
Here is purpose of life
Oh My Gosh!
The real regret would be after death, in the afterlife we will all (no exceptions) regret that we did not spend more time remembering & connecting with God.
Woah! This spoke to me on so many levels.
Be true to myself!! Yeah Im alcoholic!!! After this video I will stop being sober, for 10 years and going to do what I love most, drink till I am passed out.
Thanks for uploading such a beautiful video ❤❤❤
Thanks for everything 🙏🙏🙏
After watching this video i NOW know that I want to be happy till my end.
We gonna live and be blessed forever.
I agree with most of this there is a lot of it I am working on now I am retiring in July to take care of my husband who is disabled and more then that to also not be owned by a boss any more . For the first time in my life I am putting my self before others and if I have to make some money by working it will not be over 20 hours and they will be told I do not have to be here treat me well or I will quit. I will never hear but over time is more money because I would rather live on nothing and be free then to be rich and be owned .
I'm glad that I'm living my life without regrets - good to know. Of course, I didn't get to this point of my life without tough experiences. Thank you for this video, I've shared it.
I wish I could love myself!
Had I love myself my entire life would have been different. I wouldn't have lived with a man who hates me. My children would experience love and grow up with self esteem. Feeling good enough about themselves. They would not struggle with suicidal thoughts. How horrible a life growing up feeling unloved, unworthy, unintelligent. You live in misery with depression, anxiety self harm, self hate and the cycle continues passing on from parents to children. If only we could love ourselves enough. The world would be a beautiful place.
Your whole life path is different with self love.
Wow, how interesting I see this video this morning! My best friends husband only has a couple of months left. I look at him and think, "If only he had done something to improve his health, he may not be going in such a slow and painful way!" But he didn't. Then I think, "In 22 years, I will be his age! Do I want to look back at my life and wish I had done things differently!" My answer to myself...No! Every time I start to slack off, I think of him! Thank you so much for this video! This confirms to me...I am on the right path!!!
This book has inspired me to share my story and demonstrate the relaxation technique that has brought me joy , pleasure and a incredible imagination. Namaste
Fearless soul thanks for be there for me all this while👏👏
No fear is freedom.
Yes! Indeed I choose to be Happy without Any Regrets. My life has been very hard I’ve been Broken Yet The Almighty Mended Me I’ve Loved and Love Lost But the Most High picked me up and dusted me off and put me back together again. From there I Still Choose To LOVE ONCE AGAIN AND NOT SETTLE AS BEFORE. I’ve Finally found True Love and I Have Absolutely Not Regrets.
Thank you 🙏🏽 for Sharing Your Much Needed Inspirations in a time of chaos and unforgiving Hatred 😢😩🥺
Risk management should always come first, the reason many traders lose money is not simply due to inexperience or a lack of knowledge of the market, but because of poor risk management
i've noticed that all of the regrets/ comments are not mentioning about spirituality. if we lack spirituality and then we suffer all of these regrets. but I didn't mean that material things are not important. the difference between material and spiritual things is that... material things can only give you temporary satisfaction but spiritual things can give you a permanent solution all of these regrets. HE will give you peace of mind and make your heart happy and so it's desire. ❤😊
This is why I love English! English is so easy to understand and catch the meaning that I love English quote!
Let’s be good for each other, Love, peace and happiness 🙏❤️ to us all!!
True. And I love that you even showed older people enjoying and doing things they love too. It’s not over till it’s over. Live, love one another and enjoy being alive! God bless!
If I had put myself and wants first, I wouldn't have the family I have today! Married young..if I regretted it, I may not have lived to see great grandchildren! Stayed married...if I thought of what I wanted, I wouldn't be married 67 years! Worked hard in home and out! If I hadn't I wouldn't have my comfortable life in my old age! Lost a child...my only regret...but if I wouldn't have had hard knocks and a steady faith before, I may have lost my sanity! When you look back at life, you may not have done what you Wanted to do, but did what you had to do. You can't look back with regrets bc you don't really know if you did the things you Wanted to do, if your life would have been better! Keep the faith! Keep your family first and top of mind! Work for the things you want bc they will mean more to you than if they came easy! Take what life gives you and PERSEVEER!
Be true to yourself 🙏❤
So true...enjoy life to the fullest💕
Great
I feel releasing, surrendering, and trusting god, angels, fairies, and universe on things that we can’t control and no longer serve our true purpose to be guided to what is truly meant for us
One should have free mind, no wife, children, friends are true all these will be around you only for advantage, benefit, try to be honest and helpful but never ever expect anything from them, during distress you alone have to move on, you can be happy only when you want to be happy, not being with people or friends, etc
Ask Jesus Christ to forgive your sins and accept Him as your Savior and Lord. After you die and meet with Jesus Christ, you will never regret that prayer.
Amen!
This is beliefs.
Amen
These 3 first peoples that dislike this video and everyone else their after that give dislike to this videos will regret they dislike a beutiful and inspiring video like this on their dying bed..
Love you fearless soul team from Bharat
When we are born we are made to run in the race started by society. Race of education, race for jobs, race in companies we work in. We never give time to look and live happily and be our ownself. I wish when I die my last words to be "I enjoyed my journey".
You are lucky if you learn this while still alive ans have chance to make things right. I lived as other wanted me to live for soo long.. Now, I have regular fights with people who want to put me back in the box that I finally escaped from. There is no way they are going to do that, not while I am still breathing.. I know who I am, and I know my talents and I am willing to work on them hard, while still having quality relationships with people.. Remembering that every day could be the last day. I dont want to have regrets in the end..these 5 are relly good advice and good to be reminded of because it is so easy to get preoccupied with all the stuff going on in life.
Hows it going now are you still fighting with these people I'm having same issues x
Live with Jesus in your life 🙏❣️.
Such a powerful video I will take on these thought s and power on to my true self in every day life .... Rest in peace for those who lost there life and gave us hope and wisdom to follow I own dreams ....
Regret is the worst of all!
I love it! Thank you for your time and effort to this video! I appreciate you. I strongly i agree. Make the best in every day!
Excellent Excellent Excellent make me CRY
stay family orientated. do not separate yourself from family and friends. dont travel very far to stay unless its pretty close where you and them can visit back and forth. I moved to Florida to make huge money and sold my soul.
There are always regrets, to say otherwise is disingenuous, that's life but there's no need to dwell on it, just accept there are always pros and cons to a life well lived.
Fearless Soul has done it again...
Not only cool info but truthful as well. Others want to define your life for you. Once you become an adult you have the right to live your own life. Some parents are afraid to let go. In a way they've become dependent on you. That's because they're afraid of losing you. If you've seen the movie "Throw Momma From The Train," you get the picture of what I'm talking about. Some parents are scared to live alone and that one day they'll die alone. They'll say that they looked after their aging parents and it's your obligation to look after them. The thing is that they lived their lives. Now is your turn to live yours because you can't always, be putting your life on hold on account of them. Many controlling and over protecting parents have ruined their children lives. Children once they become of age they have the right to leave home. There comes a time that the little birdies leave the nest.
My top five biggest regrets are.
1. At times when in life I have been disloyal
2. This caused pain in my relationships, which I then had to justify through psychological machinations.
3. I always waited to get approval before I did anything. Later in life I was able to work through this learned behaviour.
4. # 3 made it so I always had to wait before I ventured out to do things?
5. Now I am in recovery 18 years. I had a near death experience 20 years ago. I got a new chance.
trying new things and working on better habits.
Wow! I have watched more than 5 times and never get tired of it! Worth the time to keep reminding myself on how important doing things I love the most.
There’s a song by King and country called: fix my eyes👍 That’s how I like to live😃
Yes, it's true. But is ok to do what you want in your life, things that make you happy. Thank you!
Are we listening out there American Patriots World Wide? What regrets are you prepared to live with at the end of your life ? If the problems you deal with on the journey to that end aren't on that list , it doesn't matter. Let it go. Live your life. Right here . Right now . God Bless you All and Much Love
very powerful message for all who are living right now.
Well I must be in GREAT SHAPE ,
I have done and am doing all 5 but I still am going to be a multibillionaire and buy anything I want and be very charitable and live past 100 before it's my time. And most of all teach ,teach the young .
How old are you? Just want to know. Dreams are possible.
@@10RBREEZY 53 but that's just a number . I feel GREAT ! I don't ( EVER ) think old .I don't look old at all I get mistaken for being in my 30 s, ALL the time. I have a VERY GOOD long term memory almost photographic memory when it comes to things in my childhood. I don't have many grey hairs and I have a twin that looks just as young as me. I never stop thinking I'm to old to do that. I live life to the fullest. By the time the weekend is over from having fun come Monday morning at work I am already planning what fun I'm going to have in the upcoming weekend . You have to live life to the fullest , every minute of every day . There's plenty of time to sleep when you die. When your time comes you want to say I did it ( ALL ! ) . I DIDN'T WAIST 1 SECOND MY CREATOR HAS GIVEN ME , ON fighting ,bickering,staying home, not getting to meet new people or try new things, not going to so many good food resteraunts , not seeing all the beautiful places in this world there are to see, not learning everything there is to know about life our existence or religion. I hang out with ALL age groups ,races and types of people with no discrimination . I talk to VERY WEALTHY people and VERY POOR people ALL the time. I LOVE PEOPLE AND THERE STORIES . I do not care to be around negative people or mean people - NOTHING ever comes out good being around them . If you truly are a dream chaser THAT IS AWESOME !! -- DON'T EVER STOP CHASING YOUR DREAMS ,,,,AND TRULY KNOW IF YOU REALLY ,REALLY BELIEVE IT (( IT WILL HAPPEN - WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT ))
@@888huckleberry Wow! I hope you stay protected. Meaning with your personality you seem phenomenal! I'm surprised you're still full of life. It reminds me of the old me when I was full of life before life kept suppressing my light. I hope to continue 1 day at a time and hopefully have my final wish which is to have eternal life in heaven. I still have that little light in me. Thank you so much for responding seriously. It gave me a positive perspective to live again!
@@10RBREEZY Just keep yourself surrounded with GOOD PEOPLE ,, and stay away from the negativity , try not to watch the news... ask Our Creator for help. And NEVER ,EVER ,GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS.. THE REWARD WILL BE WORTH EVERYTHING YOU PUT INTO IT. Just ALWAYS remember the "" Law of attraction "" is a true law of quantum physics ...just like say the law of gravity. WHATEVER you think about GOOD or BAD , YOU WILL ATTRACT --'-- So it's VERY ,VERY IMPORTANT TO ALWAYS THINK GOOD THOUGHTS...Inspite of the reality that is currently around you. I know that is VERY DIFFICULT to sometimes. It takes atleast 30 days of repetition of focused good thought to make changes for the better. And depending on the 1st 7 years of your life and all the negative stuff that was fed to you ( example - money can't buy happiness ) --- or ( I'd like to buy that but it's to expensive .) You can't have ANY thoughts like that at all . Just act as if you already have what you want . Nothing is to good for you to have ,,including a GREAT LIFE. 😉 AND ALWAYS GIVE THANKS TO OUR CREATOR. And the peaneal gland that helps send out and receive good vibes can not be messed up . So no drugs , no tap water that has Floride in it . No aluminum antiperspirants, no smoking , drinks to a minimum . If you want to send out a good signal your body has to be healthy. Now if you have a second person that has the same goals as you and zest for life ( get together with that person and discuss your future , and watch the miracles unfold . YOU GOT THIS!
@@888huckleberry Thank you, so much for this. I will do my best to apply this to my life! Thank you!
When we know life is only once chance to experience life, we can be bold and courageous. Life is also shorter than we imagine.
Very nice and motivational.absolutly wonderful...value the life,express ur feeling,keep in touch with ur friends ,do what is important for you,live a life of ur own choice .
Living your life you love is not living, living your life you wish to live and living as you wish is the actual living.
I expressed myself my feelings and my supervisor said you should not always tell your feelings and what you think. Which doesn't make sense because I only open up when I needed to and NOT ALWAYS.
Worst people to be around with are prideful people that doesnt hear your emotions but wants their words to be heard at the top of the stack
Wow!! This is really inspiring and really makes you think twice about life. Thank you Fearless Soul for this video
Spectacular video !
So heart touching
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Life is over so quickly. It is not impossible to reach the end with no regrets
Literally being negative takes up time. Real time. Minutes, hours, days, years. You only have so much time on earth. Stop being negative. Because it's just gonna take that much longer to be positive. Choose positivity now.
I wish people would quit saying life is short, tends to make people dismiss its significance
Worldly regrets are so painful yet finish after the last beat of the heart. However, the eternal one is the worst. Those who surrendered to God's commands will regret their shortcomings and those who chose to be free and careless will discover that the worldly world lasted just a day if not part of a day. All the prophets ' mission was t invite people to surrender and submit willingly tand eagerly to God's teachings. I love you all and wish you would give the real Islam a think . People r hard t please the political systems r mear idols . Yet, Allah is easy to please. So, let not spend our precious life on others. Thanks
Keep God first in your list and He will give you the blessings you need.. :-)
I agree Amen. The greatest investment.
Which one, there are thousands of them. Let me guess.......the one most-popular in your nation of origin.
Great video thanks
This should be watched by everyone 🙏🏼
Beautiful says💐
Thank you
What I could have done, if I was my best self. I still think I could have done way better. But life seems out of my control.
Best lines ever said...💞👍
We are conditioned from young and follow the masses... patterns, habits
Good, BUT understand that some forms of depression are not 100% within our mental control. If your physical brain suffers from a chemical imbalance from within your body, you can't think yourself out of it. Therapy? Sure, it can help. But sometimes medication is just as needed to feel better as insulin is to a diabetic. Please remember that & pass it on. There are still too many fallacies about mental health out there
2:04. ugh.....that’s so deep and scary.
Thanks for the heads up 🙏🏻