Therapist Reacts To: The Great War by Taylor Swift

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  • @likabakhturidze3402
    @likabakhturidze3402 Рік тому +340

    This is actually my favorite song from Midnights. She’s reflecting on herself, her past, how it affected her relationship, and how she overcame her fears and untrustworthiness with the help of her partner. So after the great war she finally she can vow not to fight, because she’s free from her trauma and past.
    I admire her for such self reflection, honesty and ability to admit her faults.
    She’s very brave

  • @erickgustavoluchamartinez4012
    @erickgustavoluchamartinez4012 Рік тому +425

    that is one of the most beautiful songs she has ever written, I just love it...

    • @sulathenewfie4277
      @sulathenewfie4277 Рік тому +7

      I agree

    • @namytassa4816
      @namytassa4816 Рік тому +8

      Same it's my favourite really 😭

    • @janestorm9813
      @janestorm9813 Рік тому +4

      I know right? I've never experienced anything like this in a relationship but it's so so powerful

    • @Azizahfm
      @Azizahfm Рік тому

      I posted a cover of this song on my channel too! would mean a lot if you check it out 🥰

    • @120niharikamedi4
      @120niharikamedi4 Рік тому

      Yes babe 😢❤️❤️

  • @agathasophie4890
    @agathasophie4890 Рік тому

    I love your reaction to this song sooo much! Thank you for making me appreciate this song more 🖤💗

  • @kasey1385
    @kasey1385 Рік тому

    It feels, to me, like game of thrones vibes too!! I love Taylor!! Such a beautiful song. She paints such a beautiful picture in your brain!

  • @bayleeleganchuk120
    @bayleeleganchuk120 Рік тому +1

    Please please please do dear John

  • @brucebrown3837
    @brucebrown3837 Рік тому +279

    11:00 "she almost lost him because of her own inner demons, her own inner issues" ... kind of like in Anti-Hero, "it's me, Hi, I'm the problem it's me" and the chalkboard, 'everyone will betray you'

  • @belieberofkidrauhl1
    @belieberofkidrauhl1 Рік тому +181

    This song is so emotional to me. I've been with my partner for a long time now and my triggers and past trauma have caused issues we had awful fights because of something I mishandled and was not even a big deal but I felt at the moment so triggered and scared, he has been so patience with me and I admire him for being so thoughtful with me and so loving even during those hard times. It is amazing how talented Taylor is that she can share these experiences and make you feel so connected with the song message.

    • @vb8670
      @vb8670 Рік тому +4

      The same is happening to me right now. I’m wishing you the best!

  • @faye4426
    @faye4426 Рік тому +107

    this gave me the same feeling i get from listening to afterglow. this was really insightful. sucks how trauma changes people and how it hinders them from trusting their partner wholeheartedly and loving them more freely; how the smallest things can be so triggering. i feel her because i'm the same. and this is what i love about taylor's songs-so vulnerable and honest. as somone who's also struggling from her own inner demons and intrusive thoughts, it feels nice to be heard; to be able to understand myself, my own issues and what i'm going through. it makes me realize that i really needed therapy lol. thank you for this analysis.

    • @Love-so7rs
      @Love-so7rs Рік тому +4

      I immediately thought of After Glow when I first heard this as well. It definitely seems like she’s writing about the same moment in time. It must’ve really affected her for her to still be reflecting on it.

    • @faye4426
      @faye4426 Рік тому +2

      @@Love-so7rs yeah, trauma doesn't really go away but we need to heal to manage it and thrive with it. from the looks of it, it seems like she's able to overcome her struggles.

    • @Azizahfm
      @Azizahfm Рік тому

      HI!! I posted a cover of this song on my channel too! would mean a lot if you check it out 🥰

    • @mcnoneya
      @mcnoneya Рік тому

      @@Love-so7rs it must’ve been a hard time in their relationship that she had to let go of the issues from her past and just break out of her old habits and patterns which she’s mentioned in other songs of him calling her on her tricks ( I forget the word she used but it’s like games or something to that affect) he called her out and this relationship is so different than her others. And she was probably like “oh wow someone who sees right through me” woah and kinda reverted inward and had to work through her issues and he stuck by her side despite her probably not treating him all that well (like blaming him for things he didn’t do) because she was working through her past.

    • @taiy5296
      @taiy5296 Рік тому

      Death by a thousand cuts as a similar vibe as well

  • @emmaisinexile1987
    @emmaisinexile1987 Рік тому +90

    It’s makes me so emotional to hear this song but happy at the same time
    She is so honest. Most of us don’t speak about the Great War we had in our relationships and I’m glad she shared with us because it doesn’t make what happens in my/our lives so isolating 🥺
    We had our own Great War a few months ago I know the pain of being in that moment but we have come out on the other side better 🥰 and I’m soo happy that she will alway be with him because she deserves the say his loves and happiness ❤

  • @alexaahern5972
    @alexaahern5972 Рік тому +75

    It’s truly amazing how your mind can pull these lyrics apart and make it make sense to us. I’m so glad I found your channel, Mere!

  • @cyb3rslash
    @cyb3rslash Рік тому +95

    i don’t know if you’ve listened to them already, but Peace and Sweet Nothing are two other songs about taylor and joe that are definitely worth listening to and tell you more about their relationship. in Peace she asks him whether she’s enough since she could never give him actual peace because of everything she’s been through (it can also be viewed as having a significant other that has a mental illness) and fans speculate that Sweet Nothing can be seen as joe’s response (especially because he helped co-write the song)
    two very sweet songs and i’d love it if you reacted to them!!

    • @itsanniedee
      @itsanniedee Рік тому +11

      Second this for sure. Peace and Sweet Nothing both are favorites of mine as they both remind me of my relationship with my husband - I have a lot of disabilities and Peace hit me HARD about the guilt I feel about what I can “contribute” to a relationship, what my value is. And then Sweet Nothing was just this reminder that you don’t have to do anything to earn happiness and love and peace, and you’re allowed to not want to have more than just quiet contentment. Just such good pieces of music. Taylor continues to be a lyrical genius first and foremost.

    • @melissaboyer1139
      @melissaboyer1139 Рік тому +1

      Joe and Taylor wrote solemate music and I love it

  • @grgracece13
    @grgracece13 Рік тому +54

    This is one of my fav songs on the album! So underrated!

  • @ismalaz9448
    @ismalaz9448 Рік тому +73

    Fun fact: The poppy is the enduring symbol of remembrance of the First World War. It is strongly linked with Armistice Day (11 November), but the poppy's origin as a popular symbol of remembrance lies in the landscapes of the First World War. Poppies were a common sight, especially on the Western Front.
    Again, very on theme. She's really the queen of cohesion, hahahah.

    • @kidro8717
      @kidro8717 Рік тому +2

      this is great context, thank you

  • @allisonbanks3888
    @allisonbanks3888 Рік тому +45

    I really feel that this song is her remembering the Great War past tense and her song Afterglow from Lover is the ‘in the moment’ perspective. Soooo many allusions to afterglow in this song. Also the first line of the chorus in afterglow is like a premature version of antihero.

  • @maskbird9174
    @maskbird9174 Рік тому +7

    It's sad to watch this now that they have broken up

  • @stephravin8597
    @stephravin8597 Рік тому +35

    Also like the imagery of crismon clover layered with the stop and go (red and green) of the relationship - this song is SO deep and layered

  • @SingingMagick
    @SingingMagick Рік тому +33

    I love this song so much, it reminds me personally of my depression and how much my parents tried to help me, even when I rejected their help. Even when I pushed my family away, they still reached for my hand. I'm doing a lot better now, but middle school, high school, college and post-college was really hard for me. My parents paid for me to go to therapy and a psychiatrist after college and I honestly think that saved my life.

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +7

      Omg thank you for sharing this! Yes, I so see this too and I’m so happy that you are on the other side and got support. We all need it at times and yes to your parents!!! ♥️

  • @evergreenforestwitch
    @evergreenforestwitch Рік тому +28

    Your Taylor reactions are quickly become my favorite! I didn't know that about crimson clover, I was trying (unsuccessfully) to tie it to that song by Tommy James and the Shondelles but your take makes much more sense.

    • @keenanicole23
      @keenanicole23 Рік тому

      No, you’re right. Tommy James & The Shondells explained that the mix of “Crimson” and “Clover” explores a love that could develop into some beautiful and moving the motions to keep someone. Lyrically, the story plays out more directly in the song:
      Ah, now I don’t hardly know her
      But I think I could love her
      Crimson and clover
      But since then Crimson & Clover has been used in that same context to reference this very same thing, as well as the process of grief when you have lost someone or think you may be losing a romantic partner. It fits perfectly with this song. Lana Del Ray uses the crimson clover lyrics in one of her songs from years ago as well and she also worked on this album with Taylor. Dessner (who produced the song) is a big fan of Crimson & Clover as well. Jimmy Eat World made the crimson & clover reference in their A Praise Chorus song from 2001’s Bleed American. It has been used in this same context dozen’s and dozen’s of times by many different artists. I love that Taylor used it because there literally could not have been a better fit for this song contextually. But yes, you are right there. You’ve just gotta know a little more about musical history and lyrical history to get this one. It’s not meant to be such a literal reference, as in the actual plant itself.

  • @davidhampson1958
    @davidhampson1958 Рік тому +35

    What an amazing reaction...I see this song forever different now that you have opened it up...I'm sure this album is Taylor saying...this is putting the past behind me...I've said everything I need to say...and now I'm just looking forward to the future...If apart from the TV versions we have yet to get...Taylor writes more songs about her past...I will be proved wrong. But I don't think so...Thank you for this reaction loved it

    • @stephravin8597
      @stephravin8597 Рік тому

      Are the TV versions actually a verifiable thing or just a fan theory

    • @davidhampson1958
      @davidhampson1958 Рік тому +2

      @@stephravin8597 For sure they are real..already had Fearless TV & RedTV

  • @lkcullen1918
    @lkcullen1918 Рік тому +16

    I agree "Maybe it's the past that's talking, screaming from a crypt"
    also reminded me of "The tomb won't close" from W,C,S
    Maybe she recognized some of the problems of her current relationship stemmed from the trauma of "that" past relationship, which also connects the songs.

  • @RissaFaith94
    @RissaFaith94 Рік тому +17

    I may be off on this, but since I've only ever heard of a *hair* trigger (no pin involved), I took the phrase "your finger on my hairpin trigger" as Taylor's way of alluding to the fact that the hair trigger is in her head/her mind.

  • @Love-so7rs
    @Love-so7rs Рік тому +17

    “But diesel is desire, you were playin' with fire”. Thanks for explaining this. I definitely think you hit the nail on the head when you said she was threatening to burn them down. I’ve connected this song to the same event in After Glow since I first heard it, and in after glow she says, “I'm the one who burned us down“. I recommend that song if you haven’t heard it. There’s so many parallels it can’t not be about the same event. The ONLY difference is in After Glow she’s still asking for reassurance and in this song she seems to already have it. She’s confidant about their future together now. It’s all so sweet.

  • @svbiology6570
    @svbiology6570 Рік тому +19

    Loved this! It´s such a great song. Equating fighting to war is obvious but she does it so beautifully in this song. The parallels to afterglow are brilliant they really are sister songs. The nature references, violets, poppies, clover, morning glory plants is so folkore/evermore. Clover is a legume that puts nitrates in the soil so other plants can grow. To me the "maybe it was her" line is referencing her ego because of the previous line. A great video, thank you.

  • @minna22
    @minna22 Рік тому +19

    This is one of my favorite songs off the entire album.

  • @ishitaaggarwal5218
    @ishitaaggarwal5218 Рік тому +10

    "this relationship has been so deep that it will bring the past thing up to the surface" this kind of reminded me of you drew stars around my scars and now I'm bleeding because to me it signified that the person was really good to her and it reminded her of the time when other people in similar situations weren't good to her and it opened up old wounds. And of course, that hurts but it also allows you to heal

  • @wgrodrig5651
    @wgrodrig5651 Рік тому +24

    All the war/battle references with the instruments made to sound like war too. She’s a genius.
    And to think that her and Aaron worked on The Great War and Could’ve, Would’ve, Should’ve together 🥹

  • @giovannaperez1255
    @giovannaperez1255 Рік тому +5

    First sec I saw I immediately clicked

  • @3Chinchillaboys
    @3Chinchillaboys 4 місяці тому +2

    I think this is why she stayed with Joe, even after things started to turn bad. I think she felt like she owed it to him, since he helped her heal from her demons. But I think he started to feel resentment and apathy towards her at the end of the relationship. She desperately wanted things to work out, after all they had been through. She tried to stay in the prison of the relationship. I hadn't heard this song before the breakup, since I'm a fairly new Swiftie. Only about 6 months or so. It makes me think a little better of Joe, but I still think he led her on and left her to dangle around at the end.

  • @carolynstamp6238
    @carolynstamp6238 Рік тому +13

    It’s such a beautiful song. One of my favourites. She’s so vulnerable here

  • @girlnextdoor603
    @girlnextdoor603 Рік тому +5

    The way I interpret the line “There’s no morning glory, it was war, it wasn’t fair” is like, she woke up the next morning after they had a big fight and literally one or the other didn’t feel good about “winning” the argument, because it was “war” and bad things were said and like referencing back to knowing the other persons secrets and knowing what to say to really hurt them. So the “win” wasn’t fair because they “played dirty” basically.

  • @mobaobae
    @mobaobae Рік тому +7

    i think afterglow and archer also give this feeling of betrayal and of not being able to trust someone again because of trauma. “all my enemies started as frieds” - archer

  • @emmavink
    @emmavink Рік тому +5

    Um... I feel like you maybe missed the specific analogy and references to WWI (aka, The Great War) in the song.
    The underground references are suggestive of trench warfare, the diesel and the hair pin trigger and bombs are references to the new, industrialised technology that made that war so devastating and bloody.
    While the crimson clover could be a reference to its biological properties, fields of crimson were also often referenced in WW1 because the fields were literally soaked in blood. And many of the trench landscapes were literally dug on farmlands/fields.
    Memorial Gardens are also very tied to WWI. And Crimson Poppies are the icon of WWI. Brits memorialise November 11 (Armistice Day when the surrender was signed) every year with a minute of silence at 11:00. It is very common for all Brits to wear a red poppy broach or pin or sticker during the month of November.
    There are also parallels between the injustice and senseless, extreme violence of WWI and exactly how you have described her overreaction due to her trauma being triggered. WWI was so particularly horrible because it was unjustified. It wasn't a fight of good versus evil like WWII was. It was just bloodshed because of the egos of a handful of old, white politicians, royalty and businessmen scrapping over land and power.

  • @gend4926
    @gend4926 Рік тому +5

    "It turned into something bigger
    Somewhere in the haze got a sense I'd been betrayed
    Your finger on my hair pin triggers
    Hold you down on that icy ground
    Looked up at me with honor and truth
    Broken and blue, so I called off the troops
    That was the night I nearly lost you"
    So incredibly open and honest and clever. He did something that set off her internal alarm and she was ready to destroy the relationship until she realized he had good intentions, and did not betray her, and she was reacting to past trauma and had to metaphorically "call off the troops" and stop punishing him for things he didn't do. Really hits home to anyone who has met the partner who takes their shit and loves them anyhow, while also making them realize they don't deserve the reaction they are getting.

  • @Shungon
    @Shungon Рік тому +11

    11:25 to complete this thought, I think poppies used to grow a lot on trenches and battlefields during times of war. The "myth" goes as if flowers grew in theses locations specifically to remember the fallen soldiers with the association of their colour to the blood of these men. From this, the connection to the theme of the song becomes obvious :)

    • @EmmaMae119
      @EmmaMae119 Рік тому +4

      Poppies are also the symbol for Remembrance Day, Nov 11th, which commemorates the end of World War I (aka The Great War). We wear poppies on Nov 11th in Canada and I think in the UK as well.

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +1

      Ahhhh this is right on point! Wish I would have remembered that in the moment. This is why I kind of want to think about things before reacting. I wonder if people would be okay with that? Nevertheless, thank you for watching ❤

    • @linamina3600
      @linamina3600 Рік тому

      @@mendwithmere I always remember more stuff after letting songs sink in a bit more. Maybe you could react like you already do now, but put a segment at the end, recorded a little bit afterwards where you talk about the things that you remembered afterwards?

    • @EmmaMae119
      @EmmaMae119 Рік тому

      I really enjoy your in the moment reactions :)

    • @Azizahfm
      @Azizahfm Рік тому

      HI!! I posted a cover of this song on my channel too! would mean a lot if you check it out 🥰

  • @rturney6376
    @rturney6376 Рік тому +2

    As a therapist you know that people break up way before they actually break up

  • @marissahemp78
    @marissahemp78 Рік тому +6

    i love this song! you should do high infidelity as well ❤

  • @laurynwilson5631
    @laurynwilson5631 Рік тому +4

    This is my story. This is about pushing away, and fighting the love you so desperately want to accept, and then finally giving up and realizing that you're only hurting yourself.

  • @AHufflepuffAndASwiftie
    @AHufflepuffAndASwiftie Рік тому +1

    Haha!! And here I was thinking that "crimson clover" meant the metaphorical "blood" on a "battle field" after a HUGE fight!! Haha!! Silly me!! I didn't know it was a plant!! LOL You can tell I don't garden or know anything about plants/flowers!! 😏😅

  • @BelieveInMyDaydreams
    @BelieveInMyDaydreams Рік тому +3

    Oh wow, you're from pretty near me in Ohio! That's awesome. Loving these videos.

  • @thuraya4909
    @thuraya4909 Рік тому +5

    I honestly love your reactions so much! You're so emotionally intelligent and the insight you bring breaking down the lyrics so well and so accurately is truly impressive. I look forward to your future videos! Living for the Taylor content!!

  • @phyominkhaing2391
    @phyominkhaing2391 11 місяців тому +1

    The way you explained about the lyrics is just beautiful. This is the time I pressed Suscribe button to your channel. Thanks so much for your beautiful explanation.

  • @belleliving
    @belleliving Рік тому +6

    Wow! What an insightful reaction. Loved how your broke it down, it highlighted once again what a MASTERFUL and honest songwriter Taylor is :)

  • @standyourtruth.juneb.8069
    @standyourtruth.juneb.8069 Рік тому +4

    You are amazing. As much as I may of realized this was about a fight between her & Joe. You, explained it beautifully. Thank you

  • @megansevigny2859
    @megansevigny2859 Рік тому +3

    i live for these videos. thank you so much🤍

  • @babyjane534
    @babyjane534 Рік тому +3

    I love you !

  • @keenanicole23
    @keenanicole23 Рік тому +3

    Crimson & clover is referenced a lot in song lyrics since Crimson & Clover was released by Tommy James & The Shondells in the 60’s. It was covered later by Joan Jett in the 80’s, has been referenced by Jimmy Eat World, Lana Del Ray (who worked on this album with TS) and now Taylor. Dessner who produced The Great War is also a big fan of the original song. Crimson Clover is commonly used in lyrical writing to reference the loss of someone you love and going through the stages of grief associated with that. It’s in tons of songs across many genre’s since it was first referenced in the early 60’s in Crimson & Clover and it’s always used in this context, same situation here with The Great War and is very appropriate for this song.

  • @melodycook4561
    @melodycook4561 Рік тому +3

    This song reminds me of the 2nd verse of Cornelia Street where she talks about when they were "card sharks, playing games, I thought you were leading me on" and she left, but then he "called, showed your hand, I turned around" pointing again to the insecurities she has and the process of learning to trust the person you're with. Lyrical genius.

  • @venusterr8351
    @venusterr8351 11 місяців тому +1

    This song is so beautiful. Love your intakes, please keep doing this!

  • @HS-so1yo
    @HS-so1yo Рік тому +4

    Thank you for this explanation. I was not clear about a lot of things which you explained well. It is such an emotional song. The line “ I vowed I will always be yours if we survive the great war” makes me so emotional.

  • @XxBloggs
    @XxBloggs Рік тому +1

    Her poison all alone. She’s talking about alcohol. She’s referred to her drinking along before.
    Calling off the troops. It’s not other people it’s her stopping attacking him. It’s just a part of the imagery..troops.
    Mere, you sound like a really nice person. Keep up the videos.

  • @marybelle6906
    @marybelle6906 Рік тому +3

    I love this song, it's probably my favorite from the album! I love how she used the metaphor of a war and made flower references to describe this hard time they had in their relationship.
    Please, make a video for High Infidelity next! It's another song produced by Aaron on Midnights and I love it.

  • @aliseezerina7200
    @aliseezerina7200 10 місяців тому +2

    this reminds me of how I ruined my first relationship. I was depressed, insecure, and I was so hurt I just needed for him to feel just as miserable. I needed to bring him down. He left me. it was 5 years ago and we were 17, so you know, nowhere near being wise, but looking at it now, these lyrics just remind me of that. “telling me to punish you for things you never did, so I justified it” I did it, because I was in pain. Now I have matured (slightly lol) and am in a healthy relationship (4 years going on) and I just cannot imagine putting my partner through what I did in my previous relationship. I did not survive the great war with my previous partner, but I grew. A lot

  • @winter_sanchez
    @winter_sanchez Рік тому +1

    My knuckles were bruised like violets
    Sucker punching walls, cursed you as I sleep-talked
    Spineless in my tomb of silence
    Tore your banners down, took the battle underground
    And maybe it was ego swinging
    Maybe it was her
    Flashes of the battle come back to me in a blur
    All that bloodshed, crimson clover
    Uh-huh, sweet dream was over
    My hand was the one you reached for
    All throughout the Great War
    Always remember
    Uh-huh, tears on the letter
    I vowed not to cry anymore
    If we survived the Great War
    You drew up some good faith treaties
    I drew curtains closed, drank my poison all alone
    You said I have to trust more freely
    But diesel is desire, you were playin' with fire
    And maybe it's the past that's talkin'
    Screamin' from the crypt
    Tellin' me to punish you for things you never did
    So I justified it
    All that bloodshed, crimson clover
    Uh-huh, the bombs were close and
    My hand was the one you reached for
    All throughout the Great War
    Always remember
    Uh-huh, the burning embers
    I vowed not to fight anymore
    If we survived the Great War
    Uh-huh
    Uh-huh
    It turned into something bigger
    Somewhere in the haze, got a sense I'd been betrayed
    Your finger on my hair pin triggers
    Soldier down on that icy ground
    Looked up at me with honor and truth
    Broken and blue, so I called off the troops
    That was the night I nearly lost you
    I really thought I lost you
    We can plant a memory garden
    Say a solemn prayer, place a poppy in my hair
    There's no morning glory, it was war, it wasn't fair
    And we will never go back
    To that bloodshed, crimson clover
    Uh-huh, the worst was over
    My hand was the one you reached for
    All throughout the Great War
    Always remember
    Uh-huh, we're burned for better
    I vowed I would always be yours
    'Cause we survived the Great War
    Uh-huh
    Uh-huh
    I would always be yours
    'Cause we survived the Great War
    Uh-huh
    I vowed I would always be yours

  • @YanaBana79
    @YanaBana79 Рік тому +2

    I haven’t heard your insight into the Plant and Gardening references anywhere else-so fascinating! Thanks for showing us those deeper meanings.

  • @heidiclement4923
    @heidiclement4923 Рік тому +1

    Morning glory is a double-meaning. Coming back from a victorious war, you're given glory, you're the one still standing, you're hailed a hero. But those who fight it know that's it's not glorious, it's not bright and good and noble. It's messy and often dishonorable, and you do what you have to in order to survive. And she did that, it's kept her who she is this long, but it wasn't fair. She didn't come out 'winning,' there was no honor or glory to it. It was war, it was battle, it was survival (emotionally). I love the duality of the images here, the war and the flowers. Also like how flowers and war are juxtaposed, usually they are considered opposites, the flower child vs the warrior, lover vs fighter, and in this, she has to come to terms with being both.

  • @bhaveshl26
    @bhaveshl26 Рік тому +3

    Your reaction videos are amazing and the lyrical analysis is so accurate! Looking forward to see more of these video. It’d be great if you could react to exile(folklore) and coney island(evermore) from her previous albums!

  • @demanda81
    @demanda81 Рік тому +1

    I think you should move to Scotland so you can be my therapist. lol.

  • @marinabookslover3899
    @marinabookslover3899 Рік тому +1

    This song remember me to Afterglow from Lover. When she said "I blew things out of proportion, now you're blue. Put you in jail for something you didn't do. I pinned your hands behind your back. Thought I had reason to attack, but no" If you could do that song too ♥

  • @glaceanddiamond
    @glaceanddiamond Рік тому +2

    Thank you for helping me understand it. English is not my first language and I had no idea about the flowers and meanings.
    This is so profound and made my cry!
    Please do that with all midnight lyrics

  • @BubblesPink
    @BubblesPink Рік тому +3

    I always get excited when I get a notification that you've uploaded a new Taylor reaction, and this one didn't disappoint! I love how Taylor used imagery in this song and all the references to flowers and your explanations! I'm excited to see which song you react to next, from Midnights I would love to see Maroon (has another flower reference), Midnight Rain, Anti-Hero, and Dear Reader!
    Also, would love to see you react some Paramore songs, especially from After Laughter - specifically Forgiveness, 26, and Tell Me How. They tackle some really interesting topics surrounding depression, relationships, etc. and I think you could give some great analysis!

  • @inevershutuplol
    @inevershutuplol Рік тому +1

    I feel like everyone’s missing the point of “maybe it was her” lyric. I believe Taylor’s referring to herself in that lyric, as just immediately before it she sings, “maybe it was egos swinging” including her own + in much of the song she sings about HER own past essentially sabotaging her mind and perspective of Joe

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому

      Ah, such a good point!

    • @inevershutuplol
      @inevershutuplol Рік тому

      Revisiting… I guess they didn’t survive The GreatER War” :(

  • @julietteaugusthead3270
    @julietteaugusthead3270 Рік тому +2

    Obsessed with the fact that the abstract painting behind you was in fact a big bird this whole time

  • @jonatafontela5595
    @jonatafontela5595 16 днів тому

    I love this song with all my heart! Great lyrics!

  • @abigailkgomo8790
    @abigailkgomo8790 Рік тому +3

    In my overactive imagination, this song ties with the one that follows it 'Bigger Than the Whole Sky'. If she did in fact have a miscarriage, it makes sense (in my head) that the 'Great War' was one where they went through something so big and scarring and in that mess she more or less took out her grief and pain on him instead of trying to hold onto him and lean on his for support, acknowledging his pain too while he held on and never gave up on her and on their relationship. Again, all in my overactive imagination.

    • @jbolt6609
      @jbolt6609 Рік тому

      100% I agree with you. I’ve been thinking this all week and you are the first comment I’ve seen over multiple videos that shares this thought!

    • @jbolt6609
      @jbolt6609 Рік тому

      The song starts with the immediate grief of the miscarriage and the unfairness of it all, and then Taylor retreating into herself to grieve and having memories of the event. All the while Joe was reaching for her in support and for support, drawing up good faith treaties and reaching for her hand. Then this created greater distance from him, bringing up her trust issues from her past. Then it all reached a pinnacle where they turned a corner and agreed to work on it together. Then they grieved the child together (memory garden). And ultimately their relationship is stronger through this experience.
      Key lyrics with this theory, sort of hinting at a miscarriage??:
      - ‘Maybe it was her, flashes of the battle come back to me in a blur’
      - ‘Spineless in my tomb of silence’ Some womb imagery double meaning???
      - ‘Sweet dream was over’
      - ‘We can plant a memory garden’
      - ‘There’s no morning glory, it was war it wasn’t fair’
      - ‘Bloodshed, crimson clover’

    • @stargazer3677
      @stargazer3677 Рік тому

      It was about her friend Claire Winters late term miscarriage.

    • @angelashockley7717
      @angelashockley7717 Рік тому

      I was thinking the exact same thing...Good to know I'm not alone.

  • @Love-so7rs
    @Love-so7rs Рік тому +1

    Please do a reaction video for “Peace” off of Folklore.

  • @TessOnce
    @TessOnce Рік тому +1

    Please listen to Last Kiss. It’s so beautiful sad.

  • @catherinebugden
    @catherinebugden Рік тому +1

    Maroon and The Great War is my favorite songs on the album

  • @positivechanges3407
    @positivechanges3407 Місяць тому

    I adore this song--but you helped me take my understanding to a whole other level! Thank you so much!

  • @SecretEclair
    @SecretEclair Рік тому +1

    I actually think the crimson clover was a reference to the clover in her song Ivy, but now they're covered in blood which is crimson. Clover is a symbol of hope and luck and young love, but her clover is crimson and on a battlefield now.

  • @HeffaSwift
    @HeffaSwift 11 місяців тому

    My friend Shauna owns a flower farm in Osakis and you live in Bloomington Kathy Sue can't fool me

  • @carmeladawnt.adolfo9665
    @carmeladawnt.adolfo9665 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for reacting to this!! I really love this so much and your reaction is very insightful as well!!
    You look so beautiful with your outfit and makeup btw :)

  • @kookiedoh4171
    @kookiedoh4171 Рік тому +1

    i think what you’re referencing about clovers is that they’re good at nitrogen fixation, which is when the atmospheric nitrogen is turned into usable nutrients!

  • @GraceNicole87
    @GraceNicole87 4 місяці тому

    For me, i can only relate this song to hunger games, mocking jay 1&2 Katnis & peeta

  • @aubreemcclennen92
    @aubreemcclennen92 4 місяці тому

    Hello, big fan. I need some advice. Do you have time to talk? ❤

  • @HeffaSwift
    @HeffaSwift 11 місяців тому

    Took the battle to hell, bonnie and clyde fought on the great depression and Tony and I are fighting the same war today

  • @angelashockley7717
    @angelashockley7717 Рік тому +1

    I'm very late to the party, and I don't know if you will see this... I'm curious what your interpretation is of the "diesel is desire" line. I really enjoy your videos! Also, I saw another reaction, and he said that this song sounded like couple's therapy! 😊 I thought you would like that! 😊

  • @HeffaSwift
    @HeffaSwift 11 місяців тому

    You need to accept reincarnation and know who you were in past lives to heal your soul. I've paid for my sins, it's time others get their karma

  • @HeffaSwift
    @HeffaSwift 11 місяців тому

    Inner demons suck, but this is so much bigger than that

  • @lilymorgan9787
    @lilymorgan9787 Рік тому +1

    i think "maybe it was her" refers to taylor herself as a different person. like who she was when she actually went through the initial trauma is the one fighting in this war, rather than her present self

  • @HeffaSwift
    @HeffaSwift 11 місяців тому

    Bonnie and Clyde are buried 9 miles apart and their decendants have to go through the court system to get them to be buried together

  • @HeffaSwift
    @HeffaSwift 11 місяців тому

    This is my fourth lifetime with my soulmate and they are still trying to keep him from me

  • @brittanyparistx
    @brittanyparistx Рік тому

    Didn’t he play a soldier in a movie right around the time they met….🤔 mhmmmmm

  • @hbk2133
    @hbk2133 Рік тому +1

    I love seeing your reactions to Taylor, I feel like you give me other perspectives to songs I've heard many, many times. Hopefully you can check out "Right were you left me" if you ask me one of her best compositions.

  • @madisonpowers1010
    @madisonpowers1010 Рік тому

    I thought this was about the hunger games?

  • @joseaguayo3185
    @joseaguayo3185 Рік тому +1

    I would never have realized the depth of the crimson clover bit had I never watched this video. I love your content.

  • @swiftie1394
    @swiftie1394 Рік тому +1

    Love this! You should do family line by Conan Gray next

  • @madmarrr
    @madmarrr Рік тому +1

    The poppy imagery made me cry 😢 The references to veterans of war is incredibly moving in this context.

  • @georginamoreira6723
    @georginamoreira6723 Рік тому +1

    Yess, this is my top 3 with midnight rain and bigger than the whole sky. It connect with Afterglow from Lover, where she accept that she is punishing her counterpart form things they didn't do, just because her past experiences. Keep going, I'm a fan of this channel and you already. ❤️

  • @stupidbeatsaberplayer
    @stupidbeatsaberplayer Рік тому +1

    This song helped me through lots of things mainly when my friend betrayed me after I trusted them. Every time I here it I almost cry when it says “somewhere in the haze got a sense I’d been betrayed”

  • @luises.6469
    @luises.6469 Рік тому +1

    My favorite song. Thank you for reacting 💙

  • @theosison638
    @theosison638 Рік тому +1

    I wish she perform this live! Really one of my fav. On midnights album

  • @n8s246
    @n8s246 Рік тому +1

    One of my favorites from the album. I don’t know if it’s just me but after finishing season 1 of House of the Dragon I relate this song so much to so many characters of the show. Especially Rhaenyra and Alicent 😢

  • @OYJluv
    @OYJluv Рік тому +1

    I already loved this song but this analysis made me feel so sentimental 😭

  • @tiff5756
    @tiff5756 Рік тому +1

    I think this song references where she was in life (the shit with Kanye and Kim (aka “her”) as well as her relationship with Joe at that time. How fragile she was because of past experiences with men and because of how attacked she felt by them at that point in time too. She was really defensive and paranoid and scared and pushing Joe away because of it. This song is something that really resonates with me after getting with my now boyfriend shortly after ending an abusive and toxic relationship. Everything in this song hits me where it hurts.

  • @moriahroberson9886
    @moriahroberson9886 Рік тому +1

    So thankful I stumbled upon your channel, you are amazing 💜

  • @faeze98rs
    @faeze98rs Рік тому +1

    I think the mentioned war in this song also happens in "Cornelia Street". They had a fight and she thought she could lose him. "I'm so terrified of if you ever walk away
    I'd never walk Cornelia Street again"

    • @XxBloggs
      @XxBloggs Рік тому

      Cornelia Street is a metaphor for love

    • @stargazer3677
      @stargazer3677 Рік тому +1

      @@XxBloggs Cornelia Street was actually where she was living when she started her relationship with Joe. She was renting it while her Tribeca residence was undergoing major renovations.

  • @alisonbowery6856
    @alisonbowery6856 Рік тому

    Would love to see your reaction to Afterglow as well💛 This song is basically Afterglow 2.0

  • @babyjane534
    @babyjane534 Рік тому +1

    I hope you do couldve should've would've

    • @brucebrown3837
      @brucebrown3837 Рік тому +6

      She already did.

    • @babyjane534
      @babyjane534 Рік тому

      @@brucebrown3837 omg true and I've already watched it 💀

  • @AldoR4me
    @AldoR4me Рік тому

    Thank you, this helped me better understand the meaning of the song 🥺

  • @kyamukadiatimo5312
    @kyamukadiatimo5312 Рік тому

    👏👏👏