I watched her video too! She pointed out a key factor, in that men even in their 60s/70s/80s are still Vagina-hunters seeking out partners based on sexual access on offer, whereas many women by that age are seeking Companionship and place less importance on sexual stuff.
Actually, dating apps have been described as "corn" for women, as they get their "drug" there (validation/attention), while for men, it's just a frustrating experience due to a total lack of matches. It's widely known how some women just have a profile to recieve the likes, in order to improve their self-esteem.
Men talk a lot about how hard it is to get a match, yet when they DO get matched and go on Dates, they bail out quick if the woman doesn't put-out by the 2nd or 3rd date. If a guy is lucky enough to find a woman who DOES put-out early and easily, he will often GHOST her straightaway!
Dating Apps have resulted in Marriage but mostly those were couples who met 12 or 15 years ago. The Apps of today have downgraded alot in the past decade
"Make more money." 😂 That's like, "I want a man who knows what he wants - a man who has a career." It just better not be a sanitation engineer, bricklayer, roofer, or drywaller. I have advice for men on dating. Make sure she pays for herself. Make sure she's financially invested in the relationship.
Why should age be a concern for women? Seriously, the question needs to be asked. I can understand why it's a concern for men, especially men who plan on having children, but why should women be concerned over this?
I haven't been in those sites for dozen years. There were two major problems. One, most sites you had to pay (pay to be a full user) to communicate. Most women, probably rightly, feel they don't need to pay to need men. This us why clubs had/have ladies nights where women get in for free before a certain time. Two, if women are full paying members they probably get one hundred plus times more messages than men. The general problem with dates sites is dishonesty. It's best to be real. Answer question honestly and read the answers.
I think people are very anti people in general and people are more classist in general especially those who can afford to be and so that obviously would mess up relationships.people are just people and people need people no matter how u slice it.its often odd that two people could be catching the bus at the same bus stop but somehow one is better than the other is very ridiculous and classist.so if two people are on a dating app or wherever they meet its all good because the idea is to get together.men actually want to get together with women and only need available women who are on the same type of time.men would rather have sex and discover the real woman through that and who she is after that,rather than trying to impress or spend time and money in something that isn't really what will pay him off.within attraction is people showing that attraction in sex.if u don't want to sex the person then dont entertain them.problem is when women want to use men or do t intend to hit it off with men thats the problem.when she wants man to show more effort and energy than he is willing to show and for what if they haven't even had sex yet 🤔 and this is the zone women want to have men who they aren't sure on in sex,in.all the games that was played in yesteryears,dont have to be played these days and women still want to play them even to their own disappointment or fantasy instead of facing and accepting real life.and its ok but dont blame the guys u don't like.talk about the guys u do like and date and what they did to get sex and luv from u would be more beneficial and inspirational to people in general rather than someone's clasfist idea and fantasy of life or to try to control the whole worlds life and sex life.its ridiculous and nobody controls the world.what fo u actually do and what do u actually get abd what do u do with what u like and actually get instead of judging the rest of the world who isn't u.the world revolves around nobody in particular so its no need to judge.out of all the best and most popular guys do u date them etc what happens with that class if thats what u are into 🤔.if the other guys is what u attract or get then u like many women just hate the guys who luv u and thats ok.u like many other woman dont have to like or choose the men who luv u back.and whatever reflection that has in society on society and class,women don't care about as well either.is it to say that the women on dating apps are the bum women,and poor women and the lower class women 🤔 be it in mind ❤️ spirit or body 🤔 lol its ridiculous.peopke are people and whenever people fond themselves in the same class and cant admit it or it has to be a yhing to consider or people are trying to seperate themselves all while in the same im single vlass and classroom,people just become fake and ridiculous and nobody can hook up or start relationship in that mindset.and women seem to keep that up.men are like whoever is kool and down its a go and thats all it has to be.women dont seem to want or value anything serious from men anyway and just want to lockdown a guy that can have anyone and does is her own side chick missions and problem that she doesn't have to go on because of the dating apps.dating apps are an option for people who didn't have many or much options and wanted more.if anyone is on there that means theres a reason and they are in the same class of single and looking for someone.its no need to kill off society and people in mind or in real life just because the situation and circumstance isn't ideal.its about opportunity and chance where before that it was none or slim.i dont think regular and average people look for pro players and people of a certain high class on dating apps anyway lol i think people are more realistic than some or most will pretend to be.ghosting happens will people arent trying or willing to gove people the sexual energy people are looking for.the rule of thumb is dont entertain anyone u aren't trying to or willing to sex.sex is the lane people are looking to be in.how dare u tell someone who is short they shouldn't be on apps lol its like telling a tall woman she shouldn't be on there 🤔 or discrimination against anyone is anti humanity and many women are anti society and show it.and men are pro society and pro relationship and pro women in general and get to show the man they are in relationship with someone willing to enter it with them.women shouldn't treat real life as a social experiment and peoples real feeling and emotions as experiments.thats pretty off-putting and of course would cause relationship issues because u was never really trying to start a relationship anyway.its never about laziness but we all know every woman and man can't be the most of the most yet people still need to get together and be together.i think more women are realistic about dating apps and what happens and what can happen more than u have displayed as a woman about the social society.im not saying what u are saying has no relevance im just saying it's short sighted or nearsighted just to fit your mind and fantasies.overall people are more realistic than fantastical. U seem to can tell so many things and know so much yet have so much to complain about and u have been on social media for many years.where is the endgame and thats the issue for many women.u can talk forever about everything bad,but whenever it comes to something good u are never there and never involved 🤔 thats the tell tell sign of any woman's real life.many men will get their life in order through women and the women who build relationship with them.and thats what the apps are for.only people who think they are better than another human being or your the winner and they are the loser is the problem.the relationship and hitting it off is the winner and u both enjoy it because you both won inside it where as before it yall was both losers.men and women understand what each other wants and even if we couldn't be it or give it to each other we still want to be together and try at it.thats human society and we should support humanity not disrespect the people and clown them and ostracize and outcast people.water seeks its own level and when everything shakes out people will see they are with people they might have thought they wouldn't be with if they had stayed in that thought process vs people who are at certain ages and missed opportunities are still complaining and judging themselves and other people instead of just being happy and living.fantasical minded people cant handle reality and can only be in a fairytale and only exist in a fairytale and often attract a lie and the women will constantly blame the men as if u was even supposed to be in that lane in the first place.but hey,to each their own.
You are looking at dating apps too focused in women's problems while not looking at the advantages. As a woman, you get to choose from all these swiping men. I know it would be even more convenient for you if the guy meeting all your criteria just walked to you and started a conversation, but this is how things are. You just need to put some work. There has to be at least 1 guy for you. It's math. "Being chosen"? What makes you think the offline guy has a different criteria? (He doesn't.) Men care mostly about beauty (photos when online) and personality (which can only be judged by dating in real life, not by looking at a profile). In fact, when reading women's profiles, it's usually a collection of red flags. Overall, don't expect men looking at you the way you want. It's exactly the same as I can't expect you to look at a photo of a man's nude torso on the beach and you not being repulsed and thinking the guy is homeless. For me, that's a weird perspective, but if you see things that way (as I understood from your video), I can't do anything to change that. Out there, you get hit by players, guys who do that all the time. Online, there's loads of trash men and women, but you'll get access to a broader spectrum. Like, maybe a guy is just new in the city... He doesn't need to be lazy or whatever. The reason for men "swiping to everything" is a dynamic which, sadly, comes from a place of absolute disempowerement, as most men don't get any match.
You can always smile as they catch your eye. I sometimes need to ask people if they are done w the equipment, usually the people are wearing headphones. They take out the headphones to respond. So having a legit reason to talk to someone is fine. Also shared spaces like the pool, turf area, or gyms w coed saunas or coed classes are opportunities to talk to people. Men who talk w other men are especially appealing as they indicate social skills and playfulness.
I've never used a dating app but from what I've heard that whole scene sounds dire for anyone looking for more than a cheap hookup, and even then it's just as bad for men who are looking for random hookups because most aren't nearly attractive or charming enough to qualify for that either. I'd heard that Tinder was created as basically the hetero version of the gay sex app Grindr so it makes sense.
Beautiful classy woman early 60s explains why she will never online date again.
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I watched her video too! She pointed out a key factor, in that men even in their 60s/70s/80s are still Vagina-hunters seeking out partners based on sexual access on offer, whereas many women by that age are seeking Companionship and place less importance on sexual stuff.
Actually, dating apps have been described as "corn" for women, as they get their "drug" there (validation/attention), while for men, it's just a frustrating experience due to a total lack of matches. It's widely known how some women just have a profile to recieve the likes, in order to improve their self-esteem.
Men talk a lot about how hard it is to get a match, yet when they DO get matched and go on Dates, they bail out quick if the woman doesn't put-out by the 2nd or 3rd date. If a guy is lucky enough to find a woman who DOES put-out early and easily, he will often GHOST her straightaway!
Dating Apps have resulted in Marriage but mostly those were couples who met 12 or 15 years ago. The Apps of today have downgraded alot in the past decade
people downgraded not the apps lol
"Make more money." 😂 That's like, "I want a man who knows what he wants - a man who has a career." It just better not be a sanitation engineer, bricklayer, roofer, or drywaller.
I have advice for men on dating. Make sure she pays for herself. Make sure she's financially invested in the relationship.
You are never our first choice. Men go through far too much rejection before they get to you for you to ever be our first choice.
a lot of dudes on dating apps don't put their actual age. dishonesty about basic info makes one wonder what else they'll be dishonest about.
so do young women.
Why should age be a concern for women? Seriously, the question needs to be asked. I can understand why it's a concern for men, especially men who plan on having children, but why should women be concerned over this?
I haven't been in those sites for dozen years. There were two major problems.
One, most sites you had to pay (pay to be a full user) to communicate. Most women, probably rightly, feel they don't need to pay to need men. This us why clubs had/have ladies nights where women get in for free before a certain time.
Two, if women are full paying members they probably get one hundred plus times more messages than men.
The general problem with dates sites is dishonesty. It's best to be real. Answer question honestly and read the answers.
I think people are very anti people in general and people are more classist in general especially those who can afford to be and so that obviously would mess up relationships.people are just people and people need people no matter how u slice it.its often odd that two people could be catching the bus at the same bus stop but somehow one is better than the other is very ridiculous and classist.so if two people are on a dating app or wherever they meet its all good because the idea is to get together.men actually want to get together with women and only need available women who are on the same type of time.men would rather have sex and discover the real woman through that and who she is after that,rather than trying to impress or spend time and money in something that isn't really what will pay him off.within attraction is people showing that attraction in sex.if u don't want to sex the person then dont entertain them.problem is when women want to use men or do t intend to hit it off with men thats the problem.when she wants man to show more effort and energy than he is willing to show and for what if they haven't even had sex yet 🤔 and this is the zone women want to have men who they aren't sure on in sex,in.all the games that was played in yesteryears,dont have to be played these days and women still want to play them even to their own disappointment or fantasy instead of facing and accepting real life.and its ok but dont blame the guys u don't like.talk about the guys u do like and date and what they did to get sex and luv from u would be more beneficial and inspirational to people in general rather than someone's clasfist idea and fantasy of life or to try to control the whole worlds life and sex life.its ridiculous and nobody controls the world.what fo u actually do and what do u actually get abd what do u do with what u like and actually get instead of judging the rest of the world who isn't u.the world revolves around nobody in particular so its no need to judge.out of all the best and most popular guys do u date them etc what happens with that class if thats what u are into 🤔.if the other guys is what u attract or get then u like many women just hate the guys who luv u and thats ok.u like many other woman dont have to like or choose the men who luv u back.and whatever reflection that has in society on society and class,women don't care about as well either.is it to say that the women on dating apps are the bum women,and poor women and the lower class women 🤔 be it in mind ❤️ spirit or body 🤔 lol its ridiculous.peopke are people and whenever people fond themselves in the same class and cant admit it or it has to be a yhing to consider or people are trying to seperate themselves all while in the same im single vlass and classroom,people just become fake and ridiculous and nobody can hook up or start relationship in that mindset.and women seem to keep that up.men are like whoever is kool and down its a go and thats all it has to be.women dont seem to want or value anything serious from men anyway and just want to lockdown a guy that can have anyone and does is her own side chick missions and problem that she doesn't have to go on because of the dating apps.dating apps are an option for people who didn't have many or much options and wanted more.if anyone is on there that means theres a reason and they are in the same class of single and looking for someone.its no need to kill off society and people in mind or in real life just because the situation and circumstance isn't ideal.its about opportunity and chance where before that it was none or slim.i dont think regular and average people look for pro players and people of a certain high class on dating apps anyway lol i think people are more realistic than some or most will pretend to be.ghosting happens will people arent trying or willing to gove people the sexual energy people are looking for.the rule of thumb is dont entertain anyone u aren't trying to or willing to sex.sex is the lane people are looking to be in.how dare u tell someone who is short they shouldn't be on apps lol its like telling a tall woman she shouldn't be on there 🤔 or discrimination against anyone is anti humanity and many women are anti society and show it.and men are pro society and pro relationship and pro women in general and get to show the man they are in relationship with someone willing to enter it with them.women shouldn't treat real life as a social experiment and peoples real feeling and emotions as experiments.thats pretty off-putting and of course would cause relationship issues because u was never really trying to start a relationship anyway.its never about laziness but we all know every woman and man can't be the most of the most yet people still need to get together and be together.i think more women are realistic about dating apps and what happens and what can happen more than u have displayed as a woman about the social society.im not saying what u are saying has no relevance im just saying it's short sighted or nearsighted just to fit your mind and fantasies.overall people are more realistic than fantastical.
U seem to can tell so many things and know so much yet have so much to complain about and u have been on social media for many years.where is the endgame and thats the issue for many women.u can talk forever about everything bad,but whenever it comes to something good u are never there and never involved 🤔 thats the tell tell sign of any woman's real life.many men will get their life in order through women and the women who build relationship with them.and thats what the apps are for.only people who think they are better than another human being or your the winner and they are the loser is the problem.the relationship and hitting it off is the winner and u both enjoy it because you both won inside it where as before it yall was both losers.men and women understand what each other wants and even if we couldn't be it or give it to each other we still want to be together and try at it.thats human society and we should support humanity not disrespect the people and clown them and ostracize and outcast people.water seeks its own level and when everything shakes out people will see they are with people they might have thought they wouldn't be with if they had stayed in that thought process vs people who are at certain ages and missed opportunities are still complaining and judging themselves and other people instead of just being happy and living.fantasical minded people cant handle reality and can only be in a fairytale and only exist in a fairytale and often attract a lie and the women will constantly blame the men as if u was even supposed to be in that lane in the first place.but hey,to each their own.
You are looking at dating apps too focused in women's problems while not looking at the advantages. As a woman, you get to choose from all these swiping men. I know it would be even more convenient for you if the guy meeting all your criteria just walked to you and started a conversation, but this is how things are. You just need to put some work. There has to be at least 1 guy for you. It's math.
"Being chosen"? What makes you think the offline guy has a different criteria? (He doesn't.) Men care mostly about beauty (photos when online) and personality (which can only be judged by dating in real life, not by looking at a profile).
In fact, when reading women's profiles, it's usually a collection of red flags. Overall, don't expect men looking at you the way you want. It's exactly the same as I can't expect you to look at a photo of a man's nude torso on the beach and you not being repulsed and thinking the guy is homeless. For me, that's a weird perspective, but if you see things that way (as I understood from your video), I can't do anything to change that.
Out there, you get hit by players, guys who do that all the time. Online, there's loads of trash men and women, but you'll get access to a broader spectrum. Like, maybe a guy is just new in the city... He doesn't need to be lazy or whatever.
The reason for men "swiping to everything" is a dynamic which, sadly, comes from a place of absolute disempowerement, as most men don't get any match.
9 out 10 in the gym have earphones plugged in to their ears. Is it disrespectful to approach them and initiate a conversation?
You can always smile as they catch your eye. I sometimes need to ask people if they are done w the equipment, usually the people are wearing headphones. They take out the headphones to respond. So having a legit reason to talk to someone is fine. Also shared spaces like the pool, turf area, or gyms w coed saunas or coed classes are opportunities to talk to people. Men who talk w other men are especially appealing as they indicate social skills and playfulness.
@@schahrzadmorgan Instead of asking, I usually gesture to them if they’re done with the equipment.
I've never used a dating app but from what I've heard that whole scene sounds dire for anyone looking for more than a cheap hookup, and even then it's just as bad for men who are looking for random hookups because most aren't nearly attractive or charming enough to qualify for that either. I'd heard that Tinder was created as basically the hetero version of the gay sex app Grindr so it makes sense.
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