You mentioned some key points!! Men!! Get your pathetic self HEALTHY! Eat correctly! Get exercise! Get sunlight! Do the work! I just started learning this 2 years ago! Still learning!
I've got a little news for you. An ever increasing number of men are starting to understand that their life and the society and civilization that men built are under increasing strain from forces that are hostile to men; therefore, men are increasingly invested in life outside of womankind, and women are getting increasingly disturbed and dejected by this fact, and finding that life doesn't revolve around them.
Today, it's very hard for men to earn enough to keep their heads above water, much less be able to earn $150,000 or $200,000 a year. Even when you have a "useful" college degree, marketable job skills, work both hard and smart, have no substance abuse issues, have no criminal record, it's become very tough to earn enough to make it. A lot of homeless people today have college degrees and good job skills. And we're seeing a big rise in hyper-educated, hyper-skilled, hyper-experience people who are barely able to get by. Even if you decide to start your own business, only a small percentage are able to generate $200,000/yr. The vast majority make nowhere near that amount. Not even close. Also, if a man in his early to mid-20s is making that kind of money, chances are nearly 100% that he's doing something illegal or is involved in a criminal operation.
I've just brought my wife home a couple of days ago after her second hip replacement. Here in UK we get free health care as you know so our savings aren't hit. The reason I mention this is that you talked about hip pain after sitting and glutes. My wife whose 73 was working cleaning a couple of hours a day which she enjoyed and also walked alot, not overweight ,before her hips started to give out. it came on quickly and made her disabled and rely on me. We did the exercises at the start with the glutes and then to no avail. She has been in alot of pain throughout. I think this hip thing develops over some time as we get older and forms a weakness that can be triggered by violent exercise such as sex. My wife had always had many men friends and spent the Saturday away all day before coming home the worse for wear. But that's another story, I gave up sex with her at 52 because I was scared of aids. I also have another home at the coast which I lived at been have come back to look after her. Anyway I don't know what you can do in the states to prepare for such a situation but being it's worth considering the implications it may have on your life and finances and prepare if possible. Please don't take this the wrong way, I wouldn't wish it on anyone but we are all getting older, even if we look after ourselves. Hope your lucky and it's just a twinge. Note, it's never just one hip, as they do one the other goes from added pressure, all in all its took my wife 6 months to get both done and still needs a couple more to get somewhere near to normal. Just to add my wife had both ops at private hospital but paid for by National Health Service.(In 3 days each op)
Wow. You look Super-Awesomely HEALTHY today. Even long before the Pill was ever conceived of, men had plenty of ways to get out of not raised children they sired. Also, a lot of men were very abusive fathers back then. A father who's like this is much worse than having not father at all. I'm not very good at fixing things like bicycles and cars, but chances are good that if a woman is having problems with her computer or internet connection, I'd be able to fix it. If I'm not able to, I would at least know what the problem and what she'd need to do. I've fixed countless computer issues for my girlfriend. I swim in the Sound during the summer months. That'll get you in shape REAL quick.
I'm 62, retired, more money than I know what to do with, widower. Most days I'm out climbing, biking, working out or training. 70kg, lean, top percentile fitnesswise. Just about to take off for 4 months to spend the Winter climbing and biking (and paragliding) in Europe. It's very difficult to find a woman to share this lifestyle. Most women my age or in their mid 50s have let themselves go, are overweight, unfit; so it's not just what men bring to the table but also what women can bring to me. Cuts both ways.
Absolutely. Hopefully you will find your adventurous outdoor woman. I know some like that in their 50s. That lifestyle isn't for me personally. Keep us posted.
I’m right here ! In Washington state , fit , healthy, attractive, no children, looking for a mature attractive man, I’m not on dating apps , I don’t go to bars , just the gym, would love to meet someone like this guy..
Yes men have become lazy in some ways but what you expect men to be in 2024 sounds exhausting, too. I think men have become frustrated with the high standards women have now. 80% of women are chasing the same top 20% of men online. And even if we do capture the attention of a woman for a while; many are fickle and will leave in an instant when it doesn't "feel" right (adding to the fact many women have too many options). Most of us men will never be enough, so that's why some of us have had enough.
From a perspective of a man, I find it very feminine and attractive to see a woman enjoying culinary art in her kitchen, organizing and decorating the house or even designing and sawing her own clothes but unfortunately that is all gone in this modern society and more men are can't find enough attractive femininity to complete their masculinity
I appreciate your input but it is clear you re coming from the female perspective.Your look on masculinity is very practical: the energetic Bob the builder type. This is just a symptom of masculinity. The spirit of masculinity consists of comradery, loyalty, courage and purpose. These are alll virtues that are alien to women but vital for men: If men were convinced we shaped our society to the best of our abilities any man worth calling a man would lay down his life for it if need be. That s whats wrong with our society. As others commented: you do look fantastic. It helps that you live in a place with palm trees and sun all year round. Many of us live in places where the leaves ar falling now which is a depressing sight as it implies the power of the sun will be less and less for the upcoming months to come. Not many women have the discipline, wisdom and courage you display. It makes you interesting and intriguing which adds to your attractiveness. I appreciate your efforts to bringing men and women closer together. I am sure many women of all ages envy you and rightly so :-) Keep doing what you are doing I find your content interesting. I mean a lot from you. Kind regards from the Netherlands.
Love shall wax cold in this narcissistic society. It was said it would happen and it would. pride kills relationships. Women don't want men's control. If you are with a woman and say, "don't go with the girls to the beach party because you will go with another man", it sounds like control. The woman will protest. Nobody wants to control anyone: I don't want to control a woman. I want a woman to love me enough to say to herself "I will control myself. I will be loyal to my husband because I gave my word of commitment that I would - because it will hurt him and I am committed." women can now leave whenever they want....so it's over...
IDK. I still think the most important feature for a man is his competence. But I also think it's very hard to be competent if a man's not physically (and mentally, and emotionally/spiritually) taking care of himself. It always pays for him to take care of himself (i.e., has nothing to directly do with impressing a woman), and it's how he can reach out to women and others. Most competent women will be able to see that (like what you said at 15:19). If the woman doesn't see that, it's very possible that she may not be competent, and that's not someone a competent man wants to team up with anyway. There's 8 billion people in this world; roughly half men and half women. A man doesn't need to team up with all of the women, and if the woman can't identify and respect his competence, they can select out (or will be selected out): if the man is competent, there will be other women who will take their place. This is the essence of having an abundant mindset, and the process of doing that is part of the essence of dating. Yes, there's luck involved (i.e., no guarantee), but luck goes to the prepared (man). P.S. - On the bike tire thing: yeah, I've done plenty of that before. It's a pain but it's doable: some minor technology to add whenever you bike ride. Drop me a line, or just get up with a bike store: they'll be happy to help. Yeah, you really don't need a trailer hitch: a sports car with a trailer hitch sounds like a complete mismatch!
Schahrzad, I can't agree more with your analysis. Economy, jobs, the sissification of men, and, I will add, pure laziness. I tell guys who I'm close to who are "ineffective" that there is no easy way to have self respect. A man has to work on it, even in the simplest ways, every day. I tell guys, shave your face, every day. Shower. You stink. Wear real shirts, no wrinkles, get a pair of real leather lace up shoes, shine them. And wake up and make your bed, exercise, have an opinion, make more money, dig deep and know your feelings but for god's sake DON'T express them to everyone. Be strong. Face the unknown, make your ethical rule to live by, and then challenge yourself! Book recommendation: Elevate and Dominate by Deion Sanders.
Didn't you say your husband was a manly man but you divorced him because he was not attentive to your emotions?! I love your honesty but if what you said was truly how you feel you would not have divorced your husband. But keep shaming men and telling them to man up, while at the same time you divorced your husband who "man'd up".
I don't see the contradiction between her description of her ex's positive, manly qualities and the reasons she brought up as to why she eventually left him. She never said he was a sissy or that she wasn't attracted to him or that he wasn't capable of meeting her needs for physical and emotional intimacy, only that he was content with the status quo and unwilling to do so even at the cost of their marriage. I think it's entirely reasonable that she left him over that and her being able to list and appreciate his manly virtues after all that implies she's fairer and more forgiving than most.
Two pieces of the puzzle in a relationship is a man taking a healthy lead at life and a submissive woman and sex/friendship should be where both concepts meet.
11:40 well that the men you LIKE. As I see it the number one issue I see across both sexes is making validation the ungirding element in a partner. You need to have raw desire + an emotional connection flowing mutually. The need for validation gets people over-shooting the good targets. Men should rarely be complaining as he is the one proving the forward march during courting. If she turned out to be a shit choice that's on you. So if you have a bunch of whiny men complaining about women what they're really saying is they cannot trust themselves to target the right woman and acquire her desire both physically and emotionally.
We will need each other much less as AI continue to play part in our social lives. As companionship 'AI babes 'get better and better to the point of "indistinguishing" from actual women, there will be less interactions between men and women.Nonetheless, we will still need each other since we have not reached the point where technology would do everything for us.That is from cooking, washing, cleaning,sex,work,and entertainment.So far these advancement have made out lives easier,but we still need to populate. In that sense, we shall always need each other.
On the flipside I seee so many young women with tattoos now. Ick!
You mentioned some key points!! Men!! Get your pathetic self HEALTHY! Eat correctly! Get exercise! Get sunlight! Do the work! I just started learning this 2 years ago! Still learning!
I did all this. After 25 years with a six pack, taking care of a suicidal son, she decides I don’t need this. Please explain?
I’m pissed! I was a beyond perfect husband that loved his family. My wife? I love myself!
I've got a little news for you. An ever increasing number of men are starting to understand that their life and the society and civilization that men built are under increasing strain from forces that are hostile to men; therefore, men are increasingly invested in life outside of womankind, and women are getting increasingly disturbed and dejected by this fact, and finding that life doesn't revolve around them.
@@PatrickGray-x3e In the end, we die alone. To thine own self be true.
Today, it's very hard for men to earn enough to keep their heads above water, much less be able to earn $150,000 or $200,000 a year. Even when you have a "useful" college degree, marketable job skills, work both hard and smart, have no substance abuse issues, have no criminal record, it's become very tough to earn enough to make it. A lot of homeless people today have college degrees and good job skills. And we're seeing a big rise in hyper-educated, hyper-skilled, hyper-experience people who are barely able to get by.
Even if you decide to start your own business, only a small percentage are able to generate $200,000/yr. The vast majority make nowhere near that amount. Not even close. Also, if a man in his early to mid-20s is making that kind of money, chances are nearly 100% that he's doing something illegal or is involved in a criminal operation.
I've just brought my wife home a couple of days ago after her second hip replacement. Here in UK we get free health care as you know so our savings aren't hit. The reason I mention this is that you talked about hip pain after sitting and glutes. My wife whose 73 was working cleaning a couple of hours a day which she enjoyed and also walked alot, not overweight ,before her hips started to give out. it came on quickly and made her disabled and rely on me. We did the exercises at the start with the glutes and then to no avail. She has been in alot of pain throughout. I think this hip thing develops over some time as we get older and forms a weakness that can be triggered by violent exercise such as sex. My wife had always had many men friends and spent the Saturday away all day before coming home the worse for wear. But that's another story, I gave up sex with her at 52 because I was scared of aids. I also have another home at the coast which I lived at been have come back to look after her. Anyway I don't know what you can do in the states to prepare for such a situation but being it's worth considering the implications it may have on your life and finances and prepare if possible. Please don't take this the wrong way, I wouldn't wish it on anyone but we are all getting older, even if we look after ourselves. Hope your lucky and it's just a twinge. Note, it's never just one hip, as they do one the other goes from added pressure, all in all its took my wife 6 months to get both done and still needs a couple more to get somewhere near to normal. Just to add my wife had both ops at private hospital but paid for by National Health Service.(In 3 days each op)
Wow. You look Super-Awesomely HEALTHY today.
Even long before the Pill was ever conceived of, men had plenty of ways to get out of not raised children they sired. Also, a lot of men were very abusive fathers back then. A father who's like this is much worse than having not father at all.
I'm not very good at fixing things like bicycles and cars, but chances are good that if a woman is having problems with her computer or internet connection, I'd be able to fix it. If I'm not able to, I would at least know what the problem and what she'd need to do. I've fixed countless computer issues for my girlfriend.
I swim in the Sound during the summer months. That'll get you in shape REAL quick.
I'm 62, retired, more money than I know what to do with, widower. Most days I'm out climbing, biking, working out or training. 70kg, lean, top percentile fitnesswise. Just about to take off for 4 months to spend the Winter climbing and biking (and paragliding) in Europe. It's very difficult to find a woman to share this lifestyle. Most women my age or in their mid 50s have let themselves go, are overweight, unfit; so it's not just what men bring to the table but also what women can bring to me. Cuts both ways.
Absolutely. Hopefully you will find your adventurous outdoor woman. I know some like that in their 50s. That lifestyle isn't for me personally. Keep us posted.
I’m right here ! In Washington state , fit , healthy, attractive, no children, looking for a mature attractive man, I’m not on dating apps , I don’t go to bars , just the gym, would love to meet someone like this guy..
Yes men have become lazy in some ways but what you expect men to be in 2024 sounds exhausting, too. I think men have become frustrated with the high standards women have now. 80% of women are chasing the same top 20% of men online. And even if we do capture the attention of a woman for a while; many are fickle and will leave in an instant when it doesn't "feel" right (adding to the fact many women have too many options). Most of us men will never be enough, so that's why some of us have had enough.
No they're not. I've see this regurgitated non stop online since 2016. It's like a template.
From a perspective of a man, I find it very feminine and attractive to see a woman enjoying culinary art in her kitchen, organizing and decorating the house or even designing and sawing her own clothes but unfortunately that is all gone in this modern society and more men are can't find enough attractive femininity to complete their masculinity
Thank you for your input!!
It really is a sad world nowadays. Feel sorry for young people.
This needs to go viral...and definitely your best video I've seen...cudo's to you
I appreciate your input but it is clear you re coming from the female perspective.Your look on masculinity is very practical: the energetic Bob the builder type.
This is just a symptom of masculinity.
The spirit of masculinity consists of comradery, loyalty, courage and purpose. These are alll virtues that are alien to women but vital for men: If men were convinced we shaped our society to the best of our abilities any man worth calling a man would lay down his life for it if need be. That s whats wrong with our society.
As others commented: you do look fantastic. It helps that you live in a place with palm trees and sun all year round. Many of us live in places where the leaves ar falling now which is a depressing sight as it implies the power of the sun will be less and less for the upcoming months to come.
Not many women have the discipline, wisdom and courage you display. It makes you interesting and intriguing which adds to your attractiveness.
I appreciate your efforts to bringing men and women closer together. I am sure many women of all ages envy you and rightly so :-)
Keep doing what you are doing I find your content interesting. I mean a lot from you.
Kind regards from the Netherlands.
Love shall wax cold in this narcissistic society. It was said it would happen and it would. pride kills relationships. Women don't want men's control. If you are with a woman and say, "don't go with the girls to the beach party because you will go with another man", it sounds like control. The woman will protest. Nobody wants to control anyone: I don't want to control a woman. I want a woman to love me enough to say to herself "I will control myself. I will be loyal to my husband because I gave my word of commitment that I would - because it will hurt him and I am committed." women can now leave whenever they want....so it's over...
She is absolutely right.
IDK. I still think the most important feature for a man is his competence. But I also think it's very hard to be competent if a man's not physically (and mentally, and emotionally/spiritually) taking care of himself. It always pays for him to take care of himself (i.e., has nothing to directly do with impressing a woman), and it's how he can reach out to women and others. Most competent women will be able to see that (like what you said at 15:19). If the woman doesn't see that, it's very possible that she may not be competent, and that's not someone a competent man wants to team up with anyway.
There's 8 billion people in this world; roughly half men and half women. A man doesn't need to team up with all of the women, and if the woman can't identify and respect his competence, they can select out (or will be selected out): if the man is competent, there will be other women who will take their place. This is the essence of having an abundant mindset, and the process of doing that is part of the essence of dating. Yes, there's luck involved (i.e., no guarantee), but luck goes to the prepared (man).
P.S. - On the bike tire thing: yeah, I've done plenty of that before. It's a pain but it's doable: some minor technology to add whenever you bike ride. Drop me a line, or just get up with a bike store: they'll be happy to help. Yeah, you really don't need a trailer hitch: a sports car with a trailer hitch sounds like a complete mismatch!
A welcome voice of sanity in an increasingly crazy world!
Schahrzad, I can't agree more with your analysis. Economy, jobs, the sissification of men, and, I will add, pure laziness. I tell guys who I'm close to who are "ineffective" that there is no easy way to have self respect. A man has to work on it, even in the simplest ways, every day. I tell guys, shave your face, every day. Shower. You stink. Wear real shirts, no wrinkles, get a pair of real leather lace up shoes, shine them. And wake up and make your bed, exercise, have an opinion, make more money, dig deep and know your feelings but for god's sake DON'T express them to everyone. Be strong. Face the unknown, make your ethical rule to live by, and then challenge yourself!
Book recommendation: Elevate and Dominate by Deion Sanders.
Didn't you say your husband was a manly man but you divorced him because he was not attentive to your emotions?! I love your honesty but if what you said was truly how you feel you would not have divorced your husband. But keep shaming men and telling them to man up, while at the same time you divorced your husband who "man'd up".
I don't see the contradiction between her description of her ex's positive, manly qualities and the reasons she brought up as to why she eventually left him. She never said he was a sissy or that she wasn't attracted to him or that he wasn't capable of meeting her needs for physical and emotional intimacy, only that he was content with the status quo and unwilling to do so even at the cost of their marriage. I think it's entirely reasonable that she left him over that and her being able to list and appreciate his manly virtues after all that implies she's fairer and more forgiving than most.
Lots of ex husbands that tried their best, but at the end, most women are just never satisfied.
Two pieces of the puzzle in a relationship is a man taking a healthy lead at life and a submissive woman and sex/friendship should be where both concepts meet.
11:40 well that the men you LIKE. As I see it the number one issue I see across both sexes is making validation the ungirding element in a partner. You need to have raw desire + an emotional connection flowing mutually. The need for validation gets people over-shooting the good targets. Men should rarely be complaining as he is the one proving the forward march during courting. If she turned out to be a shit choice that's on you. So if you have a bunch of whiny men complaining about women what they're really saying is they cannot trust themselves to target the right woman and acquire her desire both physically and emotionally.
listening to melanie hamlet and your content gives a good balance of view for men
I like your honesty
Good video
We will need each other much less as AI continue to play part in our social lives. As companionship 'AI babes 'get better and better to the point of "indistinguishing" from actual women, there will be less interactions between men and women.Nonetheless, we will still need each other since we have not reached the point where technology would do everything for us.That is from cooking, washing, cleaning,sex,work,and entertainment.So far these advancement have made out lives easier,but we still need to populate. In that sense, we shall always need each other.
You said you have a sports car…what type?
100%
Tell us you miss your EX without telling us you miss your EX...
And, all your points are spot on.