"you will never be a 'real' man" // FtM Transgender | RyanJacobs
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- Опубліковано 4 вер 2024
- A short lesson on gender for the severely misinformed. It is within my hopes that more people will open their minds and open their hearts.
As far as those who use religion as a point to argue, that's for another time, and another video.
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"You thinking I'm not a man is not going to stop me from being one" 👏🏻👏🏻
Reality keeps her from being one!
Hey Ryan! You don't know me and I don't know you. But I go to your old highschool. And when I told my friends about being FtM they all lit up because of you. Everyone I talk to is so proud of who you are and what you've become. Just wanted you to know that A.B. has your back!
This made me happy. Best of luck to you :)
Ryan Jacobs Flores Totally! That was the intent. And thank you
"You are no one to label a body that isn't yours" is the most profound thing to say to transphobic people. Honestly words to live by.
We can label anything we want
I was born intersex. my genetics said I'm male, but I present as ... both kinda. So anyone who says there are only two are full of themselves.
wait but intersex means that youre born with both male and female anatomy? If your sense of self is both male and female you might be bigender or androgyne or genderfliud but your anatomy is still "male"
Alex Andrews hope its alright, im just curious. But how Can your genetics say youre male and youre still intersex? Doesnt being intersex mean that youre genetics cant be lable as either male or female?
Kaelan Richardson my anatomy is not male, hon. Mostly not anyhow. Despite my genetics being purely male.
Noah Christiansen Not always. I'm Xy, but was born with. .. effectively nonfunctional male bits. My testes are internal and I developed small breasts at puberty. I have a penis, but it doesn't work >.>
I consider myself male. I'd have my chest surgery if I could afford that. so I guess I'm sort of trans. .. but because I'm intersex.
Ohh okay sorry i think i read it wrong. Sounds pretty cool tho, and that your so open to it.
Friendly reminder that trans people are real people, they are not "fake" men and women, they're 100% true men and women and no amount of whining will change that. Much love to you all :)
I know this is unrelated to the video, but you have a wonderful voice. I think being an androphilic non-binary person might make my opinion sound biased, but from my perspective it's the truth ^^
thank you ♡ for educating the human race
Ryan Jacobs Flores I've already knew all of this, I personally was born a female and I indemnify as one even though I am not the most girly girl! But I have FtM friend and before he came up I was talking to him as with a girl, but one day he came and told me: "know what? I am a boy" and I just said: "ok, if that is the way you feel I have no problem with that"
Ryan Jacobs Flores love you ❤️❤️❤️
We love you 😘💕
I've always been an LGBTQ supporter, but I've learned so much from this video. And what an amazing way to fight ignorance with not hate, but knowledge. The way he approached this was not only mature and knowledgeable, but loving. 💗
Jaden Stanbro your a fool God made man and woman
Don't twist facts this woman is a disgrace and your propping her up
You're so intelligent, strong and brave. Also handsome as fuck
"You know better now" YES YOU DROP THAT KNOWLEDGE TEACH THEM I'm so proud and inspired by you I'm struggling so much with gender and t makes me so happy that you teach people instead of just arguing it's perfect
He's so politely sassy... I love it!
She
there was a House episode about a girl who had the SRY gene. she was a supermodel and got sick with testicular cancer. it's all very fascinating. I love science. I'm an ally. keep living your true self
Jordan Leigh Wheatley ooh I remember that, i even remember House saying something about how ironic is she being the "perfect woman" only because she got the male gene
***** yep, that's exactly it
One simple thing to say, you are a beautiful human. An incredible man and so inspiring
I feel so attracted to him.
If he changed that means he wants to be referred as a He
me too I even imagine him kissing me hahaha
same
that's one of the reasons why world can't have peace because of hatred and homophobes 😂
Isabela Mercado her*
I really appreciate the way that you approached this. So calmly, and not patronising or condescending at all (at least, it didn't come across like that to me). Thanks for making this!
your voice is so soft that makes me feel really calm like for real
Same
This is so important. More people need to understand this.
I like the way he talks, so calm and polite. You're such a cutie💕
"so if you choose to bypass this information... you're not being ignorant anymore, you're being arrogant and narrow-minded" my favorite line // thank you for being a wonderful human being //
I just don't understand why people need to hate, seriously... If you don't agree why watch the damn video? Sorry for my little rant... Love you Ryan. I honestly don't understand how you are so attractive.. Haha.
i support you with your journey ... i personally think that you and many other people who are trans.. are a good example of the saying "be who YOU wanna be." and yeah. just keep being you.
woah I just got educated way better than my science teacher could❤
damn when he started talking all anatomy my heart melted like y u so perfect talk to me anatomy all day
Ryan, your voice is really soothing 🙂
Thethem Singsit he has that gay Lisp tho
Aries Girl like woman. Hmm?
Pffffft.
I know what makes a *_real_* man.
Be as swift as an coursing river.
Have the strength of a great typhoon.
Mysterious as the dark side of the moon.
hey i randomly found your video in my recommended, i just gotta say, you have the most pleasent voice I've heard in a long time. Seriously, it's a pleasure just to hear you talk. So smooth.
I need to send this to every ignoramus at my school. Thank you so much, Ryan.
I've been on testosterone for almost 5 months now, and just last week my mother just told me that exact same phrase, so I was a bit shocked when I read it on my subscribe box. I love the way you expressed everything on this video and I hope people like my own mother, hopefully, will understand this someday.
Thank you so much Ryan. I hope you have a nice day and keep doing and being great ❤
Your voice is really soothing. I really like it. -Lee
I really needed to hear that now. Thank you so much for your videos, they help me so much!
Preach! I haven't started my transition, but I hope to soon. Watching your videos is really inspiring.
Ryan, you definitely have my full respect ✊. Blessed Be )O(
Even for people in the trans community, like me, this video is really interesting. Thank you!
I'm going to be honest I used to be a "there are only 2 genders stop whining" person but you have explained everything so well I understand now!!! Thank you!😌😌🙏🙏 ps. you're very handsome 😌
Thank you for addressing this to people who don't have much knowledge on this sort of stuff.
dude, the day you were born, you were a "real" boy/man
Etta Jurima yup
no hhahahahahaa. it was a girl fucktards.
Don’t encourage false statements
Both you and "he" are being delusional.
Etta lol youre delusional
"You thinking I'm not a man is not going to stop me from being one". This is so inspirational, thank you for being a strong and positive voice for the lgbtq+ community, especially for the trans community.
You really are an amazing person, Ryan. Thanks to you and everything that you said has helped me become a better person. I'll be taking T soon and I'm excited. You're like a role model to me and I'm very proud of the man you became and will always be.
Okay professor Flores! I see you educating the people. I think this is so important for everyone and the way you addressed the situation was outstanding. Much love from Berkeley!
You are correct, there are people who are ignorant and there are people who just don't want to understand. Those people would be obtuse, you kept your cool under a lot of hate and that's really something.
i have 2 things to say (1 serious and 1 intended to be humorus.)
1. Mulan showed us to be men, you must be swift as a coursing river with all the force of a coursing river and all the force of a great typhoon and strength of a raging fire whilst being as mysterious as the dark side of the moon.
2. I wholeheartedly agree with everything that you've stated in here. 💖 Well done man!
Ryan, I have two doctorates and yet this is the best video I have seen discussing this enormous topic concisely. Very well done. I'm sharing it because I continue to try to help people understand my journey. Envious that I didn't make such a good one myself. Are you on Facebook? Appreciate the seriousness with which you explained the issues. We need more people who speak like you. Thank you very much.
Only thing that breaks my heart is your intelligence, courage, combined with that heartbreaking beauty
Literally opened my eyes!! never seen so much truth in one video. I love your videos so much! thank you so much!! 💖💖💖💖
This is very interesting and I'm glad you explained it and broke it down the way you did... Above all gender, where is the RESPECT to another human being? Being nice and respecting one another costs NOTHING people, BE NICE! 🤗❤️
Not only handsome... but also smart. I'm highly attracted right now.
You're so positive omg ❤
What I'm writing now, it's the real truth, I love your videos, but your voice it's unbelievable beautiful, strong and soft at same time. It relax me like crazy, it makes me feel peace, calm, good. Keep up the good work , you've been helping a lot of people with your testimony 👍🏻👍🏻👌🏻👌🏻👏🏻👏🏻⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️✅✅
Remember to always stay true to yourself and block out all the negative stuff people have to say to you regarding you being trans.
i love how u used real facts & peacefully delivered ur point :)
How to be a real man: are you a man? Congratulations! You're a real man!
This deserves to be shared all over the community how inspiring and articulate Ryan is just drives all of these points home. Also what a great idea to bring your text book as back-up you thought of everything. Keep doing what you do man really enjoyed this video.
Great video! The people that you were talking about having different chromosomes and genitalia are called "intersex" and people like you and me are called "dyadic". I didn't know about that gene and I've watched tons of videos about biological sex! You are 100% real and valid man (a very handsome one also). And I think tolerance is not good because we only tolerate things we dislike. The LGBTQIA+ community deserves respect and maybe acceptance and support, but respect is mandatory for every single human being. Btw I love your eyebrows
we have six kids , 24 through 9 and as a moma I got to say I'm so proud of you !! the world needs more people like you my love
Congrats on turning a year on T Ryan!
I 100% agree with you, nobody could've said it any better than this. much love ❤
First video of yours that I've seen. A little over a minute in. Dude, I am in love with your voice.
Simple yet brilliant response. I really like the fact that you took the time to make that video to teach us that little lesson with no hate, no anger at all after all the hateful things some people said. It shows how mature and strong you are. Keep going, can't wait to learn more from you. ♥
This is awesome! I'm glad you did a video like this. Correctly informing people that love to speak on this subject that they have no knowledge on. Thank you for this. I'll definitely share it with others!
I like how you did a lot of research about the XX and XY Genes. I was surprised.
to be very blunt and supervisual. you honestly are so freaking handsome. i would date you
I noticed people who post negative comments are always under fake or anonymous names with a dumb picture.
Normally, I don't write comments under videos, but this time I really had to get it out there. It was a really, really mature way that you decided to address the problem. I like the fact that you being transgender and communicating it to the world doesn't mean putting out there rant videos, but actually educating people in a really well-mannered and patient way. It is true, not everyone needs to be familiar with being transgender and the concept of genders/sex, but you doing it in such a mature way really impressed me. Keep up the good work!
I love you backing up your statements with textual facts. It just backs up something I've been saying for years.
"A persons gender/Gender Identity is not based on what they have in their pants or under their dress/skirt or biology or genetics. A man is a man no matter what as is a woman. People must learn respect, tolerance and acceptance of others. I'm a cis man and feel those who are transmen are no less a man than I am and that trans women are no less women than my cis gendered sisters."
I too have a background in psychology and human sexuality. This video re-enforces everything I was taught in college.
Stay awesome and hope everything is going well for you.
p.s. I just noticed you're at almost 65,000 subs. So cool. :)
being happy in ur own skin is the most important thing. everything else is secondary. stay postive and don't let the negative people bring u down. u can change 1 life at time. may God bless u on ur journey.
👏👏👏👏 LOVE THIS VIDEO. You're an inspiration. Put this knowledge out there!! I love when you stated; " you're no longer ignorant, you're arrogant and narrow minded". 👌 you're fricken awesome Ryan
knowledge is power, and you have said some powerful things here today. You are an inspiring human being.
I'm a straight women but somehow I came across your videos and other transgender video and I now have a better understanding of what it means to be transgender it makes me extremely happy that you are able to share your story with us and i truly hope that society will also be more understanding and accepting it's truly amazing how brave you are I wish you nothing but the best of luck xoxo
this needs to go viral..fr.
Omg your voice 😍 I could listen to your voice for hours. Can you please make a hour vlog of you just talking. Also it was a very good explanation you are a very good teacher! Keep up the positivity.
That's right !!!! I appreciate you ,keep coming back stronger ,teach others
"You are more of a man " then they all are 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
I think this video was a great idea to help people understand. When you explain simply without anger, it helps people who are ignorant about a situation to be more open-minded and be more accepting in any type of situation. I think you did a great job of explaining in that even-toned manner. As always, I wish you a wonderful and blessed day! ☺ ✌
I love how you articulate and the confidence of which you approach the audience here. Thanks for making this video. I'll be sure to use it in educating my friends wherever possible.
I honestly don’t have a problem with people being who they want to be if they wanna change let them change! don’t force someone to be something they don’t wanna be, let them be who they want to be so they can be happy❤️ Ryan keep doing what your doing and don’t let the negativity ever get to you. You have my respect ✊🏽 and I’m a new subscriber ❤️
I needed this.. I've been on T a year now and I still struggle with this because I doubt myself and my "manlyness". I struggle to regularly make videos on my channel cause I'm still insecure. But your videos always open my eyes a little so thank you Ryan
You are gorgeous!! Showed one of my friends your videos and he has felt a lot better about his transition. You're awesome. 😊😊
What an amazing, kind and intelligent way to approach someone's hateful rhetoric ! Be you! and remember the staying,"What you think of me is none of my business".
i loveeed this video, you explained it really well, funny how I just presented an article about this today at school. And I love how you respond to all the hate comments. You are an amazing human being, and I love your videos!💕👌 much love from Mexico!
ps. Omg i looovvvvveeee your voice!
PLUS. YOU ARE SOOOOOOO DAMN HANDSOME.
Alejandra Acevedo right?????? hotttttt.
Really great video. I met a transgender guy last week (the first I'd ever met) and was hugely impressed by his story. He's amazing--strong and lovely. Your video filled in some knowledge gaps. Kudos to you! ❤️
It's hard to find role models @ 18 years of age, but you are now one of mine ❤ And to think I would've never had the chance to know who you are if I didn't keep scrolling down on my UA-cam feed..
You are amazing Ryan. Keep doing you, regardless of what people who hate say. They have nothing better to do with their lives, than pass judgement on people they don't even know. Keep on, keeping on, they don't matter. 😊
You go, boy! Breaking out the textbook. I'm happy for you, man. Keep going?
This is a college lecture that I *can* bear ☺.. Love you Ryan! ( just wanted to complain about school )
wow im impressed of how your voice changed. I just discovered your channel and by curiosity i saw many of your videos. i must say that comparing your female voice and your voice now, now is very sweet, its relaxing hearing you now haha. I could watch all your videos just to hear your voice 😁😁. btw its nice that you take the time to explain everyone the process you've been through. im sure it helps lot of ppl !
that's why i love your videos!!! you're so informative and patient with people who don't understand!
I was never against what you're going for but I never new the facts. Thanks so much for the video, it was so insightful and I feel like I can back up my beliefs now in a whole new way. :)
You really have the proper tools to teach! You are incredibly well spoken! I have watched 2 videos and am a sincere fan!
I support you 100% don't mind the haters if you feel comfortable and you're happy that's all that matters, this is you and only you no one has the right to judge you goodluck
Very informative video sir. You have material to backup your argument, and you're teaching people new things, not bashing people who can't handle anyone being remotely different from what society has constructed human beings: a label. I support your journey fully! Stay you, sir! ❤️
Hey, who is a real man? A penis does not make anyone a man. My parents were told I was a man at birth. That does not make me more of man than what you are. I love your channel!
Sometimes, I feel so hopeless or sad because every day of my life I feel like there is such a disconnect from my mind and my body.
I remain to identify as a man, but I know in my heart and soul that I am truly a woman inside. But because of the fact that I was born so tall, large, and husky and suffered A LOT of bullying because of my weight and for being "gay" because of how feminine I acted, I grew up wanting nothing more than to just finally feel like I'm not such an outcast. I just know in my head that I would never be truly content with my body if I started to transition I would never feel like I'm passable enough because of how masculine my natural features are.
I've always felt alone until I started continuously watching videos of other people that are transgender as well, and it honestly helps me get through the day that at least there are people that feel the exact same way I do but have enough courage to break free and be who they want to be.
I don't expect you to have read this or anything, but thank you so much for taking the time to make UA-cam videos, I look forward to your new videos ever since I found out about your channel and I always fangirl when I watch you because you're literally so handsome and I wish I was a pretty girl and be like hitting up your DM's because you're the cutest guy ever but in reality just a fatty in the corner like... "omg he's the cute boy standing in the hall that ive crushed on all 4 years of highschool and even though I'm an elephant he cant see me and thank god he can't hear my mind right now because then he'd know that I'm like awkwardly watching him from far away.. OH GOD what if he secretly is pretending that he can't read minds but in reality he can actually read minds but he's part of a secret society that forbids him to make it obvious."
OKAY I DONT EVEN NEED TO BE A BOY OR GIRL TO KNOW THAT IM SUCH A NERD HAHAHA IM SORRY IDEK WHAT HAPPENED TO THIS COMMENT ANYMORE. okay I feel like I'm talking to myself. bye. wait i dont even need to say bye in a comment.. UGH okay i'll stop now. 😭
I'm definitely not one of those people that thought "You will never be a real man" or that being transgender is weird or unnatural. BUT I really appreciated the little lesson. I just love learning about people. Not just human beings but also animals and nature and just life in general. Life is a beautiful interesting thing and this planet is filled with beautiful interesting things! So I think it's a shame that people are so close-minded as to think "this is like this. this is like that. this has to be like this and this has to be like that. point blank period. And that's it." - There's so much to learn and so much that we don't know so I think it's a shame that some people don't want (or even try) to know. Anyway, I think that you're a cool dude! Keep it up! Some people are just so stuck in their own little world... it's a shame but oh well! Just keep doing you!
The world just needs more information, thanks for doing that. And even straight cisgender people can carry support and information. As I'm trying to do.
Anyway, transgender people are not less 'people'.
❤️
Brother you are a Real Man!! thanks for sharing your inspiring life with us!
stay Strong and stick to your believes. kisses and hugs from Mexico!
thank you so much for this! I like to think that I know a lot of this, but I picked up a bunch of useful information from this video. It was very informational, and I'm so so happy that you're taking the time to educate people, instead of being hateful. You are a real man, and even though i probably don't need to tell you that, I'm glad that you made this video to peacefully address the people who can somehow disagree. You've got a nice motto about ignorance too!
Also, this might sound kind of strange, but your voice is very relaxing? I don't know. It's very smooth and comforting, and really really pleasant to listen to. Anyway, hope you have a great one!!
It requires so much bravery to do what you're doing... and even more to do it in public. Congrats for daring to be different, for doing whats necessary to be happy. Best wishes.
Mmm preach it baby!! I'm going trans I finally got the guts to crack out of my shell! And you have helped me figure out and let me know I really want to do this!!
Drop that knowledge 👏🏼
I totally appreciate that you discussed the genetics and how wonderfully complex the human body is. I wish that both genetics and immunology were infused into more high school curriculums so that people get a chance to understand how amazingly we are made.
BOOM!!
I love this!! ha ha! nothing beats ignorance like enlightenment.
thumbs up Ryan! 😀
for me he is a guy and I'm I love , just found him in UA-cam minutes ago 😍
Jaquesita Flores same
+Nasia Tatum we can share lol