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  • @gracepalazzolo6959
    @gracepalazzolo6959 Годину тому +2

    I am so very glad you are going to NY still and with someone who knows NY. I cant wait to hear how you loved it!
    Jackson will love whatever you do with him. They are great boys with great parents! Enjoy it all

  • @sheilasutardi1363
    @sheilasutardi1363 11 годин тому +79

    I’m so glad that you were able to find someone who could go with you. I know you mentioned that it was completely out of your friend’s control, but if this was the same friend who canceled on your cruise, I personally would not ever invite that person on a trip again.

  • @roberthorn9754
    @roberthorn9754 7 годин тому +43

    I'm stunned that you think it's nothing to "pop out to CA" for a 5 yo birthday - it's your choice but it might be time to start teaching what's reasonable to expect on one's birthday - many happy returns of the day for Young Mr. J

    • @barbarastark940
      @barbarastark940 6 годин тому +7

      Hot dogs , cake and some friends makes a fun way to celebrate a childs birthday

  • @JBG85
    @JBG85 8 годин тому +45

    Taking a child to California for a regular birthday is WILD. I say this as a mom who has made many mistakes myself.. but kids are happiest with friends and cake. Everyone needs to chill with these over the top birthdays.

  • @AliMeetsWorld
    @AliMeetsWorld 10 годин тому +94

    You have to remember that he’s like 5 yrs old 😭❤️ I love how sweet you are but you’re the parent! 5 yr old isn’t gonna be the right voice to lead you! They change their mind every second

    • @LC-le9ew
      @LC-le9ew 10 годин тому +41

      He is also old enough to explain to him that he can have a different party next year; there is no need to do everything he wants all the time. Otherwise he will not be fun to be around when he is older and something does not go exactly his way.

  • @mollycampbell8631
    @mollycampbell8631 11 годин тому +198

    Was your best friend the same one that canceled on you for the cruise? If so, I think you should stop planning trips with them. Seriously. Even if it's not their fault, they obviously aren't really honest with themselves about what they can commit too. Glad you still got to go!

    • @tarynd19
      @tarynd19 11 годин тому +46

      This was my exact thought while watching this! How disappointing.

    • @nadinequintieri3621
      @nadinequintieri3621 11 годин тому

      Same here!!​@@tarynd19

    • @kaseythames9246
      @kaseythames9246 11 годин тому +4

      😢

    • @DiannawithtwoNs
      @DiannawithtwoNs 10 годин тому +22

      This was my thought as well! I agree with you. Even if it's not their fault this has happened twice already and I would definitely have been stressed if I were in Jenn's situation.

    • @michellemcfoy512
      @michellemcfoy512 10 годин тому +15

      This! I have a friend who constantly canceled because of "not feeling well" I've stopped asking her to do things and let her reach out when she can actually do things that way

  • @chantalt9431
    @chantalt9431 9 годин тому +57

    I'm probably going to be criticized but... I seriously think that:
    "I'm sure good values are being passed on, but..."
    "It is important for parents to convey to their children that everything cannot always be achieved immediately and that patience is a precious quality. Learning to recognize and appreciate the gestures of others, unconditionally, is also a great value to have. inculcate."
    Happy birthday in advance to Jackson...

  • @hollywoodclips22
    @hollywoodclips22 11 годин тому +68

    Not your best friend bailing AGAIN😭So glad you found someone else to go with!

  • @allaboardblakestrainsandmore
    @allaboardblakestrainsandmore 12 годин тому +36

    I'm so glad you found someone to go on the NYC trip after having to do the cruise alone.

  • @LaceyNLSon
    @LaceyNLSon 12 годин тому +75

    The friend bailed again? 😢 isn’t this the second time? I’m sorry!!!

    • @Cerrie88
      @Cerrie88 11 годин тому +3

      It is sadly but also it is alot if they have kids too. I would be be able to leave my kids to go away for 4 days Jenn is very lucky to be able to do that

    • @SimplySarah222
      @SimplySarah222 11 годин тому +4

      @@Cerrie88that’s not really an excuse when you plan a trip ahead of time…even if you have kids why would you agree in the first place then?

  • @alexisbk9576
    @alexisbk9576 10 годин тому +17

    I think Jackson will be more than happy with whatever you do for his birthday because he has two parents who love him very much. My parents never asked me what I wanted to do for my birthdays lol, so Jackson is one lucky little guy 💙

  • @MargaretMacgillicuddy
    @MargaretMacgillicuddy 11 годин тому +12

    Awe the joys of parenting and soon having to deal with sibling issues of minor jealousy. My advice is do not sugar coat it, explain he cannot have that grand party like Oliver. Life is full of problems. Never too early to explain realities of time appreciation. Can’t wait for your boys to learn sharing of food. You have great children, you respect them, guide them and really listen. Jackson will understand about a little party in the backyard, plus a trip to California. Just say for Oliver’s second birthday, he can help plan it and pick something he wanted for his party. Kids understand if it is explained to them. The world is unfair and children have to learn this, adapt to this, not just complain it is not fair.

  • @hollymorano5279
    @hollymorano5279 10 годин тому +36

    Wow....can't believe your friend bailed again!!! Don't think I would plan anything with this person again. Would have been so sad for you if you had to cancel. Happy you went and can't wait to see the vlogs!!! 💚

    • @margoglickman2647
      @margoglickman2647 9 годин тому +6

      I totally agree with you. This person is extremely unreliable!

  • @mollyj1900
    @mollyj1900 8 годин тому +14

    You guys are the sweetest for worrying about what Jackson wants for his birthday to the degree that you are. Never forget that giving your kid what you didnt have growing up doesnt mean you can’t say no. I’m only now at 33 years old learning/realizing my parents struggled financially when i was young (like through middle school). I never once had a special trip just for me or a trip that was what I wanted to do. Jackson has had a special weekend cruise and now a birthday trip. He will LOVE IT and hopefully one day appreciate it immensely. He doesnt know what a blessing that is at 5, but he will!

  • @barbarastark940
    @barbarastark940 10 годин тому +63

    Please stop spoiling him . He is fine , healthy and happy . Sometimes Enough is too much . Too many choices isnt going to end well

    • @katrinagaisford9695
      @katrinagaisford9695 9 годин тому +13

      I think about this every time they buy him another Hot Wheel. (Said as someone married to a 36 year old who still has too many hot wheels and such an attachment to physical toys meant for kids)

  • @AnnesTimelessTravels
    @AnnesTimelessTravels 8 годин тому +6

    i’m REALLY happy your other friend was able to step in. Sometimes our best friends are not our travel friends. I took one trip with my best friend, and afterwards I said, “I love you so much but we can’t travel together.” And they agreed and we’re are still besties many years later 😂

  • @sandydisneyfan8355
    @sandydisneyfan8355 10 годин тому +13

    From here on, if you plan an expensive trip with "a friend" they have to pay their own way.

  • @angelawarren8481
    @angelawarren8481 10 годин тому +44

    Jackson wants a party like Oliver's 1st bday because of all the attention focused on Oliver during the party. Since obviously has no recollection of his own 1st bday so this is a good time to show him the video of his 1st bday party. It'll show him that he was lavished with love and attention, just like Oliver.
    Wait a day or two before telling him that you're taking him to Nintendo World for his bday. DON'T mention the party when you tell him about going to California. If he brings it up and/or shows disappointment regarding the party, acknowledge it. Help him use his words to express it, then help him move past it. Learning how to appropriately cope with disappointment will be much easier at his age, and will be very beneficial going forward.

  • @Lore.Ash476
    @Lore.Ash476 12 годин тому +14

    Yey!!! So glad you were able to find a friend last minute to go with AND BONUS he works in NY and was able to make some plans. Yey!!!!!!! I know you’ve already been, I know you had a great time and I’m excited to see what the two get up to!! 🥰

  • @kaseythames9246
    @kaseythames9246 11 годин тому +15

    I volunteer 🙋‍♀️ to be Jen’s BFF lol I can go in the middle of the week!

  • @dean4793
    @dean4793 11 годин тому +4

    In terms of Jackson's birthday, kids are silly, even if he says he wants Oliver's birthday party, just give him a wall of donuts, toys in the backyard and a couple of friends over and he won't know the difference!

  • @jennschalle2825
    @jennschalle2825 Годину тому

    You two are amazing for donating all those items! I'm also glad you still get to go to NY, Jenn! You're going to enjoy Wicked very much! 😊

  • @ohsarabeth
    @ohsarabeth 8 годин тому +16

    y'all... the kid is a baby and prob won't remember this bday. give him a bounce house and some candy and he'll think it's the best day ever. also, please reconsider your relationship w this person who clearly does not respect your time/$$$ and continues to flake. goodness.

  • @marilynyarema5722
    @marilynyarema5722 11 годин тому +3

    Just so you know, I would have been happy to step in as a replacement for the friend who backed out. I can be ready on short notice any day, any time. Going to the theatre is my favorite thing on earth. 😊

  • @melissalee333
    @melissalee333 10 годин тому +2

    So sorry Your friend backed out but hoping it was still a great trip. I would definitely start planning solo trips from now on. Jackson will love the trip to California. You can have a small party in the back yard. Just rent a couple of bouncy houses and get a ton of snacks. Doesn’t have to be professional. He will love anything you do for him.

  • @peekwayt
    @peekwayt 10 годин тому +2

    Tim for your Hey Dudes - do the sock hack! Take out the insole, place a no-show sock on it (the open/top part of the sock will be on the bottom of the insole) and put back in. It’s like wearing a sock, and keeps any sweat (and smell) out of the shoe itself. Then just take the socks off and wash them. Works like a charm!

  • @joyceedwards6112
    @joyceedwards6112 10 годин тому +46

    Your generosity with your child is creating a monster. All Jackson knows is a wonderful life of fantasy. For him to ask for that trip is extreme, then you said yes. Now there are 2 boys who will come up with bizarre requests for b-days. Now is when you dial it back. Make the trips for family special occasions. He saw what you did for Oliver now he wants to see if you'll do it for him. You guys are awesome parents just too awesome.

    • @erinhenson6099
      @erinhenson6099 9 годин тому +12

      He’s not a monster for asking for big things for his birthday, he doesn’t know how much money, time, or effort goes into them, and that’s appropriate for his age. He would be a monster if he threw a fit when he doesn’t get what he wants, but I don’t think he’s doing that. He’s just a nice kid whose parents can turn a trip to California into a profitable job for their family, so why wouldn’t they do that? They spent years investing in the business, and when Jackson is older, he will understand the value of that more fully. For now, he can just be a kid.

    • @faithtrustpan
      @faithtrustpan 7 годин тому +4

      A 5 year old isn’t a monster for wanting to go to a theme park for his birthday. This is actually insane.

  • @Juliaisone
    @Juliaisone 3 години тому

    I’m so glad you found another friend to go on the trip with you! You guys are amazing parents and I think Jackson will have such a fun birthday in California! If it were me, I would let him know we can plan the big backyard party for his next birthday. He will have fun talking about it all year! ❤

  • @mizmerrill
    @mizmerrill 11 годин тому +7

    The fact that you two love your kids and want them to be happy is a gift unto itself. In the end, they’ll appreciate that you invested in them, loved them, and made them happy in ways that are not about things. I don’t mean that nastily, btw. Just, you know, don’t sweat it about whether you’re choosing the “right” thing.

  • @moredisney4me82
    @moredisney4me82 11 годин тому +11

    I'm jealous of Jackson. My parents never asked me what I wanted. I was always surprised. 😮😂

  • @kmchano
    @kmchano 4 години тому

    When out shopping and Tim says "oooh advent boxes" ...I sensed a wee bit of sarcasm 😂✌️❤️

  • @marlareid883
    @marlareid883 12 годин тому +4

    Tim, if you are reading this...I would like an update on Santa's arrival in Ottawa Canada🍁🇨🇦again this year. It was so fun to have you mention it. ❄️

  • @gwensglittergang2
    @gwensglittergang2 11 годин тому +7

    Is this the same friend that canceled on the cruise??? Can I throw my hat in the ring for your new best friend??? #inevercancel

  • @red120456
    @red120456 12 годин тому +5

    Yesss! Been waiting for a new video!

  • @Trixie_82
    @Trixie_82 12 годин тому +4

    My heart was about to break for Jenn like seriously come on but in the end it worked out for her!

  • @karenwadlin1761
    @karenwadlin1761 12 годин тому +3

    Have a wonderful time on your trip. Look forward to seeing

  • @SharkyBeaN92
    @SharkyBeaN92 12 годин тому +2

    I don't really comment & i have been watching you guys since before kids, i had to say that your boys just melt my heart & make my day! Love your vids! ❤❤

  • @actorleojames
    @actorleojames 3 години тому

    Tim’s singing at 1:21 saved me

  • @leslielangenegger5142
    @leslielangenegger5142 11 годин тому +2

    Jen, I am so excited for you! Hope you make a video on your experience.

  • @joycekarko4496
    @joycekarko4496 10 годин тому +2

    So happy you’re able to go on your trip !

  • @patriciagreene5842
    @patriciagreene5842 8 годин тому +1

    I’m glad you got to go! Also, kids are kids . He’ll enjoy his trip!

  • @hitouji
    @hitouji 11 годин тому +4

    This friend just isn’t meant to go on a trip with you lol, glad it worked out, happy holidays

  • @michaelgiyer6778
    @michaelgiyer6778 6 годин тому

    Well done tim, ur vedios are like fireworks they never seem to let me down on a bad day

  • @thetravelingsisters8366
    @thetravelingsisters8366 9 годин тому +1

    When I say that Rothy’s are my favorite shoe. I have three pair now but my original pair I still wear to this day and worse then for almost three years straight 5-6 days a week to work where I stand and walk a majority of the day and the soles look barley worn. They are the best shoes to but even if they are a bit pricey. My favorite hack is to take out the sole of the shoes put a sock around the sole with the open side on the bottom of the sole so I can get more wears with having to wash them then I just throw them in the washing machine and air dry I tell anyone I know about these shoes because they really are just that good.

    • @jenniferbishop90
      @jenniferbishop90 7 годин тому

      I looked at Rothy’s the last time I was at Downtown Disney. I could not get myself to pay $200 for a pair of shoes!

  • @bjbresulla
    @bjbresulla 11 годин тому +2

    I wouldn't worry about throwing a party for Jackson in the backyard because once he sees Nintendo land he'll forget all about that. I do think you should take him to cars land at DCA. He'll love that.
    I hope you do have some time to go to Knotts berry farm and experience their Xmas events. That's always a must do for my family. I know it would be hard for kids but you should experience the Christmas carol performance in the birdcage theater.

  • @gayelafoe8111
    @gayelafoe8111 11 годин тому +12

    You can’t plan a party in two weeks??? I can plan one in one week with 50 guests. Plus diys

    • @gayelafoe8111
      @gayelafoe8111 11 годин тому +1

      Is that the sane friend that bailed last time

    • @gayelafoe8111
      @gayelafoe8111 11 годин тому

      Call portable arcade companies, do his favorite video game cake. Call the petting zoo and order chick fil a done

    • @gayelafoe8111
      @gayelafoe8111 11 годин тому

      And have him help
      You decorate the back yard with balloons and rent a few tables and chairs and coordinate sting clothes and napkins and plain colored plates and cups. Invite his friends via email I could do come and do it

  • @MoniqueDieters
    @MoniqueDieters 12 годин тому +2

    Love your videos it always brighten my day ❤

  • @marilouk9647
    @marilouk9647 5 годин тому

    Oh wow! You were all over my neighborhood! Even shopped at one of my favorite Publix Super Markets, Where Shopping IS a Pleasure! 💚 We have a new one on the corner of Princeton and OBT, the new Packing District one, but the original College Park one on Edgewater is a classic!

  • @alyssacardwell3528
    @alyssacardwell3528 12 годин тому +3

    For once I’m early and I love it!!

  • @ReadingRadish
    @ReadingRadish 8 годин тому

    Commenting out of the blue!! American here and I've never heard of Hey Dudes lol 😆 Sending love and safety to Jen's travels and well wishes for Jackson's birthday!

  • @amby2show
    @amby2show 4 години тому

    Rothy's are great shoes for NYC. No blisters and you can walk for hours. Sarah Funk a NYC travel blogger recommends these shoes too, she walks all over NYC

  • @The_Alexandra_B
    @The_Alexandra_B 11 годин тому

    Cracked me up in the video yesterday when Jenn said NYC smelled like whacky tabaccy. I was there at about the same time as her and people were definitely partaking in the streets 😂

  • @melissaklein8724
    @melissaklein8724 12 годин тому +2

    He would absolutely love Super Nintento World!

  • @sophiagee4458
    @sophiagee4458 6 годин тому

    Happy Monday!

  • @marlareid883
    @marlareid883 12 годин тому +1

    Watching from Ottawa 🇨🇦 Canada, still no snow ❄️ IYKYK

    • @writerpatrick
      @writerpatrick 12 годин тому

      It's been oddly warm, although we don't usually see much snow until December. And even then it's often a green Christmas.

  • @spiritedreviewexc
    @spiritedreviewexc 6 годин тому

    fun fact, Vara started out as luggage...im glad you can go, i would so meet you there but like id have to get a train ticket and dont know Manhatten very well...I can do it on my own with other people, but yea. I just...I need to get out of town for a while anyways....

  • @Blitzjewel
    @Blitzjewel 11 годин тому

    Jeez Louise, I’m glad you found another travel companion Jenn and I hope you can do another trip with your first friend, but gosh between that and the cruise that’s, a lot of stress not in your control at all 😬

  • @chickyyraej
    @chickyyraej 10 годин тому

    I loved solo Jenn vlogs but would have been so sad to see you go through that again

  • @kyliehisee4099
    @kyliehisee4099 3 години тому

    I haven’t heard of ‘Hey Dude’ shoes in Australia

  • @jessicaprenovost4478
    @jessicaprenovost4478 11 годин тому +1

    That cars cake is so cool. I want that for my birthday and I’ll be 34 lol

  • @jennybarnes4409
    @jennybarnes4409 9 годин тому

    I was going to mention Rothys- you said it first, washable and recycled material. I’ve wanted some for a while- a little out of my current budget, maybe soon 😊

  • @Hi5_teamedgefanglowywolf
    @Hi5_teamedgefanglowywolf 12 годин тому +2

    Awesome Tim

  • @MacKaili
    @MacKaili 11 годин тому +2

    I think Jackson just gets fomo, and honestly, same lol

  • @candacejackson5044
    @candacejackson5044 3 години тому

    I'm happy to see/hear when you make donations to places. I will have to look them up and see if we have anything we can donate too.
    Glad you found another friend to go with. I so could have been that friend too.
    Can I be your third child for the trip to SNW?

  • @rachelg1911
    @rachelg1911 8 годин тому +3

    That friend sucks I’m sorry

  • @adrianmegee9395
    @adrianmegee9395 11 годин тому

    That's so exciting you still can go! I LOVE vera bradley I had a backpack for YEARS it only died recently last year. My family had to search hardcore to find the same print.

  • @ilisle3653
    @ilisle3653 10 годин тому +1

    Thanks for sharing that Rothy’s is at Springs. I’ve seen them on Instagram but not sure I want to buy sight unseen. Hope to be on FL in January and excited to check them out. What did you think ?

  • @timemarkerlegacy
    @timemarkerlegacy 12 годин тому +9

    With the birthday, I would say how about we have the big party next year so we can plan the best one ever!! Make it exciting and he will be happy. Good luck!

  • @jaberoni
    @jaberoni 10 годин тому

    Jenn! How weird is this? I booked Disney Cruise on the wish and I was going solo, then you announced that you are going too and you went there 1 week before me. So I watched your videos as a guide. Now, you been to New York, and I’m gonna be there next week!!! I’m gonna watch your vlogs and have some tips just in case you do something I never done before.. Looking forward to see your experience and I am really wondering now what’s the next trip you book that I have already booked but a week after you 🤣🤣

  • @karenwade6713
    @karenwade6713 11 годин тому

    There's a Publix like that in Hollywood Florida on Youngs Circle.

  • @julietwilliams8597
    @julietwilliams8597 9 годин тому

    big fan of pondering orbs

  • @cakomp
    @cakomp 8 годин тому +1

    Was it the same friend who canceled on your cruise?

  • @pawsforportraitsllc
    @pawsforportraitsllc 11 годин тому

    My husbands hey dude were getting stinky too so I soaked them in oxiclean in the tub. It helped with the smell, and made them look new. (:

  • @marcynelson1785
    @marcynelson1785 8 годин тому +2

    This is the 2nd time someone has canceled on you.

  • @darcyfaveris7228
    @darcyfaveris7228 2 години тому

    There’s a women shelter in my town to n we have a thrift store where from the sales it goes towards the women’s shelter

  • @r.schmalzried7315
    @r.schmalzried7315 6 годин тому

    Johnny Mathis. Nice job Tim

  • @Cerrie88
    @Cerrie88 11 годин тому

    I didn’t know what hay dudes are. In our house they are sunglasses 😎

  • @coburnbatman
    @coburnbatman 5 годин тому

    You haven’t been to New York if you didn’t order a BECSPK with cawfee and a regular slice of pizza with the oil dripping down your arm. Oh GOD how I miss home!!

  • @annettefid
    @annettefid 11 годин тому

    Jenn, if you ever need a friend to do something with, you just let me know and I’ll be there lol

  • @Amy-yh8kf
    @Amy-yh8kf 11 годин тому

    I’m from NYC and don’t know what a hey dude is

  • @superduperdisneyfanmjr5664
    @superduperdisneyfanmjr5664 2 години тому

    Loved the video and gkade you still went on your trip with another friend no it's time to lay the price

  • @fratboy1982
    @fratboy1982 9 годин тому

    You guys are so so sweet and genuinely great people and a great family role-model! I hope you had a great birthday Jen, as well as Jackson! Best birthday wishes to yall!

  • @bethanym723
    @bethanym723 11 годин тому

    Have fun 🎉

  • @obijuansx
    @obijuansx 5 годин тому

    Seriously need to know if you guys have showed Jackson the Christmas Phineas and Ferb video yet? 😅

  • @kellsworld-f5y
    @kellsworld-f5y 12 годин тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Motivationaday24
    @Motivationaday24 7 годин тому

    Hey Tim there is a pickleball event in Orlando this weekend it is the major league pickleball playoffs

  • @jessicaprenovost4478
    @jessicaprenovost4478 11 годин тому

    We have a place like that local to us that we donate to.

  • @superhero891
    @superhero891 12 годин тому +2

    Hopefully you will get to see the Disney Treasure docked in NYC this week. Some of the UA-camrs are headed there for media previews.

    • @candacejackson5044
      @candacejackson5044 11 годин тому +1

      It will be broadcast by Disney tomorrow night. I don't think they will be up there for it.

    • @TheLesMiserablesCats24601
      @TheLesMiserablesCats24601 8 годин тому

      There's two vids up already that Jenn has posted that have her mentioning that she got back from her NYC Trip.

  • @dabombbolain
    @dabombbolain 10 годин тому

    Fun

  • @chrissyrivera8320
    @chrissyrivera8320 7 годин тому +1

    May be time to let go of This
    Friend

  • @kaseythames9246
    @kaseythames9246 10 годин тому +2

    They do have little carnival games and decorations you can get at party city you could decorate the hotel room for a surprise hotel party with the fam! We used to do that at Disney

  • @ChinaDollTravels
    @ChinaDollTravels 11 годин тому

    It’s wind 🌬️ day 😂

  • @janiceevans
    @janiceevans 11 годин тому +1

    I have hey dudes.... So comfy

  • @lindasnyder2976
    @lindasnyder2976 12 годин тому

    Maybe the tree goes up after Thanksgiving?

  • @Jamoflamo
    @Jamoflamo 12 годин тому

    I’ve always been confused by the peanut reindeer’s, AND I was scrolling Jellycat this week and they have a peanut reindeer too??

  • @crystalmckenney5406
    @crystalmckenney5406 10 годин тому +2

    Your friend canceled again? How disappointing :(

  • @AmyPavlot-k7l
    @AmyPavlot-k7l 10 годин тому

    I live in ny I’ll meet you there!

  • @marcynelson1785
    @marcynelson1785 8 годин тому

    I love Rothy’s

  • @chrisp3916
    @chrisp3916 12 годин тому +2

    I love you both!! Keep bringing the videos baby!!!

  • @teresatorrent3283
    @teresatorrent3283 12 годин тому

    What is the pillow/chair set called? please?

    • @marcysingh
      @marcysingh 11 годин тому +1

      Love Sac brand of Pillow Sac...?