Finding Joy During Grief | Miscarriage Memories and Christmas Traditions

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  • Let's take our family and do more Christmas traditions! It's amazing how one object can create so many wonderful and terrible emotions at the same time. I hope that even with grief, we can create moments that bring us through.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 118

  • @ellieandjared
    @ellieandjared  Рік тому +86

    Happy thursday! Thanks for being here with us today! We hope you have a good day!

    • @julieeliuk5902
      @julieeliuk5902 Рік тому +3

      Love your videos please keep doing your videos until the baby is born

    • @queenwishieluck1359
      @queenwishieluck1359 Рік тому

      Did you guys meet Baby Brielle yet??

    • @drpepperdrinker3
      @drpepperdrinker3 Рік тому

      why didnt u make more lockers right there? where is ur daughter going to put her stuff?

  • @SarahPitcher
    @SarahPitcher Рік тому +139

    My heart almost dropped🥺 I’m sorry for the miscarriages that you had in the past and can’t wait for babygirl to be here💕💕I hope you Mechams are having good Holiday’s what a beautiful family!

  • @punkydoodledandy
    @punkydoodledandy Рік тому +58

    My heart dropped so hard so fast! So thankful for your happy healthy pregnancy with baby girl!

  • @sheena9642
    @sheena9642 Рік тому +43

    My heart dropped! Omg I can breathe 😭 sending hugs for the past and can't wait for baby GIRL to be here 💗 💓 💕

    • @reneeriggs143
      @reneeriggs143 Рік тому +3

      Mine too... I was worried for a aecond.

    • @lileegarrett4346
      @lileegarrett4346 Рік тому

      Did they lose the baby girl

    • @reneeriggs143
      @reneeriggs143 Рік тому +2

      @@lileegarrett4346 no they are referring to their past miscarriages.

  • @mindyvanhorn3199
    @mindyvanhorn3199 Рік тому +19

    Grief is an important part of our life experiences, we learn so much during this time about ourselves and our spouse! Thank you for addressing this important topic!

  • @beckymoran321
    @beckymoran321 Рік тому +5

    I remember that video of you in the hospital after miscarriage. It still makes me cry to this day. My heart broke for you.

  • @emma_4350
    @emma_4350 Рік тому +27

    Thank you so much for sharing this! The topic of grief is such a difficult one but traditions are an amazing come around. My dad passed away in June of 2018 and we got my dog in June 2016. We decided that his birthday is the same as my dad's that can help us find that joy and get him a toy and a little treat and celebrate the dog that my dad got me and my siblings.

  • @melodyclarke3439
    @melodyclarke3439 Рік тому +4

    I got so sad for a minute for you all! I thought something had happened to baby girl. Glad she will be here soon.

  • @almajohansson1945
    @almajohansson1945 Рік тому +4

    When Calvin said “let’s hope Jackson got some”🥹

  • @redneckprincess1709
    @redneckprincess1709 Рік тому +4

    Did anyone else hear Tommy say "Lily Jo" 's will be next to mine? When hanging the stockings.

  • @tracyzabelle
    @tracyzabelle Рік тому +3

    This is going to be the best season for your whole family.. bringing little girl home will be wonderful..

  • @SusyTH
    @SusyTH Рік тому +5

    I remembered Olive Garden when it used to be around in our town. It was quite special when my mom's family came one time to celebrate my birthday. Good memories of tasty breadsticks, yummy salad, and the pasta I would get with a noodle I can no longer find in stores (gemelli).
    You have a wonderful family! Creating lots of memories taking the time to spend with them.

  • @Hallz18
    @Hallz18 Рік тому

    I remember that time 🥺🥺🥺 My heart still breaks from your miscarriages!

  • @kendallerkenbeck395
    @kendallerkenbeck395 Рік тому +16

    I know it must be a lot of work putting out videos but I just really love and appreciate them thank you! Love you guys Happy Holidays!!

  • @nicholasd7731
    @nicholasd7731 Рік тому +2

    For a second I thought it was the baby girl, and I was saddened, but then realized that this was a different one. Phew, good luck with the baby girl.

  • @jadasims1914
    @jadasims1914 Рік тому

    You guys are strong for getting past all the miscarriages you've had over the years. And I'm glad your baby girl's been doing well. God bless you all.

  • @carebear1155
    @carebear1155 Рік тому +12

    Your boys are so freaking adorable. Their reactions and mannerisms. They are going to be such wonderful big brothers to that little girl. Love from Minnesota

  • @heidiramirez7749
    @heidiramirez7749 Рік тому +4

    I’m happy for you guys just remember After the storm comes the calm ❤

  • @janetdamboise6225
    @janetdamboise6225 Рік тому +2

    You should check out somers in alaska youtube videos. Especially now cause they've already started their Christmas kindness for every day! They're always doing something to give back to the people. They are such a joy to watch!!!

  • @joyceadair3003
    @joyceadair3003 Рік тому +1

    This morning in South Carolina at 6 o’clock it was 60°. I really love the weather here especially at Christmas you can get out and do things when it’s nice out.😊 I thank you for sharing. I really enjoyed it.

  • @mandyandy360
    @mandyandy360 Рік тому

    Tommy is so expressive! I love it.

  • @emkayess_yass8719
    @emkayess_yass8719 Рік тому +6

    Clicked so fast! Love you guys 💕can’t wait for baby girl, you look amazing momma!

  • @teeandkids937
    @teeandkids937 Рік тому +9

    Y’all scared me!!
    I just want to say momma you look incredible!! Pregnancy suits you ❤

  • @mammaduck5560
    @mammaduck5560 Рік тому +1

    Omg my ❤stopped ! Sorry but I’m glad that was a memory from years gone by . I myself have suffered a miscarriage and it’s painful in too many ways all at one time .

  • @navjotbal6904
    @navjotbal6904 Рік тому +4

    Oh my gosh the boys are amazing they are going to be big helpers with there sister.💙💙💙💕

  • @kimkrebs1448
    @kimkrebs1448 Рік тому +1

    Hey!!!! Love love the screen saver/picture thingy! lol lol You guys just fill our hearts. Your so very special to all of us (and your family!!)

  • @kimmayo7251
    @kimmayo7251 Рік тому

    I read this and my heart dropped!

  • @juliahalls6587
    @juliahalls6587 Рік тому

    That image still breaks my heart. When you wake up and say “I was all alone!” Absolutely kills me

  • @alehandracbvlogs4432
    @alehandracbvlogs4432 Рік тому +5

    I just love your family 💙💙💙💙❤️❣️ Tommy makes me laugh 🤣

  • @mprine2023
    @mprine2023 Рік тому

    I recently just had a miscarriage and we have been having a really hard time conceiving before the miscarriage and since the miscarriage. I am having a very hard time having hope for the future and getting in the Holiday spirit for my 11 year old son. My heart is hurting and I am sorry to anyone who has to go through this pain.

  • @gracelet19
    @gracelet19 Рік тому +2

    pepperoncini is the best part of the salad. Lol

  • @nadiacabiness2333
    @nadiacabiness2333 Рік тому

    So happy with the daily videos!! we love seeing you guys in the Christmas spirit!! as an Olive Garden employee… i love seeing you guys at there and enjoying!!!❤

  • @heatherchajko2255
    @heatherchajko2255 Рік тому

    Me and my family love Olive Garden

  • @Emmm999
    @Emmm999 Рік тому +2

    Love your videos 🥰 kids have gotten so big! Been watching since before Jackson was born 🥹

  • @Dani-sw6il
    @Dani-sw6il Рік тому +5

    Is there a name slip when hanging up stockings?! Cant quite decipher what Tommy said in the background “And __?__ will be next to mine!!”

  • @rehima2583
    @rehima2583 Рік тому

    Happy Thursday Thanks

  • @annhoover274
    @annhoover274 Рік тому

    Omg Ellie & Jared you scared the heck out of me 🥺❤️🙏 can't wait for your daughter to be born 🙏

  • @janicemichaloski5292
    @janicemichaloski5292 Рік тому +2

    Your such a beautiful family 💕

  • @patticallihan8515
    @patticallihan8515 Рік тому +1

    Happy Thursday night to your family. It’s warm here in Northern California so we have to travel also for skiing to Tahoe not to far away.

  • @kathleenschoultz
    @kathleenschoultz Рік тому

    I love what you said in the beginning "whatever you celebrate" Thats so thoughtful of you. Not everyone celbrate christmas or celebrate something else. Remember.
    You are worthy
    You are someone
    You are the only version of "you" to ever exist in the universe
    You are great
    You are powerful
    You are special

  • @marissa9522
    @marissa9522 Рік тому +1

    Such a sweet vlog ❤

  • @meghanh2511
    @meghanh2511 Рік тому

    My cousin went to see those Christmas lights a week ago with a friend! She said it was so pretty in that park at night but freezing cold as it was just 39 degrees! You guys are so lucky yall live there.

  • @jessicabrock9404
    @jessicabrock9404 Рік тому

    Love the Dashleys!

  • @kaylapugh9622
    @kaylapugh9622 Рік тому +3

    Loved the vlog

  • @trishmcgrath7124
    @trishmcgrath7124 Рік тому +1

    Thanks guys. Great video😊.. i hear u.ellie ..nothing like clean bedding after everyones been sick.. 😅

  • @katebrotherton2946
    @katebrotherton2946 Рік тому

    ❄️I miss the snow, too!!! Just moved to TN from Clearfield, UT.

  • @UreskItAllVlogs
    @UreskItAllVlogs Рік тому

    Not only do we eat the peppers in the Olive Garden salad, we ask for extras!!! We love them. Even 2 of my kids love them.

  • @alissa1ann211
    @alissa1ann211 Рік тому +1

    Your family is so stinking sweet!!!!❤❤❤❤ love y'all so much and so excited for baby girl!!!!
    Do the boys ever fight? Lol they are just so sweet!!!!!

  • @brendachaves6375
    @brendachaves6375 Рік тому +2

  • @happyashal
    @happyashal Рік тому

    Those peppers are soooo good with pizza!

  • @meangirl05
    @meangirl05 Рік тому

    Peppercini are the best!!

  • @coxco350
    @coxco350 Рік тому +4

    Calvin’s shadow reminded me of a goat hahaha

  • @lorrainegardner6477
    @lorrainegardner6477 Рік тому

    Can you not give me a heart attack with the tumb photo. Phew glad everything is going ok

  • @hayleyrussell6601
    @hayleyrussell6601 Рік тому

    Ellie you look more and more like Bonnie as time passes I swear!!🥰

  • @mindymullenFLO
    @mindymullenFLO Рік тому

    Where are your stockings from? They are BEAUTIFUL!

  • @heatherpriest9776
    @heatherpriest9776 Рік тому

    If y'all are in Florida around Christmas time y'all should go to St Augustine and do there night of lights

  • @breezybricks23
    @breezybricks23 Рік тому +2

    Did Tommy say baby girls name when putting up their stockings?!

  • @MsLooulooute
    @MsLooulooute Рік тому +3

    OMG but why not put warm milk instead of water that’d taste so much better 🙈😋

  • @Grifftifftocool
    @Grifftifftocool Рік тому

    I thought that baby girl was a miscarriage I’m so sorry for you losses in the past

  • @myapologiesmissgurl5069
    @myapologiesmissgurl5069 Рік тому

    53 degrees is freezing for me. I live in Texas and even 80 degrees feels cool to me lol I could never be in a cold climate I hate snow

  • @Jen.E
    @Jen.E Рік тому

    Ha, 50°-60° in California feels 🥶

  • @dangeiger9796
    @dangeiger9796 Рік тому +1

    That should be an Olive Garden slogan, maybe their marketing department should hire you

  • @theshortblonde
    @theshortblonde Рік тому

    Try milk instead of water. It’s my favorite with hot chocolate!

  • @brendachaves6375
    @brendachaves6375 Рік тому +4

    Good bless your miracle baby. When is her due date? ❤

  • @rebeccac.1758
    @rebeccac.1758 Рік тому

    Jared hahaha Those peppers are NOT spicy LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @gabriellapadilla5504
    @gabriellapadilla5504 Рік тому +1

    You guys should do the hot chocolate bombs again but put warm milk first then the bomb

  • @MsMtshasta
    @MsMtshasta Рік тому +1

    Where did you order the stockings from?

  • @jh-iw5eb
    @jh-iw5eb Рік тому

    P.s.- what tea kettle do you use? I love the color. It's so pretty. I've been looking around for one but haven't been able to decide which one I like.

  • @mandalyngarrett5390
    @mandalyngarrett5390 Рік тому

    Ellie, when did you first get microblading done? Did the migraines start after it?

  • @loveablelucy87
    @loveablelucy87 Рік тому

    Try living in Scotland where I live it's minus 2 degrees here right now it's freezing 🥶 😫 😩

  • @laurenvanhomrigh31
    @laurenvanhomrigh31 Рік тому

    I just had a D&C Yesturday due to complations from a miscarriage I had 3 weeks ago.

    • @sandybarth1
      @sandybarth1 Рік тому

      I'm sorry @Lauren Van Homrigh

    • @bettydavislundell6074
      @bettydavislundell6074 Рік тому

      I'm so sorry you had to experience that. I hope you are feeling better (HUGS)

  • @danahummer765
    @danahummer765 Рік тому

    I don't wanna remember her miscarriage it made me very sad

  • @sandiebradley7362
    @sandiebradley7362 Рік тому +1

    Just a heads up…. The hot chocolate balls should have hot MILK poured over them, not water…. That’s why they seemed to be dark chocolate, you need the milk to make the drink milky! 🤭

  • @donush9139
    @donush9139 Рік тому +1

    I Love How You All Gather and Do Things Together. It's Great. Where did you get the Hot Chocolate Bombs? I love to Get Some.

  • @Josey168
    @Josey168 Рік тому +2

    You guys should definitely try hot milk next time :) much richer taste!

  • @chanalangsam8675
    @chanalangsam8675 Рік тому

    I fainted I woke up about 15 minutes ago in the hostpitwl😢

  • @wendyeroche343
    @wendyeroche343 Рік тому

    I love those. Peppers..definitely not hot..I love hot foods

  • @critterkid12
    @critterkid12 Рік тому

    lol calvin love his no you are

  • @brittneygoulding9368
    @brittneygoulding9368 Рік тому +3

    Hot cocoa HAS TO be made with milk! (In my opinion 😉). Youuu guys have an adorable family! Happy Holidays!! 🎅 🌲

  • @terrabreen3977
    @terrabreen3977 Рік тому

    Next time put the water in first then put the hot chocolate boom in next

  • @michaelaphillips4555
    @michaelaphillips4555 Рік тому

    Can I just say I ask for a small bowl of extra small bowl of extra pepperchinis

  • @megancampbell9141
    @megancampbell9141 Рік тому

    Who died

  • @danielleraymond5451
    @danielleraymond5451 Рік тому

    Did Tommy slip baby’s name?!?❤❤

  • @gigidodson
    @gigidodson Рік тому

    My daughter and i tried to make cocoa bombs several years ago.
    Not being great at crafts, the bombs looked kind of...deformed and lumpy.
    They did taste good though. Lol

  • @candicerandleman6469
    @candicerandleman6469 Рік тому

    Where did you get the hot chocolate bomb at?

  • @sarahgreenslade1219
    @sarahgreenslade1219 Рік тому

    I tried handmade hot chocolate bombs from a friend who makes them I used hot milk in mine

  • @annahendrickson5299
    @annahendrickson5299 Рік тому

    hi happy dec 8

  • @susanmcmillan3575
    @susanmcmillan3575 Рік тому +1

    My heart breaks for you having to go through that! I am so happy you are at 32 weeks! Oh weather wise, I live in Canada and the last 3 days it has been -40 to -45 which is would be the same for you guys but today we got up to -5 celsius! So 23 degrees for you and it felt like the start of spring hahahaha.

  • @Josey168
    @Josey168 Рік тому +2

    I eat them every time! 🤤

  • @erinwilcox6517
    @erinwilcox6517 Рік тому

    Love you all can't wait to see your baby girl what's her name.🥰🤰

  • @toryhilf411
    @toryhilf411 Рік тому

    What happed do penny

    • @dearleah7299
      @dearleah7299 Рік тому

      Nothing. Even when they show her, people still ask! Please pay attention.

  • @CarlosGonazelezGomezEricaGomez

    lol

  • @Tonyap7
    @Tonyap7 Рік тому

    I eat those peppers with pizza

  • @shawnahamilton4241
    @shawnahamilton4241 Рік тому +3

    Ew hot cocoa water 😅

  • @kelleynrothaermel2311
    @kelleynrothaermel2311 Рік тому +1

    No milk for your hot cocoa! So wrong! Merry Christmas!

  • @kmiller8249
    @kmiller8249 Рік тому +1

    Ew who makes hot chocolate with water lol

  • @allymarkwell891
    @allymarkwell891 Рік тому +1

    Please never make hot chocolate with water again. That is a CRIME.

    • @dearleah7299
      @dearleah7299 Рік тому

      They can make it however they choose. What they do doesn’t affect you.

    • @allymarkwell891
      @allymarkwell891 Рік тому

      @@dearleah7299 Oooh, relax hun, it was a joke.

  • @marilynkozlow8400
    @marilynkozlow8400 Рік тому +1

    Why hot water for the cocoa? That’s so odd 😂