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introvert, with no mentor, no close friends or close relatives , left old job to a new job because there was really nothing to do. new boss is a strict judging boss, me feeling like im about to faint everyday. survived two weeks now. i just want to be able to be good at my job. Pray for me.

Thank you so much for this video much needed. I started my new job as a travel advisor. Just got done with my three weeks training and I feel like I’m not catching on because English is my second language. The key to this video is about resilience and I will continue to make progress through resiliency.

I just quit a new job after 3 weeks. Why? It fit my strengths and on paper it was a good fit. The commute sucked due to traffic, there was no defined training program. They just put me at a desk and directed me the first week. No outline or structure. Too many social invitations after working hours that everyone participated in. The micromanaging of emails, SOPs and timed assignments. I knew right away that even if was a skills match the culture was not a good fit. It’s ok. Sometimes it doesn’t work out.

thank you so much for this!

This was actually great thank you

so thankful for your videos

This seemed very promising but unfortunately I feel like my situation is futile. My workplace competition was given almost all of my work and I've been left with very little. Our supervisor won't allow me to do more. They lift up my coworker to the point this coworker is outdoing the manager. I haven't done anything to fail or underperform, they just decided to out me. I'm applying to new jobs. I hate going into work now because I just get undermined by them all day. I need to keep telling myself that I deserve better.

I really like the rule book concept! Thank you for this insight.

I'm feeling anxious going back to work now after I was attack by co-worker. Took FMLA for anxiety and safe leave that this guy triggered my anxiety/depression for disrespecting me and treaten to hurt me. Hopefully can extend my leave to get me better mentally, if not then will just resign coz is not worth a risk my life on hostile environment, especially they didn't do anything to the violent guy.

Every time i am placed on the register at work and a customer has an issue? I feel like my brain turns off, i cant hear, and im frozen in panic of how to help them....and its like im great with some things but i didnt get proper training...dont know how to do returns, exchanges, or even price changes....i see my other coworkers do these things effortlessly ((even though theyve been doing this for years)). Ive made mistakes pressing the wrong button and its all wrong and having to figure out how to fix it...ugh. i wish i felt more confident...it doesnt feel like itll get better and all i want to do is run away. Praying for everyone who is struggling with anxiety and fear 😔😔

I feel my anxiety is due to negative coworkers. I don’t like it when coworkers point out your mistakes to others when you’re new and learning the job.

Thank you.❤ Your knowledge, wisdom and how well you articulate your ideas never fail to amaze me. These videos have been immensely helpful.

I’m reading all these comments and I can relate. Right now it’s been 3 months since I begin this new job. Every single Monday my brain is like a mix between anxiety and sadness. In my previous job I used to feel useful, I knew what to do. Sometimes I regret about quitting that job, but I remember what a friend of mine told me “you have to pay the price of being a beginner”, it’s not easy at all but it allows you to get out of your comfort zone and grow both in a professional and a personal way. Sometimes I feel useless, like the dumbest employee in the company.

Dear Erin, this is so helpful! Much gratitude!😊

She is only suggesting that to make a pause so you hesitate and after some time you adapt to that living hell. NO!!! don’t do that, if you decide to stay there should be only to plan your exit strategy, nothing more nothing less.

Hold off? are you out of your mind? and you call yourself a coach. OMG!!! If you feel that way, and don’t get the required support by your manager because that person also contributes to make you feel that way well just follow your gut and if that tells you that it is not the right place, just go for it and get away from that HELL!!! You are basically advising people to keep suffering and experience pain by crazy managers and a toxic working environment and culture.

Wow, this was so helpful for me and exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much 🙏🏼

Real

I can relate to this. Im trying to take it one day at a time.

This content is so helpful, thank you!

Great video

Sometimes Jimbob annoys the shit out of me. Other times we get a long just fine 😅

I’m super thankful I stumbled onto you. I’m listening to all your videos right now because I’m desperate.

thank you so much for sharing this 🥹🥹 you're a light in this world 🙏

I need your help.

It literally makes me sick. To the point where I don't want to go to work.

There are managers who make an effort to put workers into a panic/survival state to capitalize on the disruption it causes the worker and/or to motivate a worker to complete tasks as quickly as possible. It is detrimental to employees who are already highly sensitive. Seems it would be better in some cases to use positive reinforcement and being open with the employee about their growth areas instead of weaponizing a person’s fear response. Perhaps it depends on your career and if it is high stakes. I am constantly invalidating my sense of being targeted. But sometimes you feel like someone is setting you up to fail only to call you out in a disingenuous manner not to actually help you grow.

Timeless insights and advice.

This is me. I was doing a really good job as a system IT administrator and my boss thought it would be a good idea to promote me as a developer. Boy were we both wrong, I’m stressing and staying up late and not eating well because of how overwhelmingly difficult and draining it is getting used to this with no experience. I’m really looking to quit now

Management can suck a d

Your video has helped me so much, thank you.

This is very true

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Wow, you really get how I feel! Thanks so much for delving into this. I am looking for a boost of confidence at job interviews because I perform well daily but need to shine at the interview. Boosting my confidence with consistent preparation and practice.

Anxiety and stress happen only and only when you bind something with Time. When we draw lines or when someone draws a time bound line, we enter into Anxiety and stress. If you are in control always buffeer 3 x time for every task.

Tuning into your podcast now! This video really hit home!

That's me today,! Same hospital different office , change after 5 years, anxiety totally paralised me after work, I have totally felt apart and I want to run back to my old job.

Omg understand myself after this

Thank you so much!!!

I'm scared.

I am carrying the whole department on my back and still feel danger and fantasies about being terminated

I am going through this myself , just finishing my first week for a job I was very excited for when I applied, and my god it has been rough. I feel so insecure and overwhelmed, yet the job isn’t even that bad and I have good colleagues. I can’t stop questioning myself, my abilities, and it’s affected my sleep at night, my life outside of work, and I’m trying to not give up. I look forward to checking on this comment some time in the future because I don’t want to give up, just a very tempting thought to go back to my old job where I was comfortable.

holy shit....did you just change my life? Because...probably yes. This is 110% why i'm anxious about work

Love all your videos! It has helped me so much!

So what you're saying is...show up, do the work, and let the work and effort help you build your confidence, that it's okay to not be confident from the get go (even though you still shouldn't show to anyone how truly shaken you are), and that it will come to me by simply working my way up through the tasks...amazing. love that.

I can relate but didn't help when new boss was huffing and eye rolling when trying to teach me something in a manner that didn't help me learn. Other things happened and an in an arena I have not worked in before. I am on week by week trial basis, at this point I am hoping I only have 4 days more left there😂

Thanks this helped me reassure myself

Handling negative emotions effectively involves a combination of self-awareness, coping strategies, and sometimes professional support.

Is there a pill you can take to counter such anxiety and get rid of fear? Can psychiatrists help?