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I’m tired of being with this guy who wants to do things but I’m left organizing the plans. Where to go, how to get there, what to do, etc. what happened to the men who just say, I’ll be at your place at 8pm. Be ready???

Hmmm build anticipation, that’s a good one. I think most women would do like 45min to an hour because we want to see if this guy is for them.

That part

Very true. He’s right

Maaan you on point😮

I needed to see this , ion need no male friendsss thank youuuuu

When should a person share about their health challenges? Like i myself have some health challenges/disabilities. I use a mobility aid and have some needs for if I was to do an outing of some sort. When should I share a reasonable amount about what I’m dealing with? It’s not like I could hide that I have some mobility challenges and need some assistance at times.

Well, I am supposedly dating a guy who lives 2 hours away. I pulled my back out on Saturday and told him this. He has no car and no licenses. He never offered me any kind of help. Even to have a friend of his to drive down and see me. How pothetic is that. My ex came to my house and helped me. Hmmmm! And he still hasn't even bothered to ask if I am feeling better. Big red flag to me!

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So true, I had to learn these things as I went along on my own, so great to hear you say it. 👍🏼

Facts! Facts! Facts!

Thank you for your content your content is very helpful

This is how fathers should be teaching their daughters early. Ladies, heal first before you date to be more wiser.

Right!!!

So true 👍🏼

Thank you, Coach Paul. Time to take the trash out for good.

Hmmmm

This is good advice 👏

Thank you, Paul. Timely advice.

I have a doozy of a story. He pretended someone he loved died. After I investigated, looking for the obituary, I found the girl is active on social media! I know people like sympathy but this blows my mind away. 🤯🤷‍♀️

What about if you ask him for something practical that you need and he questions you like why do you need this? (Context: this triggered when my now ex and I were dating each other before we decided to make a serious commitment to each other. I am on low income and my finances were tight. I needed a new water filter maybe 25$ at the store. I told him that I needed it. Things were tight for my mom, my sister was unemployed and my dad hated to pay for anything around the house himself despite working. So i asked now ex who I was dating since he assured me that anything I needed he is happy to provide because he cares. My now ex and I were friends for a year and half before we met in person at a concert of a small online music community and started dating soon afterwards. But after me asking him and him seeing the low price he questioned me like “why do you need this and isn’t this something you could afford on your own?”. He was aware of my limited income situation and me being on disability. I explained to him that I was short for that month and could use his help. He seemed to agree afterwards. I walked away from him 10 weeks ago now. I’m just reflecting on things so I can be much more aware going forward if I meet another person a year or two from now.)

That's the truth!!!

Thanks for the video, Coach Paul! It would have greater impact if you look into the camera lens - as awkward as that can feel. It makes a difference.

So instead of working on yourself & healing and validating yourself. You go and waste a woman’s time. Men are something else. It’s no wonder a lot of women have given up with the male species. I thank the Queenmaker for the information I’ve learned about males and male nature bc it helps me to steer clear.

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Super helpful information Coach Paul! I appreciate you 💯🙏

This just saved me a lot of time. I greatly appreciate your openness about these topics.

Got it😊

Patterns not Potential ❤

Amen

Im a LEAVER, and I love that for my self esteem and peace!

Ur audio and video isn't matching each another, anyhow good tip

Right on boss. God bless💯🙏🏽

Potential is NOW 🔥🔥🔥🔥

I miss the good old days without technology. Even with great times, it was still a quieter life back then. People were not overstimulated, ‘over connecting’ to too many people and things were more natural. Much respect to you. ❤ I feel heard 🕊

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Facts

I’am waiting patiently on Gods terms. Thank you for this post

Thanks so much for this much needed message.

Great words to live by!

A whole word ❤

100% FACTS🎯

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Sir, I will never say you didn’t help us. You’re doing the work of the father figures and male loved ones who didn’t put some of us on game. Thanks for preventing some women from trial, error and heartache.

My current situation. I refuse chase him. Moving along. ❤

Yes. Thats why its important that women and men shouldnt complain when we are having ladies night or mens night. Because during that time we get to discuss our issue's and check and chastise ourselves.

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