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Nelle
United Kingdom
Приєднався 25 гру 2013
Hello everyone. On this channel I talk about my experiences after losing my hearing suddenly in the hopes that they are useful to others who are living with hearing loss. Please feel free to leave a comment if there is anything you would like me to talk about, or send me an email if you would prefer that.
Learn 3 BSL Phrases to Make Deaf Friends!
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Here is the link to my website (no pressure to purchase anything!)
www.nellefindlay.co.uk/
Please use the code 'Video50' for 50p off communication card downloads, badges, and other products.
Please use the code 'Video20' for £20 off coaching and practice sessions.
My Social Media: linktr.ee/nellefindlay
My Instagram: nellefindlay
Chapters
0:00 Introduction
0:21 Hello!
0:35 How are You?
0:56 Nice to Meet You!
1:36 Recap
1:43 Conclusion
Here is the link to my website (no pressure to purchase anything!)
www.nellefindlay.co.uk/
Please use the code 'Video50' for 50p off communication card downloads, badges, and other products.
Please use the code 'Video20' for £20 off coaching and practice sessions.
My Social Media: linktr.ee/nellefindlay
My Instagram: nellefindlay
Chapters
0:00 Introduction
0:21 Hello!
0:35 How are You?
0:56 Nice to Meet You!
1:36 Recap
1:43 Conclusion
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Do I hear my Thoughts and what Language do I think in? [subtitled]
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Thank you for watching. Please leave any comments below and don't forget to leave a like and subscribe. If you want to. Here is the link to my website (no pressure to purchase anything!) www.nellefindlay.co.uk/ Please use the code 'Video50' for 50p off communication card downloads, badges, and other products. Please use the code 'Video20' for £20 off coaching and practice sessions. My Social Me...
Nearity Hearpod Air Review
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Thank you for watching. Please be aware that this video is made in collaboration with NEARITY and the product was provided to me for free in exchange for a video. Please leave any comments below and don't forget to leave a like and subscribe. If you want to. No pressure. NEARITY HearPod Air-Official Website: hearpod.nearity.co/ NEARITY HearPod Air-Amazon: www.amazon.com/dp/B0CWP6R1GV?ref=myi_ti...
How to Assemble Communication Cards into Mini Photo Album
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Thank you for watching. Please leave any comments below and don't forget to leave a like and subscribe. If you want to. Here is the link to my website (no pressure to purchase anything!) www.nellefindlay.co.uk/ Please use the code 'Video50' for 50p off communication card downloads, badges, and other products. Please use the code 'Video20' for £20 off coaching and practice sessions. My Social Me...
I'm launching a shop! Communication tools, Badges, and Coaching Sessions.
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Thank you for watching. Please leave any comments below and don't forget to leave a like and subscribe. If you want to. No pressure. Here is the link to my website (no pressure to purchase anything!) www.nellefindlay.co.uk/ Please use the code 'Video50' for 50p off communication card downloads badges. Please use the code 'Video20' for £20 off coaching and practice sessions. My Social Media: lin...
EASY ways you can Accommodate your AUTISM
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Getting your hair cut with hearing devices
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Channel Welcome video
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Drive to work with me 4th September 2024
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Thank you for watching. Please leave any comments below and don't forget to leave a like and subscribe. If you want to. No pressure. Resources mentioned: ukfossils.co.uk/ ukdeafsport.org.uk/ lexi.global/ My Social Media: linktr.ee/nellefindlay My Instagram: nellefindlay
Making the Most of your Radio Aid (with subtitles)
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Watch this before buying perfume [CC]
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Thank you for watching. Please let me know if you've ever tried any of these and what you thought of them. Here is the link to the website: blossomperfumery.co.uk/ My Instagram: nellefindlay
The ethics of curing disability, My views.
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Thank you for watching. Please let me know what you think about this topic in the comments. Please remember to be kind when talking about this sensitive topic. My Instagram: nellefindlay
Which is better? Sign language or speech?
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Thank you for watching. Please let me know what you think about this topic in the comments. :) My Instagram: nellefindlay
Things I keep in my car [CC]
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Thank you for watching. Please let me know if you have any questions or recommendations in the comments. My Instagram: nellefindlay
Cleaning Essentials for Small Space, Student Accommodation, Shared House (subtitled)
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Cleaning Essentials for Small Space, Student Accommodation, Shared House (subtitled)
Can hearing people teach sign language? (From a modern foreign languages and Deaf perspective)
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Can hearing people teach sign language? (From a modern foreign languages and Deaf perspective)
Aidapt vibration alarm clock unboxing and first impressions. [OC] English/Español
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Aidapt vibration alarm clock unboxing and first impressions. [OC] English/Español
Someday at Christmas BSL Cover at the local community choir Christmas concert. [OC]
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Someday at Christmas BSL Cover at the local community choir Christmas concert. [OC]
How I got diagnosed as autistic in 2010 as a lower support needs girl.
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How I got diagnosed as autistic in 2010 as a lower support needs girl.
My Image Stabilisation is Turned Off. What is Oscillopsia?
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My Image Stabilisation is Turned Off. What is Oscillopsia?
How to change hearing aid tubes #deaf #deafawareness #hearingloss #hearingaids
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How to change hearing aid tubes #deaf #deafawareness #hearingloss #hearingaids
A Day in my Life as a Deaf and Autistic University Student [CC]
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A Day in my Life as a Deaf and Autistic University Student [CC]
How I learn new words as a deaf, languages student [CC]
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How I learn new words as a deaf, languages student [CC]
Why you might want a Sign Language Interpreter at University BSL/SSE [CC]
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Why you might want a Sign Language Interpreter at University BSL/SSE [CC]
Starting my second year at University. Video in BSL/SSE. [CC] English and Spanish
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Starting my second year at University. Video in BSL/SSE. [CC] English and Spanish
All the hearing related technology I use [OC] English/Español
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All the hearing related technology I use [OC] English/Español
Can people with mild hearing loss call themselves deaf? [OC] English/Español
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Can people with mild hearing loss call themselves deaf? [OC] English/Español
Guide to deaf culture (please don't take this too seriously)[OC] English/Español
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Guide to deaf culture (please don't take this too seriously)[OC] English/Español
Why "everyone has a label these days" and why it's not a bad thing. [OC]
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Why "everyone has a label these days" and why it's not a bad thing. [OC]
Hi Nelle, I'm also profoundly deaf with both my ears, I'm 23 years old Indian, and having alots of doubts regarding same , could you please let me know which implant you're using RN, how many it costs and how is it's sound quality etc...do you use any social media platform where we can have a short conversation via Chat??
Youre an inspiration
I can still hear in one ear
Theres kids playing and birds singing in your video
Take my family's blessing
God rest your dear family member and bless your family.
Had the injections
My balance is bad
Eloquently put❤
God bless you for speaking❤
Hi Nelle! My son is 22 and has a CI since the age of 7. I have gone with him to the hairdresser etc , like your mum, and over time he has gained confidence in explaining his needs. I’m so pleased you’re helping to inform people.❤ from NZ
I thought that my moderate to severe is the big thing to deal with but honestly i got traumatised watching this video and wanna cry
thank you very much for making this video, it cleared up a lot of questions i was wondering about. i'd like to ask about something specific: i have a character who's a contract killer who uses hearing aids because he uses firearms a lot and it damaged his hearing over time. since he's a professional hitman he gets into physical fights occasionally, so i was wondering how easy is it to knock hearing aids out of someone's ear? is it really nestled in there or can it be dislodged by a punch or a kick? also, how durable are hearing aids? do they break easily?
I want to thank you for this video. I’ll be getting an cochlear implant for my left ear most likely just after the first of the year. I’m trying to get educated on what to expect and after watching your video I now have a better idea. I will be wearing a regular hearing aid in my right ear. I was wondering how the sounds would be Ave you described that perfectly. So again thank you so much for making this video. It has really helped me.
I still want to know what make and model aid is in your left ear?
You are awesome!!! Thank you for posting this comparison as i need to choose which cochlear manufacturer to go with in 2 months. Like you, i had roger mic in university, but wanted to how it compares to the mini mic 2+ . This really helps! Thank you!!!
Dear Nelle, please post more BSL videos. This one was very clear and informative. Thank you.
Dude! If this is the perspective of listening to music with such an implant, then I want to shoot myself. I really hope this is just a glimpse of a temporary stage.
Profound deafness isn’t real they are Neanderthals! Their mothers shoved their heads up their vaginas after birth in hopes they would want to preform oral sex on them! Stop this madness!! Expose Saskatchewan for what it is!!
I am an SLP teaching deaf/HOH students how to speak more clearly. I am always looking to learn more, and your video was very helpful. The only difference I heard with your CI's off was that you left off a few of the high frequency sounds, such as K, S, and T. Your speech is beautiful.
Thank you for your input. Some people have told me that I do that when I'm tired as well so it's interesting that you noticed it when I have my processor off.
@@nellefindlay It was minimal, and barely noticeable to me (and I am trained). I appreciate your video so much because I am currently working with deaf and hard of hearing high school students who want to improve their speech. I am struggling because I am finding little to no evidence-based research regarding best practices for this therapy. Your speech in this video was so fabulous that it gives me hope.
I very much appreciate this video! It provided some great insight into what to do and not to do, thank you so much! I am in the beginning phases of making a story with a completely deaf herbalist as the protagonist in a low fantasy world. I am personally leaning towards her not having any hearing aids or implants, so I was curious what other ways she might be able to communicate with those that do not know signing. Particularly, she will be forced to team up with a Hunter who is too impatient to write things down. I want there to be tension between them but I also want to find a reasonable way for their relationship to develop as their communication develops.
This sounds super cool. There are plenty of ways for her to communicate without hearing aids or implants with people who don't know sign language. The most obvious of which is just writing things down, but there are also transcription apps (assuming that makes sense for your setting) that work surprisingly well. Lipreading is also an option for simple stuff, but not great for long conversations. I hope this is helpful. Good luck with writing your story.
@@nellefindlay much appreciated! Thank you!
So i'm a pretty avid world builder, so anyone reading this will probably by missing out on a lot of detail without me writing a literal novel but i am very starved of any feedback for my work, which has led me here in regards to a character of mine with moderate hearing loss. He has HAs, but doesn't like to use them, so one of the questions i want to ask is if it's ok to describe someone's BTE hearing aids as tangeled or "Dingy"/"Grimy", not to insult the character or to showcase them in a bad light, but to show that he doesn't like to use them/doesn't care to maintain them? Also, he lost some of his hearing due to a faulty grenade exploding while he was holding it, but initially, he ended up with profound hearing loss from that, so i wanna ask if you think it if could be offensive to some for him to recover up to moderate?
Firstly, hearing aids do get super dingy and grimy if you don't look after them. That's just a fact. They don't really get tangled though so maybe don't describe them like that. I would just say for sensitivity, just make sure that it's clear that you're saying the hearing aids are grimy because he doesn't clean them rather than hearing aids being inherently disgusting, I'm sure you already know this. I don't think having someone recover some degree of hearing after having an accident that caused hearing loss is offensive at all. It just depends how it's treated. I think creating a story where the narrative suggests that the character's life is sad and miserable because they are deaf and then regaining their hearing miraculously fixes all their problems then that is what can be offensive, not the improvement of hearing in itself.
@@nellefindlay Thank you very much for the detailed answer, i don't really use this character's disabilities as a plot device/narrative tool very much, his hearing loss, even if it had been more severe, doesn't really impact his quality of life/happiness much, so i think i'm in the green
I wonder if they will ever incorporate binaural information onto the sound so that you can focus on individual sound sources.(edit, i understand that two implants would be better for the stereo aspect, and much better for the binaural cues).
Your sperch is excellent. Did you receive the implants young?
No, I received my cochlear implant 3 years ago. The reason my speech is very clear is that I developed my hearing loss as an adult so I had already learned to speak.
Hi, Do you know hearing aid ear holding clip available in UK
It depends on exactly what you're looking for, if you want a simple safety line that clips to your clothes, you can just buy them online if you google 'hearing aid retention line'. Connevans sells EarGear which is a slightly fancier option, but very good if you have a more active lifestyle or for people who are less careful with their hearing aids or implants.
This popped up on my recommended page and I think it's pretty interesting to talk about! I'm not autistic or deaf and I only know English. I think in images, feelings, and words. I can hear words in my head, but I don't always think in words. A lot of the time, when I am thinking of something I will visualize it and experience feelings around it. I feel like I intuitively know what my emotions are and what they mean, but I sometimes have difficulty putting them into words. So, it's a bit of a mix for me.
Thanks for sharing this, Nelle. <3
Woow, that's so interesting! I have a similar process of thinking (abstracts, images, words on writing, the way words feel). Suspect I'm autistic as well. I'm a hearing person who switches between languages a lot, fluent in 3. To me speaking second language is about mastering speech patterns and music (pauses, tones, intonations), and words just fall into their places. Sometimes, when I struggle I translate words in my head, flashcard style :D Thank you for making and sharing this video! 🍁
Thank you!
This was brilliant and excellent explanations. The only thing is that you said two reasons to not get one are that it isn’t suitable, or you don’t want one, and they are the only two reasons. But the third separate reason, as you mentioned later, is that some cannot afford, so I suppose that is a third separate reason. All the questions were really interesting.
Sometimes i will temporarily lose hearing in one ear,.. but i want to know if anyone else has the feeling of hollowness in a deaf ear? I hate that feeling. Its worse than having mild tinnitus.
i just having bad days and lost of hearing in addition to tinnitus. not only that im experience dizzinez and what not.. cochlear implant was discussed and when i watched this video i knew and pointed at this video and said: I told you.. i knew you would hear people talk litk robotic kind of and i said to my sister: What if i hear you as a man voice? soooo, i dont know wherer i want this but i have sevear hearing lost and almost hear nothing. This seems my only choice, so im bit nervous and bit sad when you said you wont hear as you did before, i am gonna miss the difference.. the variaty of sound.
It's completely up to you what you want to do. My experience is that the robotic sound doesn't really bother me and I just view my implant as a tool to make my life easier rather than as something to fix my hearing. Cochlear implants are not your only choice however, you could decide to go down the sign language route or learn another communication strategy such as cued speech. Also transcriptions apps are pretty good now and a transcription app with a Bluetooth microphone can be a pretty good communication tool. I personally have found my cochlear implant incredibly useful and if I'm ever bothered by the sound, I just take off the processor. It's really important to remember though that you always have a choice and you have more than one option.
Thank you for creating this, very helpful I have a scene where my Deaf MC gets irritated and takes off their cochlear before cleaning up after dinner -- absolutely going to be throwing that thing on the fridge now 💜
Yes 100% authentic representation.
Hey Nelle!! Nice to see your another video. Keep doing hard work and keep sharing your life. It’s very motivating for me😊.
Hi Nelle. Deborah here Great review from you and your Dad. One question; can you adjust high and low frequencies or is it just volumes? Many thanks
I think it's just volume as far as I'm aware :)
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I think you might have vestibular schwannoma, known as acoustic neuroma. You should go and get an MRI of your inner ear right away
Don't worry, I already had an MRI when I got my cochlear implant to check for that. I don't have one. I have a different balance disorder. I just have bilateral vestibular hypofunction.
@@nellefindlay how come does this cause deafness? Isnt it only about dizziness?
Not really sure where I would fall within the deaf community so my thoughts may be irrelevant (for context, I have bilateral moderate reverse slope hearing loss and wear hearing aids). That said, I’ve made the decision to learn sign language for another method of communication in the event I fully lose my hearing in the future. I don’t really care either way whether the instructor is hearing or not, as long as they know the language fluently or at an advanced level.
I am new in my hearing loss journey. Diagnosed with SSHL just 2 months ago. I am in the process of considering a CI. I have profound loss in one ear without any loss in my other. It’s very hard for me to understand how my brain will process sounds. Do sounds still sound like this for you or does it change with time and adjustments? Sorry for the dumb questions! I’m just overwhelmed at this point!
Hi, for me things do still sound quite robotic. Many people do say that cochlear implants sound completely natural for them after a while but it varies for everyone. Please don't apologise for having completely normal questions! Getting a cochlear implant is a big decision and it's really important to make sure you have as much information as possible. I'm deaf in both ears so I can't give any specific advice for single sided deafness, but since you have a good ear, that does open up more options for you with regards to technology, if you haven't already, and you're not 100% set on a CI, it might be worth looking into CROS hearing aids or bone conduction hearing devices, just to consider all your options.
I am new in my hearing loss journey. Diagnosed with SSHL just 2 months ago. I am in the process of considering a CI. I have profound loss in one ear without any loss in my other. It’s very hard for me to understand how my brain will process sounds. Do sounds still sound like this for you or does it change with time and adjustments? Sorry for the dumb questions! I’m just overwhelmed at this point!
This video was really informative! I was diagnosed with moderate reverse slope hearing loss earlier this year and my hearing aids only do so much. These devices look like they could be incredibly helpful! I’ve been relying on noise canceling headphones to help hear lectures for my online classes. Even with closed captions, I’m still missing vital information. This could be the answer to that problem! Thank you for this video!
Do you ship to the U.S.? I like the idea of the communication cards!
Hi, the pdf is an instant download so it can be downloaded anywhere in the world and then you print it yourself. The mini photo album would probably be more expensive shipping to the US so you might want to order it from elsewhere, just check the measurements are right!
I’m always too quiet! which always confused me bc i think it’s expected to talk louder if you can hear yourself less. but I think I hear my own voice through my bones so I always think it’s louder than it is, and when I’m wearing my hearing aid I can kind of hear everything (including my voice) from an ‘outside perspective’ if that makes any sense lol so I actually speak audibly!
I like being able to (somewhat) decide when I want to hear the world or not, especially since I have sensory sensitivity to sound bc I’m neurodivergent :)
Me too, I'm autistic and being able to turn off the sound can be super helpful for me, especially since hearing through my cochlear implant is pretty overwhelming for me.
@@nellefindlay yeah I'm autistic too :P it's definitely handy, though I do listen to music so much through my hearing aid that I usually have to pause it before I can hear people talking to me which is a bit counterproductive haha
My girlfriend just got in a terrible car accident by a deaf driver. They couldn’t hear the horns in front of them…
I'm truly sorry to hear about your girlfriend's accident, and I hope she’s doing okay. It’s understandable to feel upset after an experience like that. However, it's important to know that deaf people are legally allowed to drive in most places because research and statistics show that hearing is not required to be a safe and responsible driver. Deaf drivers often develop heightened visual awareness and use other senses to stay safe on the road. I hope this brings a bit of understanding to the topic, but again, I’m really sorry to hear about the accident and hope your girlfriend is recovering well.
Well deserved 🎉❤ congratulations my dear friend 🎉❤
Hi nelle🌹well done for launching your new shop with deaf products and other things! I don't have a working printer yet so cannot print those off,do you have badges that you clip on to clothes? There are some great things on your shop,I do like the shoes so I hope you get a lot of sales,it's getting close to you getting your 2nd implant,I am happy to have contributed a little bit towards it! You will make the most of a 2nd implant,your young and your life going forward will be a lot better,I know what a struggle it was with hearing aids,I am at the end of the road with mine😥🦻🦻
Nelle, congratulations on starting your business, I love this idea and hope that people take advantage of your products!! You're a great role model ❤🌹
Thank you so much!
@@nellefindlay Nelle, back in the mid 70's I went to college, yeah I'm old 69 actually. I went as a business major and the college at the time had their semesters broken into quarters. So you went to classes 3/4 of the year and then did what was termed a co-op for 1/4 of the year. The idea behind this is that you would work in your field of study for that 1/4 and gain experience in that field. When it was my turn to go work the college didn't have any placements in business. So they asked if I would be willing to take a placement in an education program that no one had taken, the reason for this was to keep the position open and the college wouldn't lose it as a work study. I would be paid so I agreed to interview for it. Turns out it was a program funded by a university to give student teachers a place to get experience. What I didn't know was that it was for autistic young adults that had no social skills at all and the idea was to try to raise they're skill level to a point where they could possibly interact with others. This was completely foreign to me but I was offered the job and took it. I was in a world that I had never experienced, the students were self abusive, aggressive towards other students and staff, non verbal and needed assistance with all phases of every day life. I questioned my judgment the first week there because I was not use to this kind of thing. I'm going to shorten this and jump ahead. I completed my semester, the staff was excellent and we became very close because we needed each other for our students and our own safety. It was sad to leave and return to school and when my next co-op came around the college asked if I would go back and do it again for the same reasons....I said yes. And when I graduated I went back to work there until the program was shut down due to the lack of student teachers the university had in its program. It was a amazing experience and I actually met the woman who I would marry who had been a student teacher at the same time I was there. I hope I didn't bore you with the story, I've actually been a sub of yours for years. Hope you're doing great!!
Hi Nelle, just watched your video on robotic speech sound. My new implant, activated two months ago, has normal speech sound not the robotic sound you demonstrated; however, I experience sound feedback and whistling, which over whelms the speech and is very annoying. Have you experienced a whistling feedback, and if so, how did your audiologist fix? I also have a very low static hum in background and Currently my Oticon hearing aid on my left ear balances out the sound but, like you I miss bits of conversations in noisy crowded rooms. Also liked your video on how you’ve implemented the various accessories, I need to get on that.
Hi, I haven't experienced that at all. I have only experienced the robotic speech, but not whistling or feedback. I hope your audiologist can help you get that sorted. I'm glad you've found my video useful. It's definitely worth using the accessories, but sometimes it's easy to forget.
Super video❤❤😊😊
Thanks 🤗
You're awesome Nelle! ❤
Thank you!
Good tips. I've avoided getting my hair done for the last 4 years. Taking off the hearing aid and not having an understanding hairdresser was very stressful. The last few visits were not pleasant, so I've pretty much given up. Maybe I'll try again if I can find the right one.
Hi Nelle! I’ve been watching your videos since I found your channel last week. They’re really great! I have a unilateral hearing loss due to a Cholesteatoma. I had 2 ear surgeries this year to address the issues that brought along with it. My HL journey sort of catapulted me into the Hearing Care world because I find it fascinating. So much so that I decided to change my career! So, I’m currently in school to earn my license in Hearing Aid dispensing! It’s really interesting and quite valuable to listen to your experience with your cochlear implant. Thank you for sharing with us! I hope you’re able to get your second one too 🙂
Thank you for sharing. Good luck with your qualification. :)
@@nellefindlay thank you!