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Miss Lonelyhearts & the Spiritual Despair Novel | A Deep Dive into Zen, N. Hawthorne, & CONNECTION!!
Well, friends, I had my mind utterly blown by the Greatest Novel of Spiritual Despair that has ever been written (minus, you know, Notes from the Underground), and that is Nathanael West's:
MISS LONELYHEARTS !!! (!!!!)
We begin today's ZenCon video in medias res as we dive into West's novel and have our hearts utterly broken on...page 2. Miss Lonelyhearts is a guy who works at a newspaper and tries to answer life/relationship problems from that paper's readers. Unable to address their suffering -- and his own -- our tortured protagonist takes us on a journey into his own Dante-esque heart of darkness.
This video is an exploration of spiritual despair as novelists like Nathanael West, Joan Didion, Osamu Dazai, and of course Dostoyevsky tackle it. We then pivot to ... as you might have guessed ... Adventures in a Zen Buddhist Monastery, where we explore possible real-life answers to the problem of despair.
But before that, I'm afraid I have to let you in on my own pre-monastery Phase of Spiritual Despair. This involved, well, some (ahem) substances, a professional dancer, a gay club, a skeezy boyfriend, more substances, and ultimately (drumroll please), a Phantom Pregnancy!
Oh, and I forgot: a large mess made at 9am on a Tuesday morning in the middle of a Korean Christian Church.
But I digress.
My point is, the Spiritual Despair Novel offers an awesome critique of contemporary materialistic/neoliberal/post-capitalistic/Zuckified/Muskian/soulkilling/blahblah society, BUT ... after one closes such a novel, one has the opportunity to dig one's way out of one's OWN despair by manfesting (wait for it...) CONNECTION, which is all that Zen really teaches in the end.
Friends, I got rolling and made a longer video this time, so I have cut it up into chapters if you want to skip around and avoid some of my, um, more overheated moments....
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0:00 Intro
2:09 Miss Lonelyhearts, Opening Chapters
4:13 This Book's Style? Uh, Cray-Cray!!
12:10 The Spiritual Despair Ball Is Now Rolling, friends!!
14:32 The Advice Columnist as 20th Century Priest
16:07 Miss Lonelyhearts Charges Towards its Superheated CLIMAX!
17:46 When Characters from a Spiritual Despair Novel COME TO LIFE at a Monastery!
19:21 Miss Lonelyhearts, the CLIMAX
20:39 Quite Untoward Stories from my OWN Spiritual Despair Phase...
21:41 MDMA/GAY CLUB/AWESOME INSIGHT Tangent...
24:45 That One Dancer Lover (hooo-boy!)
26:28 The Problem with Ecstasy
27:29 The Climax of My Own Real Life Spiritual Despair Novel!
29:55 The Romantic Illusion of Self-Destruction
31:39 Leonard Cohen's "Problems of the Heart"
32:40 Zen as a Response to Despair
34:07 Don't Listen to Your Own Mind
36:23 The Antidote to Despair Is CONNECTION
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Zen, Leadership, & Presidential Debates!
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A couple weeks ago, I woke up . . . and two (very) older gentlemen were shouting at each other on clips all over the internet! Apparently there had been some kind political debate the previous evening?? As it turns out, I used to be the Prime Minister of a very very tiny mountaintop nation we'll call Zenistan. As shika/head monk/Prime Minister of this miniature community of occasionally (often?...
When the Fit Hits the Shan! A Deep Dive into the Four Noble Truths in Buddhism
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When tragedy strikes, Who ya gonna call? BU-DDHISM! (Sorry, Zoomers. That's a Ghostbusters reference.) Listen! The 4 Noble Truths in Buddhism present the tradition's deepest teachings in the pithiest of packages, and after a recent FLOOD in my girlfriend's apartment...followed by a friend's medical emergency ON THE SAME DAY... I spent some time meditating on the 4 Noble Truths. This video is a ...
Jordan Peterson & Gay Pride | The Question of a Creative God | Bro, are you afraid of a WILD GOD??!!
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Intro: 0:00 Pride, the Cardinal Sin: 3:20 Pride or Ego in Zen Buddhism: 4:50 Vienna Pride 2024, a Grandpa Rant: 9:59 My Poorly Put but Nonetheless Important Question for Jordan Peterson: 17:12 This past weekend I returned from the Vienna Gay Pride parade to find…(insert menacing sound cue) Jordan Peterson (!!) in my social media feed lecturing me on how Gay Pride is arguably a celebration of th...
To the young man who asked: WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH MY LIFE???
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I have the BEST Patrons ever! Not surprising, then, that one of them asked me the BEST question ever. You ready?? This young man asked: WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH MY LIFE?? In this week's video I offer this young man 4 things to consider re: his question. 1) An actress who gave up her career right after she'd starred in a movie alongside Neo himself, Keanu Reeves, told me why she quit Hollywood to t...
Should You Share the Teachings of Teachers Who Commit Sexual Misconduct?
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"How can you share your teacher's work due to all the suffering he caused from his sexual misconduct?" Someone left this comment on one of my UA-cam videos. It's a very important question and one I attempt to address in this new video. Ultimately what I've learned is that the teachings, if they're true, don't belong to the teacher. As a Zen practitioner your path is to stand on your own two fee...
Solving Problems Through Meditation! | Using Personal Problems to Power Your Sits!
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This is the video I am NOT supposed to make. Because Zazen meditation is NOT supposed to be practiced for some end. It is an end in and of itself!! Yes yes yes. Buuuuut.... In this video we unpack the delicate and highly helpful topic of meditating on difficult problems in order to solve them. First, we discuss the fundaments of Zazen practice. Sitting and breathing; posture and breath. I've fo...
How to Give Blessings | Marilyn Robinson and the Art of the Sacred
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Ok friends! I have got a doosey for you today!! This video covers a recent personal experience wherein I experienced the power of BLESSINGS not a topic usually covered on Zen Confidential, wouldn't ya say?? But! Before we begin on the content of this video.... What this topic has gotten me thinking about is how BLESSED I am to have awesome Patrons over on patreon.com/ShozanJackHaubner! Hence, t...
Is Enlightenment BORING?? | Enlighten-meh!! | Hyakujo's Fox Koan
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0:00 Intro 1:29 RIP Bodhi Tree (a brief digression) 2:16 Is the Buddha World BORING? 5:35 The Buddha World and the Human World 8:58 Let's Talk GRANDMA ZEN, baby! 12:11 The Source of Everything IS? Emptiness! 13:19 Ya Can't Fit Heaven into Yer Tiny Ego 15:42 Born Screaming...for fulfillment 19:15 Emptiness Equals FREEEEDOM!! Enlightenment? How about enlighten-meh!! A Patron sent me an email quot...
Thrive from Failure! | 3 Life Lessons I've Gained from F****** Up!
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Failure! Everybody experiences it, nobody likes it. Tonight I got a rejection slip for a piece I submitted to a magazine, and instead of crying in my beer, metaphorically speaking well, AFTER crying into my metaphorical beer, that is I came up with 3 life lessons that I've taken away from my various failures in life. 1) Let failure soften and open your heart and mind. Your project bombed. Your ...
How to Manifest Samurai Love!! | Set Boundaries so MOFOs don't step up on you!!
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A lovely Patron emailed me with a problem. His ex is mentally unstable and his brother is a drug addict. Both of them are trying to take advantage of him. How can he set boundaries?? I learned how to set boundaries at the monastery. In this video I tell the story about how a, ahem, somewhat off-kilter nun once threatened me with a knife. I had to create a boundary with her, and also with my tea...
How to Answer the Greatest Koan Ever! You in Gutei's house now baby!!
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Case #3 of the Mumonkan "Gutei's finger" is, admittedly, bat crazy. It's also one of the most profound teachings in Zen Buddhism! As luck would have it, I recently got a book of my teacher's transcribed talks (said book revealed to you here in a special "Unboxing Segment"!!). In this book my teacher unpacks Gutei's One-Fingered Zen and brings us to some pretty dang profound conclusions! The sto...
Should You Move to a Monastery??
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Many are the emails I receive from curious seekers who are fed the heck up with everyday life. They want to know if it's time for them to move to a monastery! Well, there are three ways to move to a Zen monastery. You can move there for a weekend retreat, or zazenkai. Or, how about for a little longer: a 7 day Dai-Sesshin retreat. Or...how about for a whole LOT longer, i.e. you enter the monast...
The Story of the Buddha | With a twist! | Bring your hunger to the Light
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The Story of the Buddha | With a twist! | Bring your hunger to the Light
A Deep Dive into a Zen Master's "Teisho" Talk
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A Deep Dive into a Zen Master's "Teisho" Talk
Laugh Your A** Off! | The Spirit of Play in Zen
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Laugh Your A Off! | The Spirit of Play in Zen
Woke Buddhist Rituals
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Woke Buddhist Rituals
Does Sam Harris Lack Empathy?
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Does Sam Harris Lack Empathy?
The Zen Cure for Low Self Esteem!
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The Zen Cure for Low Self Esteem!
What to Do When You're HAVING A MELTDOWN!!
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What to Do When You're HAVING A MELTDOWN!!
Can You "Induce" a Spiritual Experience??
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Can You "Induce" a Spiritual Experience??
3 Practices for When You Just CAN'T Meditate | Off-the-book Zen practices for laypeople!
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3 Practices for When You Just CAN'T Meditate | Off-the-book Zen practices for laypeople!
Zen & Christianity!! | Can You Be a Zen Catholic??
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Zen & Christianity!! | Can You Be a Zen Catholic??
Can Only Monks Become Enlightened? A response to Brad Warner's response to Johnny Samadhi
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Can Only Monks Become Enlightened? A response to Brad Warner's response to Johnny Samadhi
The Greatest Book of the 20th Century You Never Heard of!
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The Greatest Book of the 20th Century You Never Heard of!
Eat Like a Monk & Become a Food Buddha! | Defeat the Culinary Industrial Complex!!
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Eat Like a Monk & Become a Food Buddha! | Defeat the Culinary Industrial Complex!!
The Path Is Not TO the Monastery but THROUGH the Monastery
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The Path Is Not TO the Monastery but THROUGH the Monastery
The Only Zen Meditation Instruction You'll Ever Need | How to Meditate Anywhere Anytime Anyhow!
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The Only Zen Meditation Instruction You'll Ever Need | How to Meditate Anywhere Anytime Anyhow!
Social Justice in Buddhism | Are therapy & activism a distraction from the Dharma?
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Social Justice in Buddhism | Are therapy & activism a distraction from the Dharma?
Embrace the Sh**show!
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Embrace the Sh show!

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @CrossRoadPhoto
    @CrossRoadPhoto 16 годин тому

    "you better wash your bowl!" ❤

  • @MegaYupthatsme
    @MegaYupthatsme День тому

    What i took away as the cornerstone or Buddhist philosophy is "your own selfish desire is the cause of your own suffering" i dont know how u can claim to be a Buddhist AND have a negative view of the Bibles warning of pride. It seems to be one in the same. And when major religions agree i take notice.

  • @jerryalder2878
    @jerryalder2878 3 дні тому

    The self destruction option is along the corridor and is far from glamourous. Thanks for this talk. Saw the film 'Perfect days' last weekend and wondered if you will be doing a review of it ?

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 3 дні тому

      I really really wanted to do a review of it...then I didn't. But I really really need to do a review of it. It's a beautiful film.

  • @kevindole1284
    @kevindole1284 4 дні тому

    Thomas Ligotti

  • @Buddhamonkeydevil
    @Buddhamonkeydevil 4 дні тому

    One of my all time favorites The Last Temptation of Christ by Nikos Kazantzakis is my go to spiritual despair novel. I do like most of what I've read of Nathaniel West as well... Excellent video(s)...

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 4 дні тому

      Never read the book but the movie had a profound impact on me way back when, thank you! Gonna check it out.

  • @eiko6171
    @eiko6171 5 днів тому

    “…you can see the back of thier super red throats- see thier tongues drying out as they’re giving you these monologues…” 😂 ALL Right Already- I’m buying yer damn book 😂 (pls never stop sharing about what you’re reading- it’s becoming my fave section of the Interwebs 😍)

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 5 днів тому

      Thank you my friend, I'm working on a new video about a new book I LOVE!!

  • @jonwesick2844
    @jonwesick2844 5 днів тому

    "Revolutionary Road," by Richard Yates

  • @tinadeemc8728
    @tinadeemc8728 5 днів тому

    Thanks, Jack! The near end of this video triggered a deeper connection with the koan I'm currently working on! Imagine me minding my business, clipping my nails, listening to a little Jack Haubner lol then BAM a sudden realization.

  • @macdougdoug
    @macdougdoug 5 днів тому

    Question : can zazen exhaust us and allow for connection with the world, in the absence of any dramatic kensho? Is it possible to be free of suffering by simple regular sitting?

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 5 днів тому

      Absolutely. Kensho schmensho. Seriously. If you sit angling for kensho you're like a mother who does good things for her children only cos she's angling for love, affection, and attention for herself. Sit selflessly and forget kensho/satori/enlightement and all the other carrots. You'll get strong this way. Stronger than kensho!!

  • @user-yh5ln4zw7w
    @user-yh5ln4zw7w 5 днів тому

    Good video man

  • @urbanslamal4900
    @urbanslamal4900 5 днів тому

    Instantly ordered the book... 🤣

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 5 днів тому

      Full disclosure . . . it's, um, dated in a lot of ways, I was just looking through it and read some stuff that is really challenging. BUT the book takes zero prisoners and is struggling towards a transcendent perspective that it actually achieves through the godperfect prose in spots.

    • @urbanslamal4900
      @urbanslamal4900 5 днів тому

      @@zenconfidential25 Thanx for the warning! I hope after Burroughs novels and Kronenberg movies in my youth I might be able to handle this... 🤣🤣

    • @TYPHON2713
      @TYPHON2713 5 днів тому

      ​@@zenconfidential25whoa buddy, I just got back from ordering this at the local library. I'm only 3 minutes into your video. Please warn me if there are spoilers. I'm reading "The stranger" while waiting for my order of "Single White Monk" to arrive

  • @Nalber3
    @Nalber3 5 днів тому

    This video reminded me to the novel of Luigi Pirandello: One, none and hundred thousand. It deals more with the identity/personality that we take for granted and imagine that every single person we encounter also shares that experience of our persona. So when he realizes is not the case he goes insane and acts in the most unpredictable way. It has that fiction-nonfiction taste you mentioned. I'll will check Miss Lonelyhearts, thank you!

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 5 днів тому

      It's a heck of a book. Really impacted me. Thanks for the comment!

  • @tmasterp
    @tmasterp 5 днів тому

    You reminded me what this book was called I had read it maybe 6 years ago and it left my memory. What about the second story? Or maybe just my edition included the other story. I remember it reminded me of the beat guys from the 60s. Love it thanks.

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 5 днів тому

      My edition just has Miss Lonelyhearts. His other book, I think Day of the Locusts, I read decades ago but am thinking about picking it up again. Then again...maybe I'll cool off first. This book was like a red hot poker in both my eyeballs straight through to my brain!!

  • @Zonaskiosk1
    @Zonaskiosk1 5 днів тому

    Wow! You are a great book reviewer also😊 I love your teachings! Greetings from Amsterdam Netherlands

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 5 днів тому

      Wow, thank you! That's very kind. And greetings to you from Vienna Austria!!

  • @tractorpoodle
    @tractorpoodle 5 днів тому

    Only dogs can become enlightened.

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 5 днів тому

      Finally, a comment on this channel that I can fully agree with!!

  • @spricegtr
    @spricegtr 6 днів тому

    I don't think you should turn your back on his teachings or even the man. You learned from him and loved him and I genuinely think that's great. People are complex. The problem for me, someone without the benefit of years with the man in a different capacity, is when you mention his name or show his picture or even attribute a concept to "my teacher." For me that breaks the fourth wall and pulls me out of the story. I'm no longer thinking about the idea you presented because of the cascade of questions: How did this happen? Was his enlightnement real? Are his words valid? Is Zen valid? Is he credible? Is Jack credible? Is redemption possible? It's too much to reconcile on top of the already challenging issues of Zen, life, death, the topic of the day, etc. Maybe I'm too sensitive, but that's my experience. A ridiculous extreme example would be if I were a kid's party clown and I set up a platform to talk about being a better kid's party clown and occasionally mentioned I learned everything I know about being a kid's party clown from John Wayne Gacy. He might have been the best kid's party clown in the world, but there's a bit of baggage there. I personally think the wisdom freely given is yours and it doesn't need credentials. Just a thought. Take care.

  • @losttribe9107
    @losttribe9107 10 днів тому

    You have made your sexual orientation your idol.

  • @Epmd419
    @Epmd419 10 днів тому

    I mean personally I only ordained so I had an upper hand at winning arguments on social media 🫠

  • @muho
    @muho 12 днів тому

    If "Gento" was your monk name, what is "Shozan"? Your roshi name?

  • @tessapirnie
    @tessapirnie 12 днів тому

    Very thoughtful stuff, and thank you for the Bug Light theory! This may be of great assistance to my blood pressure.

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 12 днів тому

      Haha I hear you, my blood pressure is up there these days too re: politics!! ;)

  • @andystanley4598
    @andystanley4598 12 днів тому

    Great video Jack. Great way of explaining the noble truths. Appreciate your work!!

  • @desmondmccabe8321
    @desmondmccabe8321 13 днів тому

    Being a head monk does given an insight into how power works but is limited in showing how the distribution of power in wider society works. State power is different from the kind of power you have in a monastery (assuming it's not Catholic bureaucracy). We can agree that Biden and Trump are (difficult) human beings and not demons. But they are genuinely part of a dangerous and oppressive system that must be critiqued and dealt with if our lives are to get better. 'Conspiracy' is inherent in the exercise of state power (and lots of other kinds of power) - people exercising power don't like explaining decisions and decisions usually advantage some and disadvantage others. That doesn't mean that we're not all eejits in some degree. But your findings don't apply very widely...(in my opinion...)

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 13 днів тому

      I can't imagine a system on the level of complexity, wealth, status etc. on which Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum are operating that isn't dangerous and oppressive. But critiquing and dealing with the system, and chalking up societal ills/problems to a conspiracy are two really different things. It's the difference between Alex Jones and Mark Fisher.

  • @Teller3448
    @Teller3448 13 днів тому

    There is a brand of margarine on the market called 'I Cant Believe its Not Butter'. And one Buddhist teacher used that as the title for his book...'I Cant believe its Not Buddha'. Its all about the teachings mis-attributed to the founder of Buddhism that have built up over vast periods of time like layers of sedimentary rock. And nowhere is this more prevalent than in Zen...so its no surprise that Zen tends to attract the most neurotic students who will cause nothing but trouble in any environment where they congregate. I've been hearing these stories of chaos and mutiny in the zendo for years now.

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 13 днів тому

      Mutiny in the Zendo!! That's going to be the name of my next album.

  • @user-rq1dm3ny3s
    @user-rq1dm3ny3s 13 днів тому

    Jesus said: "I AM the way, the truth, and the life, no man cometh unto The Father, but by me."

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 13 днів тому

      Thank you, there is truth in these words, and in other words, too.

  • @fhoniemcphonsen8987
    @fhoniemcphonsen8987 13 днів тому

    Paint Nude!

  • @Teller3448
    @Teller3448 14 днів тому

    Switzerland is one of the most successful nations in the world by any measure. And they have very little personality-politics going on. They dont have a leader...they have a council with a chairperson for one year. Its principle-politics...not personality-politics. There's no idol-worship or idol-vilification. They also have lots of public referendums...direct democracy!

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 14 днів тому

      and they never go to war. they’re a little tight about their garbage and recycling rules though ;)

  • @michigandersea3485
    @michigandersea3485 14 днів тому

    “What we’re saying about our leaders, we’re saying about ourselves.”

  • @user-iw7bl3hj1r
    @user-iw7bl3hj1r 14 днів тому

    Entertaining and enlightening (small e)! Thank you Shozansan.

  • @HardcoreZen
    @HardcoreZen 14 днів тому

    Oh yeah? Let's fight!

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 14 днів тому

      Sabers or pistols, Warner?! Sabers or pistols!!??

    • @TYPHON2713
      @TYPHON2713 14 днів тому

      ​@@zenconfidential25 lmao😂 I just read Zen Confidential and Brad's book Zen Dipped in karma wrapped in chocolate. I Really enjoyed both of them ❤ These memoir type stories help me understand a lot better then more traditional Zen writings that tend to confuse me. Love both of your content and humor. Thank you both.

  • @babamcrielly8804
    @babamcrielly8804 14 днів тому

    When will Single White Monk be available on Audible?

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 14 днів тому

      That's a damn good question, thank you for reminding me to get on that.

  • @Epmd419
    @Epmd419 15 днів тому

    Yeah so much to say about this kind of energy. Generally whenever someone starts using a bunch of Zen/Buddhist buzzwords in a regular-ass conversation, I either A. Immediately stop paying attention, or B. Immediately start fucking with them. Uugh, thinking back to my first couple years in a Sangha and the way I used to talk because I was so concerned about my teachers to taking notice to how great I thought my practice was 😭🤣...cringe.

  • @LeventeJozsa-bj5yp
    @LeventeJozsa-bj5yp 15 днів тому

    What are you searching for? Where does it came from?

  • @dbuck1964
    @dbuck1964 19 днів тому

    Rinzai is fake Zen.

  • @jenniferplacek1321
    @jenniferplacek1321 20 днів тому

    Thank you that was great. I thought you made the distinction very clear - the aim you set for your meditation cannot be to solve a problem..... I think that would set us up for failure because it puts the pressure on to come up with the answer to the problem. Instead we come to meditation to do just that - to meditate. If the solution to the problem arises as a by-product, then so be it. That's a side bonus. Love your videos, keep them coming.

    • @zenconfidential25
      @zenconfidential25 17 днів тому

      Wonderful! Thank you Jennifer. I think all solutions arise as byproducts but maybe we just don’t see that??

  • @Stevie_tha_tooth
    @Stevie_tha_tooth 21 день тому

    Dude I’ve been using the double pillow for a long time now, (mainly cuz I’m poor 😂) and never thought to fold the top pillow! Thank you so much.

  • @hammersaw3135
    @hammersaw3135 21 день тому

    I think a lot of people would benefit from therapy, even enlightened individuals are not immune from needing guidance and help at times. Therapy can help you strengthen your own reflection of your mind. A good therapy will help you see the errors in your thinking, and a bad therapy will make you blame your parents, etc. Both Buddhism and therapy have been beneficial to reduce the suffering of this life, and find meaning in the suffering. Seeing suffering as another part of the path to wisdom. Suffering is like coal, wisdom and time create diamonds from it.

  • @vikifilip
    @vikifilip 22 дні тому

    You are a great teacher, thank you so much!❤

  • @GeezerDog
    @GeezerDog 23 дні тому

    A mocking attitude lacks humility.

  • @jamesbuchanan1913
    @jamesbuchanan1913 23 дні тому

    My understanding is that you can try to improve the world as long as you understand that improving the world won't make you happy. Self-improvement, on the other hand, just seems contradictory.

  • @guido3771
    @guido3771 24 дні тому

    This tells you: a zennie washes his dishes by hand.

  • @parallax_media
    @parallax_media 24 дні тому

    Hey JP. Ever heard of Vajra Pride! :). The pride of the wild god or the zen vagabond indeed.

  • @jonwesick2844
    @jonwesick2844 25 днів тому

    "Inventing new ways to be stupid," was a phrase a friend often used. I don't think we should use the Dharma to bypass common sense. BTW, the simplest way to deal with US taxes when living overseas is through the Foreign Earned Income Exclusion. You get a tax credit on US income tax for the foreign income taxes you paid for income earned overseas. There are more complicated ways of doing this but that's what I used when I lived in Canada.

  • @dr.jeffreyzacko-smith324
    @dr.jeffreyzacko-smith324 25 днів тому

    Really meaningful reminders that our practice is a process and must be manifest again and again and again … ad infinitum.

  • @KenCunkle
    @KenCunkle 25 днів тому

    Thanks for that. Very useful. Also, it's nice to have the secret handshake of "what the fuck is going on here" from somebody else who has the experience, or at least recognizes it and thinks about it. One thing, though: it was a tad distracting, though interesting, the way the books on your altar changed positions throughout the video.

  • @Teller3448
    @Teller3448 25 днів тому

    Does life suck? Most of humanity died before their first birthday for thousands of years prior to modern medical science. The founder of Buddhism observed this fact and concluded that this world was not designed for optimism.

  • @darkagedrengr6159
    @darkagedrengr6159 26 днів тому

    I like your J. Peterson impression 😃