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Great video

Hey this video is super well made and I resonate with a lot of your points! Thank you for taking the time to create a video like this and expand on some personal concepts. I think you have a very unique voice and I do hope to see more of your videos in the future!

I've always wanted to grow my personal brand but I can't find a niche. I have a lot of passions for all sorts of things and this rlly hit home

Thank you so much to share this. People always see my as a scattered person. I was stuck wondering how to organize all my activities. I will do them all together! I will combine them all, as I am my own niche right?! Thank you

Nothing wrong with liking multiple things. It gives you broader perspective. The question that matters is what problems are you going to solve with all of that perspective? Multiple perspectives + unique solution = great career. But many people go in different directions because they're afraid of making the wrong decision. They second guess themselves because of anxiety. Not because they're being intentional about gaining more perspective on a single problem. If you're jumping around from thing to thing with no commitment to any of them there's a deeper question you need to answer. You don't know who you are. Answer that before you pick the next topic to jump into.

I just graduated from architecture, and ive always thought about video games design, or software engineering, but I don’t know where to start? Like should I take a master degree in software engineering? Or that would not help me?

It's J; Hi Joann. I was moved to respond to your post after I was searching for information on building a brand and found your podcast and ended up at this video. I believe that I was meant to view your broadcast about your story. It has so much in common with my own experience of a deep childhood wound. You said that you desire to help others in their journey that may be like your own. Have you ever considered that someone else may have experienced a journey similar to your own and shares your struggle ? If I may, I would like to share the effect of a childhood experience that for a long time I did not realize how deeply it had affected me . To be brief, I suffered a mother-son wound that made me feel a certain way about myself and since I was stuck with the same mother it affected how I viewed myself at a deep level that became ingrained in my psyche. Other people responded to me from the way that I presented self to the world. As long as I held on to the wound that made me feel a certain way other people picked up on it and identified me with the feeling that I gave off about myself. I disliked the treatment I received from other kids, teachers and as an adult was targeted by strangers. I was determined to get to the bottom of the vicious inner circle of my lived experience that cramped my personality and held me back from growing. It took a while; but eventually I realized that the more I held on to what my mother had 'taught' me my life would continue going in the same vicious circles. It took courage to confront what was most familiar to me and to let go of what I had held on to for most of my life was what I had identified with. I did not realize that I was also releasing the toxicity from the resentment I had been carrying in my body since childhood. But once I let go of it it was if a burden was lifted from me and I had the most wonderful feeling of freedom. There was residual toxicity from the negativity that I had been holding on to and the previous vicious circles that tormented me to self sabotage have since continually diminished becoming only benign. Only a faint unpleasant impression remains from having internalized the insecurity and inadequacies of my mother. I have since learned to grieve the loss of holding on to my false need and instead to give myself grace as you so aptly described. Occasionally I encounter unscrupulous people who attempt to instigate a negative reaction from what they mistakenly perceive as part of my present personality but actually is now just a residual impression from the past. But thankfully, I no longer react to what I no longer identify with; not even a 'little.' I can truly see the beauty in you and hope you can receive my message with my best regards for your willingness to share the most personal part of you.

I remember in fourth grade I was taking a walk with my best friend in school and one of my classmates spotted me with her and told my friend “why are you hanging out with her, her voice is so weird” I can’t lie I was so hurt by those words that now I’m a senior and still can’t get past this, the best friend I was walking with left me two weeks maybe after that conversation. Again in tenth grade one of my class mates asked me if I talk by my nose I acted as if I didn’t hear her but my friend whispered to her and told her that I’m insecure about my voice she was understandable but I really don’t get why people ask questions like these cause they can really effect others and hurt them Even my brother makes fun of my voice, I do find it weird too because no one sounds like me I searched everywhere and yet I’m the only one with this voice I really hope when I get braces it kind of fixes it.

I relate to this so much ❤🎉

Thank you very much, it was so informative.

my voice also has been stopping me from speaking up for myself or standing up for myself. It’s also made me hate being loud. I always speak in a somewhat low voice. It also made me lack confidence and self-esteem.

your voice sounds amazing

This is a great video! I came across it a year ago and now I am back brainstorming my career switch! Thank you a lot for support!!

i want to say interior designer for commercial has similar environment.. even more overwhelming with different finishes +FF&E.

can i also add this is the same for commercial interior design...

I am happy because you give me the solution of my questions thanks and keep going doing the amazing videos

I feel anxious because I start a lot of projects and before I make some money with it, I am already skipping to a new one. :(

Hello! I loved this video so much.❤ I'm studying architecture, and i also like marketing, ux design, and all that stuff. Knowing this, what would you recommend to me? I'd really appreciate your answer🫶🏼🩷

Thank you for this "don't you feel tired from doing all those things - no it makes me more energized." I really love that! and almost made me tear up (and I am not a very emotional person haha) because I felt so heard <3

This is me right now❤

Video ini dua tahun lalu, saya baru menemukan nya tahun ini. Apa yang Anda alami, sama yang saya alami seperti di dua tahun lalu sampai saat ini, saya bingung dengan niche, padahal saya suka dengan hal-hal yang saya sukai untuk berbagi informasi pengalaman, semua membahas niche, sampai saya di arahkan oleh coaching, tapi masih bingung juga dengan niche yang saya ambil, seperti bukan saya Jadi pengalaman Anda sama seperti yang saya alami, Opini Anda membantu banget, Terima kasih, semoga berkah dan sukses selalu

Wow this video was so helpful!!! I’m currently trying to look for new jobs with 2 years of experience and it’s so hard to find any guidance or examples on what to do with your portfolio or when you go to interviews, thank you!

When you started talking about how doing a personal brand may not get you as many likes or subscribers, but it will get you a community of people who really resonate and care about you- i felt that a lot. thank you for saying that in this video because i really needed to hear that.

omg i relate with this SO MUCH. like every word!

Hi Joann, as I already wrote in another comment: your voice is beautiful! Because it is soft and sweet and you attract attention with your voice. Your voice radiates harmony. Just be aware of it. Please fall in love with your voice. Lot's of people are already in love with your voice. Sounding young is beautiful. You will keep your youth in your voice even when you are 120 years old. What a privilage!! Much love, Matthias 👋

Hi Joann, don't look for a niche; YOU are the niche! Be flexible and follow your passion, than you can always inspire. I love your voice! So soft and sweet; your radiate lot's of harmony. Much love, Matthias P.S. ... waiting for new videos. The last one is one year old. Many people will love your style 🤗

I am feeling this way now. I am so confused and frustrated at the sometime.❤

You have such a soft, sweet, cutie pie voice! ☺️🤗🫶🏽💫✨

I was wondering if architectural drafting would have been listed.

What an inspiring video. Wow. Exactly what I needed.

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I love how you’re so real about it, me myself I’m trying to find my way

Thank you so much for speaking on this. I've looked for more women who feel like this many times over the internet but never could find them. I've always been a painfully shy girl growing up due to bad experiences. I still am a little shy due to it and find it awkward to make conversation with other people. It's rare for me to fully feel confident in myself. I even went completely mute for a couple of years while I was a teenager and now that I'm almost 22, I find that many people think I sound way younger, like a 12 year old and because I grew up with a mom who is coloured and a dad who is indian, my accent is very mixed. I don't like the way I pronounce certain words, I feel like other girls have a certain melody to their voice almost like a rhythm where mine just falls flat. My voice even cracks sometimes because I'm so unused to using it and my tongue feels heavy and clumsy in my mouth when I try to speak. I too got mocked at for sounding like a child and I've been aware of the sound and reaction of my voice since I was a child. I'd avoid sending voice notes altogether but once a guy I really liked requested one and so I sent it and immediately his feelings changed towards me because he started to roast me and wasn't so attracted to me anymore. Over time he actually started to like me and wanted to video or phone call but I never could let that first instance go. It made me so insecure that every time he tried to confess his feelings towards me I would ghost him until it all got too much and I eventually blocked him-all because I started to think it unbelievable for a man like him to like a girl like me. A guy before that even ghosted me after I had sent him a pic of me and that was at a time I didn't know how to even take any. We'd been speaking for years over text but just my pic and voice note alone made him feel completely different towards me too. That is why I don't like my voice. It's not attractive. I'm insecure about my accent as well because a lot of the times people will think I'm just TRYING to sound a certain race when it's true that I am a mix of both. I've been gaming since high school and even on there, it only amplifies my insecurity with my voice because a lot of the well known girls on there sound beautiful, feminine and elegant and it's amazing how differently a person will treat you based on how you sound. I know this because I am guilty of it too. I no longer trust men or their intentions towards me because in so many instances I gave my all into these people but because of my voice not being that attractive or myself not following trends like every other girl in our society, has lead me to be taken advantage of, humiliated and disregarded. I've been wanting to change my voice for a long time now but every year it just feels unnatural to speak like somebody else. I feel like a fraud trying so hard to fit whereas some girls naturally just sound beautiful and mature. What do you think I should do about it?

Thank you for making this video! I just came across it and I have been struggling to my my portfolio as all my experience is technical!

I have to comment after hearing the pizza donuts. So I was looking online I kid you not there are sushi donuts they looked so amazing.

I absolutely love your voice. I just came across your channel, and I could listen to you speak all day. You are articulate and expressive. And your speaking is nuanced and sincere. Your sincerity alone would inspire confidence in anything you create. I look forward to more videos, and I will check out your podcasts.

My massage= Don’t betray, disrespect or throw Architecture to the ground, don’t be a Dog respect your self . Say No to free over time or mediocre salary, don’t eat the pizza the bought = to make you stay all night . Quit your job, be happy . I imagine what will happen if everyone do this= increase of salary or work from home …

I don’t know about your office but I know that about 95% of Arch firms, pay a mediocre salary = can’t afford to buy a home and is less likely to start a family. ¿ Who wants to be a slave “free over time” ? All that sacrifice to get nothing in return. The worst part is you study a career wish the duty is to “design,crate” but when you work for an arch firm. You are not the designer, this means is not your project and creation= zero satisfaction. Imagine having a “professional job” that is required to work as a slave and yet you can afford a house or family and gets worst because you end up disconnected of your profession = doing the boring stuff. Imagine a plastic surgeon got a job but he’s task is to clean the tools nothing more 😂😂

So many great points!!! So beautiful!

I can relate so much!!

I found this at the right time. Thank you.

Great video! I can relate and thinking of starting my own channel. Bogged with the need to niche and niche down. Be the niche!

What a beautiful message. Thank you for sharing with us.

How can i work in an aec tech company? Please share some information. I am an architect, want to know more about aec company

I just found this video an I struggle with this an I am on a break ironically right now. This helped me so much I have so many passions and everyone keeps telling me to focus on one an I just cannot.This has given me a new perspective. ❤

You are “slow multitasking”.

I can sooo much relate. Thank you for sharing this! It brought a real impact to my further explorations!

I ate the whole video because the genuine feelings on you aren't undeniable, so full of reality that also inspires. so thankful for your heart warming and inspirational content.

Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability

Thank goodness for you that's me