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The Things You Say That Hurts Him | WIFE put down the KNIFE
In the previous video I opened up the topic on how the words wives say to or about their husband can be used as a weapon bringing lasting harm to him and their marriage. This video I go deeper on that with some specific examples of things you say that hurts him. Wife put down the knife. Let's chat!
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Відео

The Year to STOP Destroying Your HUSBAND with Your Mouth
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It has gone on too long,. You've made more than enough excuses for using your words as a weapon against your husband. We recently just entered into 2025, the time to do better is now! This is the year to stop destroying your husband with your mouth. Let's chat! Part 2: ua-cam.com/video/LIYW-y4v7zg/v-deo.htmlsi=cBEriBDNFyvroOBC Become a G&P MEMBER!: ua-cam.com/channels/m-pErqi_mcX9zWwHdSk9fQ.htm...
HOW to Deal with People Who DISAGREE with You Being a SUBMISSIVE WIFE
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Let's face it, choosing to submit to your husband is viewed as controversial to put it lightly. Many people you come across will not agree or understand your choice to submit to your husband. How do you deal with this? Let's talk about it! Become a G&P MEMBER!: ua-cam.com/channels/m-pErqi_mcX9zWwHdSk9fQ.htmljoin Connect with me on… Facebook: GemsandPearlswithLove/ Instagram: instag...
Disrespecting HIS Family, Friends & Hobbies |Ways WIVES May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS Part 12
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In this part of the series I talk about the problems with disrespecting your husband's family, friends and his interests and hobbies. How can it be done and how can we avoid it? How to deal with Disagreements in a feminine way Video: ua-cam.com/video/PFJCWnjF6V4/v-deo.htmlsi=kFVNi_T2pmO2jCQK Become a G&P MEMBER!: ua-cam.com/channels/m-pErqi_mcX9zWwHdSk9fQ.htmljoin PART 11 - Mothering Him ua-cam...
Mothering Him | Things WIVES May Be Doing to DISRESPECT Their HUSBANDS - Part 11
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In part 11 of 'Things Wives May Be Doing to Disrespect Their Husbands' series, I talk a bit about this whole mothering concept according to the modern perspective. I talk about how TRULY mothering your man can be disrespectful. Mothering Your Man video: ua-cam.com/video/c0i3_zz4uII/v-deo.htmlsi=4Lpbu8vw8psPvAqt Become a G&P Member!: ua-cam.com/channels/m-pErqi_mcX9zWwHdSk9fQ.htmljoin PART 10 - ...
Allowing Friends & Family to Disrespect Your Husband | Disrespectful Wife Series - Part 10
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Are you allowing your mom, dad, sibling, friend or whoever else treat your husband disrespectfully? If so, you may not be respecting your husband as much as you think you are. Let discuss this and what to do about it for part 10 of things wives may be doing that's disrespectful to their husbands. Become a G&P Member!: ua-cam.com/channels/m-pErqi_mcX9zWwHdSk9fQ.htmljoin PART 9 - Complaining abou...
Complaining About Your Husband's Income | Ways WIVES May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - Part 9
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Do you know your discontentment of your husband's effort to provide can cause him to feel disrespected? Let's get into it for part 9 the 'Ways wives may be disrespecting their husbands' Become a G&P Member!: ua-cam.com/channels/m-pErqi_mcX9zWwHdSk9fQ.htmljoin Part 8 - Inappropriate Relationships with Other Men: ua-cam.com/video/RqmzlpI846Y/v-deo.htmlsi=cIiIICKrN2ORhW2b Part 10 - Allowing your f...
Inappropriate Relationships With OTHER MEN | Ways WIVES May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - Part 8
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In this video I get very serious and give you ladies some firm, tough love while talking about how important it is have firm boundaries with the opposite sex. It is not only disrespectful to carry on and entertain inappropriate interactions with men, it can also lead to a quick and painful end to your marriage. Become a G&P MEMBER!: ua-cam.com/channels/m-pErqi_mcX9zWwHdSk9fQ.htmljoin Part 7 - R...
Refusing to SUBMIT | Ways WIVES May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - Part 7
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In this part we will dive into biblical submission and discuss why it can be both a challenge to the husband and feel disrespectful when his wife refuses to submit. 12 Minute Crash Course On Submission Video: ua-cam.com/video/3WIk1zurl9g/v-deo.htmlsi=zUW7ydaogkuMaXNc Become a G&P MEMBER!: ua-cam.com/channels/m-pErqi_mcX9zWwHdSk9fQ.htmljoin Part 6 - Comparing Your Husband to Other men: ua-cam.co...
Comparing Your Husband to Others | Ways Wives May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - Part 6
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In part 6 I talk about the dangers of comparing your husband to other men. MEN HAVE FEELINGS TOO! A fact that seems many women forget. It's very hurtful to attack his masculinity in this way. Let's chat! Become a G&P MEMBER!: ua-cam.com/channels/m-pErqi_mcX9zWwHdSk9fQ.htmljoin Part 5 - Trying to control & change him ua-cam.com/video/WkKafQXVKN8/v-deo.htmlsi=mDt9clT9JEhaRXKJ Part 7 - Refusing to...
Trying to CONTROL or CHANGE Him | Ways Wives May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - Part 5
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Trying to CONTROL or CHANGE Him | Ways Wives May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - Part 5
Speaking Negatively ABOUT Your Husband | Ways Wives May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - PART 4
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Speaking Negatively ABOUT Your Husband | Ways Wives May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - PART 4
The Silent Treatment | Ways Wives May be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - PART 3
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The Silent Treatment | Ways Wives May be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - PART 3
Unpleasant Tone & Volume | Ways Wives May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - PART 2
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Unpleasant Tone & Volume | Ways Wives May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - PART 2
Being RUDE to Your HUSBAND | Ways Wives May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - PART 1 (Intro)
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Being RUDE to Your HUSBAND | Ways Wives May Be DISRESPECTING Their HUSBANDS - PART 1 (Intro)
FEMININE Women, Tradwives & Homemakers, SET YOURSELVES FREE! | Cake with Kate
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FEMININE Women, Tradwives & Homemakers, SET YOURSELVES FREE! | Cake with Kate
Is MUTUAL SUBMISSION in Marriage BIBLICAL?
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Is MUTUAL SUBMISSION in Marriage BIBLICAL?
WHY should Wives SUBMIT & HOW to SUBMIT to Your HUSBAND
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WHY should Wives SUBMIT & HOW to SUBMIT to Your HUSBAND
Mothering Your Man | WHY are you doing this? & HOW to STOP!
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Mothering Your Man | WHY are you doing this? & HOW to STOP!
Is Your "FRIENDS" Putting Your Marriage At Risk? | Cake with Kate
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Is Your "FRIENDS" Putting Your Marriage At Risk? | Cake with Kate
How To Inspire Your Man To Do Better | 5 STEPS
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How To Inspire Your Man To Do Better | 5 STEPS
A WARNING For The NAGGING & UNGRATEFUL Wife | Cake with Kate
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A WARNING For The NAGGING & UNGRATEFUL Wife | Cake with Kate
How to Be Your MAN'S CHEERLEADER | Cake with Kate
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How to Be Your MAN'S CHEERLEADER | Cake with Kate
Q&A With Hubby | MALE Perspective on RESPECT, SUBMISSION, HELPMATE'S ROLE & more
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Q&A With Hubby | MALE Perspective on RESPECT, SUBMISSION, HELPMATE'S ROLE & more
How to Get My Man to LEAD | 6 TIPS with Examples
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How to Get My Man to LEAD | 6 TIPS with Examples
This is WHY Your Husband Will NOT LEAD
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This is WHY Your Husband Will NOT LEAD
Advice for Wives in Proverbs
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Advice for Wives in Proverbs
How to deal with DISAGREEMENTS in a FEMININE Way 🌸
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How to deal with DISAGREEMENTS in a FEMININE Way 🌸
Your Man Wants You To LOOK At HIM Like THIS! | The look your man craves and How to do it
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Your Man Wants You To LOOK At HIM Like THIS! | The look your man craves and How to do it
This Was DISRESPECTFUL to My HUSBAND ~ Story Time ~ Wives DO NOT Do This! | Cake with Kate
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This Was DISRESPECTFUL to My HUSBAND ~ Story Time ~ Wives DO NOT Do This! | Cake with Kate

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @j.p.5716
    @j.p.5716 13 годин тому

    As a man, I will tell you that if your husband opens up and talks with you and then you use his words against him (to shame or disrespect him) EVEN ONE TIME, he will likely NEVER open up and talk with you again. It only takes one careless spark to burn your entire house to the ground... forever. Proverbs 14:1

    • @j.p.5716
      @j.p.5716 13 годин тому

      If you are a wife who has already done this and you are convicted of your sin and want to try and repair the damage you should go to your husband, get on your knees in front of him and confess your sin and ask for his forgiveness. Be very specific about what you did and why it was sinful. Then offer to let him discipline you for it. This is likely your only hope of reconciling this issue.

  • @dominantman1780
    @dominantman1780 День тому

    Keep doing that nice work

  • @lovegod4312
    @lovegod4312 День тому

    I'm so thankful to have a godly woman such as yourself speak such wise and edifying words in a world that screams lies that destroy. You are helping more women and marriages than you will ever know. Thank you for your obedience and bravery ❤

    • @gemsandpearlswithlove
      @gemsandpearlswithlove День тому

      Aw thank you Beauty! Your kind words are so encouraging!! I give all the glory to God🙌🏽 Anything good that comes from me is from Him🙌🏽💕

  • @lovegod4312
    @lovegod4312 День тому

    Oh yes! I know you are not over exaggerating. I have witnessed women speaking to their husbands like this and even worse! 😢

  • @gemsandpearlswithlove
    @gemsandpearlswithlove День тому

    Part 2: ua-cam.com/video/LIYW-y4v7zg/v-deo.htmlsi=cBEriBDNFyvroOBC

  • @gemsandpearlswithlove
    @gemsandpearlswithlove День тому

    Hey Beauty! Thanks so much for watching! A LIKE 👍 and comment is so appreciated!! Let me know your thoughts! 💕

  • @j.p.5716
    @j.p.5716 День тому

    The Bible has the instructions for success. For wives, let me summarize them for you. 1. Ephesians 5:22-24 - Submit to your husband the same way you would submit to Jesus if He were living in the house with you.... in EVERYTHING. 2. Ephesians 5:33b - Reverence your husband. Show him the utmost respect mingled with fear. 3. 1 Peter 3:1-2 - Use your actions (submission, goodness and reverence) , NOT YOUR WORDS, to effect change in your husband.

    • @gemsandpearlswithlove
      @gemsandpearlswithlove День тому

      Thanks! I touched on a few of these in the video I had just posted...the part 2 to this😊

  • @dominantman1780
    @dominantman1780 2 дні тому

    Keep doing that nice work don't stop

  • @CountitallJoy-c4r
    @CountitallJoy-c4r 2 дні тому

    Kate ✨🎀 so happy to see you.

  • @gemsandpearlswithlove
    @gemsandpearlswithlove 2 дні тому

    I apologize for being a bit rough around the edges per se lol I don't know if it's just me but I did feel a bit out of place being the first time in a while videoing for the larger group 😅 Don't worry though I'll be back in the swing of things!😊💕

  • @lovegod4312
    @lovegod4312 2 дні тому

    Wife put down the knife! I LOVE this message and this video. Just what I needed for the beginning of the new year. 🎉

  • @gemsandpearlswithlove
    @gemsandpearlswithlove 2 дні тому

    Hey Beauties!! Happy New Year! It's been a while but I'm diving into this deep topic hoping this will be the best year yet for your marriage!💕 I apologize for being a bit rough around the edges per se lol I don't know if it's just me but I did feel a bit out of place being the first time in a while videoing for the larger group 😅 Don't worry though I'll be back in the swing of things!😊💕

  • @amandakeys4077
    @amandakeys4077 16 днів тому

    My flesh is bothered but that’s a good thing and am going to keep listening because I know it’s right!

  • @kateri35
    @kateri35 22 дні тому

    Thanks. This was very helpful. 🤗

  • @wanda2qq
    @wanda2qq Місяць тому

    Hello. Can you share the blesssing that come with it

  • @debralavine6243
    @debralavine6243 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much. I requested this topic and your advice is so helpful. My favourite points were to keep your answers short and simple, not to overexplain (I did this a lot with my family with respect to my marriage and it not only came across as a lack of confidence and conviction in our decisions but also gave them a way in to undermine me and my husband), to say 'ok' (I love this ❤ and will definately start using this technique) and knowing that it's not my responsibility to change people's hearts and minds (only God can do this for sure). My example is family asking me why I don't know the ins and outs of all our finances (my husband takes care of this for us) - they were in disbelief that I wouldn't want or need to know. I've learnt to say - "I trust my husband to take care of our family" Thank you again got taking the time to respond to my suggestion - I really appreciate it.

    • @gemsandpearlswithlove
      @gemsandpearlswithlove Місяць тому

      You are so welcome, Beauty! I’m so glad it has been helpful for you and I truly appreciate you giving me the suggestions😊💕🎀

  • @lovegod4312
    @lovegod4312 Місяць тому

    "Hit them with the "okay." LOVE THAT!👏🏻 Amazing video as always❤

  • @lovegod4312
    @lovegod4312 Місяць тому

    Another suggestion is how to keep the spice and excitement in your marriage

  • @lovegod4312
    @lovegod4312 Місяць тому

    You are so pretty! 🙂 I would love a video on how to respect your husband or submit to him as a father

    • @gemsandpearlswithlove
      @gemsandpearlswithlove Місяць тому

      Aww thank you Beauty! And thanks so much for the video idea!!💡 💕🎀

  • @gemsandpearlswithlove
    @gemsandpearlswithlove Місяць тому

    Hey Beauties & early hello to my G&P members!! Thanks so much for watching! Please leave your thoughts and video requests below!💕

    • @dominantman1780
      @dominantman1780 Місяць тому

      Keep doing that nice work your always inspiring me to make a good rules for my submissive wife

    • @gemsandpearlswithlove
      @gemsandpearlswithlove Місяць тому

      @dominantman1780 Thank you

    • @dominantman1780
      @dominantman1780 Місяць тому

      @@gemsandpearlswithlove welcome

  • @mirandahughes
    @mirandahughes Місяць тому

    Amen!!!! 🙌✝️🎉🔥👑

  • @stacy598
    @stacy598 Місяць тому

    Yes ❤❤❤❤

  • @Sumyunguy2
    @Sumyunguy2 Місяць тому

  • @mksmithhouse2132
    @mksmithhouse2132 Місяць тому

    💯💯💯

  • @mksmithhouse2132
    @mksmithhouse2132 Місяць тому

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @lovegod4312
    @lovegod4312 Місяць тому

    Katelyn you are on point as usual and so, so pretty! 🤩

  • @lovegod4312
    @lovegod4312 Місяць тому

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @lovegod4312
    @lovegod4312 Місяць тому

    Yup it doesn’t take being rude to hold boundaries 👏🏼💯

  • @lovegod4312
    @lovegod4312 Місяць тому

    Some wives are truly bullies

  • @astraldragon5201
    @astraldragon5201 Місяць тому

    If there’s not mutual submission then I don’t want it.

  • @christine7003
    @christine7003 Місяць тому

    It’s funny the other day I was hoping to find a Chanel like yours. It’s almost reminds me of the proper etiquette we can have as women. I want to get there 😊 Healthy is wealthy 😊

  • @littlemschat1052
    @littlemschat1052 Місяць тому

    You should do a similar one on immature parents bullying their children!