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this is hard, but such a good advice, i will be more involved with my church community so i can find "THE ONE"

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I feel like me trying to find someone is pushing, being "preditorial". Would be totally ok for women to ask men

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I just go fast because I spend to much time finding nobody, I think the answer is not now, or possibly never

I need to know what is hot for women, is it just muscle or height

I find it halarious that both men and women are saying Yes

really wasnt sure how women might be triggered by lust google: intimacy, "celebrated otherness," and "object-of-desire affirmation."

Flag one, they are Christian

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Stop watching secular television and being on social media. That will decrease the lustful thoughts considerably.

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Well that’s ironic, in orthodox and Catholicism, you don’t even get marriage as an option once you’re a priest (pastor). Meaning it’s not a top priority to them.

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Lauren, we're twinning on these....💯% spot on!

The first red flag i see when dating a women is if she isn't Lauren

Totally agree. Lots of messaging back and forth achieves nothing

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Men are not good at reading signs especially when they are subtle 😕

True

Now they’re married

If a woman is at the point of wondering if a man likes her - he likes her. He's wondering the same thing, but women are diverse and complex creators. Games and subtle hints do not help... *Obvious* hints open the door for easy interpretation, and make it easier for him to confidently act.

Thanks for this video. When is SALT doing a speed dating event next? I'd like to join:)

Dating advice… first date… pretend you’re meeting a new friend for the first time, they’re not a potential partner, don’t overthink it, just have fun. Maybe take something with you, a couple of bottles of Pepsi, some bags of crisps, so they don’t feel so stressed. Maybe keep the blindfolds on for a while, it would be less stressful if they couldn’t see the other person.

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I think it would be beneficial to women if they could improve their communication of desire in a way men are able to perceive a la, drop the hanky. Heck, here in 2024, it wouldnt be a bad idea for a woman to ask the man out. Either way, if both people are able to be honest about their feelings, they should ask the other out regardless..

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Nowhere in Scripture does it say who should ask who out. Our expectations for this behavior are influenced by our culture. Ruth approached and proposed to Boaz not the other way around 👀

This is what men want to hear

Wow! I've never thought either of those. Interesting!

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yeah, a romantic date is a precursor to bonking and should be reserved for someone you're already in a relationship with.

Don't flatter urself 🥱

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Lauren is such a fab host! 😍

No one really except for God.

That explains it 😂

Playing hard to get.....

Is the speed dating still happening?

I visit some side meetings (in week) of another church while remaining faithful to the church I consider mine. Basically I may visit different churches, but I won't change the one I consider home.

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😂😂 the video from the other Dave!

I know it is a gift...but, I can't love it...I have been betrayed by my partner and I am divorced. For two years I struggle with severe breast pain and strong desires. I just can"t help to hate myself and my body for these...I suffer from insomnia, can't talk to anyone...I feel so ashamed...how can you love something that is forbidden? I don't want to have any desires anymore....Hate my insomnias, depression and very strong sex drives...they come with bloathing and everything. Thanks for the tips...It is a blessing hut it feels more like a course! 😢...hate it...

Me too 😊

what christian men want too 😂

There’s barely anybody within a 50 mile radius from me that is on the app. 😭 I’ve given up

It’s not that we’re shy as men. I’ve made a good amount of cold approaches based on what I thought were obvious signs, some have worked out fine and led up to a date but for the most part the women are just friendly. Other times I get no engagement from the lady and turns out she’s really into me. So it’s hard to gauge how they’ll react, just gotta shoot your shot.

Online I don’t think it matters. IRL I prefer the man ask me but bravo to girls brave enough to ask themselves. I think it is wise though to drop hints so they can guess that you like them as this way when they do ask they feel quite confident of getting a yes and therefore more likely to ask.