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Widow’s Diary: Widow Date Wednesdays
The widow I follow on Instagram @Heatherquisel
I am going on dates with my past husband, his ghost, I’m calling them widow date Wednesdays, and I’m going on Wednesdays, on purpose during the time that Heather does her live streams on Instagram because she has inspired me so much. Widowhood sucks but I’m trying to romanticize it the best I can. I’m doing this to try and fall in love with myself. Who am I now? Is something that I have been struggling with since he died June 6, 2024. I loved being his wife, I loved taking care of him, and I loved him showing me all the love that he had for me. Him loving me was a part of my love for myself. Now that he is gone, who am I. Do I even love myself by myself. So that’s why I started widow date Wednesdays, to date myself, to love myself. To get to know me and say, “I love this woman that I am as much as my husband loved her.” That’s my goal. To make him proud of his widow.
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Відео

Widow’s Dairy: September has Come and Gone
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Widow’s Dairy: September has Come and Gone
Widow Diary ~ Living in the In-Between
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#widow #lake #lost #trying #raining
How do I journey further when I never wanted a life without him? 
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#widow #lost #lake #sunset Music credit @alexproductionsnocopyright
Widow Diary: I don’t want to do it without him
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I miss him so miss. Joy is gone
Reviewing the BioMane Grooming Tool #horses #biomane #review
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Reviewing the BioMane Grooming Tool #horses #biomane #review
TRTMETHOD Week 1 Starting Young Horse Challenge
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TRTMETHOD Week 1 Starting Young Horse Challenge
October 🍂
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October 🍂
A new Autumn begins 
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A new Autumn begins 
Book Reviews & BIG Announcement!!
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Book Reviews & BIG Announcement!!
Living your Dream
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Living your Dream
Unboxing ThredUP order My first Order
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Unboxing ThredUP order My first Order
Doing Chores #motivation
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Doing Chores #motivation
Spring Wrap-Up with my Horses
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Spring Wrap-Up with my Horses
Follow the Energy
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Follow the Energy
Spring Grooming the Horses
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Spring Grooming the Horses
Try
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Try
Being Kind to your Mind Motivation Monday
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Being Kind to your Mind Motivation Monday
Positive Quitting
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Positive Quitting
Update on Cookie the stray/feral cat
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Update on Cookie the stray/feral cat
What if this was your last year
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What if this was your last year
Birthday Party for the Horses
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Birthday Party for the Horses
Don’t Hurry and Accomplish Everything
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Don’t Hurry and Accomplish Everything
Letting the Feral Cat Free, Will Cookie Stay?
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Letting the Feral Cat Free, Will Cookie Stay?
Stop Thinking about Doing Stuff, Take Actions
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Stop Thinking about Doing Stuff, Take Actions
About Cookie the Feral Cat and Horses but Mostly about Cookie the Feral Cat Weekly Wrap Up
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About Cookie the Feral Cat and Horses but Mostly about Cookie the Feral Cat Weekly Wrap Up
Old Home Town, Family Day and then Home Again #eminence #missouri #river #family #vacation
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Old Home Town, Family Day and then Home Again #eminence #missouri #river #family #vacation
Relaxing Spring Days to Spring Cleaning #cat #horse #truck #springcleaning #slowliving
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Relaxing Spring Days to Spring Cleaning #cat #horse #truck #springcleaning #slowliving
Allow Yourself to be Good Enough #motivation #motivational
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Allow Yourself to be Good Enough #motivation #motivational
End of the Week Wrap-up, Grooming Horses and Cats #satisfying #cat #grooming #horses
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End of the Week Wrap-up, Grooming Horses and Cats #satisfying #cat #grooming #horses

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @giangtrungnguyen
    @giangtrungnguyen 8 днів тому

    You can access to the pump from the bottom of the washer, so that, don’t need to remove top & front covers!

  • @andrewatkinson3700
    @andrewatkinson3700 10 днів тому

    Beautiful. What kind of fence post are those?

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 10 днів тому

      They are called timeless t post. I have made several videos about them.

  • @angieroberts1874
    @angieroberts1874 27 днів тому

    Thks for the video. It helped us

  • @Pink7omy
    @Pink7omy Місяць тому

    They look just like Spirit and his mom. 😂❤

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 Місяць тому

      Aww that’s a beautiful compliment thank you

    • @Pink7omy
      @Pink7omy Місяць тому

      @@pondarosalife7790 what breed of horse are they? I am curious.

  • @SoTheAdventure
    @SoTheAdventure Місяць тому

  • @LaurieDellapi
    @LaurieDellapi Місяць тому

    We had the same one in black. Pup can't handle the raised edge. Tore right into it! Looked just like this one except the stuffing was green. We switched him out to the flat KONG® Orthopedic Crate Mat. It doesn't have the raised edges. He's going on 2 months now and (knock on wood and hope he can't read over my shoulder) he's not bothered it!

  • @DavidFlores-x1g
    @DavidFlores-x1g 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for your video and explanation. I changed the pump without problems.

  • @deborc2705
    @deborc2705 3 місяці тому

    Did the original formula work?

  • @EJMEQUESTRIAN
    @EJMEQUESTRIAN 3 місяці тому

    I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. 💔

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 3 місяці тому

      Thank you. I have never experienced pain like this. The missing him is so heavy.

  • @pebelleeb5422
    @pebelleeb5422 3 місяці тому

    It is so difficult to get that wire around the rubber door seal back on. i wish you would have shown that part in normal motion

  • @pebelleeb5422
    @pebelleeb5422 3 місяці тому

    I love your video. i like how you took the old drain pump motor apart and showed the yuk that accumulates inside. the details on every little thing is wonderful and so educational. this is so expensive to have a technician come and replace this when it isnt difficult to do yourself. Thank you for this video.

  • @pebelleeb5422
    @pebelleeb5422 3 місяці тому

    No need to unhook any wires on the door switch. Just take the 2 screws out and leave it alone until ready to assemble back. I have the exact same washer and have been replacing the drain pump motor every 2 years.

  • @pebelleeb5422
    @pebelleeb5422 3 місяці тому

    you dont need to unhook any wires on the front control panel. Just sit it up on the top to get it out of the way

  • @pebelleeb5422
    @pebelleeb5422 3 місяці тому

    I had no idea there were little filters in the back on the hot and cold water hook ups. i removed mine and they were so full of stuff. your video is the first educational video to show this. THANK YOU

  • @ricogarcia6717
    @ricogarcia6717 3 місяці тому

    I love how you keep a smile, laugh and keep a positive attitude, even with the issues you had. You are a blessing, just like my wife, we fixed our washer with your video, Thanks

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 3 місяці тому

      Thank you. Please give your wife an extra hug, my wonderful, darling, light and love of my life, the reason I smiled passed away in June. I miss him so much but I’m so thankful he helped me and that I can watch us together as often as I can.

  • @danielmcgregor8803
    @danielmcgregor8803 3 місяці тому

    Nice video. TY for the review!

  • @SoTheAdventure
    @SoTheAdventure 3 місяці тому

    Oh my friend, I am so sorry 😞

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 3 місяці тому

      Thank you, it’s the heaviest most painful pain I’ve ever felt.

    • @SoTheAdventure
      @SoTheAdventure 3 місяці тому

      @@pondarosalife7790 😢keeping you in my thoughts🙏🏽

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 3 місяці тому

      Thank you

  • @floridaexplorer6530
    @floridaexplorer6530 3 місяці тому

    Beautiful sentiment.

  • @ikemachamer7904
    @ikemachamer7904 3 місяці тому

    Ten years since I lost my husband and I'm still messed up. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 3 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing. I’ve never known this kind of pain. I can understand when you say so much time has passed and you are still messed up. Hugs.

  • @liquidtick
    @liquidtick 3 місяці тому

    I’m sorry for your loss, I think it’s a very good thing you keep him alive in your memory. I wish you all the best.

  • @ronda3231
    @ronda3231 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much!! I was able to fix my machine because of y’all. What a blessing.

  • @nicholascowley8885
    @nicholascowley8885 4 місяці тому

    My son and I made one of these for less than $50 out of pvc pipe, a roll of screen, some zip ties, and we bought a fly trap for the container and black bug ball. It was actually a fun day project to do with my son.

  • @charlierivers631
    @charlierivers631 4 місяці тому

    I bet it works. However, today June 2024 I checked their web site and they are $350 plus $49 for a grand total of $399. I think it is outrageously expensive for something that it is simple to make and probably doesn't cost maybe $50 to make, but that is just my humble opinion. Still is a great little invention.

  • @vikp6115
    @vikp6115 5 місяців тому

    You could just pulled the pipe from the buttom it's held by 3 bolts , took me 5 min to do everything

  • @tthomestead2763
    @tthomestead2763 5 місяців тому

    Lean the washer back. You can reach all of that from the bottom.

  • @everythingsports5480
    @everythingsports5480 6 місяців тому

    This sounds so soothing

  • @mohanperformance.enginerd.1308
    @mohanperformance.enginerd.1308 6 місяців тому

    I am soooo glad I am single.

  • @EnderwolfSilver
    @EnderwolfSilver 7 місяців тому

    Thats cute

  • @Moonsfire62
    @Moonsfire62 7 місяців тому

    Bet that feels good! ❤

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 7 місяців тому

      He loves getting brushed. Especially during shedding season.

  • @debradann9210
    @debradann9210 7 місяців тому

    Gads....this brings back so many fond memories!

  • @valeriacruz2616
    @valeriacruz2616 7 місяців тому

    Oh so satisfying

  • @_milkysoup
    @_milkysoup 7 місяців тому

    This looks like an equigroomer used for short haired dogs

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 7 місяців тому

      I have one of those for our dogs. It works great for our dogs and cats. 👍

  • @DanielCardei
    @DanielCardei 7 місяців тому

    He approves the tool 😁

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 7 місяців тому

      He loves it. I forgot to mention that, he is so sensitive when I brush him and this brush never seems to bother him so he loves It too

  • @thlee3
    @thlee3 7 місяців тому

    seems like he leaning into you for the brushies 😊

  • @leepastrana
    @leepastrana 7 місяців тому

    Looks like you can access the pump by tilting the machine back? Correct me if I am wrong?

    • @manuelarriaga2004
      @manuelarriaga2004 5 місяців тому

      you are correct.. Tilt it up, underneath is a hole /access to remove the two screws seen at 12:08 then remove the front screw seen at 11:16 ( use screw driver to pry little bit) then the drain assembly can be pulled out under the big bottom hole/access- without removing any hoses.. replace pump then do it in opposite, the longest part is tilting the machine - quick and easy

  • @Wolf_Storm_22Blue-qs1jy
    @Wolf_Storm_22Blue-qs1jy 8 місяців тому

    Horses only eating 1 times a day I like the video but you need to feed it twice

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 8 місяців тому

      Thank you. He has good, rich mixed grass hay (alfalfa, timothy and orchard) free choice 24/7.

  • @lucyprice6237
    @lucyprice6237 8 місяців тому

    Poor horse!

  • @tammyramirez9391
    @tammyramirez9391 8 місяців тому

    Horses eat once a day? Wow

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 8 місяців тому

      My horses have good, rich mixed grass hay (alfalfa, timothy and orchard) free choice 24/7. So not once a day but all day long 😂😂

  • @bassin692
    @bassin692 8 місяців тому

    There is just no way those horses love you... ;)

  • @luaranagy9315
    @luaranagy9315 8 місяців тому

    Fed only once a day?

    • @pondarosalife7790
      @pondarosalife7790 8 місяців тому

      Thank you. He has good, rich mixed grass hay (alfalfa, timothy and orchard) free choice 24/7.

  • @lorisingbeil9780
    @lorisingbeil9780 8 місяців тому

    Say It An’t Soo 😎😉🤣🤣🤣

  • @ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname
    @ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname 8 місяців тому

    The look of disappointments in his eyes when food bringer say mean stuff like that 😂😂😂

  • @anthonygareau5604
    @anthonygareau5604 8 місяців тому

    He is like then im gonna be first in line ,bye😂

  • @chadchristian5776
    @chadchristian5776 8 місяців тому

    He looked at you like whhaaaat?

  • @kathyshoemaker2915
    @kathyshoemaker2915 8 місяців тому

    That last look is priceless ❤

  • @ameliaeverett1727
    @ameliaeverett1727 8 місяців тому

    How many hands high was Docs Keepin Time, particularly in The Horse Whisperer?

  • @EJMEQUESTRIAN
    @EJMEQUESTRIAN 8 місяців тому

    Haha he’s hoping if he keeps staring it might magically reopen

  • @SleepiBliss
    @SleepiBliss 8 місяців тому

    "Are you serious right now?"

  • @patsabol8699
    @patsabol8699 8 місяців тому

    But, what if tomorrow doesn't come??

  • @DarleneGray-v9d
    @DarleneGray-v9d 8 місяців тому

    Me want a snack. Tomorrow is too far away mam.