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Dolly Alderton: The Unwritten Vow of Friendship
Today’s conversation is dedicated to the many loves that make up our lives-especially that of our friends. Dolly Alderton is a Sunday Times and New York Times bestselling writer and memoirist. She recognizes the great gift of the friends who have walked with her through many seasons of life-all the highs and lows and inbetweens.
Listen here: katebowler.com/podcasts/
In this conversation, Kate and Dolly discuss:
- The great loves that make up a life
- The push-pull of loving relationships with your body
- The power of witness
If you liked this conversation, you'll also like:
Liz Gilbert on fostering creative lives: katebowler.com/podcasts/why-your-creativity-matters/
Sarah Bessey on living inside our (actual) bodies: katebowler.com/podcasts/sarah-bessey-ordinary-miracles/
Tim Omundson and Joel McHale on being a friend through hard times:
katebowler.com/podcasts/timothy-omundson-joel-mchale-flying-buttresses/
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Sam Wells: Being With
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How do you stay close to someone whose pain you can’t fix, whose questions you can’t answer? In this episode, Kate sits down with her dear friend, the Rev. Dr. Sam Wells, a longtime advocate of “being with,” a theology that goes beyond advice and into the sacred space of simply staying. Sam-vicar at London’s St.-Martin-in-the-Fields, an astonishingly wise thinker, and one of Kate’s favorite peo...
Wilma Derksen: Living with What You Cannot Change
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There are some realities we can never get over. And yet, we keep living. How do we do that well? Wilma Derksen writes and speaks on the topics of victimization and criminal justice. Her wisdom is hardwon. In the mid-80s, Wilma’s daughter, Candace, was murdered. Their family’s response to this tragedy has inspired so many people…and you’ll soon see why. CW: murder of a child In this conversation...
Parker Palmer: Standing in the Gap
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How do we stay hopeful in the face of despair and disillusionment-especially when politics threaten to tear us in two? Kate speaks with Parker Palmer, a writer, teacher, and activist. As you’ll hear, he has gone through seasons of deep clinical depression, and has hard-won wisdom to share with us on how to survive, how to regain a sense of agency, how to remain hopeful despite it all. Listen he...
Charles Spencer: Confronting the Past
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📧 If you want to receive my weekly newsletter: bit.ly/sukbnws We need more room to be honest about what it costs when people or institutions fail us. Today's conversation is with Lord Charles Spencer, the 9th Earl Spencer. You might also know him as Princess Diana's brother. His latest book, A Very Private School, is a courageous and beautifully written memoir about his time in an abusive Engli...
Tembi Locke: Grief of the Almosts
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In every deep relationship, there comes a point where we are asked to give up something of ourselves or change in ways we never anticipated. Who will this make me? What will this love cost? Tembi Locke fell in love with an Italian chef named Saro when she was studying abroad in Italy during college. Their romance was a story for the big screen. (Quite literally. One starring Zoe Saldana.) Liste...
Kathryn Mannix: Living with the End in Mind
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What if you started thinking really concretely about small, hard choices? That’s exactly what palliative care physicians do every day. They help us think about what we really want-knowing that we have limited time and limited resources. You’re going to love our guest today, Dr. Kathryn Mannix, palliative care physician and cognitive behavioral therapist. She offers practical steps to help peopl...
Father Greg Boyle: Unshakable Goodness
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Sometimes you really need someone to believe that you are good. Unshakably good. Over 30 years ago, Father Greg Boyle started working with gang members in Los Angeles through Homeboy Industries. The lessons that he learns from whom he calls “homies” are contagious. Every day, they teach him about what it means to heal, to belong to one another, to practice compassion, and to relearn how to feel...
Anyone else think of 2020 and go WHAT EVEN HAPPENED THERE?
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Anyone else think of 2020 and go WHAT EVEN HAPPENED THERE?
Christie Watson: The Absurdity (and Joy) of Midlife
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Christie Watson: The Absurdity (and Joy) of Midlife
Kate Bowler and Rainn Wilson on a Spiritual Revolution
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Kate Bowler and Rainn Wilson on a Spiritual Revolution
Sharon McMahon: Drops Make an Ocean
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Sharon McMahon: Drops Make an Ocean
A blessing for permission to feel it all
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A blessing for permission to feel it all
Francis Collins: Foolish Hopes
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Francis Collins: Foolish Hopes
Everything Happens with Richard Hays
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Everything Happens with Richard Hays
Pastors are heroes.
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Pastors are heroes.
Richard Hays: Change at Any Age
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Richard Hays: Change at Any Age
A Weary World Rejoices: Advent 2024
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A Weary World Rejoices: Advent 2024
Nicholas Kristof: Hope is a Muscle
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Nicholas Kristof: Hope is a Muscle
Introducing Season 13 of Everything Happens with Kate Bowler
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Introducing Season 13 of Everything Happens with Kate Bowler
Blessing for a New School Year | Summer of Blessings
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Blessing for a New School Year | Summer of Blessings
Hope Wears Sneakers with David Fajgenbaum
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Hope Wears Sneakers with David Fajgenbaum
A Blessing for When You're Different Now | Summer of Blessings
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A Blessing for When You're Different Now | Summer of Blessings
Wisdom on Mortality and Hope with Funeral Director Thomas Lynch
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Wisdom on Mortality and Hope with Funeral Director Thomas Lynch
How to Cope with Loneliness
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How to Cope with Loneliness
A Blessing for Caregivers | Summer of Blessings
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A Blessing for Caregivers | Summer of Blessings
Navigating the Rollercoaster of Cancer and Heartache: A Conversation with Author Suleika Jaouad
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Navigating the Rollercoaster of Cancer and Heartache: A Conversation with Author Suleika Jaouad
A Blessing for Around the Table | Summer of Blessings
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A Blessing for Around the Table | Summer of Blessings
Extraordinary Empathy with Psychologist Abigail Marsh
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Extraordinary Empathy with Psychologist Abigail Marsh
A Blessing For When the Unthinkable Happens | Summer of Blessings
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A Blessing For When the Unthinkable Happens | Summer of Blessings

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @cmcburney1
    @cmcburney1 20 годин тому

    Excellent interview!! Thanks!! Incredible book!!

  • @wendymichiko
    @wendymichiko День тому

    Oh Kate, how I adore you!!

  • @EL-ub2df
    @EL-ub2df День тому

    3:15

  • @terriwerning3477
    @terriwerning3477 3 дні тому

    Boom. Truth bomb!!

  • @terriwerning3477
    @terriwerning3477 3 дні тому

    “Forgiveness is losing the desire to have had a better past”. This resonates with me. I kept going back and listening to that quote, I wrote it down to keep in front of me. What a profound truth that I need to apply daily. Thank you ❤.

  • @JaneDoe-ft8sz
    @JaneDoe-ft8sz 3 дні тому

    Perhaps Charles could contact in some way with Father Greg Boyle. Father G has loooong experience with healing wounds.

  • @Jules-zw7iu
    @Jules-zw7iu 4 дні тому

    What makes a life beautiful...? 🤔

  • @Jules-zw7iu
    @Jules-zw7iu 4 дні тому

    Sounds like Sam's friend maybe has ME/CFS illness. This is what I have and am largely housebound in my 20s. This podcast really spoke to me. Strange how you can be given or find hope in the face of the worst of circumstances - a hope that doesn't say 'it will all get better' etc. But it's still hope.

  • @joycestewart7092
    @joycestewart7092 5 днів тому

    Normally I can listen to your podcast while walking around the house or outside, doing things - the usual multi tasking that keeps many of us feeling simultaneously productive and overwhelmed. This podcast stopped me in my tracks. I could do nothing else but sit on the edge of the bed and listen, tears streaking my face. Being with... this concepts will stick with me - I hope for a very long time. Thank you to Rev Wells, you and all that made these stories come alive and into my home, my heart this morning.

  • @faranh1
    @faranh1 5 днів тому

    "the fire of hope" is a beautiful phrase that sticks with me. I also deeply resonated with the idea of not focusing on a successful or happy or perfect life but a beautiful one. I needed those words.

  • @robertamartin-m3x
    @robertamartin-m3x 5 днів тому

    This is such a beautiful podcast. Kate you are a lovely soul. Balm for this world!

  • @robertamartin-m3x
    @robertamartin-m3x 5 днів тому

    This is such a beautiful podcast. Kate you are a lovely soul. Balm for this world!

  • @cindymc716
    @cindymc716 5 днів тому

    Is there a transcript of the piece Sam read about hope?

  • @suzannebotts7413
    @suzannebotts7413 5 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @geraldschiera1883
    @geraldschiera1883 5 днів тому

    The older I get, the more I dislike those kinds of platitudes. Of course they have their place, but I feel like they get used too much.

  • @janetmoberg8926
    @janetmoberg8926 5 днів тому

    I can't love this enough.

  • @vlong7112
    @vlong7112 6 днів тому

    You are a treasure and I'm so glad we're on the planet at the same time 🫰🏽❤️

  • @itsawonderfullife4732
    @itsawonderfullife4732 6 днів тому

    Please cite what is said at 33:23 by Kate. Her last word in unintelligible. Thanks.

    • @terrymott2816
      @terrymott2816 13 годин тому

      Fr. Greg often says to the homies, "what a gift it would be to have a son like you"...♥️

  • @christinaisaak9765
    @christinaisaak9765 7 днів тому

    What a beautiful podcast , just what I needed today

  • @rhondahewett4287
    @rhondahewett4287 7 днів тому

    Absolutely beautiful. This is what my heart needed as I was looking at our political landscape this morning and feeling scared for the future. Hope is a fire.❤

  • @marydickey3404
    @marydickey3404 7 днів тому

    Thank you😢

  • @alidapretorius7239
    @alidapretorius7239 7 днів тому

    What a profound poem. It touched my soul. Thank you for this awesome interview and everything else you do.

  • @diannhall7564
    @diannhall7564 7 днів тому

    “Come let us reason together “ 😊📖✝️

  • @eaglesfield63
    @eaglesfield63 10 днів тому

    While I agree that a child can handle more than over protective parents want them to, it’s not your place. That’s a really arrogant stance to take. It’s not you that has to deal with the scared child at night. Children will learn about death soon enough. That’s what hamsters are for

  • @PS2Unow
    @PS2Unow 12 днів тому

    Thank you Kate. As ever, your interviews enrich our ability to feel, to understand our feelings and expand those feelings and insight.

  • @melaniefritz1384
    @melaniefritz1384 13 днів тому

    Wow. “Do they do anything for another person that genuinely cannot benefit themselves?”

  • @KarenRomero-i8y
    @KarenRomero-i8y 14 днів тому

    Thank you very much ❤

  • @judyriddell
    @judyriddell 14 днів тому

    I busted out crying at this snip. I haven't even watched the entire interview. It is so hard to forgive myself for my humanness. Day by day.

  • @terriwerning3477
    @terriwerning3477 14 днів тому

    So true!!! Always being real, Kate!!

  • @mariaschwab4282
    @mariaschwab4282 14 днів тому

    What an amazing woman - wow

  • @kathrynlervick8307
    @kathrynlervick8307 14 днів тому

    Heart expanding - mind ❤blowing. I well re❤counted. So well interviewed.

  • @trishasellers4798
    @trishasellers4798 17 днів тому

    Thank you!

  • @sarahhill1470
    @sarahhill1470 18 днів тому

    so good

  • @BarbaraAshburn-v2v
    @BarbaraAshburn-v2v 18 днів тому

    Perfect and so timely today.

  • @sapofish
    @sapofish 19 днів тому

    So WISE, so HEALING, so NEEDED in this moment!! Thank you Kate! Thank you Parker! sharing far and wide and mostly amplifying the message in my own heart and life!

  • @pasadenamennonitechurch
    @pasadenamennonitechurch 19 днів тому

    One of my heroes as well, knew that I too would find hope on this dark day.

  • @terrywilliams3162
    @terrywilliams3162 20 днів тому

    Thank you. I needed this after yesterday's election and the darkness and sadness I feel today.

  • @Arrow3855
    @Arrow3855 20 днів тому

    Thank you both for reaching out a life affirming hand. You

  • @joycestewart7092
    @joycestewart7092 20 днів тому

    Thank you so much for this heart felt experience.

  • @bobwhitlok
    @bobwhitlok 20 днів тому

    Two of my favorite humans! Today I needed these words more than ever. Thank you

  • @karenrice3210
    @karenrice3210 20 днів тому

    Especially today! Thank you. I printed out Parker's poem to put on my fridge. Powerful and helpful words.

  • @Zbehdnrhcjrben
    @Zbehdnrhcjrben 20 днів тому

    I am 52. It is too late for me to become an astronaut, among other things.

  • @nikkibarone1810
    @nikkibarone1810 20 днів тому

    Wise words.

  • @roenabarbre4156
    @roenabarbre4156 21 день тому

    Many thanks for this interview TODAY?

  • @Lori_g70
    @Lori_g70 21 день тому

    Everything does happen for a reason and the reason is to reveal to us that we are not in control

  • @clarehand4098
    @clarehand4098 22 дні тому

    This is so helpful and deeply comforting. Thank you.

  • @BitterbeackBOWLS
    @BitterbeackBOWLS 22 дні тому

    Defending a centre that can not hold has no reason to exist but by the choices we make. To circumvent life by it happened for a reason are balancing act between good or bad intention. If it's bad pray for it if it's good be grateful ❤

  • @onepiecefannN1
    @onepiecefannN1 24 дні тому

    Maybe the point of this or just what I got out of it is well. I think that there's reason first stuff. I want to believe that and it could be that. Just you don't know why sometimes. Yes, stuff does just happen? I don't think it happens for no reason. I just don't know where it is because it's something. I gotta understand that. No one can really understand that evil is something. It's just you don't know why I guess that's okay.Think what I got out of it is just if you don't really know why something happens and just don't think about it too much and that stuff just happens sometimes

  • @mariaschwab4282
    @mariaschwab4282 26 днів тому

    LOVED the book, and the Netflix series. . . .so enjoyed this conversation!

  • @janetearls37
    @janetearls37 26 днів тому

    Love this opportunity. Where would we find the playlist mentioned?