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Fear of Flying-the Work of Byron Katie
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My Mother Abandoned Me for Alcohol-the Work of Byron Katie
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The work of Byron Katie
Приєднався 23 лип 2014
I am laughing and smiling through tears with him♥️😘🤗
how do you get an alive inquiry?
is it true my mother abandoned me for alcohol?
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At first this seems very prescriptive and I felt that BK is just speaking from the perspective of a pampered american whos never had to live through a REAL WAR, so it seemed demeaning and like a cheap trick for the sake of the cameras because people in front of an audience naturally wont want to disagree with the 'expert' .. they will go along and say 'yes' because being in agreement is much more comfortable than being in disagreement, especially in public !!!! It all comes from our deep need for CONNECTION ... agreeing with someone feels like connection ... that is how cults work too .. .noone wants to feel like they are 'not in on the joke' so to speak ... we want to belong .. and belonging generally means agreeing .. So as someone below says, this could be a clear act of gaslighting .. 'if you disagree with the formula, youre just gonna look stupid ' ..... and everyone here will see that ... . you know what outcome BK is aiming for , and like children our 'soft' brain susses out what we have to do to be loved and accepted ... noone wants to feel like they failed or didnt get it And all the while BK makes a million dollars for the show .... a lot of people on the 'non-duality' track are making a fortune on people's fear .... Trauma and fear DOES get lodged in our body memory .. it seems over simplifying to say just drop those memories. Even though its true that FEAR for the future is very damaging and almost creates more of the same ... 'planning' a war in our heads and preparing for it in our minds, living in flight or fight ... ... is a result of memory and past trauma .. Though I appreciate that she is trying to free people from past trauma ... What she describes about not noticing youre in pain until later is simply a matter of adrenaline ... very often the adrenaline of an accident blocks the pain ... not to do with your mind ... its a physiological fact. The pain comes when our body's healing processes kick in .. inflammation etc . When you burn yourself .. often the pain that comes once the initial shock has worn off is worse .... especially if infection sets in ... If BK took this philosophy to its end point, she could say " My child was killed by a bomb and all its limbs ended up in a tree ... AND MY LIFE WILL BE BETTER FOR IT ! It was the best thing that happened to me and my child " ... If here philosophy was 100% true, she would be able to see this .. To compare fear to violence is really taking it too far .. that is a violence in itself. This is the danger of many non-dual movements .. its dissociative .. like hypnosis. Which means you can cut through very human functions and attributes .. like CONSCIENCE !!! for one thing. It doesn't remove trauma .. it can just be another way to push it down. But that is handy toa cult leader because it stops the person feeling the pain of being at odds with the group or 'movement'... HOWEVER ... on the positive ... life without fear is certainly a kind of freedom ...but there is a very important reason for feeling pain ... its the body's signal to the brain that something is wrong ... if you follow BKs way you might carry on with your normal day when you actually need to see a doctor !!! just being practical !! Taking that further , it is also a way to train humaneness out of people .. like soildiers have to be desensitized to do what they do, by having a list of orders and commands which basically hypnotises them and stops the normal human responses whiles in war ... (but then they get home and their lives fall apart as the trauma of what they did and saw resurfaces ... this is the same .. BK's apparently harmless list of instructions to the self ...is another way to by-pass our humanity ... it's hypnosis.
this is just wrong
My mother DID abandon me for Alcohol.
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Yo sentiria miedo si me explota una pierna,o alguna parte de mi cuerpo y no me muero,tendria que sufrir ese dolor fisico.me da miedo el dolor fisico mio y de los animales y personas😢
3:15 this is gaslighting and strongly ignoring the fact that bombing could not just erase... but wound and injure
i agree
the point also is, do you want to suffer it once when it happens or over and over again in your mind?! The assumption also seems to be, you wouldn't try to reach safety without putting yourself in a state of fear. Most often calm and collected reaches the best solutions
She can understand English but speaks in German, this doesn’t make sense 😢
not German
@@Wildgarden1 Russian?
@@mrwise7067 i have no idea but i don't understand it as a german
@@mrwise7067not Russian either
shes not speaking German ! maybe Hebrew ! and its very common for people who can understand English cant always speak it fluently, plus there MAY possibly be an earphone with instant translation >
I was feeling really passionate about sea diving and I came here because of the sharks, now I feel honored to feed them in case it happens LoL this work is something else 😂😂😂
thank you, that is SUCH a cool and beautiful perspective for me
Gracias !!
„Reality is always kinder than your thinking.“ 🙏🏻✨
that is not true.
What a amazing man.
Absolute insanity! This is the epitome of NEW AGE NONSENSE. I'm sure the children of Israel and Gaza think what they see is just images. Cult think and using words to deceive.
Its so interesting to watch how he responds when he believes the story he's always told himself, so sad and broken; and then when he uses inquiry, and turns the thoughts around, he Is released from the sadness! Amazing, and so life altering for me, as I do identify with this man! Thank you for doing the work! Thank you for helping me!! ❤
Very powerful 💙💙💙
What a wonderful man!
In that way you can excused all abusers...I wonder what she will tell to somebody who was sexually abused as a child?...
OMgosh.... That was so powerful and freeing.
I realize some will not go there with this knowledge but I think it wonderful, even as emotional as it is for those it affects!
I am afraid I am getting a massive panic attack before and in the plane, haven’t booked a flight in 6 years. Before I was a backpacker, visited India multiple times. So my worksheet has to be filled! It is so funny the story about being a backpacker is so far away and only a story. In the end I am now not that person anymore, it is like a rebirth and in that rebirth I am not a backpacker, how wonderful and I do not have to fulfill that expectation anymore, I can be somebody else I can be me this time.
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Thank you for this video.
Thank you for sharing this
Dear Katy. I watch your work since last week only but I gained already so much joy. I am experencing happines with every soul who takes part in inq. with You. It is such joy to see happines and end of suffer. Thank you from the botom of my heart. God bless us all and please liberate us from ilusion we are living in.
This was a beautiful lesson Get off the plane in your head, and get on the one that isn't crashing in front of you
Wow this one really hits home. I need to watch many times to work through myself. Thank you for doing the work and sharing.
Thank you; beautiful, light hearted soul
She is actually being very kind here. When I saw her many years ago in a small church in the states, she literally ripped everyone a new a-hole; brutally, but in the kindest and most loving way. We were all blown away by her!!!
I love Katie's work method, but her work with ppl often goes to this places where u can't relate and it all sounds like an attempt to ignore whatever happens. No, a person can't sit still and enjoy the flowers when sirens are going on, or bombs are going on. That's an awful thing she describes here, although I understand what she's trying to say.
Is it true nobody - not one person in the world - can sit still when that happens? Is it true you must remain glued to your sofa / chair and not try to save your life when you hear sirens? Is that what BK implies? Can we absolutely know that? Is it true you must save your life? Is it true everyone must be able to relate to everything she says? And what does 'relating' mean? - - These could be a few questions one could put to your statements / beliefs.
@@mandar13579 well. there is war that is going on.
Me cuesta tambien en casos asi,igual con el sufrimiento animal,o asesinatos.el pensamiento "estas sufriendo" es fuerte,porque uno se siente mal por el sufrimiento del otro.no sabemos realmente si gritan o lloran es por su dolor fisico,aunque mi mente lo relaciona con un SI.:/ creo que deberiamos indagar el pensamiento: no deberian estar sufriendo",la realidad es que si deberian porque es lo que es,y ahi uno ayudar.y aceptar nuestra propia tristeza en ese momento
i agree ... she wanders off into a world of denial and dissociation, like other non-dualism teachers .. then it becomes dangerous .. you can train soldiers to go against their humanness by shouting orders to cut through fear it also makes it easier to kill other human beings .. ! Thus ignoring the REAL human feelings underneath ... to fear violence is a good thing .. surely ? It shows us that it is to be avoided !!! If bombs are falling and your children are in danger of course you arent going to sit there and ignore your fear and tell yourself "if my children are bombed its be the best thing that ever happened to me !!" this would be inhuman ... and this is where her philosophy can be dangerous ... it relies on a kind of cult-like hypnosis, that cuts through normal human instincts ... and also relies on peoples deep need for connection, especially wounded people, which everyone is to a degree ... BELONGING and being accepted, depends upon AGREEMENT ... so you see all these people denying their real feelings in order to appear like they have got the idea .. this is about hypnosis .. watch BK's hand signal that she repeats a lot .. two fingers together hypnotists all use certain signals to induce a state of hypnosis. All that being said I believe BK does have a genuine compassion .. but I thik her techniques are often questionable, she is contradicting herself as well .. she is basically saying its WRONG to be fearful, or afraid, or sad, or regretful .. etc ...but in other places, she is saying 'let yourself shake' what is wrong with shaking in fear ... let it be there .... SO on teh one hand she is saying DENY your feelings, on the other ACKNOWLEDGE them .. so she is not even consistent, and giving people only part of the truth, means they will come back for more ... and she continues to get the audiences and make the money , by keeping people on the 'hook'
@@mandar13579 what is true .. is what you DO in the moment ... and I bet there isn't one person including BK who would just sit still and not save their children .. .OR be saying to themselves 'this is the BEST thing that could be happening to my children ... and hey isnt it wonderful that they got blown to bits while I sat on the sofa doing BK's worksheet !!! ANYONE who attempts to cut through your normal HEALTHY human feelings, is likely just cutting you off from your roots in order to gain your full attention ..(like cults cut people off from their families .. ).. this usually benefits the cult leader in some way .. through profit or dependency of their followers. Its a mind f*** to put it bluntly. Trust the ones who LOVE you and who reassure you 'its ok to feel fear, terror, pain, as a human' .. its normal and natural to feel the whole spectrum of emotions in their natural context ... ie when they reflect an actual situation of threat, danger, genuine loss or trauma. Its when she goes over the bounds of natural human response to infer that these emotions are not necessary and tries to turn them into the opposite that i mistrust her ...its a kind of violence in itself. Inferring you should be free from fear is what they do to soldiers to get them to kill other human beings and go to war ... its hypnosis through CUTTING OFF natural human emotions. Hypnosis in other words. When you allow human feelings to be as they are , not to deny them (but not acting them out, or indulging them) then they can bring realisation and release, and you preserve your humanity .. if you wish to be someone who can watch your mother dying in pain from cancer and feel only joy, thinking its probably the 'best thing that could be happening to her' ... instead of being REAL and experiencing and acknowledging your grief in that moment ... then you are probably a ROBOT ! (notice her physical trick of the two (fore and middle) fingers when she is speaking .. (hypnotists use repetitive slightly unusual gestures as a tool for subconscious repatterning - (fine if you are aware of it and have agreed to it but not otherwise) If for some reason based on the individual situation you truly and genuinely feel joy in a situation of terror or loss, that is different. But trying to artificially feel what you aren't feeling, is not helpful. And everyone has their own process ... often you have to go right into the centre of something for it to transform itself ..so one day you might feel SUCH intense fear that an inner transformation occurs and you go to a space of intense peace and fearlessness ... but that is all an individual process, on an INDIVIDUAL timeline ... not something you can force ... (but you can make a heap of money pretending you can get others to force it !!!) ! As for calling victims 'violent' ... this is verging on insane What is REAL is what is TRUE , and what is TRUE comes from inside ourselves .. not from some external prescriptive formula from outside ... Her formula is PRESCRIPTIVE .and by its nature prescription means everyone needs the same answer ... but that is not real freedom. What is REAL is transformative and that comes from the INSIDE ... from our own awareness of and ability to to be true to what is real WITHIN ourselves .. not to twist our minds into pretzels to adopt some new theory of what freedom means . At moments where she genuinely stops trying to 'do her trick' on the mind, and actually MEETS THAT PERSON WHERE THEY ARE , rather than subtly giving them a message about who they SHOULD be ...then I believe her, because I see her genuine compassion .. But being REAL, doesn't bring the crowds in or make money .. when someone allows you to be REAL, the healing happens by itself, the freedom comes as a lived truth. If yo listen to most of the people she is doing her number on, they are all wanting to PLEASE ... to 'get it' like trying to solve a maths problem to please your maths teacher !!!!
Amazing! But it will not work for 98% of the audience but you yourself know that! The fact is that Tolle's "Pain Body" turns out to have a physical body too, which works reflexively, automatically and constantly! You must discover it in yourself first.
Is it true it won't work for a certain percentage of people? Is it true it has to work for everyone all the time? What does it mean for The Work to work? -- These could be a few questions one could put to your statements / beliefs.
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Thank you! I needed this too. Especially now.
Thinking of war and sitting here with the flowers, that is so true!
that is called solidarity.
I needed this. I been watching imgur Ukraine invasion all week!!!!! War in my mind!!
me too!!! I was looking for a positive distraction and this is what I found. grace
Going on a flight on Saturday for the first time in 2 years. This is so helpful. “Flying is 100% safe apart from the thoughts you’re having about it”
Anyone who goes to a Byron Katie seminar is already half way to healing. No one who is still in a state of emotional warfare would attend.
That's true. When the student is ready, the teacher appears. Also people watching this, and learning from it, are pointing to the right direction for healing through love and liberation.
Spoiler alert: He became a pilot after this.
1. Is it true? 2. Absolutely true? 3. How do you react when you think/believe that thought? 4. Who would you be w/o the thought? 6:43 Mental movies 🎥🍿 Gratitude and How can I help? 18:34 Thoughts showing up isn't the issue. It's when you start believing them 30:08 😂
1. Is it true? Y/N 2. Do you absolutely know []? 3. How do you react (treat X) when you think []? Emotions What happens when you think []? Go into the situation 4. Who would you be without the thought []? Witness who'd you be? (Compassion. Gratitude) 5. Turnaround Sit it in. Your tears and emotions have a right to life X did this to me I did that to X X didn't do this to me + Examples 12:30 18:25 <3 🥺 Inquiry: 21:13 30:20 Experience = Heart = Can't be fabricated. Only experienced 40:40 Only I choose to feel something. It's what I believe that makes me feel it 43:20 making amends. Now and forever
I'd like to see Byron Katie go to a random meeting of Children of Alcoholics. How many people would be as receptive?
Thank you so much for posting this video ❤️
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Awesome
Omg MY STORY. I memorized it! I resent changing it