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Found your channel happenstance, lucky me ! I know for sure as we get older we must be positive in everything. I find it a bit challenging , peoples mindset. I’m a happy go lucky person who loves to and want to try new things learn new things travel ,meet people , dance etc. How I would love to meet someone like that even just a little. He doesn’t have to be extreme just content and down to earth and positive. It is so good for our health.

I want younger men so...😂

It seems to me the man is watching the red pill contents on UA-cam and learning about how women act, speak. Say , and is slowly understanding ,how women think..

The advice is learn from being 60 or older...if a man wants to take you out he will let you know .if he doesn't ask he doesn't want to..no one is 20 years old and time remaining is precious..no time left for games or trying to open someone's mind..he is the same age as you he is not a boy..he is a full grown man..stop wasting time ..move on and love yourself with what time you have left

Why complain? Just make a decision. Maybe she stated she likes being independent. If he is not initiating, regardless of the reasons, and you don't like it, then stop asking. If he is a good guy then stay with him and keep asking him out as he is still going out on the dates. Now, if he starts making excuses not to go out, then yeah, move on.

I am very transparent, but I hate when the man tries to hide stuff. That's why I'm single

He is not interested Move on.

❤ good for you guys. 😊 this is a great topic and information shared.

Congrats on your Engagement. Is Dave AFRO American?

I am retired. Most single women over 50 are overweight and looking for a man to fund their retirement.

This is the best channel ever for me in matters dating. Thank you for the insights.

Con: adult children’s interference and their opinions

If men are looking for a "nurse and a purse", then the majority of women are looking for an additional retirement plan or wanting to do things they can't afford to do being single. Beware men... especially if you have a business or property. Now that's out of the way, life is full of compromises for women AND men. Women aren't the only one who sacrifice. Dating and marriage consists of TWO people and is not that hard. It's only hard if you are selfish and unwilling to compromise. You can't live a single lifestyle as a married person, if wanting a single's lifestyle just stay single.

Thanks for highlighting my question. Let me add more details. He is retired, and he does pay, I paid when we went out for his birthday. He has introduced me to many of his family members. I have told him he is sending me mixed signals. I get frustrated because I feel like I shouldn't have to tell a 62 year old how to initiate a date.

My wife died 5 years ago I have tried to date. Just to let you know women are toxic at best I still miss my wife after 35 years of marriage

Hello, I’m a psychotherapist who specializes in addiction and mental health issues. I am not licensed and no longer practice. I think the type of questions you are referring to are “open ended questions”. It’s a question that can’t be answered with yes or no. They start with “Tell me” or “How” rather than “why”. Try to avoid “why” questions, they tend to put us on the defensive. Open ended questions make people feel free to answer however they want. You can still “steer” the conversation without letting them know your agenda or being impolite. They keep the conversation flowing. 😊 ~Randi

Keep it moving, sister. If he shows you who he is, believe him. Having to initiate dates is a BIG RED FLAG. Don't waste your time.

Not worth it ladies.

Your main point and my main question is: Who is paying for these dates? I would like to know the answer.

What is the best dating app for seniors? Tried Our Time and EHarmony.

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Intentions??? Does he know what you want? Do you know what he wants? Do you know what YOU want? Do you have "deep" conversations that go beyond "good morning" and "good night"? Do you share each others dreams, wishes, desires, long term goals and plans? What I hear the way the info was shared, is that this is mostly casual chit-chat, with the bare minimum [which she needs to initiate] in personal contact. To me that's not intentional dating, that's hanging out ever so often, and maybe a lot of wishful thinking on her behalf and her imagination running rampant [seriously no insult intended, but we all do that at times]. It also sounds like this is all he needs/wants [or maybe thinks he can get] from you - to fulfill his social needs for interaction. If you don't know all that much about him deep down, he could be anything from being a hermit, a sigma, a lonely or disgruntled divorcee/widower, poor or barely getting by, have social anxiety, a roster of rotating women, or a serious relationship that you are not aware off. I would say if you're on really good + deep terms and also emotionally connect, it's time for a candid sit-down and have "that talk" talk. I generally don't like the idea of a woman having to initiate "the talk", but if you never declared your goals or intentions previously, or were unclear about them - maybe you should. If this is as shallow and superfluous as it sounds, I'd just tell him it's time to let this go or maybe just mentally disengage, sit back and see what he does when you no longer respond or reply as he is expecting. Some men can be a little bit dense, especially initially when they don't know where you're coming from, but 7 months is way past the time I would move on if nothing is happening from his side. To be clear - if you let this go, you need to really LET IT GO all the way. No contact. Because it somehow still fulfills some of your needs as limited as it is right now - maybe because it's safe, or gives you a social connection you crave, or perhaps you crave the steadfast reliability of his messages. But this also seems to hold you back from stepping out of your comfort zone to make yourself available for others...

At that age there is no benefit to a man from a committed relationship with a woman. Only potential liability. Best to keep it casual.

Hey😊 just subscribe!! Thanks for your advice today. I'm single and 58. Haven't taken the dive into dating yet, but I'm getting there.

He is just not that interested and has other options or perhaps he just wants to stay single and be friends and not in a relationship….

Hummmm! There are questions that can be asked, but if he’s showing her his level of interest then she has to choose if it’s what she wants. If she’s good with casual, then great. If not, then take his behavior as his choice and move forward and make herself available for other options.

Greetings, I simply ❤️ your channel. Your "Saturday Morning Question of the Week" brings to mind the times of "Dear Abby." I'm looking forward to joining in on the conversations. To that end, here is what I would do. I suggest asking the gentleman, at their next meeting: what is his intent for THIS relationship/friendship/situationship going forward? I would pose the question in a manner so as to not make him feel defensive, offensive or insulted. Depending on his response, I would then share my decision at THAT meeting. Thanks.

I love how you remind us that we are all different and what works for one person won't necessarily work for another. I have a few thoughts, but these are my opinions, and opinions are like belly buttons - we all have one and if you prefer yours, you certainly don't need mine. No offence taken.: 1. Enjoying time together doesn’t need to cost money. 2. If you are interested in pursuing a deeper connection with this person, it starts with communication. It’s already been 7 months. I dunno, but why don’t you just come out and ask him what’s up? I am lousy at wording things (!) so I’m not the one to advise exactly what to say, but maybe others could chime in on the discussion. My point is, I don’t think I’d want to be involved with someone with whom I’m reluctant to bring up difficult topics. 3. Maybe I’d also ask myself if I believe I am worthy of being pursued. Seems like he has a convenient thing going on that’s been working. I don’t mean to hurt your feelings in any way, but wouldn’t you prefer dating someone who can’t wait to see you again?

A very good day to everyone 🌹🌹

If I were her, I would initiate another get together. And sometime during the course of that time, playfully mention that she has noticed that she's the one who always initiates meeting up. Then casually ask "what's up w that? Is there a reason u text but don't seem eager to meet up?" It shouldn't be in any scolding or criticizing tone but in a 100% curious & lighthearted way, like she is really intrigued & curious as to why this is.

She loves intimacy and much much oral... But does not want to reciprocate. Please advise

I live in the SF Bay Area! 😂 This is the swirl capital! I date whoever I want!

I found love again at age 55 & he was 64, we are engaged to be married this year and we couldn't be better matched. Basically life is wonderful & both our families including grown children are super happy for us. 😁

This is New York City and I'm told I live in the most diverse neighborhood in the country. I don't know if that is true but there are people here from every culture. I've always gone to school with kids of other backgrounds. Parents were very open minded so I am comfortable around diverse people. I've never been married and have dated men from various backgrounds, black, white, hispanic. I don't have a problem with it and I assume they don't either. There can be some bumpy situations at time but I'm less concerned about their backgrounds and more interested in what we have in common. We like the same music, dining out, going to movies and enjoy the city.

I'm 75 and have an acquaintance who wants more companionship however I'm waiting for him to be committed he's only 64

Did women like men in their 20's 30's 40's?. What is this not wanting to be with someone! i don't understand?. There are a lot of Eligible men for dating!. You don't get tired of going places by yourself all the time?. I know people still desire Men! that is impossible to give up wanting to be loved by a Man!.

So happy to have found you because I really appreciate listening to you.Thank for your time ❤

This came up in my feed and I really like it,I’ve joined Groups on Facebook trying to meet like minded Single people but there are SCAMMERS everywhere usually I’m out after a week again.where are good places to meet people my age???.

I just saw your Channel and it’s very positive. I am in the process of getting divorced at 66 and I was married for 2 years and been together for over 8. I’ve heard the dating stories and it doesn’t look promising but there is always someone out there for you. I don’t think I’ll get married again but you never know😊

I'm 66 yrs old and I look good for my age. I wanted to remarry at 1 pt, but I think I would love a companion for now and see where that leads me.

My name is Oluwajemi, from nigeria, i am 61yrs old, i will like to have a good man with a genue heart around me, can u help me plsss? How can i have time with u?

Am 40 hoping to get a 60 yo man . Am not a young men's lover nor am i interested in old men's wealth.

At my age I don’t need a headache!!!

Happy New Year 🎉🎉 🎉🎉

You have a new subscriber ❤️❤️❤️ I’m looking forward to having a companion

After this broadcast and reading comments, I’m now an officially inspired and hopeful 58year old 💘

I just found your channel and I'm turning 65 next month. I've never been married but several relationships over the 40 years. I'm not sure what I want from dating at this stage. I do like my private time, dont want to change my life and I'm still unsure if i even want to date at this age. But I do want to say whatever you're doing is working. You look fabulous!

find a lot of men are looking for a nurse with a purse or a hospice wife. A woman with a pension and social security her own home or condo look like Lena Horne or Beyonce to them. Ladies beware.

I met a guy who seems genuinely interested in me. I'm having trouble getting him past texting good morning, and good night, he textes every single day, good morning and good night. It's been about seven months, and we have gone on 5 dates. They were nice. The problem is we go out when I initiate it. I am ready to give up and keep it moving. He keeps saying he is interested, but we are both 62, and I don't have time for just good morning and good night. Any advice?

Happy new year I am 62 hoping to start dating again