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Yes, this is one area that, curiously, nobody talks about much. Yet it’s very, very, very common. I imagine that they like the free attention and validation, looking for a better deal, or are keeping you around for a backup? I’m also sure that many of those on dating sites also have boyfriends - and even husbands.

Cos H.sapiens isn't monogamous and women are emotional not romantic creatures 🤣

One woman vs many women. Women is "weemen", not woman.

I always say start by treating the girl as a long time girlfriend. In such its not overly sexual, but there is touch, intimacy, joke, and you dont kiss ass. By doing so the girl will both feel comfortable and attracted to you.

Happened a few times to me... One - more recent experince: She's 33 and I am 36. We both have very busy schedules and travel a lot due to our jobs. This said, we met about 6 days ago online on LinkedIn discussing a few business and political topics in the comment section of a post. She then then told me via personal message that she wants to get know me as a "private person" not in a professional context. So we agreed on a date / meeting for today at 11am in a coffee bar (3 hour train ride away for me one way!) and talked there for over two hours about everything from each others life (childhood to what each of us is doing today), incl. about past trauma, life aspirations and even talked about sex. Hence we shared a lot of very private stuff for a first date. Yet in the middle of the date/meeting she mentioned that she has a partner but then also immediately asked me what I want from a relationship. So I told her that I am looking for serious relationship which however could be an open or poly relationship. After I said that she immediately responded that she and her partner are currently, slowly opening up their relationship. A bit later our date ended and I have no clue where I stand even though we agreed to see each other again.

I don`t think woman like this deserve our loyalty.

This is just sad. People don`t value love anymore.

Fck it. I'll alright with my two dogs, acre of land, my RV, my garage with a 6.7 Powerstroke on a 6 inch lift and a Lamborghini Murciélago 😎

Mans spilling all the secrets 😎 🙏

They are always looking for upgrade.

I think dating is waste of time and money. Why date and marry then make our lives 100 times harder? we can just work, get paid, eat, and play video games.

for real and for heaven's sake, how many "beautiful" women should one be after?! Why don't u all youtubers end all this crazy thirst for polygamy?!

This gets me in trouble at work. I'm married, so don't give af about the girls there... which makes me seem cool and attractive I guess? 😂

Truth Men dont need women Truth Real men dont need no one not women not men Truth Women never love the person they love the options that comes with that person Truth Women cheat 99 percent Truth Men are happier alone Go to the most isolated place OK this planet, you will find a old man living there, Again real men dont need any one not men not women

Why downside is a ngative things..like ever?

Interesting conversation. Might be over intellectualizing, seems more the western approach. If you’re able to allow things to come and pass with some guidance you don’t need to figure it all out mentally.

Dating apps are not meant for people to find a partner. They are designed to keep people on there and continue swiping left and right. They foster a “grass is greener” mentality meaning if you swipe right on someone you might be attracted to, you will subconsciously choose to continue swiping on i.e. “If I could get this guy/girl, then I could probably get better”. Dating apps are not meant for you to improve and succeed in your dating life. They are designed for you to fail. I can’t even begin to tell you how many matches I got on all the dating apps I was on that went absolutely nowhere because most girls on there don’t know how to have a normal conversation anymore. Due to my ever-growing frustration, I just got fed up and deleted all of them altogether. They’re just not worth your mental health or self-esteem. I’m still single as of right now, but my mental health and self-esteem have improved significantly since I deleted all of my dating apps. Fellas, if you are not 6 feet tall, 6 inches long, and you don’t have a 6-figure monthly salary, don’t bother because that’s what most girls are looking for on there which comprises less than 1% of guys out there which should tell you how delusional these girls are. They are looking for the kind of guy who probably doesn’t need to use dating apps to find a date and likely has a roster of girls to choose from to meet his needs. Meet girls in real life and who cares if you get rejected? It’s far better than waiting for some girl you met on a dating app to suddenly grow a personality. I’m so glad I’m no longer on dating apps because I know I’m not missing anything being the cesspools that they all are. No dating app will ever be a substitute for getting a girl in real life.

5:48 wtf is that guy doing holy shit

I hear that Bali rooster in the background 🐓😉 also, love this perspective, powerful stuff 🙏

Good tips. Thank you.

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Hey Didi. Are you based in Berlin? Looks like it… Nice video :)

yo diddy?

It's not you, guys, it's the women. Their culture is sick. They have nothing to offer in relationship but disrespect and resentment.

I feel anxious talking to anyone, and it's shame. Shame that I can assess them on the the world is a stage kinda way. Like, take them at face value for my pleasure. It's like I forgot I have vulnerability being at the mercy of others opinions and behaviors, like I turned into a gargoyle and cant conceptualize the passing of time and the fine gradient of sensory perception. There is a silver lining but I'd give it up in a heartbeat.

It wasn't my childhood shaming me, it was HR 😅

I remember last year I went back home and on the road I met a very cute hot girl who was also taking the same road so we started a conversation and after learning a bit of her personality I told her she has an interesting personality and surprisingly she repeated this exact same sentence I said with a rather astonished and amazed voice like if I was the first person who ever said it to her and the day after she looked at me with a genuine smile I can't forget with these eyes telling me I like you.But my dumbass find a way to fuck up any chance to date her for the rest of my life.

Tbh man. In the past a relationship was built together and storms were weathered. Nowadays you are shamed for not being 6ft and you have to be rich off the bat. Its made me realise more then ever that they are not the prize and never will be. I am not molded for their entitlement

I have to say I find it amusing that someone whose YT subscriptions are mostly MGTOW content keeps getting fed a steady stream of this type of video. The universe must be trying to let me know there's someone out there who wants half of my 💩.

It is not tragic, I have so much time for myself, I dont work 2 or 3 jobs anymore, when I am tired of gym I take longer rests now since i dont care about looking great all the time, Ive recently had time to finish few old video games that always wanted to play, reed 4 good books, I have time for my dog... My life is heaven since I dont compete with other guys anymore, hell it even helps me make great friendships

I hate them.. I genuinely hate this life, they are all 304’s and worthless and act stupid and “cute” when they do degenerate bs

Basically, when studied, we find that women don't want most men. This is a scientific fact. Women want the top 10% of men.

American women are the twelfth most overweight women in the world it's not that men can't date these women their simply unattracted to them...This is a taboo subject matter which makes it intellectually dishonest...

You just described some of the thoughts I've been thinking. I've been going to a psychiatrist for the first time in my life and I've learned a lot about myself. Shame is hands down the hardest thing for me. As rough as it's been for me dealing with fear and insecurities, I know that true love for myself, God, and the people in my life is on the other side. Subscribed!

Very awesome content I appreciate you mentioning tinder as part of our problem, there are so many distractions in this n age. Keep up with kind of content. WELL APPRECIATEED AND WELL RECEIVED!

Good video I'm 39

When I was 30 it was a free for all. I was fire.

The answer to why this is, has to be the most significant point you can make. Now that you are 30 you probably have some sort of income stream. Even if you live at your parents. Like a lot of fellow canadians. At 30 you most likely drive. So there are utilities for a girl or women to exploit. You shouldn't have a problem attracting one that will use you as in 2024 dating is purely contractional. You have things to pony up. Some fe fail will gladly let you ride for a chance at some exploitative gains. Good luck. 👍 😂 glad when i was 30 it was still 2011.

It's a nice bit of encouragement to hear this. I'm turning 30 next year, never dated before, and am now making a concerted effort to do just that. Just to meet people of the opposite sex. I have hobbies, but the male dominated nature isn't helpful except to make me more interesting. High school and university was faaar from the good times for me that it is for so many others, so I have to make my 30s what my 20s weren't. My 20s was a practical skill building project on steroids, and now the question is how I can harness that

36 here. Dating is still awful.

I prefer not. Juice not worth squeeze. I am fine alone, never dated never will

I turn 30 very soon. I did ok in my 20s, but now that I'll be entering my 30s... I couldn't give less of a fuck about dating anymore lol That's a young man's game 😉 (I know I'm still young, but I'm tired)

I turned 30 last year, and I’m literally experiencing this right now. Lol

Logic, partytime is over ! These ladies like to settle down financially ,? ATM time ! They don't really love you, they are looking for commitment,, marriage and eventually devorce, pick up the cash !

4 partners in my life so far! Im a player! 😎 I agree - never chase a woman - show interest, but dont chase! I would tend agree RE agreeableness BUT - you're unlikely to discuss any opinion based content before asking for a number. That's more dating advice. The pushing away thing is dangerous advice to give guys because if it's done wrong you'll fxxk it up. Clueless guys will over do it & you'll look like a dick. I would say attract, dont chase. I agree - allow her the space to come to you - but she isnt going to do that if you haven't shown any interest. Be authentic is much simpler advice that is less likely to be misinterpreted. I agree too - be in the flow with a woman - dont have a plan. Just start a conversation & make an occasional, non-sexual compliment. Smile, make eye contact, create a vibe where you're enjoyable to talk to. I do agree there does have to be a push/pull "dance" - this means you also show you don't need her or her attention. What it does not mean is fluctuate between being nice & being a dick. These things also need to be applied differently for every single girl. So this is attractive on stuff tricky. If I had flirted with my last partner (or 7 years, it wouldn't have worked with her personality). Anyway - I'm putting my own advice into practice right now - so we'll see if I'm right or wrong! If I'm wrong, I'll learn from it and move on! 😊 Final point - if a girl is not into you - there are no tricks to make her like you. You cant manipulate an uninterested girl. But you can fxxk up with a girl who was potentially interested.

I have wondered for 9 years now whether I attaind stream entry. 9 years ago I had a profound insight into anatta that forever shattered belief in self as a central controller or self as a separate entity. For 9 years this view has never changed. Although I tend to identity with thought - I never actually believe it represents a real, enduring entity. It's simply a process ofspecifically conditionality. I never practiced rights or rituals - so thats irrelevant. I also had significant faith in the Buddha Dhamma prior to this insight - so also not a helpful marker. However, I did not notice anything in the experience I can recognise as Nibbana. Hence, although I seem to have removed the 3 fetters (assuming we accept this model - I cannot find the 10 fetter model in the Suttas). I dont have any recollection of Nibbana. I also still have significant difficulty trying to attain the first Jhana. I also can break the first 5 precepts (rarely) but I'm fully conciousness throughout the process - i.e. I can see this action will lead to suffering, is delusional & then see the Karmic result of the action. I really dont know what to make of it. BTW - Kundalini isnt a Buddhist concept! ;-) (I'm doing a PhD in early Buddhism).