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I cant take it anymore, my brother phones me all the time to tell me to do things, after he is done abusing his wife, then he calls me, today i didnt answer, his wife texted me told me I am full of crap

I had 2 narcissistic siblings. No way to ever “reconcile.” After this life ends, both narcissist sisters will finally realize the damage they caused to so many people, I hope. Because everything is transparent in the afterlife and you cannot hide or try to be someone you’re not. And what matters is the size of your heart, how much you loved one another. I don’t even think you could get in if you harbor a lot of unforgiveness. I dont think God will smile on them for their hateful behavior. One has committed suicide. Possibly ran out of her narcissistic supply. She finally realized how cruel she was to so many people, but she never made the first attempt to apologize to any of them. Just took herself out.

My aunt left her sister alone without help for 3 yearsand never told us she had dementia and dhe ever got her in home help. No one wasaloudto help her. The state did nothing, area on aging refusedto help her and follow through.

This is the best advice I have received. Thank you very much !

i felt guilty for existing

I just had to go no contact with my older brother. He never takes blaim for anything and has been very selfish and manipulative for our entire life. I was our mother's caregiver and he called me a murderer because she died of old age. He is a monster and there is no way to have a relationship with him.

Thank you for this video ❤ will there be a next one?

A child can be forgiven for they are children. This behavior from an adult shows that they never matured and stayed ignorant. Their lack of understanding of what a real relationship is shows only that they forever refuse to accept responsibility and accountability for their actions and behavior. People like this are best left alone t their own devices.

No contact is best. Narcs are monsters. Stay as far away as possible. They only get worse and more batshit crazy and desperate as life wears on them.

My mother is covert narc and father is malognant narc.i am victim and all my siblings are against me and standing with evil spirits..i have been tired of grey rocking..😢

I thought my mother was an extreme narc...but my golden-child older sister surpassed her. It's like she learned it from our mother, then thought "I can top THAT!" (competitive, of course)

My father is malignant narc.mother is covert narc.i m scapegoat.my siblings are flying monkeys against me..god rescue me please😊

I'm currently in the process of grieving my relationship with my sister and am choosing no contact. It is so difficult and painful but I need to let go of my fantasies of what our relationship could be. It is also hard because my mom is in denial about her and continues to allow her to manipulate and abuse her and she just keeps forgetting and forgiving. But I will stay strong and set up my boundaries and prioritize my own mental health. This has gone on too long. My heart goes out to everyone in this situation

THEY WILL BE SILENT AND ALONE ALL THE WAY TO THEIR GRAVES! 😂😂😂😂 THEY CAN'T EVER UNDERSTAND WHY I'M ALWAYS SO JOYFUL AND HAPPY! IT PISSES THEM OFF WHEN THEY SEE ME STILL HAPPY AND ALWAYS LOVING LIFE 😂😂😂😂

Excellent

This is my relationship now!!!!

Wow😮😮😮😮

You're amazing

Wow. This is what I am going through with my partner of thirteen years

No narcissist will rewrite my real memories. Nice try.

My Sister is the worst of the worst. She destroyed our family. I hate she's married to Steve Wariner the country music artist. He's such a nice guy, but co-dependent...that's why she got pregnant on purpose. She did the same for her first husband. It's was so much fun hanging out with the rich and famous. I could give a shit about her, but miss Steve. She's 69 and I'm 66. Hopefully she will die before I do, so I can hang out with my family again. She's a high school drop out and I graduated with honors from USC and played football on 4 championship teams and worked as an executive with MOTOROLA and had sales teams of over 20 sales professionals and she never had a job. She treats me like I'm a bum. I haven't spoken to her in 8 years. The final straw was she told me I can't go backstage at the Opry on a Saturday when Steve hosted the Opry and it was my 58th birthday. (I paid Steve $56,000 to perform a 2 hour show 25 years ago for MOTOROLA at the Opreyland Hotel. Steve was hosting the Grand Ole Opry that night and just had to walk across the parking lot after hosting the Opry. He was filling in for his close friend Garth Brooks. $56k is over $100k today. Caryn actually over charged for Steve, instead of getting a deal since he was my brother in law, plus...no travel was involved) She said she'd ask the Opry manager, but it was too late because it was Thursday morning and the Ryman does background checks and Wednesday is the cutoff. No problem...I called the Opry manager and told her I was Steve's brother in law and I'd like a backstage pass Saturday for myself and my 86 year Mom. She said, "Oh! You're Caryn's brother". Just have her give me a call and I'll leave two back stage passes for you. I asked about the background checks. She laughed, "We don't do background checks!" I called Caryn, "Good news, I called the Opry manager and she said just give her a call!" OMG!!! SHE RAGED!!! USED EVERY CURSE WORD and said how could you do that to Steve and I??? Steve is going to get fired!!! (27 years in the Grand Ole Opry...😂) We are going to get in trouble! How could you??? I caught her in a lie and I never talked to her again! She has two grandchildren from her scapegoated son in NYC (I have 3 nephews and a niece, and they won't speak to me, because who knows what she told them about me?) ...he doesn't let my Sister talk to his children anymore. She can't even FaceTime them. 😂 When they were 13 and 12, they saw a family photo with me in it and asked, "who is that Man in the photo?" That's your Grandmother's brother. Grandmother has a brother?????? I have a million more where that came from...I guess I'll write a tell all book!

My sibling’s relationship with my narcissistic mother involved loyalty to her and playing narcissistic power games to garner her approval, financial support, devotional support. In my case I rejected her manipulations when I was four years old with her ensuing rejection of me which existed for her lifetime.

My sister is wicked When l ran away from my violent ex with my children she sided with him went to court and said he should have custody of the children

Hi I’m actually bawling my eyes out as I write this but if something happens I atleast have this comment as proof. My brother abuses my family dog and has been doing so for at least five years now. For the first time I snapped and I hit him I couldn’t control myself. I am in no way proud of the way I reacted and I take responsibility for acting so foolishly. Oh don’t get me wrong he hit me back but I’m ashamed to say that I felt better after the fight. I’m a girl with anxiety and I have been abused by my mother for all my life and I am now witnessing my only friend get the same treatment from my brother. He’s three years younger than me and he does not care about anyone other than himself. I don’t know what to do I wish I have my papa at home to hug and cry but he is at work. Guys please I don’t know what to do I’m so ashamed of what I did but I’m sorry I will do it again for my fur baby even if it kills me. I just wanted at least leave some proof here because I’m so tired of being treated as if I’m under his rule when I’m earring my own money and helping the family when he plays games…all day…and abuses my dog whenever she barks by locking her up…please I don’t know what to do…I’m too scared to call the police because my mother was the only witness and she will take his side no matter what…my heart feels like glass and he hit me so many times I don’t feel any pain anymore…please I don’t know if god exists but please save my dog at least please she is the only good thing I have in my life please anyone please help me

Bloody hell. This video hits me right to the core. How true us this. I can tell you one thing it can be very overwhelming as I have witnessed it in 3 generations and the dynamics is beyond the word TOXIC.

My twin sister was a full blown narcissist- she ticked every box - my solution, no contact and it’s been 5 years of a simpler life. For me there is no going back, she tried to make contact through multiple actions directly and indirectly …………. NO CONTACT = Beat outcome for me and my family

Loving your videos. From Australia 👍

When you finally go no contact and a week later they tell you they’ve got cancer.

Thanks for this video. It’s very helpful. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

I DONT miss any time lost with my sister There is no love for her in my heart Spoiled brat Grandiose ego No empathy Bitter Mean selfish

Arrogant, entitled, envious, bitter, resentful, competitive, negative, abusive, superiority complex, plays the victim, and needs constant validation and praise. I refuse to deal with these types of behaviors. I recently learned about the “grey rock method.” Works great on narcissist siblings and the like.

My son does all this to me. I keep thinking its just who he is and he doesn't like to talk or to even answer me. He puts his earphones in and just ignores me whilst I'm trying to talk i feel awful. Like I'm just a nobody sitting there. He wont talk at all but he only talks if he wants me to do something for him and he orders me to get him a drink or make him something to eat its just so frustrating and i end up feeling nervous around him. He says he loves me but i dont feel that sort of connection with him. 😭

Amazing clear cut advice. Those are the best 3 options. There is no other way. I wish everyone dealing with a toxic sibling peace.

Your content is fabulous, but you need to set your sound levels higher.

My little sister and I came from the same snake pit. She aspired to remain a snake, I did not. It took over six decades for me to get a clue. Going dark was hard three years ago, but I can sincerely say that since then, my life has NEVER been better. The gaslights are out for good. Second childhood rocks! Way better toys. Way.

Thank you! This post is exactly what I need, as I navigate two family relationships. It has given me courage and a different mindset, to take care of myself and to reduce/eliminate the ongoing drama.

Do narcissist siblings intrude your mind? I hate that, it is the worst... Invade privacy or say inapproproate things.

this is my mom. She weaponizes affection to control her relationship with me.

This is my husband's Siblings 👌 No contact with them Now its been 2 yrs

My sister-in-law used this one on my parents all the time. They would give in to whatever they wanted. Now my parents have passed, they tried it on me, I told them I am not my parents. Your silence is always welcomed. When you are ready to act like adults let me know. Click !

narcissist are also ghosting ,creating self doubt ,and self hate or hatred among people . surround us with negative environmnt

My sibling needs admiration. And she needs me to play 2nd fiddle in any situation where we are together. My sister is a feminist counselor and I thought she could understand me. But I was dreaming. How could I have thought that as she and my other sibling would bully me when I was young? But my parents always said we must love each other. Well I was the only one believe it. The take home here is that narcissists don’t reform. And covert narcissists are nice to everyone except a chosen few they have targeted for supply.

Arrogant thats the word!

😮😮😮so sad

A major red flag, silent treatment. My fear is beyond words to express the anxiety and fear it created for decades., decades. I deserve love, which he denied, unable to meet anyone out of fear of him. He also disappeared, then reappeared,! Yes, thanks for your help.

The I tention is to hurt another, like ghosting! Terrifying!

Silent treatment is. Like being constantly ghosted!

Literally infuriating and it’s s😮ch bad behavior

Sweet, the creator is still backing this 3 years later by liking comments and stuff. Dedication.

I know she is, so no point in listening to this!! I had nine siblings and saw two that attended my adult son's funeral recently. But that narc sister, couldn't care less if I never saw her again!! No love lost. Adiós!!