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Funnily enough, I think I'm IxxP with Fi and you just put a fear I had into words, but I didn't know it was Ti rage. It really stresses me out when people kind of blast, big, broadly cut ideas, shooting them one after the other with no coherence or process behind them. It's like driving a car with no attention to the stop signs and you can just clearly see the crush coming, not just for them, for others too. My major is philosophy. In philosophy your bound to carve out your thinking process and specify it, by studying subjects as plain as "Logic". In it self i think is a very Ti field and attracts alot of Ti people. It's funny actually, knowing the functions, sometimes you read passages and see philosophers just spell out functions (usually Ti and Ne). So I consume alooot of Ti material and spend time listening to alot of Ti analysis. Because of that I get to witness it's depths and slowly understand the weight and repercussions each one of them carries. One day we were speaking about the importnace of not speaking with sayings such as "Let's face it'' or "Truth be told'' that reveal boisterous certainty and immediately disregard any different perspective, beacuse these sayings, although sounding true and certain, are usually born from ignorance and go on to breed it. We went on an hour long analysis on the matter and that was just one class, of one subject, of one semester. That afternoon I met up with a friend of mine, Estj BP/CS masculine Di. You can imagine how it went 😆. Ironic as it was, one of the first things that escaped her mouth was one of these saying. I was immediately triggered. I knew the entire thing was messy but didn't even know where to begin. Plus I was speaking with a Blaster and would be lucky if I managed to get one word in 😆 about a subject that already demanded precision. I knew the reasoning behind her deduction was messy, therefore her deduction flawed, and since that was the basis for the rest of the conversation, whatever folowed was going to be wrong too. But in order to make anyone understand this, they'd have to watch that 1-hour lecture with me, or I'd have to immediately reduce the main points and communicate them (Blast, which for me is last and difficult.) This was my main worry: Someone will take on those mistaken ideas, integrate them to their way of thinking, and then use that way of thinking to make decision. But since their way of thinking has been contaminated by wrong information the will make wrong decisions and hurt themselves or others. Now that is a legitimate concern, but this is also why apart from functions and type, everyone is responsible to think for themselves and develop critical thinking. But I also think that, that worry, is misproportioned, as it is very much, decider 😆.The solution, i think, lies in double deciding. The double deciders know that people will make mistakes. Wrong decisions are unavoidable. And, generally solvable, if small and typical enough. Think, even if you had the perfect mindset, it is bound to be developed, therefore whatever decisons you make now, will be rendered mistaken a year from now, when your understanding has changed and deepened. That's what I remind myself to calm down 😊. I suppose I see a difference between our functions. Ti gets personally offended by wrong ideas, Te gets offended for the Tribe?

Dave, I was just wondering how it is like to have adhd as an istp?

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Omg I can’t wait to see if you guys get tipsy in this; crossing my fingers as I watch!!! 😂😂😂😂

2:39:37 Ow :( Not everyone’s a social 4. Even earlier Felix and Holly were talking about having different happiness and respecting and helping each other follow that. I really care about that stuff like pursuing my business and would really regret not having taken the courage to do it.

This was adorable and fun guys! Great vhat

2:26:37 really good speech very insightful and inspiring honesty

50:00 Writing a book or a thesis is super boring because it's pure Ti without consuming new sensory experiences (Se). You get stuck in Ni land with no outside input, meaning Ne is missing bringing you new ideas. Especially PHD stuff usually has no practical use, so there is no problem-solving motivation coming from ST.

Just came across your channel today. What your isfj guest has said about intrusive thoughts is the isfj uncomfortableness with intuition, because they don't understand it. Taking it as fact instead of taking it as potential. I noticed this in my isfj freind early in our friendship and i thought she was prone to being paranoid but not schizophrenic. Anyway i have helped her with this and in turn my isfj friend keeps me in that part of the world that is stable and isnt rapidly changing.

What people mistake about picking a partner that you feel attracted to looks wise is that looks apart from health also indicate personality. Most people in the world are not aware of it, but there is some correlation between looks and personality. I'm glad that OPS (although I do not agree with all of it) also noticed there are correlations between looks and personality. So if you go after hte looks you specify you _personally, somehow_ find attractive (which indicate personality) more than objective beauty standards (As they say less about personality) then by letting your attraction guide you, it's going to help you in the long run to not go against it, just as your instincts will tell you that eating sand is not as healthy for you as eating an apple. Ever since I was young I've found certain _particular_ looks attractive and others not and I do not mean super stereotypical ones. I quite quickly realized it was a pattern when I was younger, cause I tend to see everything humans as patterns almost by default. (I guess FE+NE). However, after knowing about typology, I also found out that it's most often the types I'm into (Fe doms) that often have these particular specific physical characteristics that I'm interested in. For example, I find that Fe types more often seem to be dark haired, somewhat darker skinned with dark with dark eyes, whereas Ti's tend to be pale, often lighter eyes, kind dead tired eyes. You might think this relates purely to race then, but at least in theory it's not. Especially in mixed race couples you can see that if for example one parent is black and one white, the kids will have varying degrees of of shades although in theory they are all literally half black in race. However it's likely the Fe dominant one is gonna be darker than the Ti dominant one, in both skin, eyes and such (although not a certainty). Also, even if some races have higher degrees of certain types than others, it would not at all surprising since we all evolved on different locations where different survival strategies worked better. The idea that this should be the same is more ideological thinking rather then realistic thinking. Extraverts typically gonna be darker than introverts and tend to be somewhat more wide in build and face than introverts. Sensors on the other hand tend to have have more naturally athletic bodies more often even though they do not work out or even try to do anything physical. People's skills and interests often are overlapping too for a reason, just as as if a hammer had a personality it would likely want to ' hammer' things and it would likely be good at it too. About the numbers game I absolutely agree. The best match can be found using a higher number. It's absolutely logical. I feel though if you have enough or maybe a lot of experience chatting with people online in text, that this over time helps you read them without even having to meet them. However, if you hardly talk to unfamiliar people online, then I do not think you can likely read them that well..I use to be on some chat sites ever since i was like 15 year old, so that helped to over time read between the lines more when it comes to unfamiliar people and figuring out the personality based on just plain text. Now just a few generic lines already give me an impression. Its certainly not better than meeting in real life, but you can simply go through more numbers if you also talk to people in chat in my view. Another important one is that , the more you _need_ to ' work' on your relationship, the less naturally they fit you and it only implies you made the wrong choice. This does not mean yo should now immediately divorce them after maybe 10 years of marriage, but it would be better if you picked a more compatible person in the first place. The thing is that life is eventually going to throw big problems at you. You will get older, you will get health complaints or whatever, people will die, you may have money issues. Who knows what's coming. It's sure that you will also face issues like that in your life and if you already need help to just make a relationship work withhout actual problems, then how are you going to face actual problems together when you actually get them?

Provided I'm a Ti savior, sometimes I feel my Fe is a golden retriever, all excited, kind of innocent and clumsy. It's like my brain realises the situation is safe enough for me to "declutter" the Fe buildup

Aw, shout out to ffemmmmmmes ❤️❤️❤️. Great chat everyone 🥰

Dang! I missed your live stream! 🥺 hopefully I’ll see the next one live 🤞 when is it going to happen? Here are just some of my thoughts on your stream: Yeah my blast comes out through ST as well 🤣 “Work together or I’ll come down with a hammer” 😅🤣 -> I think I said something similar to my parents 🙈🤣 “Teary eyed while positive emotions that hit me in a NF way” - yeah definitely! I had the belief that “tears = sadness” and what a confusion that there are F-Fe happy (?!) tears 🤣 but in general I think NF play is a fantastic connection builder through allowing to show it [positive & other emotions] to others, I made the best connections through it! (Still uncomfortable every time “it happens to me”, but if I lean into them and reach out (figuratively and literally) the conversation goes to a much deeper and more fulfilling experience 😌) On the NF sleep examples: I have two NF-sleep friends, and one is IxxP with Fi savior: it definitely only comes out after (!) I annoy her with my ST sleep 😂 she says things like: “friendship includes being there for each other …” = NF - not how it looks like in a ST way 🙃; and then she has a M-Fi set in stone future “wanting to live in hers and her partner's country for their kids experiencing both cultures” (<- that’s definitely translated through my NeFe though!); but overall it’s basically the answer to “where do I see myself in 5 years?” Anyway thanks for doing these live shows! They are really interesting and fun 🙂! Till another time 👋

Dave I was telling Nate last night how cool his wiskey love is lol 😅

The intro tho 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I appreciate the honesty: welcome to dave's bullshit! It really makes sense for me since I spent a decade to understand relationships from alllll perspectivrs and I ended up with the conclusion that noth is logical or makes sense in relationship... you do your best and leave it between God's hands. The issue is that matters of heart are subject of change and they are affected by external circumstances as well as personal growth.... I appreciate the tips and I believe that all of these things are the right steps to have and maintain a relationship. But it simply needs TWO people who are willing to carry that rock and integrate their shadow it is a lot of work! Good luck for everyone though ❤❤ P.s: btw I have this question concerning females with masculine functions like I am an intj and I was always attraced to guys with feminine functions bcz they give me a sense of security (enfjs precisely) but at the end, like deep inside the female me there is this longing for a more masculine presence even my vulnerable side cannot come out unless my male partner shows me their masculine side. So, according to OPs what energy should I go for cause I feel like I will never be able to settle. I am trying to work more on my feminine energy bcz thats what I can control. Thanks a lot!

Te spirit animal, a beaver?! Seems pretty Te to me!

It's interesting that she says she knows what's going on and yet she's ignoring the details showing how intuitive she is trusting your gut ignoring the details. Which l understand but at the same time l wonder how can you say you know when your ignoring the details you're missing part of the evidence so you can't be confident you're right same goes for ST ignoring the gut which makes me wonder how l can ever be confident. Maybe l'm in a loop Fi-Si.

Yeah... WTF with people at their deathbeds and their regrets 🙄!?

1:07:00 Nate being flabberghasted that he and his wife fight about the observers (the functions that they share) and not the deciders (the functions that are opposite of each other) shows a lack of understanding of interpersonal dynamics that is prevalent in the type community. you need the opposites in your partner. if you don't have them there is no flow state to be had. just because you have the same functions, doesn't mean you ARE the same. You will challenge each other, yeah. but you don't really grow together. you just grow apart. not the relationship I want.

Dave cannot ride a skate board 😂😂😂😂 ok now I need to go make some videos of INTJs attempting to stand on skateboards. I think this was a hs guy hangout that was accidentally filmed 😂😊. Good times ok, gonna leave now. Too many bros.

Nate was just asking for an example of when you've had to put your ego down to consider information you might not be seeing. It was a good question, and, as you saw, one that people struggle to wrap their mind around because it isn't something most people consider. But in the end, it is the quintessential question that these systems should be leading you towards.

Nate was just asking for an example of when you've had to put your ego down to consider information you might not be seeing. It was a good question, and, as you saw, one that people struggle to wrap their mind around because it isn't something most people consider. But in the end, it is the quintessential question that these systems should be leading you towards. 🤗

Hey dude. Why'd you stop uploading?

"Leonardo I need you to fuck somebody up" - Dave of All People, 2024 😉

I've been searching for my best fit type, seeing this I'm pretty sure Nora is my opposite sex type clone.

Nate also has his youtube channel?

Hej 😌👋 _the following is actually directed to Mingdi, but thanks for the continuing growth talks, Dave 😊!_ I’ve been typed as the same exact 512 (FF ISFJ Si-Ti SC/P(B)) as you (in the beginning of this year). I went through the animal order and now I’m pushing myself to play 😅 (The forever problem of not feeling ready to start 🙄 & Ne Fe-ars 🙈😅 …) Anyway: How the hell did you manage to do interviews?? You look so freaking calm!! 🤯 - _I’m still freaking out about writing comments (// comments on live streams as well) … but that won’t go away if I don’t do it more often, right? (I hope …)_ Do you feel calm inside? Or, did you have to train it (the same way?)? Or were you always this calm?? (Vs is the outside not matching the inside?) And how long ago were you typed? _I think you’ve mentioned it in another interview, but I don’t remember 😅_ Great addition to the error log as well! And, uhm, nice to meet you 😊

I’m so envious of this bromance 😅

I only just started watching and I’m laughing my ass off at “subtle buttery flavor” 😂😂 Nate is definitely making shit up 😆

Wwwoooaaahhh you magician. How on earth is your hair so different now? Hair cut or lots of product? You know imma ask for products haha

1:01:57 ish : Did you mean bread rolls? (Brötchen // Schrippe in Berlin) Because those are totally eatable in one go. (Sry, I’m still on the bread topic 😅 and I really want to try this kind of bread//rolls you’re talking about 😅😉) - anyway, thanks for the fun podcast! looking forward to the next episode 😊

Shout out to www.youtube.com/@practicalpersonality . Great channel if youre wanting to learn OP!

I don’t know, I’m having a hard time seeing him as Si/Ne, I feel like a lot of what he said about his tidal waves could be inferior Se. Like he plans by visualizing how he wants things to go (Ni) but then reality (Se) hits and causes chaos by ruining the vision. Also, it’s hard to compare OP to MBTI because MBTI is going by Carl Jung’s descriptions of the functions, whereas OP made up their own definitions using his same terminology. I think that’s where a lot of people who come from MBTI backgrounds are getting tripped up because OP describes the functions very different than Jung. So I don’t think it’s fair to say that people who type themselves differently in MBTI are wrong, each system is measuring the functions differently which is why OP is now saying that your OP type is not MBTI. Fair enough, but I think in MBTI he very well could be Ni/Se, and I’ve seen others typed in OP as feminine Si that, to me, appear likely to be Ni by Jung’s description. I think there is some overlap between the two systems so many people will be typed the same in both OP and MBTI, but since OP isn’t going by Jung’s descriptions there’s bound to be people whose types wont match up between both systems. Also this is not to say that many people don’t mistype themselves in MBTI, but I think that has more to do with not researching in depth for yourself. I don’t believe as Dave (OP) says that “the brain won’t let you see yourself accurately”, so they feel someone has to tell you who you are.. I think you’ll see yourself just fine once you have the language for it, and that’s why a good MBTI practitioner will work with the individual to help THEM determine their “best fit type”, instead of insisting from their point of view that the the individual is a specific type. You have to determine your best fit type for yourself because you’re the only one that knows what goes on inside your head. Outsiders can only ever make assumptions based on behavior. Honestly I think OP is typing persona’s while the goal of MBTI is to help you look inward to find your personality. Some people’s personas match their personality, and some don’t.

Drop your hair tips in the comments too while you’re at it? 🫣🤭

Check out Mingdi's channel! - www.youtube.com/@OPSTyping/shorts

Interesting talk 😊! I was wondering if you, Manthy, know this: Do you rather know or don’t want to know if a person inside your Fi is acting on sth you think of as immoral?

”Ni is the urge to figure out an idea completely that leads to one point” how insightful!💓

I'm taking long pauses during the taste description just to imagine .... haha, you guys have such decidery ways of talking about things <3 <3 "You've" "I've" "I don't know" "I think" "You've got to be" "...for anyone that wants" "You can" "I've found" "For me" It's a real D/O coin lesson <3

conversations like this are so important.

T > F = "Feeling-dumb" 😄that's a great way to put it. I'm totally stealing that 😇 - Anyway, what a great episode! So many good ideas in it 🙂thanks for making it 😊

Goooood stuff on the Ixxp reflections/permission and how that impacts the tribe. Gold nuggets right there guys.

He’s play last Lil Wayne. 😎

Dave ur awesome I just watched u on JM. I'm entj and there is no way I would ever take someone, anyone at all seriously if they have a pattern of not texting back. Once is probably a service problem but more than once is a type problem. I am only compatable with an entj intp because they are inverses of each other and therefore I toggle between the two myself. I'm entj when I'm happy and healthy and I'm intp when I'm under stress so they are two sides of my same coin. A pref intp will entj under stress so I can help them. What I'm saying is no intp or enfj is ever EVER going to leave a teammate hanging. Entj is short for team. There is no I in team but there is I in recalibration which is the intp. I would prefer my true love other wing to be entj but if he's a intp I'll be happy too cuz he can find the errors in the playback. I'm saying my true love would never not text. And that means for me if he isn't texting he's not mine. There's two kinds of people in this world mine or not mine. True story. Soon you will all be mine lol. Keep your standards high as heaven people. Watch out if they are careless in the little things they will be careless in the big things. Distance yourself immediately if you see any kind of nonsense. That's the entj way. I stand by that. Also I think ur vids are great!

For the Fi selfish part, I used to be that selfishness sh*t when I’m young… but when I’m get older and traveling a lot see so many things in the world I got more balance Fi and Fe, not going to be a ppl pleaser but understanding ppl more and accepting them more too.

1:44:40 What even is learning? If I teach you to tie your shoelaces, I've shown you that I know how to serialise my actions into steps - but I'm not actually teaching you my knowledge of tying shoelaces, that's something that escapes language. Knowing is a type of movement, and when I try to grasp my own . . . it doesn't always slow down for me.

As FF Fe/Ne jumper I really enjoyed this. “Demons feel forever” great point.

1:11:30 Wait - give me the Se of the bourbon ! Taste it, savour it, inhale it!

Nate! (Dan here) I know I knock NT Consume, but I think your (C) really is neat because NT isn't gatekeeping NF Play, and that's really special and I love it NF Play > NT Consume is the set-up I like

This was the episode we needed

Wauw this one is gold! Thanks a lot