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Coming Back From Tough Times
I promised I would put out new video with Christy explaining why there has been such a delay in my videos.
Last December I hit rock bottom I was taking more meds that most people would believe and sleeping all the time and not get any better.
On today's video Christ and I are going to discuss the changes I /we have made that got me back on the road to living a positive life.
I hope you find this video an inspiration.
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Getting to Acceptance
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This Process is very personal, it should not be rushed. It is important to keep in mind that not everyone goes through all stages of grief, and certainly not all people go through the stages in the same order. For some people, certain stages may last only hours other much longer. I also found myself moving back and forth through stages I had already experienced.
Denial is Not a Strategy
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Dealing with a disease like dementia or cancer and especially Lewy Body Dementia requires getting early attention and diagnosis. The effect of not openly seeking help is self-doubt, depression, inward and outward anger and just plain frustration. EARLY DIAGNOSIS IS CRITICAL The problem is the decay in mental processing does not happen all at once. You can have good days and bad days.
Setting Goals and Purpose
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Reevaluating and setting new goals are an important aspect of what we need to do after we get to acceptance of a diagnosis with a terminal disease such as Dementia. But just because we have given up on some of our old goals, doesn’t mean we have to give up on new ones as the situation changes.
Dementia Talks May 19 2023
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Dementia Talks - back after a few weeks, with some new information from Christy and Ted. We missed you too!
What to do with denial of dementia - Part 2
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In Part 2 Christy and I go deeper into the question of what do you do when a loved one is denying having early onset dementia. We discuss how starting from a trusting relationship is the foundation for a successful caregiving / receiving relationship.
What to do with denial of dementia Part 1
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Conflict arises when a spouse or a loved one in displaying symptoms of Dementia of Mild Cognitive Loss. What do you do? Digging, arguing in or going behind the persons back will not work. But how to you reset the relationship and get to the answers? This Article is based on my own experience and recommendations of how to properly execute a turn around and get back to a loving and caring relatio...
Do I Have Dementia Part 2
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Discovering if you have early onset dementia is not a direct medical process. First, the differences in you are probably first only notices by you, and are only subtle to others. Second, working with the medical field to determine if you have cognitive or other challenges is not well understood at the GP or PCP level physician, and they should only help you get to a qualified physician. Last, i...
Do I Have Dementia? or 10 Signs of Early Onset Dementia
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Discovering if you have early onset dementia is not a direct medical process. First, the differences in you are probably first only notices by you. After that working with the medical field to determine if you have cognitive or other challenges is not well understood at the GP or PCP level physician. Last, it takes a series of test to determine if you have dementia. Here are the early warning s...
Announcing New Website and Book
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I know I have been slow at posting a new show but this is a great announcement. We have a new website DementiaTalks.net and a new book in both Kindle and Paperback format (7x10)!
Interview with Kelsey about my Change Caused by Dementia
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Today's interview is with my daughter Kelsey visiting from New Zealand after two years of having my diagnosis with dementia. Although Covid kept us apart we have visited via Facetime. This is the first time we have had an extended time together. In this interview Kelsey will share the change she has seen and what she has learned about dementia while visiting here in the States.
How Did I Find Out I Had Dementia
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The path to having a correct diagnosis of dementia, especially in early stages, which can help. Is fought with twist and turns. In this UA-cam article I discuss the process I went through and what some other friends have experienced.#dementiaawareness #dementiatalks #dementia
Depression and Anxiety and Dementia
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Depression and anxiety are normal parts of Dementia. People who have recently been diagnosed will find that the changes going on in your brain and thinking process will easily lead to depression or anxiety or both. #depression #anxiety #dementia
Finding Peace
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Finding and having peace for anyone is important but it is everything for someone with dementia. This is not about being shut in or shut up in a room, but all about finding mental, emotional, and spiritual peace.#dementia
5 Facts about Dementia
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Memory Loss is a common issue with aging, but not all memory loss is cognitive loss or aging. Today we discuss the difference between memory issues and Dementia
What Does Dementia Feel Like - 2
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What Does Dementia Feel Like - 2
Dementia Talks Asks - "Who do you think you are?"
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Dementia Talks Asks - "Who do you think you are?"
Change - Travel and Dementia
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Change - Travel and Dementia
Sunny Day in CA
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Sunny Day in CA
Dementia Talks - Sharing with others
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Dementia Talks - Sharing with others
Physical Therapy, Occupational Therapy and Speech Therapy for Dementia
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Physical Therapy, Occupational Therapy and Speech Therapy for Dementia
Managing our wandering minds
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Managing our wandering minds
Gratitude - How does it affect us mentally
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Gratitude - How does it affect us mentally
Coping Mechanism 2 - Email, Reminders and Notes
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Coping Mechanism 2 - Email, Reminders and Notes
Most Important Coping Mechanism - Simplification
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Most Important Coping Mechanism - Simplification
What does it feel like to have dementia
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What does it feel like to have dementia
Dementia Talks - Introduction
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Dementia Talks - Introduction

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @lizrose4362
    @lizrose4362 12 днів тому

    Thank you.

  • @Brad-o6e
    @Brad-o6e 17 днів тому

    Thank you Ted for a very insightful video. I have noticed a lot of these in myself in the last couple years and it scares the hell out of me. I am only 43. I would go and get checked up but sadly I have no funds and am currently unemployed. I lost my last job due to poor performance and that really destroyed my self-confidence which was at an all time low already. I live in South Africa and medical is extremely expensive. I occasionally will be walking around my suburb and notice houses that I don't recognize or recall ever being there, and it sparks a sensation of confusion. There are also times when I would get home from work and wonder if I was at the right house (I live with my parents now). Doing something as simple as copying a cell number is a task as I have to copy it a digit at a time because I can look at it and by the time I look at the page or wherever I am writing it, I have forgotten most of the number already. It is incredibly frustrating. Especially since the small circle of people I have do not take it seriously at all, and say that I am lazy, irresponsible and just making excuses for forgetting stuff or putting things in the wrong places. I am really at my wits end.

    • @boynamedsue55able
      @boynamedsue55able 11 днів тому

      I'm not a doctor, but I have some form of dementia at 38. Anyways, here's what I've researched: encephalopathy is more common and causes symptoms similar to dementia. For instance, you could have underlying metabolic imbalances due to your thyroid, chronic kidney disease (CKD), maybe diabetes, vasculitis or CSVD, etc. this would be more pressing of an issue than a neurodegenerative disease like AD, LBD, FTD, VD, CTE, PD, etc. There's also toxic encephalopathy resulting from heavy metals such as lead and mercury which results in a form of dementia called 'stable dementia'. Encephalopathy simply means brain dysfunction or damage. Dementia originating from metabolic imbalances or medications can be reversed once you bring your body back into homeostasis. The only thing that you could do apart from seeing a doctor is to figure out exactly when all this started, and if it was gradual or all at once? Also, does anyone in your family have or had dementia? IMO: A couple of years seems too quick and 43 is fairly young to already have that level of confusion. Since, Alzheimer's and FTD are more typical of early-onset or young-onset, and are both tauopathies meaning the slow buildup of plaques over a period typically of 10 years or so, which would mean p-tau started misfolding around age 33. Plus, a history of TBIs can increase the chances of developing dementia. This is not medical advice just some suggestions. Good luck.

  • @kristinesmith1655
    @kristinesmith1655 19 днів тому

    As I begin this journey with my Mom and my husband I'm very grateful for the information you have shared and continue to share. I have lots of worries but am learning to change how I speak to include tone and body language. My husband does not have a doctors diagnosis yet as I'm having difficulty getting him to go in. He hates doctors. I took early retirement 6 months ago as I knew something was going on. He was not telling me everything and continues to hide things from me. I think he thinks he is doing me a favor and doesn't want me to worry but no matter how hard I try to tell him how important it is for me to know he randomly lets information slip. I can't lie, it's frustrating. I'm learning to kind of just go with the flow. However it would be helpful to know for sure exactly what's going on and what to expect. Your video's have helped with some of the worry alas well as the do's and don'ts. Thank you. 😊

  • @micah6855
    @micah6855 20 днів тому

    Thank you for sharing as it helps me as I help parents with dementia. God bless you

  • @Unit68
    @Unit68 22 дні тому

    @Dementia Talks I know this video is old, but is it possible to put timestamps on this video? Nothing like a long video with lots of bullet points to try to follow when you're cognitively impaired. 😬

  • @Unit68
    @Unit68 22 дні тому

    How does early onset dementia get diagnosed, not from these types of behaviours but via brain scans or other medical tests?

  • @boynamedsue55able
    @boynamedsue55able 26 днів тому

    This gives me much comfort knowing you had eventually come to terms with the dementia and the loss of cognition, focus, and memory. At the moment I am gripped by this fear everyday now, but each day I do a little bit better letting go and facing the truth, instead of hiding from it. Although, I don't do too good of a job and I feel am not made for this. Even as ugly as my mind is, I can still find beauty in knowing that this too is part of life and when contrasted with the beauty of the natural world that I once held in my mind's eye, it tears my heart to pieces. Now the anguish from the loss I think is the point, to let it teach me one last lesson. Since, "Naked came I out of my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return thither: the Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” I appreciate what I had lost with a new degree of understanding, although I feel incapable of it. Also, I am not a religious person, but find great strength in these words and humanity, since it is so fragile and worth saving. Take care Ted.

  • @christopherdunham511
    @christopherdunham511 27 днів тому

    Thank you. im 52. last year i was diagnosed with white matter disease. its really advanced. im preparing for vascular dementia. you described exactly what ive been going through and i just recently figuring out why. i havent gotten over the depression. i do what i can to be positive and to keep learning to build new neuropathways. the way you described what it feels like it was almost like i made the video. i always find videos on how to care for people with dementia. first one ive found that describes how it feels. i dont feel so alone now.

  • @BernaeBeatty
    @BernaeBeatty 29 днів тому

    Myself friend diagnosed mild dementia. Im his girlfriend I diagnose it so I took him to the doctor the neurologist they gave him medicine

  • @plantfindr
    @plantfindr Місяць тому

    Thank you, sir! You are awesome

  • @sharondahlquist7445
    @sharondahlquist7445 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much for putting this together and sharing it. Your communication is fabulous and respectful to each other and we all need examples of this in this world. This helps us to all understand ourselves and others better no matter if there is some form of dementia going on or not. You having a new passion and purpose to engage in and share with ( this podcast) I think is so important and I am so happy you have found it and are being so devoted to it. It is important to you and us too! I have had cancer for the last 7 years I I can relate to so many of these things myself. I think my dad does too. We will keep learning and navigating through to the best of our ability too. Thank you for sharing.

  • @kristirose2289
    @kristirose2289 Місяць тому

    It’s so good to see you up and about! Wishing you many more good days ❤❤

  • @boynamedsue55able
    @boynamedsue55able Місяць тому

    For anyone experiencing dementia-like symptoms keep in mind as Ted mentioned there are conditions that are not neurodegenerative dementias. They include: "Infections and immune disorders, Metabolic or endocrine problems, Low levels of certain nutrients, Medicine side effects, Subdural bleeding, Brain tumors, Normal-pressure hydrocephalus." Source: Mayo Clinic list of diseases, dementias and symptoms. U.S. News & World Report Best Hospitals Rankings Ranked Mayo Clinic number four for neurology. You can have dementia, but it doesn't mean it is a progressive neurodegenerative disease like Lewy Body, Frontotemporal, Vascular, Alzheimer's, CTE, or Mixed. Another term to be aware of is 'encephalopathy' which can lead to dementia called 'stable dementia' meaning it won't progress. For layman: "Dementia refers to a change in how your brain functions. It can make you feel confused, agitated, or not like yourself. Imagine feeling mentally foggy or disoriented. It can be a temporary disturbance or, in more severe cases, it could permanently damage your brain. There are different types of encephalopathy, each with various causes. These causes range from infections and toxin exposure to underlying medical conditions. Encephalopathy can be life-threatening if left untreated or may result in permanent brain damage. This is not medical advice, it is from AI and a comment on YT.

  • @boynamedsue55able
    @boynamedsue55able Місяць тому

    US Navy sailor here to help translate: "All sailors, from the 'old salts' to the newly initiated are familiar with the following terms: Chit: A chit in the Navy refers to any piece of paper from a form to a pass and even currency. According to the Navy history museum, the word chit was carried over from the days of Hindu traders when they used slips of paper called “citthi” for money." I am 38 and I'm currently on the path to diagnosing my dementia, which is suspected to be Vascular Dementia, since I have CSVD but who knows most dementia are a mix of them. Thank you Ted this has been the light I was searching for on the horizon. I wish you fair winds and following seas!

  • @boynamedsue55able
    @boynamedsue55able Місяць тому

    Loved Ted's joke even if it didn't land well with the wife, "if your husband isn't listening to you, it doesn't necessarily mean he has dementia."

  • @mercedeswalt6621
    @mercedeswalt6621 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much, Ted. I’m a thirty three year old blind woman, and my Grandma broke her femur a month ago. She had a small stroke while in the hospital as well. This caused her dementia symptoms to progress so rapidly that when she came home, she could no longer drive, use her iPhone, or even go to the bathroom by herself. Thank you for your bravery and selflessness in documenting your story. I think these talks will be invaluable to me as I get through this final stage of life with my Grandma.

  • @amaliag1596
    @amaliag1596 2 місяці тому

    What an encouraging video. Ted sounds really good.

  • @martyl7066
    @martyl7066 2 місяці тому

    Hey! thanks for your amazing videos. My partner has been dealing with Dementia, Alhzeimers, and Parkenson's...:-( I just subscribed to your lovely channel. God Bless!

  • @malcolmbyrd7479
    @malcolmbyrd7479 2 місяці тому

    Hard to listen to him. I hope that doesn't mean I''m developing dementia. I've had brain damage since I was 16, so is it brain damage or dementia? Hah! A friend who's a psychologist thinks at 73, if I have dementia, it should have started by now. My problem lately is getting kicked out of a police station for demanding a police report after being hit on a bicycle by the police's favorite waitress. And getting angry at the management at the apartments where I'm staying. They claimed 3 times that police were coming to evict me. Knocking on my door telling me to leave. They want me to leave because I was injured. They didn't use deicer. It may have been natural to get angry in those circumstances. Getting angry is not good for the brain.

  • @andreadoherty3747
    @andreadoherty3747 2 місяці тому

    I am in the process of being evaluated for Cognitive problems and possible dementia. I am scared to death

  • @williamjburns4157
    @williamjburns4157 2 місяці тому

    I CAN'T LISTEN TO THIS GUY, WITH THE AHH, UMM, AH, UM GOODBYE DUDE

  • @lorraineophoff4984
    @lorraineophoff4984 2 місяці тому

    I believe early onset dementia is dementia that occurs before age 60? What you are describing, I believe, is the early signs of dementia.

  • @Wony529
    @Wony529 2 місяці тому

    Christy, please help me as a wife to understand this

  • @user-hv3mn7ve9s
    @user-hv3mn7ve9s 3 місяці тому

    My Dad had Parkinson’s with Lewy body and passed cognitive tests for along time I took him to a psychiatrist with great results in delusional and behavioral problems please seek help early on for best treatment!!!

  • @IzumiK1967
    @IzumiK1967 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for your update. So courageous and beautiful to film your journey as an individual, and as a family. Hope your days would be filled with moments of happiness and fulfillment.

  • @tomdamour4902
    @tomdamour4902 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for being up front with us. You both are wonderful people. May God bless you both.

  • @sandysills1378
    @sandysills1378 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much, this really helps

  • @lindawilkerson4078
    @lindawilkerson4078 3 місяці тому

    Thank you, so happy to see you both, and that things are better. ❤

  • @mandlin4602
    @mandlin4602 3 місяці тому

    Lots of things here are also caused my neurodivergence, lots of this I was like “why is this me?” I’m severely dyslexic and have inattentive ADHD. With gross motor skill dyspraxia.

  • @rrichardson53
    @rrichardson53 3 місяці тому

    Taking my HWD off of Memantine he tried taking for his Sundowner syndrome but it made him worse. He takes meds for thyroid (can’t remember if it’s hypo or hyper; med for BP. .

  • @amym7825
    @amym7825 3 місяці тому

    Best wishes and thank you for sharing! It’s so helpful!

  • @juliegriffin684
    @juliegriffin684 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing your life, your struggles and your successes. You are a help to so many .❤

  • @sandyschneider6792
    @sandyschneider6792 3 місяці тому

    How were you diagnosed?

  • @thegreatnorthernloon8295
    @thegreatnorthernloon8295 3 місяці тому

    Hey guys, happy to see an update. I’m a personal support worker in Canada and I came upon dementia on social media as a way to help the people I work with. Hope that you know you both are not alone in how you are feeling and that this information is so important to be out there! Thanks a bunch

  • @user-gm9yy3li9d
    @user-gm9yy3li9d 3 місяці тому

    You guys are a blessing, thankyou for your experience and knowledge. ❤

  • @davidp6780
    @davidp6780 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for posting this. VERY helpful

  • @judytaquino6412
    @judytaquino6412 4 місяці тому

    Part of the problem with chores is ability to concentrate.

  • @tatianavanriemsdijk9805
    @tatianavanriemsdijk9805 4 місяці тому

    Dear Ted, this gives me concrete strateigies to create happiness and comfort for loved ones. Thank you.

  • @stanleybridge
    @stanleybridge 4 місяці тому

    Scanning the comments for dietary suggestions that may influence progression. Any thoughts?

  • @Grands-1234
    @Grands-1234 4 місяці тому

    How do I get my husband to see a neurologist's hes 73 he shows signs I think: keeps lists in his phone all the time, was unable to identify his truck at the detailer, burned a pot pie in the oven, forgot he made air line reservations for a trip,

    • @Dillwinkle
      @Dillwinkle 2 місяці тому

      Talk to his doctor. Mention these things and ask that he be tested. Good luck.

  • @amaliag1596
    @amaliag1596 4 місяці тому

    Inspirational.

  • @juliavandenbroucke7036
    @juliavandenbroucke7036 4 місяці тому

    Thank you, what a beautiful mission you are on to help us all

  • @jakobausterlitz8102
    @jakobausterlitz8102 4 місяці тому

    Thank you, Ted.

  • @jakobausterlitz8102
    @jakobausterlitz8102 4 місяці тому

    Thank you, Ted.

  • @user-bn7bk5mw4s
    @user-bn7bk5mw4s 4 місяці тому

    I am 54 and had an ulcer and intestinal surgery in August. I woke up forgetting names thinking i saw my dad etc. I was fine before. Can anesthesia do this

  • @user-bn7bk5mw4s
    @user-bn7bk5mw4s 4 місяці тому

    Metroprolol will make you crazy and have deluisions and hallucinations

  • @reebeeable
    @reebeeable 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for the decluttering advice. I wouldn’t have thought of that.

  • @andrearenee7845
    @andrearenee7845 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for doing this. It's very lnformative. You both are super. 😇

  • @debragleason2912
    @debragleason2912 5 місяців тому

    Came across your What does it feel like to have dementia because my mom has Alzheimer's Dementia- But in listening to you I have some other concerns. What or why was the trigger for you to be tested & found out you had lewy body dementia- What were you experiencing to cause you to get tested? If you could share as I have concerns for another loved one in that you raised my awareness on. God Bless you and Thank you for using your energy for others!

  • @ireneroy8820
    @ireneroy8820 5 місяців тому

    Did you have a Lumbar puncture at the beginning of this to find out what kind of dementia? Were You diagnosed with MCI first? If so how many years before Lewy body dementia? Thank You!!