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Change Your Identity, Change Your Life.
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For the last few weeks, I’ve been trying to understand what kind of content I want to create here on youtube.
And it had left me feeling stuck, because I couldn’t find an answer.
I have been trying to find an identity for myself, but do I actually need one?
Maybe I’m just making everything much more complicated than it needs to be...
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byrolands
Contact Me:
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Відео

How to Actually Get Over a Breakup
Переглядів 3,9 тис.3 місяці тому
Around a year ago, my first relationship came to an end. This is the video I wish I had then, because you get thrown into this world full of fear and uncertainty. Breakups can be scary, but you're not alone in this! :) - Where I Get Music and Sound Effects For My Videos (Free Trial Available): share.epidemicsound.com/cl4rlt Contact Me: ByRolands@gmail.com Follow me on Instagram :) instagram.com...
How Journaling Changed My Life
Переглядів 4 тис.3 місяці тому
“As the number of studies increased, it became clear that writing was a far more powerful tool for healing than anyone had ever imagined.” - Dr. James Pennebaker Where I Get Music and Sound Effects For My Videos (Free Trial Available): share.epidemicsound.com/cl4rlt Contact Me: ByRolands@gmail.com Follow me on Instagram :) byrolands
How to Stop Thinking About the Past
Переглядів 8 тис.4 місяці тому
Memories, the one thing you can’t really get away from. The feeling of nostalgia, reminiscing about a more simple time. One that you wish you could relive endlessly, because everything was just right. Undoubtedly, you have your own cherished memories as well - a time when you were younger with no worries whatsoever, moments spent with loved ones or something completely different. Whatever the s...
There are better days ahead
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Sometimes, life gets difficult. So difficult that a brighter future seems like wishful thinking. It's hard to imagine when you’re just trying to make it through the week. Various problems are adding up, emotions are high and our willpower is low. The battles we're facing in our heads are getting louder and out of control. But I'm here to remind you, that the pain never lasts. - Where I Get Musi...
Why is it so hard to change?
Переглядів 6 тис.6 місяців тому
Let's say you accidentally take a wrong turn and run into a dead end. It doesn't take you where you're going, so you turn around and look for a new path. At the same time, you acknowledge how you arrived here to avoid this from ever happening again. It’s simple enough, right? But it got me thinking - Why do we keep repeating the same mistakes, over and over again? The things that weaken and hur...
How to Be Happy Without Really Trying
Переглядів 11 тис.7 місяців тому
What if I tell you that chasing happiness actually takes you further away from it? That, the more you care about it, the harder it is to reach. Trust me, I know this because I've been struggling with it for years. I think of all the times I've told myself that I'll be happy when a certain time comes or I reach one of my big goals. But when it actually happens, the feeling quickly goes away, no ...
Living With a Social Media Addiction
Переглядів 18 тис.8 місяців тому
In an age where technology continues to dominate our lives, social media has emerged as both a blessing and a curse. It's undeniable that these platforms have revolutionized the way we connect, share, and communicate. However, beneath it all lies a darker truth: social media addiction is on the rise and with it comes a set of serious issues that I noticed are also affecting me. The interesting ...
There Are No Rules For Life
Переглядів 13 тис.8 місяців тому
Let me share with you a philosophy that has taken a lot of the everyday pressure off of me. Because of it, I feel more at peace with everything, living with less anxiety and pursuing a path that’s right for me. There are no rules for life. And I’m not talking about laws that we all have to follow so we wouldn’t end up in a jail cell. I’m talking about the fact that a large part of our behavior ...
Remember to live your life.
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In life, we all share something in common - the fact that one day, we won't be here anymore. It's the one truth that is constant and no human can avoid. Of course, you know this already, but do you live like it? Most of us go about our days as if we have all the time in the world, worrying about every little thing and getting caught up in the routine. But the reality is that time is the most pr...
Why Most People Never Reach Their Goals
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Do you have that great idea in the back of your mind - a goal that lights you up, yet remains distant? And it has been sitting there for weeks, months or maybe even years. You seem ready to embark on that journey, after all, it could change your life. You can almost feel yourself taking those initial steps, but something seems to be holding you back. It could be that you're waiting for that ''p...
Japan, but it's Cinematic
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Where I Get Music and Sound Effects For My Videos (Free Trial Available): share.epidemicsound.com/cl4rlt I recently visited Japan for the first time and these are some beautiful moments I caught on camera. Of course, Japan is too large and the trip was too short to capture all of it - these are clips from Tokyo and Kyoto. The scenery and culture was amazing. It was also much cheaper than I thou...
The Dark Side of Productivity
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In this crazy, fast-paced world we live in, hustle culture seems to be everywhere. It’s all about non-stop productivity, constant busyness, and a never-ending drive for success. Toxic productivity is on the rise. I’m on that youtube grind as well, trying to pump out as much content as I can. But I’ve noticed from my own experience that problems arise when you’re too focused on the future - when...
Beach Day
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Beach Day
The Cure for Loneliness
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The Cure for Loneliness
Sweden, but It’s Cinematic
Переглядів 8 тис.Рік тому
Sweden, but It’s Cinematic
AI Wrote This Cinematic Short Film in 10 Seconds
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AI Wrote This Cinematic Short Film in 10 Seconds
The Beauty of Film Photography
Переглядів 26 тис.Рік тому
The Beauty of Film Photography
Feeling Lost in Your 20s
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Feeling Lost in Your 20s

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @HappyPlace48
    @HappyPlace48 9 годин тому

    I love how calm this video is.

  • @Lyk4n
    @Lyk4n 9 годин тому

    I was born in 2002. Many times I wish I could be born a few hundred years later to see what the world will look like in a few hundred years. Unfortunately, no one can live that long. Each of us is an ordinary person. We will eventually be buried in the ground, eliminated by the world, and forgotten by others. We are just born in different classes. Maybe everyone will experience confusion, but in the end most people will figure out what they really want and find the meaning of their existence, which is nothing more than living well and enjoying the present. (Translated by Google, I'm sorry)

  • @Hellgamer525
    @Hellgamer525 10 годин тому

    Thank you so much I feel better after watching your video I am going through heart broken my gf break up with me and this hurts me alot alot but after watching your I feel really better

  • @sherhinofc3315
    @sherhinofc3315 День тому

    Im already sooo done with life by the time i reached twenty.

  • @Brahmananda
    @Brahmananda День тому

    your house is so so cool

  • @krisshivpramod1538
    @krisshivpramod1538 3 дні тому

    Love it

  • @Pink_Woz
    @Pink_Woz 3 дні тому

    I am terrified to lose my friend. We talk every day, but because our lives are completely different, I can't help but feel like we're slowly but surely growing further and further apart. I fear for the day we eventually just..stop talking.. I'm 23 and I obssess with trying to stay in the past because that's when I was happy and most comfortable. My friendship with my friend was at it's peak. We were getting into the same stuff and it was great. But recently..I just can't focus on anything. Stuff that used to bring me joy now only brings me stress. I can't choose what I want to focus on because I want to focus on multiple things and I can't fit them all in. I don't know what to do with my life or even with my day. I can barely remember to take a shower and brush my teeth. I struggle every day to find a reason to get out of bed.

  • @cg4703
    @cg4703 3 дні тому

    Hi, I'm 27 I'm lost, disappointed and lonely I feel like there is no way out of here. Life happens to everyone except me. I'm not lazy or ugly or stupid, just outsider. I don't know why I'm here, everything is so pointless. Sorry

  • @shaha0704
    @shaha0704 5 днів тому

    I am 13 and i want to get into film.. This helped sm

  • @xsendilien9551
    @xsendilien9551 5 днів тому

    I am 23 years old as well, I play Dota 2, my fav hero now is DK like you were playing in the video) So many common things. I am surprised.

  • @stcheata
    @stcheata 7 днів тому

    Great inspiring video...

  • @sydneymccall9107
    @sydneymccall9107 7 днів тому

    This Summer, I'm turning 24 and it feels like everyone who inspires me or even my friends alone seems to be making it in life while I struggle to figure out who I am and what I want to do. I stumbled upon this video at such a good time. Procrastination is my worst enemy! Avoiding something new to stay comfortable is so real. Thank you for sticking it through, making this video, and putting it out there. This video is not only inspirational but also so well created.

  • @computerformat4390
    @computerformat4390 10 днів тому

    +1

  • @one.whimpers
    @one.whimpers 11 днів тому

    Love from India ❤

  • @RishuKumar-sc3sj
    @RishuKumar-sc3sj 11 днів тому

  • @alwy_cheezy75
    @alwy_cheezy75 12 днів тому

    Im 18, often feeling about this especially when my day is just flat. Hope i will get something that make me life again

  • @LifeDiarys
    @LifeDiarys 12 днів тому

    i think i relate to this video😢

  • @sup1075
    @sup1075 12 днів тому

    I'm 22, felling lost, I've graduated from University, for 4 years I've learning new skills, but the war is break all my plans I'm from UA, I don't know how much time is left to me In my country the mens from 25, just captured and force to the war, to the dead, all that I can to be a pizza maker, I just want to be a programmer, but there no opportunity like 400 candidates to 1 job, Now I'm just waiting my time, and work on job that I didn't choose, I can't even live this country, Good bless u man, I hope u never tackle with this...

  • @Thebest-wz7uf
    @Thebest-wz7uf 13 днів тому

    🏌️‍♀️

  • @aimanmanSeee
    @aimanmanSeee 13 днів тому

    No

  • @pvlvstepan
    @pvlvstepan 14 днів тому

    As a 23 year old myself who just lost a 5 year relationship, your thoughts and feelings resonate with me a lot. But man it’s tough. It’s like a huge part of your life and your personality has been taken away, especially in your early 20s when you haven’t really understood yourself and your aspirations. Time will heal, hopefully. Love your videos, man. Keep it going

  • @agubatanmesomachukwu
    @agubatanmesomachukwu 14 днів тому

    Turning 23 by August, and I graduated from the University last month. I have never been so confused in my life as I am now, I see most of my mate doing well and ask myself 'What am I doing wrong? What am I doing different? Why is this happening? Why is that happening? ' . Now that I have fully graduated the pressure has become worst. I didn't see this video on my fyp, I searched it myself. From the comments I have read from this video, I hope it will get better over time.

  • @shikhadhurve7227
    @shikhadhurve7227 14 днів тому

    Relatable

  • @wtfcompilation999
    @wtfcompilation999 15 днів тому

    I want to say that you use social media (not like tik tok and instagram) but use youtube like or watch favourite movie like they can actually gave you fun but listen using of More of anything can give you harm like youtube you also watch anything they fill enjoy like when you eating so watch and listen music when you do like when you wash utensils like where you don't need to use your consciousness.

  • @Aurora_L1ght
    @Aurora_L1ght 15 днів тому

    It helped me ua-cam.com/video/kq6UVL3H6SI/v-deo.htmlsi=8F-TQYYjYCBzxyQ8

  • @DikshaBharadwaj-zl5ud
    @DikshaBharadwaj-zl5ud 15 днів тому

    Thanku very much ❤❤❤..

  • @joycegoes266
    @joycegoes266 16 днів тому

    Jesus told in jesus affirmations that our life is like a note-book. Starting the pages our birth and end the pages our death is written. And centre pages are empty. We must fill centre pages with smiles and love

  • @sebastian.kowalczyk
    @sebastian.kowalczyk 16 днів тому

    Felt the movie atmosphere, but what about feeling lost at the end of your 30's ? I'm right now in that period of my life

  • @shafali344
    @shafali344 16 днів тому

    Your home is very beautiful .

  • @Jesuslovesyou22783
    @Jesuslovesyou22783 17 днів тому

    If your struggling with loneliness or anything in your life God will help you in Jesus name . Matthew 7:7-8 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: for every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.

  • @Jesuslovesyou22783
    @Jesuslovesyou22783 17 днів тому

    If your struggling with loneliness or anything in your life God will help you in Jesus name . Matthew 7:7-8 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: for every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.

  • @user-nx8jz8dl5l
    @user-nx8jz8dl5l 17 днів тому

    Like for year 2024

  • @Yanojang
    @Yanojang 18 днів тому

    I'm 21 and I'm in 1st year college for the 3rd time now

  • @earlytobeincontemplation
    @earlytobeincontemplation 18 днів тому

    What i feel this way almost 2 years ?

  • @ChristosAndreou01
    @ChristosAndreou01 19 днів тому

    You are exceptional :)

  • @hdadyala9878
    @hdadyala9878 19 днів тому

    Great video man, graduated from uni recently and can definitely relate to this feeling. No idea where I’ll end up atm but I’ve just tried to set small goals and work on achieving them every month, then going from there

  • @shemsunebiyu1796
    @shemsunebiyu1796 20 днів тому

    I'm 27 my life is just as you said. I have been struggling not to be alone or lost. somehow I got used to it

  • @floatingspongebob53
    @floatingspongebob53 20 днів тому

    Yes but its difficult for women to just go to places alone. Safety issues. And such beautiful and nature esque places are not accessible to all.

  • @hellliyaho7626
    @hellliyaho7626 21 день тому

    I am20 engineering students ..my best budies left for different cities just completed one year in college not made a single friend to whom I can depend upon ...I had changed my group couple of time feeling lost???😢

  • @cinemageplt
    @cinemageplt 22 дні тому

    The way you capture nature is so beautiful, you have to be a Terrence Malick fan, right ?

  • @maiasmith2045
    @maiasmith2045 22 дні тому

    I have lived in Finland since I just turned 18, because of the coronavirus for almost two years I could not return to my country so I learned the language I started to study a career which I am supposed to finish next year, next year also my student residence ends if I want to continue here I must apply to another residence, I don't know what to do I feel lost I'm 22 years old and I feel so far behind compared to people my ag most of them have their own apartment, I live in my school, most of them can drive, i can't, i feel lonely, i miss my family, i don't know what to do, i want to give my mom a better quality of life but I don't want to be selfish and bring her here because I know she loves to be independent and here it's going to be difficult for her because of the language and also our family and her friends, on the other hand I don't know if I want to go back to my country, I have many traumatic experiences that make me afraid to experience again, it is dangerous to live there even more if you are a woman, i'm lost.

  • @Tsomis
    @Tsomis 23 дні тому

    I am 17, feeling lost. All you said was what i was thinking. We're adults. Many chances. School stoped yesterday and now i feel alone. The year before , i was having a good time with my self planning the next adventure or goal to accomplish, but now nothing excites me. It made me thinking that you also had broke up, which i kinda also have: i think i am in love with a girl, but my friends tell me that i should not tell her, "she is not ready". This video worth so much! You made me feel that i am not alone and all of this is normal. Thank you and wish, all of you reading this, find yourself again.😕

  • @We_The_Lost
    @We_The_Lost 24 дні тому

    I absolutely love this. What a great video, what a gift. Thank you.

  • @Deepjall
    @Deepjall 24 дні тому

    Thank you 😊

  • @nandurajnrj6965
    @nandurajnrj6965 25 днів тому

    Thanks. Bro

  • @viscaelfutbol44
    @viscaelfutbol44 25 днів тому

    I just turned 28, I’m still lost in life

  • @supriya1919
    @supriya1919 25 днів тому

    Your voice is soothing, brother! Blissful to be here, I am taking a moment to appreciate so that you'll have a good go

  • @Zgokufiloszkg
    @Zgokufiloszkg 26 днів тому

    Iam 24 years old and iam feeling exactly this way.i’ve just graduated from college and iam serving my country as a soldier as in Greece it’s mandatory.Feeling like it’s the worst phase of my life life,anxious as fuck for the future and worry all the time even for small things.Funny thing is that 2 years ago I was feeling perfect,about my hobbies my career path on university and in general that I’ve figured out lots of things.And then we come to present where everything seems difficult.Carry on guys everything is in the mind.Definetely loved this video ,amazing work behind it.

  • @Mielec3trical
    @Mielec3trical 26 днів тому

    Bruh you just explained me 🥲

  • @mohammedrazin3088
    @mohammedrazin3088 26 днів тому

    ❤️