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I thought I was this badass sigma who doesn't need friends, but I learned the hard way that if you don't have friends, there is literally nothing to do in your free time.

Bro my life is way more depressing than yours when I was younger i used to get bullied alot because I'm chubby.When i was in grade four i think i had 1 or 2 friends I REALLY miss those days because they were the type of friends i want.But heres the thing,you remember how I told you i kept getting bullied because I was fat?.Well,I left the school because of that and transfered to a new school with new kids But i repeated so i went to gr 3. 1 week after being in that class there was this boy bothering me about my Weight. It literally hurted me.Then about 2 weeks later was when my nightmare happened. So my teacher left the classroom and there was about 10 kids in dat class about 8 or 9 of them dissed me.I said i was gonna tell the principal.I ran right next to the principal's office and I was literally crying.But I was shy and kinda embarrassed so i cried for a few secs and wiped my tears and went back to class.I dont remember anything after that.But fast foward to gr 4 SAME SH** No friends and no social life.I Was like 11 at dat time so I wasn't really mature yet.The only thing that entertained me was just games.But heres the thing my stepbrother was like my bsf and dat time.We would literally play games for more than 2 hours.Man,I Really miss The old days.But you know what happened in gr 4.They bullied me and had no friends till my mother moved me to a new school.And Trust Me It Got Alot Worst. Pt.2 soon

1:10 this is everyone in my life but maybe one person

My entire life, I have never had a real friend. Many people around but no one is actually there. Learn to be comfortable with being alone in life and doing majority of things alone, it won't bother you as much and you will think about it here and there like damn I'm lonely but it's better to adapt than to dwell. And maybe soon in life we will all get to experience what we never had.

8:14 is so real 😭 seriously i relate to this way too much but im curious, how are you now?

Ha I was just recommended your previous video, then commented. Now I see this. Congrats on all the subs and success

This video really resonated with me. This was my high school expirence. By early next year, I should be finished with high school. It's sad I couldn't experience friendship, and have fun. Going to school with no one to look forward to seeing and eating alone watching everyone else laugh was soul crushing. I imagine adulthood is the same, probably worse since everyone will be busy. All we can do is change ourselves for the better.

Sorry to disappoint, but collage can be the same. The fact that you have to change all your groups each semester is messy as hell, like I'm just starting to be somewhat friendly to someone and then boom, new semester with new people and now you have to start all over again. Hopefully this changes for you

we should make a groupchat for all of us loners

Man i used to be friends with ENTIRE classes back in middle school, Oh how times have changed lmao

That’s going to be me next year all my friends are 2 years younger than me as autistic and have a hard time socializing with people my age but I’m so scared because idk what to be

1:39 THE FRANCINE DEPRESSED GOT ME DYING

It sucks that my friends are in different classes and are too busy to hangout or with their friends. I am too anxious to talk to anyone in class to the point I want to throw up😭😭 plus I’m stuck with this class for the rest of the 3 years ☹️

im 16 and i i have literally no friends ): i feel so sad and lonely all the time. i just want someone to hang out with ):

I salute you for reading this 🫡

Has anyone thought of band class?

I just sit in my room after school and still barely get ANY homework done 😭Like I think to myself at least I don't have to hear about how X person don't like Y person and Z person likes X person and blah blah blah but whenever I end that train of thought I always just think to myself "its alright bro just admit you're lonely & coping"

Schools have a social ranking, among the society. So wait for it, and you'll get it.I faced things alone, I already got used to these in days. I don't mean to be rude or judgemental, sorry.

I spent each year of middle school in a different school, then another for my two first years of hs, and now moved yet again to a brand new school for my junior year. I’ve given up at making new friendships at this point because I know they won’t last. Not to mention, English is not my first language and it is VERY exhausting to have to speak it if I ever want to socialize. I enjoy my solitude, don’t get me wrong, but sometimes it’s just plain lonely. I’m just waiting for graduation so I can get tf out of here

as an extrovert with surface level friends it starts to drive u insane 😞😞

i do have friends that i talk but not true friends they just bros that i talk in lunch breaks not someone i could talk about my obsessions or problems

I have this thing where certain people gravitates towards me and wanting to be a friend during the start of the year. It always makes me feel awkward interacting people that I don't know. But I found this one person in our class who was extremely quiet and doesn't interact with anyone. I knew that the people that wanted to be friends with me have genuine intentions. As a way, I gravitated them towards that friend group which they got along really well. Though I don't consider myself as a part of that friend group. It's just a thought of me not wanting someone to get left out from the crowd. I'm already content being alone as it makes me feel more at peace. Its like friendship is a relation that is completely foreign for me.

I LITERALLY GRADUATED TWO DAYS AGO AND ONLY **NOW** I FIND THIS VIDEO!!! 😭

bro what sucks is that im in my junior year right now, for context my first two years were in a different school and i was in AFJROTC. i didnt join on purpose i was put there, but it felt great the people in my unit were amazing people i could look up to. i did alot of events and had probably the most real friends ive ever had. and now it's just not there, school is just a chore i just have a good impression on my teachers. honestly im very introverted and i never made the first step in a friendship ever, im not sure when i became like this but its sucks and this video is so REAL especially the lunch part. also, i hate talking and texting to people online i need the real experience of talking to a person irl, it's not that i get distracted but it feels like im not engaged, but i can't help it.

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Tw: vent(?) I got a new start in highschool i was kinda the new kid, I felt like my depression and suicidal thoughts would end there because I was starting fresh, but no I screwed up so many opportunities to make new friends because I can't be a normal person. (Eye contact, small talk, etc) After a year of highschool (sophomore now) I see this new girl in school and I really wanted to be her friend just couldn't bring myself to talk. (Couple days later she has a whole friend group. Why can't I be likes that? I want ro be able to talk with people without me trying to gasp for air, fidgeting and Looking them in the eyes, getting stuck in words.) my mom says I should have at least 1 friend to riley on, but I screwed up my last friendship. (Sometimes I wish I could go back in time and face my friend, and maybe tell her she was the only one I truly had.) I'm not smart, I don't have any real talent, and I dont even have friends. (Sometimes I just think of ending it. I'm just to scared to die.)

It was so easy for me to make friends before quarantine, Nowadays I screwed up a good friendship (I was getting depressed in middle school and was kinda thinking about suicide, but I wanted to cut ties before I did it. Never ended up killing myself due to me being scared and hopeful during graduation.) And now I can't look anyone in the eye without having a full blown anxiety attack. (I kinda have a resting face and I can't really bring myself To smile. I laugh sometimes but it leaves a bad after feeling on me.)

This is way too real, I totally relate. For context, I’m an identical twin and I’ve always had the same class as my twin sister from kindergarten all the way through middle school. But for high school, I tested into a high school that my sister didn’t get into, so I had to go all by myself for the first time ever. Only 1 other girl from my middle school went to my high school, and we weren’t close. This left me with no friends and it was a STRUGGLE just to try to talk with anyone! This was partially due to anxiety, but also because all the other student already had friends or cliques from their middle schools, so just trying strike up a conversation was difficult because no one was really searching for new friends like I was. It made me dread waking up and having to go to school because it was just gonna be another lonely, boring day. Even when I’d have a friendly conversation with someone, we never became friends, and, like you said, we kinda just stayed “acquaintances” at best. I felt so miserable that eventually, I just dropped out and decided to switch to homeschool. I’m currently studying to get my GED and graduate early to get high school OVER WITH. Anyways, I hope you’re able to graduate early too! I think college will be a lot more laid back and will have a nice variety of people to be friends with, so I’m excited for that. Sorry for going on a rant of my own! TLDR: High school with no friends sucks and I can’t wait to graduate 😭

It’s hard for me to make friends because I’m a foreigner always had anxiety talking to people that I’m not native with

fr like the realization that u only have aquintances , and like a lot of them is harsh asf

I am 14, i have no freinds, i do online school and am very socially anxious, i dont know how i can force myself to talk to people. I stay home all day. I dont do anything. I want freinds.

Damn it’s gotten so bad for me, all my friends I’ve had end up just leaving me, or I have to leave them. It’s that same cycle over and over. It’s just I don’t know where I fit in! It’s hard to find the right people and I just think all the time that if I make a friend they’re gonna leave me. But unfortunately at this point I’ve kinda gotten used to it. Thank you so much for this video though, it’s opened my eyes and shows that I’m not alone. <3

This is depressingly true. I had a decent social circle as a freshman with friends I hung out with outside of school but had to move to another state that summer out of nowhere. I have moved nearly my entire life and when everything in my life was perfect, it got taken away from me out of my father's fake relationship with some women.

The worst is being friends and liked by everyone yet the moment school is over or it’s a break, no calls, no messages, nothing. And yet you see all your “friends” from school hanging out with each other when they are so close to you at school. In my opinion that hurts more than having no friends: everyone considering you as a friend but not enough to hang out or talk to. I once did the experiment where you don’t reach out to anyone first and see who messages first and I kid you not, absolutely no one messaged me, so after that I started cutting off people and just being distant and my depression got worse. I hated when they acted like they cared so much about me at school, asking why I seemed so down lately but never bothering to actually check up. It’s frustrating because I do so much for them yet it seems like they don’t value it in the end. And it’s hard to just “change friend groups” because it’s not just one group, it’s literally everyone I know. I mean the only person to actually try to reach out and make an effort to hang out is my old best friend from YEARS ago that moved away. I guess it really is quality over quantity. I mean literally I had this period of time where I was in a REALLY bad mental state like REALLY BAD if you know what I mean, and my so called “best friends” saw me like this and threw a literal shoe at me and laughed at me. That was the day I left and began drifting between friend groups but no matter where I went, I was always left out, no matter how close we became. Now I just wonder what’s wrong with me and why can’t I just fit in and have true friends like in the movies. I just want to leave this place for good. -Your local “popular” girl ❤ Edit: I’d also like to add that I have no social anxiety or anything. Making friends and talking to people is very easy for me but just after a while of people not caring, it just starts to affect you a lot.

Yoooo I finally found a video where I relate heavily too. Even similar ways of growth and I’m a senior too. Rare occasion. Good video

im not lonely in highschool, but i extremly lonely in elementary school and watching this video makes me realize how lucky i was too get friends. and actually spend time with people(I feel 8 again)

i genuinely can't believe that you're alone in school.. I am too but you have such a fun, outgoing bubbly personality and you're so funny! it's crazy to me that if i saw you at my school i'd instantly try to talk to you lol

this was literally me throughout my entire highschool life. I had school friends, but I never gave myself the opportunity to make a "real" connection with someone. Someone I could talk to and hang out with. My school friends had their own groups and I didn't feel like I belonged anywhere. For senior breakfast (something my school did the day before graduation) i sat ALONE ToT. I felt my life and loneliness just overcome me as I just drew in my sketchbook far from the other seniors and listened to rock music as loud as I could tolerate. I loved my teachers and classes but friendships and lunch time was something I struggled with. I seriously almost cried when you mentioned you wished that lunch time would just pass by faster because that is what I felt almost everyday. I spent my last 2 years in the library, doing homework or on my phone and would sometimes look at this other girl who seemed to also have no friends. But my freaking social anxiety got the best of me and we only spoke a few words to each other in class. Making friends was so difficult for me because no matter how much I told myself that I'll be ok, I sometimes went home crying and frustrated with myself. I was so ashamed of myself. Hearing my younger sister having fun with her group of friends and just giggling on phone calls makes me happy that she is having a social life, but it gets me so sad when I think about myself. They say "fake it until you make it", which I did. But I faked it so much that I isolated myself from others so that they wouldn't think that I was such a loser. I'm in college now and I feel a bit more liberated than I did in HS. No one knows me yet, I can be myself, I don't have to suck up to anyone because we just come and go. I hope these next few years I can create a connection with someone and not fall into a depressive state again. <3

Lowkey was in the same boat as you. I had to make new friends from scratch at my high school. I was going crazy thinking that I was missing out on the full high school experience. Though you just gotta do what you want to do, even if you think people are gonna think you’re weird(and they likely are going to). Some people will just walk away, though others will stick around. You like running? Look for people who like that too? Have a hobby? Look for a club similar to it. That’s basically what I did sophomore year and it work, though what helped me most was forcing myself to be the friendship facilitator instead of just letting it magically appear like in middle school. It was awkward and nerve wracking though I ended up with a good amount of school friends now that I’m a senior….may or may not have to reset after high school though cause I don’t have much of a out of school friendship with anyone tho I’ll figure it out😅.

Meh. I just kinda handled it.

i remember when i was little i dreamed of being able to drive my friends around once i'm a teenager... i am now 17 able to drive, but don't have friends

I haven't had any irl friends since I was 10, mostly because my classmates were rude and I got bullied a ton throughout elementary and middle. By high school I didn't really care to talk with anyone since most people just gossiped constantly, I just focused on my own things. But it definitely gets to me at some points, not having anyone to sit by you can be depressing sometimes. I'm happy and grateful for my family and online friends because I can connect with them better and online it's easier to find likeminded people

The friends I made at school were more acquaintances so it was really just in name. My middle school friends are still in my life though. This year netted me the -1 friend at school that I sorta talked to a bit but in return I got people to actually talk to this year. Hang in there fellow helltaker fan

It sound cheesy as hell but you strong as hell for doing what you did. I wish I had the same thought process while I was still in school 🧙🏽‍♂️🥑

Lost NNN to this 🤦‍♂️😕

damn that was painfully relatable

For all the people in the comments saying they have no friends the best way to meet new people and get better at talking to them is by trying to find a hobby that has you interacting with others. You can try talking to people at the first few hobbies and get social skills. If you find you like the hobby you can try to find someone similar to you and if you don't find a new hobby and repeat the process until you find one you like.

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im glad that ion relate to this 🙏🙅‍♂️

Yeah, this hits different for me too because I did have the blessing of having best friends throughout high school, but then they either left the school or we had a falling out. Like I was really only down to one best friend nearing the end of high school and he was like a brother to me, we liked all the same things and loved spending time together doing whatever. In school we were never apart and always did everything together. He was the reason I enjoyed school! But yeah, I noticed he started to change and was saying mean things behind other people's backs, ignore me to spend more time with the 'cool' kids. (They were not cool just not very smart they group together and drink and that) I was also going through a hard time with my mum being sick, so I just told him how I felt but he said it was nothing. Then we had a falling out and I started ignoring him and he started talking about me behind my back. Other people started to look at me differently and wouldn't talk to me. I even tried to get closer to the people who he had been making fun off, but they seemed to also brush me off because they didn't want to be associated with me. I cried a lot and regretted this a lot, because this was more than a friendship. But yeah, the silver lining is that I am not friends with someone who would talk about someone else's back. It doesn't stay bad forever guys! It will always get better and you will make new friends!