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I was so beat down but I love your witchy work 😊

My struggle right now is that my 2 year relationship ended. It was the first time in my life that I felt properly supported and loved. Basically everyone else abandoned me or made me feel like I was deeply flawed. My ex partner always reassured me and told me that my fear of being abandoned is unrealistic and that they'll not lose feelings out of nowhere because that's not how a healthy Person works. And then exactly that happened. I left to visit my parents for some weeks and before that everything was as it always was and they made Plans with me for when I'm back and told me to not be scared about not seeing each other and then 1 1/2 weeks after I left they broke up with me out of nowhere and told me they don't love me as much as I love them. So now I feel like my biggest fear that I always told myself was just in my head and wasn't realistic became reality and I don't know how to ever trust and believe anyone again, because I can't trust in what people tell me about how they feel about me.

Do you think this would work for men too?

Look in the mirror

This is a rejected theory by most scholars, it was started by Robert Graves the poer and writer, tied to occult orders.(That eventually seek total domination) Every culture that's not monotheistic has a goddess, she was never buried, there was no proof of a world matriarchal society. Even in the Hebrew culture Israel had a goddess they worshiped at times and Islam God has no gender. But every culture has multiple goddesses outside A Christianity and Islam, no they weren't "buried". This idea of patriarchal society burying a world mother is a neo feminist concoction. Overall, anyone who studies myth and religion know there's always been mother goddesses, it's nothing new or lost. If it wasn't for western civilization and Christianity, you'd still.be stuck in that "patriarchal" society and the women, the weak, the sick etc would be complete ignored. Could try Saudi Arabia to get a glimpse of what it could look likr without "western civilization" In fact the attack on western civilization and a lot of all these ideas the youth cling to today, are pushed by those who see Western civilization as a huge road block to total power and subjugation. That's out their iwn statements. Socities that did worship the "wild", they goddess, were sacrificing humans to them. Graves wrote a whole book about she demanded kings to be sacrificed and that's what "inspired" Christianity. Lots of those pagan goddess cultures had horrors yiu couldn't matter sitting on UA-cam withing the safety of the father god patriarchal society that put an end to that chaotic wildness and created a society and safety you could even make this video. It isn't something we want to return. The society we live in today is the most safe, rational society that ever existed. The pagan societies weren't necessarily desirable. The enlightenment, born out of western Christianity created what your looking for, but those pushing the great mother idea want that destroyed. They'd reverse the enlightenment if they could

Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities! I’m happy for you being ready to share, and it’s helpful as well!

I think that is the hardest part of knowing that my mom did her best and I still have issues. My dad wasnt there so I can blame him completely(I dont hate him, but it gives a understanding) but with my mom its harder to wrap my head around because she was there and did the best she could and I dont want her to feel like what she did wasnt good enough, but I still dont understand how I have abandonment issues because I know she did her best and I appreciate it.

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Great conversation and I always value learning things from the feminine perspective. As a man, I've had to learn the distinction between self worth vs. self confidence. Self worth is innate and never has to be earned. Confidence is more rooted in our practical skill levels. Self worth is more feminine...confidence masculine. Both are important. However, many men (and now many more women) identify so strongly with self confidence that they are always pushing away worthiness and self-love until they achieve a result they desire. When they hit failures, they take it deeply personal and think it is evidence they are not enough. This is the cause of suicide in high achievers. Self worth heals all wounds and personal failures and creates the willingness dig deeper within to alchemize fear and doubt into faith and action. Thank you Bela for the episode. I'd love to have you on my show sometime and discuss this more. Keep up the great content 👌💯

YES MY 2 FAVORITE PEOPLE. THIS IS is amazing to see, I love the both of you so freaking much.

Was to express feelings a part ?

Can i have contact you ? I want to heal

Did You have brainfog ..its like my nervous system are så sensitive now

This is totally the truth! Your Inner Child is hunkered down in a corner of your mind, trying to protect itself. Your Inner Teen grasps its independence with both hands. She has no wish to even control her emotions, especially anger, and she wants revenge for every wrong. She is an immense powerhouse, but needs direction and logic to achieve her dreams.

Thank you

Thank you 😊

It feels like my nervous system are stucked in fight flight

Is it to realese emotions who are the key , everybody say i should seat with them but ?! It just be more and more anixty

I am so afraid to be alone , be left that i do everything for others, so i dont now how who I am again

Oh poor my daugther 😢i dont want her to feel safe with me but i Been sick when she got 6 yrs ! 😢but im been there for here , but i have trauma inside i dont now how deal with

Hi i have abandontment trauma , i got Fatigue, Brianfog , stiffeness etc

What kind of camera are you using? ❤ great video 🙏

Omg please look at me and tell me what I need please….. but fr for real……I have this buzzing in my chest.

Loved this yesssssss

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Looove this one!

You’re both so wise. I loved this conversation and your chemistry together. Definitely have her back on the podcast sometime to chat about more spiritual topics, rituals, and culture! ❤️

I learned to be my own hero. Now I'm older and due to medical issues I'm not very mobile anymore and unable to do the things I used to without relying on others. My issue is that when I try to bond with people I am always the one to initiate contact. I used to be popular and had no trouble socialising. Now I never get invited anywhere. My own invitations are also rejected. I'm 66 and use a cane so it's becoming harder to go out alone cos I feel like damaged goods. The hardest part is when I hurt myself trying to do a thing that used to be easy and injure myself. My grandfather was my rock in a family that I never felt part of. He died when I was 10 and I learnt to be self sufficient and not rely on people. I used to be pretty and popular because I was kind and caring. I always bounced back from rejection and moved on. Now I'm stuck. Unable to occupy myself and nobody seems to have any desire to connect with me even though I'm still well groomed and friendly. I just feel obsolete and I am aware that this is causing emotional pain and social anxiety but each day is harder to get through. All the podcasts seem to focus on younger people.

Part 2! 💝

please, part two ❤

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Mahina is the biggest guide for me for years. Felt amazing to get to know her more deeply and hear her life stories. Thank you for this beautiful talk❤️

thank you for your prayers mahina 🫀🐢

Great wisdom from Mahina! Just wish the host didn’t refer back to her personal story every time Mahina was channeling wisdom codes!!

I have never heard anyone mention anything about rites-of-passage involving anyone older than a mom. To hear about how we have none for becoming an elder or how to even BE an elder made 🤯🤯🤯! I have been feeling this big time. When you’re young you have all sorts of examples on how you might want to dress/behave/just be, but after a certain time in life, it seems we are just discarded and devalued. I would love to step into that space of sharing any wisdom I may have gained in my life but feel like no one would listen anyway so what’s the point. How do you get to a place where you feel and know your value when you’re a woman past baby-bearing? Anyway, thanks for addressing that.

Completely true ☀️

Wow, this was a beautiful conversation ❤ thank you!

Super strange.. when I was 4 I was in the OKC bombing and my mom couldn’t find me for 7 hours… my maiden last name is Mowdy and I just met a guy who kept talking about the Philippines yesterday because his wife lived there. All of those things are talked about within the first 13 minutes that’s crazy. I also always think I must have been a hard labor working male in a more recent past life due to the way my hands look it’s just a strange feeling I’ve always had as well. I’d love to have a palm reading and a QHHT session as well. I also see many many angel numbers as well as have numerous deja vu experiences. I can’t wait to find out more about myself as I keep going through this life. What an amazing episode ❤

I just recently discovered you on youtube and am very glad about it. Love your energy 🌸 😊. Thank you for putting yourself out there and shining your light ☀️🌟

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it's strange to call yourself a "Hawaiian Mystic" but never mentioning a kahuna or even a kupuna that taught from the view point of Hawaiian culture. No mention of even kapu and how that is handled in Hawaiian culture. Much of what was talked about is just found in New Age spirituality that has been appropriated from other cultures. aumakua are way more than just an "animal spirit" guide or whatever she called them. they're our ancestors. they are our protectors, our guides. they are literally part of us and make us who we are. to water them down to just an animal spirit shows how little she understands about Hawaiian culture. I understand wanting to learn a culture you are a part of, but please, please, please learn from kupuna and those who are actually involved in communities and hawaiian spirituality. sincerely, a kanaka maoli

the way this talk synchronistically placed itself into my life at the perfect moment is actually insane & enough to keep me coming back! Thank you both for holding this space ^.^

Thank you for this medicine 🙏🤍

Sooo so good

This podcast is so beautiful, I kept getting goosebumps when hearing everything she has to say🥺😮

Thank you Bela

this video is so magickal profound. i know deep in my being that it found me for very specific reasons today. thank you so much for creating a platform like this and facilitating community in this way 🫂 i love you both

I love your podcast Bela. Thank you for bringing this wonderful guest 🩵