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Does she still attend the same church where she met her ex husband?????

AAAMMAZZINNG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The use of scripture like this is just the worst😢

His posts and constant attacks on facebook always reek of narcissism. I believe you a 100% on all you've shared! I am so happy you've broken free and pray God keeps you and your children.

You are amazing and thank you so much for sharing and pray your story saves so many lives 🙏🏾🩷

You have a beautiful home! Fabulous taste 👌🏾

I have a natural light brown skin color and I am satisfied with my skin color. I don't want to be white, I like my skin color and my skin color is beautiful. In the summer a lot of white people going to the beach in the sun to get dark skin. I like dark skin ladies they are beautiful.

I wish i had been able to set boundaries. Early in our dating relationship even before engagement and marriage, when i tried it was met with condemnation and punishment from my husband Thank you for sharing your story. X

Love this message! Thank you for sharing! 🙏🏽❤️

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Hi. How long have you been divorced now?

Sis ur not alone !!! I was attracted to the husbands so called love for God and how intentional he was about ministry, i was told i must change my dressing - I must wear hats to Church, cover my head etc i blindly did it all. i thought goodness he knows so much about God and he evangelises and does it all he must be right...how blind i was ...so his criticism of other Christians and Christians leaders and his constant debates, and arguments to "defend God" as he put it were unfortunately not red flags at the time. For the "sake of God and minsitry" he would scream amd shout at others who disagreed with him or had different opinions ... stupidly I translated it as zeal...Sis ur not alone😢 God is our strength x

Wanted to hear why you left him? What did he do?

Thank God for light-bulb moments and courage to walk away from an abusive marriage. Sadly, you will come across some annoying people, including older women who will say things that undermine and belittle your perseverance over the years when you were doing the best to keep a toxic and ungodly relationship, especially marriage.

I am so glad that you mentioned the late Osinachi because some undiscerning and insensitive "Christians" claim that she was not a victim of domestic abuse!! 😮😢😢😢

Thank you for speaking out and sharing your journey. It has really helped me through my own journey and affirmed that getting out is the best thing for me ❤. Emotional abuse is so subtle and hard to prove. You feel it but can’t explain it . To discover that someone gets it really soothes the self doubt. Thank you. I wish you well

THis video was my experience in a church as a church member. It almost killed me. I almost drank, smoked, self-harmede my pain away. But thank God I met a friend who spoke a lot about Jesus to me and I heard sermons from Zac Poonen (a preacher on youtube) and slowly began to understand my self-worth and how God loves and sees us all as worthy but how other people do not see our worth and mistreat us. May God bless you dear.

Congratulations

Thank God you are breaking free and sharing your journeys. I can imagine and relate to your story. Most narcissists use what attracted you to them.. as a cover. Sending you love and hugs 🙏🏽😘

Lovely home🥰

How do you co parent with your ex husband?

I wish more people would watch this.. well done sis.. may God continue to strengthen you and the children ❤️❤️❤️❤️

God bless you, Sister. Thank you for sharing.

Can I ask about talking openly about your abuse experience publicly? I have been terrified to speak up in a public manner because he is forcing me to sign a non disparaging clause in our divorce decree and I don’t fully understand my rights to actually be able to speak about my experience.

I am so confused as to why your pastor advised you to marry in secret???

Wow, it’s as if I am listening to you tell my story of how it began for me and my husband….😮

You are most fortunate that you don’t have a debilitating autoimmune disease

I feel like you are someone who has experienced something very similar to my earlier life. I still have mental health challenges, too, but fewer than I did 10 years ago. May you continue to heal.

I started realizing the emotional impact it had on me over the years. All because he denied his lack of sexual attraction. Im learning when reality doesnt suit his narrative he gets very offense and he would gaslight me..i started writing things down wondering is it me? Am I crazy? Glad to know your story.

You are so beautiful and glam!!

So true that it is harder to leave than to stay!!! My husband said I was taking the easy way out when I finally left but really I had been doing the easy thing by staying all those years when I had wanted or tried to leave. So much harder to break free.

Agree. Nothing you do is enough nor is anything good enough

I relate to so much of this. I was always in the wrong and in trouble over something or other and my husband would use Christianity, scriptures, religion to always justify his actions, thoughts beliefs and to make it seem like I was wrong

🙏🏼 your right about taking responsibility but I don’t believe you should take full responsibility. You were a young women seeking support from a man “of status” presenting as a man “of God”. You were mentally manipulated/abused and that is not your fault. In this world of healing mentally and physically and the rest of it we put a lot on taking full responsibility but I think it is a dangerous way of gaslighting ourselves. Xxxx

Wow thank you so much for your courage to share this with us. It is so needed and so helpful 😢🙏🏼💚 I’m so sorry you went through this but so happy to see you shine out the other side now xxx

Really sorry... You were only 24 not yet fully mature, your pastor misled you at your young age.... Marriage is such a personal decision .. decision should be between you and God...if you have a loving supportive family, they should be very key as well... Puting a pastor,bishop,prophet in the position of Jesus is dangerous, only Jesus is our mediator.they are just human with flaws...many pastors are also narcissistic & controlling. Remember: Jeremiah 17:9-10 The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately corrupt;who can understand it. Mark 10:18 And Jesus said to him, “Why do you call me good? No one is good but God alone. 1 Timothy 2:5 - For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus.

My best to you! I'm a survivor as well. I do understand!❤

Thanks for sharing your story, more people need to identify these traits and deal with and not throw it under the rug. Well done 👍

You have since realized you are enough? You are good enough, he was projecting his own flaws and insecurities on you.

The mental attacks are relentless and diabolical! No matter what you do to fight back, you will NEVER EVER win!

Finally! I get to hear a story of someone who went through what I am going through!! At one point I questioned my own Christianity 😢...thanks for sharing dear sis.

Wow the narcissist is a dark cloud in people's lives. The blame shifting, gaslighting, belittling tge list is endless. Unless you have experienced it you will not understand it.

We are all behind you my dear. We need to teach women the difference between normal marital issues and domestic abuse and violence. Do not put up with abuse in any form. I also learnt the hard way. I am happy that we are back to each other and I will support you all the way. Continue to shine. God bless you and your children. I love you so much and so happy for you.

That delusional woman is a prime example in Kevin Samuels book of what type of women to avoid like a plague. Pride is number one of the seven deadly sins and she is fool of it.( the grammatical mistake is correct)

Im praying for your faith journey to continue in Christ. Thank you for sharing, my divorce was 9 yrs ago. I did not have your courage to share like you do now. Your journey ahead will be more blessed than you can ever image. GOD IS IN CONTROL.

These pastors would neverhave anyone advise there own children this way

A manipulationship

Thanks for sharing ❤

This is CRAZY!!! I am so sorry that this was your experience. I believe narcissism is a human manifestation of the spirit of witchcraft... Domination, Manipulation and Intimidation are all key parts of the narcissist's toolkit.

Sis thank you so much for sharing. What you have shared is very helpful. Can i just ask, what kind of church was the person you mentioned attending? Was it seven day adventist or a hebrew isrealite type of church? They seemed very indoctrinated.