Learning to Let Go
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- Опубліковано 10 тра 2024
- Holding onto unresolved anger is like sitting in fire and hoping those you’re mad at will get burned, but it only scorches you. Therefore, it’s imperative we foster emotional stability early on, so that we can pave the way for a future where boys can navigate life’s challenges with composure and lead lives that are happier and more fulfilling!
The fact that this kid is able to communicate what's going on is impressive in itself.
I’m crying real crocodile tears man. this is the future. This is beautiful. This is positive masculinity.
Yes
Crocodile tears are not genuine tears its a phony display of emotion. It comes from the mysterious tendency of crocodiles to release tears as they eat even though they are emotionless
Any amount of masculinity is positive and needed nowadays...not for the benefit of you grown unaccountable women but for the benefit of these kids. So keep your pats on the back please
real crocodile tears...... u a fool for that 1
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This kid has much more emotional maturity than most adults!!!
It took me much more time than him to understand my emotions and to have the ability to describe exactly what I'm feeling. This boy will become a fine man!
He has a good teacher. Not everyone gets that unfortunately
Unfortunately, the older you get, the harder it becomes to access those vulnerable emotions. It's almost like your heart hardens.
These kids likely experience hurt but they are easily trusting and the right person can handle it with care as they draw out those emotions and gather clarity to them in dealing with their problems.
Therapists creates similar environments of emotional safety.
The bigger difference is that their center can create Discipline and teach them how to defend themselves. The therapist (the ones who directly target adults) have to weed through their defenses before accessing that inner child.
The children are their inner child at this moment.
Doing this can change the trajectory of their entire lives for most of these kids.
THANK YOU
I was bullied my entire childhood and have carried the anger of sadness for 56 years.
Today, I put it down gently and release myself.
I applaud and appreciate your work to create meaningful lives for these young men.
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Anger is like drinking poison and expecting it to hurt those who hurt you. I only wish I had realized this sooner.
Man, I'm 56 years old, and just now, things are starting to surface in me that I never knew were there. Growing up without a father or male figure has such a traumatic impact on us as boys. I'm so thankful for this Brother. These boys have a chance.
YEEEEEES thank God that someone cares to help our young boys and men!!
I'm a 35 year old man but I do not feel like a man. I missed anyone talking to me. I was and am still craving for this wisdom and searching for the strength to implement it. Please talk to your kids like adults as he does here. Better than letting them try to figure it out on their own on the other end of a messy life.
You are not the only one, brotha. I'm 44, still trying to figure out life because of the lack of a father! This is amazing to see!
God bless you ❤
40 is the new 30
..many of us don't find our way till our 40s...you'll get there. If you can afford it counselling/therapy can help too...or go to some self help groups etc. Good luck
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You gentleman are doing God’s work, all praise to him
We need men like this teaching kids. Crying my eyes out here. Wish I had this growing up. Such inspirational words to hear.
We need parents, the creators and caregivers of the children, to research, understand, adopt, adapt, and share these principles. Begins and ends at home. Though not entirely realistic, one can dream ❤
You don't have to respond if you don't want to. I understand. Where are you now in life with letting go of anger brother? It's never too late to begin right where you are. Many of us agree with you, and as of 5-21-2024, there are about 10 thumbs up who have shown that they agree.
To everyone: If you're in a good place and life has taught you what these young men are learning, or if someone has shown you. You could be that man that makes a difference in another young man's life. Be a father "figure" to the fatherless, or you could be the voice of reason when there is so much chaos. There are lots of ways to get involved. You don't have to but I started at my local church as a youth leader. You don't need religion, but that made sense to me. What makes sense to you on where to jump in and help? If you truly agree that "We need men like this teaching kids." Then you are that man. For the most part, isn't that what men do? We fix things. Let's us join in and be men and help other young men out so they don't have to struggle so much as they do in life.
“I see it in your face” this man healing my inner child in ways nobody cared to back when I needed it. Young men, listen to this man and save yourself years of broken relationships and heartache.
I could cry watching the amazing work that's being done to help these young boys and I just shared this video! 👏👏👏👏
I know your teaching young black men, but this is something that should be taught to every boy. Not controlling your anger has nothing to do with the amount or types of proteins in your epidermis. Keep on preaching brother. You're changing the world for the better.
He doesn't teaches to black men only, it just so happen that the neighborhood he teaches is predominantly black.
@@fabricesioul3397 Don't get me wrong, I wasn't trying to say anything untoward about him. I think what he is teaching is amazing and I wish more young men would be taught this.
That older man is making warriors in a garden 💯 these are lessons all children need.
Every city and neighborhood needs this.
God Bless
Every time I watch these videos I cry. I wish I had this when I was a boy. This is beautiful.
Wow as a single African American young lady, I have held anger in towards my mother and father. I saw domestic violence everyday, and neither parents emotionally helped me build my self esteem. Sexual abuse, physical abuse and psychological abuse took away my self esteem and worth. Now until I watched this video I realize that I’m holding myself back by hating them because of what they did to me. Glad I came across this channel.
I’m very passionate about women and children so thank you 🙏🏽 for what u doing for these young boys who will grow up to be a remarkable man as yourself! ❤
MY sister Allah is closer to you than your vernacular vein. ❤ Good job for healing.
@@Teamhonesty
Jesus Christ is the only way my friend Allah can't grant free salvation.
Allah or Mohammed didn't die the death our sins deserved only Jesus did that.
@@stevnreed7763James also died the same way Jesus did, so what makes him different?
When we're being victimized and we're powerless to do anything about it, we use a subconscious mental mechanism called "displacement" and we displace our anger onto other's. Anger and sadness are two sides of the same coin.
May the world be affected and inspired by Brothers like this........
Im crying, this guy has and will change generations of kids.
Wow! Inam 44 years of age and watching has taught me something so powerful and beautiful that i will start tonight that i will use everyday for the rest of my life that will make me a better overall man. Thank you brudda ✊🏾. I never had a father, but this has taught me what a real father should be for son who needs his unconditionally love and protection. This will only bring tears 😢 to a real man eyes. ✊️✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿 One ❤Love my brudda!
I 🫡 you 💪🏾✊🏾👊🏾🤎 🤴🏾
What an incredible blessing it is for these amazing boys to be taught, by example, how to be intelligent, in control, masculine men!!! Truly inspiring and beautiful!!! God bless all of you and your families!!!🕊✝️💞
Wow… the demonstration of the heavy ball and how to release anger… I’ve never seen such a perfect metaphor for it. And the fact that kid knew exactly what the answer was. Truly amazing.
I come from a world where becoming a "world champion" will solve all your problems. This is probably some of the best work I've seen with children from the perspective of martial arts. The importance of communicating your emotions and learning that at a young age is such an important skill.
As a father of a 9 year old boy, these videos touch me. I always come away with some nuggets for him (and, if I am being honest, myself). Keep putting out strong messages
All Praises to The Most High! We need some weekly content like this💪🏿
I would've been someone very different today if I went to a place with a master like this... I went to juvenile prison and learned in the worst possible way that acts have irreversible consequences... I'm so glad this boy is not going to end like me and a lot of suffering boys
This man is a treasure chest full of wisdom
Absolutely amazing once again teaching young men how to become real men and control their emotions !
Who's cutting onions, man? Something about this video, we need more men like this
There are many trees in the forest, very rare bare fruit.
He bears the fruit, and teaches the children to bear fruit also.
This is excellent to experience virtually.
Always have self-control,
Transition and convert with physical, mental, and emotional exercises, with nurturing lessons.
That is exactly what is needed for today and the future.
Mr. Jason i think it would be good for society to have a space like these for men of other races too. I am a mother of a boy very worried about his future, as his father is not very present in his life and plus, is not spiritually mature. We are living now in a society that needs this more than ever before. This is a real bautiful healthy masculinity and needs to be spread!
Research and establish something, not necessarily exactly the same, but equally beneficial, in your area. For and with your child and community. You've got this and your son is/will be great ❤
I’m crying ❤😊🥹☺️🙌🏾 As a mother I appreciate these men SO much ❤
This is powerful and compassionate! We need more of these men and classes around the country to teach, instruct, and allow these young boys to be honest and learn strength and courage! Then they will be productive men in society, and some husbands and dads who will pay this forward! This world needs more real men! This is where it starts!!! 😢😢😢🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I get easily frustrated at a lot of things; especially small things I make a big deal of. I even read the Bible and often focus more on my emotions rather than the scriptures, it goes exactly in the direction I’m always told anger would lead me: destruction. Sometimes I say things I don’t even think of and half the time it comes from the heart and by the time I realize that, I’m stuck with that. As an adult, this video is heavily inspiring and I would highly recommend anyone going through anger to watch this.
Wow did I write this. Hopefully it’s true that grace abounds as we learn to do better
Hey man , mark this commment and save it because I am going to help y’all so much . I am building a life of abundance not for materialism but to add value and empower , uplift others. What you’re doing is probably the most best thing anyone can do for these young kids . If I had this at his age wow 😮. I am still on my path but I will soon be able to do something for y’all . I would like to donate a big enough donation that it helps yall expand and reach as much as kids as possible. We could even make multiple facilities if it’s ok with you throughout the country especially in low income neighborhoods. I can’t wait to donate to your cause . I train in boxing 🥊 and I know the power of teaching one to protect themselves. Your walk is totally different and your presence is felt when you walk in a room and you’re giving this to these kids who desperately need it . I also been to prison and juvenile hall so o know all to well everything your teaching will keep them on the right path . Much love man and I promise what I said because this is one of many causes that is very close and personal to me . God bless you and your family
Thank you for sharing this and bringing your energy to help the world be a better place.
It’s so sad to see and acknowledge how stunted most of us men are in regards to our emotional processing and regulation. This is really beautiful work teaching young boys, who will become great men who can respect and support their partners and families.
Children from the time they're born until the age 9 don't have an analytical mind. So a lot of the traumas they experience that causes emotional behavior, they don't have that part of their brain [analytical mind] developed to process what's happening to them. That's why most kids can't tell you where their negative emotions come from.
Agreed ❤
It's only because they're not taught to think
The adults around them don't think so how could the children learn from them
@@certified_boogeymanactually the brain restructures to higher, more complicated processes at certain points. Ages 2-3 (terrible 2s), 8-9 ish, puberty, around 39-42-ish (midlife crisis), around 60 years old as well, and possibly older.
Now this is the positive masculinity we need. Father figures and teachers. Everyone can learn so much from these people, teaching emotional regulation is so important in human development.
This made me tear up. Where were you in my childhood? So grateful to see God working through you so masterfully. The kid really respects you and you didnt have to raise your voice once.
We Need More Men And Teachers In The World Like You Brother!!
I didn’t come here to cry but damn…..what a speech. I hope these boys felt the pull of the call to do the great wonderful things this Teacher is trying to lead them to.
Growing up... Up till now... I thought it was a sin to fight back. I thought it was a sin to protect myself from those that are opposing me (attacking). I didn't like to fight. I dont like hurting people. It hurts my heart when I hurt someone else. And I want to be more like Jesus.
However, the hypocrisy is... when i was being bullied, i carried that ish in my heart, lashed (bullied) it all out on my little brother. Physically, Verbally, and emotionally. To this very day i deeply regret what i did to my brother during our childhood. We're cool, but the damage has been done. 😢😢😢
Now, I'm slowly learning that its okay to fight back and protect myself against those that mean me harm and try to attack me. I didn't know that was a part of respecting myself... I didn't know that there will be people in this world that you can't peacefully reason with... I didn't know...
Maybe now people will think twice before they even think to bring harm to me or anyone else for that matter.
And i won't have to feel the need to bottle that ish inside, and lash it out at those who never deserves it in the first place....
read the part in the bible with Jesus and the merchants in the temple if you recall it, it should be John 2:13-22
@@Lethargie55 So is it trying to say to destroy my body or train my body so it can get stronger? To protect myself against
folks?
treat all beings with kindness, be it man or animal, including you
treat your body with kindness and your relationships
People who hurt others need to be stopped or fought in a way to stop them hurting others, a strong sentence might be enough: "Hey, treat her/him with respect!" etc or to position oneself strongly (I see you are caught up in sth negative, I will stop you if you do not stop but I mean you no harm if you let go now/leave) or at last fought (which I was not yet forced too).
It is okay to act with assertive aggressiveness in a constraint manner because it may help someone (eg. you teach through that someone to treat vulnerable/other people with respect or face consequences and offer him a chance to change)
Ask yourself where your pain, fears and weaknesses are; it is not enough to seek it outward but to understand oneself inward; how can we avoid hurting others but by living a good life and caring for ourselves and our connections?
Any deeper question is a question for which you must find your answers
@@Lethargie55 Thank you very much... 😢😢😢
Hey I just wanna say your message was beautifully articulated. Great self evaluation & reflection. Hurt people, hurt people. Remember to forgive yourself and most importantly, seek out God and be honest from the heart w/ him about your shortcomings. Grace is a beautiful thing which none of us deserve but God is forgiving, and won’t leave nor forsake you. Kudos brother for sharing your testimony. Keep going, keep growing and keep love in you always. Rely on the Lord in all your ways. He loves you frfr.
The teacher actually explained the letting go and holding on to the anger part so well like holding onto a ball over the book and to let it down slowly
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I love this man. True OG. Teach a boy to defend himself without be offensive until necessary. Every and I mean every boy and girl in the world needs this lesson. Mad respect...
I cried. This is exactly what karate did to me when I was 10. Channelled my anger into something noble. ❤
Trying to hide your tears on an Uber ride is not easy 🤣🥺 thank you Mr Wilson
Thank you for this video. When it’s hard to get a word in, when 2 or more people are arguing, self control and a sane mind are needed. Sometimes it comes down to walking away.
That's good Thank you sir. The work you do for those boys is great. Wish them to keep those values through their whole lives. Sending Love to all of you
Guys we need more of this in our society that brings people to Jesus. Teaches young people better hallelujah.
Very proud, the boy did so well to express his emotions and find out why he was angry. The tutor is great to get the core of the issue out and help him to release some of the hurt.
God bless you my brother ✝️🙏🏾 this is the type of community we need.
This is beautiful. Children are our greatest investment, God bless these beautiful boys.
After the ball lesson it is ok to give the kid some silence to let his body and brain process that new information. Other than that, this is so perfect. So many kids need this guidance. ❤
Fella. You should be proud of yourself and the people you are working so hard to create. My deepest respect.
Wow😢😢😢 This so beautiful and powerful! Big RESPECT to all the guides, teachers, supporters and mentors 👊🏿🙌🏿✊🏿❤️🖤💚
God bless these precious souls. Hope his teachers have academic support for this Dear young man too. He's so smart and we all can see how much potential he posseses already
God bless you
It motivates me to work on myself. It’s like you’ve talked to my Inner child. Thank you 🙏
Thank you for intervening in the lives of our future! You and your team are wonderful men!
Just having a space to speak, be expressive and open is a great thing for children.
This is how patriarchy and misogyny hurts males too. He's angry because he's being bullied and having problems attending, doesnt know why, and doesnt know how to stay focused but can't deal with it or his emotions. God deliver this boy!
I love seeing the love the instructors have for these young men, and the willingness to help at all costs to get the mindset of these young men to change and start thinking for themselves. If you're calm, relaxed, and happy, then you become unstoppable as well as immovable and unshakeable. All glory to Jesus!
This is amazing to see so beautiful 😭
Praises and blessings to the almighty father for this man for teaching these young boys bless your holy name 🙌🏽
May The Most High God bless you and protect you always Mr Wilson. You are doing a GREAT WORK for these children and even adults! You are impacting soo many lives in a positive way! Thank God for your life! May God bless you king, your family and your ministry abundantly!
I swear, Jason, I love you Brother! Every time I see one of your videos, it’s a lesson that I wish I had gotten/learned at these young men’s age. May God continue to bless you and I pray you have trained some successors to continue your work. Y’all need to purchase his book, Cry Like A Man, and read it or give it to a young man in your circle. Forever grateful and saluting you, Brother!!!🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡
This is what a real sensei should be like🙏🏼🙏🏼
This is the coolest thing I have seen in a very long time. we don’t do this anymore
Embossed level interactions, that will carry the generations too come.
Been patient with this kids is one virtue the teacher displayed which is awesome for me.
Love this men and what he does All glory to Jesus Christ 🙌🏽
I thank Jesus Christ for discovering this video! ooh my, oh my. I just am free from that toxic emotion. No more anger from me hereafter onwards towards my family.😭😭
Thank you very much Sir, for healing my inner heart after years, after years I just am crying inside for something with that much heaviness have gone out. I will love my parents and also my Church. I love JESUS, I love this man.
God job, Poet! You are brave for speaking your truth and allowing yourself to be helped.
Damn,, fkin tearing up watching this..
wonderful to see these guys supporting these little dudes.
Wish I had something like this when I was his age. Instead I bottled up my anger and needed a heart transplant at 31 years old due to the drugs and alcohol I eventually used to keep pushing the growing sadness, depression and anger away.
Boys need to be taught by men. Thank you for this.
This is one of the best videos I ever watched on UA-cam.
He is so cute! ❤️Ya Allah protect these boys. May Allah guide them, help them, make them the strongest most successful people in this world and the next.
This is such incredible work you’re doing, so many young black men don’t have this level of guidance and support they deserve and end up on the wrong path.
Every race
My name is Poet name as well... That was me in my youth!!! Extremely well done 💪🏾💯👑 DOPE!!!
This is the absolute best podcast on social media. Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤
😢 I hope he continues to get the support he needs 🙏🏽
👏 👏 bravo…the Army straightened me out, thank God
This video just pooped into my feed and I clicked on it bc I was trying out my new earbuds…. I’m in tears now. This talk was so moving.
My husband has a lot of anger in him and I just wish that he had this when he was growing up to transmute that pain into something powerful like this. I can feel his anger is a false sense of empowerment for him and all I see is a little boy that’s hurting, but I don’t know how to help. Either way, I appreciate this little talk you gave poet. It really warmed my heart. Thank you.
Watch this video where he can see it?
Keep up the healing work, good brothers! 🫶🏾🙌🏾
i see you guys helping to deliver the world from the spirit of death. one soul at a time. this is great work.
This guy is doing amazing work.
"Love will cover multitude of sins" 1-peter 4-8
That lil man is articulate!!!! Whoooa
80 or 90% of anger is either fear or frustration.
When I was a kid I’d get frustrated cause I didn’t know where to begin a task or was confused at the desired objective. As an adult I now realize it was my parents in that they didn’t explain, they just ordered and expected perfection. I try to explain to my kids as best I can, it’s hard when you don’t have an example to copy.
Bullying seems to have increased with the rise of social media. Frequently the victim is getting in trouble. Im finding the measures put in place when my older kids were in school 15-20 yrs ago are long gone :(
It’s so true there’s always something deeper. It’s nice these boys have you to teach them. This made me cry because I always resist my emotions and don’t always focus on what I’m really upset about. It can be easy to get caught up in feelings and react. For me alot of it is self inflicted feeling like I’m not good enough and being so hard on myself etc. My parents never showed me how to have self esteem and be emotionally mature so I’m trying to teach myself. I just wish I had someone like you when I was younger I could’ve avoided so much emotional turmoil. Sometimes I feel like I never matured emotionally and don’t know how to be a strong woman. But this was definitely inspiring ❤
This is the best video on the internet! Real love and real power 💥 ❤️ Raising men to stay true to their heart and block out the negatives constantly coming at you in the world.
This man is absolutely incredible, truly doing gods work
This is so good for these kids. I studied martial arts but it was never like this. It lacked the emotional support. I wish i had had this. That kid-- that Young Man looks so much like my Son did when he was younger. I've always tried to teach him to never let people get in his head because those voices can stay with your forever. I also taught him probably the most valuable self defense combination that can carry you through much of life...the basic jab-straight right combo.
I always get caught up in my anger, so much rumination of being bullied in my life, so many times I was taken advantage of, so many things I've broken in anger because of it.
Unbelievable! Outstanding Coach!
Very important work you’re doing and commendable you chose to document it.
We need this for ALL young people regardless of ethnicity
This is amazing. We need this for Muslim youth. Wishing my black brothers goodness.
Been following your journey since I watched you on Rogan. Much love, appreciate you and what you do!
God bless you guys. You're doing right by these boys.
Man this video is SO FIRE. The energy I felt while watching I can Not compare it to anything else. Excellent Work 🙏🏽
It's good you're teaching a young man to cry at that age to counteract from the predispensed societal structure of men.