Thank you for opening up! I know it’s not easy. I’ve met thousands of people in my life. and I can tell you that, you’re honest, kind , smart and loyal. I can also see the pain in your eyes in your story 😢 You will find someone to treat you the way you deserve. Give it time!
@@AngieNaz thank you so much! It wasn’t easy to do at all, I would’ve rather suffered myself than to break someone’s heart and I did that for many years. I was nervous to share this because most people are very set in their beliefs on the matter. Thank you for your support ❤️
You did all you can to hope and pray your marriage would and could work. God forgives us all for our sins and you leaving is understandable especially what happened in your relationship. You are strong for taking on being able to take care of your kids and yourself i commend moms who are able to do it because even being married it's alot of work for a couple. I couldn’t imagine going it by yourself. Thank you for opening up and helping others who might be going through this right now or who have been. Great video Darcy you are doing great things in helping others.
@@Thread_Storm thank you Danny!! I did try and I fought for it, that’s when I started to learn spiritual warfare and I went to battle, even turned my closet into a prayer room. I didn’t just give up. That’s why I hope people find God before they marry and truly seek His will beforehand. ❤️🙏
@DarcyRie I think both have to in order for it to work. You can't have just one who has faith and leans into that when things get hard or temptation happens. I believe you are correct if both find God before they marry and truly have faith he will help lead both as a couple on the correct path.
Hi Darcy, thank you for opening up about this tough topic. I was going to comment on your last video but will here now. Based on all you’ve shared in your videos I can tell you are a godly woman. I can see that you are bearing fruit and know God. No one is perfect except God so I think you spoke well about your divorce and you may learn something more later on in life. I’m sure you a certain to remarry to a Christian man. Don’t get that wrong, as I’m certain you won’t. It’s worth a lot of scrutiny to make sure as best you can as well as all the other important topics most neglect like raising children. Russ
Hi Russ, I appreciate your kind reply and compliments towards being able to see that I am a godly woman. It's been a journey and several prunings to get me here, yes still not perfect and wont ever be.. but thank God for His grace. I definitely agree it is worth a lot of scrutiny regarding remarrying and the raising of children even in that. Have been given many opportunities to minister to my daughters during this season as well. I've been waiting on God, and come to realize the wait is for my good. Thank you so much for the wisdom you share here with all of us Russ. Have a blessed day!
@ Amen! And I know I was not placed on this earth to approve of Christians. I don’t want to sin against God anymore like before God saved me. I want to cooperate with my sanctification and I know that won’t be complete until glorification in heaven. And I am FAR from perfect ha. Russ
Good afternoon Darcy. Waiting to pick up my boys from school. I watched and listened to your post. I ask God that often why did you allow me to get married if the marriage wasn’t going to make it? My wife and I are both believers, at least I know she was a professing Christian as we got to know one another in the early years. Before I had met her I had not been I any serious relationship through all my years even in high school. I was a very introverted and non confrontational person growing up. But one thing I know was that I wanted to get married and have a wife and kids. I was saved at an early age and knew Christ as my savior. Went through high school, did life working different jobs, decided to go to art school and met someone there that I thought God had planned for me…not the case, broke my heart. We became good friends, I was the “safe” guy friend. I was bitter towards God after all of that, graduated and soon after met my wife to be on the job. I remember telling Him that I found her and didn’t want God to have anything to do with her. She had a daughter from her previous marriage, I met her when she was 2. I believe 4 years later I asked her to marry me. Long story short…4 of our kids between us later, life went on, we spent less time with one another and did the family and kids focus. Had God in the mix to “show” others that our life was a great Christian life. We didn’t put Him first. Let the enemy lie and deceive and destroy our family. 24 years later here we are, separated and seeking, I’ve forgiven her but I am not forgiven. I ask Him to heal her heart, we both brought brokenness into the marriage and never truly put Him first. I share this because I know that He is faithful and like you said He never wastes anything. I am not legally divorced but I feel I have experienced what it is like to be divorced, the chaos, the mess and the hurts that come with broken families. Good is good and I continue to trust that He will make all things work together for His good. Thank you Darcy so much for being courageous in sharing your heart through Christ’s eyes. Blessings to you my friend
@ wow Robert that is quite an experience! Im so glad you’ve forgiven and are praying for God to heal her heart as well. Do you still think that she is one God has ordained for you? If so, don’t give up praying. I believe when the man is fighting in prayer for his wife that is extremely powerful and effective as the head. But nothing is impossible with God, surrender it to Him and keep believing for what He says is yours. I’m praying for you and your family! 🙏❤️
I think also God puts people in your path for a reason and maybe that person knowing or unknowingly helped you to know what you had went through was enough.
@@Thread_Storm I do believe that also, I’ve been blessed since divorcing, I’ve grown much spiritually. God is so good, He rescues us and delivers us 🙏❤️
Mat 19:9 KJV And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except [it be] for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. Mat 19:10 KJV His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with [his] wife, it is not good to marry. Mat 19:11 KJV But he said unto them, All [men] cannot receive this saying, save [they] to whom it is given. Mat 19:12 KJV For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from [their] mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive [it], let him receive [it]. another great video, most so called Christians get divorced an married again for any reason now a day, but the bible declares death and adulatory and or fornication, as the only legit reasons for divorce and re-marriage That is why the bible declares that adulters do not inherit the kingdom of God, when you are married to someone else wife they would be in constant adultry with another mans wife
@@kevinmichaelhughes4257 thank you for these scriptures Kevin! We should definitely seek God before marriage and before divorce! There is much deception until we seek Him for the truth. 🙏❤️
@DarcyRie exactly Darcy, Most ppl have no idea that there living in adultery Because of false churches telling ppl it's ok to divorce and remarry even though God word declares the reasons for divorce and when it's ok to remarry...... Deu 24:1 KJV When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give [it] in her hand, and send her out of his house. Deu 24:2 KJV And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's [wife]. Deu 24:3 KJV And [if] the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth [it] in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her [to be] his wife; Deu 24:4 KJV Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that [is] abomination before the LORD: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the LORD thy God giveth thee [for] an inheritance. Same exact thing as Jesus taught It's so easy to understand Ppl unfortunately just to to church and don't read their Bible So don't really know what's going on Until it's usually to late Thanks Darcy
@ it does take spiritual eyes to see these truths though and a humble heart to accept them. Same with a lot of other teachings in the Bible. Thank you sharing Kevin!
@@DarcyRie no problem The biggest problem in Christianity is that ppl don't know the Bible themselves so they just believe anything the preacher tells unfortunately And that will lead most to be on the broad path that leads to destruction
Thank you for opening up! I know it’s not easy. I’ve met thousands of people in my life. and I can tell you that, you’re honest, kind , smart and loyal. I can also see the pain in your eyes in your story 😢 You will find someone to treat you the way you deserve. Give it time!
@@R1se-inspire thank you so much David. I appreciate that ❤️🙏
@@DarcyRie You’re very welcome!
I am so here😢. I am glad that you are talking about this!
I feel you, it can be so tough! Hang in there, it does get easier. Praying for you Morganin!
Thank you Darcy, I will pray for you as well @@DarcyRie!
@@MorganinMovement-d5q I appreciate that!!
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Full support 💚 💙
@@Blueray6831 thank you!!
I’m Here My Friend
@@AfricanWolfKing thank you!!
This is not easy for you to do. Be encouraged Dear. GOD’S got your back. ❤
@@AngieNaz thank you so much! It wasn’t easy to do at all, I would’ve rather suffered myself than to break someone’s heart and I did that for many years. I was nervous to share this because most people are very set in their beliefs on the matter. Thank you for your support ❤️
Full support!
@@KITSON-Lifestyle thank you 🙏
You did all you can to hope and pray your marriage would and could work. God forgives us all for our sins and you leaving is understandable especially what happened in your relationship. You are strong for taking on being able to take care of your kids and yourself i commend moms who are able to do it because even being married it's alot of work for a couple. I couldn’t imagine going it by yourself. Thank you for opening up and helping others who might be going through this right now or who have been. Great video Darcy you are doing great things in helping others.
@@Thread_Storm thank you Danny!! I did try and I fought for it, that’s when I started to learn spiritual warfare and I went to battle, even turned my closet into a prayer room. I didn’t just give up. That’s why I hope people find God before they marry and truly seek His will beforehand. ❤️🙏
@DarcyRie I think both have to in order for it to work. You can't have just one who has faith and leans into that when things get hard or temptation happens. I believe you are correct if both find God before they marry and truly have faith he will help lead both as a couple on the correct path.
@@Thread_Storm exactly! Can 2 walk together except that they agree.. it takes 2 and really a third, God.
Hi Darcy, thank you for opening up about this tough topic. I was going to comment on your last video but will here now. Based on all you’ve shared in your videos I can tell you are a godly woman. I can see that you are bearing fruit and know God. No one is perfect except God so I think you spoke well about your divorce and you may learn something more later on in life. I’m sure you a certain to remarry to a Christian man. Don’t get that wrong, as I’m certain you won’t. It’s worth a lot of scrutiny to make sure as best you can as well as all the other important topics most neglect like raising children. Russ
Hi Russ, I appreciate your kind reply and compliments towards being able to see that I am a godly woman. It's been a journey and several prunings to get me here, yes still not perfect and wont ever be.. but thank God for His grace. I definitely agree it is worth a lot of scrutiny regarding remarrying and the raising of children even in that. Have been given many opportunities to minister to my daughters during this season as well. I've been waiting on God, and come to realize the wait is for my good. Thank you so much for the wisdom you share here with all of us Russ. Have a blessed day!
@ Amen! And I know I was not placed on this earth to approve of Christians. I don’t want to sin against God anymore like before God saved me. I want to cooperate with my sanctification and I know that won’t be complete until glorification in heaven. And I am FAR from perfect ha. Russ
Good afternoon Darcy. Waiting to pick up my boys from school. I watched and listened to your post. I ask God that often why did you allow me to get married if the marriage wasn’t going to make it? My wife and I are both believers, at least I know she was a professing Christian as we got to know one another in the early years. Before I had met her I had not been I any serious relationship through all my years even in high school. I was a very introverted and non confrontational person growing up. But one thing I know was that I wanted to get married and have a wife and kids. I was saved at an early age and knew Christ as my savior. Went through high school, did life working different jobs, decided to go to art school and met someone there that I thought God had planned for me…not the case, broke my heart. We became good friends, I was the “safe” guy friend. I was bitter towards God after all of that, graduated and soon after met my wife to be on the job. I remember telling Him that I found her and didn’t want God to have anything to do with her. She had a daughter from her previous marriage, I met her when she was 2. I believe 4 years later I asked her to marry me. Long story short…4 of our kids between us later, life went on, we spent less time with one another and did the family and kids focus. Had God in the mix to “show” others that our life was a great Christian life. We didn’t put Him first. Let the enemy lie and deceive and destroy our family. 24 years later here we are, separated and seeking, I’ve forgiven her but I am not forgiven. I ask Him to heal her heart, we both brought brokenness into the marriage and never truly put Him first. I share this because I know that He is faithful and like you said He never wastes anything. I am not legally divorced but I feel I have experienced what it is like to be divorced, the chaos, the mess and the hurts that come with broken families. Good is good and I continue to trust that He will make all things work together for His good. Thank you Darcy so much for being courageous in sharing your heart through Christ’s eyes. Blessings to you my friend
@ wow Robert that is quite an experience! Im so glad you’ve forgiven and are praying for God to heal her heart as well. Do you still think that she is one God has ordained for you? If so, don’t give up praying. I believe when the man is fighting in prayer for his wife that is extremely powerful and effective as the head. But nothing is impossible with God, surrender it to Him and keep believing for what He says is yours. I’m praying for you and your family! 🙏❤️
@ aren’t we all 😂 thanks Russ!
I think also God puts people in your path for a reason and maybe that person knowing or unknowingly helped you to know what you had went through was enough.
@@Thread_Storm I do believe that also, I’ve been blessed since divorcing, I’ve grown much spiritually. God is so good, He rescues us and delivers us 🙏❤️
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Mat 19:9 KJV
And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except [it be] for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Mat 19:10 KJV
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with [his] wife, it is not good to marry.
Mat 19:11 KJV
But he said unto them, All [men] cannot receive this saying, save [they] to whom it is given.
Mat 19:12 KJV
For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from [their] mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive [it], let him receive [it].
another great video,
most so called Christians get divorced an married again for any reason now a day,
but the bible declares death and adulatory and or fornication,
as the only legit reasons for divorce and re-marriage
That is why the bible declares that adulters do not inherit the kingdom of God,
when you are married to someone else wife they would be in constant adultry with another mans wife
@@kevinmichaelhughes4257 thank you for these scriptures Kevin! We should definitely seek God before marriage and before divorce! There is much deception until we seek Him for the truth. 🙏❤️
@DarcyRie exactly Darcy,
Most ppl have no idea that there living in adultery
Because of false churches telling ppl it's ok to divorce and remarry even though God word declares the reasons for divorce and when it's ok to remarry......
Deu 24:1 KJV
When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give [it] in her hand, and send her out of his house.
Deu 24:2 KJV
And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's [wife].
Deu 24:3 KJV
And [if] the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth [it] in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her [to be] his wife;
Deu 24:4 KJV
Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that [is] abomination before the LORD: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the LORD thy God giveth thee [for] an inheritance.
Same exact thing as Jesus taught
It's so easy to understand
Ppl unfortunately just to to church and don't read their Bible
So don't really know what's going on
Until it's usually to late
Thanks Darcy
@ it does take spiritual eyes to see these truths though and a humble heart to accept them. Same with a lot of other teachings in the Bible. Thank you sharing Kevin!
@@DarcyRie no problem
The biggest problem in Christianity is that ppl don't know the Bible themselves so they just believe anything the preacher tells unfortunately
And that will lead most to be on the broad path that leads to destruction
You don't feel any guilt. your a woman.
that is simply not true. I'm sorry there are so many women out there who give off this image, but some of us do have hearts.