I so appreciate you, Jeannie Mai, for saying that you desire to learn your husband's culture and other cultures that you live around for your daughter and yourself. I too feel that way. I can honestly appreciate people in interracial relationships viewing this as important, because so many people do not! Love you both!
I adore Jeannie Mai and always have. She is genuinely a good person and I watched her "evolve" exactly like she said. I watched her glow up as a single woman and fall in love with a man who changed her world. She showed me how good of a dude Jeezy is. How grown man he is. She deserves it all. I'm super happy for her
For me change is not that bad as long as the change is a positive and it doesn't go against your morals and ethics. I don't call it change I call it Evolve. Jeanie's definition is evolving to me. For me it's not a negative thing. For me it means I gave it careful thought which came from a mature place and made the best choice for me whether it's adding to my life, or not. I'm making my choices being fully present instead of straight off of emotion or ego. I loved his quote. I think it needs to be on a mug or a t-shirt.
What an eye opening, beautiful conversation 💛 Something I have felt insecure about in my own relationship is how much my partner has changed since we have been together, especially since having our daughter. I had always felt like I was asking too much and should just love him where he is at... and I did love him then but I’m in awe and in love with the version of him that he has become. Witnessing a change in him inspires me to be a different version of myself. We are closer because of the changes we have made. I can feel the love between us growing and evolving and becoming deeper than it ever was before.
Amazing video request: “How to Put Your Partner in Their Place Without Provoking Their Ego” For me in my relationships over the years, this has been truly difficult for me. I often resort to guilt tripping or yelling because I have a trigger from childhood of not feeling heard. Conflict resolution is such a must in relationship and to learn how to navigate would be a lifesaver! Thanks so much, Shan, for your insightful and thought provoking content as usual! This was a engaging conversation ❤
This conversation is about prioritizing self love and acceptance over societal expectations to procreate and assume specific gender/sex/status roles that can (potentially) block you on your own path to personal understanding, growth and fullfilment. So many people have been pressured to become a less than evolved version of themselves especially when where who what they are at the present moment serves others at the detriment of themselves. Therefore changing in a relationship, that is, being encouraged to improve/expand your self concept becomes the goal especially when you are partnered with someone who is just as invested in their own actualisation as well as your own, for the now and the future together or apart.
Wow Jeanne is so self aware of herself in my past relationship I also was bad tempered hotheaded, but I noticed that that was a defense mechanism because of the respect that I was getting in that relationship, so I mirrored back what I got and return now in my current relationship. I know that he is my soulmate because I am allowed to be vulnerable. Allowed to let my guard down allow to be myself so he brings the best out of me.
This is what is missing in the kind of gross conversation about "submissiveness" that seems to come up over and over again in podcasts. Submissiveness is not a character trait. It is a natural ease and calm that comes with two people who are compatible and choose to be the best person they can be in service of their relationship. Both people soften and grow and change if they care enough about the other person.
You mantioned that Jared has a wait to point out bad behaviour without making you feel like a bad person. I wish if you could expand on that in future episodes. Could you give us an example, a roleplay of a fictional situation. I think it's a valuable skill which a lot of people struggle with and would like to learn and integrate in their relationship. I think it would be really valuable for us to see how it's done, how to open that discussion while staying connected and not triggering out partner.
Loved both conversations…I have found lately that I too have been so hell bent on being “independent” and not changing my plans or actions in fear of the credit being given to connections and relationships I have around me. I’ve been stuck in a rut, Wilting instead of growing terrified of change and people perceiving me to be weak or codependent. I really needed to hear what Jeannie especially had to say!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽love the pod Shan 🥰
I loved this conversation. It is about finding people who can see the best and the worst. Exploring the revolutions or evolutions of each other and growing. Self actualization! With each other. Grow together or grow apart. I have that with friends and partners.
This is extremely relatable. I relate to Jeannie so so much. From the evolution and want to be better in my relationship to the not wanting to have children- especially with the wrong person. I’ve sometimes been made to feel bad that I don’t want kids, but I’ve never been pressured thus far!
It’s one thing to say something and to actively do it requires time. We all have had our traumas and it takes time to heal and to make the necessary changes. We need people who can be patient with us.
It’s great that partnership or friendship makes you find your flaws and wanting to be better and grow, even if the relationship doesn’t work at end you improved as person and it’s AWESOME
I love the way you ended this episode! The conversation between you, Jared and Lauren was so beautiful! I resonate with the right romantic love enhancing other relationships for the better and sometimes leading you to realize that some people aren’t meant to continue the journey with you Love this ep 🫶🏽
This was a great episode. Jeannie is really giving out a lot of game, ladies when you respect a man you will grow in some of the toughest areas that you resisted or didn’t even acknowledge before
idk why but for some reason I just wanted to cry watching.. it's just really emotional to experience someone in alignment.. maybe not "evolved" but aligned with your purpose for sure and not only that I really do feel I'm in that space now. It's my turn and I am being intentional.. and I am sure that's why my emotions are being triggered because it's so me
Careful not too take the fact that your partner is self-aware for granted. They are likely tired of explaining themselves to you while you sit and wait for the subtitle to come from them. Hope this helps someone
Great explanations! Especially in a world that can often shine an ugly light and give a bad connotation to changing that is absolutely necessary when in a relationship.
I really like the part about basking in the afterness! Have the same issue with my partner sometimes -- but when I show appreciation it changes the dynamic! ;) thx for this
I believe the best types of love change you for the better. Growing in love for God and in love for myself has changed me tremendously. Inevitably for partnerships we will change as well. The problem that comes in is when the tweaks are not improving how you show up for yourself and the world. If the changes you’re being encouraged to make are genuinely harmful to you (physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually) and not just to your ego I think it one may not last and two it shouldn’t be done. People will manipulate you if you allow them. But not everyone has evil intentions behind their requests.
Thank you for sharing. I have decided to let love change me. Thank you for the help. One of your episodes from your podcast helped me let go of an unhealthy relationship. Thanks for sharing your perspective. Many blessings.
I didn’t know about this video existing until the divorce… it never fails the supposed feminine and submissive admits to being masculine and dominant sipping slowwww …. Ouch! Never been a fan of Jeanie or anyone on the show. My Schadenfreude has been activated!
ME! 🙋🏾♀️ Did you go back to the episode with Jazzy, who talked about being submissive to her "boyfriend" now baby daddy Cam Newton? She is pregnant, which will make her the 3rd "baby mama" and her baby will be number 8. No ring in sight. Not even trying to wife her but she's submissive. 🤦🏾♀️
I love hearing Jeanie's side of this relationship and Shan is right it is a bit like Jay and Bey. Also Shan looks so beautiful in this episode the makeup is one point with the floral dress
I'm changing positively because of this relationship I'm in but I'm feeling like growing apart from them every step I take forward 🥺 ... it's scary cause I love them
I think it’s a good thing to change in a relationship. for someone and for yourself and I think sometimes being with someone will show you things about yourself that you’ve never seen before and that’s worth changing. Both sides!
Changing your behaviors/habits is not the same as changing your personhood. If that doesn't make sense you don't know who you are. I personally believe people CANNOT change WHO they are but we all learn and adapt to the ups, downs and differences of life and environment.
@@T.H-v4h but does submissive mean you don’t stand up for yourself or set out your expectations? When men say they want a submissive wife do they just want someone who does everything they say and never speaks up for themselves
This sounded like a real relationship so it’s hitting me hard. So sad. But baby Monaco is so adorable! Definitely will be worth everything at the end of the day!
Unless you talk to HER therapist, I don’t think anyone can tell you. 😅 Jeannie is an open book, though. She will eventually share some details. It might take awhile, but she will share.
They have both evolved and love themselves and are pouring into themselves. This is not bad. It's just they both have to love themselves 1st before they can love one another. It's a journey.❤
This shows me that its natural for most women to want children - not wanting kids is definitely the exception. I think the decison and desire just comes at different points in our lives as women.
I don’t think it makes sense to only become aware of your shortcomings when you respect someone or they are your equal. To me that says you lack self awareness, & that your values aren’t fully established. I will check myself regardless of how I feel about the person in front of me
Absolutely check yourself, but at the same time, other people can see things about you that you may not be able to see about yourself. Once those reflections align, it's like Oh I didn't know I do that. Maybe that's something I need to work on. What I'm saying is, you can't be the only voice you're hearing. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying keep a bunch of negative energy around to break you down, just those few authentic true tells to say you're slipping get it together. That's all, but absolutely self reflection and introspection is important.
@@TiffanyRayneOfficial oh yes of course it’s also important to be able to hear about yourself I think that’s key. It’s just odd to me that she said she didn’t know this about herself in her previous marriage because her husband wasn’t her equal.
I’ve critiqued Jeannie and celebrities that publicly say “I don’t want kids” not because they shouldn’t have the choice, but because they get to be in their 40’s decide they want kids now, get IVF or a surrogate because they have money, and the average person that you’ve influenced who does not have money, suffers because they can’t afford to “reverse” biology if you will. That’s my only issue with it.
She did not tell anyone not to have kids. The most you can say is ones could have felt supported but it's a personnal choice. That was Jeannie's message, don't feel pressured not even by a husband if it's not your decision. Don't put on her. Who would decide not to have kids just because a celebrity doesn't
@@josephlovely7759 thinking that celebrities don’t influence people is just naive and insensitive. Influencers and brand deals literally exist for a reason. No matter if you come right out and say it or not. So sure, call it support, but the same results still occur.
@@rochellesoyoola1150 of course influencing exists, specifically to make someone buy a product, not to make someone stay childless? I'm sorry but if you are influenced on your decision to have children by some celebrity, you have way bigger problems than not having children once you hit 40 If anyone decided not to have kids because of Jeanni and now regrets it and resents her because she could afford ivf (which is a ridiculous scenario) they have serious problems they need to address with a therapist, and are probably not fit to be a parent anyway
@@jennyyyy189 I would not be influenced but there are plenty of younger people that are influenced by her and Kylie Jenner just the same. I never talked about how right or “sane” it is. I talked about what’s happening. Regardless of what you think should happen. Here is what is.
@@rochellesoyoola1150 fair, I agree actually But imo this doesn't mean, that she shouldn't have been outspoken before about this, a lot of people felt more accepted because of her speaking about this and that's important too.
I knew the moment she started dating him that she would change her mind. Jeezy is masculine and the only way that relationship would work is if she eased into her feminine. He changed that for her ! Freddy could never . She is totally different now and you can’t tell me that her husband didn’t cause this 💞. I loveeee this for her
What's unfortunate is she chose to "change her mind" with the WRONG MAN! Lesson to be learned! She healed too late, now she's a single mother and a kid will grow up in a broken family dynamic. The kids pay for it unfortunately.
I am lagit obsessed w this podcast 💯... N I'm soooo down w that s.e.t to girlll! Lol Iv never shared anything like this to social media n felt like this explains so much what I'm searching for... I had 2 t.y for speaking my ❤️ into words and articulating it better than I ever could LOL
My Fellow Intelligent Capricorn, one thing about us is that being real is literally our language. A lot of people love to be lied to but not us , we literally crave the truth from anyone that we involve ourselves with rather it’s relationships or friendships & family. Capricorn’s are literally the parent zodiac of them all. We don’t learn from other’s, they learn from us when it comes to deeper things beneath the surface. The way we think about certain stuff isn’t how a lot of people think. We’re often misunderstood a lot because of how deep we can be & get. All this to say is , when a Capricorn know they can start a future with someone they will naturally submit to their partner, we need a level of security in all area’s of our lives. ( Mentally, Physically, Emotionally, ) once we have found that we will become a different person for that person. A person that always lived inside of us but nobody ever got to see it because certain people don’t bring that side of us often. It’s very hard to get a Capricorn to trust you so if we do that means you have shown her that you can be her safe space. Capricorn’s make the world go around, everyone has a Capricorn in their life.
Interesting, the 2 capricorns I know (very close friends) actually trust people very easily. Very open, an open book in all senses that make me sometimes go like, hold on let’s get to know him/her a little more first. But indeed very deep convos and submissive to their partners
People have the right to change and change their minds just because you said something in the past doesn't mean you have to stay that way with that opinion
Sounds like Jeanie loves who she is with Jeezy. She is more inlove with the version of herself that Jeezy allows her to be more than she loves him. In short, Jeanie loves Jeanie.
I sent her a message when I found out she was pregnant. All I said was, "I knew you were going to have a child, with the right person"! She didn't have the right person at it was clear on her show, plus, her man crush was Jeezy!
I so appreciate you, Jeannie Mai, for saying that you desire to learn your husband's culture and other cultures that you live around for your daughter and yourself. I too feel that way. I can honestly appreciate people in interracial relationships viewing this as important, because so many people do not! Love you both!
I agree.... this needs to be a conversation
I adore Jeannie Mai and always have.
She is genuinely a good person and I watched her "evolve" exactly like she said. I watched her glow up as a single woman and fall in love with a man who changed her world.
She showed me how good of a dude Jeezy is.
How grown man he is.
She deserves it all.
I'm super happy for her
ADORE🙄
@@not-even-german4892 I said what I said.
Jeannie always comes dressed like royalty ❤️✨🤩
Completely agree..❤️
@@peterssister421 ❤️
She said, it’s a responsibility as an American to learn and “understand” other races and cultures. She gets it. Evolved and mature..this is wisdom.
For me change is not that bad as long as the change is a positive and it doesn't go against your morals and ethics. I don't call it change I call it Evolve. Jeanie's definition is evolving to me. For me it's not a negative thing. For me it means I gave it careful thought which came from a mature place and made the best choice for me whether it's adding to my life, or not. I'm making my choices being fully present instead of straight off of emotion or ego. I loved his quote. I think it needs to be on a mug or a t-shirt.
It’s OK TO CHANGE YOUR MIND HUMANS. Thank you Jeannie❤
It’s truly refreshing how honest and unapologetic you are in speaking your truth. Thanks for sharing this with us.
What an eye opening, beautiful conversation 💛 Something I have felt insecure about in my own relationship is how much my partner has changed since we have been together, especially since having our daughter. I had always felt like I was asking too much and should just love him where he is at... and I did love him then but I’m in awe and in love with the version of him that he has become. Witnessing a change in him inspires me to be a different version of myself. We are closer because of the changes we have made. I can feel the love between us growing and evolving and becoming deeper than it ever was before.
Jeannie always gets so deep, she has a way with words that is beautiful 💕🌹❤️🥺.
Amazing video request: “How to Put Your Partner in Their Place Without Provoking Their Ego”
For me in my relationships over the years, this has been truly difficult for me. I often resort to guilt tripping or yelling because I have a trigger from childhood of not feeling heard. Conflict resolution is such a must in relationship and to learn how to navigate would be a lifesaver! Thanks so much, Shan, for your insightful and thought provoking content as usual! This was a engaging conversation ❤
For me I have found over the years that tone makes a whole lot of difference
@@Messesandroses absolutely tone and delivery
Wow😍.... I'm always amazed about how Shan is super good with using and choosing the right words... Just wow
This conversation is about prioritizing self love and acceptance over societal expectations to procreate and assume specific gender/sex/status roles that can (potentially) block you on your own path to personal understanding, growth and fullfilment. So many people have been pressured to become a less than evolved version of themselves especially when where who what they are at the present moment serves others at the detriment of themselves. Therefore changing in a relationship, that is, being encouraged to improve/expand your self concept becomes the goal especially when you are partnered with someone who is just as invested in their own actualisation as well as your own, for the now and the future together or apart.
Shan, you seriously inspire me to communicate so openly and honest with people in my life.Thank you.
Wow Jeanne is so self aware of herself in my past relationship I also was bad tempered hotheaded, but I noticed that that was a defense mechanism because of the respect that I was getting in that relationship, so I mirrored back what I got and return now in my current relationship. I know that he is my soulmate because I am allowed to be vulnerable. Allowed to let my guard down allow to be myself so he brings the best out of me.
This is what is missing in the kind of gross conversation about "submissiveness" that seems to come up over and over again in podcasts. Submissiveness is not a character trait. It is a natural ease and calm that comes with two people who are compatible and choose to be the best person they can be in service of their relationship. Both people soften and grow and change if they care enough about the other person.
Beautifully said...
Lol
You mantioned that Jared has a wait to point out bad behaviour without making you feel like a bad person. I wish if you could expand on that in future episodes. Could you give us an example, a roleplay of a fictional situation. I think it's a valuable skill which a lot of people struggle with and would like to learn and integrate in their relationship. I think it would be really valuable for us to see how it's done, how to open that discussion while staying connected and not triggering out partner.
Loved both conversations…I have found lately that I too have been so hell bent on being “independent” and not changing my plans or actions in fear of the credit being given to connections and relationships I have around me. I’ve been stuck in a rut, Wilting instead of growing terrified of change and people perceiving me to be weak or codependent. I really needed to hear what Jeannie especially had to say!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽love the pod Shan 🥰
THIS!!! You worded it perfectly.
Jeanie was so authentic in this interview and transparent I love it❤ dope interview 🔥
I loved this conversation. It is about finding people who can see the best and the worst. Exploring the revolutions or evolutions of each other and growing. Self actualization! With each other. Grow together or grow apart. I have that with friends and partners.
This is extremely relatable. I relate to Jeannie so so much. From the evolution and want to be better in my relationship to the not wanting to have children- especially with the wrong person. I’ve sometimes been made to feel bad that I don’t want kids, but I’ve never been pressured thus far!
It’s one thing to say something and to actively do it requires time. We all have had our traumas and it takes time to heal and to make the necessary changes. We need people who can be patient with us.
Some people dont have patience and understanding or compassion. Love is supposed to be patient and kind. It's quite sad what's happened to her.
please stop the banner that appears every 2 mins, so distracting. Loved the episode tho
Anything to make YOU happy.
That banner was annoying.
@@melissaortiz7274lol what?
Very 🙄
After a while I clocked off and just listened instead of watched 😑, guess its a good ploy to get me into the podcast or to listen more 🤨🤔
I love their relationship. Jeannie and Jeezy look so happy together and their baby is adorable 😊
This didn’t age well
It’s great that partnership or friendship makes you find your flaws and wanting to be better and grow, even if the relationship doesn’t work at end you improved as person and it’s AWESOME
Thank you both for diving in.
I love the way you ended this episode! The conversation between you, Jared and Lauren was so beautiful! I resonate with the right romantic love enhancing other relationships for the better and sometimes leading you to realize that some people aren’t meant to continue the journey with you
Love this ep 🫶🏽
I like it but I don't like how the episode gets abruptly cut. :(
This was a great episode. Jeannie is really giving out a lot of game, ladies when you respect a man you will grow in some of the toughest areas that you resisted or didn’t even acknowledge before
Emphasis on the word respect! So true.
It seems like it was more performative than anything else.
I’m living for this. I admire & am a total simp for you both 😂🙌🏽
idk why but for some reason I just wanted to cry watching.. it's just really emotional to experience someone in alignment.. maybe not "evolved" but aligned with your purpose for sure and not only that I really do feel I'm in that space now. It's my turn and I am being intentional.. and I am sure that's why my emotions are being triggered because it's so me
Careful not too take the fact that your partner is self-aware for granted. They are likely tired of explaining themselves to you while you sit and wait for the subtitle to come from them. Hope this helps someone
Thank you, Shan. You’re so needed and really enjoyed this episode
Your sister needs her own pod, wow!!! gems
This was one of my favourite episodes
Great explanations! Especially in a world that can often shine an ugly light and give a bad connotation to changing that is absolutely necessary when in a relationship.
I really like the part about basking in the afterness! Have the same issue with my partner sometimes -- but when I show appreciation it changes the dynamic! ;) thx for this
True love and a healthy partner will hold up a mirror in front of you and vice versa
Everyone is a mirror to you, healthy or not.
Love this interview Jeannie has changed so much ❤️
Society has to realize not everyone thinks the same or wants the same things in life
+... At the same time
This is a collab I didn't know I needed
❤️❤️❤️
The two of you together is so much fun to see! You just see each other!!
Thank you for this whole topic being discussed in a way I have never seen and REALLY needed. I am so grateful. I feel sooooo seen rn.
I believe the best types of love change you for the better. Growing in love for God and in love for myself has changed me tremendously. Inevitably for partnerships we will change as well. The problem that comes in is when the tweaks are not improving how you show up for yourself and the world. If the changes you’re being encouraged to make are genuinely harmful to you (physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually) and not just to your ego I think it one may not last and two it shouldn’t be done. People will manipulate you if you allow them. But not everyone has evil intentions behind their requests.
I absolutely loved this topic around growth and change in the relationship.
This episode was beautiful and insightful. I loved hearing this side. Thank you
I loved these conversations! Thank you so much for holding space to share your vulnerability and perspectives with us. I truly appreciate it! ❤
Thank you for sharing. I have decided to let love change me. Thank you for the help. One of your episodes from your podcast helped me let go of an unhealthy relationship. Thanks for sharing your perspective. Many blessings.
Who's back after the divorce filing 👀👀👀👀
👀 I came to learn
I didn’t know about this video existing until the divorce… it never fails the supposed feminine and submissive admits to being masculine and dominant sipping slowwww …. Ouch! Never been a fan of Jeanie or anyone on the show. My Schadenfreude has been activated!
ME! 🙋🏾♀️ Did you go back to the episode with Jazzy, who talked about being submissive to her "boyfriend" now baby daddy Cam Newton? She is pregnant, which will make her the 3rd "baby mama" and her baby will be number 8. No ring in sight. Not even trying to wife her but she's submissive. 🤦🏾♀️
M here
UA-cam being messy and pushing it to recommended 👀
Real talk. Nice guys. Keep putting this kind of talk out there
I love hearing Jeanie's side of this relationship and Shan is right it is a bit like Jay and Bey. Also Shan looks so beautiful in this episode the makeup is one point with the floral dress
I'm changing positively because of this relationship I'm in but I'm feeling like growing apart from them every step I take forward 🥺 ... it's scary cause I love them
I think it’s a good thing to change in a relationship. for someone and for yourself and I think sometimes being with someone will show you things about yourself that you’ve never seen before and that’s worth changing. Both sides!
Changing your behaviors/habits is not the same as changing your personhood. If that doesn't make sense you don't know who you are. I personally believe people CANNOT change WHO they are but we all learn and adapt to the ups, downs and differences of life and environment.
Loved this convo! ❤
The visual editing on this podcast was very distracting though.
agreed
This is so real and beautiful!!! Be true to yourself!!! I love your program!!!!
Watching this makes me even more sad that Jeezy filed for divorce. It seems like he didn’t try
Agree. I don’t think he ever wanted the marriage.
I kinda don’t blame him. Don’t pretend to be submissive then when you finally get him you turn into the dragon lady with attitude. She tricked him
@@T.H-v4h but does submissive mean you don’t stand up for yourself or set out your expectations?
When men say they want a submissive wife do they just want someone who does everything they say and never speaks up for themselves
Why my algorithm so messy😩
mine too, this channel does not show in my feed😂
Same 😩🤣
😂😂😂
I was thinking the same thing
Mine too! Like why is this on my home page? UA-cam messy AF😂
Wow!!! This was amazing!!! Been a fan of JM!❤
I need a deep dive from a therapist on why her marriage didn’t end up successful at the end … after all the changes she made etc.
This sounded like a real relationship so it’s hitting me hard. So sad. But baby Monaco is so adorable! Definitely will be worth everything at the end of the day!
Unless you talk to HER therapist, I don’t think anyone can tell you. 😅 Jeannie is an open book, though. She will eventually share some details. It might take awhile, but she will share.
They have both evolved and love themselves and are pouring into themselves. This is not bad. It's just they both have to love themselves 1st before they can love one another. It's a journey.❤
Because she really didn’t change in my opinion. She is a straight narcissist in my opinion! Not the mention a lie 🤥
Great conversation ladies. I enjoyed every bit of it!👏👏❤❤
This shows me that its natural for most women to want children - not wanting kids is definitely the exception. I think the decison and desire just comes at different points in our lives as women.
This is not true. Everyone is just different and that’s fine, anyone can change their mind and that’s great
I really loved this episode. I took down a lot of notes as it helped me understand myself better with my husband. ❤
You only can truly change for YOU.
She’s SO CUTE I love her
Who’s here after being in Mel’s Patreon!??
We need an emoji 😂👩🏾⚖️
@@applejackzo 😂😂that’s a good one!! 👩🏾⚖️👩🏾⚖️👩🏾⚖️
Great interview and great people!
Great conversation!
Thanks for this video, it was really helpful.
I don’t think it makes sense to only become aware of your shortcomings when you respect someone or they are your equal. To me that says you lack self awareness, & that your values aren’t fully established. I will check myself regardless of how I feel about the person in front of me
Absolutely check yourself, but at the same time, other people can see things about you that you may not be able to see about yourself. Once those reflections align, it's like Oh I didn't know I do that. Maybe that's something I need to work on. What I'm saying is, you can't be the only voice you're hearing. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying keep a bunch of negative energy around to break you down, just those few authentic true tells to say you're slipping get it together. That's all, but absolutely self reflection and introspection is important.
@@TiffanyRayneOfficial oh yes of course it’s also important to be able to hear about yourself I think that’s key. It’s just odd to me that she said she didn’t know this about herself in her previous marriage because her husband wasn’t her equal.
@@Mommasun_ since she did not respect him as her equal, she probably would not listen. Or maybe he was a pleaser and would not call her out.
@@josephlovely7759 so why did she get married to him? Lol literally wasted his time
@@Mommasun_ because he asked her in public , in front of her family and friends. That's manipulative and people feel pressured to say yes
Great conversations🔥🔥 between Queens😍😍. This topic hit home❤️.
Waaaaay too many cuts to the title card. So annoying
I really love this episode
I loved this so much!!! 😍
I Love Me Some Jeanie Mai!! 😆💚✨
I’ve critiqued Jeannie and celebrities that publicly say “I don’t want kids” not because they shouldn’t have the choice, but because they get to be in their 40’s decide they want kids now, get IVF or a surrogate because they have money, and the average person that you’ve influenced who does not have money, suffers because they can’t afford to “reverse” biology if you will. That’s my only issue with it.
She did not tell anyone not to have kids. The most you can say is ones could have felt supported but it's a personnal choice. That was Jeannie's message, don't feel pressured not even by a husband if it's not your decision. Don't put on her. Who would decide not to have kids just because a celebrity doesn't
@@josephlovely7759 thinking that celebrities don’t influence people is just naive and insensitive. Influencers and brand deals literally exist for a reason. No matter if you come right out and say it or not. So sure, call it support, but the same results still occur.
@@rochellesoyoola1150 of course influencing exists, specifically to make someone buy a product, not to make someone stay childless?
I'm sorry but if you are influenced on your decision to have children by some celebrity, you have way bigger problems than not having children once you hit 40
If anyone decided not to have kids because of Jeanni and now regrets it and resents her because she could afford ivf (which is a ridiculous scenario) they have serious problems they need to address with a therapist, and are probably not fit to be a parent anyway
@@jennyyyy189 I would not be influenced but there are plenty of younger people that are influenced by her and Kylie Jenner just the same. I never talked about how right or “sane” it is. I talked about what’s happening. Regardless of what you think should happen. Here is what is.
@@rochellesoyoola1150 fair, I agree actually
But imo this doesn't mean, that she shouldn't have been outspoken before about this, a lot of people felt more accepted because of her speaking about this and that's important too.
i loved it omg
Great episode, I was just wondering what Jeannie was up to these days. I love the conversation
Jeannie always comes dressed like royalty ❤️✨🤩
7:51 I’m officially a fan sis, you are invited to the cook out 😂
I don't know how I found this but I'm happy I did!
I knew the moment she started dating him that she would change her mind. Jeezy is masculine and the only way that relationship would work is if she eased into her feminine. He changed that for her ! Freddy could never . She is totally different now and you can’t tell me that her husband didn’t cause this 💞. I loveeee this for her
Sit back and let good. There’s a reason our minds and body’s close up and open up to certain situations and people.
What's unfortunate is she chose to "change her mind" with the WRONG MAN! Lesson to be learned! She healed too late, now she's a single mother and a kid will grow up in a broken family dynamic. The kids pay for it unfortunately.
I love Jeanie Mai!!!! Love you! ❤❤❤❤
I subbed cause I love your vibe!!! Yesss sis I wish you much more success and elevation!!! 🙌🏾🖤👑💫
I loved this conversation!!
Now fast forward to today 😮 she’s all by her self
Sorry, in what way?
Relationship
Fabulous talk, love Jeannie!
I am lagit obsessed w this podcast 💯... N I'm soooo down w that s.e.t to girlll! Lol Iv never shared anything like this to social media n felt like this explains so much what I'm searching for... I had 2 t.y for speaking my ❤️ into words and articulating it better than I ever could LOL
Keep up the important work.
Jeanie Mai is GOALS for me, the prototype.
I don't think she changed, exposure to authentic swag brings out the best in a woman
But not good enough it seemed.
My Fellow Intelligent Capricorn, one thing about us is that being real is literally our language. A lot of people love to be lied to but not us , we literally crave the truth from anyone that we involve ourselves with rather it’s relationships or friendships & family. Capricorn’s are literally the parent zodiac of them all. We don’t learn from other’s, they learn from us when it comes to deeper things beneath the surface. The way we think about certain stuff isn’t how a lot of people think. We’re often misunderstood a lot because of how deep we can be & get. All this to say is , when a Capricorn know they can start a future with someone they will naturally submit to their partner, we need a level of security in all area’s of our lives. ( Mentally, Physically, Emotionally, ) once we have found that we will become a different person for that person. A person that always lived inside of us but nobody ever got to see it because certain people don’t bring that side of us often. It’s very hard to get a Capricorn to trust you so if we do that means you have shown her that you can be her safe space. Capricorn’s make the world go around, everyone has a Capricorn in their life.
Perfectly said!!! 12/30🙌🏽
You nailed it. Fellow Capricorn here!
Interesting, the 2 capricorns I know (very close friends) actually trust people very easily. Very open, an open book in all senses that make me sometimes go like, hold on let’s get to know him/her a little more first. But indeed very deep convos and submissive to their partners
December Capricorn 💯💯💯💯
Great interview.
What's the name of the podcast? Not quite sure I caught it 🤣
People have the right to change and change their minds just because you said something in the past doesn't mean you have to stay that way with that opinion
Sounds like Jeanie loves who she is with Jeezy. She is more inlove with the version of herself that Jeezy allows her to be more than she loves him. In short, Jeanie loves Jeanie.
Oh that's an interesting take. Update: maybe Jeezy has discovered this too as he's now filed for divorce.
I sent her a message when I found out she was pregnant. All I said was, "I knew you were going to have a child, with the right person"! She didn't have the right person at it was clear on her show, plus, her man crush was Jeezy!
Yesss change is good when it’s healthy! Agreee
I've seen this video already...but should I feel bad coming back to it with the divorce announcement?
Jeannie Mai - awesome interview 👏🏽🫶🏽
She did all tht evolving only for him to break her heart and divorce her😢
Omg the constant interruptions of the graphics was SO ANNOYING