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  • @ruizeduardobr
    @ruizeduardobr Рік тому +120

    Principle #1 understand your opponent
    Principle #2 acknowledge their points
    Principle #3 never push for a "yes"
    Principle #4 let your silence do the talking
    Principle #5 keep it positive

  • @guitar911rock
    @guitar911rock Рік тому +277

    Fire your audio guy ryan

    • @luxhorizononline
      @luxhorizononline Рік тому +10

      Haha looking forward to getting fired ! inshallah 😂

    • @geargrinder69
      @geargrinder69 Рік тому +9

      Yeah, this sucks

    • @petermajewskicom
      @petermajewskicom Рік тому +3

      it’s just his inner demon talking

    • @VaraPappas
      @VaraPappas 5 місяців тому +4

      I'm wondering is it the audio, or is it the video speed? It's like it speeds up for seconds here and there.

    • @catheline51
      @catheline51 5 місяців тому

      Fire the narrator.

  • @TheConorMLife
    @TheConorMLife Рік тому +16

    Silence is highly underrated. Never be the first to speak after asking for the close. Thank you Ryan for a phenomenal video :)

  • @LivingLargeInLexington
    @LivingLargeInLexington 5 місяців тому +13

    Anytime I can get a lesson from Serhant …I listen

  • @matthewbolinger2277
    @matthewbolinger2277 Рік тому +46

    I’m reading "never split the difference” by Chris Voss and this is right on par with all the same principles

    • @MiguelPerez-fx9jw
      @MiguelPerez-fx9jw Рік тому +6

      Many social media influencers portray their “expertise” based on what they read.
      You can pretty much read books, and speak in the language of them and sound like you’re a professional at whatever message you’re trying to provide.
      Welcome to the influencer world 😊

  • @Fuku94
    @Fuku94 Рік тому +34

    The sound distortion is way for Ryan to keep you hooked and listening.

  • @anamariae
    @anamariae Рік тому +34

    One of the best videos I've seen on negotiation. Please keep them going about different skills - it's so awesome when someone matches your energy and you can actually relate. Most of the trainings are so plain sometimes that my brain cannot focus at all.

  • @theajayaugustin
    @theajayaugustin Рік тому +19

    Honestly, this is the best video I have watched for selling or negotiating. THE BEST. GOT SOOOOOOOOO MUCH VALUE IN THIS PIECE OF CONTENT HERE!!!

  • @meeekzster
    @meeekzster Рік тому +8

    Hey Ryan, I’m a 17yr from a small town and not much exposure to the world of business. Recently I have been working towards starting a little Shopify business. I’m working through the process and taking it as a learning experience. Your videos have helped me a lot with learning ab many aspects of business! This video taught me some key points about communication and closing deals that not only are applicable in the business realm but also in everyday interactions. Just wanted to thank you!

    • @nadeensivic
      @nadeensivic Рік тому

      Amazing story, and at 17. Keep going. You are on your way... I wish you the best of outcomes. ❤

  • @DavideRuggiero-gt9ub
    @DavideRuggiero-gt9ub 4 дні тому

    This video is gold, thank you

  • @edwinduque7544
    @edwinduque7544 11 місяців тому +1

    You are amazing!!!

  • @AcesizOfficial
    @AcesizOfficial Рік тому

    💯🇬🇧

  • @VictorKrakovic
    @VictorKrakovic Місяць тому

    TRUE!!!! It's so hard to control the ego, to mannage the ego!!!

  • @TheSushmaHomeSellingTeam
    @TheSushmaHomeSellingTeam Рік тому +12

    Very timely, I really need to hear these words. Thank you for these principles, Ryan. 🙌

  • @sandrakaras9693
    @sandrakaras9693 5 місяців тому +1

    Please do more videos like this!

  • @Ranjanwatson
    @Ranjanwatson 6 місяців тому

    Short video loaded with value. Thank you, Ryan.

  • @LorraineNeal-cg7gy
    @LorraineNeal-cg7gy 3 місяці тому

    strong

  • @chrisz7083
    @chrisz7083 Рік тому +1

    Never split the difference

  • @TheRealEstate
    @TheRealEstate Рік тому +7

    These are definitely tips that I use to close deals. Great information.

  • @agenecrobiosis
    @agenecrobiosis 22 години тому

    When your voice is fast forward it makes you sound like you're batting on the other team

  • @anonmadara6123
    @anonmadara6123 Рік тому +1

    exceptional

  • @jessicaliu1512
    @jessicaliu1512 Рік тому +2

    This is a great video, thank you for the pointers. Next time, if you can increase the volume of the audio or make it clearer, that would help. I've maxed up my volume and still had to really lean in to listen.

  • @zonaxmd
    @zonaxmd 11 місяців тому +1

    Looks like a test for IQ 😂 Who turns up the speed of this video to 0.75 pass it through ))

  • @gerhardbouwer8721
    @gerhardbouwer8721 Рік тому +1

    You are a legend thank you

  • @kousthubha-fe5rw
    @kousthubha-fe5rw 3 місяці тому

    I am proud that knew most correctly! ❤

  • @bogdanb32
    @bogdanb32 9 місяців тому

    Ryan is always giving us gold nuggets!

  • @talentekhuzwayo2705
    @talentekhuzwayo2705 Рік тому

    The shirts Ryan wears are honestly superb

  • @jayandwise
    @jayandwise 4 місяці тому

    Best negotiation is not negotiating

  • @KIRRAH1
    @KIRRAH1 5 місяців тому

    Ryan is making really good points. True points

  • @harshdarji1122
    @harshdarji1122 Рік тому +2

    You just summarised the book ‘Never split the difference’ 😂👍 rlly valuable stuff 👏👏

  • @whysitstill9475
    @whysitstill9475 Рік тому +1

    Im rocking with you bro. Keep dropping game.

  • @Dimart22
    @Dimart22 Рік тому

    Thank you for advices

  • @Realestatewithsuki
    @Realestatewithsuki 5 місяців тому

    I love how fast you talk

  • @Felix-ms5yd
    @Felix-ms5yd Рік тому

    Absolutely brilliant❤❤❤❤❤

  • @MaxMcCuddy
    @MaxMcCuddy Рік тому

    Should make a video doing an updated office tour!

  • @kadiprincess9975
    @kadiprincess9975 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @satoriebedes
    @satoriebedes Рік тому

    Thank you Brilliant 🌺love from Hawaii Luxury Real Estate

  • @amypalmamiami
    @amypalmamiami 4 місяці тому

    good tips

  • @lchristianrojas3713
    @lchristianrojas3713 Рік тому

    Great content Ryan.

  • @mattbarry360
    @mattbarry360 4 місяці тому

    Brooo the audiooooo 😂😂

  • @JEReyes-cd3zf
    @JEReyes-cd3zf Рік тому

    I liked Ryan when he was on tv, he had me at hello. We’re reading out of the same book. Never know when your gonna learn something new, pay attention!

  • @ah_kay98
    @ah_kay98 5 місяців тому

    Ryan talk so fast, till I have to check if I’m turning on 1.5x speed 😅😂 nice sharing!!

  • @powerwashgirl
    @powerwashgirl 10 місяців тому

    Love this 🙂👍

  • @susanritzmann7694
    @susanritzmann7694 Рік тому +1

    I love this Ryan.
    Great points😊

  • @aleksandrolkhovskiy4075
    @aleksandrolkhovskiy4075 Рік тому +46

    this is so confusing with the sound. I'm questioning whether it is me or a video, haha.

    • @proagarg
      @proagarg Рік тому +12

      It's the video. I think they switch the sound to emphasize things, but tbh, it's not well done.

    • @MusicMotivator
      @MusicMotivator Рік тому +4

      Yep, one could say a cool trick but really just a distraction.

    • @lucasmonteiro9886
      @lucasmonteiro9886 Рік тому +1

      It looks like the video was made with AI. I'm 99% sure about that

    • @aleksandrolkhovskiy4075
      @aleksandrolkhovskiy4075 Рік тому

      @@lucasmonteiro9886 if you are correct - that would show what AI is - I couldn't watch it longer than 30 seconds.

  • @manuellaemonyrealtor
    @manuellaemonyrealtor Рік тому

    Awesome tips

  • @Fitness.Fanatics
    @Fitness.Fanatics Рік тому

    Amazing video!

  • @DominicandLogan
    @DominicandLogan Рік тому

    Ryan, do you listen to anything while you're working. If you're feeling particularly tired one day, is there a specific thing that you do to keep going? All my respect, all my best,
    Mare

  • @lilydayxx
    @lilydayxx Рік тому

    haha love this video! thank you for sharing !

  • @adamwilliamthomas8334
    @adamwilliamthomas8334 Рік тому +8

    Is this an AI? something is off.

  • @pennytrue2741
    @pennytrue2741 4 місяці тому

    Whose been watching serhant long enough to remember he used to be a hand model and on the real housewives of New York before he got a real estate spin off. 😂

  • @MohammedRedaKebbati
    @MohammedRedaKebbati 4 місяці тому

  • @telaviv007
    @telaviv007 Рік тому

    Ryan superstar. Hi from Israel

  • @dawitalula8812
    @dawitalula8812 Рік тому

    that is smart

  • @hebertojustiniano2019
    @hebertojustiniano2019 Рік тому +1

    Min 1.33

  • @abrasionthermals9172
    @abrasionthermals9172 Рік тому

    Mirrored Ryan looks better 🤣 Older and MUCH wiser. Aristocratic, even.

  • @sllc1081
    @sllc1081 Рік тому +7

    Seems sped up

  • @josephsuarez650
    @josephsuarez650 Рік тому

    Incredibly helpful tips though this is great information!!

  • @PJP_site
    @PJP_site Рік тому

    Sold

  • @erikrummel6277
    @erikrummel6277 5 місяців тому

    Coffee is for closers

  • @youssefhady20
    @youssefhady20 Рік тому

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @karan9868
    @karan9868 Рік тому +1

    1.understand your. Opponents (to whom you are dealing with ) , understand their body language , tone etc (physically) AND also check it out what they are emotionall conveying, means if they have big ego , they will always want to win , then make a conversation about what they will do at their position , this way you will understand and get insights. Also get that who is your opponent and always guide them something,if they are new give them that you will do this if you are at their positions. ALWAYS MAKE THEM FEEL ITS “US” doing the deal.
    2. AKNOWLEGDE THEM , MATCH THEIR BODY LANGUAGE , tonality , style etc (make them feel comfortable) repeat their points so that they feel listening.
    THE KEY TO NEGOTIATING IS NOT NEGOTIATING.
    People don’t want to be sold instead they want to be buying. Show them empathy , don’t be dominating
    3. DONOT PUSH FOR GETTING “yes”
    Nah… this is wrong way YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT.
    Instead get them question that they will answer no. THIS WILL MAKE YOU ONE STEP CLOSER! This will develop a fear among them.
    4.MAKE YOUR SILENCE YOUR TALKING!
    This will do that other party will feel dominant, they will try to speak more BECAUSE EVERYONE HATES SILENCE.
    5.keep it all positive, STAY CALM AND HAPPY THROUGHOUT THE DEAL.
    THE BEST DEALS HAPPEN WHEN BOTH PARTY ARE HAPPY. 🤝😁

  • @rachelpatterson2327
    @rachelpatterson2327 Рік тому +1

    Would like to get your thoughts on the condo market in Florida when the new laws pass end of 2024 due to Miami collapse and insurance companies leaving the state? you think developers will be swooping in to buy a bunch of condo communities and mass amounts of sellers all at once not being able to afford the higher HOAs?

  • @therichbuddha3277
    @therichbuddha3277 Рік тому

    Great stuff, thank you S. psst, sound is too quiet.

  • @matthewbolinger2277
    @matthewbolinger2277 Рік тому +3

    Just started my real estate career and this is great info! Working on my first deal now

  • @BBartistic
    @BBartistic Рік тому +11

    Lately your youtube team is doing not so good job. This video is fastened a little bit (just like some previous were), it makes your voice sound like a chipmunk 😆

    • @RosardaR
      @RosardaR Рік тому

      He also had a time limit on this video. Specifically, 12-15 minutes before he had to call his client back. This video took 11:29.

  • @HeisKelvinHov
    @HeisKelvinHov Рік тому

    Bro just achieved a goal by getting me to subscribe

  • @AzulWells
    @AzulWells Рік тому

    How does vid just have 35k views? Great advice delivered by one of the best in the biz …Ryan! Love your vids!!
    … see how I did that? Stroke the ego baby!!
    🙊 Azul

  • @mjradi4371
    @mjradi4371 Рік тому

    Great video, even for a lawyer

  • @SomeOne-jz7cn
    @SomeOne-jz7cn Рік тому +1

    Great video. However, what's up with the sound?

  • @Ridesltd
    @Ridesltd Рік тому

    I have a deal tomorrow and I needed this and nature brought it to me. So timely. I'm confident I'll close my deal tomorrow

  • @josephsuarez650
    @josephsuarez650 Рік тому +5

    why tha audio so pitchy

  • @TonyKimCre
    @TonyKimCre Рік тому

    Art of real estate negotiations

  • @SebastianCristanchoYT
    @SebastianCristanchoYT Рік тому +1

    This is sped up right? I do video work and I can usually see it in the blinking

  • @Lion_McLionhead
    @Lion_McLionhead Рік тому

    Processing your voice with intermittent fake stereo always wins the deal.

  • @endgamefond
    @endgamefond 4 місяці тому

    The audio problem i thought coming from my headset i was like i just bought this a month ago and how come it's broken now. Turns out it is ur audio. Too bad coz the content is good.

  • @talentekhuzwayo2705
    @talentekhuzwayo2705 Рік тому

    Was this sped up?

  • @ggdc11
    @ggdc11 Рік тому

    Harvey Specter in real life!

  • @joelgarcia78744
    @joelgarcia78744 5 місяців тому

    He forgot to add... show up with over 15 years of real estate experience, and the rest will take care of itself.

  • @yojirex6374
    @yojirex6374 Рік тому

    Why is he on 1.5x speed 😭😭

  • @marygrech7644
    @marygrech7644 Рік тому

    Yha since when I ded what people tell l s me to do your dreaming

  • @lefteris1976
    @lefteris1976 Рік тому +4

    What's wrong with the audio? Sounds like a robot

  • @DeBoRL
    @DeBoRL Рік тому

    @GrantCardone come take some tips from this guy, he's talking about people like you, little man.

  • @davidpham9353
    @davidpham9353 Рік тому

    The value is super good but I really hate this AI work =)))))

  • @albertozennaro3380
    @albertozennaro3380 Рік тому

    Try doing this in the EU 😂

  • @jesseshirtsmusic
    @jesseshirtsmusic Рік тому +3

    This video is ai

  • @HeisKelvinHov
    @HeisKelvinHov Рік тому

    Sometimes my mom calls me a chameleon because am what people want me go be when i want something they have, when I get it i move like G

  • @ptrbask640
    @ptrbask640 Рік тому +6

    when you make that commission buy a new microphone

  • @zenzenthaiamulethobby7109
    @zenzenthaiamulethobby7109 Рік тому

    Volume soft. Need to change to better mic.

  • @jway202
    @jway202 Рік тому

    The ego seller are definitely most difficult people 😂

  • @daletrade5178
    @daletrade5178 Рік тому

    YOU STOLE THIS FROM CHRIS THE HOSTAGE NEGOTIATOR

  • @frankm5019
    @frankm5019 Рік тому

    if you don't have an ego and have an internet connection you don't need a R.E. agent

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster Рік тому +1

    how to get a girl u like on a fking date!

  • @dac8939
    @dac8939 Рік тому

    Dude dye your hair

  • @tkokflux6322
    @tkokflux6322 Рік тому

    yo I gotta be honest I love ryan but why does some of ur vids have messed up audio

  • @beatrizweck6457
    @beatrizweck6457 Рік тому

    You’re awesome, handsome and funny and succesful im learning a lot with your videos, I suscribed and follow you on insta. Thank you for your knowledge and expertise.

  • @mittstewart5089
    @mittstewart5089 4 місяці тому

    Thank you

  • @luxuryrealestatemiamiflorida
    @luxuryrealestatemiamiflorida 11 місяців тому

    Brilliant 👌