Because they’re largely fetishised I sort of got this from Reddit so it may not necessarily be true. I’m large chested too and I can’t even wear a skinny stripped top without glares. It’s the same with people with bigger butts. Smaller chests simply aren’t viewed as something sexual to put it realistically and simply hence why models don’t have them as they’re deemed distracting and take away from the fashion. Applying that kind of perspective to school, well wearing the clothes we see in the video with a larger chest it draws a lot of attention in a “sexy” “seductive” sense even many of those who don’t have a large chest I see typically saying they want to be deemed more sexually attractive through having bigger boobs which pretty much proves my point because it’s a fetish even if teenage boys may not gaf. It is what it is ig it won’t be changing any time soon. But this is just my perspective :).
@@andzelinai particularly have a bigger chest for my age, my friend who doesn’t have a large chest, always wears these tops I could never wear. I’ve never gotten dress coded but I’ve seen people get dress coded for the stupidest reasons.
Bro I wore a turtle neck to school and I get dress coded. Apparently it was to tight on the chesticles. But other girls with smaller chesticles be walkin around in sports bras and miniskirts
@@janelleguild3866Depending on how it looked, not really. I’ll take the word of the op since I don’t know better either, but I can imagine a tight turtle neck looking all kinds of wrong on a minor with big breasts.
@@ernimuja6991 have you seen any clothing store recently? tight fitting shirts are like one of the biggest trends right now, it's hard for anyone with a larger chest to find anything that is deemed modest. even simple t-shirts can be "too tight." no one's going to wear a potato sack to school.
@@its_a_palimino Then complain to the clothing department for not making clothes for ppl like that. Not the school for not allowing ill fitted clothes.
I agree with your statement, that bodies shouldnt be sexualized. But at the same time when you go to work you expect other people to come in dressed appropriately, and for your 50 year old male boss to not come in skimpy shorts
School isn’t the same thing as a job... And there’s different kinds of jobs too. Why do you expect all jobs to be a corporate office workplace? She might go into fashion.
@@twostupidasianonecupnoodleso does that mean all teachers can wear mini skirts and shorts, which are more similar to pants? That's normal to have dresscoding at some places like office jobs, schools, colleges etc., wear whatever you want on your weekends.
@@twostupidasianonecupnoodle if you're in school you/taxpayers/grants are paying for the privilege for you to attend. it's like renting housing; you get access to property in exchange for payment, but you play by the rules you signed under or you get disciplined. it's pretty simple when you have a modicum of life experience.
Schools thinking exposed shoulders are distracting is probably one of the funniest things I’ve ever heard. Im a teenage male with hormones surging through the roof, and never once have I been tempted to stare at a girl’s shoulders.
@@RuthvenMurgatroyd Don't even try to compare the two. I'm a 40 year old white male who grew up in an affluent town in the north east US and that is just completely ridiculous. Girls are OPPRESSED far FAR more than boys are, all because some men can't control their animal urges... that is THEIR problem... not the girls problem.
I get what you mean but the problem is that dresscodes can be very onesided and while you certainly wouldn’t be allowed to have « one ball hanging out », which is understandable since it’s your private parts, girls can be forbidden from showing their shoulders which, from what I know, don’t have a sexual purpose.
I 100% understand the whole freedom to express yourself. BUT there is a HUGE difference with wanting to express yourself and wearing lingerie to school or anything that is too revealing. And schools have a dress code for a reason I'm not saying it's good bc I know they are unreasonable but still💀
@@niak551 you asked when she had lingerie, not why it’s bad to wear lingerie in a school building although I feel like the answer to that is pretty clear. It’s designed to be worn when you’re getting fückëd. School buildings are not 18/21 and over to enter and therefore people walking in don’t expect to see anyone wearing lingerie. If you don’t think something is appropriate to a 4 year old, it shouldn’t be outwardly warn in a building anyone of any age can enter. Also, just because you think something looks good on a certain person isn’t a reason you should be allowed to wear it. Do you want to see your grandmother walking around outside in lingerie? Or your 60 year old male boss in böötyshorts?
@@Mithril170818 Law of Attraction determines what kind of souls show up, and even facilitates the soul’s efficiency at having a remark which best brings attention to any existing emotional injury. It is possible to be free of emotional injury, dress however she likes, and still never attract unloving remarks. The comments to this video suggest she has once believed or also said what commenters say. Perhaps she can overcome past limiting beliefs by overcoming the emotional challenge of having to suit dress code expectations of others.
@@VektrumSimulacrumyou say that as if regular school dress codes are even applied to boys or enforced when it comes to y’all 💀 I promise you no one would gaf you just want a reason to be angy and hate women
@@nopenerp6862 Pfff, I've been in high school before. I've seen the kind of crap guys try and pull. So do my family members that have worked in more than one school district for more than 30 years. They come to school in wife beaters and tank tops with the drawers hanging out. Showing too much, gang affiliation, whatever... both girls and boys do it. What's distracting is the time wasted dealing with something totally unrelated to educations. Slap on that uniform, sit your butt in a desk and stop trying to be edgy.
@@nopenerp6862 "oppressive beliefs". So one of them is an oppressive belief and the other is not the same thing. Yet the entire purpose is same for both, eliminate a distraction that comes from something not related to school work. You have to deal with the current reality of the situation, the raging hormones and lack of judgment in the age group we're talking about. What you're saying is just wishful thinking and giving the underdeveloped brains (and judgment) of the age group in question far too much credit.
Finally a comment that knows what's up. Even after having the freedom of not having to wear school uniforms, American kids still want to throw more fits.
No they aren’t I will pull out my essay about how they are not good. Imagine this your running late to school because your uniforms are in the dryer so you can’t go to school if you show up to school without your uniforms you’ll get suspended but if you go to school late you’ll get a tardy so what should you do or imagine that you have your uniforms but there to uncomfortable or if they are to thin and it’s too cold outside these are some of the reasons. Schools shouldn’t make students wear uniforms. Brit ann ica says that “School uniforms restrict students' freedom of expression. School uniforms promote conformity over individuality. School uniforms do not stop bullying and may increase violent attacks.” Many students don’t like uniforms and most of the time schools use uniforms as a way of making the students listen or obey the rules but a lot of times if a person doesn’t like something they will resist it this causes the school to add more rules which again the students most likely will not like it’s a cycle. Clothes are a very popular way to express yourself and if you wear the same thing it will make you feel like you have to do what everyone is doing and only that. A lot of people think that uniforms make lower bullying because everyone has the same clothes on so the bullies will stop bullying at least about their clothes but what about when you go outside of the school like on Field trips? A lot of people get bullied by other schools or they don’t but sometimes they whisper and if you see that it can be very hurtful. And a lot of people stereotype people who wear uniforms thinking they're snobby rich kids. Uniforms make it hard for poor families because they have to buy the uniforms only in some cases the schools provide uniforms but that’s very rare. Uniforms cost about $150 or less and you have to get multiple pairs because you can’t wear them over and over because they will smell and you can’t wash them every day because they’ll get ripped that leads us to our next problem you have to have multiple pairs of uniforms and your normal clothes like shirts, pants all of those clothes and then you have your uniforms and if you have a lot of clothes you will need to get a bigger closet and closets cost a lot of money. Studies have shown that uniforms don’t make students feel they belong in their school as much as people think, Studyfinds says, “…kids wearing a uniform actually reported feeling lower levels of school belonging than students who attended schools with no uniform requirements.” Schools shouldn’t make students wear uniforms because they are too expensive, they take up too much closet space, and many other reasons. Schools shouldn’t make students wear uniforms because they create more problems than they solve.
Honestly I think that schools should supply free uniforms (with gov money). We have uniform in my school and the thought of some people having to choose a new outfit every day just seems stressful and time consuming
if a person wants to dress up more than someone else, that shouldn’t be shamed upon. like she said “freedom of expression” it’s normal to wear sweats and pjs to school so why not things like this 🤷♀️
@@staawree9554there’s a difference between people being straight up perverts, and people who r clearly uncomfortable that u have ur butt, boobs, and belly hanging out in a school environment! If this were a club or party, then that would be different. But suddenly when people say that wearing literal lingerie to go to school is inappropriate, suddenly there disgusting perverts?! There clearly the ones with common sense for asking “why is it ok for people to wear inappropriate and extremely revealing clothes to a professional environment?” Again, there’s a time and place to wear certain things. There’s also a line between expressing yourself/being comfortable in what ur wearing and just pushing the dress code way to far!
Well for something that isn’t a fashion show, schools really do like to think and talk about and judge clothes lmao. Might as well be on a runaway walking in front of judges
It's always about sexualizing ffs, all those rules were made by men who sexualize everything a woman does. You don't think it's weird that they tell young girls that the way they dress is asking for attention from a boy? And if a boy is distracted or doing something inappropriate, it's her fault? Why don't we jusy normalize the human body. We weren't even allowed to wear tank tops when it was super hot. The ac would be freezing but no jackets were allowed. What kind of sumb rules are these? You're delusional
hate uniforms. I had them at my old school, hate them. They're ugly and expensive. I enjoy expressing myself with clothes. And trust me, most americans do not wear these outfits to school.
Honestly, there are days I really wish we had uniforms in America so I didn't have to deal with people who don't care about the dress code and people who are absolute zealots about it. I swear, the debates about crop tops and tank tops make me want to box my own ears.
@@XMillyyXthey’re not necessarily expensive tho. You can get cheap uniform in the UK for most schools, as it’s just basic trousers / skirts and shirts. Then only thing is if you have to buy a blazer / jumper with the school logo on, but it’s really not that bad. And everyone is wearing the same.
I know this is going to be an unpopular opinion but I actually like school's a lot more that had a dress code because not only did I know what I was going to be wearing everytime I was going to school but had less laundry to do!
Dressing appropriately shouldn’t have to be a hindrance of expression. There’s a time and a place for every outfit. Would you wear white gown to a wedding? A T-shirt and jeans to prom or graduation? A bikini to work on a 105 F day? (If you don’t work at the beach) There’s a difference between party clothes, casual, and professional attire. If you don’t have the creativity to come up with cute appropriate attire within the realm of what’s allowed, that’s a you problem, not a problem with the system. The fact that you seek to break it with the most ostentatious outfits you can find is a cry for attention, not expression.
An outfit is not just an outfit, you cant go to school with a bathing suit on or lingerie and get mad bc the school dress coded you, I’m not saying that’s what she did but that’s exactly what she’s saying…The schools have a dress code for a reason, yeah some of the stuff they have like oh cover ur shoulders is stupid but I see why they have them in place lol.
Ok but if I were the principal and she came in any one of those outfits I wouldn't dress code her. Like none of them sexualize her ppl r just so over the top sometimes
@@simplychocolate7409 It actually is a lingerie top. There's nothing wrong with it ofc, but it isn't very appropriate for something like school. We don't have to make it such a big deal.
@@deadsetondreams1988girl be serious rn. The shoulder bs is outdated and we all know it but how about don’t go to school in freaking lingerie bc that’s just not appropriate anywhere except in bed and in a nightclub???
I'm sorry we should be teaching men and boys to be respectful and to control themselves instead of perpetuating rape culture by saying "rules are made to protect you". How about rules to punish creepy and rapey dudes.....
She didn't say she didn't expect anyone to look at her. Who cares if people look at her? If you can't keep your animal urges in check that is YOUR problem, not hers. THAT is her point. Stop making your barbaric problem with self-control into other people's problem.
@@FarawayFragrance What if instead of judging you for your clothes I judged you for your lame hobbies? Dioramas and model kits? Lol what are you a pre-teen boy? How does that feel? Why can't you just be nice to people instead of judging them?
@@why8298 Oh no she showed a little bit of her stomach! Call the cops! 🙄 It’s only an issue if you make it one. The only people distracted by it are creeps and perverts.
@@MrAwesomeSolos the only reason someone would wear something like that is for the attention of those, “creeps” and “pervs.” Women should not be out here dressing like hookers to feel good about themselves what kind of fucking message is that?
I also work for the state and our dress code is more lenient compared to that of a traditional office setting. Some of these outfits would cross the line and I’ve seen people come in with tattoos all over their arms, tattoos over their head, crazy colored hair.
@@ComaLies225 I am covered in tattoos, so that’s not a big deal where I am. I also am an elder emo, so I consistently look like I’m going to a metal concert, lol. But the showing excess skin and things like that, would never fly.
@@ericaneighbors6764 but isn’t she in college? At that point, it is a choice. In grade school, there are ridiculous dress codes, and I had one, but you don’t get a say.
Im in an arts school and some people are nearly naked. Be happy you have a dress code to a certain extend. The amount of times I saw free ass and free boobs are very unpleasant.
Sometimes its worth considering the other side, there's a reason why flashing is considered a crime. Just because you love yourself doesn't mean other people want to see it. Love yourself inwardly.
wdym by free ass, free boobs? (they dont take apple pay??/ oorrr jokes aside) i dot get it, ws the boobs like a low cut shirt? bc a low cut shirt is very different from coming in in yuour regular bra
@@iammehican1018she dont even know what shes talking about. Never seen an american dresscode that aims to sexualize. If anything some schools are lenient. My schools didnt want skirts to be anything higher than 4 inch above knee cap and no crop tops showing belly or low cut tops.
I agree but I just want to wear normal clothes not lingerie or mini skirts. I got dress coded wearing a jacket that covered my shoulders while leaning over because my cleavage was showing. I also got dress coded for an inch of skin showing through some of my ripped pants.
As someone mentioned, there is the place and the time for all outfits. But school/work should be more modest and it’s more about being professional/classy etc that showing off XD
When you're young and are forced to be somewhere for 8 hours and that's where your social circles is, you need to be able to express yourself. Work is different.
@@mkg2124 express yourself fully after school… at school express yourself while still keeping it modest imo Plus if you need to wear almost no clothes (here not that bad, mostly the first one was problematic, but lots of people do “lingerie as clothes” thing) to be able to “express yourself” maybe you should think about it some more
@@mkg2124You can express yourself as a teen or pre-teen without wearing lingerie or revealing clothing. And I'm not saying people who cover up don't get sexually assaulted or harassed or raped because they do. But what I'm saying is most teens don't express their style through clothing like this. And tbh if someone was wearing revealing clothing to school, I feel like the only reason other kids would be looking is to wonder why the heck a minor is coming to school looking like they didn't bother putting on clothes that day. This is coming from a pre-teen btw so I don't have as much knowledge as full grown adults so take my words with a grain of salt
I don’t think she deserves all this hate, as she’s just trying to rebel against her school dress code. Maybe some ppl don’t agree with that, but she really is just trying to show her school that stupid rules don’t apply by wearing outfits that are made for the dress code. Plus, she said that a lot of the outfits are way extreme for her and she wouldn’t normally wear outfits like these to school.
@@niak551the rules arent there because anyone is jealous and neither are they there because of the boy students. Its for lurking male staff that may have weird paraphillias. Not all offenders are convicted offenders and you would be surprised how much stuff happens in a school setting at the hands of faculty staff
@@mystery9irl887 sounds like a bs argument to me. Especially because it's pointless to make rules trying to "shield" students from paraphilias, considering how many there are and how weird those can be. I mean, even if you go full Burka, there are people who would get turned on by that. And it wouldn't actually do anything to stop abuse; if anything, it makes it easier, by teaching kids to hide their bodies, to be ashamed, and feeding the insecurities which predators exploit to abuse their victims. By contrast, proper sex ed - starting before kids even hit puberty - actually prevents abuse, by informing the students to recognise the signs of grooming, why it is bad, and encouraging them to speak out. Edit: upon a second read I think I misunderstood your argument - you're saying that the rules are _examples_ of paraphilias, rather than trying to shield against them? Makes more sense.
I’m a bit of a bigger person, and by bigger, I mean I’m fatter and I have bigger curves. If I wore anything remotely similar to these outfits, I’d get dress coded immediately
@@ernimuja6991 I don’t think that’s what she’s saying at all. I think she’s saying that the bodies of thin people, people without curves, not scrutinized the same way fat or curvy bodies are. When I wear a low cut dress, it’s immediately “sexy” bc I have larger breasts, but if a thin girl wore the same thing, people wouldn’t necessarily have the same reaction. I’m tall and somewhat thin, but I’m very much an hourglass shaped woman, and I’ve experienced this exact thing countless times. This all being said, I am aware that my body is sexualized more often than not, and I dress accordingly.
@@missmiadelrey Well yeah, but what are you trying to say? If the effect is sexual, then cover up so you don’t impose to much on your fellow human. Although male bodies are not sexualized, kind of the same effect but opposite outcome can be seen with the feeling of disgust. If you are a good looking guy, you can wear whatever you want, but if you’re a fat out of shape man then you better cover because people will be disgusted looking at you and your beer gut. So whether you’re imparting feeling of disgust or lust on others, the socially accepted consensus is to cover up. Most people are just trying to get through the day without being distracted by either and your dress choices should not affect hundreds of people’s days. It sucks that those whose existence has a neutral effect on others i.e. good looking men and skinny women can do whatever they want, but it is what it is. And this should be a compromise to some extent, obviously no one’s advocating trench coats. But there should be some effort on your part to not impose your being into my life.
You shouldn’t and she shouldn’t either. As a student who made As in high school, what you wear and how you look is irrelevant. So you shouldn’t be stopped from wearing what you want to. Curvy, big, small, flat or not.
Schools should offer uniforms appropriate for the size and shapes of all of their students and regular exercise and healthy eating should not only be encouraged but expected of everyone in every school outside of university.
Honestly most schools in Canada have no dress code. So you could wear any of these things to school anyways, thing is… no one does. Because it’s unnecessary. There’s always that one girl who shows up in a bra but everyone silently judges and keeps wearing comfortable clothes that fit the place.
At least they have the choice, I'm sure that if this girl had the choice, she wouldn't wear this either. It's that paradox that the more you forbid something the worst teens do it lmao 🤦🏻♀️
@@Alex-cw1ph they’re not even in my classes- you see them in the halls flirting w just about every guy they make contact with 💀 lil hard not to take notice after a few years of that I’d say?
I feel it's reasonable to have a dress code or a uniform as it let's students focus on what they are going to Institutions for ...EDUCATION! And it's supposed to be a place of rules,regulations and decency
@@_Veronika_00 yes , so true. After all inferiority and superiority rises due to status whenever it comes into play , and I think its a must for uniform to be there until they reach a certain age so that the kids minds can broaden their horizon.
living in a free country people should be allowed to wear lingerie. it’s not about something being normalized, it’s about the option to wear it. it’s a first amendment right. if you feel uncomfortable by it, look away and continue on with your day.
School does not need lengirie, or very revealing clothes, like I get it- maybe one inch to short or a little bit of shoulder but even if I were a teacher I wouldn’t let you wear those, THATS THE DEFINITION OF ACTUALLY DISTRACTING. (Deleted this part bc some people think I’m talking about all S/A it’s lingerie grow up)
Victim shaming at its finest...I don't care what people wear, no one is "asking for it." I was wearing the baggiest clothes ever when I was assaulted the first time. I literally was dressing like Billie Eilish in shirts and pants. And I wore a hoodie every single day to school. No matter how hot it got, almost actually passing out as a result of it a few times. There are literally videos on UA-cam and museum displays of what people were wearing when they were assaulted and some of the outfits cover them head-to-toe. In one of the most recent ones I saw one of the outfits was a literal head-to-toe ski suit! Saying you're a girl so you can say that is disgusting...I don't care how much skin you are or aren't showing. That doesn't give anyone consent for anything. No one is asking for it no matter the circumstance!!
@@deadsetondreams1988 it’s not victim shaming and I’m sorry that you got assaulted. I’m not talking about baggy clothes- I’m talking about Lingerie at school.
@casiylyn2cute Saying someone is asking for it because of how they dress is victim shaming. No matter how you try to spin it in your favor. Claiming that isn't what you are talking about. When you said, “wearing lingerie means you're asking for it.” What did you mean by asking for it then? Even if you're at a nude beach and completely naked, you aren't asking for anything to happen to you. In no circumstance are people asking to be targeted because of how their bodies look. Some people skip school altogether so would you rather they skipped it completely. Or actually showed up to it wearing something they feel confident in. Obviously, schools can put limitations but she's covered. And the point of these is literally to purposefully push school dress codes which nothing pushes it far like lingerie. Which didn't even get her dress-coded anyway because it could easily pass as a normal top. A lot of lingerie looks the same as someone wearing a bathing suit, the only difference a lot of time is lingerie usually has lace. Yet bathing suits can be worn in public. The last time I went to an adult shop a lot of the items they had literally looked like normal clothes. They were just in the shop because a brand that usually makes lingerie made it. I actually got several really cute tops from the same shop that my friends were getting other items from. The point of my comment is that whether people are wearing very little clothes or a ton of clothes, it will happen regardless. Woman's clothes will usually be deemed distracting and inappropriate even though what should happen is teaching people that no matter what people wear, clothing shouldn't make them a target. Rules should be less strict and lenient for different weather circumstances. Instead, of telling girls I'd rather have you pass out in a turtle neck and jacket because others may be distracted that you biologically have a chest. That men are allowed to show freely but heaven forbid you have extra fat in that area, then it has to be covered in all circumstances. Telling people they need to "grow up" is a clear sign that you are immature. It's the childish equivalent of using the comeback, "I know you are but what am I?" If you read a lot of the comments from people saying their school actually doesn't have a dress-code. They literally are saying their school has had no issues that they've witnessed. Maybe if we realized that they are children growing up and they need to learn somehow they can learn what is appropriate themselves. Teach them respect, boundaries, consent, and what they will be expected to wear once they enter the work force. Then they can “get it out of their system.” Wearing clothing that might seem inappropriate while they are still in a school setting.
"Well, I figured that it would help the boys learn about *curves* and *topology* . By the way, what are we covering next chapter?" Game Theory. "OK, then I guess that I'll wear my Princess Peach dress!" Go to the principal's office, young lady! I'm revoking your *deriver's* license!
1. It's not lingerie. 2. So what even if she did? She's completely covered... it's nothing more than you'd see at a public beach or pool. If OTHER PEOPLE can't handle their animal urges how is that her problem? That is THEIR problem.
@@Chris-xo2rq And going to a beach and going to a class is EXTREMELY different. This just plain unnecessary. By your logic there should be nothing strange about someone pulling up to their math class wearing just a bikini. Just ridiculous
@@lemonorange4218 I don't see why. Maybe it will teach men to control their animal urges like civilized people... someone should start teaching people how to do that.
@lemonorange4218 Why are you in such a bitch ass math class that you have the energy to care that someone is wearing something? I can think of far more distracting things than bikinis and even naked people
I would get suspended for wearing most of those to school, our dress code is ridiculous, no sweatpants, no shorts not even boys, no tight fitting shirts, tight fitting dresses, tight fitting skirts, or too tight fitting pants, and no crop tops or tank tops
Same my dress code is strict not too short pants not too skinny pants, no crop tops, no shoulders, no jackets with hoodies even if u don't use it and u can't even use a jacket that isn't the school's like-
@@BrooklynsYT when I said pants I meant tight fitting pants or skirts or dresses, we are allowed to wear jeans but they can't be skinny jeans and we are allowed to wear dress and skirts too but they can't be tight fitting
That is so depressing.... You're in the biggest stage of your life where you develop your personal style and find out which person you want to be, and you're restricted by a misogynistic system that has only been put in place so creepy old male teachers don't get distracted by teenage girls. You're forced to spend 90% of your days stripped from your personality, to be nothing more but a number. Usually people that are forced to wear uniforms as a teenager tend to dress inappropriately for work later, since they have no sense for style and when which style is appropriate. If you're just developing your personal style by the age of 20, by the time you're starting a job you won't know what style is appropriate for the work place and what is appropriate for private matters. And the saddest part is you're thinking the school is doing you a favour :( I pity you, poor innocent soul, and I hope you'll be able to find your way later in life ❤️ chin up little soldier
@@Mina-rf3nw I’m pretty sure most of that isn’t true. Uniforms were created to bring equality in schools. Just because we wear uniforms at school, does not mean we are “restricted” or have “no sense of style”. We actually have a lot of time out of uniform, where we can wear our own clothes. Uniforms aren’t some depressing, sad idea that was intended to hurt, it was actually so everyone felt equal and happier at school. As much as my uniform can be annoying, i would much prefer it any day over being picked on over my outfit choice. Schools honestly are doing us a favour.
It’s all about finding a middle ground, don’t be ridiculously strict and don’t wear super inappropriate clothing. I’m glaring at the guys who would wear THOSE anime sweatshirts at school and not get kicked out.
It's not about boys! It's a high school not a night club. There is no reason to be showing your stomach and wearing lingerie. There is a time and a place to wear what you want, school ain't it.
so as someone in school, not only is chest size an issue, but height. I’m friends with a girl who is 5’2. I’m 5’9. Same grade, etc. anyways we wore matching outfits to school one day, specifically the same shorts. I got dress coded because my shorts were to short. I thought it was stupid because my friend didn’t get dress coded. Our shorts were the same length. I didn’t wear shorts the rest of the year.
As someone with long legs, I felt this. Normal length dresses look short on me, which I wouldn’t mind if dress codes weren’t written so strictly. Even when I wear leggings underneath I’m still scared someone’s gonna be weird about it. That’s more distracting to myself than anything I wear 😪
I freaking feel that, I have bigger assets as well so normal things don't cover me as much and appear shorter. I have a big chest and a big butt so everything instantly becomes higher on me. I wore a dress to work one day and I already tested it, it does reach fingertip length but I wore an extra long cardigan over it so absolutely nothing would show. Unfortunately, the longer I wear the dress the more it shifts around. So sometimes I have to readjust and pull it up to cover the girls more, and other times I pull it down to make sure it's long enough. And of course, I was called in to talk about my outfit. I explained my issues and they let it slide because my cardigan was long enough to ensure no issues would happen. I basically just held it closed as much as possible for the rest of the shift because getting talked to made me feel even more self-conscious than I already usually am. Most things come in 1 length and 1 size which is created on a tiny mannequin so most ladies clothes doesn't work well on women with more curves. It took me most of my life covering myself on purpose. Finally wearing dresses was a huge milestone for me and my mental health. And it's just frustrating to say the least.
I think that schools should supply free uniforms (with gov money). We have uniform in my school and the thought of some people having to choose a new outfit every day just seems stressful and time consuming plus having to abide to dress codes with a bunch of rules would just lead to students petitioning for no rules
I understand if your school doesn’t allow shoulders and you do this to prove a point but if your school doesn’t care if you show your shoulders and they just have basic boundaries like your shorts or skirt have to reach your fingertips or no crop tops or not too short crop tops etc. then there just setting boundaries for being appropriate in a school/business setting. Schools have dress codes for a reason. Once you reach the age of getting a full time job in an office, attire that shows too much skin could get you written up or worse. (Please note I’m not hating on her I’m just informing for those who don’t completely understand why schools have dress codes)
@@rosea2350 it's not about dressing modestly, it's about making a deal out of everything, It's like we can't go a week without someone trying to break the rules thinking they're a hero for doing it, rules exist for a reason, they protect you and protect others.
If dress code is all it takes to block freedom of speech than no matter how much freedom already exists people will always feel like they are being inhibited from expressing themselves. Who you are will be clearly visible and memorable by the words you speak and the actions you display the rest is external. I don’t mean this as a hate comment but people especially the impressionable youth really need to stop worrying about the external and focus on the internal, what makes you an individual and how that stands out.
My school doesn’t even let us wear pajamas or pajama looking clothes cuz they think it’s ’unprofessional’ Like, bro, it’s not inappropriate at all, not distracting, and not disadvantageous. My school is doing too much 😭
People out here in uproar about dress codes when in the UK we are still forced to wear uniform for most schools that we go to… it’s really not a big deal.
Right, I think girls and women all around the world should have to wear burqas and hijabs... that would fix all our problems (I'm being sarcastic... It IS a big deal, it's called OPPRESSION).
We dont have dresscodes in German schools. I never heard of something like that happening lmao. I think dresscodes are unnessecary. Its your own problem if you cant concentrate bc your horny af 🤷♀️
@@UA-camCat-ie1pc yeah I get that, but the horny isn’t from the people looking only, it’s also from poeple wearing the clothes, especially teenagers wearing like the smallest tank top they can find and flexing. Also teen pregnancy is also a reason. My solution is basically reasonable dress code, and discipline on controlling your urges.
@@Shockkings0714 your mom still earned a living doing it. Yet your not walking around calling her a 304 are you.... I mean We are, ...but your not, and .... that's the point. You still found it within ur self to be nice back to ur mum. Try it on a different person
So you mean schools should let you dress like a stripper and if they don't they're being ridiculous??? Only in the US you can see this kind of stupidity 😐
We like freedom and don't like oppression. You can force your women to wear Burqas and Hijabs if you want but here you can do what you want as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else... and the outfits she is wearing DO NOT hurt anyone else.
The fact is there are dress codes in schools, certain events, restaurants, and at company’s you will be working for or that you may be in charge of. It’s important to remember there’s a time and place for everything. You are representing your school, your work (whether you like it or not), etc, so dress appropriately for the event, school, or place of business. And know that you can always wear whatever you want on your OWN TIME.
I hate sharing a planet with people like you. Nothing she wore revealed anything you wouldn't see at a public beach or pool. If you can't suppress your animal urges that is YOUR problem, not hers.
Dress codes were made to oppress peoples thinking make them conform to the rules be good sheap for the military industrial complex and for women to make them obey men. Every culture that oppresses women makes them cover their bodies.
Most of these outfits except like two are completely normal and acceptable, idk why everyone in the comments is freaking out like u were wearing just a bra and underwear or something 💀💀
Same, most of these look completely appropriate 💀 It's probably different in parts of US but here in EU where I live, 80% of these are fine for school lol.
kind of disagree, there’s a time and place to wear outfits like these. If you’re js going out it’s fine but if it’s school or work then you’re not really doing anything but embarrassing yourself by wearing them, and the “freedom of speech” thing is getting really old bc y’all use that as an excuse not to follow rules lol
But the dress code is always extreme like if it’s a warm day and you wear a tank top, the boys can wear any size of straps but the girls, their straps need to be more than 3 fingers. Then if you wear shorts and the boys can have any length of shorts but girls shorts need to be longer then arm length and if you break these rules you can possibly get sent home or get suspended. I do agree with you but at the same time girls don’t TRY and get everyone’s attention everywhere in the school. My point is that the girls get all these rules and the boys in most schools don’t have as many.
you know it’s all a social construct right lmao society teaches you to be ashamed of your body and tells you that “respect” is by covering it. it’s all bs
I love all these outfits!! And some dress-codes really need to calm down like there is nothing wrong with showing shoulders wtf and people need to chill in these comments
In Germany we have nude beaches, everyones nude in the sauna, women are tanning topless at swimming lakes etc. A naked human body isnt seen as something sexual per se. We also dont have dresscodes in schools. Never heard of any problems with it. If youre horny and cant concentrate, thats your own problem🤷♀️
And by the past I mean currently where I live in Utah. 🫠 The point is, where does it stop?? Shoulders, hair, our faces.. should women not be allowed in public? Just some things to think about 🤍
@@flowersandlace I’m a christian but you went way too far. I get it I don’t like she wore lingerie to school either but calling her a prostitute is a bit far fetched, our bodies are beautiful and a creation of god so why do you call her a prostitute when she is showing a bit of skin?
@@TeaNausea firstly - it’s God with a capital G. Show Him the respect He deserves! 😊 secondly, I didn’t call her a prostitute, I insinuated that she is dressing and presenting herself like one 😄🙏
@@flowersandlaceMaybe she is not religious, which is totally okay. Everyone has their own beliefs, but in the name of God or anything else, I think we can all agree that dressing like this to school is not appropriate whether you believe in God or not. You go there to learn, not to play dress up.
@@flowersandlace I’m just typing lazy calm down I’m not very religious I just have my beliefs, I type my name lowercase all the time it doesn’t mean I hate myself. Also either way just let women dress how they want, I understand one the outfits were bad but In my church we believe the human body is beautiful and a gift from God and should be allowed to be shown a little every now and then, you were completely avoiding the point of my comment
If she's talking about high school then I agree with dress codes. Don't need minors walking around with their chest and asses out. Once ya get to college then dress however the hell ya want.
@@lachlann4335 never ever! There’s nothing respectful, classy, or womanly about these outfits. What she is expressing is not what I’d want for my daughter 😒
@@milferdjones2573 When you enter a public place, you mudt abide by their rules. Exact same thing goes for the no shoes, no shirt, no service rule in stores. Just because you have freedom of speech, doesn’t mean you can say whatever you want and get away with it.
These outfits are completely fine. Why should wearing them have consequences? I'm from Sweden, we don't even have dress codes in our schools u could easily get away w wearing these outfits because it's not against our rules. They're not bad whatsoever. I definitely think some outfits can get extreme. But these are fine.
It's not about self expression, it's about professionalism. You go to school so you can learn the skills needed to succeed in your future career and be a functioning member of society. Outside of work and school, you have the entire rest of your life to express yourself however you want, but school is for learning and the idea that it's unreasonable for them to restrict you from wearing unprofessional clothing, when the entire point of school is to prepare you for a profession, is frankly stupid.
I don't think schools prepare a student for a profession. But they can teach you about life and how to express yourself as well - whether in reaching scientific and logical conclusion or in various forms of art be it literature and writing, or drawing painting or in athleticism.
@@user-jz2yd9qj3y Ok, so here's something for you to think about. What do you think people do immediately after they graduate their final level of schooling? If you said they tend to start working, you'd be right, since that's what school prepares you to do. You are right that schools can teach you about self expression, but you need to consider that they primarily teach you about when and where is the right place to express yourself. In a semi-professional environment where your performance depends on how you present yourself, like in schools, it is important for students to understand that self expression in the wrong place will be harmful to their progression through life. You can express yourself as much as you want, but you need to understand that if you choose to do that in environments like schools or workplaces you might have to deal with the issues that that can cause.
You seem to say that school prepares you for life, however it does not teach you how to pay taxes, regulate emotions, or treat people with common human decency (let’s be honest, high schools’ “zero tolerance policy for bullying” is always a lie). Even then, most teachers in my experience could care less about you learning any proper study skills. Not only that, but what about the kids who want artistic careers? I’ve witnessed so many people including myself lose our creativity because of school.
If anyone was listening…she acknowledges that the outfits are extreme, but the point is that the more we try to suppress people’s expression and blame people(mostly women) for poor performance, sexualization, and harassment based on the clothes they wear, the farther back in time we end up going gradually until we are living like edwardians, and women wear full skirts and can no longer even wear pants without judgement
I would wear a uniform, but on days like field day, some girls that had smaller thighs and butts would be allowed to wear shorts while people like me who have more weight there would get dress coded for the same shorts! Really frustrating as a little kid😢
I think people forget that school is essentially a work environment. You could walk into an office building wearing casual clothes realistically, but lingerie… you’ll probably be fined for public indecency 😭
I 100% agree with you. Some girl in the 6th grade got dress coded for wearing a cropped sweatshirt THE SCHOOL SOLD IN THEIR STORE. And anyways, if the boys are looking that’s how we know they need a good talking to. I should be able to be comfortable in what I wear, while learning shit I’m never gonna need in my life.
Anyone else notice how no guys complain they have dresscode too at some school they can't even where tanktops yet i have never once heard anyone say anything about it
@@Who8Lx this was about school everything else is irrelevant. However most places where you're supposed to be dressed such as city centres or anything like that require everyone to wear clothes full. I dont know where your from where all men just walk shirtless everywhere in summer but thats not allowed where i come from lmao
I grew up in a country with no dress code in public schools and it was great, no random predatory bs over some spaghetti strap tops , but i agree though people shouldn't wear lingerie to school 😅 nobody did so in ours, some girls just wore shorts and tops if they chose to same with the boys wearing shorts instead of knee length jeans in summer... it was all pretty normal!! Only thing you'd get called out for was wearing jeans at pe, of course! You needed to wear athleisure clothes!! 😊
We don’t have dress codes where I live. I think it’s so weird that children and teenagers get sexualized. If a teacher is distracted by the body of a student he really shouldn’t be working with minors! And so much for the American freedom:D
I am a woman and was administering an exam recently. A student of mine showed up wearing a knitted brah no shirt that barely did anything for her. That was inappropriate and unprofessional. There is a time and a place. You need to realise these rules not only have to do with "distractions" of the sexual kind, nor are these rules only implemented and for the benefit of men. You are in a professional and public setting and the world does not revolve around you. I dont need to sexualise my student to not want to see her tits. Its very simple actually.
Its a similar reason to why teachers teach kindergarteners to not talk while the teacher is talking. Its not because its distracting to the teacher and the teacher is rendered incapable of doing her job if they hear a childs voice. Its to teach them the appropriate way to behave. If someone is talking, dont just start a new conversation with your neighbor. If youre going to a place to learn something, dont show up in lingerie. Imagine if every girl in high school wore lingerie instead of clothes, it would make the dynamic weird af and extremely uncomfortable
@@JoanLPS2 Thats not an accurate comparison at all. Clothes are optional and mostly a form of self-expression. Talking is a action that can take many forms that can and cant be acceptable. A more accurate comparison would be if backpacks were coded and you could only have certain amount of keychains, accessories or even brands on the backpacks because its “too distracting”. Or if a certain brand of nail polish wasnt allowed because it was “too flashy” or “distracted the boys too much”. See how stupid this argument takes. Imagine taking this argument and reframing it around other issues. “Some work places only allow a certain brand of backpack”, “Schools are a place for learning which is why the backpack regulation is important”, “Wearing too small(or too little) of a backpack is not professional”. Albeit to play devil’s advocate there is a clear difference between clothes that are put on historically sexualized bodies and backpacks which have a much more neutral treatment, no one bothers to think that dress codes are inherently sexist, statistically targets poc and minorities, and the reasoning for said policy has shaky ground at best and pedophilic vibes at worst
@@seraphywang4638 sorry, I probably wasn't clear with my point. I was trying to make the point that the reason highly sexual clothing isn't appropriate for school isn't because it distracts the teachers or boys. School is a tool to teach children how to behave appropriately. They need to learn that there is a time and place for different outfits. That first white outfit shouldn't be worn to school. Do you think a 5 year old also be allowed to? A 9 year old? Not even talking about sick minded adults, but like is that a world anyone wants to live in? So hyper sexualized and for no good reason?what's the benefit of it?
They try to tell you how you should dress when in school and it doesn’t stop after. Now as a woman of 34 I get told by my whole family to dress more modest or that I shouldn’t be wearing this or that, and point is we should all be allowed to wear whatever we want as long as it’s not hurting anyone. We should be respected regardless of attire. I don’t even wear anything that shocking. I just boobs and a butt. I do what I want. 🤷🏼♀️
I'm portuguese and i can confirm that most of these outfits are pretty normal school outfits, especially in the summer. Everyone feels comfortable and we dont really need "dress codes" to stop us from being sexualized, just education and mutual respect.
Because skimpy dressed girls are clearly the most dangerous thing children could face in school. If they actually cared about safety they would actually do something about bullying other handing out a vacation with a strongly worded letter and implement some sort of measure to keep school shooters outside the school.
@@Rylus571 I understand that however it is still a form of protection. Just because they often are more important things at it at least it’s something. There is lots of issues with the system and in a perfect world peiple could wear what they want but there are still many many awful people
Putting aside freedom of expression, modesty, time and place, professionalism, etc… are these outfits even comfortable to wear? Walking around, going up and down stairs, sitting on public transportation, standing up or sitting down at desks, heck just staying warm. Is it worth the hassle of trying to make sure you don’t flash anything 😣
The entitlement is real. Most be a zoomer thing because I remember NOT wanting to get into trouble/dress coded. Maybe more hugs are needed for this girl to feel special xD
I’m a 25 year old woman who used to think in a similar way to you when I was younger. When I turned 12 all I cared about was boys liking me and being attractive to them (as that’s what happens to most girls at that age). So I really wanted to dress sexually/hot to appeal to boys. I came up with all of these “feminist” excuses as to why there shouldn’t be a dress code at my school like “why are these adults sexualizing my shoulders or legs”. When in reality I just wanted to sexualize myself. I am not trying to be mean but your outfits are very sexual and inappropriate. The older that I get the more of a “prude” I become. I don’t want random men to be able to get any pleasure from my body. As soon as I found my now husband, I stopped dressing in a revealing way, subconsciously. I think it’s just bc I had no need to “attract” a man anymore bc I found mine. Dressing more modestly makes me feel so much more comfortable, feminine, beautiful and safe. Anyways, I used to be 100% against dress codes, uniforms and makeup bans at school, but now I’m all for them if I ever had kids. In high school I would literally spend 2 hours every morning on my hair and makeup. When I really should’ve been doing the homework that I had neglected the day before. Rules, responsibilities and duties are a good thing. And we have them for a reason. Maturation is learning to respect the rules, boundaries and traditions that came before you ☺️
Inherently I disagree. As stated some of her outfits were purposely extreme just as a challenge but most looked cool and it’s mostly what people in university wear. Not to the same extreme but I enjoy loud extra fashion and makeup. A lot of what I wear is seen as “revealing” or sexy due to my body shape. I have no desire to seek the attention of others and I find most sexual things very uncomfortable. Having an extreme style preference doesn’t have to be for other people like it was for you. If you enjoy a more modest appearance that’s great. But I think having dress codes, makeup bans etc are unnecessary. All the attributes associated with teenagers don’t go away just cause there’s a rule or a ban. Teenagers will still be obsessed with there appearance, find each other sexually attractive, be irresponsible, and unprofessional. A dress code can’t change the fundamentals of how many people in there teen years act. Rules, boundaries and traditions can be a useful thing or be incredibly pointless or even harmful. All of those things are not sacred and can be changed. Personally I think the insistence of schools today about having a dress code is still rooted in the Purity Christian beliefs that the older generations still hold but who knows.
Dressing more modestly didn't make me feel safer when I was assaulted, regardless. I literally dressed like Billie Eilish and wore a hoodie every single day to school, no matter how hot it got. I almost passed out because I was making myself overheat, trying to cover myself up. The issue isn't the clothes itself, dress codes are mostly for controlling how the girls dress. At the schools I went to the guys could wear whatever they wanted, their only rule was no hats in school. While the girls have a long laundry list of specifications or what to wear and not wear. And as I said what we wear doesn't stop predators and creeps from preying on us. The whole point is that we need slightly less strict restrictions, especially when there are external conditions such as weather. In a different video, similar to this one, a girl in the comments said she was dress-coded for wearing a tank top but she wore it because the heat was over 100 degrees. Because heaven forbid she has her shoulders showing when she could literally pass out from heat exhaustion being forced to cover up more. Dress codes need to be more lenient and equivalent for all students, not just girls. And people need to be taught about consent and appropriate behavior way more than they are. Just banning things outright shouldn't be the go-to solution to solving everything. Instead, they should be educated on the consequences their decisions will cause. Educate them on what is appropriate to do and not do in varying relationships, go over a variety of scenarios based on what others are wearing, how they are acting, situational awareness, etc. Sometimes laying out options for them and letting them understand consequences is the best way to let them learn. Hold mock interviews where they dress in what they would wear to one. And constructively critique and encourage appropriate attire. Have themed days of what to wear on a vacation, a work trip, a college lecture, a grocery shopping trip, etc. There are ways to teach them how to dress that can be fun instead of strictly forcing them to conform to wearing specific things. The emphasis should be on educating that clothes don't determine consent, the person does. When kids are younger they are experimenting and learning about themselves, their style preferences, how to be appropriate, etc. Children learn best from experience sometimes.
Ive noticed as a large chested girl that dresscode is far more lenient on smaller chested women.
Same
Because they’re largely fetishised I sort of got this from Reddit so it may not necessarily be true. I’m large chested too and I can’t even wear a skinny stripped top without glares. It’s the same with people with bigger butts. Smaller chests simply aren’t viewed as something sexual to put it realistically and simply hence why models don’t have them as they’re deemed distracting and take away from the fashion. Applying that kind of perspective to school, well wearing the clothes we see in the video with a larger chest it draws a lot of attention in a “sexy” “seductive” sense even many of those who don’t have a large chest I see typically saying they want to be deemed more sexually attractive through having bigger boobs which pretty much proves my point because it’s a fetish even if teenage boys may not gaf. It is what it is ig it won’t be changing any time soon. But this is just my perspective :).
Double standard, I hope you you have pointed this out to the school
@@andzelinai particularly have a bigger chest for my age, my friend who doesn’t have a large chest, always wears these tops I could never wear. I’ve never gotten dress coded but I’ve seen people get dress coded for the stupidest reasons.
Lol true
1845:
“MM LET ME SEE THEM ANKLES GIRL 👺”
“fine I’ll send u painting 🙄💅”
WHY DID I LAUGH SO HARD AT THAT
also there were photographs in 1845! she doesn't have to send a painting anymore hooray
HELP I CANT BREATH why did the emojis make this comment funnier 😂
😂😂😂
1700’s Japan: “Yoooooo. Send neck paintings.”
LMFAO
Bro I wore a turtle neck to school and I get dress coded. Apparently it was to tight on the chesticles. But other girls with smaller chesticles be walkin around in sports bras and miniskirts
Oh wow! That’s wrong.
@@janelleguild3866Depending on how it looked, not really.
I’ll take the word of the op since I don’t know better either, but I can imagine a tight turtle neck looking all kinds of wrong on a minor with big breasts.
@@ernimuja6991 have you seen any clothing store recently? tight fitting shirts are like one of the biggest trends right now, it's hard for anyone with a larger chest to find anything that is deemed modest. even simple t-shirts can be "too tight." no one's going to wear a potato sack to school.
This is messed up. Gonna notice the breasts no matter what when they are large. People need to get over it instead of shaming children
@@its_a_palimino Then complain to the clothing department for not making clothes for ppl like that. Not the school for not allowing ill fitted clothes.
My schools dress code is literally “no showing private parts” someone showed up in basically a swim suit and no one said a thing.
I agree with your statement, that bodies shouldnt be sexualized. But at the same time when you go to work you expect other people to come in dressed appropriately, and for your 50 year old male boss to not come in skimpy shorts
This
School isn’t the same thing as a job... And there’s different kinds of jobs too. Why do you expect all jobs to be a corporate office workplace? She might go into fashion.
@@twostupidasianonecupnoodleso does that mean all teachers can wear mini skirts and shorts, which are more similar to pants? That's normal to have dresscoding at some places like office jobs, schools, colleges etc., wear whatever you want on your weekends.
@twostupidasianonecupnoodle school and college are what prepares you for a job
@@twostupidasianonecupnoodle if you're in school you/taxpayers/grants are paying for the privilege for you to attend. it's like renting housing; you get access to property in exchange for payment, but you play by the rules you signed under or you get disciplined. it's pretty simple when you have a modicum of life experience.
Girl wore LINGERIE and didn't get dresscoded
In what outfit?
none of it is lingerie
@@peepepsithe white one is, if you dont think its lingerie then youve sadly been too normalised to this stuff
Literally these girls want to basically be as sexualised as possible but pretend that it’s not ???? Are you guys ok???
@@frothingbubblesthat’s a literal good thing
Why is this tagged with modesty?
I was about to say that, love the style but..
Because its also talking about how we are forced to dress more modestly??
@@aviuxyoh noooo… you have to wear a full tshirt and pants to work and school… woe is meeeeeee this world is a prison I wanna dress like a hoe
@@aviuxyu should. Dressing slutty is for attention period. Good or bad
Quit doing it its werid
@@xoafallen6239ok taliban
Schools thinking exposed shoulders are distracting is probably one of the funniest things I’ve ever heard. Im a teenage male with hormones surging through the roof, and never once have I been tempted to stare at a girl’s shoulders.
The expectation is there for boys to cover most of their body too.
@@RuthvenMurgatroyd Don't even try to compare the two. I'm a 40 year old white male who grew up in an affluent town in the north east US and that is just completely ridiculous. Girls are OPPRESSED far FAR more than boys are, all because some men can't control their animal urges... that is THEIR problem... not the girls problem.
Yes but exposed thighs are distracting. Even teachers were distracted by thighs.
@@MysticMedallion bro, i have never been distracted by a thigh. It is just a body part.
@@QuinnQuell-yt3zm Have you not heard the phrase thicc thighs save lives? Thighs are hot especially when it kinda jiggles.
Fuck it I’m wearing a Speedo to school with one ball hanging out
Lmao
Lol Ew
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That’s right! YOUR body YOUR choice…… right 😅
I get what you mean but the problem is that dresscodes can be very onesided and while you certainly wouldn’t be allowed to have « one ball hanging out », which is understandable since it’s your private parts, girls can be forbidden from showing their shoulders which, from what I know, don’t have a sexual purpose.
I 100% understand the whole freedom to express yourself. BUT there is a HUGE difference with wanting to express yourself and wearing lingerie to school or anything that is too revealing. And schools have a dress code for a reason I'm not saying it's good bc I know they are unreasonable but still💀
These r cute and when does she have lingerie 💀
@@niak551 she wears a babydoll lingerie top in literally the first outfit
@youre764 ok but it doesn't look like she's going around looking for trouble most ppl won't even know its lingerie
@@niak551 you asked when she had lingerie, not why it’s bad to wear lingerie in a school building although I feel like the answer to that is pretty clear. It’s designed to be worn when you’re getting fückëd. School buildings are not 18/21 and over to enter and therefore people walking in don’t expect to see anyone wearing lingerie. If you don’t think something is appropriate to a 4 year old, it shouldn’t be outwardly warn in a building anyone of any age can enter. Also, just because you think something looks good on a certain person isn’t a reason you should be allowed to wear it. Do you want to see your grandmother walking around outside in lingerie? Or your 60 year old male boss in böötyshorts?
@@niak551she's literally doing this for attention. To get in trouble with dress code..
I can see who lets their kids wear this shit.
"Dress for the job you want."
In her case . . . OnlyFans! 🤣👍
Yea...
Rim job
Blowjob
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Yep! Only Fans for sure! I wonder if she knows this doesn’t encourage the best of men to come around….
@@Mithril170818 Law of Attraction determines what kind of souls show up, and even facilitates the soul’s efficiency at having a remark which best brings attention to any existing emotional injury.
It is possible to be free of emotional injury, dress however she likes, and still never attract unloving remarks. The comments to this video suggest she has once believed or also said what commenters say. Perhaps she can overcome past limiting beliefs by overcoming the emotional challenge of having to suit dress code expectations of others.
“hi, I’m cute so rules don’t apply to me” is a better phrase for this video.
Isnt that just the human desire? To see nice things? Pretty sure it's why the common person hasn't seen the inside of a slaughter house.
@nopenerp6862 and her reasons where bs. OP is right. A guy trys to pull this and they're getting sent home and then suspended.
@@VektrumSimulacrumyou say that as if regular school dress codes are even applied to boys or enforced when it comes to y’all 💀 I promise you no one would gaf you just want a reason to be angy and hate women
@@nopenerp6862 Pfff, I've been in high school before. I've seen the kind of crap guys try and pull. So do my family members that have worked in more than one school district for more than 30 years. They come to school in wife beaters and tank tops with the drawers hanging out. Showing too much, gang affiliation, whatever... both girls and boys do it. What's distracting is the time wasted dealing with something totally unrelated to educations. Slap on that uniform, sit your butt in a desk and stop trying to be edgy.
@@nopenerp6862 "oppressive beliefs". So one of them is an oppressive belief and the other is not the same thing. Yet the entire purpose is same for both, eliminate a distraction that comes from something not related to school work. You have to deal with the current reality of the situation, the raging hormones and lack of judgment in the age group we're talking about. What you're saying is just wishful thinking and giving the underdeveloped brains (and judgment) of the age group in question far too much credit.
When you have no problems create yourself one.
This generation summed up perfectly.
@@keeperofthe7keys1987nah I think it’s just americans
@@keeperofthe7keys1987america*
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Finally a comment that knows what's up. Even after having the freedom of not having to wear school uniforms, American kids still want to throw more fits.
My schools dress code is “if you can survive 3 days in it, you can wear it” seriously.
Slay bahahahahah
I unironically like that lol
And this is why uniforms are a great idea
No they aren’t I will pull out my essay about how they are not good. Imagine this your running late to school because your uniforms are in the dryer so you can’t go to school if you show up to school without your uniforms you’ll get suspended but if you go to school late you’ll get a tardy so what should you do or imagine that you have your uniforms but there to uncomfortable or if they are to thin and it’s too cold outside these are some of the reasons. Schools shouldn’t make students wear uniforms. Brit ann ica says that “School uniforms restrict students' freedom of expression. School uniforms promote conformity over individuality. School uniforms do not stop bullying and may increase violent attacks.”
Many students don’t like uniforms and most of the time schools use uniforms as a way of making the students listen or obey the rules but a lot of times if a person doesn’t like something they will resist it this causes the school to add more rules which again the students most likely will not like it’s a cycle. Clothes are a very popular way to express yourself and if you wear the same thing it will make you feel like you have to do what everyone is doing and only that.
A lot of people think that uniforms make lower bullying because everyone has the same clothes on so the bullies will stop bullying at least about their clothes but what about when you go outside of the school like on Field trips? A lot of people get bullied by other schools or they don’t but sometimes they whisper and if you see that it can be very hurtful. And a lot of people stereotype people who wear uniforms thinking they're snobby rich kids.
Uniforms make it hard for poor families because they have to buy the uniforms only in some cases the schools provide uniforms but that’s very rare. Uniforms cost about $150 or less and you have to get multiple pairs because you can’t wear them over and over because they will smell and you can’t wash them every day because they’ll get ripped that leads us to our next problem you have to have multiple pairs of uniforms and your normal clothes like shirts, pants all of those clothes and then you have your uniforms and if you have a lot of clothes you will need to get a bigger closet and closets cost a lot of money.
Studies have shown that uniforms don’t make students feel they belong in their school as much as people think, Studyfinds says, “…kids wearing a uniform actually reported feeling lower levels of school belonging than students who attended schools with no uniform requirements.” Schools shouldn’t make students wear uniforms because they are too expensive, they take up too much closet space, and many other reasons. Schools shouldn’t make students wear uniforms because they create more problems than they solve.
Not Reading allat 💀
Honestly I think that schools should supply free uniforms (with gov money). We have uniform in my school and the thought of some people having to choose a new outfit every day just seems stressful and time consuming
@@joshnatherainbow582where were you when i had to do a speech on this lmao 😭😭
@@EmzIsOnDaGame school project 💀💀
It's not just about sexualizing. In the end, that's SCHOOL, not a fashion show.
if a person wants to dress up more than someone else, that shouldn’t be shamed upon. like she said “freedom of expression” it’s normal to wear sweats and pjs to school so why not things like this 🤷♀️
school is a fashion show
@@staawree9554there’s a difference between people being straight up perverts, and people who r clearly uncomfortable that u have ur butt, boobs, and belly hanging out in a school environment! If this were a club or party, then that would be different.
But suddenly when people say that wearing literal lingerie to go to school is inappropriate, suddenly there disgusting perverts?! There clearly the ones with common sense for asking “why is it ok for people to wear inappropriate and extremely revealing clothes to a professional environment?”
Again, there’s a time and place to wear certain things. There’s also a line between expressing yourself/being comfortable in what ur wearing and just pushing the dress code way to far!
Well for something that isn’t a fashion show, schools really do like to think and talk about and judge clothes lmao. Might as well be on a runaway walking in front of judges
It's always about sexualizing ffs, all those rules were made by men who sexualize everything a woman does. You don't think it's weird that they tell young girls that the way they dress is asking for attention from a boy? And if a boy is distracted or doing something inappropriate, it's her fault? Why don't we jusy normalize the human body. We weren't even allowed to wear tank tops when it was super hot. The ac would be freezing but no jackets were allowed. What kind of sumb rules are these? You're delusional
In England we have uniforms for this exact reason
To stop people from doing this
hate uniforms. I had them at my old school, hate them. They're ugly and expensive. I enjoy expressing myself with clothes. And trust me, most americans do not wear these outfits to school.
Honestly, there are days I really wish we had uniforms in America so I didn't have to deal with people who don't care about the dress code and people who are absolute zealots about it. I swear, the debates about crop tops and tank tops make me want to box my own ears.
@@XMillyyXthey’re not necessarily expensive tho. You can get cheap uniform in the UK for most schools, as it’s just basic trousers / skirts and shirts. Then only thing is if you have to buy a blazer / jumper with the school logo on, but it’s really not that bad. And everyone is wearing the same.
I know this is going to be an unpopular opinion but I actually like school's a lot more that had a dress code because not only did I know what I was going to be wearing everytime I was going to school but had less laundry to do!
Youre smart
Dressing appropriately shouldn’t have to be a hindrance of expression. There’s a time and a place for every outfit.
Would you wear white gown to a wedding?
A T-shirt and jeans to prom or graduation?
A bikini to work on a 105 F day? (If you don’t work at the beach)
There’s a difference between party clothes, casual, and professional attire.
If you don’t have the creativity to come up with cute appropriate attire within the realm of what’s allowed, that’s a you problem, not a problem with the system.
The fact that you seek to break it with the most ostentatious outfits you can find is a cry for attention, not expression.
BuT fReEdUmB oF eXpReSsIoN is freedom from oppression. This girl should visit Tehran and liberate some of the women folk
Well said .. I was so furious I could type it that well
This comment sums it up perfectly
School is for learning, it's not a goddamn dressing contest.
So why do you care so much for what she’s wearing? If it’s not a contest why are you jealous for what she wears cannot and will not hurt you.
@@imsippinonsimpjuice2531 You're completely missing the point.
@@imsippinonsimpjuice2531I've never seen someone miss the point so badly lmfao
It is tho, just that you didn't have that experience
“It’s not a goddamn dressing contest” so why judge? Please explain your point since it’s so hard to understand
An outfit is not just an outfit, you cant go to school with a bathing suit on or lingerie and get mad bc the school dress coded you, I’m not saying that’s what she did but that’s exactly what she’s saying…The schools have a dress code for a reason, yeah some of the stuff they have like oh cover ur shoulders is stupid but I see why they have them in place lol.
Ok but if I were the principal and she came in any one of those outfits I wouldn't dress code her. Like none of them sexualize her ppl r just so over the top sometimes
@@niak551she wore a lingerie lmao
@@Italsikit was a lace top. many tops look just like that. lingerie can too, but you cant just call it lingerie because it looks like that
@@simplychocolate7409 It actually is a lingerie top. There's nothing wrong with it ofc, but it isn't very appropriate for something like school. We don't have to make it such a big deal.
Clothes don't sexualise you, people do.
If your on your own having a bath it's nit sexual is it?
Why does it suddenly become sexual around people?
Sometimes rules are made to PROTECT YOU.
Because our shoulders and ankles turn men on so much that they cannot concentrate.
@@deadsetondreams1988girl be serious rn. The shoulder bs is outdated and we all know it but how about don’t go to school in freaking lingerie bc that’s just not appropriate anywhere except in bed and in a nightclub???
@@ThisUserPassedAway If "the shoulder bs is outdated" then why is there still a requirement on the size of a strap you can wear?
Y E S !!!! But she's so in love with herself that she cant see past the nose on her face. Where's her Mom and Grandma???
I'm sorry we should be teaching men and boys to be respectful and to control themselves instead of perpetuating rape culture by saying "rules are made to protect you". How about rules to punish creepy and rapey dudes.....
This is like a guy coming to school clear panties wearing only a slightly see through t shirt and then saying “I don’t expect people to look at me”
She didn't say she didn't expect anyone to look at her. Who cares if people look at her? If you can't keep your animal urges in check that is YOUR problem, not hers. THAT is her point. Stop making your barbaric problem with self-control into other people's problem.
@@Chris-xo2rq that’s cool lil bro
@@FarawayFragrance How old are you? What kind of a reply is that? You have nothing valuable to say?
@@Chris-xo2rq nope. what you said initially wasn’t valuable enough to formulate a response to
@@FarawayFragrance What if instead of judging you for your clothes I judged you for your lame hobbies? Dioramas and model kits? Lol what are you a pre-teen boy? How does that feel? Why can't you just be nice to people instead of judging them?
Omg all these comments saying that she wore lingerie and im tired of it, just because an outfit has LACE doesnt mean its lingerie 💀
There’s a time and place for everything .
School isn’t for lingerie .
Lingerie? Where? I don’t see any.
@@MrAwesomeSolosthe very first, “outfit”
@@why8298 Oh no she showed a little bit of her stomach! Call the cops! 🙄 It’s only an issue if you make it one. The only people distracted by it are creeps and perverts.
@@MrAwesomeSolos the only reason someone would wear something like that is for the attention of those, “creeps” and “pervs.” Women should not be out here dressing like hookers to feel good about themselves what kind of fucking message is that?
@@MrAwesomeSolosLol projection. "Im not the weird one for dressing like a hooker you are for noticing"
I work for the state and if I rolled up in an outfit like this in my office, I’d be written up lol. There’s a time and place.
Yes.
I also work for the state and our dress code is more lenient compared to that of a traditional office setting. Some of these outfits would cross the line and I’ve seen people come in with tattoos all over their arms, tattoos over their head, crazy colored hair.
@@ComaLies225 I am covered in tattoos, so that’s not a big deal where I am. I also am an elder emo, so I consistently look like I’m going to a metal concert, lol. But the showing excess skin and things like that, would never fly.
Okay but you chose to work there? School isn’t a choice
@@ericaneighbors6764 but isn’t she in college? At that point, it is a choice. In grade school, there are ridiculous dress codes, and I had one, but you don’t get a say.
Im in an arts school and some people are nearly naked. Be happy you have a dress code to a certain extend. The amount of times I saw free ass and free boobs are very unpleasant.
Sometimes its worth considering the other side, there's a reason why flashing is considered a crime.
Just because you love yourself doesn't mean other people want to see it. Love yourself inwardly.
@@twister1154 you're talking as if I'm the one flashing. I wear oversized sweaters and jeans😭
wdym by free ass, free boobs? (they dont take apple pay??/ oorrr jokes aside) i dot get it, ws the boobs like a low cut shirt? bc a low cut shirt is very different from coming in in yuour regular bra
@Strawberrybby132lmao that's a kid that's normal. why are you sexualizing a 5 year old you weirdo
@Strawberrybby132 exactly either the people in these comment threads are pedophiles or ignorant its there for a reason.
Girly pops some of those aren’t even that revealing I fully support you
Dress codes are put in place so you look respectable during school, it’s like us Australians we have uniforms at school to have pride in our school
Most of the time dress code is sexualization . Or atleast in America it is
@@HourglassDog331 it’s not, but I guess you didn’t read the comment.
@@iammehican1018 I said America but I guess you just didn’t understand my comment
@@iammehican1018she dont even know what shes talking about. Never seen an american dresscode that aims to sexualize. If anything some schools are lenient. My schools didnt want skirts to be anything higher than 4 inch above knee cap and no crop tops showing belly or low cut tops.
You could think that and I'm sure that can be true for some people, but adults can be very cunning and never say their true meaning.
I agree but I just want to wear normal clothes not lingerie or mini skirts. I got dress coded wearing a jacket that covered my shoulders while leaning over because my cleavage was showing. I also got dress coded for an inch of skin showing through some of my ripped pants.
As someone mentioned, there is the place and the time for all outfits. But school/work should be more modest and it’s more about being professional/classy etc that showing off XD
When you're young and are forced to be somewhere for 8 hours and that's where your social circles is, you need to be able to express yourself. Work is different.
@@mkg2124 express yourself fully after school… at school express yourself while still keeping it modest imo
Plus if you need to wear almost no clothes (here not that bad, mostly the first one was problematic, but lots of people do “lingerie as clothes” thing)
to be able to “express yourself” maybe you should think about it some more
@@mkg2124You can express yourself as a teen or pre-teen without wearing lingerie or revealing clothing. And I'm not saying people who cover up don't get sexually assaulted or harassed or raped because they do. But what I'm saying is most teens don't express their style through clothing like this. And tbh if someone was wearing revealing clothing to school, I feel like the only reason other kids would be looking is to wonder why the heck a minor is coming to school looking like they didn't bother putting on clothes that day. This is coming from a pre-teen btw so I don't have as much knowledge as full grown adults so take my words with a grain of salt
@@thisiscloudiiByeah i think if someone came to my school looking like this everyone would think they were a whore and a slut 🤷♀️
I don’t think she deserves all this hate, as she’s just trying to rebel against her school dress code. Maybe some ppl don’t agree with that, but she really is just trying to show her school that stupid rules don’t apply by wearing outfits that are made for the dress code. Plus, she said that a lot of the outfits are way extreme for her and she wouldn’t normally wear outfits like these to school.
Girl you can dress trendy & fashionable and still stay within the dress code. I did when I was in high school.
Surprised her parents let her tbh
Any place that you go to is going to have rules that you need to respect. It's not always about normalising bodies.
Right being told to cover up my shoulder so I don't distract the boys is kind of ridiculous.
I don't understand why these rules are placed and why they get so bothered by it other than jealousy but ok
@@niak551the rules arent there because anyone is jealous and neither are they there because of the boy students. Its for lurking male staff that may have weird paraphillias. Not all offenders are convicted offenders and you would be surprised how much stuff happens in a school setting at the hands of faculty staff
@@mystery9irl887 sounds like a bs argument to me. Especially because it's pointless to make rules trying to "shield" students from paraphilias, considering how many there are and how weird those can be. I mean, even if you go full Burka, there are people who would get turned on by that. And it wouldn't actually do anything to stop abuse; if anything, it makes it easier, by teaching kids to hide their bodies, to be ashamed, and feeding the insecurities which predators exploit to abuse their victims.
By contrast, proper sex ed - starting before kids even hit puberty - actually prevents abuse, by informing the students to recognise the signs of grooming, why it is bad, and encouraging them to speak out.
Edit: upon a second read I think I misunderstood your argument - you're saying that the rules are _examples_ of paraphilias, rather than trying to shield against them? Makes more sense.
@@braelynnmarie8590You’re right, screw other people and being mindful. It’s me me me me me.
I’m a bit of a bigger person, and by bigger, I mean I’m fatter and I have bigger curves. If I wore anything remotely similar to these outfits, I’d get dress coded immediately
Just cuz she has pretty privilege does not make what she did right, and it doesn’t make you getting dress coded wrong.
@@ernimuja6991 I don’t think that’s what she’s saying at all. I think she’s saying that the bodies of thin people, people without curves, not scrutinized the same way fat or curvy bodies are. When I wear a low cut dress, it’s immediately “sexy” bc I have larger breasts, but if a thin girl wore the same thing, people wouldn’t necessarily have the same reaction. I’m tall and somewhat thin, but I’m very much an hourglass shaped woman, and I’ve experienced this exact thing countless times.
This all being said, I am aware that my body is sexualized more often than not, and I dress accordingly.
@@missmiadelrey Well yeah, but what are you trying to say? If the effect is sexual, then cover up so you don’t impose to much on your fellow human.
Although male bodies are not sexualized, kind of the same effect but opposite outcome can be seen with the feeling of disgust. If you are a good looking guy, you can wear whatever you want, but if you’re a fat out of shape man then you better cover because people will be disgusted looking at you and your beer gut.
So whether you’re imparting feeling of disgust or lust on others, the socially accepted consensus is to cover up. Most people are just trying to get through the day without being distracted by either and your dress choices should not affect hundreds of people’s days.
It sucks that those whose existence has a neutral effect on others i.e. good looking men and skinny women can do whatever they want, but it is what it is. And this should be a compromise to some extent, obviously no one’s advocating trench coats.
But there should be some effort on your part to not impose your being into my life.
You shouldn’t and she shouldn’t either. As a student who made As in high school, what you wear and how you look is irrelevant. So you shouldn’t be stopped from wearing what you want to. Curvy, big, small, flat or not.
Schools should offer uniforms appropriate for the size and shapes of all of their students and regular exercise and healthy eating should not only be encouraged but expected of everyone in every school outside of university.
Honestly most schools in Canada have no dress code. So you could wear any of these things to school anyways, thing is… no one does. Because it’s unnecessary. There’s always that one girl who shows up in a bra but everyone silently judges and keeps wearing comfortable clothes that fit the place.
to be fair, most of the year it is freezing cold in Canada and almost all of her outfits she would be complaining about being cold.
At least they have the choice, I'm sure that if this girl had the choice, she wouldn't wear this either. It's that paradox that the more you forbid something the worst teens do it lmao 🤦🏻♀️
same here in finland
You need to be in harder classes if you have time to care what someone else does.
@@Alex-cw1ph they’re not even in my classes- you see them in the halls flirting w just about every guy they make contact with 💀 lil hard not to take notice after a few years of that I’d say?
I feel it's reasonable to have a dress code or a uniform as it let's students focus on what they are going to Institutions for ...EDUCATION!
And it's supposed to be a place of rules,regulations and decency
And also uniform erases the difference in social status, so kids cannot judge each other based on one another's clothes.
@@_Veronika_00 yes , so true. After all inferiority and superiority rises due to status whenever it comes into play , and I think its a must for uniform to be there until they reach a certain age so that the kids minds can broaden their horizon.
@@_Veronika_00No instead they bully each other with something they can’t change like their face
Then the rules, regulations, and decency need to be reevaluated cause young girls are overly dress coded for things young boys freely wear.
Yes exactly
So lingerire should be normalized then?
@chelseaupton4864did you miss it?
@@alecocothunder8277miss what
their is no lingerie but okay..
u proved her point.
living in a free country people should be allowed to wear lingerie. it’s not about something being normalized, it’s about the option to wear it. it’s a first amendment right. if you feel uncomfortable by it, look away and continue on with your day.
School does not need lengirie, or very revealing clothes, like I get it- maybe one inch to short or a little bit of shoulder but even if I were a teacher I wouldn’t let you wear those, THATS THE DEFINITION OF ACTUALLY DISTRACTING. (Deleted this part bc some people think I’m talking about all S/A it’s lingerie grow up)
ain’t no way you called a SHOULDER distracting 💀
@@blenderrat no shoulders are fine. I think I wrote it wrong but shoulders are fine 💀
Victim shaming at its finest...I don't care what people wear, no one is "asking for it." I was wearing the baggiest clothes ever when I was assaulted the first time. I literally was dressing like Billie Eilish in shirts and pants. And I wore a hoodie every single day to school. No matter how hot it got, almost actually passing out as a result of it a few times.
There are literally videos on UA-cam and museum displays of what people were wearing when they were assaulted and some of the outfits cover them head-to-toe. In one of the most recent ones I saw one of the outfits was a literal head-to-toe ski suit!
Saying you're a girl so you can say that is disgusting...I don't care how much skin you are or aren't showing. That doesn't give anyone consent for anything. No one is asking for it no matter the circumstance!!
@@deadsetondreams1988 it’s not victim shaming and I’m sorry that you got assaulted. I’m not talking about baggy clothes- I’m talking about Lingerie at school.
@casiylyn2cute Saying someone is asking for it because of how they dress is victim shaming. No matter how you try to spin it in your favor. Claiming that isn't what you are talking about. When you said, “wearing lingerie means you're asking for it.” What did you mean by asking for it then?
Even if you're at a nude beach and completely naked, you aren't asking for anything to happen to you. In no circumstance are people asking to be targeted because of how their bodies look.
Some people skip school altogether so would you rather they skipped it completely. Or actually showed up to it wearing something they feel confident in. Obviously, schools can put limitations but she's covered. And the point of these is literally to purposefully push school dress codes which nothing pushes it far like lingerie. Which didn't even get her dress-coded anyway because it could easily pass as a normal top.
A lot of lingerie looks the same as someone wearing a bathing suit, the only difference a lot of time is lingerie usually has lace. Yet bathing suits can be worn in public. The last time I went to an adult shop a lot of the items they had literally looked like normal clothes. They were just in the shop because a brand that usually makes lingerie made it. I actually got several really cute tops from the same shop that my friends were getting other items from.
The point of my comment is that whether people are wearing very little clothes or a ton of clothes, it will happen regardless. Woman's clothes will usually be deemed distracting and inappropriate even though what should happen is teaching people that no matter what people wear, clothing shouldn't make them a target. Rules should be less strict and lenient for different weather circumstances. Instead, of telling girls I'd rather have you pass out in a turtle neck and jacket because others may be distracted that you biologically have a chest. That men are allowed to show freely but heaven forbid you have extra fat in that area, then it has to be covered in all circumstances.
Telling people they need to "grow up" is a clear sign that you are immature. It's the childish equivalent of using the comeback, "I know you are but what am I?"
If you read a lot of the comments from people saying their school actually doesn't have a dress-code. They literally are saying their school has had no issues that they've witnessed. Maybe if we realized that they are children growing up and they need to learn somehow they can learn what is appropriate themselves. Teach them respect, boundaries, consent, and what they will be expected to wear once they enter the work force. Then they can “get it out of their system.” Wearing clothing that might seem inappropriate while they are still in a school setting.
“i believe in wearing whatever you want” You pulled up to math class wearing LINGERIE 💀
"Well, I figured that it would help the boys learn about *curves* and *topology* . By the way, what are we covering next chapter?"
Game Theory.
"OK, then I guess that I'll wear my Princess Peach dress!"
Go to the principal's office, young lady! I'm revoking your *deriver's* license!
1. It's not lingerie. 2. So what even if she did? She's completely covered... it's nothing more than you'd see at a public beach or pool. If OTHER PEOPLE can't handle their animal urges how is that her problem? That is THEIR problem.
@@Chris-xo2rq And going to a beach and going to a class is EXTREMELY different. This just plain unnecessary. By your logic there should be nothing strange about someone pulling up to their math class wearing just a bikini. Just ridiculous
@@lemonorange4218 I don't see why. Maybe it will teach men to control their animal urges like civilized people... someone should start teaching people how to do that.
@lemonorange4218 Why are you in such a bitch ass math class that you have the energy to care that someone is wearing something? I can think of far more distracting things than bikinis and even naked people
I would get suspended for wearing most of those to school, our dress code is ridiculous, no sweatpants, no shorts not even boys, no tight fitting shirts, tight fitting dresses, tight fitting skirts, or too tight fitting pants, and no crop tops or tank tops
So you can't wear, skirts, sweatpants, or pants?!? What does one wear on the bottom half then?
Same my dress code is strict not too short pants not too skinny pants, no crop tops, no shoulders, no jackets with hoodies even if u don't use it and u can't even use a jacket that isn't the school's like-
@@BrooklynsYT baggy jeans
@@BrooklynsYT when I said pants I meant tight fitting pants or skirts or dresses, we are allowed to wear jeans but they can't be skinny jeans and we are allowed to wear dress and skirts too but they can't be tight fitting
@@LilBair27 oohh ok
God I am so happy my school has uniforms.
You're so luckyyyyy
as much as i hate my uniform i’m honestly glad we have it
That is so depressing.... You're in the biggest stage of your life where you develop your personal style and find out which person you want to be, and you're restricted by a misogynistic system that has only been put in place so creepy old male teachers don't get distracted by teenage girls. You're forced to spend 90% of your days stripped from your personality, to be nothing more but a number. Usually people that are forced to wear uniforms as a teenager tend to dress inappropriately for work later, since they have no sense for style and when which style is appropriate. If you're just developing your personal style by the age of 20, by the time you're starting a job you won't know what style is appropriate for the work place and what is appropriate for private matters. And the saddest part is you're thinking the school is doing you a favour :( I pity you, poor innocent soul, and I hope you'll be able to find your way later in life ❤️ chin up little soldier
@@Mina-rf3nw I’m pretty sure most of that isn’t true. Uniforms were created to bring equality in schools. Just because we wear uniforms at school, does not mean we are “restricted” or have “no sense of style”. We actually have a lot of time out of uniform, where we can wear our own clothes. Uniforms aren’t some depressing, sad idea that was intended to hurt, it was actually so everyone felt equal and happier at school. As much as my uniform can be annoying, i would much prefer it any day over being picked on over my outfit choice. Schools honestly are doing us a favour.
@@Mina-rf3nwit's not that deep mate 💀
Typa girl to stand by freedom of speech as long as it doesn't offend her
fr
sounds like her outfits offend you, you're projecting
@@aliceliddell8413I'm offended. She goes to school dressed like a slut and i had to turn one of my shirts inside out because it said "pull my finger"
@@aliceliddell8413Sounds like she’d be easily offended at what I had to say about her outfits
"why I broke the rules" - "I'm a special individual look at me look at me look at me"
It’s all about finding a middle ground, don’t be ridiculously strict and don’t wear super inappropriate clothing.
I’m glaring at the guys who would wear THOSE anime sweatshirts at school and not get kicked out.
YES!
but but, UwU
BOYS NEED TO KEEP IT IN THEY'RE MINDS
AND THEIR CRUSTY ASS PANTS
it's not the boys, its the teachers
It's not about boys! It's a high school not a night club. There is no reason to be showing your stomach and wearing lingerie. There is a time and a place to wear what you want, school ain't it.
so as someone in school, not only is chest size an issue, but height. I’m friends with a girl who is 5’2. I’m 5’9. Same grade, etc. anyways we wore matching outfits to school one day, specifically the same shorts. I got dress coded because my shorts were to short. I thought it was stupid because my friend didn’t get dress coded. Our shorts were the same length. I didn’t wear shorts the rest of the year.
Omg im so sorry about that and a similar thing even happened to me :(
As someone with long legs, I felt this. Normal length dresses look short on me, which I wouldn’t mind if dress codes weren’t written so strictly. Even when I wear leggings underneath I’m still scared someone’s gonna be weird about it. That’s more distracting to myself than anything I wear 😪
This to cus short skirts on shorter girls look fine but on us its "too short"
I freaking feel that, I have bigger assets as well so normal things don't cover me as much and appear shorter. I have a big chest and a big butt so everything instantly becomes higher on me. I wore a dress to work one day and I already tested it, it does reach fingertip length but I wore an extra long cardigan over it so absolutely nothing would show. Unfortunately, the longer I wear the dress the more it shifts around. So sometimes I have to readjust and pull it up to cover the girls more, and other times I pull it down to make sure it's long enough.
And of course, I was called in to talk about my outfit. I explained my issues and they let it slide because my cardigan was long enough to ensure no issues would happen. I basically just held it closed as much as possible for the rest of the shift because getting talked to made me feel even more self-conscious than I already usually am.
Most things come in 1 length and 1 size which is created on a tiny mannequin so most ladies clothes doesn't work well on women with more curves. It took me most of my life covering myself on purpose. Finally wearing dresses was a huge milestone for me and my mental health. And it's just frustrating to say the least.
I think that schools should supply free uniforms (with gov money). We have uniform in my school and the thought of some people having to choose a new outfit every day just seems stressful and time consuming plus having to abide to dress codes with a bunch of rules would just lead to students petitioning for no rules
I think this rocks. A lot of woman shaming in the comments 🙄
Well, modesty isn’t a bad thing either.
I understand if your school doesn’t allow shoulders and you do this to prove a point but if your school doesn’t care if you show your shoulders and they just have basic boundaries like your shorts or skirt have to reach your fingertips or no crop tops or not too short crop tops etc. then there just setting boundaries for being appropriate in a school/business setting. Schools have dress codes for a reason. Once you reach the age of getting a full time job in an office, attire that shows too much skin could get you written up or worse.
(Please note I’m not hating on her I’m just informing for those who don’t completely understand why schools have dress codes)
Wears lingerie to school- "don't sexualize me 🤬!!"
carries wallet “don’t rob me 🤬”
@@fo7kloreBad analagy. More like: Blatantly displaying a lot of cash whilst asking not to be robbed.
@@fo7klorehii
Nothing there is lingerie?
@@marcwilliams9824 why are u victim blaming lmao
Sis this is real life,not euphoria 🤦♀️
It’s her choice not yours
@@moldyy_cloudfr
Girl has style, she gotta show it off somehow
@@moldyy_cloudfr tho
bro shut up stop being such a prude ppl are allowed to dress how they want
Americans..
No fr
Agreed
I’m an American and I dress modestly. Don’t paint everyone with one brush.
@@rosea2350 it's not about dressing modestly, it's about making a deal out of everything, It's like we can't go a week without someone trying to break the rules thinking they're a hero for doing it, rules exist for a reason, they protect you and protect others.
Yep most of Europe doesn’t know a thing about free speech
If dress code is all it takes to block freedom of speech than no matter how much freedom already exists people will always feel like they are being inhibited from expressing themselves. Who you are will be clearly visible and memorable by the words you speak and the actions you display the rest is external. I don’t mean this as a hate comment but people especially the impressionable youth really need to stop worrying about the external and focus on the internal, what makes you an individual and how that stands out.
Exactly
It’s whats inside that’s gonna make you a unique individual
Its school , usually I just wear pajamas😀
My school doesn’t even let us wear pajamas or pajama looking clothes cuz they think it’s ’unprofessional’ Like, bro, it’s not inappropriate at all, not distracting, and not disadvantageous. My school is doing too much 😭
REALLL
No way I wish I could too, if my teachers saw me wearing pj's they'd be FURIOUS
People out here in uproar about dress codes when in the UK we are still forced to wear uniform for most schools that we go to… it’s really not a big deal.
Right, I think girls and women all around the world should have to wear burqas and hijabs... that would fix all our problems (I'm being sarcastic... It IS a big deal, it's called OPPRESSION).
Wait you are an HS? I thought you were in your 20's
I think she’s 27 so I’m confused
Because she dresses like an adult in her 20s
She is in her 20’s. She might be going to a University.
@@rosea2350college also counts as school so maybe that?
College's also have dress codes
I get what you mean, but it’s all fun and games until someone comes to school with a bra and or with no shirt
Which is why the dress code shouldn’t be overly strict or
Lenient it should just be reasonable
@@imcrazyideashackowner2681 agreed
We dont have dresscodes in German schools. I never heard of something like that happening lmao. I think dresscodes are unnessecary. Its your own problem if you cant concentrate bc your horny af 🤷♀️
Has happened in my HS when I was in 10th grade someone wore a bandana as a shirt to school no bra 😂 also didn't get dresscoded
@@UA-camCat-ie1pc yeah I get that, but the horny isn’t from the people looking only, it’s also from poeple wearing the clothes, especially teenagers wearing like the smallest tank top they can find and flexing. Also teen pregnancy is also a reason. My solution is basically reasonable dress code, and discipline on controlling your urges.
I'm sure the guys at school are very happy with your attempts to normalize mini skirts and lingerie.
Men should be careful what we wish for. I'm imagining all the people in public we don't want to see in mini skirts and lingerie🤢
And desire to poke her kitty
Happy sure, but i doubt any of them will respect her, these outfits means she is only good for "fun" not long term relationships
@@Shockkings0714 your mom still earned a living doing it. Yet your not walking around calling her a 304 are you.... I mean We are, ...but your not, and .... that's the point. You still found it within ur self to be nice back to ur mum. Try it on a different person
@@dsdgdsfegfeg My mom is a self respecting and hard working woman. Not an attention seller like all the other short/tiktok content creators.
So you mean schools should let you dress like a stripper and if they don't they're being ridiculous??? Only in the US you can see this kind of stupidity 😐
How did she dress like a stripper ?
Pretty sure We're talking about universities here
They would put a pole in the lunchroom but, more guys would use it than girls these days...
We like freedom and don't like oppression. You can force your women to wear Burqas and Hijabs if you want but here you can do what you want as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else... and the outfits she is wearing DO NOT hurt anyone else.
I definitely disagree. Some of the outfits are really not appropriate especially for school. There's a reason why in church you should cover up
Ok boomer
That's church, which is different. Plus not everyone goes to church.
What does church have to do with school? Lol
The fact is there are dress codes in schools, certain events, restaurants, and at company’s you will be working for or that you may be in charge of. It’s important to remember there’s a time and place for everything. You are representing your school, your work (whether you like it or not), etc, so dress appropriately for the event, school, or place of business. And know that you can always wear whatever you want on your OWN TIME.
THAT ONE???? I thought it was gonna be the first one for sure, all of them are adorable though
Dress codes were made for people like you. Your actions won't make them roll back the dress code, but it will make them expand it. Brilliant plan.
Dress codes were made because of misogyny.
I hate sharing a planet with people like you. Nothing she wore revealed anything you wouldn't see at a public beach or pool. If you can't suppress your animal urges that is YOUR problem, not hers.
Dress codes were made to oppress peoples thinking make them conform to the rules be good sheap for the military industrial complex and for women to make them obey men. Every culture that oppresses women makes them cover their bodies.
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I AGREE 100😊
Most of these outfits except like two are completely normal and acceptable, idk why everyone in the comments is freaking out like u were wearing just a bra and underwear or something 💀💀
Same, most of these look completely appropriate 💀
It's probably different in parts of US but here in EU where I live, 80% of these are fine for school lol.
That's why schools should have uniform 🤝
kind of disagree, there’s a time and place to wear outfits like these. If you’re js going out it’s fine but if it’s school or work then you’re not really doing anything but embarrassing yourself by wearing them, and the “freedom of speech” thing is getting really old bc y’all use that as an excuse not to follow rules lol
But the dress code is always extreme like if it’s a warm day and you wear a tank top, the boys can wear any size of straps but the girls, their straps need to be more than 3 fingers. Then if you wear shorts and the boys can have any length of shorts but girls shorts need to be longer then arm length and if you break these rules you can possibly get sent home or get suspended. I do agree with you but at the same time girls don’t TRY and get everyone’s attention everywhere in the school. My point is that the girls get all these rules and the boys in most schools don’t have as many.
how is she embarrassing herself by expressing her fashion sense? if urs differs, just state so without judging.
you know it’s all a social construct right lmao society teaches you to be ashamed of your body and tells you that “respect” is by covering it. it’s all bs
its not embarrassing when those outfits look good
That's the problem, we should wear whatever we want it doesn't matter th situation, I 100% agree with her
I love all these outfits!! And some dress-codes really need to calm down like there is nothing wrong with showing shoulders wtf and people need to chill in these comments
I agree. There's nothing wrong with showing thighs either and more girls should be encouraged to wear short shorts.
In Germany we have nude beaches, everyones nude in the sauna, women are tanning topless at swimming lakes etc.
A naked human body isnt seen as something sexual per se.
We also dont have dresscodes in schools. Never heard of any problems with it. If youre horny and cant concentrate, thats your own problem🤷♀️
There are different cultures in every country.
And by the past I mean
currently where I live in Utah. 🫠
The point is, where
does it stop?? Shoulders, hair,
our faces.. should women not
be allowed in public? Just
some things to think about 🤍
a respectable woman dresses respectfully, honouring God by dressing modestly and not like a prostitute.
✨ Just something to think about ✨
@@flowersandlace I’m a christian but you went way too far. I get it I don’t like she wore lingerie to school either but calling her a prostitute is a bit far fetched, our bodies are beautiful and a creation of god so why do you call her a prostitute when she is showing a bit of skin?
@@TeaNausea firstly - it’s God with a capital G. Show Him the respect He deserves! 😊
secondly, I didn’t call her a prostitute, I insinuated that she is dressing and presenting herself like one 😄🙏
@@flowersandlaceMaybe she is not religious, which is totally okay. Everyone has their own beliefs, but in the name of God or anything else, I think we can all agree that dressing like this to school is not appropriate whether you believe in God or not. You go there to learn, not to play dress up.
@@flowersandlace I’m just typing lazy calm down I’m not very religious I just have my beliefs, I type my name lowercase all the time it doesn’t mean I hate myself. Also either way just let women dress how they want, I understand one the outfits were bad but In my church we believe the human body is beautiful and a gift from God and should be allowed to be shown a little every now and then, you were completely avoiding the point of my comment
If she's talking about high school then I agree with dress codes. Don't need minors walking around with their chest and asses out. Once ya get to college then dress however the hell ya want.
As a woman, I think minors should not be allowed to dress like HOOKERS IN SCHOOL!
A reasonable person in the comments finally. Im worried about this generation of kids. I would never let my child dress like this
@@lachlann4335 never ever! There’s nothing respectful, classy, or womanly about these outfits. What she is expressing is not what I’d want for my daughter 😒
@@lachlann4335there’s kids in my hs in just bras and short shorts 💀
@@oceans6517 As an adult, minors dressing in underwear is never okay and never will be okay.
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What a good day to appreciate my school having uniforms
That’s not freedom of speech, that’s freedom from consequences.
It is freedom of speech but many think it must be curtailed in school.
@@milferdjones2573 When you enter a public place, you mudt abide by their rules. Exact same thing goes for the no shoes, no shirt, no service rule in stores. Just because you have freedom of speech, doesn’t mean you can say whatever you want and get away with it.
freedom of speech is beign able to vote and have rights, not wearing short clothes just to look cute bruh @@milferdjones2573
These outfits are completely fine. Why should wearing them have consequences? I'm from Sweden, we don't even have dress codes in our schools u could easily get away w wearing these outfits because it's not against our rules. They're not bad whatsoever. I definitely think some outfits can get extreme. But these are fine.
It's not about self expression, it's about professionalism. You go to school so you can learn the skills needed to succeed in your future career and be a functioning member of society. Outside of work and school, you have the entire rest of your life to express yourself however you want, but school is for learning and the idea that it's unreasonable for them to restrict you from wearing unprofessional clothing, when the entire point of school is to prepare you for a profession, is frankly stupid.
I don't think schools prepare a student for a profession. But they can teach you about life and how to express yourself as well - whether in reaching scientific and logical conclusion or in various forms of art be it literature and writing, or drawing painting or in athleticism.
@@user-jz2yd9qj3y Ok, so here's something for you to think about. What do you think people do immediately after they graduate their final level of schooling? If you said they tend to start working, you'd be right, since that's what school prepares you to do. You are right that schools can teach you about self expression, but you need to consider that they primarily teach you about when and where is the right place to express yourself. In a semi-professional environment where your performance depends on how you present yourself, like in schools, it is important for students to understand that self expression in the wrong place will be harmful to their progression through life. You can express yourself as much as you want, but you need to understand that if you choose to do that in environments like schools or workplaces you might have to deal with the issues that that can cause.
You seem to say that school prepares you for life, however it does not teach you how to pay taxes, regulate emotions, or treat people with common human decency (let’s be honest, high schools’ “zero tolerance policy for bullying” is always a lie). Even then, most teachers in my experience could care less about you learning any proper study skills. Not only that, but what about the kids who want artistic careers? I’ve witnessed so many people including myself lose our creativity because of school.
That white blouse over the brown skin with the tweed jacket/peacoat is so, so cute!
If you come to my school dressed like that you’ll be expelled 😭
And you should be, it's a formal place, not a bedroom.
If anyone was listening…she acknowledges that the outfits are extreme, but the point is that the more we try to suppress people’s expression and blame people(mostly women) for poor performance, sexualization, and harassment based on the clothes they wear, the farther back in time we end up going gradually until we are living like edwardians, and women wear full skirts and can no longer even wear pants without judgement
The fact that we don't have any dress code (you just have to have nice clean clothes, that's all) and all these outfits would be ok.😅
I would wear a uniform, but on days like field day, some girls that had smaller thighs and butts would be allowed to wear shorts while people like me who have more weight there would get dress coded for the same shorts! Really frustrating as a little kid😢
I think people forget that school is essentially a work environment. You could walk into an office building wearing casual clothes realistically, but lingerie… you’ll probably be fined for public indecency 😭
No you would not. Are you an American or do you live in some Muslim Caliphate where women are forced to wear Burqas and Hijabs?
I 100% agree with you. Some girl in the 6th grade got dress coded for wearing a cropped sweatshirt THE SCHOOL SOLD IN THEIR STORE. And anyways, if the boys are looking that’s how we know they need a good talking to. I should be able to be comfortable in what I wear, while learning shit I’m never gonna need in my life.
Okay, I can get a cropped shirt showing some of her bra. BUT A SWEATSHIRT???? THAT DOESN'T SHOW ANYTHING!?!?
Anyone else notice how no guys complain they have dresscode too at some school they can't even where tanktops yet i have never once heard anyone say anything about it
Slowly Women will realize, wow men can't even buy anything other than pants and a top, it's the only thing they sell in the shops for them,
Wait. How old are you? Google says you’re 26…
should've been smart by then
@Psychoticmonster ??
@@WalkieTalkie92756He's bassically saying that she's too dumb to be 26
Translation: You want the football team to notice you without having to put up the effort of cheerleading.
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I bet you live in a red state...
Translation: you care so much about what other people think and your mind is severely in the gutter.
99% of the comments: that’s to revealing!(or something along those lines)
Me: in the summer guys walk around with no top on?
Yeah they do. You know where they dont do that? In school.
Why?
Because that's inappropriate.
@@Who8Lx this was about school everything else is irrelevant. However most places where you're supposed to be dressed such as city centres or anything like that require everyone to wear clothes full. I dont know where your from where all men just walk shirtless everywhere in summer but thats not allowed where i come from lmao
at my old highschool you couldn't wear slides/shoes without a back but you could wear birkenstocks which are slides like make it make sense please
remember when school used to be a place to learn and not a fashion show
I grew up in a country with no dress code in public schools and it was great, no random predatory bs over some spaghetti strap tops , but i agree though people shouldn't wear lingerie to school 😅 nobody did so in ours, some girls just wore shorts and tops if they chose to same with the boys wearing shorts instead of knee length jeans in summer... it was all pretty normal!!
Only thing you'd get called out for was wearing jeans at pe, of course! You needed to wear athleisure clothes!! 😊
We don’t have dress codes where I live. I think it’s so weird that children and teenagers get sexualized. If a teacher is distracted by the body of a student he really shouldn’t be working with minors! And so much for the American freedom:D
I am a woman and was administering an exam recently. A student of mine showed up wearing a knitted brah no shirt that barely did anything for her. That was inappropriate and unprofessional.
There is a time and a place. You need to realise these rules not only have to do with "distractions" of the sexual kind, nor are these rules only implemented and for the benefit of men. You are in a professional and public setting and the world does not revolve around you. I dont need to sexualise my student to not want to see her tits. Its very simple actually.
Its not always about that. Its about teaching kids how to dress appropriately and professionally. Most jobs in US have a dress code.
Its a similar reason to why teachers teach kindergarteners to not talk while the teacher is talking. Its not because its distracting to the teacher and the teacher is rendered incapable of doing her job if they hear a childs voice. Its to teach them the appropriate way to behave. If someone is talking, dont just start a new conversation with your neighbor. If youre going to a place to learn something, dont show up in lingerie. Imagine if every girl in high school wore lingerie instead of clothes, it would make the dynamic weird af and extremely uncomfortable
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Thats not an accurate comparison at all. Clothes are optional and mostly a form of self-expression. Talking is a action that can take many forms that can and cant be acceptable.
A more accurate comparison would be if backpacks were coded and you could only have certain amount of keychains, accessories or even brands on the backpacks because its “too distracting”. Or if a certain brand of nail polish wasnt allowed because it was “too flashy” or “distracted the boys too much”. See how stupid this argument takes. Imagine taking this argument and reframing it around other issues. “Some work places only allow a certain brand of backpack”, “Schools are a place for learning which is why the backpack regulation is important”, “Wearing too small(or too little) of a backpack is not professional”.
Albeit to play devil’s advocate there is a clear difference between clothes that are put on historically sexualized bodies and backpacks which have a much more neutral treatment, no one bothers to think that dress codes are inherently sexist, statistically targets poc and minorities, and the reasoning for said policy has shaky ground at best and pedophilic vibes at worst
@@seraphywang4638 sorry, I probably wasn't clear with my point. I was trying to make the point that the reason highly sexual clothing isn't appropriate for school isn't because it distracts the teachers or boys. School is a tool to teach children how to behave appropriately. They need to learn that there is a time and place for different outfits. That first white outfit shouldn't be worn to school. Do you think a 5 year old also be allowed to? A 9 year old? Not even talking about sick minded adults, but like is that a world anyone wants to live in? So hyper sexualized and for no good reason?what's the benefit of it?
HOW DID THE 3RD ONE NOT GET DRESSCODED AND THE ONE THAT DID ISN'T EVEN BAD 😭😭😭
After seeing her first outfit and some others IM GLAD FOR A DESS CODE
the best thing is the girls in our school did a whole vote if our arms and lower legs/ankles “distracted” boys and heck yea we won them rights!
They try to tell you how you should dress when in school and it doesn’t stop after. Now as a woman of 34 I get told by my whole family to dress more modest or that I shouldn’t be wearing this or that, and point is we should all be allowed to wear whatever we want as long as it’s not hurting anyone. We should be respected regardless of attire. I don’t even wear anything that shocking. I just boobs and a butt. I do what I want. 🤷🏼♀️
The deference is in school you a kid and now your a grown ass women. Lol why do you care what you family says
I'm portuguese and i can confirm that most of these outfits are pretty normal school outfits, especially in the summer. Everyone feels comfortable and we dont really need "dress codes" to stop us from being sexualized, just education and mutual respect.
If a teacher wore that they would be fired and maybe even arrested it’s about safety not limiting expression
Because skimpy dressed girls are clearly the most dangerous thing children could face in school. If they actually cared about safety they would actually do something about bullying other handing out a vacation with a strongly worded letter and implement some sort of measure to keep school shooters outside the school.
@@Rylus571 I understand that however it is still a form of protection. Just because they often are more important things at it at least it’s something. There is lots of issues with the system and in a perfect world peiple could wear what they want but there are still many many awful people
Arrested, maybe in Saudi Arabia or Iran, two countries you seem to like.
when they tell me not to wear my Nazi SS dress uniform, i tell them that an outfit is just an outfit and it doesnt need to define me.
lmao
Why am I pretty sure that a lot of teens have nazi symbols and nobody gives af
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Putting aside freedom of expression, modesty, time and place, professionalism, etc… are these outfits even comfortable to wear? Walking around, going up and down stairs, sitting on public transportation, standing up or sitting down at desks, heck just staying warm. Is it worth the hassle of trying to make sure you don’t flash anything 😣
That first outfit definitely. Stunning.
The entitlement is real. Most be a zoomer thing because I remember NOT wanting to get into trouble/dress coded. Maybe more hugs are needed for this girl to feel special xD
I’m a 25 year old woman who used to think in a similar way to you when I was younger. When I turned 12 all I cared about was boys liking me and being attractive to them (as that’s what happens to most girls at that age). So I really wanted to dress sexually/hot to appeal to boys. I came up with all of these “feminist” excuses as to why there shouldn’t be a dress code at my school like “why are these adults sexualizing my shoulders or legs”. When in reality I just wanted to sexualize myself. I am not trying to be mean but your outfits are very sexual and inappropriate. The older that I get the more of a “prude” I become. I don’t want random men to be able to get any pleasure from my body. As soon as I found my now husband, I stopped dressing in a revealing way, subconsciously. I think it’s just bc I had no need to “attract” a man anymore bc I found mine. Dressing more modestly makes me feel so much more comfortable, feminine, beautiful and safe. Anyways, I used to be 100% against dress codes, uniforms and makeup bans at school, but now I’m all for them if I ever had kids. In high school I would literally spend 2 hours every morning on my hair and makeup. When I really should’ve been doing the homework that I had neglected the day before. Rules, responsibilities and duties are a good thing. And we have them for a reason. Maturation is learning to respect the rules, boundaries and traditions that came before you ☺️
Inherently I disagree. As stated some of her outfits were purposely extreme just as a challenge but most looked cool and it’s mostly what people in university wear. Not to the same extreme but I enjoy loud extra fashion and makeup. A lot of what I wear is seen as “revealing” or sexy due to my body shape. I have no desire to seek the attention of others and I find most sexual things very uncomfortable. Having an extreme style preference doesn’t have to be for other people like it was for you. If you enjoy a more modest appearance that’s great. But I think having dress codes, makeup bans etc are unnecessary. All the attributes associated with teenagers don’t go away just cause there’s a rule or a ban. Teenagers will still be obsessed with there appearance, find each other sexually attractive, be irresponsible, and unprofessional. A dress code can’t change the fundamentals of how many people in there teen years act. Rules, boundaries and traditions can be a useful thing or be incredibly pointless or even harmful. All of those things are not sacred and can be changed. Personally I think the insistence of schools today about having a dress code is still rooted in the Purity Christian beliefs that the older generations still hold but who knows.
You sound like a very mature person I don't think most people on yt will agree with you as most here are age range between 10-17 just teens lol
Dressing more modestly didn't make me feel safer when I was assaulted, regardless. I literally dressed like Billie Eilish and wore a hoodie every single day to school, no matter how hot it got. I almost passed out because I was making myself overheat, trying to cover myself up. The issue isn't the clothes itself, dress codes are mostly for controlling how the girls dress.
At the schools I went to the guys could wear whatever they wanted, their only rule was no hats in school. While the girls have a long laundry list of specifications or what to wear and not wear. And as I said what we wear doesn't stop predators and creeps from preying on us. The whole point is that we need slightly less strict restrictions, especially when there are external conditions such as weather.
In a different video, similar to this one, a girl in the comments said she was dress-coded for wearing a tank top but she wore it because the heat was over 100 degrees. Because heaven forbid she has her shoulders showing when she could literally pass out from heat exhaustion being forced to cover up more.
Dress codes need to be more lenient and equivalent for all students, not just girls. And people need to be taught about consent and appropriate behavior way more than they are. Just banning things outright shouldn't be the go-to solution to solving everything.
Instead, they should be educated on the consequences their decisions will cause. Educate them on what is appropriate to do and not do in varying relationships, go over a variety of scenarios based on what others are wearing, how they are acting, situational awareness, etc. Sometimes laying out options for them and letting them understand consequences is the best way to let them learn. Hold mock interviews where they dress in what they would wear to one. And constructively critique and encourage appropriate attire. Have themed days of what to wear on a vacation, a work trip, a college lecture, a grocery shopping trip, etc. There are ways to teach them how to dress that can be fun instead of strictly forcing them to conform to wearing specific things.
The emphasis should be on educating that clothes don't determine consent, the person does.
When kids are younger they are experimenting and learning about themselves, their style preferences, how to be appropriate, etc. Children learn best from experience sometimes.