listen if you're alone on valentines day...

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  • @lofibeatz
    @lofibeatz  4 роки тому +329

    Timestamps 😔🥀
    Kiraiyzu - promise 0:00
    maverith - stars above 3:53
    ENRA - dahlia 6:17
    wrongnumber - You Remind Me Love 8:07
    w00ds - Frozen In Time 10:31
    ~flynn - subway station 13:34

  • @jihoonlim1906
    @jihoonlim1906 4 роки тому +1526

    I'm sure we all know why we are all here...here's to another Valentine's Day alone, so let's be alone together

    • @jsquaredbreezi5794
      @jsquaredbreezi5794 4 роки тому +12

      LegoMonster sad but true brother or sister

    • @treyavey3021
      @treyavey3021 4 роки тому +8

      together

    • @tomvallieres4241
      @tomvallieres4241 4 роки тому +7

      Thanks man.

    • @socfer5480
      @socfer5480 4 роки тому +4

      I feel u :(

    • @jihoonlim1906
      @jihoonlim1906 4 роки тому +15

      @JA _BOI76 it's sad now but I'm sure when things get better we will look back and appreciate these moments

  • @basilrwl7827
    @basilrwl7827 2 роки тому +116

    it's sucks see all u friends preparing for valentine while u sitting in ur room alone and just looking at the wall wondering when u find real love.

    • @jacksoncarwile5757
      @jacksoncarwile5757 2 роки тому +5

      Damn.

    • @ageofdoom9103
      @ageofdoom9103 2 роки тому +5

      I know how that feels I been there and always

    • @ZeRho772
      @ZeRho772 Рік тому +4

      Love us like a mousetrap, you think it’s the real thing then you get your heart snapped in half

    • @snakeeater6743
      @snakeeater6743 Рік тому +2

      dude go to the gym it will make you happier from personal experience

    • @CCCvr1192
      @CCCvr1192 8 місяців тому +1

      Ik man

  • @themightychondria
    @themightychondria 4 роки тому +399

    I knew her since i was 17.. Now i'm 27. Everything's ended between us many years ago, she traveled to the other side of the world but i couldn't get her out of my mind. I still visit the same places we used to go and reminisce. My heart still skips a beat whenever i see a girl who looks even a little bit like her. I even wait for her Fb msg every year for my bday. I still treasure the manga she gave me with a written message in japanese on the first page that i can't even understand. It all felt like a dream. Now she's back here and we're talking again. I'm more confused and lost. I'm afraid to go through it all again.

    • @sanchouz7449
      @sanchouz7449 4 роки тому +13

      Wish you to find a way through this confusing feeling

    • @lemonzest9919
      @lemonzest9919 4 роки тому +13

      remember that even though it might not make sense now, it will one day, and you will know one day if she is the right one. I can understand not wanting to go through it all again. it really hurts. I don't know if im right, but it seems like you want it to go back to the way it was before? Its hard to make connections work after a long time apart from someone, but i have faith in you. Whether you decide to be with her or not, remember that everything will be okay and that whatever you do will be the right choice. If you do like her like that, don't be afraid. Everything will be alright. ❤️ sorry this was so sappy and cheesy. I really hope that you follow your heart with this situation, remember, if it doesn't feel right, don't force it. (more cheesyness sorry!) Sorry if none of this helped or if it didn't even make sense. I hope you have a wonderful valentines day>

    • @leanbow0001
      @leanbow0001 4 роки тому +12

      My fam. You are in a position many of us would go through hell for over and over again. If you think she is worth it in the end. Go for it.

    • @themightychondria
      @themightychondria 4 роки тому +13

      Its beautiful how different people from different backgrounds and cultures around the world can support each others and give positive hypes. Thanks everyone for the nice words 🖤

    • @Thaligamathor
      @Thaligamathor 4 роки тому +12

      Shes back, you here reminiscing and you not going after her? The biggest mistake is not making either choice. Either chase your dream or let it stay a quiet regret.

  • @silversrc
    @silversrc 2 роки тому +44

    I rlly hate this time of year, god damn it. Another Valentine’s Day where I’m completely alone.

    • @CCCvr1192
      @CCCvr1192 8 місяців тому

      I JUST WANT TO KILL MY SELF 😣😭 this makes a decade with out no Valentine c you next year

  • @MerinLightbringer
    @MerinLightbringer 4 роки тому +94

    lonliness is dangerous. It´s addicting. Once you see how calm it is, you dont want to deal with people

  • @kuebiko9539
    @kuebiko9539 2 роки тому +43

    Happy Valentine’s Day to everyone out there spending it alone again. I know it’s a meaningless day in theory, but it would be nice to spend the day with someone you know cares about you. It’s nice to feel loved and cared about, especially when you see everyone else around you experiencing it. I hope all of you who are spending it alone can take today to love yourself and treat yourself to something nice ❤️

  • @morrisdegaliciaycazares363
    @morrisdegaliciaycazares363 4 роки тому +178

    hey you, scrolling down through the comments
    it's okay to cry, you're not weak for that, you have only been strong for a long time
    being alone sucks but what makes a person happy isn't in another place but within yourself
    take care, love yourself, buy yourself something nice this friday or even better, do whatever you like the most
    -some cat in youtube still learning english

    • @mortadelasteelseries2642
      @mortadelasteelseries2642 4 роки тому +4

      Thx bro :) have a good Valentine's day

    • @indecisivevictore.8698
      @indecisivevictore.8698 4 роки тому +2

      bought myself 4 books and a croissant :)
      happy valentine's day

    • @Tilearian
      @Tilearian 4 роки тому +1

      I mean, I prefer the solidarity over the fake compassion. In other words, I'll take being single over someone pretending to like me for nothing more than the gifts I give them.

    • @33HHikaru
      @33HHikaru 3 роки тому

      @@Tilearian well, it seems you didnt discover what true love is yet

    • @Tilearian
      @Tilearian 3 роки тому +1

      @@33HHikaru sure, we could claim that. But the issue is finding true love when the majority isn't looking for that.
      And if the majority is, then why have more than 20 relationships failed? Each female stating I was too good for them or something equivalent. Love shouldn't be a lottery ticket where 1/1000 is a winner.

  • @mango2538
    @mango2538 3 роки тому +58

    Here’s to another year. 🥂
    If you’re alone too like me, it’s ok, we’re all here together.

    • @swagwagon6627
      @swagwagon6627 3 роки тому +1

      I can drink to that

    • @thorn4833
      @thorn4833 8 місяців тому

      Cheers from 2024. Hope this year is better for ya tho.

    • @CCCvr1192
      @CCCvr1192 8 місяців тому

      Sorry to disappoint you but 2024 went the same so until 2025 I hope your all ok😢

    • @thorn4833
      @thorn4833 8 місяців тому +1

      @@CCCvr1192 Oof, let's hope for a better 2025. Mine was equally sad, but there's still hope until the day we die, yeah?

    • @SeiyaTempest
      @SeiyaTempest 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@CCCvr1192It's all good. You'll probably get there eventually.

  • @Shehab_Zexas
    @Shehab_Zexas 4 роки тому +232

    21 years alone
    At this point i dont want to meet anyone or for anyone to find me.
    Just counting days till end

    • @Gravitycrazy
      @Gravitycrazy 4 роки тому +36

      Life has more to it then finding a partner, dont worry about it, or improve yourself in small ways. Get into the habit of self improvement you'll be better for it reguardless of what happens in your future

    • @noahmeyer4904
      @noahmeyer4904 4 роки тому +5

      That’s very true grav

    • @Vstackz122
      @Vstackz122 4 роки тому +5

      @Veris Damn that's actually deep,I keep feeling like something telling me I should give up on being happy and striving for my goals in life but it's like the inner me tells me to keep going........I wonder if my goals are near..

    • @lamartyrell5968
      @lamartyrell5968 4 роки тому +1

      You can do it

    • @luxtafye3696
      @luxtafye3696 4 роки тому +4

      Bro same I feel you on that but my years is 20 alone

  • @vigilantfish4102
    @vigilantfish4102 4 роки тому +232

    I feel so done with love. I wish I just didn't exist anymore, I wish I never lived the way I did. I wish I could just fall asleep, a pleasant distracting dream, forever in the warmth of my small bed.

    • @eziarc2080
      @eziarc2080 4 роки тому +29

      We are here to suffer, that's how it is... But we could change that. Some people like us aren't meant to be loved romantically but we can be happy on so many other levels. Friendship, hobbies, ... Cheer up man, have a nice life.

    • @ethanmccaughan4943
      @ethanmccaughan4943 3 роки тому +9

      same man im just tired and sad love is hard and complicated yet the most beautiful thing in the world. i was in love once and now im still in love witht them and their now my bestfriend but they have a boyfriend and the thing is everyone keeps telling me to stop and that i need to just move on but that wouldnt be love because love doesnt kust go away if it did it wouldnt be love now all i want to do is meet someone new who i can love just as much as i had loved before but i just havent met that person and it hurt so fucking much

    • @marissaguidry5197
      @marissaguidry5197 3 роки тому +11

      I wanna kill my self so bad but I can’t and it’s hard

    • @Tomsuany
      @Tomsuany 3 роки тому +8

      You guys are so wholesome

    • @j.g.o4817
      @j.g.o4817 3 роки тому +5

      This is so sad and I'm made even sadder that I relate

  • @KanekiTheOneEyedKing
    @KanekiTheOneEyedKing 4 роки тому +67

    Welp time to add this to my Valentine's Day playlist

  • @jsquaredbreezi5794
    @jsquaredbreezi5794 4 роки тому +69

    I saw the title then questioned all me life choices

  • @CaptainKotetsu
    @CaptainKotetsu 4 роки тому +54

    I was in CVS the other day and walked past the heart shaped chocolate boxes. I didn’t used to care, but now I really wish I had somebody to buy treats for. When you’re alone, this holiday’s nothing but a depressing racket.

    • @isaacsoto2106
      @isaacsoto2106 4 роки тому +1

      Soul Reaper Tim98 I like your profile picture I havent Seen any bleach lol

    • @CaptainKotetsu
      @CaptainKotetsu 4 роки тому

      Isaac Soto thanks👍

    • @isaacsoto2106
      @isaacsoto2106 4 роки тому +1

      Soul Reaper Tim98 it’s the episode where all the soul reaper women were in bikinis 👙 😍🔥🔥

    • @CaptainKotetsu
      @CaptainKotetsu 4 роки тому

      Isaac Soto yeah. Isane was always my favorite. I wish I could meet a girl like her in real life.

    • @isaacsoto2106
      @isaacsoto2106 4 роки тому

      Soul Reaper Tim98 captain unhonna 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @s.o.m.eb.o.i3248
    @s.o.m.eb.o.i3248 4 роки тому +21

    It ain't fun being hella lonely all the time.
    (I want a hug)

    • @jacksoncarwile5757
      @jacksoncarwile5757 2 роки тому +2

      Same 😭

    • @gingerquackson8525
      @gingerquackson8525 2 роки тому +2

      *virtually hugs you while crying*

    • @CCCvr1192
      @CCCvr1192 8 місяців тому +1

      Same and for me it’s Valentine’s Day aka my least favorite day of the year 😢😭😭😭

  • @vavargas2256
    @vavargas2256 3 роки тому +21

    you always see all the shows where the guy meets the girl and nomatter how difficult life gets, they face their difficulties together. I'm afraid my difficulties will always be my own, because noone will care bout me that much.

  • @nineteenthcoin617
    @nineteenthcoin617 4 роки тому +147

    Who else spending valentine's alone in the dark eating iceream?

    • @colonelflaunders
      @colonelflaunders 4 роки тому +6

      not quite ice cream but yeh i'm doing pretty much that

    • @thecrow5961
      @thecrow5961 4 роки тому

      All of that just without the ice cream
      Just me and my demons alone

    • @mariusschleicher5046
      @mariusschleicher5046 4 роки тому +6

      Not ice cream, its pizza.

    • @dannydeleon872
      @dannydeleon872 4 роки тому +4

      Nineteenthcoin 61 it’s my yearly tradition

    • @holymuppet245
      @holymuppet245 4 роки тому +1

      I'm with the boi's with no girls at the movie theater cheering each other up in the light.

  • @soggytostito
    @soggytostito 4 роки тому +56

    I clicked as soon as I saw the title

  • @moonf4iry_
    @moonf4iry_ 4 роки тому +64

    gonna add this to my playlist because I already now that this is going to happen

  • @ななみアンドレ
    @ななみアンドレ 4 роки тому +199

    Ha it’s like the title was made for me 😂
    *cries*

  • @Spazzycat14
    @Spazzycat14 4 роки тому +535

    Dont worry everyone, someone is out there for you. I found the one. Its possible. Until then, love yourself and be the best you can be.

    • @Vordenker007
      @Vordenker007 4 роки тому +3

      ConcealCarryProtect I can’t

    • @NotFoods
      @NotFoods 4 роки тому +7

      I’ll wait for that person too

    • @kaispirit2079
      @kaispirit2079 4 роки тому +6

      Its true, love does exist💖! My new gf and I are in love💑! I hope everyone else finds that special someone this year! 👍

    • @richbutstillbroke7212
      @richbutstillbroke7212 4 роки тому +1

      No

    • @mortadelasteelseries2642
      @mortadelasteelseries2642 4 роки тому +10

      @@kaispirit2079 mayby I found her in this year, thx men for give me hope ! UwU

  • @lakejopez4655
    @lakejopez4655 4 роки тому +65

    It's that time again boys. I know I'm gonna be alone

    • @koolbeenz8474
      @koolbeenz8474 4 роки тому +2

      Yes it is; don’t worry maybe some other day you will just get luck on your side 😁

    • @melisanyo_0
      @melisanyo_0 4 роки тому +1

      Dont trip g. Stay on a natural high

    • @lakejopez4655
      @lakejopez4655 4 роки тому +1

      @@koolbeenz8474 thanks😁😁

    • @lakejopez4655
      @lakejopez4655 4 роки тому

      @@melisanyo_0 and hell yeah man, you too

    • @koolbeenz8474
      @koolbeenz8474 4 роки тому

      mysticewhale 2, anytime dude 😁👌🏻

  • @blueguygaming1330
    @blueguygaming1330 4 роки тому +497

    You call it Valentine’s Day, I call it “Free Premium” day

  • @eldavo6227
    @eldavo6227 2 роки тому +21

    I don't know why I'm so sad on Valentines Day, no one loves me on any of the other days either

    • @UraniumStorm
      @UraniumStorm 2 роки тому +15

      Because it reminds you how everyone has something you don't, I feel the same way

    • @MonarchEAS
      @MonarchEAS Рік тому +3

      On Valentines Day everyone else rubs it in our faces how in love they are. That’s why I hate it. Even if I had a girlfriend I don’t think I would want to celebrate Valentines Day. It’s a sadistic holiday that’s very exclusive.

  • @ChuddlestheSasquatch
    @ChuddlestheSasquatch 2 роки тому +15

    As I’ve gotten older, I’ve started to have more and more silent contempt for Valentine’s Day..
    My birthday is only days after and it regularly reminds me more and more how time is slipping away.
    I’ll be turning 30 this year, and have yet to be in an actual relationship and it steadily feels like I’ll never be in one.
    And at this point, I don’t even know if I should be in one, I never got to build upon or enjoy young love or any other hallmarks of relationships.
    The only love that Ive found was unrequited and it’s just like.. do I even deserve to fall in love?
    I dunno, guess I’ll sleep on it..
    Update: Went on a couple dates and was almost in a relationship this year, but sadly after a few weeks of trying I just wasnt feeling anything. I didnt want to lead her on, but it was definitely an unfortunate thing to experience, thankfully we ended on good terms.
    Although it wasnt exactly what I wanted in my love life, it was a still a fantastic learning experience and it only gave me confidence and hope that I AM worthy of love and I will find it someday. Just have to keep trying, no matter how hard. I only hope the same for everyone else whos finds themselves alone and in the darkness sometimes. Especially to those that find themselves here today.
    Never give up friends!

    • @andrew-coronel-9016
      @andrew-coronel-9016 2 роки тому +5

      It pretty ironic I feel like I'm way older but still younger. Felling sad, lonely, thinking that time is slipping away and haven't been in a relationship yet or even ever. People say that you will have a soulmate but here I am no relationship, still single and wondering if I don't have a soulmate do I even have a soul? Or am I just living to suffer from loneliness every God Damn February.

  • @Sobek-khufu
    @Sobek-khufu Рік тому +4

    Back at it again for another year boys.

  • @louisdreycastaneto1548
    @louisdreycastaneto1548 3 роки тому +10

    Happy Valentines Y'all hope that we all find the love we need not the love we want

  • @nothappynotsad930
    @nothappynotsad930 3 роки тому +4

    I will come here on next valentine’s day too and see if anything changed for me in one year

  • @chickenmaster1283
    @chickenmaster1283 4 роки тому +111

    Instead dwelling on feeling lonely on Valentine's Day with no one to love, love yourself instead. Dedicated that day to the great creation you are, the one you have always been
    ~cm

    • @thecrow5961
      @thecrow5961 4 роки тому

      @Veris on Valentine's day I'm just gonna sit in the dark with my demons

    • @satku6644
      @satku6644 3 роки тому

      But why would i love my self if nobody loves me . Im so down that i even think that i dont deserve my osn love for my self

    • @firebrand4074
      @firebrand4074 3 роки тому +2

      You can’t love yourself if you’ve never been loved by someone else. Self love can’t be built in isolation

    • @misko5877
      @misko5877 3 роки тому

      Such godly words from mister centimeter. Truly beautiful

    • @voxelotl616
      @voxelotl616 2 роки тому

      I've been doing that every day for almost 19 years. I'm getting tired of it. I want to share this life with someone and spill out all this love I have inside that has been building up for years to somebody already

  • @Hana-bl1xe
    @Hana-bl1xe 3 роки тому +23

    Today is Valentine's Day and I'm out here at the rooftop date with myself. I'm laying down and listening to this 💜

    • @nevqrr
      @nevqrr 3 роки тому +3

      Thats a thing as well! Loving yourself and knowing yourself more can help you with finding a partner

    • @energybest8865
      @energybest8865 2 роки тому

      Omg im crying idk why maybe cuz im gonna do the same thing this year alone. I hope you got a girlfriend or a boyfriend now 😔

  • @tobypiris
    @tobypiris 4 роки тому +74

    First you must love yourself, then you can love somebody else. Don't hurry, keep that on mind.

    • @MRCLXWN03
      @MRCLXWN03 4 роки тому +4

      What if in all the years of your life, you've grown to hate yourself to the point you can't stand yourself and you hate everything that you are?..

    • @tobypiris
      @tobypiris 4 роки тому +4

      @@MRCLXWN03 I know it's hard to stand yourself, sometimes I feel like i'm less than nothing but think about the impact you make on people, sometimes bad, sometimes good, but is there. One day you do a little thing with no idea of how big is the impact you left and that's crazy. We make mistakes, but we can do amazing stuff too. You don't hate yourself because you want, maybe somebody made you feel like that and it's not your fault :)
      Also sorry if my English it's not great :(

    • @MRCLXWN03
      @MRCLXWN03 4 роки тому +2

      @@tobypiris your English is fine, and thanks for that :)

    • @tobypiris
      @tobypiris 4 роки тому +2

      @@MRCLXWN03 you're welcome! if you want to talk more about that another time, i'm here

    • @tobypiris
      @tobypiris 4 роки тому

      @Rodrick Young As i said, don't hurry. Love doesn't match with time everytime, but when it does it's really special.

  • @Levine_47
    @Levine_47 4 роки тому +35

    I've always been alone, and this year will be no different.

  • @bigbadwolf8184
    @bigbadwolf8184 4 роки тому +20

    I love your music Man.. doesn't have lyrics but the music still goes deeper then I thought possible

  • @splurkeygaming7438
    @splurkeygaming7438 4 роки тому +10

    This is going to be the music ill be listening every valentines.

  • @johnblack9386
    @johnblack9386 8 місяців тому +2

    Im 23 soon to be 24 and in my life i have been alone for many valentines days, every year it gets harder and harder. From a lonelly guy to another, man or woman, i love you. I feel like everyone deserves to hear that on a day like this. Stay strong.

  • @dionaea1310
    @dionaea1310 8 місяців тому +6

    Yet another year. Never had a valentine.

  • @LPSGoldentailGodlovesyou
    @LPSGoldentailGodlovesyou 2 роки тому +6

    Hey yall, it's nice to know we're all in it together

  • @yojojo3000
    @yojojo3000 4 роки тому +3

    Being alone is good. You feel a sense of freedom you wouldn't normally get from being around others. This sense of freedom is you loving you, letting you do what you want for the day, treating yourself to what you want, and giving yourself a gift when no one else bothers to.
    Having someone be there for you is good... but being there for yourself is a whole different level of good. Take care of yourself. Whether you deserve it or not, you need it regardless. Take care.

    • @MonarchEAS
      @MonarchEAS Рік тому

      No it’s not good. It was good at the start but now I’m bored and am in a rut. Consumed by the stresses of life and no one to comfort me. I have no companion. I’m just alone.

  • @wrongnumber6120
    @wrongnumber6120 4 роки тому +3

    thank you for including my track in this beautiful mix ikigai :)

  • @tylerhiggs9693
    @tylerhiggs9693 2 роки тому +23

    Rest easy Kings your Queen is out there somewhere. I haven’t found mine yet, but I’m only 16. And I still got 80 years. That sounds like a very long time to me, but really it’s not. I don’t think I’m ever gonna find my Queen/ best friend/ my personal therapist lol. I can’t love someone else until I love myself. And I think it’s gonna take a very long time before I can do that, but until then keep your head up King 🥲.

    • @THEEFOSA6480
      @THEEFOSA6480 2 роки тому +2

      Different boats, same path. Keep it strong brother.

    • @loucims
      @loucims 2 роки тому +3

      Same here man, let’s stay strong and live our lives while we wait! Have a great day.

    • @MonarchEAS
      @MonarchEAS Рік тому

      I’m 21 and have never kissed a girl. No girl even looks my way.

  • @yaricarinoleon7731
    @yaricarinoleon7731 4 роки тому +4

    I feel comforted knowing I'm not the only one alone. Thank you Ikigai😊.

  • @playlistsport6505
    @playlistsport6505 4 роки тому +15

    Alone indeed... I'm just gonna love and pamper myself! 💃🎉🎈💕😍 Thanks for the mix! Lovely as usual! 🎼💞🎶 Happy "every"-day to us all!!! ❤❤❤

  • @silverdropstudios7323
    @silverdropstudios7323 4 роки тому +13

    Glad you got my back

  • @CCCvr1192
    @CCCvr1192 8 місяців тому +5

    Another year here c y’all next year

    • @beebovr8691
      @beebovr8691 8 місяців тому

      Here we are again...

  • @Rahul-ml2xb
    @Rahul-ml2xb 3 роки тому +15

    Year 23 of being alone on Valentine’s Day, must’ve set a record by now😔😔

    • @nevqrr
      @nevqrr 3 роки тому

      Dw man, people love you, you just dont get to hear it :3

  • @koteshima6682
    @koteshima6682 4 роки тому +6

    how did this video predict my tomorrow

  • @randomasshumanbeing2078
    @randomasshumanbeing2078 2 роки тому +4

    It’s only the third of February, and I’m already watching this

  • @Izaron
    @Izaron Рік тому +3

    after 4 years of actually having your entire backstory revolving around finding someone, it actually feels like nothing has changed, even after all that character progression and redemption arcs, im listening to this once again. but thats alright, its better to be lonely than to suffer in a toxic relationship

  • @walterleitgeb8484
    @walterleitgeb8484 3 роки тому +8

    I'm alone... It's hard. The comments section says a lot of things I agree with...

  • @KimberleeT1961
    @KimberleeT1961 2 роки тому +11

    Lots of sad, and lonely souls here...
    Tomorrow, Valentine's Day is over...Get your favorite take-out, eat it with a comedy,
    relax, and know there thousands of us alone tonight.
    Heart hugs to all!
    Smiles for you, and me.
    Love yourself...

  • @RichydiegoAYE
    @RichydiegoAYE 4 місяці тому +2

    Hey guys i still come back to this video after 4 years im 18 now i still love this video i hope the creator of this video sees this

  • @luis4924
    @luis4924 2 роки тому +3

    For the first time in 3 years I’m spending Valentine’s Day alone, and it hurts so much because I loved her with all my heart but life sometimes got other plans for you and I have to understand and go through it. I will just take advice from a lot of positive comments I saw in here. It’s crazy how life changes one day you feel like you have everything you need to be happy and another you feel like everything is lost and there is nothing out there for you.

    • @MonarchEAS
      @MonarchEAS Рік тому

      I’d love to say it gets better but it doesn’t. You eventually get over the girl but you can’t escape the void that is loneliness.

  • @525guy
    @525guy Рік тому +2

    Another year has gone by fellas with no one by your side . Valentines day is the saddest time of the year for me, second to Christmas. I know that I am never truly alone in this world since I have my loving parents and sibling, but their is a difference between "love" and "unconditional love". Around Christmas, I see all the holiday gifts that everyone is buying for each other, It is the same for Valentines day and the boxes of chocolate out on display. I wish I had someone to buy a gift for or even someone buying me something. I wouldn't even care about what the gift is, just the fact that someone was thinking of me when purchasing something would mean the world to me. 😭

  • @peopleperson9336
    @peopleperson9336 2 роки тому +13

    I was cheated on by the girl of my dreams, we'd already separated due to me moving, but when I found out she'd been unfaithful it still hit me like a brick wall through the heart. All those heartfelt memories of the past two years felt warped knowing she had been sleeping with other men while she said she loved me.
    I don't know how many years I can do this alone, but I don't know if I'll ever be able to open my heart back up again.

    • @greatexpectations6577
      @greatexpectations6577 2 роки тому

      Bro, women’s brain is wired different. You must read books that will teach you some hard truth about them. Don’t ever completely fall for one, because they don’t to you.

    • @peopleperson9336
      @peopleperson9336 2 роки тому

      @@greatexpectations6577 it was with 4 sperate guys at once, one of them was her holiday fling on the opposite side of the country. The worst part was, she was the only girl I ever brought myself to truly trust, even after we broke up we remained friends because I wanted to stay in touch with her.
      The good news is I've connected with the other guys as well, we had a barbecue together and went fishing too; meeting those guys was the silver lining to this whole mess.

  • @sid3019
    @sid3019 4 роки тому +6

    You've done it again Ikigai. Love it

  • @pamrio880
    @pamrio880 2 роки тому +4

    The hardest is being in a relationship yet you feel alone.

    • @MonarchEAS
      @MonarchEAS Рік тому

      No being alone when you’re actually alone is the worst.

  • @jellidrops
    @jellidrops 4 роки тому +3

    I'm not alone on Valentine's day because I don't celebrate it, but thank you for perfectly capturing the feeling of loving and being loved by someone you know you're going to have to leave someday. Not many songs have been able to do that for me, and I really appreciate it :')

  • @randomasshumanbeing2078
    @randomasshumanbeing2078 2 роки тому +4

    Romance; love reading it, love the music, hate watching it, and never experienced it

  • @bakedbean003
    @bakedbean003 4 роки тому +12

    It's a big world... But it's an even bigger universe

  • @aidanscott4783
    @aidanscott4783 3 роки тому +23

    Seems everyone is alone this year, which is sort of comforting and sort of not...

  • @qtobyy
    @qtobyy 3 роки тому +4

    yup 1 year later still alone

  • @muhammedballi6189
    @muhammedballi6189 2 роки тому +11

    Most horrifying day I have ever experienced. Turned out that my "valentine" tried to split my family, let us fight each other. People be careful. The world is not a peaceful place.
    Actually the saddest day I have ever felt.

    • @greatexpectations6577
      @greatexpectations6577 2 роки тому +1

      Sorry to hear that. Stay strong and take care of yourself. Being alone is hard, but solitude makes strong men.

  • @profakame432
    @profakame432 4 роки тому +59

    Askes a girl I had a crush on for 3 years to gp out somewhere to eat. Wish me luck ! 🤞

  • @acGyakushu_and_Shin
    @acGyakushu_and_Shin 2 роки тому +9

    Hello fellow singles. I am in the same boat in regards to feeling lonely, but I'm hoping that I'll find that special someone in the future. Anyway, happy Singles Awareness Day to any other singles. Hopefully anyone reading this found a way to make Valentine's Day more tolerable for them.

    • @gaspar3283
      @gaspar3283 2 роки тому +1

      I'm in the same situation man. Broke up with my girlfriend, like 2 years ago and since then, it's been just me and it hurts. It hurts knowing you loved someone who just drops you for no reason. Anyway, positive vibes, best of luck to y'all, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

  • @Redstriker0129
    @Redstriker0129 8 місяців тому +3

    Another year of being alone

  • @ianflores6405
    @ianflores6405 4 роки тому +151

    My feelings are resurfacing so fast that they turned into tears. Love is such a hard feeling. I love them, I hate them, I don't know anymore. I want to believe that love can heal, I want to believe that love can save me or anyone from hurting themselves, but how can I believe that if loving someone just shatters me in the process over and over again with no future in sight of anything changing? My feelings have been welling up for years so when they came out to her, shouldn't they have been strong enough to overcome those obstacles? The last time I opened my heart, I got stabbed and bled out. Now, I'm locking my heart away with no future of letting it out again... Valentine's day isn't to celebrate love; it's to remind you that while everyone around you is wanted and in love, that opportunity passed you. Screw love, you survived on your own for so long. You've relied on yourself for so long. Rest your weary heart and live on, for yourself. The ones who deserve love the most are the ones that lack it.
    Edit: These comments, I read each and every one of them. I feel your pain, I feel tears and energy put into every word typed onto this humble comment of mine. In your pain however, I feel a tiny bit of your heart, clinging to a hope of love. Same with me, it hurts so much. Love is wonderful and stupid and hurtful and healing. Love has stabbed me over and over and over again but has also healed those holes left from the blade. That's the hope we cling to, that it will heal us again. Right now though, Happy Valentine's day to us, ourselves. We survived those relationships. Sure, we're wounded, barely hanging on, but we're here. While everyone else is doing shallow couple things, treat yourself to something. Go eat some ice cream or go out and have fun doing something like an arcade or dominate those prizes solo. We are survivors, we are so strong already. Our time for the one will come but for now, let's love ourselves. Thank you for paying some mind to my comment and thank you for being here. Take care, my broken hearted stranger friends.

    • @Duckarefun101
      @Duckarefun101 4 роки тому +6

      XxKawaii KamixX thank you. That last part hit me very hard

    • @jihoonlim1906
      @jihoonlim1906 4 роки тому

      😭it hurts but eventually all wounds do heal, don't they?

    • @ianflores6405
      @ianflores6405 4 роки тому +4

      @@jihoonlim1906 I'd honestly like to believe that. I'm just not sure anymore since I have so many wounds. I've gathered so much love and dished them out, my heart on a silver platter. I have so many wounds that I'm not sure they could all heal...

    • @jihoonlim1906
      @jihoonlim1906 4 роки тому +8

      @XxKawaii KamixX I feel you. When I wrote my comment it was like a question that I knew the answer since, no, not all wounds heal. But you know, that's what makes you yourself, everything that you've experienced, you can't see it anymore once it heals over. Try to be optimistic abt things even when you can only see the dark and don't be afraid to let go and share how you feel to people close to you. Blessings go out to you🙏

    • @melisanyo_0
      @melisanyo_0 4 роки тому +1

      Smoke a blunt

  • @2053_9
    @2053_9 4 роки тому +150

    I'm not alone....I have a relationship with depression:'v

    • @yougay9076
      @yougay9076 4 роки тому +4

      Me too, sweetie don't worry we will get this theough together

    • @oskarpiechnik4509
      @oskarpiechnik4509 4 роки тому +2

      ahhahahahaha u made my day thx u 😆😆😆😆😆

    • @rion7088
      @rion7088 4 роки тому +1

      205372_9 yeah me too depression is probably pansexual and a polygamist confirmed.

    • @immanati1831
      @immanati1831 3 роки тому

      @potanic_bc I am

    • @MubarekKul
      @MubarekKul 3 роки тому

      impostor

  • @nrs10001
    @nrs10001 3 роки тому +4

    When you're in a relationship with someone you care about very much, every day is a new opportunity to appreciate being with them and show them how much they mean to you. Dont take that for granted. All valentines day is is a holiday based around money and making lonely people feel even more alone. Good luck out there to all my fellow people crawling, gasping for air on their way towards that solidified dream of a soul mate.

    • @MonarchEAS
      @MonarchEAS Рік тому

      That’s why even if I get a girlfriend I’m not celebrating Valentines Day. It’s an evil and sadistic holiday. I’ll never forget the pain it caused me.

  • @woopdedo7939
    @woopdedo7939 4 роки тому +12

    If you’re alone, let’s be alone together. Good night everyone.♥️

  • @weeibozone5554
    @weeibozone5554 4 роки тому +9

    In Valentine day i just in my room and play video game by myself

  • @nanox7114
    @nanox7114 2 роки тому +3

    Here’s to another Valentine’s day alone 🍻

  • @herokillerstain5683
    @herokillerstain5683 3 роки тому +2

    The people who smile the most hide the most pain

  • @Teruk0.
    @Teruk0. Рік тому +3

    it aint valentines but im always alone

  • @Walmart_Bag69
    @Walmart_Bag69 2 роки тому +7

    Happy v day everyone. It’s my 19th anniversary of being single. Hmmm…maybe the next time around

  • @jackson8420
    @jackson8420 4 роки тому +11

    We just be sad vibin here 😔

    • @d4n_ill
      @d4n_ill 4 роки тому +3

      Understand u, bro

  • @lara8420
    @lara8420 2 роки тому +5

    I just hate this day.. I mean why was this even invented, just for us singles to suffer or what?.. for us singles watching happy couples while wishing to be in their shoes…

  • @bestelite223
    @bestelite223 Рік тому +4

    7 years of being alone! New record ;]

  • @Gravitycrazy
    @Gravitycrazy 4 роки тому +8

    Im working on myself, so i can be who i need to in a real relationship, with someone who is more then just someone im dating. I think i found that person, but it might not turn into something like that. I've rarely had that much fun with another person if ever, what ever may happen she'll be important to me

  • @kimniku8815
    @kimniku8815 3 роки тому +12

    I'm alone and that's fine bye me.
    Even though I'm alone doesn't mean I'm lonely.
    Even though no one loves me doesn't mean I can't love myself.
    .
    .
    Even though I'm alone and no one to support me or love me I'm still happy.... Cause I can live my life the way I want with no restrictions.

    • @vavargas2256
      @vavargas2256 3 роки тому

      true. but hopefully that loneliness won't last.

    • @nevqrr
      @nevqrr 3 роки тому

      I agree, im alone for my whole life, and im happy

    • @MonarchEAS
      @MonarchEAS Рік тому

      Loving myself never seems to make me happy. Doing the things I love only makes me temporarily happy then I drift back into despair.

  • @christopherpachecoherrera7097
    @christopherpachecoherrera7097 4 роки тому +65

    My girl is going with another man. I said "i will comeback so, just wait for me" she said me about confusión, or probably the destiny calling that boy, his new boyfriend...it hurts? A lot.
    I love she? So much.
    She loves me? Still a little.
    What i do it? Comeback, my promise is real. She's see me in may,in she's birthday, and comeback in muy best form, like gohan because she's my videl.
    I'm alone and heartbroken,but the tears in the face is energy to motivate me for training.
    I miss the past.. But the future brights....
    I hope this letters make you feel better than my times and mind.
    And don't worry!
    I comeback in may 28, promise is a promise.
    Smile a lot, forgive a lot, love yourself a lot.
    Excuse my inglish. But is the best i can. We keep it up😅

    • @bigbadwolf8184
      @bigbadwolf8184 4 роки тому +1

      Listen to racoon eggs motivational speach

    • @jhonnycagexrage7458
      @jhonnycagexrage7458 4 роки тому

      No vuelvas con ella

    • @bigpatos
      @bigpatos 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah, go full Gohan on your videl, fam xd

    • @christopherpachecoherrera7097
      @christopherpachecoherrera7097 4 роки тому

      And i did it😎
      After twi days but more muscle, more happy and ready to open muy hearth to someone who loves my form of life.
      She's gonna to be my friend, she love me; but i don't want love anymore, so i can be better, my best form, thanks to ikigai, and you too guys. 💪👍

    • @christopherpachecoherrera7097
      @christopherpachecoherrera7097 3 роки тому

      @Soleil Frager thank you🤗 and more for read, actually i'm studing for the university exam and find a job, so ikigai change My life and more tell that words.
      You're awesome, cool and great person, also with good taste in music jeje, It was a pleasure to greet you and see you later👋😊

  • @samdactyle7099
    @samdactyle7099 Рік тому +4

    Happy Valantines Day my single lonely alone people! I feel you!

  • @luckykray6283
    @luckykray6283 4 роки тому +2

    I pray that none of y'all will ever need to come back here ever again, to the future and love.

  • @Jorge-gi2zb
    @Jorge-gi2zb 2 роки тому +5

    Preparing for tomorrow's loneliness

  • @silentfool1002
    @silentfool1002 4 роки тому +1

    It's nice to see others like me, alone on valentine's day but we can be lonely on this day together.

  • @thatdudenamedkevin5627
    @thatdudenamedkevin5627 3 роки тому +3

    2021 Valentine’s Day and single, welcome back boys

  • @MMM-ki7lc
    @MMM-ki7lc 8 місяців тому +2

    *sigh* alone and rejected back in dec man i almost hate this day of the year

  • @marcolamb6712
    @marcolamb6712 4 роки тому +8

    It's been a couple months since our breakup but I've learned and grown from it but I still feel lonely :/

  • @CCCvr1192
    @CCCvr1192 8 місяців тому +5

    So this makes a decade with no Valentine😭

  • @Zelxoris
    @Zelxoris 4 роки тому +3

    I clicked because i see misaka, stayed for the music.

  • @Lol-wo6is
    @Lol-wo6is 4 роки тому +11

    It be like that sometimes 🚶🏽‍♂️

  • @hibironara7603
    @hibironara7603 4 роки тому +19

    How many single like me 🤸‍♂
    Anybody?

  • @Nutshux
    @Nutshux 8 місяців тому +2

    Alone on valentine, 2024 here we go again

  • @biothecyclops5831
    @biothecyclops5831 2 роки тому +6

    Man I just asked a girl to be my valentine since i thought she liked me abd u got rejected harshly this helps alot tho

    • @MonarchEAS
      @MonarchEAS Рік тому

      I had a crush on a girl in my college class but just found out she was taken today on Valentines Day. Story of my life.

  • @Clownvolo
    @Clownvolo Рік тому +6

    Another Valentine's Day alone, a huge thanks to everyone who said ''No'' to me!

    • @MonarchEAS
      @MonarchEAS Рік тому

      Lol 😂 This was the comment I needed to read today. It’s hilarious because it’s so true.

  • @thanos8900
    @thanos8900 2 роки тому +4

    Tomorrow is the day but im already here🥀💭

  • @borey2smoovef860
    @borey2smoovef860 2 роки тому +2

    BRUH WHY IM READING THESE COMMENTS RN AND CRYIN we all goin thru the same shit just youngings tryna play the game they call “life” love all y’all mane frfr KINGS keep your heads up we gone be good and for the QUEENS y’all good too y’all gone find someone… we all will someday 🥱

  • @thingonathinginathing
    @thingonathinginathing 3 роки тому +6

    The love of my life cheated on me and left me 5 years ago and I never got over her. I haven't even dated anyone else since, infact my life has been a complete mess since that breakup. I never stopped missing her. I never stopped loving her. She happily moved on in life without me and that's fine. I was genuinely happy that she was happy. I couldn't help but be hopeful that someday we could recconect again. A few weeks ago they found her red car in a black river, and her body under a bridge. I will never stop missing her. I will never stop loving her. 💔
    Jacqueline M🌺

  • @shadow_man5367
    @shadow_man5367 Рік тому +1

    Damn didn't think I would be back here 5 years later

  • @thatoneguy3408
    @thatoneguy3408 4 роки тому +28

    Me: clicks on video for the jams.
    Everyone in the comments: To be or not to be, that is the question, whether tis nobler to suffer the slings of arrows of outrages fortunes or to take arms against a sea of trouble and by opposing end them. To die, to sleep- No more.

  • @kikistilly
    @kikistilly 3 роки тому +2

    Its 12:00pm in Saskatchewan, just lit myself a candle and said "Happy Valentines day..." :/

    • @eeila
      @eeila 3 роки тому

      I did that tooo.. anyways happy Valentine’s Day

    • @killmytime
      @killmytime 3 роки тому

      I live there too omg😳 I wish you a better Valentine’s Day next year