My son is like you, diagnosed with Aspergers and now is “on the spectrum”. He graduated from college last year, has a job in his field. Doing great. Turns 23 in June!
I was diagnosed as autistic while be treated for CPTSD. My husband is also on the spectrum. We each have strengths where the other has deficits., which we think is pretty cool.
I'd love more discussion about ADHD and how it relates to autism. Seems like there's a lot of emerging research that ADHD is an ASD sub-type, or at least related in some way.
It took absolutely ages to get my psychiatrist to believe me, especially since whenever my mom was in the room with us (I'm only 19, been trying to get this diagnosis since my friend pointed it out because I'm so similar to her brother when I was like 17) she would contradict me every time I said I showed a particular behavior as a child; as if she'd know, she worked all the time when I was little, the person to ask would be my dad but my parents are divorced and he lives in a different state. It was infuriating.
I'm pursuing a diagnosis as a 32 year old. I really don't want to have my mom with me though because she does not respect my privacy. I love her, but I don't want her to tell everyone everything. Especially when I don't know or trust them.
@@gingercultleader5500 She's so overprotective. She constantly talks over me or tries to speak for me instead of even letting me try to do it myself. I'm a selective mute, btw.
@@patchworkundead4787 I am pretty nervous about getting assessed because it takes a special kind of relationship between parent and adult offspring. Kind of like the parent needs to adopt the role of the confidant, rather than embarrass you. Also, selective mutism makes it even more difficult. I hope your assessor sees your distress and talks to you one on one about it.
I was just diagnosed yesterday! Thank you for your videos. They have been helping me to come to terms with things since I was referred back in October. 💗
@@TheAspieWorld Dear Dan, you need to take the time to properly read the comments that you reply to, going over the words and what is actually being said so that you can respond in a fitting manner instead of leaving generic sounding comments 👍🏼
@@cyclinggirl3212 Yes. I think replies are abit impersonal & appear to be sub motivated. I won't sub for that reason 🤣 Illogical logic. Oppositional defiance lol.
@@AustinRoberts88 I hope it has helped you to understand yourself. It took me a while to get used to the idea and I still struggle with internalised ableism from time to time but honestly, life has gotten better. The people around me cut me more slack and are more understanding when I need downtime. I went to a wedding earlier this year and the couple alerted me that I could go and have a rest in their “getting ready room” if I needed to decompress. It really helped get me through what was a really long day of lots of people and socialising. I also knew that I would need to put aside a couple of days afterwards for rest and to recover. I hope that your journey is also a positive one. There are times when it isn’t as positive obviously but for the most part, my quality of life has improved as I understand more about myself and can take proactive steps to protect my mental well-being. Good luck!
I was Dx in Dec 2019 with ASD-1, CPTSD, depression and OCD. Currently, I am researching what exactly all of that really means. Watching your videos is very helpful. Thanks 🙏
My sister, father and I are ASD. My sister wasn’t diagnosed until her 20’s, and I was 42. As I examine my family closer, my dad’s side of the family has many, many people going generations back that are all consistent with ASD. Thanks for all you do!
My brother and I are also ASD, and it was only when my dad started looking into it that he realised he shared a lot of traits, and he's now been diagnosed. Again my dad's side of the family has a lot of people with ASD, which makes sense because autism is passed down the male line.
I was diagnosed in Feb with autism. She told me "previously known as asperger's". And I'm so relieved. It took a lot to get my psychiatrist to send me for an assessment. He had previously misdiagnosed me with bipolar and bpd after a huge meltdown in his office.
I am not diagnost female human being from 23 years old and that after some research and expercience from my life really think that i am on the spectrum.
What are your thoughts on 'being autistic' as compared to 'having autism'? I'm very much along the lines of 'being autistic'. I can't be anything else. It's like I'm tall - I don't have height. I just wish there was a similar way to describe ADHD. All the best for you.
A person could say something about their "foot", or they could say something about "that thing at the end of my ankle that has toes". Guess what? THEY MEAN THE SAME THING. People who worry about semantics like this are just creating a problem where none exists. I'm a person with autism and I'm an autistic. It can be said either way.
I was diagnosed with Aspergers as a child in the 70’s, but nobody told me what it was called. Instead I was told I had a higher than average IQ, but that I learned differently and that I had a “shell” around me that made it difficult for me to make friends. My dad refused to acknowledge anything was different about me, and my mom told me that it was something I was doing, not really something I was. I got a little support from school for a couple of years, then for some reason it stopped. I only found out about my diagnosis a couple of years ago when I requested my public school records. Of course it was like a light going on as I thought, “Wow, so many things make sense now!” I learned mostly on my own how to cope, and I don’t feel like I need services, but I still struggle to form friendships, and mostly avoid social situations.
I am just turning 50 and taken a year off Uni because of health problems. My diagnosis started 6 years ago with Dyslexia, ADHD and Executive Disfunction followed more recently with Asperger's, and I suspect I also have Epilepsy, of witch I am waiting for formal diagnosis. I do sometimes struggle because there is no support where I live in the Highlands, so I've been self supporting. I have a very good understanding of ADHD and EF, but playing catch-up on ASD and Epilepsy. I tend to rely on the internet to get an overview and opinion of Neurological disorders and then follow up with more in-depth text books and theory. If my remaining degree goes well, I am considering a Masters in Psychology. Getting a diagnosis has been an absolute nightmare, especially at my age. GP's need some training in Neurological conditions, everyone of my appointments has led to dismissal of theory with no referral. I've had to battle to get across even a basic theoretical understanding. Something has to change..
I watch your videos because thankd to you I discovered I am on the spectrum. You see, when I was in my country (Venezuela) my psychologist told me I might be asperger. But then, after a few tests she said she was wrong. But then, when I moved to Spain I startes watching your videos and I realized she wasn't wrong. She was testing me as if I was a boy. I did not have some of the "symptoms" she thought I should have in order to get a diagnosis. I've had a real struggle all my life with anxiety (attempt of suicide included), issues with executive functioning, with sensory processing, with socialising, etc. But I also have special interests, I am self taught in many things and english is my second language (self taught as well). I began to think I was broken, that something was wrong with me. But your videos helped me to understand myself. I still don't have an official diagnosis but I will try to find it as soon as I can. Because I know I'm not wrong. I've been improving so much since I watch myself as an autistic person. Thank you, Dan :)
Your videos are really helpful. I'm a retired I.T. guy who made it through life undiagnosed. It was troublesome to say the least. I subscribed and am looking forward to learning more.
I was diagnosed with aspergers about 8 months ago (just before I turned 25). In Norway that's still a diagnosis, my psychologist doesn't use the term autism. It seems like more people understand the term aspergers too. Also here when it comes to access and need for support, it doesn't seem like there's a difference whether you've been diagnosed with aspergers or autism. I like to use the term aspergers since that's what I'm diagnosed with and what I'm referred to as, and I think it's upsetting that people in autism communities jump on me, saying it doesn't exist and that I'm being ableist (no, I don't think I'm ''better'' or ''higher functioning'' than other autistic people). It's just my diagnosis, which is still a thing in my country. It's just a word, like calling it leukemia vs (blood) cancer. It's the same thing, just a different word / term for it.
I'm in my 30's and had previously been diagnosed with a number of BFRBs , a few months ago someone linked some studies on links between BFRBs and stimming in autism and started reading up on it, then I found some resources on how it can present a bit differently in woman (and is often missed), spoke to my parents who nodded their heads frantically at all the stuff i was showing them and am wanting to seek a diagnosis once this pandemic stuff is over. I've found your videos really informative, you explain things very well.
I have multiple BFRBs as well. I believe It’s just another sign that is often missed. Of course you can have autism and not have BFRBs, but there is a correlation. It is tricky to get diagnosed, my parents didn’t believe me so I had to find a diagnostician myself. Thank goodness i was diagnosed (when looking back I thought it was so uncertain that I’d be diagnosed but reading the report, it was obvious I have it.)
@@Ellie-qq9zm You got there in the end though! I don't look forward to wrestling with the NHS (they've never had a good track record with treating me!) But I am lucky enough to have my parents full support in it, and they're willing to help out with filling in any details from childhood.
I was diagnosed last year as ASD Level 1, but most of the time I'll tell people I'm Asperger's Syndrome because I find it's more familiar and describes me better than "autistic". People seem to think "autistic" means kids having meltdowns, unable to speak, etc., the "classic" autism. Asperger's is more familiar as the "nerd autism" but people don't automatically assume you're disabled. (This is in the United States, btw.)
I have autism, but am not diagnosed yet (on the waiting list). I decided last year to get a diagnose, because I want to know exactly what autism means to me and want to be able to explain that to other people (when I work with new people for example). I did not decide earlier to get it, because I thought it wouldn't be neccesary. Later I realised that it would be better if I got it when I started college and work. I like to learn more about autism, since I thought at first it only meant trouble with socialicing and communication (I have a speech impediment and do not always get what people say right away). I already read a book about autism and follow a channel (in dutch) about autism by girls ( i am a girl). It's nice that you decided to make a channel about autism and other diagnoses! You are doing great!
In ISRAEL, the IDF, Israeli Defense Forces, will find a position for EVERYONE according to their skill set. Even ASPIES and people on the soectrum are given jobs, usually in fields of high-skill math.
My 4 year old was diagnosed with ASD. To me he appears to show signs of Aspergers. It’s awesome to be able to get some guidance from someone that has it. Helps me to help him appropriately. Thank you.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I am a parent to two boys with HFA. (Formerly-Aspergers). They also suffer from Anxiety and ADHD. I truly enjoy your channel, and share your content readily. You give me tremendous hope, and I am so grateful you have opened up a tiny bit of your life to the world. 😊
I got diagnosed with Aspergers back in January of this year, so I guess here in Norway the term is still used. I do want to use the term sometimes, but probably will use “autism” and “autistic” the most since it covers things the most. One thing I noticed with my mum was that when I got my diagnosis, she was a bit reluctant when it came to saying “autism”, still is a little, probably due to stigma. I really do not want it to be something I try to hide. That is not good for anyone🖤
Your videos have helped me so much! I found your channel about a year and a half ago when I was wondering what autism was and if my son was autistic. My son(6) was diagnosed in August, in November my daughter's teacher told me she shows autistic behaviors. She's almost 5. I thought no way because she is so much like me🤔so I started watching videos by autistic females. It turns out autism explains my whole life!! I've always thought I was different and I don't understand why no one thinks like me.(I'm 44) Learning about autism and the tools other people use in their daily lives has improved my mental health like you wouldn't believe. Understanding is amazing ♥️♥️
Last Christmas I had severe anxiety and decided to learn more about mental health issues, since my anxiety I had noticed I rock my wrist at my computer mouse and I now speak what I think without realising it . I went to the doctor and asked about me being autistic and he gave me the 50 question test which I scored 28. Could you do a video explaining what the scores mean because I read a page which said over 32 means you have asperges , but the computer said I have aspergers with a score of 28 , thanks .
Im sure I know the test you did... So, the test its just an approximation.The scores are from people with or without autism: 1-28 is usually neurotypical persons, 28-31 maybe Asperger-High functioning autism, 32-39 is more sure asperger and autism an more than 40 low functioning autism I think (or a score people with autism score less). So, maybe you are autistic, asperger or not, but with 28 or more is better to go to a profesional and talk about it if its really a problem for you. For example, I did the test several times online and my scores are around 36, but Im not sure enough of anything. It was months since you post this, I don't know what you did in this time, but do de test more times, overthinking the questions and watching more videos about is a good start. Sorry for my bad english, I'm from Spain.
Soundsory ordered! Thank you for the introduction and the discount! Just this morning, I was thinking how much I would like to take more control of my ADHD. I hope this system will help! I wasn’t diagnosed with Asperger’s until I was 43, but that diagnosis made sense of so much for me; my talents, my challenges, my “alien-ness” and my persistent feeling like I missed the rules to the social game of being human. I wish I could have known earlier. I would have gone much easier on myself, which would have ultimately been easier on my parents, too! Re: Nomenclature I would much rather use “Condition” than “Disorder”. ASD is what makes me Me in so many ways; that’s not a disorder, nor is it something I would change. Neurodiversity is as important to humanity’s future as any other measure of diversity is. Once again, thank you for doing what you’re doing!
My son who’s 5 was diagnosed with Aspergers/ASD about 6 months ago. I ran into your channel shortly after researching what it’s like in adults because I wanted to see what kind of man he could become because I knew nothing about autism like most of the population and there’s so much misinformation out there so I went to the source. It was then I realized I knew him better than anyone because I was resonating with everything that you, Yo Samdy Sam, Stephanie Bethany, and so many others were saying. I’m 100% sure I have ASD and 99% positive all 6 of my children are on the spectrum as well. Even my mom when I gave her this information also resonated with it too and it explains so much about us and our family history. I have taken probably 30 different quizzes in the last two months and they all comeback with the same results of having ASD. I did decide to pursue a formal diagnosis so I can speak on this, I have so much to share and quite a story to tell, my eval is in 2 weeks!
I am currently seeking a diagnosis of autism, I live in the United States and its difficult to find a provider that will evaluate adults. I enjoy your videos, they make me feel like I am not alone in this world.
I think I have Aspergers, but because I am high functioning, and had a bad childhood, it may just be a bad personality. I just scored 38 in the test you link to, but I'm not very good at seeking help, and the health care system in my area in Scotland is far from perfect, especially for mental health issues. I've been on anti-depressants for 20 years on and off, so I don't know. I don't even know if it matters. I'm reasonably intelligent in maths, science, engineering and things, but I don't take academic work well at all, especially if it seems like a waste of time, or something I don't want to learn. I also don't do well with authority or in job situations.
I really want to get diagnosed but my mom won't let me she won't even look into autism to see that there are people who don't need as much assistants as others and it's different from person to person but sadly I'll have to wait till I move out.
I am 21F and live in Switzerland. I got into therapy for depression and anxiety which got so much worse when I started uni in Zürich, especially sensory stuff. After a year of therapy I casually got one of your videos about girls on the spectrum. It was mindblowing and it basically became a special interest of mine 😂. So I went back to my therapist and asked her and she was like "yeah, thought about that too" and I took a few of the basic screening tests with her, like AQ, Ritvo, different EQs and SQs and everything suggested a diagnosis. I am still on a waiting list (9months) and having a very hard time at home. I am with my family due to the virus and my mother still says that it "you are not autistic yet, for now it's just an excuse you use" as if being autistic begins with diagnosis. It hurts me a lot, but I have kind of given up at this point, since every time I try to talk about my experience it becomes a "no but i read this and that" and if she gets contraddicted she just gets angry. I wanted to thank you for all your awesome work and for all the checklists, which helped with anxiety like, a lot. I wish to you and your family the best, stay safe. And thank you again 💛💛💛 Un abbraccio dal Ticino
Hey Moonshine At Noon, my fellow Aspie! It's a common pattern ( if you read the other comments ) that we have almost identical issues with our mothers!! I didn't get my diagnosis till I was 50 but it was after finding Dan's channel that I began to realise I had the traits of an Aspie girl. I am going to link a profile of female Asperger's ASD traits in my next comment for you. Sorry the process is taking a long time for you. Hang in there. Once you know for sure it makes sense of the past and provides a roadmap for the future. 💜
@@jenlovesthisstuff Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏🏻💛. I think that for me, finding this community and seeing that there are so many others who both struggle and shine with similar issues and talents was the true blessing. At the end of the day, diagnosis is more a confirmation and something that can be used to "shield" form expectations (if it makes sense?). I am happy that you finally got diagnosed 🐇🍄🌱 I also have a lot of respect (bewundere auf Deutsch) your strength, those 50 years without diagnosis must have been challenging 🙏🏻 Best wishes and happy acceptance month 💛💛💛
I've subscribe to this Chanel, find it really rather interesting. It's been suggested I may have aspergers but I'm waiting to be diagnosed. I have to wait four to six months for to get a diaginised as they not running for the worlds problems right now. I'm now 44 it should be diagnosed already, but if I do have it, it defiantly explains somethings in my life, and in away I hope I do have it :)
Hey Dan, thanks for everything you do to help people! I’m diagnosed with ADHD and am beginning to suspect I may be on the higher functioning end of the spectrum. Conversation has always been a struggle for me, but thankfully I’ve found my “niche” teaching drums at a place that doesn’t force me to interact with people I haven’t met. The band I play with is understanding of the fact that I don’t really know how to contribute to group conversations, or that I might miss a queue like not realizing I was supposed to stand up for the national anthem. This actually happened at one of our last shows and it was pretty funny!
In 2013 I was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome (+ a few other things like OCD) and that used to be the word I used but nowadays I just say I'm Autistic! I've gone through too many instances of people using me saying I have Aspergers instead of Autism to their (often ableist) benefit (ranging from my high school to my peers at college). Especially with me being female, using the Autistic label is important to me now (proving that girls CAN have Autism!) So, I'm open about my Autism and if allistic/neurotypicals don't like it, it makes it easier for me to know (and avoid them!)!
I am so glad I found your channel. My son is awaiting testing for high functioning autism. Some of the things he does makes total sense with that diagnosis a possibility.
Hey that’s awesome, happy you are here to!! When is the assessment? Did you see the guide I made on the assessment process? ua-cam.com/play/PLsnq_HpT7puSMrw4ZBMu21ImFvExNH6rv.html Thank you so much for the comment! Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).
In Canada, we don't talk about asperger syndrom anymore. We now use autism spectrum. I'm in the autism spectrum and I speak 2 languages (french and english). Sorry if my wording aren't correct. Drawing and remembering lyrics are my strengh with writing.
Hello from the US! I don't know if this will be buried but I've been watching your videos for about 4 months(I'm a "neutrotypical"). I found your channel because my boyfriend was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome as a child(he's 20 now). He has depression and anxiety as well. I know it's played a huge part in his life and he's been through such terrible things because of it. He doesn't like to talk about it with me very much and tries to forget it's there, but I've been learning about it to be a better support as his girlfriend. But as I started watching your channel and learning more about it, I started seeing traits he displays and it's been helping me understand him better. Your channel has helped me be a supportive and understanding partner, according to him. Because of you, it assures me that my wonderful boyfriend will be okay. Even if his self-esteem doesn't let him quite see that yet. He's such a sweet person with such a good-natured and loving heart, always being so thoughtful and kind to me and others. I love him so much and your videos have helped me so much, thank you so much and best wishes!
Im from South Wales and was diagnosed with Autism 2 weeks ago at the age of 32 (i havent had any paperwork yet), she also thinks i have SPD 🤷🏻♀️ Your videos have been super helpful to me over the last year whilst ive been waiting for diagnosis. I always thought that autism was little boys that couldnt talk. Ive been misdiagnosed with so many different things over the years because i wasnt aware of what autism was - i just wish i knew sooner so that i didnt have to struggle so much 🙈 Its great that your making these videos and raising awareness 👍🏻
I usually just say "I am ASD and am more Aspie then anything", my Psychologist hates the new guidelines and thinks they don't properly address the Asperger's/Autism differences.
I am level 1 ASD, but I can’t get diagnosed yet. I age out of family health insurance and my Uni insurance may not cover it. Also the pandemic needs to calm down before I even think of going for an eval. Also, where I live in the US doesn’t really have the best resources. I am doing all the research so that I can self-advocate like a boss when the time comes. I aim to be educated. I’m working to take of the mask and it’s been stressful, but freeing. Thx for your videos. I was diagnosed with ADD and OCD/anxiety as a child and I know that I still have those in addition to ASD based on the DSM-5. When you said you had ADHD and ASD I felt not crazy anymore cuz it introduced me to the fact of comorbidities with ASD.
My son ,who is 29 years. Diagnosed with OCD ODD and a touch of asperger's (from pre 2006) he does not agree with the diagnosis and does not treat and seems very unhappy. Not depressed just not enjoying life.
Hello, Dan. I find your videos really useful and calming. My mom and I believe I might be on the spectrum, but it's nearly impossible to get a diagnosis in Russia, so I feel bad trying to explain my behaviour to someone, because I can't be sure I'm not mistaken. I hope that one day I will be able to know for sure :(
Thank you, so much, for your videos. Earlier this month, I used the links you provided to self-test and, as a result had an evaluation last week here in the USA. Today I received my official diagnosis: "High-Functioning Autism Spectrum Disorder (previously referred to in the DSM-4 as Asperger's Syndrome)." The neuropsychologist who evaluated me said he doesn't like the grouping of AS under ASD because, "no one who knows you will believe you if you tell them you have Autism because you have no language deficits, you're intelligent, and you mask so well. But if you tell them you have Asperger's Syndrome, they'll either ask you to explain it or they'll say, 'oh yeah, that makes sense.'" I've lost count of the number of times I've said, "THAT'S why I do that," while watching your videos. Many of your comments have appeared to me as if you were an actor playing ME in a video. More than once, I've shouted, "this is my freaking biography," because your comments so closely mirror my experiences in some areas. (But, as you've said, when you meet one autistic person, you've met one autistic person." One additional thing I wanted to share that I will use to help me explain my condition to others. I work in web design and development, video editing, and other computer-related areas, so computer analogies work well for me. And I really like this one because I'm a Mac guy, too! 🍏 My doctor said that this is an accurate analogy of HF-ASD / Asperger's Syndrome vs. the neurotypical mind: Most people have no problem using Windows software because they're running the Windows operating system on their computers. Macs can run Windows and Windows software, but it takes more effort, is more complicated, and it makes your computer work harder. Your brain is a Mac computer in a predominantly Windows world. Life is harder, more complicated, and more tiring for you, but you can still get the job done just as well, and sometimes better than others.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I have autism. One of my special interests is betta fish keeping. I met a student in the college I work at who just got a betta and she had him in a bowl with in treated tap water. I gave her one of my old tanks, a filter, water dechlorinator, and a care guide for her fish. She was happy but she didn't ask for the help. I had to tell her sorry for being intrusive as well because when I told my neuro-typical roommate about it she said it was weird. I just really love bettas and I didn't think it would be weird.
My son was diagnosed with Aspergers last year when he turned 8. However his school lists him as being autistic. As autism and Aspergers are now coded under the same code. I’m actually in school for medical coding at the moment and it’s kind of cool to see how they are changing up the coding system to make sure that people are getting the support they need.
I don't entirely agree that Asperger's and autism are one and the same. I think it's a shame to see the word Asperger's being phased out as a diagnosis, even in the forthcoming ICD-11. Although I see a benefit in just having 'ASD' in order to receive more support etc., and it's obvious that autism is, like with many other conditions, on a spectrum, I still think that 'ASD' is way too broad a diagnosis. Bipolar Disorder is a spectrum, but still has three main subtypes on the DSM-5 - is it not valid that autism could have various subtypes, including Asperger's as one? Also, Asperger's has subtle differences from so-called 'high-functioning' autism. I feel that features such as a lack of speech delay and often high intelligence, as well as other subtle traits, surely justify it being kept even as an ASD subtype; I think it's a shame that this diagnosis is essentially being consigned to the dustbin when, as research conducted by Prof. Tony Attwood/Dr. Lorna Wing suggests, it does differentiate subtle traits within the autistic spectrum. However, I certainly don't view Asperger's as superior to autism, I just feel that the new diagnostic criteria is too broad and does not represent autism accurately.
I have Asperger's/pdd-nos and ADHD (inattentive). So what I like to say is I'm one of the prongs of the umbrella on the spectrum. I was actually diagnosed while reconfirming my ADHD diagnosis.
I like ASD as Autistic spectrum DESIGN! Like the difference between a petrol or diesel engine. Neither are inferior, we are all valuable and necessary. I don't have a disorder, I have shortcomings for sure, my gifts and skills are gifts.
I helped my son reduce aggression and improve in speech and social skill with the help of Dr Oyalo herbal supplement I got from UA-cam here. His herbs work perfectly
I have ADHD but I've recently been encouraging my partner to investigate whether he has ASD, so I'm trying to learn more! He struggles with a lot of the executive dysfunction, emotional regulation, and sensory issues I do. The differences being that he has no problem focusing at work, he finds socialising incredibly draining (while I hate being alone) he is distressed by changes in routine, and recently told me he fakes eye contact, even with me! The only things that don't seem to fit with ASD are that he is actually VERY good at understanding metaphorical language (hes a talented writer), picks up on social cues well, and experiences empathetic feelings intensely, to a degree that is almost debilitating for him.
@@TheAspieWorld I have been a sub for a long time. Even when your channel was small. I enjoy the content Dan. I am the Jesse James that is in isolation in the woods due to Covid 19...in Tennessee... I had the virus but as of yesterday ...I am over the virus now. You inspire me in so many ways...and I am so glad your channel is blowing up...
I have autisim though im not well versed in it in the context of how it effects me personally, perhaps that will change should i start doing therapy. Thank you for making these videos though, they have shed light on some things
I helped my son reduce aggression and improve in speech and social skill with the help of Dr Oyalo herbal supplement I got from UA-cam here. His herbs work perfectly
You asked - I'm listening to you for my studies of mental health. I appreciate your view. I was in scientology for 40 years and we were indoctrinated to not acknowledge any views on mental health except those by L Ron Hubbard. It's really fun getting educated at 67 when Im retired, kids are grown up and I'm just living in my 24 feet RV traveling the USA. Unlimited access to the worlds librarys and classes for nearly free. Great time to be alive. I've heard you explain this a while back. Did you forget? 😄
Hi Dan. Thanks for your videos, along with videos from a couple of other UA-camrs I find them very useful and informative. I've just turned 40. This year I reached my breaking point and after seeing my...well I'm not sure what her official title is, I'll just call her my 'mental health care leader'...for a few months, she told me about 5 weeks ago that although she can't officially diagnose me (she's made a referral for me to her colleagues who can, for diagnosis) that I very likely have Asperger's Syndrome. It's been a bit of a rollercoaster lately and it's only been the last few weeks that I've started to look at this more positively (read as; without breaking down in tears over it every 10minutes). I don't know anyone else on the spectrum, but I find myself relating very strongly to yourself and a couple of others on this platform. Keep the vids coming. Cheers fella.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
don't know if you're still paying attention to comments on this vid, but. I'm here to help my son. He's Aspie, ADHD, and has recently started having seizures that seem to be triggered by stress. He's also 12 and those "fun" hormones are kicking in pretty hard. Hoping I can get more ideas on how to help him to help himself
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I'm sure I'm autistic, but no one in Bulgaria can diagnose an adult because here autism in general is defined as "child autism" and when diagnosed children grow up, they're no more considered autistic but considered to have something like mental retardation. Can you believe this? BTW Aspergers Syndrom is still a valid diagnose here today.
Oh really? How come you cannot get any one to diagnosed you there? Thank you so much for the comment! Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).
I personally have an Aspergers diagnosis and still hold on to the old diagnosis term because even if its a spectrum disorder, my part of the spectrum is too unique from standard autism in my view. I do watch this channel for my own personal benefit. But my paid job is as a para in disability classrooms. And my unpaid job in the scouts, is not just as a scoutmaster at a special needs accommodating troop. But I function as an autism advocate for my local district and teach classes on autism to other scoutmaster at the district and council level.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I was recently diagnosed with Asperger's but even though I am considered to be autistic I am currently in one of the top-rated high schools in South Africa and and while I'm nowhere close to being the top student I'm still doing just as well as almost everyone else
I helped my son reduce aggression and improve in speech and social skill with the help of Dr Oyalo herbal supplement I got from UA-cam here. His herbs work perfectly
I wasn't diagnosed untill I was 23. 25 now. I have been send to a psychiatry twice. In primary school and secondary school. No one new why I was so socialy awkward, in my own world sometimes and shy. I also think I have add but no one is willing to look at that problem.
Hiya, I've recently been diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome and ocd. I got diagnosed with these disorders after giving birth. I have a few questions and wondered if you had any knowledge on this. Firstly I wondered has anyone ever had addiction issues due to their diagnosis.so I have a drink problem because I used alcohol as a clutch to cope with my disorders and it has become a huge problem. Secondly I wondered if you or anyone can't cope with hysterical people or somebody acting extremely emotional,I just can't cope with hysterical behaviour from others. I'm a huge loner to and try to avoid others at all costs and this ends up in loneliness, I actually only like being around people I know really well ie family, friends I've know for years. Also I could spend the whole day just learning about facts I tend to watch top 5s on UA-cam on here to and I am obsessed with the channel. Lastly I am obsess d with horror, and I will literally watch the same films over and over again everyday. There are so many things but I can't get it all out. I would appreciate it if you could try your best to answer these questions as best you can. Thanks Dan
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
In Germany we still have the term "Asperger's Syndrome", because of the ICD 10 we use here. So it's still called F84.5 Asperger's Syndrome. On my diagnosis paper it says "Autism Spectrum Disorder (F84.5 Asperger's Syndrome)". I guess when we get updated to the ICD 11 in Germany there won't be any Asperger's anymore. But people still use this term a lot here. :)
I was just diagnosed this year at 36, and I've not been comfortable with really telling anyone yet. It's probably based on being constantly referred to by dyslexia going through school. It sucks being identified as a condition or a special case. Also being higher functioning, I don't want to deal with people trying to argue that I'm not...
I am trying to find out about getting diagnosis, basically I fell down a rabbit hole whilst researching stuff to debunk antivaxxers and their ridiculous claims, the more I looked into ASD the more certain behaviours "quirks" and sensory issues of mine started to make sense.
I am not on the autism spectrum, but I have a best friend who’s son is autistic and I babysit him. My son has ADHD, ODD, anxiety, and something else I can never remember the name of... but the two of them are so similar! I find your videos helpful to help the boys. My friends son I find it helps him more to challenge him to do things he doesn’t want to do... ie: using the toilet and wearing underwear. With my son I find it better to make a task seem like his idea, because if he thinks it’s my idea he will become quite defiant because of his oppositional defiance disorder. 🤣 I love both boys, because they are super funny, silly, and sweet.
I'm feeling upset and happy at same time. I seem to have a few traits that I always recognized as my quirky Aquarian Personality. But now I can claim Spectrum. I should get full test but I kind of like the idea that my quirks now have a name. And bottom line I am an extremely happy and contented fella.
I helped my son reduce aggression and improve in speech and social skill with the help of Dr Oyalo herbal supplement I got from UA-cam here. His herbs work perfectly
I am 20 and was diagnosed with ADD since childhood. For the last two years I have been researching autism. I'm pretty sure I have high functioning autism/ Asperger's syndrome, OCD and some anxiety. And since I am a girl, I tend to mask alot of my symptoms.
I’m researching Asperger’s syndrome because my therapist has hinted it might be the case. I also have anxiety and depression. If you could get in contact this would be a massive help for me ! 🙏
Oh interesting!! Here is a playlist about how to get diagnosed: ua-cam.com/play/PLsnq_HpT7puSMrw4ZBMu21ImFvExNH6rv.html Thank you so much for the comment! Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).
I recently discovered that I have Aspergers. The patterns have been there most of my life, and now I am struggling with the realization in adulthood. My diagnosis came right after a break-up with someone who I sincerely and deeply loved. Reflecting on the relationship, my symptoms and confusion of what was happening to me contributed heavily towards the break-up. I am getting in touch with myself and understanding more how to adapt with Aspergers. I do want her back, but know it will take time. What should I do? PS. your videos have helped lots!
Both me and my youngest brother are one the ASD both us were diagnosed before it changed with Asperger my brother being somewhat more effected but both of us mainly have trouble socially.
I was diagnosed with high functioning autism at age 3 or 4. Autism Acceptance is with understanding and knowledge gifts and talent autistic people have.
Hi, Daniel, *Thank you for what you do in spreading awareness and helping those of us who are on the spectrum!* This is one of my favorite months of the year: World Autism Awareness Month. I was "diagnosed" with Asperger's Syndrome and I never allowed my Autism (and nearly 20 years of teasing) to have the prerogative to slow me down, insofar of getting my first book published last year at age 23 and an Associate's in Chemistry. I was on radio yesterday morning speaking about my journey with autism. Here's my annual video from a firsthand's perspective (including the mini radio interview): ua-cam.com/video/kMHoMH15FS8/v-deo.html I personally thank you in spreading awareness. It brings peace to my heart.
I think I have autism but the idea of going for a diagnosis freaked me out, but I’m not at ease not having an answer, so I don’t really know what to do
Scarlett Valentine If you feel you need one badly enough, you’ll find a way. I tried to forget about the whole thing (seeking a diagnosis for autism) out of fear that I was wrong, but I couldn’t just forget. So I sought one out, and I tell you it was worth it. For me, it was a year and a half from when I started suspecting it and when I was finally diagnosed. It may not hurt to start the process already, because it could take a while. And then you’ll get it over with.
In my late forties, the powers that be, tested me and have given me the following lables. Adult aspergers, A-sexual or sexuality and having an IQ of 136.. All of this didn't help me understand this condition.. I'm and old man now, and it might be nice to understand just what I've missed in life..!..? Can you give me a direction..!
I was diagnosed by an Autism specialist psychiatrist back in 2009, she explained that the difference between Autism and Asperger Syndrome is learning ability. People diagnosed with Autism have language difficulties and/or a below average IQ, people with Asperger Syndrome have no language difficulties and an IQ that's average or higher.
That could be possible, I have aspergers and I started saying my first words at 10 months, and now at 25 I speak almost 9 languages. Don't know about IQ, but I've always learned very fast and can have a pretty good memory, and I read 700-1000 words per minute.
I'm fond of the Aspie descriptor. Like, you're Pretty ok at dealing with things, but some stuff is hard (some stuff is Very hard), and I'm kinda weird. Using Autistic feels... I dunno, fraudulent? And that's likely because of certain ways mine manifests- more like it does in women, actually, and so my masking and splinter skill ability is High. I crafted the "social pantomimes" by observing others, and mask on an Internal level, I guess due to my acting ability- I Become another character. like method acting. I only have Serious issues when I run out of script, or that character cracks and the LARP fails and actual me with it's shortcomings comes bleeding through. Was this a healthy solution? I don't know. probably not. I wasn't allowed to have such shortcomings- and not in the "Thou shalt", it's just my family had Way more faith in my capacity to overcome whatever shortcomings might've been there (like dyslexia and dyscalculia, and depression and This) than perhaps I had, and I was expected to manage regardless. All from love, but damn that's caused me some stress. I know part of that is my age- mid 40's. Nobody knew. Happened to my mother with Dyslexia, before anybody knew about that. And my grandmother. "Weirdo" was no excuse. Things had to get done anyway. So now I'm down this ASD rabbit hole. And trying to figure out what I've just gotta soldier through, and what I can forgive myself for accepting "No, I really don't have to splat myself against that wall, Again" I dunno man. Thanks for your channel. It helps.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I dont know if I'm on the spectrum I've never be diagnosed with it but I've never been completely honest and forthcoming with psychiatrists. Regardless I know I'm different and have different challenges than most people.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I just like to research these kinds of things. My closest friends are on the spectrum, one of them is getting evaluated for Autism. They like to joke that if I were to get myself tested, they wouldn't be suprised if I came out with a diagnosis. They also like to tell me that a lot of my family members have autistic tendancies.
My son is like you, diagnosed with Aspergers and now is “on the spectrum”. He graduated from college last year, has a job in his field. Doing great. Turns 23 in June!
Oh interesting, thanks for sharing!! Thank you so much for the comment! Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).
I was diagnosed as autistic while be treated for CPTSD. My husband is also on the spectrum. We each have strengths where the other has deficits., which we think is pretty cool.
I just was told i have cptsd and hence has my feels about being in the spectrum... wild.
I have cptsd, but I feel like I am high functional on the spectrum.
I'd love more discussion about ADHD and how it relates to autism. Seems like there's a lot of emerging research that ADHD is an ASD sub-type, or at least related in some way.
Adhd is not related to autism,many people with autism too shows symptoms of adhd
It took absolutely ages to get my psychiatrist to believe me, especially since whenever my mom was in the room with us (I'm only 19, been trying to get this diagnosis since my friend pointed it out because I'm so similar to her brother when I was like 17) she would contradict me every time I said I showed a particular behavior as a child; as if she'd know, she worked all the time when I was little, the person to ask would be my dad but my parents are divorced and he lives in a different state. It was infuriating.
I'm pursuing a diagnosis as a 32 year old. I really don't want to have my mom with me though because she does not respect my privacy. I love her, but I don't want her to tell everyone everything. Especially when I don't know or trust them.
@@gingercultleader5500 She's so overprotective. She constantly talks over me or tries to speak for me instead of even letting me try to do it myself. I'm a selective mute, btw.
Oh man!!
@@TheAspieWorld Hey! You replied to me! That's so cool! I'm a big fan!
@@patchworkundead4787 I am pretty nervous about getting assessed because it takes a special kind of relationship between parent and adult offspring. Kind of like the parent needs to adopt the role of the confidant, rather than embarrass you. Also, selective mutism makes it even more difficult. I hope your assessor sees your distress and talks to you one on one about it.
I was just diagnosed yesterday! Thank you for your videos. They have been helping me to come to terms with things since I was referred back in October. 💗
Amazing!! Welcome to the family! Thank you so much for the comment! Make sure you are subscribed and have the notifications turned on :).
@@TheAspieWorld Dear Dan, you need to take the time to properly read the comments that you reply to, going over the words and what is actually being said so that you can respond in a fitting manner instead of leaving generic sounding comments 👍🏼
@@cyclinggirl3212 Yes. I think replies are abit impersonal & appear to be sub motivated. I won't sub for that reason 🤣 Illogical logic. Oppositional defiance lol.
How are you doing now days? I got my diagnosis a few months ago
@@AustinRoberts88 I hope it has helped you to understand yourself.
It took me a while to get used to the idea and I still struggle with internalised ableism from time to time but honestly, life has gotten better. The people around me cut me more slack and are more understanding when I need downtime. I went to a wedding earlier this year and the couple alerted me that I could go and have a rest in their “getting ready room” if I needed to decompress. It really helped get me through what was a really long day of lots of people and socialising. I also knew that I would need to put aside a couple of days afterwards for rest and to recover. I hope that your journey is also a positive one. There are times when it isn’t as positive obviously but for the most part, my quality of life has improved as I understand more about myself and can take proactive steps to protect my mental well-being. Good luck!
I was Dx in Dec 2019 with ASD-1, CPTSD, depression and OCD. Currently, I am researching what exactly all of that really means. Watching your videos is very helpful. Thanks 🙏
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Cptsd has a similar symptomology to Aspergers.
My sister, father and I are ASD. My sister wasn’t diagnosed until her 20’s, and I was 42. As I examine my family closer, my dad’s side of the family has many, many people going generations back that are all consistent with ASD. Thanks for all you do!
Hi Dan! I live in the northeast USA and was wondering if autism spectrum conditions could be hereditary?
My brother and I are also ASD, and it was only when my dad started looking into it that he realised he shared a lot of traits, and he's now been diagnosed. Again my dad's side of the family has a lot of people with ASD, which makes sense because autism is passed down the male line.
I was diagnosed in Feb with autism. She told me "previously known as asperger's". And I'm so relieved. It took a lot to get my psychiatrist to send me for an assessment. He had previously misdiagnosed me with bipolar and bpd after a huge meltdown in his office.
you're doing great work man
Thank you so much!!
I am not diagnost female human being from 23 years old and that after some research and expercience from my life really think that i am on the spectrum.
What are your thoughts on 'being autistic' as compared to 'having autism'? I'm very much along the lines of 'being autistic'. I can't be anything else. It's like I'm tall - I don't have height. I just wish there was a similar way to describe ADHD. All the best for you.
@Hannah Price thank you! :)
A person could say something about their "foot", or they could say something about "that thing at the end of my ankle that has toes".
Guess what? THEY MEAN THE SAME THING.
People who worry about semantics like this are just creating a problem where none exists. I'm a person with autism and I'm an autistic. It can be said either way.
I'm looking into getting diagnosed and I am trying to find out as much as I can!
Cameron Walker check out the video of Sarah Hendrickx on autism in females and girls. That really helped me getting diagnosed.
Same❤️
@@penguinsis Penguin is in your name
I was diagnosed with Aspergers as a child in the 70’s, but nobody told me what it was called. Instead I was told I had a higher than average IQ, but that I learned differently and that I had a “shell” around me that made it difficult for me to make friends. My dad refused to acknowledge anything was different about me, and my mom told me that it was something I was doing, not really something I was.
I got a little support from school for a couple of years, then for some reason it stopped. I only found out about my diagnosis a couple of years ago when I requested my public school records. Of course it was like a light going on as I thought, “Wow, so many things make sense now!”
I learned mostly on my own how to cope, and I don’t feel like I need services, but I still struggle to form friendships, and mostly avoid social situations.
Ah yeah that is super interesting. Thank you so much for the comment! Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).
I am just turning 50 and taken a year off Uni because of health problems. My diagnosis started 6 years ago with Dyslexia, ADHD and Executive Disfunction followed more recently with Asperger's, and I suspect I also have Epilepsy, of witch I am waiting for formal diagnosis. I do sometimes struggle because there is no support where I live in the Highlands, so I've been self supporting. I have a very good understanding of ADHD and EF, but playing catch-up on ASD and Epilepsy. I tend to rely on the internet to get an overview and opinion of Neurological disorders and then follow up with more in-depth text books and theory. If my remaining degree goes well, I am considering a Masters in Psychology.
Getting a diagnosis has been an absolute nightmare, especially at my age. GP's need some training in Neurological conditions, everyone of my appointments has led to dismissal of theory with no referral. I've had to battle to get across even a basic theoretical understanding. Something has to change..
I watch your videos because thankd to you I discovered I am on the spectrum. You see, when I was in my country (Venezuela) my psychologist told me I might be asperger. But then, after a few tests she said she was wrong. But then, when I moved to Spain I startes watching your videos and I realized she wasn't wrong. She was testing me as if I was a boy. I did not have some of the "symptoms" she thought I should have in order to get a diagnosis.
I've had a real struggle all my life with anxiety (attempt of suicide included), issues with executive functioning, with sensory processing, with socialising, etc.
But I also have special interests, I am self taught in many things and english is my second language (self taught as well).
I began to think I was broken, that something was wrong with me. But your videos helped me to understand myself. I still don't have an official diagnosis but I will try to find it as soon as I can. Because I know I'm not wrong. I've been improving so much since I watch myself as an autistic person.
Thank you, Dan :)
Your videos are really helpful. I'm a retired I.T. guy who made it through life undiagnosed. It was troublesome to say the least. I subscribed and am looking forward to learning more.
I was diagnosed with aspergers about 8 months ago (just before I turned 25). In Norway that's still a diagnosis, my psychologist doesn't use the term autism. It seems like more people understand the term aspergers too. Also here when it comes to access and need for support, it doesn't seem like there's a difference whether you've been diagnosed with aspergers or autism.
I like to use the term aspergers since that's what I'm diagnosed with and what I'm referred to as, and I think it's upsetting that people in autism communities jump on me, saying it doesn't exist and that I'm being ableist (no, I don't think I'm ''better'' or ''higher functioning'' than other autistic people). It's just my diagnosis, which is still a thing in my country. It's just a word, like calling it leukemia vs (blood) cancer. It's the same thing, just a different word / term for it.
I'm in my 30's and had previously been diagnosed with a number of BFRBs , a few months ago someone linked some studies on links between BFRBs and stimming in autism and started reading up on it, then I found some resources on how it can present a bit differently in woman (and is often missed), spoke to my parents who nodded their heads frantically at all the stuff i was showing them and am wanting to seek a diagnosis once this pandemic stuff is over.
I've found your videos really informative, you explain things very well.
I have multiple BFRBs as well. I believe It’s just another sign that is often missed. Of course you can have autism and not have BFRBs, but there is a correlation. It is tricky to get diagnosed, my parents didn’t believe me so I had to find a diagnostician myself. Thank goodness i was diagnosed (when looking back I thought it was so uncertain that I’d be diagnosed but reading the report, it was obvious I have it.)
@@Ellie-qq9zm You got there in the end though! I don't look forward to wrestling with the NHS (they've never had a good track record with treating me!) But I am lucky enough to have my parents full support in it, and they're willing to help out with filling in any details from childhood.
I was diagnosed last year as ASD Level 1, but most of the time I'll tell people I'm Asperger's Syndrome because I find it's more familiar and describes me better than "autistic". People seem to think "autistic" means kids having meltdowns, unable to speak, etc., the "classic" autism. Asperger's is more familiar as the "nerd autism" but people don't automatically assume you're disabled. (This is in the United States, btw.)
I have autism, but am not diagnosed yet (on the waiting list). I decided last year to get a diagnose, because I want to know exactly what autism means to me and want to be able to explain that to other people (when I work with new people for example).
I did not decide earlier to get it, because I thought it wouldn't be neccesary. Later I realised that it would be better if I got it when I started college and work.
I like to learn more about autism, since I thought at first it only meant trouble with socialicing and communication (I have a speech impediment and do not always get what people say right away). I already read a book about autism and follow a channel (in dutch) about autism by girls ( i am a girl).
It's nice that you decided to make a channel about autism and other diagnoses! You are doing great!
In ISRAEL, the IDF, Israeli Defense Forces, will find a position for EVERYONE according to their skill set. Even ASPIES and people on the soectrum are given jobs, usually in fields of high-skill math.
Hans Asperger some people hate the guy because of some dark history of him, from what I see it sounds confusing?
My 4 year old was diagnosed with ASD. To me he appears to show signs of Aspergers. It’s awesome to be able to get some guidance from someone that has it. Helps me to help him appropriately. Thank you.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I am a parent to two boys with HFA. (Formerly-Aspergers). They also suffer from Anxiety and ADHD. I truly enjoy your channel, and share your content readily. You give me tremendous hope, and I am so grateful you have opened up a tiny bit of your life to the world. 😊
I got diagnosed with Aspergers back in January of this year, so I guess here in Norway the term is still used. I do want to use the term sometimes, but probably will use “autism” and “autistic” the most since it covers things the most.
One thing I noticed with my mum was that when I got my diagnosis, she was a bit reluctant when it came to saying “autism”, still is a little, probably due to stigma. I really do not want it to be something I try to hide. That is not good for anyone🖤
Your videos have helped me so much! I found your channel about a year and a half ago when I was wondering what autism was and if my son was autistic. My son(6) was diagnosed in August, in November my daughter's teacher told me she shows autistic behaviors. She's almost 5. I thought no way because she is so much like me🤔so I started watching videos by autistic females. It turns out autism explains my whole life!! I've always thought I was different and I don't understand why no one thinks like me.(I'm 44) Learning about autism and the tools other people use in their daily lives has improved my mental health like you wouldn't believe. Understanding is amazing ♥️♥️
Last Christmas I had severe anxiety and decided to learn more about mental health issues, since my anxiety I had noticed I rock my wrist at my computer mouse and I now speak what I think without realising it . I went to the doctor and asked about me being autistic and he gave me the 50 question test which I scored 28. Could you do a video explaining what the scores mean because I read a page which said over 32 means you have asperges , but the computer said I have aspergers with a score of 28 , thanks .
Im sure I know the test you did...
So, the test its just an approximation.The scores are from people with or without autism: 1-28 is usually neurotypical persons, 28-31 maybe Asperger-High functioning autism, 32-39 is more sure asperger and autism an more than 40 low functioning autism I think (or a score people with autism score less). So, maybe you are autistic, asperger or not, but with 28 or more is better to go to a profesional and talk about it if its really a problem for you.
For example, I did the test several times online and my scores are around 36, but Im not sure enough of anything. It was months since you post this, I don't know what you did in this time, but do de test more times, overthinking the questions and watching more videos about is a good start.
Sorry for my bad english, I'm from Spain.
Soundsory ordered! Thank you for the introduction and the discount! Just this morning, I was thinking how much I would like to take more control of my ADHD. I hope this system will help!
I wasn’t diagnosed with Asperger’s until I was 43, but that diagnosis made sense of so much for me; my talents, my challenges, my “alien-ness” and my persistent feeling like I missed the rules to the social game of being human. I wish I could have known earlier. I would have gone much easier on myself, which would have ultimately been easier on my parents, too!
Re: Nomenclature
I would much rather use “Condition” than “Disorder”. ASD is what makes me Me in so many ways; that’s not a disorder, nor is it something I would change. Neurodiversity is as important to humanity’s future as any other measure of diversity is.
Once again, thank you for doing what you’re doing!
I'm from the UK & my diagnosis reads - High Functioning Autism.
KarmicBytes yes I’m from uk and that’s what my son is diagnosed with.
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My son who’s 5 was diagnosed with Aspergers/ASD about 6 months ago. I ran into your channel shortly after researching what it’s like in adults because I wanted to see what kind of man he could become because I knew nothing about autism like most of the population and there’s so much misinformation out there so I went to the source. It was then I realized I knew him better than anyone because I was resonating with everything that you, Yo Samdy Sam, Stephanie Bethany, and so many others were saying. I’m 100% sure I have ASD and 99% positive all 6 of my children are on the spectrum as well. Even my mom when I gave her this information also resonated with it too and it explains so much about us and our family history. I have taken probably 30 different quizzes in the last two months and they all comeback with the same results of having ASD. I did decide to pursue a formal diagnosis so I can speak on this, I have so much to share and quite a story to tell, my eval is in 2 weeks!
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I’m subscribed! Thanks for you and others speaking out, I’m looking forward to creating my own channel. I have so much to share! Eval is April 27th!
I am currently seeking a diagnosis of autism, I live in the United States and its difficult to find a provider that will evaluate adults. I enjoy your videos, they make me feel like I am not alone in this world.
HAPPY AUTISM AWARENESS DAY/WEEK/MONTH👍
I was diagnosed Aspy with ADHD as well, but not until I was 54! I have 2 daughters on the spectrum too - so to us its just our superpower!
I think I have Aspergers, but because I am high functioning, and had a bad childhood, it may just be a bad personality. I just scored 38 in the test you link to, but I'm not very good at seeking help, and the health care system in my area in Scotland is far from perfect, especially for mental health issues. I've been on anti-depressants for 20 years on and off, so I don't know. I don't even know if it matters. I'm reasonably intelligent in maths, science, engineering and things, but I don't take academic work well at all, especially if it seems like a waste of time, or something I don't want to learn. I also don't do well with authority or in job situations.
I really want to get diagnosed but my mom won't let me she won't even look into autism to see that there are people who don't need as much assistants as others and it's different from person to person but sadly I'll have to wait till I move out.
I am 21F and live in Switzerland. I got into therapy for depression and anxiety which got so much worse when I started uni in Zürich, especially sensory stuff. After a year of therapy I casually got one of your videos about girls on the spectrum. It was mindblowing and it basically became a special interest of mine 😂. So I went back to my therapist and asked her and she was like "yeah, thought about that too" and I took a few of the basic screening tests with her, like AQ, Ritvo, different EQs and SQs and everything suggested a diagnosis. I am still on a waiting list (9months) and having a very hard time at home. I am with my family due to the virus and my mother still says that it "you are not autistic yet, for now it's just an excuse you use" as if being autistic begins with diagnosis. It hurts me a lot, but I have kind of given up at this point, since every time I try to talk about my experience it becomes a "no but i read this and that" and if she gets contraddicted she just gets angry.
I wanted to thank you for all your awesome work and for all the checklists, which helped with anxiety like, a lot.
I wish to you and your family the best, stay safe. And thank you again
💛💛💛 Un abbraccio dal Ticino
Hey Moonshine At Noon, my fellow Aspie! It's a common pattern ( if you read the other comments ) that we have almost identical issues with our mothers!!
I didn't get my diagnosis till I was 50 but it was after finding Dan's channel that I began to realise I had the traits of an Aspie girl. I am going to link a profile of female Asperger's ASD traits in my next comment for you. Sorry the process is taking a long time for you. Hang in there. Once you know for sure it makes sense of the past and provides a roadmap for the future. 💜
@@jenlovesthisstuff Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏🏻💛. I think that for me, finding this community and seeing that there are so many others who both struggle and shine with similar issues and talents was the true blessing. At the end of the day, diagnosis is more a confirmation and something that can be used to "shield" form expectations (if it makes sense?).
I am happy that you finally got diagnosed 🐇🍄🌱 I also have a lot of respect (bewundere auf Deutsch) your strength, those 50 years without diagnosis must have been challenging 🙏🏻
Best wishes and happy acceptance month 💛💛💛
I've subscribe to this Chanel, find it really rather interesting.
It's been suggested I may have aspergers but I'm waiting to be diagnosed.
I have to wait four to six months for to get a diaginised as they not running for the worlds problems right now.
I'm now 44 it should be diagnosed already, but if I do have it, it defiantly explains somethings in my life, and in away I hope I do have it :)
Nice video Dan. I was diagnosed with ASD but I refer to the word Aspergers
I agree! I refer to myself as an Aspie 😊
Hey Dan, thanks for everything you do to help people! I’m diagnosed with ADHD and am beginning to suspect I may be on the higher functioning end of the spectrum. Conversation has always been a struggle for me, but thankfully I’ve found my “niche” teaching drums at a place that doesn’t force me to interact with people I haven’t met. The band I play with is understanding of the fact that I don’t really know how to contribute to group conversations, or that I might miss a queue like not realizing I was supposed to stand up for the national anthem. This actually happened at one of our last shows and it was pretty funny!
Literally no doctor in ohio has told me Aspergers name was changed.
In 2013 I was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome (+ a few other things like OCD) and that used to be the word I used but nowadays I just say I'm Autistic! I've gone through too many instances of people using me saying I have Aspergers instead of Autism to their (often ableist) benefit (ranging from my high school to my peers at college). Especially with me being female, using the Autistic label is important to me now (proving that girls CAN have Autism!) So, I'm open about my Autism and if allistic/neurotypicals don't like it, it makes it easier for me to know (and avoid them!)!
I am so glad I found your channel. My son is awaiting testing for high functioning autism. Some of the things he does makes total sense with that diagnosis a possibility.
Hey that’s awesome, happy you are here to!! When is the assessment? Did you see the guide I made on the assessment process? ua-cam.com/play/PLsnq_HpT7puSMrw4ZBMu21ImFvExNH6rv.html Thank you so much for the comment! Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).
In Canada, we don't talk about asperger syndrom anymore. We now use autism spectrum. I'm in the autism spectrum and I speak 2 languages (french and english). Sorry if my wording aren't correct. Drawing and remembering lyrics are my strengh with writing.
Hello from the US! I don't know if this will be buried but I've been watching your videos for about 4 months(I'm a "neutrotypical"). I found your channel because my boyfriend was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome as a child(he's 20 now). He has depression and anxiety as well. I know it's played a huge part in his life and he's been through such terrible things because of it. He doesn't like to talk about it with me very much and tries to forget it's there, but I've been learning about it to be a better support as his girlfriend. But as I started watching your channel and learning more about it, I started seeing traits he displays and it's been helping me understand him better.
Your channel has helped me be a supportive and understanding partner, according to him. Because of you, it assures me that my wonderful boyfriend will be okay. Even if his self-esteem doesn't let him quite see that yet.
He's such a sweet person with such a good-natured and loving heart, always being so thoughtful and kind to me and others. I love him so much and your videos have helped me so much, thank you so much and best wishes!
Im from South Wales and was diagnosed with Autism 2 weeks ago at the age of 32 (i havent had any paperwork yet), she also thinks i have SPD 🤷🏻♀️ Your videos have been super helpful to me over the last year whilst ive been waiting for diagnosis. I always thought that autism was little boys that couldnt talk. Ive been misdiagnosed with so many different things over the years because i wasnt aware of what autism was - i just wish i knew sooner so that i didnt have to struggle so much 🙈 Its great that your making these videos and raising awareness 👍🏻
I usually just say "I am ASD and am more Aspie then anything", my Psychologist hates the new guidelines and thinks they don't properly address the Asperger's/Autism differences.
I am level 1 ASD, but I can’t get diagnosed yet. I age out of family health insurance and my Uni insurance may not cover it. Also the pandemic needs to calm down before I even think of going for an eval. Also, where I live in the US doesn’t really have the best resources. I am doing all the research so that I can self-advocate like a boss when the time comes. I aim to be educated. I’m working to take of the mask and it’s been stressful, but freeing. Thx for your videos. I was diagnosed with ADD and OCD/anxiety as a child and I know that I still have those in addition to ASD based on the DSM-5. When you said you had ADHD and ASD I felt not crazy anymore cuz it introduced me to the fact of comorbidities with ASD.
My son ,who is 29 years. Diagnosed with OCD ODD and a touch of asperger's (from pre 2006) he does not agree with the diagnosis and does not treat and seems very unhappy. Not depressed just not enjoying life.
Hello, Dan. I find your videos really useful and calming. My mom and I believe I might be on the spectrum, but it's nearly impossible to get a diagnosis in Russia, so I feel bad trying to explain my behaviour to someone, because I can't be sure I'm not mistaken. I hope that one day I will be able to know for sure :(
Thank you, so much, for your videos. Earlier this month, I used the links you provided to self-test and, as a result had an evaluation last week here in the USA. Today I received my official diagnosis: "High-Functioning Autism Spectrum Disorder (previously referred to in the DSM-4 as Asperger's Syndrome)."
The neuropsychologist who evaluated me said he doesn't like the grouping of AS under ASD because, "no one who knows you will believe you if you tell them you have Autism because you have no language deficits, you're intelligent, and you mask so well. But if you tell them you have Asperger's Syndrome, they'll either ask you to explain it or they'll say, 'oh yeah, that makes sense.'"
I've lost count of the number of times I've said, "THAT'S why I do that," while watching your videos. Many of your comments have appeared to me as if you were an actor playing ME in a video. More than once, I've shouted, "this is my freaking biography," because your comments so closely mirror my experiences in some areas. (But, as you've said, when you meet one autistic person, you've met one autistic person."
One additional thing I wanted to share that I will use to help me explain my condition to others. I work in web design and development, video editing, and other computer-related areas, so computer analogies work well for me. And I really like this one because I'm a Mac guy, too! 🍏 My doctor said that this is an accurate analogy of HF-ASD / Asperger's Syndrome vs. the neurotypical mind:
Most people have no problem using Windows software because they're running the Windows operating system on their computers. Macs can run Windows and Windows software, but it takes more effort, is more complicated, and it makes your computer work harder. Your brain is a Mac computer in a predominantly Windows world. Life is harder, more complicated, and more tiring for you, but you can still get the job done just as well, and sometimes better than others.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I love watching because my 3 year old son was diagnosed about 7 months ago! Great videos! 💙💙
I have autism. One of my special interests is betta fish keeping. I met a student in the college I work at who just got a betta and she had him in a bowl with in treated tap water. I gave her one of my old tanks, a filter, water dechlorinator, and a care guide for her fish. She was happy but she didn't ask for the help. I had to tell her sorry for being intrusive as well because when I told my neuro-typical roommate about it she said it was weird. I just really love bettas and I didn't think it would be weird.
I'm late, but I am just realizing I am on the spectrum, not sure where. Your videos are really helpful for me
Still learning about autism. Watching your videos helps out a lot
My son was diagnosed with Aspergers last year when he turned 8. However his school lists him as being autistic. As autism and Aspergers are now coded under the same code. I’m actually in school for medical coding at the moment and it’s kind of cool to see how they are changing up the coding system to make sure that people are getting the support they need.
I don't entirely agree that Asperger's and autism are one and the same. I think it's a shame to see the word Asperger's being phased out as a diagnosis, even in the forthcoming ICD-11. Although I see a benefit in just having 'ASD' in order to receive more support etc., and it's obvious that autism is, like with many other conditions, on a spectrum, I still think that 'ASD' is way too broad a diagnosis. Bipolar Disorder is a spectrum, but still has three main subtypes on the DSM-5 - is it not valid that autism could have various subtypes, including Asperger's as one?
Also, Asperger's has subtle differences from so-called 'high-functioning' autism. I feel that features such as a lack of speech delay and often high intelligence, as well as other subtle traits, surely justify it being kept even as an ASD subtype; I think it's a shame that this diagnosis is essentially being consigned to the dustbin when, as research conducted by Prof. Tony Attwood/Dr. Lorna Wing suggests, it does differentiate subtle traits within the autistic spectrum. However, I certainly don't view Asperger's as superior to autism, I just feel that the new diagnostic criteria is too broad and does not represent autism accurately.
I was never diagnosed with ocd but when somethings not in its place that I want it to be in I get really bothered
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I have Asperger's/pdd-nos and ADHD (inattentive). So what I like to say is I'm one of the prongs of the umbrella on the spectrum. I was actually diagnosed while reconfirming my ADHD diagnosis.
CollegeChick818 it’s either Asperger’s or PDD-NOS. Which one were you diagnosed with?
I like ASD as Autistic spectrum DESIGN! Like the difference between a petrol or diesel engine. Neither are inferior, we are all valuable and necessary. I don't have a disorder, I have shortcomings for sure, my gifts and skills are gifts.
I helped my son reduce aggression and improve in speech and social skill with the help of Dr Oyalo herbal supplement I got from UA-cam here. His herbs work perfectly
I have ADHD but I've recently been encouraging my partner to investigate whether he has ASD, so I'm trying to learn more!
He struggles with a lot of the executive dysfunction, emotional regulation, and sensory issues I do. The differences being that he has no problem focusing at work, he finds socialising incredibly draining (while I hate being alone) he is distressed by changes in routine, and recently told me he fakes eye contact, even with me!
The only things that don't seem to fit with ASD are that he is actually VERY good at understanding metaphorical language (hes a talented writer), picks up on social cues well, and experiences empathetic feelings intensely, to a degree that is almost debilitating for him.
I have Aspergers even tho it's off the DSM5 don't mean it just went away.
The Jesse James Project It means it’s called ASD now
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@@TheAspieWorld I have been a sub for a long time. Even when your channel was small.
I enjoy the content Dan.
I am the Jesse James that is in isolation in the woods due to Covid 19...in Tennessee...
I had the virus but as of yesterday ...I am over the virus now.
You inspire me in so many ways...and I am so glad your channel is blowing up...
For me Aspergers criteria seems to fit better than other autism definitions ie adhd.
I have autisim though im not well versed in it in the context of how it effects me personally, perhaps that will change should i start doing therapy. Thank you for making these videos though, they have shed light on some things
I helped my son reduce aggression and improve in speech and social skill with the help of Dr Oyalo herbal supplement I got from UA-cam here. His herbs work perfectly
You asked -
I'm listening to you for my studies of mental health. I appreciate your view.
I was in scientology for 40 years and we were indoctrinated to not acknowledge any views on mental health except those by L Ron Hubbard. It's really fun getting educated at 67 when Im retired, kids are grown up and I'm just living in my 24 feet RV traveling the USA. Unlimited access to the worlds librarys and classes for nearly free. Great time to be alive. I've heard you explain this a while back. Did you forget? 😄
Hi Dan. Thanks for your videos, along with videos from a couple of other UA-camrs I find them very useful and informative. I've just turned 40. This year I reached my breaking point and after seeing my...well I'm not sure what her official title is, I'll just call her my 'mental health care leader'...for a few months, she told me about 5 weeks ago that although she can't officially diagnose me (she's made a referral for me to her colleagues who can, for diagnosis) that I very likely have Asperger's Syndrome. It's been a bit of a rollercoaster lately and it's only been the last few weeks that I've started to look at this more positively (read as; without breaking down in tears over it every 10minutes). I don't know anyone else on the spectrum, but I find myself relating very strongly to yourself and a couple of others on this platform. Keep the vids coming. Cheers fella.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
Hi, I have adhd and are being tested for asd x
Great video as usual! Thank you. I'm so excited I just got Dr Tony Attwood's The Complete Guide to Asperger Syndrome. Should be a great read.
I am on the Autism spectrum and was originally diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome also.
Wow!
A stellar video.
Thank you so much!
don't know if you're still paying attention to comments on this vid, but. I'm here to help my son. He's Aspie, ADHD, and has recently started having seizures that seem to be triggered by stress. He's also 12 and those "fun" hormones are kicking in pretty hard. Hoping I can get more ideas on how to help him to help himself
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I'm sure I'm autistic, but no one in Bulgaria can diagnose an adult because here autism in general is defined as "child autism" and when diagnosed children grow up, they're no more considered autistic but considered to have something like mental retardation. Can you believe this?
BTW Aspergers Syndrom is still a valid diagnose here today.
Oh really? How come you cannot get any one to diagnosed you there? Thank you so much for the comment! Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).
@@TheAspieWorld Well, that's our system. It's an only-for-children diagnosis.
Thank you and I'm always watching. 🙏
Hooe you're doing ok bro..through all this madness
Thank you you to!
I personally have an Aspergers diagnosis and still hold on to the old diagnosis term because even if its a spectrum disorder, my part of the spectrum is too unique from standard autism in my view. I do watch this channel for my own personal benefit. But my paid job is as a para in disability classrooms. And my unpaid job in the scouts, is not just as a scoutmaster at a special needs accommodating troop. But I function as an autism advocate for my local district and teach classes on autism to other scoutmaster at the district and council level.
I am learning for myself.i took the AQ test yesterday and I got 36. My husband got 33. Our kids took the test and they each scored 16.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I was recently diagnosed with Asperger's but even though I am considered to be autistic I am currently in one of the top-rated high schools in South Africa and and while I'm nowhere close to being the top student I'm still doing just as well as almost everyone else
I helped my son reduce aggression and improve in speech and social skill with the help of Dr Oyalo herbal supplement I got from UA-cam here. His herbs work perfectly
Great video my man.
I wasn't diagnosed untill I was 23. 25 now. I have been send to a psychiatry twice. In primary school and secondary school. No one new why I was so socialy awkward, in my own world sometimes and shy. I also think I have add but no one is willing to look at that problem.
Hiya, I've recently been diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome and ocd. I got diagnosed with these disorders after giving birth. I have a few questions and wondered if you had any knowledge on this. Firstly I wondered has anyone ever had addiction issues due to their diagnosis.so I have a drink problem because I used alcohol as a clutch to cope with my disorders and it has become a huge problem. Secondly I wondered if you or anyone can't cope with hysterical people or somebody acting extremely emotional,I just can't cope with hysterical behaviour from others. I'm a huge loner to and try to avoid others at all costs and this ends up in loneliness, I actually only like being around people I know really well ie family, friends I've know for years. Also I could spend the whole day just learning about facts I tend to watch top 5s on UA-cam on here to and I am obsessed with the channel. Lastly I am obsess d with horror, and I will literally watch the same films over and over again everyday. There are so many things but I can't get it all out. I would appreciate it if you could try your best to answer these questions as best you can.
Thanks Dan
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I'm currently awaiting an official autism diagnosis, i was told could take up to 4 years but i feel i will finally have answers
In Germany we still have the term "Asperger's Syndrome", because of the ICD 10 we use here. So it's still called F84.5 Asperger's Syndrome. On my diagnosis paper it says "Autism Spectrum Disorder (F84.5 Asperger's Syndrome)". I guess when we get updated to the ICD 11 in Germany there won't be any Asperger's anymore. But people still use this term a lot here. :)
I was just diagnosed this year at 36, and I've not been comfortable with really telling anyone yet. It's probably based on being constantly referred to by dyslexia going through school. It sucks being identified as a condition or a special case. Also being higher functioning, I don't want to deal with people trying to argue that I'm not...
I am trying to find out about getting diagnosis, basically I fell down a rabbit hole whilst researching stuff to debunk antivaxxers and their ridiculous claims, the more I looked into ASD the more certain behaviours "quirks" and sensory issues of mine started to make sense.
I am not on the autism spectrum, but I have a best friend who’s son is autistic and I babysit him. My son has ADHD, ODD, anxiety, and something else I can never remember the name of... but the two of them are so similar! I find your videos helpful to help the boys. My friends son I find it helps him more to challenge him to do things he doesn’t want to do... ie: using the toilet and wearing underwear. With my son I find it better to make a task seem like his idea, because if he thinks it’s my idea he will become quite defiant because of his oppositional defiance disorder. 🤣 I love both boys, because they are super funny, silly, and sweet.
Look up PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance).
I'm feeling upset and happy at same time. I seem to have a few traits that I always recognized as my quirky Aquarian Personality. But now I can claim Spectrum. I should get full test but I kind of like the idea that my quirks now have a name. And bottom line I am an extremely happy and contented fella.
I helped my son reduce aggression and improve in speech and social skill with the help of Dr Oyalo herbal supplement I got from UA-cam here. His herbs work perfectly
Your videos are great!
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@@TheAspieWorld Already done! :)
There is an app called soundheal that Ive used and I noticed that it helps calm me down when I need to focus on overwhelming tasks.
I am 20 and was diagnosed with ADD since childhood. For the last two years I have been researching autism. I'm pretty sure I have high functioning autism/ Asperger's syndrome, OCD and some anxiety. And since I am a girl, I tend to mask alot of my symptoms.
My friends and 3 ex boyfriends are on the spectrum. I am always learning and love your videos.
I’m researching Asperger’s syndrome because my therapist has hinted it might be the case. I also have anxiety and depression. If you could get in contact this would be a massive help for me ! 🙏
I'm not actually diagnosed with autism/Aspergers yet but am certain I have it
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I recently discovered that I have Aspergers. The patterns have been there most of my life, and now I am struggling with the realization in adulthood. My diagnosis came right after a break-up with someone who I sincerely and deeply loved. Reflecting on the relationship, my symptoms and confusion of what was happening to me contributed heavily towards the break-up. I am getting in touch with myself and understanding more how to adapt with Aspergers. I do want her back, but know it will take time. What should I do? PS. your videos have helped lots!
Both me and my youngest brother are one the ASD both us were diagnosed before it changed with Asperger my brother being somewhat more effected but both of us mainly have trouble socially.
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I was diagnosed with high functioning autism at age 3 or 4. Autism Acceptance is with understanding and knowledge gifts and talent autistic people have.
Dan, I’m an Aspie and pleased to be.
Hi, Daniel,
*Thank you for what you do in spreading awareness and helping those of us who are on the spectrum!*
This is one of my favorite months of the year: World Autism Awareness Month.
I was "diagnosed" with Asperger's Syndrome and I never allowed my Autism (and nearly 20 years of teasing) to have the prerogative to slow me down, insofar of getting my first book published last year at age 23 and an Associate's in Chemistry.
I was on radio yesterday morning speaking about my journey with autism. Here's my annual video from a firsthand's perspective (including the mini radio interview): ua-cam.com/video/kMHoMH15FS8/v-deo.html
I personally thank you in spreading awareness. It brings peace to my heart.
I think I have autism but the idea of going for a diagnosis freaked me out, but I’m not at ease not having an answer, so I don’t really know what to do
Scarlett Valentine If you feel you need one badly enough, you’ll find a way. I tried to forget about the whole thing (seeking a diagnosis for autism) out of fear that I was wrong, but I couldn’t just forget. So I sought one out, and I tell you it was worth it. For me, it was a year and a half from when I started suspecting it and when I was finally diagnosed. It may not hurt to start the process already, because it could take a while. And then you’ll get it over with.
In my late forties, the powers that be, tested me and have given me the following lables. Adult aspergers, A-sexual or sexuality and having an IQ of 136.. All of this didn't help me understand this condition.. I'm and old man now, and it might be nice to understand just what I've missed in life..!..? Can you give me a direction..!
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I was diagnosed by an Autism specialist psychiatrist back in 2009, she explained that the difference between Autism and Asperger Syndrome is learning ability. People diagnosed with Autism have language difficulties and/or a below average IQ, people with Asperger Syndrome have no language difficulties and an IQ that's average or higher.
That could be possible, I have aspergers and I started saying my first words at 10 months, and now at 25 I speak almost 9 languages. Don't know about IQ, but I've always learned very fast and can have a pretty good memory, and I read 700-1000 words per minute.
@@CarolineCarnivorous Wow, that is impressive; I'm not on your level but my IQ was tested by an educational psychologist, it's in the 150's.
I'm fond of the Aspie descriptor. Like, you're Pretty ok at dealing with things, but some stuff is hard (some stuff is Very hard), and I'm kinda weird.
Using Autistic feels... I dunno, fraudulent? And that's likely because of certain ways mine manifests- more like it does in women, actually, and so my masking and splinter skill ability is High. I crafted the "social pantomimes" by observing others, and mask on an Internal level, I guess due to my acting ability- I Become another character. like method acting. I only have Serious issues when I run out of script, or that character cracks and the LARP fails and actual me with it's shortcomings comes bleeding through.
Was this a healthy solution? I don't know. probably not. I wasn't allowed to have such shortcomings- and not in the "Thou shalt", it's just my family had Way more faith in my capacity to overcome whatever shortcomings might've been there (like dyslexia and dyscalculia, and depression and This) than perhaps I had, and I was expected to manage regardless. All from love, but damn that's caused me some stress. I know part of that is my age- mid 40's. Nobody knew.
Happened to my mother with Dyslexia, before anybody knew about that. And my grandmother. "Weirdo" was no excuse. Things had to get done anyway.
So now I'm down this ASD rabbit hole. And trying to figure out what I've just gotta soldier through, and what I can forgive myself for accepting "No, I really don't have to splat myself against that wall, Again" I dunno man. Thanks for your channel. It helps.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I dont know if I'm on the spectrum I've never be diagnosed with it but I've never been completely honest and forthcoming with psychiatrists. Regardless I know I'm different and have different challenges than most people.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I just like to research these kinds of things. My closest friends are on the spectrum, one of them is getting evaluated for Autism. They like to joke that if I were to get myself tested, they wouldn't be suprised if I came out with a diagnosis. They also like to tell me that a lot of my family members have autistic tendancies.