Why Most Women CAN'T Be Wives

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  • @TheSaintandTheSinner
    @TheSaintandTheSinner  23 дні тому +9

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    • @jasonu3741
      @jasonu3741 22 дні тому

      Saint I think what the Red Pill is missing is the rise of Techbro's men who have "provider" incomes but dont have the "type A" personality
      and dont have very much experience with women.
      these are essentially simps with a wallet and from what I have seen they are the "golden parachute" for women who have made bad mistakes,
      have bad attitudes, dont know how to be wives.

    • @jonathanmoore8495
      @jonathanmoore8495 15 днів тому

      I like you saint but you have me laughing there is no way you going to get a woman to do all of that buoy too strict on them hoes they can not handle all that bro

  • @Joyfulishou
    @Joyfulishou 20 днів тому +48

    As a woman, and wife, I took no offense watching this video. It helped me understand my husband’s role more. He’s not romantic but provides for me. I realize I don’t prioritize his wellbeing enough. This changes now. I want him to receive all the support he can get from me to excel as my provider.

    • @edoziesylvester9039
      @edoziesylvester9039 17 днів тому +4

      Excellent decisions.

    • @nostalgicbliss5547
      @nostalgicbliss5547 16 днів тому +5

      You needed a random vid on the internet to teach you that? What was the role of your father and mother for?

  • @JibrizyMagic
    @JibrizyMagic 18 днів тому +18

    It’s the fact he rose up like Jesus in the start that had me dying 😂

  • @blueboyd5297
    @blueboyd5297 23 дні тому +67

    So my ex wife said I was a narcissist because I value work over her. She was not my priority and would never be, and I also told her I'm not romantic...I thought I was maybe less compassionate saying these things..and would not lie to make it palletable...turns out im just a man 😊 a driven man.

    • @placidewilliam
      @placidewilliam 23 дні тому +9

      Work but don't over work to give her what she wants.
      Live a balanced life.

    • @gullyblanchard5750
      @gullyblanchard5750 22 дні тому +14

      @@placidewilliamthat’s not always possible when you have big goals. That requires sacrifice. She’s not the one if she doesn’t understand.

    • @gullyblanchard5750
      @gullyblanchard5750 22 дні тому

      Lol women love throwing around the word narcissist when it’s always them projecting it. If her definition of narcissism is you prioritizing work then her wanting you to provide for her when she’s capable of working makes her a narcissist by her definition 😂

    • @gvillechick14
      @gvillechick14 22 дні тому

      I feel you, I am very driven man and they try to pull you down from being the man that you have made yourself,it is a form of manipulation and control!

    • @RevealedFilms
      @RevealedFilms 22 дні тому

      @@placidewilliam you want balance? Get a 9-5. Live an average life with a less than an average looking woman that henpecks you into a eunuch. However most men, that want to touch multiple six figures and millions annually before they pass have a higher level of expectation for themselves and the women they choose to have.

  • @rwellian94
    @rwellian94 19 днів тому +24

    Interesting topic. As a former career woman turned SAHM to a special needs toddler married to a man who makes 250-300k a year, my job is to take care of my husband and child. My typical day includes:
    - waking up whenever husband wakes up for work (usually between 4:30 and 6 am), get coffee made, make sure he’s sent off with his breakfast and lunch packed. Make sure he has everything he needs for the day
    - Bible study/quiet time/coffee
    - wake up toddler (usually around 6 am)
    - pre breakfast lesson for the day (reading books, practicing numbers or alphabet)
    - breakfast toddler
    - workout
    - spot clean kitchen, bathrooms, tidy around the house
    - shower, bathe toddler, get dressed for the day
    - morning outing (free or low cost activities like the library, zoo or park), usually coupled with an errand
    - lunch - here I usually take a 30 minute to one hour break and toddler watches an educational video after his lunch
    - after lunch lesson and reading time
    - more major cleaning - usually one project a day, like floors, cleaning out a closet, etc
    - meal prep lunch and dinner
    - play time - blocks or coloring
    - tidy home, make sure house looks and smells good when husband gets home, make him a beverage if he wants
    - dinner
    - after dinner cleanup
    - family time
    - couple time (after toddler goes to bed around 7:30pm)
    A lot of people think being a kept woman is an easy life, and it is relatively speaking, but it is a lot of work too. It is incredibly rewarding though, since I get to pour my energy into those I love.
    And, yes, my husband expects me to do all of this and is very particular about how he wants things done, but I am happy to serve him.

    • @renebleu8711
      @renebleu8711 19 днів тому +4

      Sounds like a great wife and mother. I’m sure he’s happy to serve his family as well. Keep it going.

    • @rwellian94
      @rwellian94 19 днів тому +3

      @@renebleu8711 Thank you! He works very hard to take care of us. He deserves nothing less than my best efforts too.

    • @levelup2014
      @levelup2014 16 днів тому

      @@rwellian94 You didn't add the part where you pleasure him, this is in your top 3 most important tasks don't forget

  • @ajstiff6545
    @ajstiff6545 23 дні тому +88

    I save money by not taking you shopping 🛍️ lol 😂 beautiful

  • @eeyeam
    @eeyeam 23 дні тому +31

    I like this guy. I thought it was just me. We are not equal women. I'm your leader you my cheer leader, that Part

  • @franks7810
    @franks7810 23 дні тому +20

    12/10 video! Keep these coming!

  • @pologenius21
    @pologenius21 22 дні тому +7

    Great message. Playa intro like the old school Mr. Roger's shows. And the Corduroy suit is on another level 👌🏽

  • @DrilluppVroy
    @DrilluppVroy 23 дні тому +57

    Saint your a legend gang.

  • @gullyblanchard5750
    @gullyblanchard5750 23 дні тому +28

    Looking very dapper my G.

  • @Mr.SeanCombs
    @Mr.SeanCombs 22 дні тому +5

    I love the way Quette carry’s himself. You can tell bro is an absolute savage just by the way he moves. He’s soft spoken and very intelligent but not afraid to throw hands either. PTTS 💯

  • @blksunshine2206
    @blksunshine2206 16 днів тому +4

    Is this “gentleman” a comedian or an enhanced AI? I really see this as an improv 😊. Laughing. I can’t stop watching this…I want more.

  • @nellyjackson2161
    @nellyjackson2161 21 день тому +10

    I think you shouldn't be looking for a wife. You would need a servant instead as no respectful lady would would want to be treated like a servant. I don't see love. I see control. Red flag.

    • @vylam3997
      @vylam3997 16 днів тому +1

      yes, more like a transactional partnership rather than a relationship based on true love, wisdom, kindness and compassion.

  • @YAHWILLREDEEM
    @YAHWILLREDEEM 22 дні тому +8

    “ i save money by stopping you from shopping.” Masterful! With you bro on the flowers. Never buy them for women. This ain’t no damn funeral.

  • @yolandamoore4321
    @yolandamoore4321 19 днів тому +7

    All this and he still hasn't married his woman, old lady, situation, or whatever he calls her. These men with the double talk, are not to be taken seriously by men or women.

    • @hsamzsd
      @hsamzsd 17 днів тому +2

      this guy is role-playing a character. look into his background.

    • @elibaltodano1820
      @elibaltodano1820 9 днів тому +2

      So just because he didn’t sign a piece of paper, means she’s not his wife? If he takes care of her and they live together then she’s effectively his “old lady”. Why does the government need to be involved?

    • @yolandamoore4321
      @yolandamoore4321 9 днів тому

      @elibaltodano1820
      Correct she is not his wife without paperwork. Effectively a wife and is his wife are two different things. Then based off you comment she went from being "effectively a wife" to then being called his "old lady" neither are good positions to be in. To get a house you sign paper work, job, car, ect. so let's stop playing about how things transpire when you really want something to be yours.

    • @elibaltodano1820
      @elibaltodano1820 9 днів тому +3

      @ you’re dead wrong. Marriage is a religious institution. There’s nothing in the Bible or Quran that says the government needs to be involved in your romantic affairs.

    • @adamyammie
      @adamyammie 8 днів тому

      @@yolandamoore4321anybody ready this, this is what u want make her ur wife between family/friends n god keep the government out, memeber america is another Women so that’s 2 women in ur relationship when u sign government docs

  • @SB3TeN
    @SB3TeN 23 дні тому +7

    Saint, you killed this. Wow. 1 million percent truth 💯 thank you. I needed this today. PTTS

  • @sydm1152
    @sydm1152 23 дні тому +6

    Great info coupled with a great intro, this type of presentation unique

  • @marthalovely4507
    @marthalovely4507 21 день тому +11

    Not much to ask for. My dad was the provider and my mom raised us to be a real housewife. Just be careful what kind of man you commit to. Don’t ignore red flags 🚩.

  • @kimberlyturner820
    @kimberlyturner820 20 днів тому +12

    Is he serious?😂😂😂

  • @Peaceandjoy3
    @Peaceandjoy3 22 дні тому +6

    Giving her that direction

  • @clay-akiledavis1
    @clay-akiledavis1 22 дні тому +1

    For the first few seconds, I couldn't help but think, "Liiiifeeee". Seeing good people with "good" things always brings a smile to my face. PTTS.

  • @StephenHuggins-v5p
    @StephenHuggins-v5p 22 дні тому +14

    This guy is on point and this is what men want but society makes us think not

  • @kevinblaze4016
    @kevinblaze4016 23 дні тому +6

    My reason for leaving this chick this week! I will not look backwards this year or slow down to let anyone catch up

  • @ddcmitch
    @ddcmitch 23 дні тому +13

    I deeply respect your perspective and influence you’ve built. My husband and I watch you often because you share so many valid and important points. I hope this comes across in the right way because I’m not here to criticize or tell you what to do-I genuinely appreciate what you’re doing.
    That said, as someone who values your voice, I believe your impact could grow even more if you were married. It’s clear you already have someone special in your life, and that’s a blessing. Taking that step into marriage, though, would set you apart in a significant way and solidify your position as a leader in the space. You’re already making a difference, and I can only imagine how much greater your influence could become with that added foundation behind you.
    Just a thought.

    • @dancleary4101
      @dancleary4101 23 дні тому +21

      80% of divorces are filed by women for no fault divorce not to mention 80% of those men are losing half of their finances. I always find it interesting it’s always the women advocating for marriage…

    • @gullyblanchard5750
      @gullyblanchard5750 23 дні тому

      Lol what a surprise, a woman advocating for marriage. Also you don't need to write a whole paragraph complimenting Marquett before giving your criticism like most of you women like to do, just say what you need to say instead of trying to dress everything up. It comes off disingenuous.

    • @SIMSANITYY
      @SIMSANITYY 23 дні тому +1

      The saint wouldn’t benefit from a marriage. A relationship is all that is necessary

    • @Lj-ls2bt
      @Lj-ls2bt 23 дні тому +3

      @@dancleary4101 You’re assuming her comment is specifically referring to a marriage formalized by law.

    • @dancleary4101
      @dancleary4101 23 дні тому +4

      @@Lj-ls2bt cmon now…

  • @Sheba_316
    @Sheba_316 22 дні тому +8

    Some facts! Saving money by taking toilet tissue from the luxury hotel is wild 😮

  • @yolandamoore4321
    @yolandamoore4321 19 днів тому +4

    If you're not sure this man is not living a Christian life style.

  • @theunrestrictedfreeagent1
    @theunrestrictedfreeagent1 7 днів тому

    Bravo, my brother. More men need to tell women the truth and lay out the ground rules up front so If a woman can't deal with these things she can opt out early on and not waste a man's time.

  • @goatking369
    @goatking369 20 днів тому

    PTTS..the ISM saves lives.. Background and suit is 🔥🔥

  • @daynesmith5281
    @daynesmith5281 22 дні тому +4

    That is why I dont want anyone dictating what woman I need after 20 plus years of control I dont know certain women they might want me yet they don't know what I want and visualise as wife material as I attributes attraction etc etc I wood think

  • @mjaybee
    @mjaybee 22 дні тому +5

    Well put as to why women can’t handle being provided for.

  • @Damienthacarter
    @Damienthacarter 22 дні тому +6

    I got a heater next to my bed

  • @armanilasalle5121
    @armanilasalle5121 23 дні тому +8

    You literally saying the same thing that my dad pearch. I appreciate my dad and you peace to you

  • @yolandamoore4321
    @yolandamoore4321 19 днів тому +3

    Is this a recruitment video? I see what you're doing. Does this job come with sick leave, annual leave, comp time, and holidays off.

  • @shinymew2887
    @shinymew2887 22 дні тому +8

    They’re just gonna chalk this up as alpha male madness. Very entertaining though.

    • @Roots_culture727
      @Roots_culture727 19 днів тому

      Entertaining to you?, well to me it's very educative and helpful.

  • @Timeismoney102
    @Timeismoney102 22 дні тому +4

    Travis hunter is in serious trouble

  • @kevindunbar1836
    @kevindunbar1836 22 дні тому +3

    I just need to know where did you find your woman. The only thing that would make sense is that she is from a foreign country. The reason I say this is because people tend to want what is normal and the normal household is not run like yours. If the normal house hold was run like yours, my wife would be cleaning me in the morning too. However, in the United States the male / female relationship is based on romanticism which means everything revolves around her idea what is romantic, including her getting to spend all of your money only because you are sexually attracted to her.

    • @gullyblanchard5750
      @gullyblanchard5750 22 дні тому

      He's obviously not looking for a conventional woman, he's made that clear on multiple videos. Most guys cant pull off what hes doing because they are average.

    • @Drunkmonk2122
      @Drunkmonk2122 21 день тому +1

      He is rich 😂 bruh when you got money you control whatever

  • @BroJacksonTradez
    @BroJacksonTradez 22 дні тому +10

    These type of dudes get cheated on FREQUENTLY. Those women grow tired of the monotony and will chase that high as soon as they get wind they can get it somewhere else

    • @gullyblanchard5750
      @gullyblanchard5750 22 дні тому +1

      Yeah but on the flip side there are more men doing everything “right” that are being cheated on by women who think the grass is greener. If a woman doesn’t want to be with you they will find reasons to be bored with you and they usually have kids with guys putting in no effort.

    • @gepagan
      @gepagan 22 дні тому +13

      @@BroJacksonTradez you think he’s worried about that? The minute he finds out she’s back to the streets and replaced.
      You’re worried about getting cheated on because you’re broke and she would leave you decimated.
      Men who have their shit together PRAY TO GOD that they catch their girl cheating so they can drop her so she can go be with the broke Pool Boy, and be even more miserable with him.
      Everything he said in this video can be done by a maid that he can hire, and it will prob be cheaper too

    • @HiImRheya
      @HiImRheya 22 дні тому +1

      That’s why you dont sign paperwork to get married . Once she gets “tired” she can leave with nothing but the shirt on her back and everything she came with . Then it’s on to the next .

  • @misterrashadi
    @misterrashadi 22 дні тому +2

    Legendary.

  • @creativeflow5212
    @creativeflow5212 8 днів тому

    THE GOAT!

  • @aresvonmars9708
    @aresvonmars9708 22 дні тому +1

    2:59 my man 😂

  • @jhica5718
    @jhica5718 21 день тому

    Thank you for speaking from a male's perspective. I also love sunlight and big windows.
    Communication is a big thing for me. I dont like silent treatments.
    Im 40, not married, 3 kids from a drunk.
    I dont know if u have kids or not but what if she's been tired from taking care of the baby and can no longer serve u like before? How do u handle it?

  • @RJ12347
    @RJ12347 21 день тому +1

    Lol
    I could do the self-care part myself, anything else i agree with... If i provide you cater

  • @Gregorywillard777
    @Gregorywillard777 15 днів тому

    Provider doesn't mean money to burn

  • @nuritawwab9231
    @nuritawwab9231 22 дні тому +1

    This is so real

  • @Gregorywillard777
    @Gregorywillard777 15 днів тому

    You got a job running my house to my specifications
    An taking care of me not running off spending my money an a prenuptial
    Agreement

  • @TimmyCramer
    @TimmyCramer 22 дні тому +2

    Best decision of my life was not getting married!! Timmy C Arizona 59.

  • @cozmicsoull
    @cozmicsoull 23 дні тому +2

    Be the boss...

  • @Mr_Originality
    @Mr_Originality 21 день тому +1

    RIP Sinful The P

  • @LAS12022
    @LAS12022 20 днів тому

    Killer suit sir!

  • @Na_AvaRu
    @Na_AvaRu 7 днів тому

    The job is easy 😂 if his woman truly loves him, his asks are simple. Plus he's not wasteful with money. He would be a great match with an asian woman.

  • @luccinluccin9162
    @luccinluccin9162 23 дні тому +8

    Boss talk.

  • @Jim-nasium
    @Jim-nasium 22 дні тому +1

    Now this is that ism

  • @mikaeladisse8641
    @mikaeladisse8641 16 днів тому

    Unless you’re a multimillionaire no woman in the west will actually play along (key word: west, where most of yall in the comments section are from) this needs to be more practical to dudes who bust their asses working a 9-5

  • @EyeColorAnalyzerUnika
    @EyeColorAnalyzerUnika 16 днів тому +1

    Weird.

  • @fate12514
    @fate12514 23 дні тому +2

    What happens if she doesn’t listen?

    • @ssing7113
      @ssing7113 23 дні тому +16

      Say ✌️

    • @drdurden
      @drdurden 23 дні тому +1

      The door is shown 👉🚪

    • @splashmoby
      @splashmoby 22 дні тому +1

      Make her listen

    • @soulheaven9243
      @soulheaven9243 22 дні тому

      self destruction if you stay...Nirvana if you leave her alone...

    • @Cyse23
      @Cyse23 22 дні тому

      Leave that thooter

  • @zhabrailbataev4892
    @zhabrailbataev4892 20 днів тому

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @FamilyFirst321
    @FamilyFirst321 22 дні тому

    Cut back a little you're too smooth they're not ready for all that savageness, PTTS

  • @Wayanan6
    @Wayanan6 22 дні тому

    badman fit champ

  • @EyeColorAnalyzerUnika
    @EyeColorAnalyzerUnika 16 днів тому

    I don't believe any of this.

  • @sap1donnel886
    @sap1donnel886 15 днів тому

    No!!! this chatacter seems to be one who has some serious psychological issues. He comes across as cold and this is purely a transcactional relationship. No love there... Gud luck to the woman who meets up with him

    • @FactsOVERfeelings2024
      @FactsOVERfeelings2024 11 днів тому

      Love is an emotion that comes and goes. If you don't believe me, check the divorce rates with 80% filed by women...is that the "love" you speak of?

  • @orlandodennis5801
    @orlandodennis5801 21 день тому

    💯💙😤

  • @CyrusStewart
    @CyrusStewart 7 днів тому

    W

  • @javonjahlil4975
    @javonjahlil4975 22 дні тому

    💯

  • @dionnepatrick2431
    @dionnepatrick2431 23 дні тому

    Who's watchin the kids?

    • @thedevilsadvocate3710
      @thedevilsadvocate3710 22 дні тому

      These kinds of men will only spend time with the kids when they are of age and competent enough to be useful. These kinds of men with the "king" mentality have it in their minds that they serve a purpose more important than their own family. But for the most part, they hope that the lifestyle they give their women is enough of an example for the woman to teach his children. Train the trainer if you will.
      It's a concept you won't understand unless you actually have that mentality.

    • @waynebowden3236
      @waynebowden3236 17 днів тому

      The woman is or sitter

    • @dionnepatrick2431
      @dionnepatrick2431 17 днів тому

      @waynebowden3236 a sitter would definitely be needed in his house.

    • @FactsOVERfeelings2024
      @FactsOVERfeelings2024 11 днів тому +1

      The maid/sitter/ side chick

  • @secureboundaries
    @secureboundaries 21 день тому +1

    So basically if I want a provider i gotta be a maid 😅 No thanks

    • @ari-jv
      @ari-jv 21 день тому

      Exactly. Not worth it

    • @Drunkmonk2122
      @Drunkmonk2122 21 день тому +1

      Well if you don’t want a provider then go 50/50 …… or don’t expect “money” if your not giving value

    • @renebleu8711
      @renebleu8711 19 днів тому +3

      Okay, so what do you want ? To do bare minimum and I work hard for to provide for you.

    • @MrDigztheswagking
      @MrDigztheswagking 19 днів тому

      ​@@renebleu8711right they tripping

  • @safirijorgensen7842
    @safirijorgensen7842 21 день тому +3

    This sounds crazy and tell you stop and think that this is exactly what women want from men.

  • @hsamzsd
    @hsamzsd 17 днів тому

    Some women are just delusional with their expectations. One of them recently told me she expects at least 3-4 vacations a year. Clearly an expectation of someone who has never worked for themselves.

  • @Patrizia4Christ
    @Patrizia4Christ 22 дні тому +1

    I could not agree more with you Sir! I appreciate what you share and I love to hear a masculine man speak! Speak Sir speak!!! I am praying to be found by my Boaz that will be my Protector and Provider. I cannot wait to clean and cook and take care of my Hubby and our kids as a housewife and mother. 😍#MeantToBeFound #Wife #Proverbs3125

    • @gepagan
      @gepagan 22 дні тому +1

      “Praying to be found” is the wrong approach. You need to be actively out there, talking to, and putting yourself in front of those men right now. The clock is ticking ⏰

    • @Patrizia4Christ
      @Patrizia4Christ 14 днів тому

      @@gepagan I wonder how you come to that assumption and conclusion about me without knowing me at all. I am not passive. And don't worry about my clock ticking darling! 😁 And you don't even know my age! Hahah. God's got my Back!