Yes! I learned to get real skeptical when someone asks prying or weirdly personal questions. They're either looking for an advantage to manipulate later or want to use your biz as gossip fodder.
Yes...this is why at 60yrs old im a happily single woman. God has given me the gift of discernment and wisdom. I've realized I'm my own best company. I live in a cabin in the country in Georgia. Peace. Wouldn't trade this for anybody. Too many fake cruel people these days. I've dealt with all these signs. Im blessed to have a clear vision. God is great. Praises to the Most High ❤❤❤❤❤
Amen! You have the best gifts from The Living God. All you need is God as your companion. He is real. He will never leave or forsake you. I had to learn that. God bless!
After this week I truly believe this. I really can't take any more abuse & rejection. I just end up staying alone & avoid interacting with people. I'm tired of crying over people who don't give a damn about me!
@@LoveLash420 well you'll never find yourself crying on account of me then. After reading your comment , it pains me to know that we both choose to avoid interactions with others to minimize the abuse and the rejection that almost always accompanies such given circumstances.
The truth is, few people actually care if any at all. The irony, of course, being that everyone is so desperate for approval when the only approval you need is your own damn self. The sooner you develop self reliance, the sooner you break the cycle and move on from fakes.
It is exactly what I have done for many years...I needed to be loved, so I kept my eyes closed and pretended everything was ok. Now I can clearly see the real faces of many people surrounding me behind their masks...too late unfortunately..
@@debjewell5693 No my dear that would be saten the you know who having and doing what he does best seeking to devour you, me, anyone of us, As he knows that his time left here on earth Is very limited. (Amen).
That's when it's time to block it makes me feel better to block them and ignore they always eventually reach out the balls in your court my brotha....♥️🙏♥️
You Can Choose Your Friends But Not Your Family. Truth. But You Can Choose How To Respond & Interact Or Not Respond Or Interact At All If Negative Types. 🦉
This is so true it's pretty bad I had better friends and my husband family when I was in the hospital of course god has been with me thru this difficult time in my life my family puts on act like they care but they don't heck I've had relatives pass away and nobody tells me my uncle I found out from a Christmas card when it came back I would've wanted to show my respect
I'm 59 and just now learning the meaning of the word. I've heard of it but never thought about it til it was brought up to me! I've learned I'm a magnet n attract these types of Men! An issue I'm recognizing now! I no longer accept narcissistic drama! Im terminally ill from my 1st husband trying to make me miscarry Our Son in 1990. I tucked n covered the 8mnth old fetus inside of me that left my head wide open n sure as heck, he took the opportunity n I took the steeltoe boot kick to my right temporal lobe! It went unchecked til the headaches n facial pain became too much! It took 13yrs for them to figure out I'm having seizures! He kicked me so hard, he fracture my skull n damage my Brain. I've flatlindd 7xs now! I'd rather die alone than with another narcissist!
@@lindacarnival103 Boundaries all about boundaries must have rigid ones with a lot of people those people that treat others like that have none but oh no they loose it if you say something about them they have no flaws their not worth the energy or the torment they put u through move on their are genuine people in the world that don't expect anything in return for love companionship good company all they want that's who you want to be around not egotisica self centered
I’m ignored at the level of they don’t even choose to hear the sound of my voice when I ask for help. It’s such a bizarre thing that I just don’t even know what to think. I have always been there for my family. I’ve taken care of many sick and dying family members through the years. I just don’t get it. But I’m glad I know Jesus. Sorry if this sounds like nonsense to some. But I truly believe that we’re created to have a relationship with God above all. I’m being blessed beyond measure during this time by His love❤️
My good friend real healthy jok.. Richard, a VETERAN a very kind man, helped everyone, on day carried a heavy box, he fell down stairs n broke his leg. He went to the veteran hospital, they put a rod him n started rehabilitation . Two months (thought it was to long to keep him) finally he can go home!!! His friend who came to visit, two to three times a week was there to pick him up.. Richard was no where to be found… WHAT happened to RICHARD??? It was time to tap into Richards spirit ghost. The veterans hospital has had disappearance of veterans in the past, this disappearance veterans, are by the numbers, they are killed and sent to the veterans training hospitals for student doctors to dissect in many states.. Richard was a very kind soul member of study group, he was looking forward getting home.. He n his buddies researching and inviting famous writers to share their knowledge.. Richard was a medium and has relaid what happened to him the night before going home. He Was given an injection with a dose of poison that took his life, he was held down his mouth covered up three people carried him to his wheel chair and his soul separated. His lying in the morgue n will be transported to the medical schools to cut to pieces…. Do you really want to go to the HOSPITALS, TO THE BEST KILLERS, THE DOCTORS.. (allHypnotizedmore machines to slice yourself up) $$$$ in lying n thieving humans..idiots.. I’m ashamed of ever being a doctor lucky me I’m not hypnotizable… fken industry. I’m going to stop now before I blow up of anger..😅
I used to having a lot of these narcisist people around me who never helped back and never listen and just listen to their own needs ! they are whiped out from my friend list now ! its better to have few and true friends than to have many false friends ! Thank you ! Anthony H .
Yes, this is very true. This is true for both friends and family. Even your own family will turn against you. When you need something from your family a lot of times they say they are too busy to help out when you need help.
Yes.Thak you for helping me to open my eyes. This morning I felt so sad that I didn't want to get up...😢 The first thing I saw in my mobile was your messatge. La casualidad no existe,that was just what I need to learn.
My good friend real healthy jok.. Richard, a VETERAN a very kind man, helped everyone, on day carried a heavy box, he fell down stairs n broke his leg. He went to the veteran hospital, they put a rod him n started rehabilitation . Two months (thought it was to long to keep him) finally he can go home!!! His friend who came to visit, two to three times a week was there to pick him up.. Richard was no where to be found… WHAT happened to RICHARD??? It was time to tap into Richards spirit ghost. The veterans hospital has had disappearance of veterans in the past, this disappearance veterans, are by the numbers, they are killed and sent to the veterans training hospitals for student doctors to dissect in many states.. Richard was a very kind soul member of study group, he was looking forward getting home.. He n his buddies researching and inviting famous writers to share their knowledge.. Richard was a medium and has relaid what happened to him the night before going home. He Was given an injection with a dose of poison that took his life, he was held down his mouth covered up three people carried him to his wheel chair and his soul separated. His lying in the morgue n will be transported to the medical schools to cut to pieces…. Do you really want to go to the HOSPITALS, TO THE BEST KILLERS, THE DOCTORS.. (allHypnotizedmore machines to slice yourself up) $$$$ in lying n thieving humans..idiots.. I’m ashamed of ever being a doctor lucky me I’m not hypnotizable… fken industry. I’m going to stop now before I blow up of anger..😅 @@elviramaldonado8263
Yes I agree with you dear Sir Anthony Hopkins ! Or just dear Anthony , you are a very wise person & you give us good advice too , thank you dear Anthony xx & God bless you & your Family xxx love helen xx
76 but made new friends. My sons and family are in a religion that Saya if you leave they can't talk to you or let you sleep in their house. Jehovah witnesses. But I kept very active in the community and drive an RV to see my grandkids and sleep at Walmart or Pilot. Happy now. Lovers of themselves.
Yes, I had to face that my husband & children don’t love me. I’ve always known it, but I was hoping it would just blow over,lol Thankfully, I have the Lord Jesus. I know that’ll sound like nonsense to those that don’t know him, but this is where I find my joy & peace & reason for living. I fully believe that’s what it really comes down to anyway. ❤
Yes . My 2 my older sisters are exactly like that. And my mother is the same! I've always tried to reach out to them but got nothing back. So I concentrate on my life now.
@@markwalker2986 same same. My own sister whom i grew up with (4yrs older than me) alone with our mother. But not my mother, at least after we both where grown ups.. our relationship has been unique for the last seven years.. thank god.. we only have one life and family is family but not everyone understands that..
@@loramartin3499 I know that feeling wish I could talk to you I’d definitely like you I like everyone I have all haters around me so definitely know how you feel
@@leylehadoris4355 thank you thank you I really need that positives from you. I know to think about my family but it the past I've learned from it. I forgave them. But I would not hangout with them. Thank for the positivity. It's made bless and full with energetic and it's wake me up with a boost. Amen Amen and blessed you and your family with lots loves. You make my day filled with positive energy. Again thank you. ❤️❤️🙏🙏💯💯
Yes. I agree with this message. Lesson learned. People only see or know you when they need you. Your feelings aren't validsted. Even know you are going through something. But they still want you to take care of their needs. Don't even ask, "How are you doing?" Amen ❤
It’s so true, and you can count your real friends on one hand. They are friends for life, hold on to them for they will hold you up . Walk away from fair weather friends they are hollow
Yes. When the love of my life for over 35 years passed away, I realized how little I needed other people around me. I now find myself alone. But, I am never lonely.
Yes, I agree with this message. When people say they love and care about you but their actions are the opposite, believe the actions. People can lie with their words but their actions show how they really feel about you.
That happens when your spouse dies & children are married. I found this when they got married they do what their family, wife etc want. I've become a worn out shoe..
@@audreyplant7056I'm so sorry that happened to you. I have brothers like that. They didn't support my mom enough when dad passed. They show their true colors. After losing my mom, I lost my best friend and Father within 2 years and my brothers have been no support emotionally. How can people be like that? I mean family 🤔 I so wish you the best 💜
This is absobloominlutely true. My Mother was a narcissist. My elder sister her Golden Child, is also narcissistic. I was her scapegoat raised with perpetual criticism. I have healed and now help others with their own healing. And never will be in the presence of my original family, except with my feeling younger brother. Thank you for sharing this, Sir Anthony.🌞
Amen Yes ,and Yes again.My family ,my mother ,sister brother and cousin treated me this way exactly and going one step further ,distanced themselves from me ,at a time in my life when i needed them the most , not long ago ,as they had the means to take me in but ppint blank just wouldnt, knowing of my suffering , but not caring for me enough to help me . Needless to say, I'm done with them as i realize im better off without them.When everyone else and those around me failed me,then the Lord lifted me up. Very wise and true words spoken so beautifully that have helped me so much as i have felt this way and found these things out a while ago as you know who really loves you and stands by you when you need them the most .Thank you so much for this .God bless you always.🎉💞💐🌷🌸💕🌺♥️💝💖💖💖💖💖🧬🌹
@PatChrist-v4e Yup.... I had to do the same with both of my brothers.... the level of disrespect, mistreatment, stealing from me... it was too much... I don't know why I took it for so long.. It's all about jealousy.. but God gives all of us the same 24 hours to achieve. I'm Solo now, no family ties, but I know my God will take care of me...
Yes🎉❤IL I have spent a lifetime mostly alone since my husband's death. Homeless for the first time l barely able to live on disability after losing my sight at 36.. Yet now, at age 61, in my tent. I have all the time I need to listen to your amazing wisdom. I couldn't be happier. Through my tribulation, I have just found profound wisdom and love in your words. Thank you, Sir Hopkins. May the Gods bless you.❤❤❤
YES I AGREE, I'M GOING THRU THIS RIGHT NOW WITH A FAMILY MEMBER, BUT I'M MOVING ON , AND EVEN THO THEY DON'T THINK THAT I DON'T KNOW THEIR TALKING ABOUT ME WELL I DO BECAUSE THEIR FRIENDS ARE TALKING ABOUT THEM SAD.
Yes 100%, also they have many excuses and backing on their worlds or promises. Stay away from ppl like that because they’re using you and taking advantage of you! I’m also telling this to myself and trying to learn from my own mistakes 😢
My good friend real healthy jok.. Richard, a VETERAN a very kind man, helped everyone, on day carried a heavy box, he fell down stairs n broke his leg. He went to the veteran hospital, they put a rod him n started rehabilitation . Two months (thought it was to long to keep him) finally he can go home!!! His friend who came to visit, two to three times a week was there to pick him up.. Richard was no where to be found… WHAT happened to RICHARD??? It was time to tap into Richards spirit ghost. The veterans hospital has had disappearance of veterans in the past, this disappearance veterans, are by the numbers, they are killed and sent to the veterans training hospitals for student doctors to dissect in many states.. Richard was a very kind soul member of study group, he was looking forward getting home.. He n his buddies researching and inviting famous writers to share their knowledge.. Richard was a medium and has relaid what happened to him the night before going home. He Was given an injection with a dose of poison that took his life, he was held down his mouth covered up three people carried him to his wheel chair and his soul separated. His lying in the morgue n will be transported to the medical schools to cut to pieces…. Do you really want to go to the HOSPITALS, TO THE BEST KILLERS, THE DOCTORS.. (allHypnotizedmore machines to slice yourself up) $$$$ in lying n thieving humans..idiots.. I’m ashamed of ever being a doctor lucky me I’m not hypnotizable… fken industry. I’m going to stop now before I blow up of anger..😅
Yes, there was a man I was so in love with. But all the signs were there that he just didn’t care about me. He was just using me for sex. I finally decided to love myself more and moved on. Now I feel so much peace in my life and in my heart. I learned that you always have to put urself first if they don’t. ❤
Yes and they want 2 hurt you directly! Time 2 move on and very small doses with only the ones you still love! Respect yourself and your loved ones, you'll be happier!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
@user-tq Agree 100%! Family is the most evil! That's why I really don't like listening to prayers on YT-- bc they ALWAYS say prayers for our "loving" families! Best thing is no contact w family -- & protection prayers! God bless u!
This is very true I have family members that are exactly like this. They ask me to help them to babysit and then just walk away . They don't help babysit. They are disrespectful. I know for a fact this is true. I have a few family members that hate me.
It's fine. I've already cried about it. I'm finally starting to feel like myself again. He has every opportunity he can reach, I'm happy for him. He just needs to stay the hell away from me because I'm not a fallback anymore.
Yes . If we see that signs then we should go away of that bad vibes . We don’t need people who take away from us , we need people who add positive things to us .
Yes. For sure. We Must always pray when going through tough times. Other people will always disappoint you even unintentionally. God is never too busy and He never disappoints us.
My good friend real healthy jok.. Richard, a VETERAN a very kind man, helped everyone, on day carried a heavy box, he fell down stairs n broke his leg. He went to the veteran hospital, they put a rod him n started rehabilitation . Two months (thought it was to long to keep him) finally he can go home!!! His friend who came to visit, two to three times a week was there to pick him up.. Richard was no where to be found… WHAT happened to RICHARD??? It was time to tap into Richards spirit ghost. The veterans hospital has had disappearance of veterans in the past, this disappearance veterans, are by the numbers, they are killed and sent to the veterans training hospitals for student doctors to dissect in many states.. Richard was a very kind soul member of study group, he was looking forward getting home.. He n his buddies researching and inviting famous writers to share their knowledge.. Richard was a medium and has relaid what happened to him the night before going home. He Was given an injection with a dose of poison that took his life, he was held down his mouth covered up three people carried him to his wheel chair and his soul separated. His lying in the morgue n will be transported to the medical schools to cut to pieces…. Do you really want to go to the HOSPITALS, TO THE BEST KILLERS, THE DOCTORS.. (allHypnotizedmore machines to slice yourself up) $$$$ in lying n thieving humans..idiots.. I’m ashamed of ever being a doctor lucky me I’m not hypnotizable… fken industry. I’m going to stop now before I blow up of anger..😅
@@pennypresley8507 Yes. They will give opposite signals and different statements. Pure abuse because they initiated the interest at first and I kept feeling. Also, each narcissist comes with another situation / scenario and they may seem civil and respectful but then they are not!
No... the beginning is when everything's good. Need to play it at first sign of any red flags.. Or after a few months at least, instead of ignoring and looking for excuses for them. Yes? No?
@@tdrak3 Good points! I said at the beginning as a aggressive proactive way to prevent getting in too deep too soon because for me by the time I see something wrong it’s too late and I get hurt.
They're always about themselves....what they want out of you..they don't care about you..because you make yourself too available, they take you for granted,have contempt for you,don't respect you..enough is bloody enough..GOTTIT😊
Yes-- & it's awful when it's your own family
I feel your pain
Yes Sad when it's your own FAMILY.😢
Exactly I experience this with my living siblings and extended family they never really liked me.
Exactly.
When you shine, the darkness will hate your light. Shut them out. From the day I was born. Shine on and avoid them, period.
The most of people don't care about others, if you find someone who truly cares about you, you are blessed
@@svetlanastajic99 Amen to that!
@@charlottewillis9582 yes 🙂
0nailed it.theres seriously ARE QUITE A FEW OF THESE⁰ W HERE I STAY A.
Yes 😕
Agreed, the ones that are there for you are the keepers ❤
Yep. They only take an interest in you when it’s to their advantage.
Fuckin Facts!!
Yes! I learned to get real skeptical when someone asks prying or weirdly personal questions. They're either looking for an advantage to manipulate later or want to use your biz as gossip fodder.
Especially ♀️🐍
@@LadiboiJoywell in the western world mr hopkins tip goes for 90% of females
@@justacoginthefkery 90%of♀️
Yes it's hurtful when it's your own family💔
@@user-pettygirl DITTO!
So true it hurts more when it's family.but I will survive.
Ignore such people.
@@khng4455 Yes we have to be done earlier and return their own treatment.
They're insignificant to me . They don't like the fact either. What a shame 🫠
It's hard to when it's your family and "so called" friends
@@KohleKless-mk2et In life, one always has a choice. You either waste time pampering others or you do something meaningful for yourself.
Yes! Match their energy!
Yes...this is why at 60yrs old im a happily single woman. God has given me the gift of discernment and wisdom. I've realized I'm my own best company. I live in a cabin in the country in Georgia. Peace. Wouldn't trade this for anybody. Too many fake cruel people these days. I've dealt with all these signs. Im blessed to have a clear vision. God is great. Praises to the Most High ❤❤❤❤❤
Sounds wonderful! You are blessed indeed!💜
Doubt you’re happy with being lonely at 60
What a nice life you have and you are happy it sounds like the life I would like. I send you LOVE AND LIGHT GOD BLESS YOU
Yes and it hurts
Amen! You have the best gifts from The Living God. All you need is God as your companion. He is real. He will never leave or forsake you. I had to learn that. God bless!
After this week I truly believe this. I really can't take any more abuse & rejection. I just end up staying alone & avoid interacting with people. I'm tired of crying over people who don't give a damn about me!
@@LoveLash420 well you'll never find yourself crying on account of me then. After reading your comment , it pains me to know that we both choose to avoid interactions with others to minimize the abuse and the rejection that almost always accompanies such given circumstances.
❤ I go through the same pain.
Your not alone, I have to do the same thing🤝🙏
I am going through this pain as well.
The truth is, few people actually care if any at all. The irony, of course, being that everyone is so desperate for approval when the only approval you need is your own damn self. The sooner you develop self reliance, the sooner you break the cycle and move on from fakes.
YES SO TRUE, THEY'RE ALL ABOUT THEMSELVES, AMEN 🙏🏾
So true but many of us just want to be loved, so we blind ourselves to the truth.
It is exactly what I have done for many years...I needed to be loved, so I kept my eyes closed and pretended everything was ok. Now I can clearly see the real faces of many people surrounding me behind their masks...too late unfortunately..
We need to learn to love ourselves, we are pretty amazing 😊
@@MariaTeresa-b7w
Get them off out of your life. It doesn't matter if they're friends, or family members.
❤@@serene1275
@@debjewell5693 No my dear that would be saten the you know who having and doing what he does best seeking to devour you, me, anyone of us, As he knows that his time left here on earth Is very limited. (Amen).
YES
If someone doesn’t value you, they deserve to lose you…it’s that simple xx
YES!! I agree the worst ones are the ones that are related to you!!! 😢
I do not only agree with this message, I have lived it!
YES...Man, it really hurts when it's somebody that YOU YOURSELF really care about & give your all too.
❤facts❤
That's when it's time to block it makes me feel better to block them and ignore they always eventually reach out the balls in your court my brotha....♥️🙏♥️
Agreed 👍
And they still say love u. Shocking
Right..lots of fakes and snakes..that's why I'm always alone on the Inside
No way…
It took me 25 years to figure this out, oh and his 4 month affair at that 25 year mark
Oh I know!...that "love you" is phony as f*ck!
Yes snakes fakes weasels and badgers.
Yes I agree..... sometimes it's best to BE ON YOUR OWN!!!!
Boy did you speak the truth.. I feel better by myself!
Yes😊❤
True!!!!!
By myself I feel 1 million strong,around family I'm lonely as shit
@@lindamickens4654 For Sure 😉
I trusted such a person
He never talked to me,never told me anything about himself,n told my worst things to a media person
YES, sad thing about it is sometime they're related to you
yes
You Can Choose Your Friends But Not Your Family. Truth. But You Can Choose How To Respond & Interact Or Not Respond Or Interact At All If Negative Types. 🦉
For sure. I had to let my family go, but I still love them from afar.😢
This is so true it's pretty bad I had better friends and my husband family when I was in the hospital of course god has been with me thru this difficult time in my life my family puts on act like they care but they don't heck I've had relatives pass away and nobody tells me my uncle I found out from a Christmas card when it came back I would've wanted to show my respect
This is certain relatives of mine
These are the perfect examples of a Narcissist person!🎉😊
Exactly.
😂😂
I'm 59 and just now learning the meaning of the word. I've heard of it but never thought about it til it was brought up to me! I've learned I'm a magnet n attract these types of Men! An issue I'm recognizing now! I no longer accept narcissistic drama! Im terminally ill from my 1st husband trying to make me miscarry Our Son in 1990. I tucked n covered the 8mnth old fetus inside of me that left my head wide open n sure as heck, he took the opportunity n I took the steeltoe boot kick to my right temporal lobe! It went unchecked til the headaches n facial pain became too much! It took 13yrs for them to figure out I'm having seizures! He kicked me so hard, he fracture my skull n damage my Brain. I've flatlindd 7xs now! I'd rather die alone than with another narcissist!
So sorry this happened to you, but happy you figured it out. Hope your son is close to you.❤
You speak the truth... There are a lot of narcissistic people... Be careful when in a new relationship... They hide it at first!
I totally agree I know people who treat me that way.
@@lindacarnival103 Boundaries all about boundaries must have rigid ones with a lot of people those people that treat others like that have none but oh no they loose it if you say something about them they have no flaws their not worth the energy or the torment they put u through move on their are genuine people in the world that don't expect anything in return for love companionship good company all they want that's who you want to be around not egotisica self centered
Yes! God bless us all amen!
Yes I agree! And they say I'm there for you call me if you need me and you call them and they don't answer. Etc..........
I’m ignored at the level of they don’t even choose to hear the sound of my voice when I ask for help. It’s such a bizarre thing that I just don’t even know what to think.
I have always been there for my family. I’ve taken care of many sick and dying family members through the years. I just don’t get it. But I’m glad I know Jesus. Sorry if this sounds like nonsense to some. But I truly believe that we’re created to have a relationship with God above all. I’m being blessed beyond measure during this time by His love❤️
Same here. I'm always there for my family and relatives but when I need help, I get totally ignored.
My good friend real healthy jok.. Richard, a VETERAN a very kind man, helped everyone, on day carried a heavy box, he fell down stairs n broke his leg. He went to the veteran hospital, they put a rod him n started rehabilitation . Two months (thought it was to long to keep him) finally he can go home!!! His friend who came to visit, two to three times a week was there to pick him up.. Richard was no where to be found… WHAT happened to RICHARD??? It was time to tap into Richards spirit ghost. The veterans hospital has had disappearance of veterans in the past, this disappearance veterans, are by the numbers, they are killed and sent to the veterans training hospitals for student doctors to dissect in many states..
Richard was a very kind soul member of study group, he was looking forward getting home.. He n his buddies researching and inviting famous writers to share their knowledge.. Richard was a medium and has relaid what happened to him the night before going home.
He Was given an injection with a dose of poison that took his life, he was held down his mouth covered up three people carried him to his wheel chair and his soul separated. His lying in the morgue n will be transported to the medical schools to cut to pieces…. Do you really want to go to the HOSPITALS, TO THE BEST KILLERS, THE DOCTORS.. (allHypnotizedmore machines to slice yourself up) $$$$ in lying n thieving humans..idiots.. I’m ashamed of ever being a doctor lucky me I’m not hypnotizable… fken industry. I’m going to stop now before I blow up of anger..😅
Yes. Unfortunately for those people, I immediately dismiss them from my life.
Yes unfortunately sometimes it is family it's really sad
YES .... I got rid of 'friends' like this throughout my life, these are wise words.
I used to having a lot of these narcisist people around me who never helped back and never listen and just listen to their own needs ! they are whiped out from my friend list now ! its better to have few and true friends than to have many false friends !
Thank you ! Anthony H .
Yes, this is very true. This is true for both friends and family. Even your own family will turn against you. When you need something from your family a lot of times they say they are too busy to help out when you need help.
Yes.Thak you for helping me to open my eyes.
This morning I felt so sad that I didn't want to get up...😢
The first thing I saw in my mobile was your messatge.
La casualidad no existe,that was just what I need to learn.
My good friend real healthy jok.. Richard, a VETERAN a very kind man, helped everyone, on day carried a heavy box, he fell down stairs n broke his leg. He went to the veteran hospital, they put a rod him n started rehabilitation . Two months (thought it was to long to keep him) finally he can go home!!! His friend who came to visit, two to three times a week was there to pick him up.. Richard was no where to be found… WHAT happened to RICHARD??? It was time to tap into Richards spirit ghost. The veterans hospital has had disappearance of veterans in the past, this disappearance veterans, are by the numbers, they are killed and sent to the veterans training hospitals for student doctors to dissect in many states..
Richard was a very kind soul member of study group, he was looking forward getting home.. He n his buddies researching and inviting famous writers to share their knowledge.. Richard was a medium and has relaid what happened to him the night before going home.
He Was given an injection with a dose of poison that took his life, he was held down his mouth covered up three people carried him to his wheel chair and his soul separated. His lying in the morgue n will be transported to the medical schools to cut to pieces…. Do you really want to go to the HOSPITALS, TO THE BEST KILLERS, THE DOCTORS.. (allHypnotizedmore machines to slice yourself up) $$$$ in lying n thieving humans..idiots.. I’m ashamed of ever being a doctor lucky me I’m not hypnotizable… fken industry. I’m going to stop now before I blow up of anger..😅
@@elviramaldonado8263
Very Very true.👍🏾😢 AND Also "they" only have time for you to have long chitter-chatters when they're going thru serious problems themselves.
Amen!
Absolutely ❤
Yes and God lifted me and blessed me this is how I know he walked in my shoes
Yes, I agree. They only talk to you when they need something and when you can’t provide they will ignore you as if they don’t know you
@@AidaJimenez-r9k and when you need something it's crickets and excuses
Yes. It hurt me deeply for 3.5 yrs. Spot on. It was devastating.
YES! The worst thing is, I always listen to their problems!
@@Pride745 me too and they never listen to mine 🥹
@@lisah5784 They kind of pretend that they’re listening but somehow in a jiffy , get back to their own situation SWIFTLY!!😱
Thank you 🙏🏾
@@Pride745 yessss 😟
Yes I agree with you dear Sir Anthony Hopkins ! Or just dear Anthony , you are a very wise person & you give us good advice too , thank you dear Anthony xx & God bless you & your Family xxx love helen xx
Yep that's true that's why my best friend is Jesus.. he won't let you down are talk about you... amen 🎉❤..
That's beautiful. 🙏❤️
Amen!😊
Amen
@@BrianOwsley-x2h Amen!💗
Jesus ❤
Yes! It's pretty lonely. Never thought I would be in this position at 74!😢
@@shadowrider1370 I am too at 67.
62- yes...sadly
62 - yes. Recently widowed wife of 41years.. found out the hard way.
76 but made new friends. My sons and family are in a religion that Saya if you leave they can't talk to you or let you sleep in their house. Jehovah witnesses. But I kept very active in the community and drive an RV to see my grandkids and sleep at Walmart or Pilot. Happy now. Lovers of themselves.
Yes, I had to face that my husband & children don’t love me. I’ve always known it, but I was hoping it would just blow over,lol
Thankfully, I have the Lord Jesus. I know that’ll sound like nonsense to those that don’t know him, but this is where I find my joy & peace & reason for living. I fully believe that’s what it really comes down to anyway. ❤
Yes . My 2 my older sisters are exactly like that. And my mother is the same! I've always tried to reach out to them but got nothing back. So I concentrate on my life now.
@@markwalker2986 same same. My own sister whom i grew up with (4yrs older than me) alone with our mother. But not my mother, at least after we both where grown ups.. our relationship has been unique for the last seven years.. thank god.. we only have one life and family is family but not everyone understands that..
Yes Mr. Hawkins, you're exactly right and I agree with you 100%. Thank you❤❤❤
I agree 💯 % or they come around when you have money, it is sickening.
Yes
If you're poor you never hear from them ever.
@@JulietSpoto-pn2lx like scammers / catfish
Yes 😂
Yes 👍
Sounds like everyone I really loved in
my life!
me too are alike, ok absolute true
True. Amen
So true.....
Yes and God bless everyone that found this channel
Yes
This is also how my own family treats me.😢
@@LisaDavis-q5d I would treat you right Lisa xx
YES❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
GOD BLESS YOU!!! EVERYTHING YOU SAY IT HAPPENED TO ME THE REASON IM A LONER AND LOVE IT
THANK YOU MR. HOPKINS
Yes. I am surrounded by people who don't like me.
@@loramartin3499 I know that feeling wish I could talk to you I’d definitely like you I like everyone I have all haters around me so definitely know how you feel
Same :/
I have no friends around me. I have my family and husbond that's all i need.
YES
When I asked God to identify the haters in my life, I am able to protect myself.
I used to react to people who hate me. I learned that it is better to pray for them and ask God to heal their hardened heart. Amen 🙏
Yes I agree.... that's why I keep to myself.
I do the same thing
They always like to be in the limelight thalk about themselves.
That is so true, the sad they don't grow with you and you finally realize they don't give a damn about you.
Yes that's soo True 😢🙏🌺🫰👍
This is how my family acts towards me.
God bless
Amen Amen
Sorry about that.😢
Mine too, sadly!
Me too.god bless
Be strong, love yourself and see your value reflect your beautiful spirit even if they don't see it.
@@leylehadoris4355 thank you thank you
I really need that positives from you. I know to think about my family but it the past I've learned from it. I forgave them. But I would not hangout with them. Thank for the positivity. It's made bless and full with energetic and it's wake me up with a boost. Amen Amen and blessed you and your family with lots loves. You make my day filled with positive energy. Again thank you. ❤️❤️🙏🙏💯💯
Yes. I agree with this message. Lesson learned. People only see or know you when they need you. Your feelings aren't validsted. Even know you are going through something. But they still want you to take care of their needs. Don't even ask, "How are you doing?" Amen ❤
Yes!!!
Exactly. It's disheartening to know soooo many people are in the same boat as myself.
It’s so true, and you can count your real friends on one hand. They are friends for life, hold on to them for they will hold you up . Walk away from fair weather friends they are hollow
Yes. When the love of my life for over 35 years passed away, I realized how little I needed other people around me. I now find myself alone. But, I am never lonely.
Yes, I agree with this message. When people say they love and care about you but their actions are the opposite, believe the actions. People can lie with their words but their actions show how they really feel about you.
Actions speak louder than words, every time.
Yes... Unfortunately everybody that's left in my life is them. Everyone important has died. Everyone that loved me.
That happens when your spouse dies & children are married. I found this when they got married they do what their family, wife etc want. I've become a worn out shoe..
I feel the same way,
@@audreyplant7056I'm so sorry that happened to you. I have brothers like that. They didn't support my mom enough when dad passed. They show their true colors. After losing my mom, I lost my best friend and Father within 2 years and my brothers have been no support emotionally. How can people be like that? I mean family 🤔 I so wish you the best 💜
@@KohleKless-mk2et 🩵🥲🙏
Bang on…. Ignore such people instantly
This is absobloominlutely true. My Mother was a narcissist. My elder sister her Golden Child, is also narcissistic. I was her scapegoat raised with perpetual criticism. I have healed and now help others with their own healing. And never will be in the presence of my original family, except with my feeling younger brother. Thank you for sharing this, Sir Anthony.🌞
Amen Yes ,and Yes again.My family ,my mother ,sister brother and cousin treated me this way exactly and going one step further ,distanced themselves from me ,at a time in my life when i needed them the most , not long ago ,as they had the means to take me in but ppint blank just wouldnt, knowing of my suffering , but not caring for me enough to help me . Needless to say, I'm done with them as i realize im better off without them.When everyone else and those around me failed me,then the Lord lifted me up. Very wise and true words spoken so beautifully that have helped me so much as i have felt this way and found these things out a while ago as you know who really loves you and stands by you when you need them the most .Thank you so much for this .God bless you always.🎉💞💐🌷🌸💕🌺♥️💝💖💖💖💖💖🧬🌹
Yes... yes...yes... glad I finally woke up and recognized the truth
Me to❤❤
Mysister 1000 percent my sister I had to block n
her ever lock.her out
Yes
@PatChrist-v4e Yup.... I had to do the same with both of my brothers.... the level of disrespect, mistreatment, stealing from me... it was too much... I don't know why I took it
for so long.. It's all about jealousy.. but God gives all of us the same 24 hours to achieve.
I'm Solo now, no family ties, but I know my God will take care of me...
Yes. God bless you. Yes, it hurts. As we grow older we become wiser and learn to love ourselves more.
Yes🎉❤IL I have spent a lifetime mostly alone since my husband's death. Homeless for the first time l barely able to live on disability after losing my sight at 36.. Yet now, at age 61, in my tent. I have all the time I need to listen to your amazing wisdom. I couldn't be happier. Through my tribulation, I have just found profound wisdom and love in your words. Thank you, Sir Hopkins. May the Gods bless you.❤❤❤
Yes I am going to do that. With one person in my life. I believe in God 100%
Some times these truths hurt but they will set you free 🆓. This what Mr Hopkins said is coming from a good place in his hart.
It's AI, not Mr Hopkins.
Thank you, Sir Hopkins - truth hurts but is necessary to be happy! ✝️🕊️🙏❤️🙋
Yes, it hurts so much but better know the truth than be inconcious.😢
Yes omg yes this video is meant for me because u spoke every single word this is surely my situation ☹️
YES I AGREE, I'M GOING THRU THIS RIGHT NOW WITH A FAMILY MEMBER, BUT I'M MOVING ON , AND EVEN THO THEY DON'T THINK THAT I DON'T KNOW THEIR TALKING ABOUT ME WELL I DO BECAUSE THEIR FRIENDS ARE TALKING ABOUT THEM SAD.
Yes yes, how true sadly.
that's me
That is exactly how I feel about most people I know.
Yesssssss
But what’s sad and worst it’s when you have a family member like your own sister that is this very nasty way.
Same yo
Yes Wise Words. Be Aware. Stay Vigilant. 🦉
Fantastic comment. Stay vigilant!
Yes 100%, also they have many excuses and backing on their worlds or promises. Stay away from ppl like that because they’re using you and taking advantage of you! I’m also telling this to myself and trying to learn from my own mistakes 😢
My good friend real healthy jok.. Richard, a VETERAN a very kind man, helped everyone, on day carried a heavy box, he fell down stairs n broke his leg. He went to the veteran hospital, they put a rod him n started rehabilitation . Two months (thought it was to long to keep him) finally he can go home!!! His friend who came to visit, two to three times a week was there to pick him up.. Richard was no where to be found… WHAT happened to RICHARD??? It was time to tap into Richards spirit ghost. The veterans hospital has had disappearance of veterans in the past, this disappearance veterans, are by the numbers, they are killed and sent to the veterans training hospitals for student doctors to dissect in many states..
Richard was a very kind soul member of study group, he was looking forward getting home.. He n his buddies researching and inviting famous writers to share their knowledge.. Richard was a medium and has relaid what happened to him the night before going home.
He Was given an injection with a dose of poison that took his life, he was held down his mouth covered up three people carried him to his wheel chair and his soul separated. His lying in the morgue n will be transported to the medical schools to cut to pieces…. Do you really want to go to the HOSPITALS, TO THE BEST KILLERS, THE DOCTORS.. (allHypnotizedmore machines to slice yourself up) $$$$ in lying n thieving humans..idiots.. I’m ashamed of ever being a doctor lucky me I’m not hypnotizable… fken industry. I’m going to stop now before I blow up of anger..😅
That’s people period, THATS MOSTLY EVERYBODY!!!
Some acceptances are blessing
Some refusals are also blessing
🙂
Yes, there was a man I was so in love with. But all the signs were there that he just didn’t care about me. He was just using me for sex. I finally decided to love myself more and moved on. Now I feel so much peace in my life and in my heart. I learned that you always have to put urself first if they don’t. ❤
And also if they do.
Good for you! 💜
Good for you!
Sorry baby girl been there myself
Yes and they want 2 hurt you directly! Time 2 move on and very small doses with only the ones you still love! Respect yourself and your loved ones, you'll be happier!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Absolutely truth 💯 💯💯💯💯💯 my own family
@user-tq Agree 100%! Family is the most evil! That's why I really don't like listening to prayers on YT-- bc they ALWAYS say prayers for our "loving" families! Best thing is no contact w family -- & protection prayers! God bless u!
This is why I'm alone, you can't loose what you NEVER HAD.
Very true, Anthony ❤
This is very true I have family members that are exactly like this. They ask me to help them to babysit and then just walk away . They don't help babysit. They are disrespectful. I know for a fact this is true. I have a few family members that hate me.
Ditto..my famille is the same
It's fine. I've already cried about it. I'm finally starting to feel like myself again. He has every opportunity he can reach, I'm happy for him.
He just needs to stay the hell away from me because I'm not a fallback anymore.
I just can't seem to stop crying tho
Yes . If we see that signs then we should go away of that bad vibes . We don’t need people who take away from us , we need people who add positive things to us .
true words!
Yes...and its usually someone u really love.
Yes. God bless you, too!❤🙏
Yes. God Bless.
God bless you ❤great actor you are😊2024
Yes. For sure. We Must always pray when going through tough times. Other people will always disappoint you even unintentionally. God is never too busy and He never disappoints us.
Love your comment and it's true. 🙏
My good friend real healthy jok.. Richard, a VETERAN a very kind man, helped everyone, on day carried a heavy box, he fell down stairs n broke his leg. He went to the veteran hospital, they put a rod him n started rehabilitation . Two months (thought it was to long to keep him) finally he can go home!!! His friend who came to visit, two to three times a week was there to pick him up.. Richard was no where to be found… WHAT happened to RICHARD??? It was time to tap into Richards spirit ghost. The veterans hospital has had disappearance of veterans in the past, this disappearance veterans, are by the numbers, they are killed and sent to the veterans training hospitals for student doctors to dissect in many states..
Richard was a very kind soul member of study group, he was looking forward getting home.. He n his buddies researching and inviting famous writers to share their knowledge.. Richard was a medium and has relaid what happened to him the night before going home.
He Was given an injection with a dose of poison that took his life, he was held down his mouth covered up three people carried him to his wheel chair and his soul separated. His lying in the morgue n will be transported to the medical schools to cut to pieces…. Do you really want to go to the HOSPITALS, TO THE BEST KILLERS, THE DOCTORS.. (allHypnotizedmore machines to slice yourself up) $$$$ in lying n thieving humans..idiots.. I’m ashamed of ever being a doctor lucky me I’m not hypnotizable… fken industry. I’m going to stop now before I blow up of anger..😅
Amen 💜
Yes Its always one sided. Very sad really.
@@pennypresley8507 Yes. They will give opposite signals and different statements. Pure abuse because they initiated the interest at first and I kept feeling.
Also, each narcissist comes with another situation / scenario and they may seem civil and respectful but then they are not!
Yes that true
That's why you need Reciprocity. Everything works both ways. One way ticket to the Blues.
Sad is Blue, right?
YES & SHARED
❤ Yes Yes Yes Amen God Bless
Yes, God bless you too. Amen.
❤❤❤"YES" I AGREE
AMEN 🙏 THANK YOU, JESUS CHRIST 🙏
spot on, thats 100% true,, dont waist your time on these people, wish them the best, and never look back
Yes I agree 100 percent!!!!
YES, ABSOLUTELY THE REAL TRUTH ANTHONY HOPKINS & BLESSINGS TO YOU & ALL OF US WHOM THAT ARE BEING DONE THIS WAY
Necessary evil. It served me well. Saved me from heartaches, disappointment and financial ruin.
Yes god bless thank you Sir Anthony Hopkins your a very wise man respect.❤️🙏🙏😉👁️👁️✌️
Yes , this should be saved and played back at the beginning of every new relationship!
No... the beginning is when everything's good. Need to play it at first sign of any red flags.. Or after a few months at least, instead of ignoring and looking for excuses for them. Yes? No?
@@tdrak3 Good points! I said at the beginning as a aggressive proactive way to prevent getting in too deep too soon because for me by the time I see something wrong it’s too late and I get hurt.
And still stalk you when you're watching UA-cam trying to move on, lol....I approve this message/ yes😊
Yes it is true.and it's so sad 😭 when it's your partner.break that weakness start a new chapter a new you.God bless.
Yes...& have experienced this.
They're always about themselves....what they want out of you..they don't care about you..because you make yourself too available, they take you for granted,have contempt for you,don't respect you..enough is bloody enough..GOTTIT😊
YES, you couldn't have said it any better thank you for speaking the real truth.
Yes... And it's people who's so close to you they team up with your enemies
So True 😢
Keep your Faith and don't forget your hope 🙏☮️🍀