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My life is going to be more complicated. My 44-year-old son lost his apartment, rent up too high. His disability check will not cover that. So he's coming on Thursday to live with me. I have a paid for a place but it needs work. I'm almost 70 and can't do much. Nobody expects life to take these turns. I want the best for my children, and I live without water no working well. But we're going to do this adventure together. Family takes care of family and God takes care of all of us!!! 💕
I wish you well. Your plate is full. Do you have a good attitude. Bless your heart.
Mel sometimes you just need to stop talking so much. All u had to say was u were having a bad day, too much detail. Stop please.!
We all have days like that and I'm sorry i sounded rude. But really most women have a great deal on their plate. Like you said we wear alot of different hats. Bless you and I hope u have a better day.❤
I feel for you too as I am in the same position. My son and his family were attacked and robbed and my daughter in law ended up in hospital with a cracked open skull and was rushed to theatre. They were so traumatized they moved out of their house and have moved in with us again. We got so used to being on our own and now have 6 in the house again. Hard going with 2 young grandsons too. But we will get through this. One day at a time. But as you say family looks after family when the need arises. God bless you. My son is 44 too.
@@lynnbrown4219 Oh my goodness. How awful. Much love sent!❤️
Girl I feel ya … the vicious cycle of feeling overwhelmed and worked it takes its toll. Peopling is so hard 🙃
Definitely. We´re right there with you.
It's called "Being overwhelmed" with the Constant DAY to DAY Stresses with being SuperMom, Spouse, along with having ALL of the ANSWERS for EVERYONE....!
IT'S also called being Human...!
Mel, with all the channels i watch, i never get upset when they don't post. I just pray that they are okay. We all have bad days and things that happen in our life. It's all okay. Here's a hug, take care of yourself first. A lesson at almost 67, i still need to learn.
Mel and Gary, I have known y’all personally for a couple of years now thanks to UA-cam, and being a UA-camr myself I can honestly say from my own experiences as a person putting myself out there, being vulnerable, grinding, building, managing kids, life and the relentlessness of constantly editing, uploading, importing and trying to be creative all the while dealing with my own struggles and trying to keep it all together that y’all are as real as it gets.
What you guys are trying to do is not easy. As a matter of fact, it’s one of the hardest most mentally straining things you can put yourself through.
You guys are absolute Winners in life and on UA-cam because of what you are able to overcome and Any person that hasn’t walked in your shoes and who haven’t tried being a UA-camr for years on end has no clue what it’s like and the struggles that it takes to overcome and achieve greatness. Thank you for sharing not only your journey of building your dreams but the behind the scenes and all the other things about life that make you human. Keep going, keep sharing, keep grinding, keep editing and keep doing what you are meant to do as a creator, a builder, a homesteader, a family, and all the other things that make up who are not only as a UA-camr but as a person and the people who don’t want to be here or the ones that speak negatively about you, your life, your struggles, etc..are not the ones that you want in your UA-cam circle. Thank you for being real, authentic, humble and positive for all of us out here that are watching and learning! 👊❤️✌️
Well said, you're a cool dude:)
We all have those times folks. You are fearfully & wonderfully made. We are blessed...prayerfully!
Depression is one thing, anxiety takes it to a whole different level! I never understood until I did! Anxiety can be overwhelming and unless you have experienced it, it is impossible to explain.
Take care of yourself! Hugs 🤗!
Totally agree.
Yeppers 😛
Mel I totally get you. Been there, done that. Putting so much pressure on yourself comes from taking on way too much. Finding that balance between work and play can be difficult and overwhelming. Taking a step back and looking at things from a different perspective has been helpful for me. Figure out how much time you’re really ‘working’ each week, then cut that time back as it’s clearly too much to enjoy. ‘Your’ life is simply that, it’s yours. Take the magnifying glass and the pressure you’re putting on yourself and focus on what makes you happy and the rest will fall into place. Remember, it’s not your job to make everyone else happy with your content. We all love what you and Gary do, and we’ll still be here when you figure out that balance. Enjoy the summer with your kids, you only get so many when they’re young! And if you feel like working and posting a video, then that’s nice, but not expected. Don’t allow your ‘simple life’ to turn into the rat race. 🥰
I think the majority of people who are self-aware, go through their verison of the samething you are going through. Its relatable forsure. Its awesome that you feel and deal with your feelings about life. Its a good thing. Its growth.
I love you, hunny. You are an incredible wife, mother, youtuber, and woman. EVERYONE needs to take time for themselves from time to time, I think it should part of our regular calender schedules. Love, MoM.
ps: I'm getting my boots on!
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You said it! You do too much! Just like the holidays, people get fatigued from doing too much. You deserve breaks! Don't take on too much. Once the house is done, that will take some of the pressure off. ❤
As homesteaders, first thing that comes to mind. Is call those kids over and let them move the feed bags. They are strong enough and old enough to help out. My 8 and 10 year old's with autism have homestead helping days. They can feed animals fill waters, move lumber, collect firewood and sticks keep them busy this summer. I let our boys cut out an space in the woods behind the playground we built them. 4 years later they cleared about 9:18 1/2 acre of weeds thorns bush. So my husband went and cut down 4 trees so the sun could get in there. Has kept the busy for sure.
You can't be all things to all people. My motto is: You be you! (Btw, That's who we want to watch.) 😊
I have times where everything feels overwhelming, and it literally paralyzes me into not doing anything. I understand completely. Having a UA-cam channel puts additional stress on an already stressful life. Just because you are fulfilling your dreams with building a homestead and creating strong family values doesn't mean it isn't stressful. You can't ignore that. Having those feelings doesn't make you "less than". It makes you human!
Exactly 💯%
I am so glad that you talked about your struggles!😇 I hope you feel better talking about it. I think you need one day a week for a mental health day, Maybe Sunday. According to God we are supposed to rest on Sunday.🙏 Everyone needs a mental health day we are human beings💕
Even God rested on the 7th day. And we are made in His image, so 1 day of rest a week is essential.
@@lornah9267Amen 🙏✝️🙏
Yes and for this Wife of a Navy Veteran We Navy Wives went through the same thing except Gary is home with You now Mine is estranged hubby but in 2020 He had brain 🧠 surgery and something 🫰 snapped. But GOD is ABSOLUTELY GOOD regardless.
Take off Sundays Focus on Our LORD When mine were little like yours : it really helped to do Mom's day out groups and I went to a church that did Wednesday morning Bible study... During the summer they planned Saturday where My son's got to do a craft and we Mom's got a fun craft ourselves. We women are made to get together. Men can take it or leave it but we need female companionship. I think it's the way GOD made women. Naps also help. On Sundays after either take out or sit down meals. Julia can cook delegate those things. Respectfully. My3Sons now Adults in their 30's know how to cook do laundry and clean. Before they got out of Jr. High.
GOD Loves You MeL: If you teach your children now how to pay attention to detail then they in turn will teach their children . Roxanne Brittany You Momma V and Jenn Mary could probably encourage each other with cooking tips and organizing ideas, It's the best thing when you can tell your own children hey we need to solve this challenge put one thing up. These Chores need to get done before supper time. Any suggestions what we could do? Let them do a round table discussion about it .with you or Gary to mediate.
I’ve watched the channel since you moved to the 41.36. Your “framily” extends further than your own shores. Love everything you put out, the building, the hunting, your kids growing, physically and mentally. Take your “me” time Mel, and never feel guilty x@SLR
We adapt to our daily lives one day at a time, grief doesn't end in a day or a week. Years can go by without enough healing to resolve grief. 14 years since I lost my mother, I still have dreams with her in them.
My moms been gone 33 years and I still dream about her.
Never be ashamed of sharing your true self! You have helped me (and others, I'm sure) on my journey with anxiety and my faith. For that I thank you from the bottom of my heart! Keep on, keepin' on sister!
I so get what you are saying. I have ADHD, anxiety and more. Normal brained people have no idea how much mental and physical energy it takes to concentrate on multiple things at once, and focus on conversations without wandering off inside our head. I love people, but I get “peopled” out. I need to withdraw so my brain can calm down, but that was often not doable just because of family and life demands. My brain never stops spinning, but I can slow it down a bit by giving in to the feeling of overwhelm so I don’t make myself sick. Put your own oxygen on first when you need it so you can restore and replenish the energy you need to pour out into other people.
Don't worry, I'm 62 years old and I also encounter these problems. Everyone is sometimes afraid, that's life. God is with you. Greetings, Rob Heijne. Keep your head high.
My daughter is the same way! I get you. And you are loved!
You are in my thoughts and prayers Melsending positive vibes yr way🙌It's okay to not be okay, you are enough
Mel when my Dad died for over two years I was a wreak. People kept telling me just to get over it. No that isn't how things work especially when you have a bond with someone. Mel I'm 75 and it's just me, myself and I of which is it so visiting with you on Real Talk is like family. Life can get overwhelming. Want to send a big hug. Love y'all
Good morning. Understand totally.. Hope y’all have a great weekend!
Sometimes the pressure of a job any job will give us those feelings. You’re doing great. You have a good head on your shoulders and have the friends and family surrounding you. Never feel you have to explain but the fact that you do will probably help someone else struggling. Sending love and peace for your day.❤😊😊
MEL I TOTALLY GET YOU!!!!!!! Focusing on family stuff recharges my battery. When My battery is empty I will cry and be super grumpy for no reason.
When you are introverted, social settings can drain what I call my social battery. Sometimes I will just wander off and spend a little time away. After the break, I am fine again and ready to chat and mingle. You just need to know when you need to take that time for yourself.
Hi Mel and Gary. Good morning and stay dry. Having an "off" day is normal life for me. Taking time to recharge your batteries by doing other things instead of planned products. Mental health is very important and do what makes you happy. I understand completely. I hibernate for a day when I don't feel like being around people. Don't change how you are just to please others. Live your life the way you want.
Reality is an overwhelming concept but we all do it. LIFE!
Love the description, “puddle of pathetic”! Probably describes a lot of us at times:) Take care guys, love your channels, sorry people have such unrealistic expectations of you. You’re doing fine. Take care.❤️❤️❤️
We all have those days especially at Christmas women try to hard sometimes to make memories for our kids later our hormones need help we get stressed trying to do everything . Relax and take more time for yourself . there's nothing wrong with having a good cry you're no different than we are. .......
It's social overload then payback. Good you give yourself time to decompress. Xx
May is mental health month appreciate your sharing, y’all are amazing ❤
Mel you are doing great. When I have anxiety attacks my doc told me some non medical advice when i told him it feels like im having a heart attack. He told me to say out loud if im gonna give myself an attack fck it let it come ! When I realized an attack didnt come I felt relieved and my anxiety disappeared
Mel, girl you are not alone! This is probably the best Real Talk! I’m so glad you have Gary and great friends by your side! What you said today - is how I feel a lot of the time. Thanks for talking about this. Mental heath stigma in women is not talked about enough! You’re strong, you’re loves, and you’re worth it 💪🏼💪🏼
No apologies necessary. Do what your body tells you to do. You need time to yourself and family. We love you and the channel.
Doing things from the heart for your loved ones always makes you feel better emotionally. We all put pressure on ourselves that don't need to be there.
Life can be overwhelming. Don't feel bad about doing what you need to do for you. Everyone deals with times of overload. You have to take a step back and breathe. You work every day to provide for your family and you bring us along. I for one feel invested and grateful. So when you need time for you, take it. You deserve it! Those of us who really care, who look forward to whatever comes next, we'll be here. We understand. I hope and pray you know you aren't alone in how you feel. Mother's everywhere of all ages and types understand the weight of life's responsibilities and burdens. Love you.
God bless you Mel. Hope Garys back gets better. Praying for you and family.
I have watched yall from the very beginning and I just love yall! I wait for the next video and can't wait to see it! I always know something good is coming down the pipeline even if it is a change in plans!!
Besides all the rain Arkansas has had the severe weather coming thru over and over . Arkansas, Oklahoma and Texas had bad storms and tornados last night and just heard ridge life say the Payne Family got wiped out by one . Sending prayers to all affected . Mel don't feel guilty take the time and do what you want.
Kudos to you! As most of us here, we’re here to follow your journey/dreams. And yes we look forward to what’s next. Not to rush you, not to pressure you “when”, but what are you sharing with us next! I understand pressure, anxiety, and depression. I wish all lifestyle stuff was a simple journey, but God has the plan and all we can do is the best we can. My escape is the beach. I have one short video of the beach/ocean. I hope you find a way to release your bad/tired/frustrated feelings. My prayers for you and your family. We love you!
Thank you so much for sharing Mel I myself have mental health and I struggle every day with it
I feel blessed when I watch your blogs
Real talk is amazing I feel you're pain
May God bless you and all you're family and you're big brother and his wife and son 🙏
I've been watching your videos on both channels for a long time now, instarted watching it purely for thr building, but over time it's become alot more than that for me, I get to watch your life as a family, and how you overcome various obstacles and challenges. I too suffer with severe anxiety, so I know how much it can affect you, and how you can be fine one moment, and a mess the next. You guys keep it real, I see that with every video, and it's been amazing watching your journey. Keep up the great work.
Mel it’s ok to have feelings & process them out! It’s normal & healthy to get those feels out in a healthy way. When we give & pour out so much of ourselves without having time to fill back up we can crash emotionally, mentally & physically. Sounds like you have a great support system of people who can help you when you need to process through all of that. Another thing we can do is journaling some of that when life gets busy if you aren’t able to share with someone. Thanks for sharing real life struggles and being real! Glad you are feeling better Gary! Take care of yourselves & the family first. Videos are great but real life should come first!
It's ok to step back and take care of you! ❤ I'm an introvert and am happy away from people. Of I'm at functions, I'm happy to be by myself again.
Good morning Mel and Gary, glad your back is on the mend Gary. Enjoy your weekend. 👍👍❤️❤️🇨🇦
I love watching you and Gary. Though I’ve never met you, but I feel you are special friends. Thank you for your honesty.
Mel, I 100% understand what you described. The meetup took a lot out of you with all the planning, hard work, expectations, responsibilities, elation from the event itself, and then after the event, after you have ACED the achievement of the meetup, you experienced the post-achievement depression.
Post-achievement depression involves experiencing a sense of purposelessness or sadness after completing a long-standing goal. This can produce a complex range of emotions, including lack of motivation, tiredness, restlessness, frustration, self-doubt, sadness, or an overall sense of melancholy and existential crisis.
You definitely need to take a days or even a week to let your adrenal system, your emotions, and your body the time they need to fully recover from all that.
We love you and your family and all that you share with us, and all that you do for us. You bless the Framily and Homesteading community so much. Take care of you because we are all here to support you.
I know the overwhelmed/burnt out feeling. Scaling back and simplifying is needed. Doing too much all the time is detrimental.
Can I offer some outside advice...Get rid of the rabbits, don't get the goats, and instead of angling out the roof to match the deck angle, just have the porch roof come straight off the roof. Also, truly consider doing a PBR metal roof instead of standing- seam....standing-seam is very complicated and requires folding metal and sounds stressful. We _were_ going to do standing-seam on our roof until we realized how complex it was so we stepped down to PBR metal panels and we did it. They do sell awesome screws these days that will last a very long time.
Certain viewers over the last few years have gotten a lot more mean and impatient on Yotube than they used to - I don't know what happened, but it's different. We ALWAYS get people asking "What About this or what about that" and the "WHEN" comments...and we just tell them..."when the time is right", basically. Things will get done on OUR TIME, not THEIRS. It's our life, our time, our money, our labor, OUR STORY, not theirs.
The reason we opened our 2nd channel was to share our random stuff that many our regular viewers never wanted to see on our main channel. They gave us such a hard time whenever we showed random vloggy/personal stuff, but we WANTED to share certain things with everyone and it frustrated us that we had no place to share it...so 2nd channel it was.
The ONLY product that works for iron stains is "IRON OUT". We had horrible NASTY staining water in Michigan, and "IRON OUT" worked great....just spray it on and you can watch the stains disappear. But most of the time we just let it be orange and said oh well. I barely cleaned that tub. No point in cleaning it just to have it get yellow the next day.
Mel you are making me cry. Oh girl, I am giving you a virtual hug. I love ya mel
Hey Mel, I love watching your videos. I love how you are such a sweet mama to your children. I know that there is a lot of pressure on you at times, and it feels like the weight of the world is on your shoulders. I have noticed, and I mean this, with the best intentions, that sometimes you just seem to be going through the motions. Or trying to be what you think we want you to be. I know it’s very difficult when you wanna be everything to everyone and you put yourself on the back burner. people think they have the right to demand things from you because you put your life on UA-cam for everyone to see. But what they don’t understand is it’s not there for them to judge you and tell you how to live it. Is there for their entertainment and if there’s something we can learn from you along way that’s great. but if you burn out that’s sad. I’m so glad that you’re able to recognize that you just need to take some time for yourself to recoup recover and recharge. I for one am not going to be judgmental or upset because you’re not able to put a video out every time I expect it. Take as much time as you need. Because nothing else matters except for your mental health. Because if mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy. Love you girl.
You were the first channel I started following in homesteading. I now follow 90% of the family. I enjoy watching your family bond and build your homestead. I love seeing the animals, I enjoy watching Gary, working on his builds. I love that you're overcoming your fear of heights, watching you dress your chickens. I absolutely adore the rabbits. Keep doing what you are doing and I will keep following.
Mel and Gary you are doing great. Continue to take breaks as everyone needs to. We all struggle with life and we're just normal. Enjoy the little things daily. Time passes so quickly and we can't get it back. Trust and believe you're doing great. ❤
First off. Never apologize to us!!! This was true real talk. I see this as you just need a mental break but like Gary says you have high standards and expectations for yourself. All you are feeling is totally human and many want be so transparent and make it look like a bed of roses all the time. Roses wither and blight also hits them sometimes. I want to say y'all two young ones, yep I am much older, are such an inspiration. You are so right. Any issue you personally have to face it and grab it by the horns is the best thing to do. Don't beat yourself up. Y'all are doing great. I love watching y'all do life in the real way life is. Prayers of strength and acceptance!! Love y'all much and one day I will meet y'all.
You are doing great Mel, don’t ever change you. I love the family channel you built, been watching from the beginning. That is why I watch you guys. Don’t change. I get the mental health days and everyone needs those no matter who you are or what you are doing. I love ya lady, God blessings to you.
Life is overwhelming at times. It can get to be too much for anybody and everybody. But how you come out of those slumps shows others how strong you are. To me, you are a very strong and loving person. God has blessed you with a very loving and caring family, too. Continue being you and believing in God, for He will help you through it all. You are truly loved.
Mel & Gary compliment each other in the physical and business sides of your channels. One cannot run without the other. You both 😢should never feel that taking a well deserved break is ever wrong or makes you both feel guilty. especially if you’re overwhelmed. I own a driving school with employees and I always say when I feel like I’m working for my employees it’s time reevaluate and redirect my goals. When you start feeling the pressures of expectations set by others, it’s time to turn the camera off. It’s your lives. You decide what, when and how much you share with us all. And honestly, I watch and enjoy your videos when you upload them not according to a specific day/time.
Give yourselves some grace ❤ Gary & Mel you both are an inspiration to others!
YOU DO A GREAT JOB MEL!!! Keep ya head up and breathe it’s ok to take a break. I own and run my own business with two families depending on me to work and it will get to you but take. Break and it will be ok I promise.
It's like you love your family to come and visit but afterwards, very glad with the quite when they head home. Normal feelings, don't feel guilty about.
Mel, we too have really hard water. Two options come to mind that we use regularly is CLR and The Works. We have to do it all the time, but it does help remove the Iron, and in our case Lime. I did reach out to a water filtration company, who came out and tested our water. I was all for what they were telling me, until they got to the price of $4600.00 to purchase and install the needed system. Mind you, it did use salt, but no where near as much as a simple water softener would require. It was called a CE-5 system. They actually recommend not installing a reverse osmosis system before theirs was installed, as you would be burning through filters like ever week or two, and possibly damaging the pipes.
Mel, you are only human after all 💜💜💜 Love and healing to you and the family xXx
Mel, Don't stop. Take the next step. Your success depends one you.
Mel I know exactly what you’re going through. I’ve been dealing with it now for a couple of years. it’s really hard. you know what needs to be done Just gets too overwhelming I end up doing nothing. Sending lots of prayers love and hugs. Look after yourself.❤️❤️🤗🤗🙏🙏
You are human and go through things like the rest of us. We all have insecurities and moments where we feel like we are letting people down or not measuring up. I am in awe of what you have done with helping Gary build your home while taking care of the family/kids. I nor my husband could never do what you have done. Never ever feel like you have to post a video meet our expectations, you do this because you want to not because we expect you to. You are providing us with entertainment and there are, at least where I am concerned, no expectations of a video every day or every week. You do you boo.❤❤❤❤
Hey Mel, it's not easy juggling everything in life. Sorry that you had a yucky day. I'm in mine currently & have been for going on 4 days now. I totally respect everything that you &Gary do. Hang in there!! Everyone here loves you & Gary & respect your family & what your doing for your family. Take it easy.
Hi I'm from the UK and watch your channel often, but today I just wanted to give you a big hug and let you know you're doing fine, God bless. Rember Room was not built in one day. Stay blessed
Love and hugs coming to you Mel from Toronto
You're doing fine, Mel! It's all good. There's a lot of work in setting up a homestead. It's always something. Take your time and do what you need to do.
🎉 Thanks for sharing your story. Things have a way of working out and I cannot imagine how hard it is to have a UA-cam channel and all of the time it takes you to produce a 20 to 30 minute show from multiple cameras with many hours to shift through to make sure you will no go over a certain time frame.
I have had this old Galaxy J7 Crown phone since 2016 and have not figured out everything that it can do.
I am so scared of a much needed phone because I would have to learn something completely different the way technology has improved since 2016.
I am starting to think technology is not good for many reasons but I use it every day to take care of my personal business.
Take care I love all of you.
Mel don’t ever be sorry for sharing. Life isn’t easy. A good cry 😭always helped me feel better. Looking back on the years of struggling they really were the best days. When it gets to be too much just do what you need to do. Sending hugs and love ❤️ your way.
I feel a lot like that too just without the social media aspect but I have bad anxiety and a slight paranoia complex so I feel for you 😢
Hey guys, I happened to be on Amazon this afternoon looking for a water transfer pump to make using my IBC water tote and rainwater collection easier to water my garden. It led me to a portable sand filter and I thought that might help you guys with the well water. Gary, you're the authority so I don't know if these are too small for your situation or not. Thought it wouldn't hurt to let you know. The in ground one at Jeff's is probably what you really need. Texas Deb ❤️
Good Morning Mel and Gary. Mel
Life happens to the best of us. Even the strongest person has a limit. Meditation is a good practice to over come anxiety and panic attacks.
I feel you Mel. I make/build things for fun because thats what I like to do. Then people see what I've made n they all want me to make things for them and thats when I dont enjoy it anymore because I feel like its a job. I completely understand. I love watching your channel because i enjoy watching your journey and simply just enjoy your family as a whole. Alot of youtubers become successful and lose sight of why they started their channel and it becomes a business n all about money. Thats when I lose interest in their channel. Stay true and your true followers will always be with you. I love you guys for you. ❤❤❤
Shine The Light on the darkness, Mel ❤
Good morning Coffee…. Have a great day…it’s raining here in UT as well…
I totally get you ❤❤❤❤❤
We had very rusty water when we had a well. We got a double tank softener, a rain soft. It was great😊
Theyre not better at sharing their emotions, theyre too fearful of showing them. Im one of those emotional hiders. Youre awesome Mel,as is Gary and your children!
Girl I feel you I’ve had anxiety for 14 years and some days I can do weeks okay then it hits me for 2 months but if I feel it coming I play with my 5 babies and it helps me get out of it I get overwhelmed over lil things and I’m a worrywart lol when I get overwhelmed or stressed it hits me and I’m down for a day ur not alone girl is mamas are powerful women we feel like everyone needs us and we have a big job and making sure our hubbys are good it comes even when I’m happy it’s crazy how nothing causes it love ya girl u got this and I was very close to my mamaw and papaw and been gone 8 and 3 years now and I still struggle we’re human it’s normal but prayer and gods with you relax more and enjoy family days
Also try white sounds I have a noise white sound that I plug up at night I personally like the waves but it helps me sleep
I watch you because I love watching you and I know how you feel.
Oh my gosh honey! You really took step one laying it out and I am so happy for you. God Bless you. I pray it starts going away but you have taken great strides. So be proud of yourself. That took a lot of guts to tell all you did. Be proud of yourself. I love watching you guys. I am always so proud of the two of you and your kids. You guys have wonderful kids. Have a great weekend. ❤🙏🙏
We as woman are always trying to help others and do everything we can. We forget to take care of ourselves. Thats when health and mental health trys to take you down. I understand when i quit drinking in February 2006, i had a heart attack Nov 2009, heart surgery may 2011, gallbladder surgery july 2011, had to move from mich to Arizona in aug 2011 to take care of myself. I worked full time and ran a tree business working like i was a man almost killed me.
Hello Mel, i understand. I am still behind in watching Videos. I seem to go from one illness to another. I have a really bad Cold and Cough.
We do the things we like to do, have to do and want to do. We sometimes do not realize at the time of doing it that it is Stressful. When it is all done it is like a cone down but we are really Drained. So you do whatever gets you through it but do not feel guilty about anything. Take care off yourself. Love snd blessings
Hello Gary and Mel, have a great evening!
For your water, check into Culligan! We use to have that and really liked it.
When that dead tree behind you is gone your view is going to be phenomenal! So pretty there! Gary take care of yourself.
The mountains in the background gives a beautiful backdrop for your video. The tree that's right behind you both, is it alive? It looks like a potential widow maker.
I agree with you Mel.... that's the same reason I'm on Facebook and why I comment on yt I'm trying to knock down the brick wall cause I'm a loner and really don't play nice with people 🙄 so social media is basically like therapy in a sense for me 🤷♀️
Mel I feel like you a lot of time. Just remember tomorrow is another day to do the things you didn't get done. And they are days I feel you need to take for yourself. And sometimes it will take more than one day. I just need to take my own advice sometimes. I feel you girl. I find myself crying all the time and don't no why. Bless you and we love y'all.
Be good to yourselves Mel and Gary.
Mel, getting overloaded emotionally is part of life, and the boo hooing lets the stress, emotions out. It’s a good thing. Don’t beat yourself up for being normal.
Having said that I noticed something missing from your life. Please take some time every week and get away from the homestead. Get together with women friends and family and do something fun and not homestead related. I remember at one time in my life I met a group of women that were not connected with my job. And, we went to lunch together and those lunches could last two hours. I really miss those as they really helped us cope with life, laugh, and laugh, and recharge. It was the non-organized sharing in a group that recharged our batteries. For the short amount of time, the benefit was priceless.
Have more faith in God, give it to God mel. Pray. God will fight your battles.
Love you. ❤❤❤
Oh my sweet Mel. I know how you feel and felt so much. I was very nervous but once I met you all I was better. I’m always alone except when I’m at work which I kinda don’t like to go home lol.
I love you all and can’t wait to see you again and get more hugs. ❤
I get you Mel being a mom is the best job ever kids make everything ok❤❤❤❤
Hello Gary & Mel 😊 important to take care of yourself first, so can be there for others ❤️ Have a nice Memorial Day 🇺🇲
Mel, I hope that the saying "a trouble shared is a trouble halved" and that you feel better for sharing with us. Please try to remember that you wear so many hats, and your roles are many. It is not surprising that you get tired and overrun at times.
True friends and subscribers will fully understand that you need more down time on occasion.
Look forward to seeing you feeling refreshed, reset and raring to tackle life again head on very soon. Until then be as kind to yourself as you are to others xx
Have a blessed happy day!!!❤😊
I am finding out that there are really so many people that have some form of autism and don't know because it can be very subtle. They have no emotional connection with people and I believe it to be one root of selfishness and to be so demanding. So sad. I too have a mind that won't shut down, no matter how much I manage to get done and have an awful time going to sleep at night. I spend a lot of time with the Lord, reading his promises and clinging to him for peace and relief. It helps me to remember that no matter what your plans are and the list of things you feel you need to do, we will all leave this earth with an unfinished list. Don't put so much pressure on yourself to achieve everything Mel. Prioritize basics like family, health and household and the rest is gravy! If you can't get a video out because you can't it's okay! We love you and have our own problems too. If people don't understand, they just need to move on. You are amazing people and I love you! ❤ Texas Deb
You're a family Channel. May God bless you and your family.