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In this video I address your assumptions about me. You made these assumptions over on my Instagram and they were really interesting to read and address. I think you'll be surprised (but hopefully not disappointed).
If you have more assumptions about me, leave them in the comment section for me to address in a future video :)
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I dont think I even saw this video. I wish I got to put my assumptions too!
I assume you are an awesome person who loves to enjoy your life! Am I close?
Stop gassing me up! 😆😁”Awesome” is subjective but I’m glad that’s the impression you get. I’m adamant that life should be enjoyed. You seem charming, warm and gentle. Am I close?
@@NaturallyHigh If I had to tell you all the wonderful things I think of you, UA-cam would probably say I'm spamming your comment section!😁
You are actually very spot on about me. I love showing love(I dont think its a libra thing tho....its just a supportive person thing.)! Its not easy being here on UA-cam. Content creators deserve lots of encouragement! Plus you are a black woman with 4c hair, AND you have Caribbean roots just like me!!! I simply MUST spread my love! (Not only based on those 3 facts, but because your personality is simply amazing.)
This is the 1st assumptions video where there aren’t any “offensive” assumptions which is quiet wholesome. I’m here for that.
I continue to be impressed by how few people are inappropriate up in here. Thanks for acknowledging that!
Just beyond beautiful 💕 I love u Soo much ❤️❤️
You're the best, Danielle! Thanks for all the love! Let's catch up soon!
"I feel like there are so many things I don’t know anything about and there’s so much that I want to learn as well about the world." > willingness and ability to evolve = definitely an indicator of intelligence in my book.
Thank you Doll! What about knowing all the things though? 🤣 Surely that counts for more.
@@NaturallyHigh Nobody know everything and those who think they do lack wisdom! I don’t comment much, but I’m a long time subscriber and I
Hi hi 😁 I am Jamaican and I am an INFJ. I have started learning languages as well. P.S. When you visited Jamaica last year or earlier this year, I saw that you visited my high school classmate and his gf. That was a nice little full circle moment for me. Love your videos. I believe your inner work is coming on well. You radiate a kind of self acceptance ❤
OMG!!!!! Hi! Firstly, yaaaaaaaaaaaaay, an INFJ :) Welome! That's such an odd coincidence - I had the best time in Jamaica. She and I go way back! She was one of the first friends I made when we moved to Trinidad from the UK. Thank you so much for your support, Jodi-Ann. I hope that you are treating yourself to the utmost kindness.
Also, good luck on the language learning journey! What's your approach been so far?
Your English, Spanish and French accents are all very authentic sounding. You have a natural talent for language.
Your french is actually pretty good!! We're waiting for you if you want to practice...
Aww thank you! Next on the list is Yoruba, then French. I’d love to have a tandem to practise with. 😘
Fellow ENFP here! Totally feel you on the double-edged sword aspect to 2020 in terms of the benefits of introspection but the need for meaningful and genuine connection through socialising
You’re awesome girl- hair goals, very intelligent and well spoken, genuine- so grateful for your channel. I have a 4 year old daughter and I’m following your tips to care for her hair as well as mine. She’s retaining her length very well but she’s very tender headed and hates doing her hair which is always in twists. Any tips to soften her hair? I do feel for her when she cries even when I’m being as gentle as I could possibly be. Ps: I totally thought you were tall- I think people who see you onscreen assume that because of your slim athletic build 😊😊❤️❤️
Try distracting her and also let her participate in the hair care. Let her do a twist or two and apply conditioner. Also try products with a lot slip
I always thought we were kindred spirits!! Fellow enfp here❤
You are my life inspiration and goals not just hair but every thing! You have such a positive outlook on life even when faced with adversities like idiots who can’t keep their ignorance to themselves. You are a true inspiration.
Awww thank you very much for this passionate comment! What prompted you to write it?
I love your channel ❣️
Ur just an interesting person. And humble.
Awww, I love you so much 🤗
I like black & death metal too. Was hoping to go to my 1st concert in the summer of 2020 but y'know 😞. What's your favourite band ATM? Mines Rotting Christ. I like Northern European music like gealdyr and bubblegum/ pop rap like Rico nasty.
Girl I love your videos. I'm Trini too.
Yay! Thank you!
Can’t wait!
Gracias por participar! Te deseo lo mejor para tu aprendizaje del criollo haitiano así como lo demás que seguro vas a aprender. Me pareces súper dedicad@
@@NaturallyHigh Muchas gracias por tu deseos buenos 🤎
INFJ here. 🥰 I'm also from Trinidad so yesssss queen 😂 Totally relate to so so soo much you've spoken about so please know that you're not alone. 💖 I just thought I'd say you're wonderful, stunning and I truly admire your confidence!
Hey Hon! INFJs are my faves. Thanks for your heartfelt comment - I appreciate you VERY much. Identity is something I didn’t really touch on in the video but it’s strange because I feel at home everywhere and nowhere.
Thank you for sharing how relatable this was. It means a lot because this was out of my comfort zone.
and it’s surreal to have someone “admire” my confidence because I feel anxious af virtually all the time, but I’ll take it. Thank you! Is confidence something you’ve struggled with? You’re an INFJ so I’m already pigeonholing you as super introspective, uncomfortably empathetic, and profound.
I'm glad my peeps, made it into your favourites. 🙈 You're very welcome, for all of it. 💕 I know what you mean, feeling like a wandering spirit can be really confusing but certain things can help in finding that inner peace and I'm positive you'll find it. Believe me I know, I used to make youtube videos years ago and every time I posted them, I would delete them SOON after. 😂 I'm glad you're trying and holding on. Good job. 😊
@@SafiMystic INFJs are an ENFP's dream! We're mirrors of each other and there's a really special way we connect - at least in my experience to date.
Woah - are you also a 'wandering spirit'? What helped you find your inner peace?
You did!? That's cool! What were they about? I had an awful phase when I would edit videos but not be able to bring myself to upload them. I'm soooo glad that's over. Thank you for your support! Know that you can come back to making videos any time!
@@NaturallyHigh You're welcome. I definitely struggle with anxiety and self confidence. It's very challenging to even consider public speaking, let alone teaching because of that so for you to excel in that, I'm honestly proud you can. Wow, you read me like an open book, not many people can do that 😅 I'm honored!
You speak beautifully.
Love being around some ppl, definitely need recharge time and enjoy alone time. Listen to every type of music there is! But my roots are Reggae and RnB. I have been told once my hair looked like Sonic the Hedge Hog, or a girl touched it once and said "OH wow its soft" as if she expected steel wool or something. I also really resonated with what you said about when you take on a new interest. I do the same, I just classified it as an addictive personality. LOL, i am SUPER happy i watched this video, we are a lot a like and makes me feel less "different"
How are you coping with quarantine? Those are some solid and chill music genres - are you pretty laid back as a person? I know this is a ridiculous question but humour me. I forgot to mention that I also like reggae and neo soul.
Sonic? That's original! Dude, I always find this particular anecdote funny - the one when people are surprised that it's soft - because my hair isn't soft - it feels like a scouring brush (steel wool). Once, on my CELTA (teacher training) course, one of the instructors said 'I wonder if your hair's cottony or wiry' and then he stuck his hand in it and said 'wiry'. I was flabbergasted but also weirdly impressed at his arguably offensive (yet accurate) descriptors. :/
Yaaaay at there another weirdo who gets totally absorbed by new concepts. You are NOT alone. What's your MBTI type? Addictive personality sounds right!
@@NaturallyHigh Will have to look in to MBTI type as i've not heard of that before. As for being laid back, im totally laid back. Super easy going....but also short tempered hehehe. Which actually ties into why i am so laid back, as id rather just let things slide then get pissed off! Now off to look up MBTI :)
And! What's your type?
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As usual you’re always interesting and quirky - breaking stereo types about black girls - we can be anything we choose and our hair can be just as versatile 🤎🤎
Aww bless you - thank you! Are you American?
Yes! We can all just be!
@@NaturallyHigh No I'm British, born in UK but parents from St Vincent
@@annzo23 Oooooooh! Do you ever go to St Vincent? I have loads of family there!
Where in the UK are you from? Have you often felt pigeonholed as a black girl?
@@NaturallyHigh I’m from Bedfordshire, haven’t visited SV since COVID - don’t feel I have to confirm to any particular stereo type but I know a lot of black girls who do 😊
7:42 same!!! 🍎
Loving you baby girl
It sounded like you said that you get excited by "normal tea"... maybe you said "novelty"? Girl, your enthusiasm towards the end has got me giddy! Loving this insight into your wonderful personality. 💖
Just got to the part about height... NOOOOOOO WAAAAAAAAYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@FromAto4z I’m a bit confused about the ordering of these comments but you’re entitled to view videos backwards or in Okazaki fragments if you wish (apologies for this horrendous molecular biology joke).
Lolllll normal tea’s not bad either 🤣
And thank you for your warmth and sweetness about the way in which I exist. It means a lot. Looking forward to our chat, Janice! 😘
Lol 😂 I’m tiny 🤣 you had NOOOOO idea. I reckon you’d have walked straight past me if you ever saw me in real.
@@NaturallyHigh I made the first comment without watching the whole video. I couldn't walk past you, because we're the same height! You'd be right in my line of sight. 😄
My thoughts tend to be scattered too. Glad I’m not alone on that. Please share the tools you use to help with that
Haha! Great question - so ideally, you'll have a friend you can speak to regularly who will help you understand things better. That's the best-case scenario if talking through things is how you learn. The person should be non-judgemental and friendly.
As an alternative, you can process your thoughts/leanings by talking to yourself or journalling.
As for actually sharing the info with others - as I mentioned, I'm an English teacher - and one of the techniques I was trained to teach students is called framing. It's essentially building structures that you can plop your thoughts into. It's useful for when students have oral exams. So if they're asked 'what do you think about the impact of X on Y?', depending on the length of time to answer, they can build something like: statement/ anecdote/observation related to the question --> opinion --> 'There are two main reasons for this' --> 'firstly: ..." ---> 'secondly...' --> summary.
For example, if you asked me how I feel about identity given that I've lived in lots of different places, I might say (if I can actually pluck out the answer in the time and I'm not dying of crippling anxiety - this response is simplified). 'People tend to associate their sense of self with where they come from. Personally, I do not identify in this way. There are two main reasons for this. Firstly, I left my 'home' country when I was 12 so I had to adjust to an entirely different culture at the start of my adolescence. And secondly, I've always connected with people on the basis of authenticity, kindness and similar interests, as opposed to nationality. Essentially, for me, identity does not need to be tied in to national origin.'
I hope this helps! x
@@NaturallyHigh talking to myself and writing are the only times my thoughts are perfectly articulated. But I think I get anxiety when I speak to others cause 1) I feel like I’m on a race against their eventual boredom of my voice and 2) I’m so focused on saying all the right words to prevent people from wrong assumptions of what I say and really mean. I often feel misunderstood. The struggle!! Thank you so much for detailed response! I’ll definitely use that tip of framing. Now to find someone nonjudgmental to practice with 🥴
@@sweetandsimple. OMG what you describe Is soooooo painfully familiar. What's your MBTI type? Both of the phenomena are my exact experience, especially since I tend to be thinking through speech and I don't want to confuse people or give them the wrong impression by doing that aloud but then in not doing it, it feels as though my thoughts are hindered. As a child, I did it too but I just didn't care what people though. I think now, knowing that other people are perfectly capable of forming fully-fledged thoughts in their heads before saying them, I feel like a pleb VERY OFTEN.
There are all sorts of 'frames' you can use. There's a website called No Freakin' Speaking (google it) that features some more that might be useful but you can also come up with your own when you're calm.
One of my friends thinks I might be autistic... It was so random but when I mentioned this 'framing' thing they said it's probably my way of 'masking'. I disagree because I don't really identify with the other traits of autism.
Is this anxiety a new phenomenon? Can you pinpoint when it started?
Awkward INFJ here 😊. I loved this!
Heya - welcome! Thank you for stopping by. Are you deep, intuitive yet logical, empathetic, creative and philosophical?
OMG the Krusty the clown comment! I thought I was the only one 🙈
Not you too! 🤦🏿♀️
INF here 😊, I too have an eclectic taste in music and can rock out in basically any scene. Regarding intelligence, I truly think you are. Check out Howard Gardner’s multiple intelligence theory and you will see that you are indeed intelligent 😊
Hey! Thank you for being here with your open and versatile self. Are you a P or a J? That's very comforting to read. I will actually check out his theory because that's the exact type of thing I would be curious about. How do you relate to it?
@@NaturallyHigh hello 😊, you’re welcome! I am a P. I learnt about the theory from a book entitled the element by Ken Robinson - also a good read for you, since you love teaching and helping people reach their full potential. Gardener’s theory is eye opening, my top three intelligences are music, linguistics and naturalist ( took a free test online - there are different versions of them). It makes sense, I seem to attract all presenting, writing, and communication assignments in both school and my profession. I have had an endless compassion for animals and love of nature since I was a wee baby, and don’t get me started on my love affair with all things musical. I just wish I had known this earlier, I would have been more persistent in the pursuit of my passions, and not allowed them to be dismissed as hobbies.
But it’s not too late and that’s what matters!
Fabulous video. I can see you living in Paris ♥️
Oh? That’s random! Do you live there? I’m not sure I’m fancy enough 😆
@@NaturallyHigh no UK woman living in New Jersey. But if I could I would love Paris. I am sorry I was random. I listened to the first part of the video where discussed what it was like to be an immigrant living in different countries. I can relate. Been in USA for 20 years this month.
I am a heavy metal fan.
You are so bubbly and sweet!!! Never change! Of course, I will always say try Jesus! Music? I remember you mentioning a System of a Down concert and I was like, 😬. I went from Nine Inch Nails to gospel music in a week.
Thank you for your suggestion, Hon! Spirituality is certainly an effective means of shedding anxiety and self-doubt. I’m really pleased to hear it’s helped you. 😘
That’s so cool. I’m an INFJ
We have some things in common. I am also a teacher, a perfectionist, and awkward. I also want to shave my head but want to see how long I can grow it out first lol.
We're essentially the same person. What do you teach?
@@NaturallyHigh Elementary special education.
THE THUMBNAIL!!!!!
What about it???
@@NaturallyHigh It's like when Mom listens to you concoct a lie to get out of trouble!!!
@@indriadrayton1132 haha!
INFP here! I love ENFP’s!
Hey Hon! Welcome! INFPs are kinfolk. Are ENFPs your favourites?
@@NaturallyHigh now that you mention it, probably yh! My best friend is an ENFP and as much as i love being an INFP, sometimes i wish i was more ENFP-like 😂
@@BeeNaaa5 really? How come? Which INFP characteristics would you like to have more of?
@@NaturallyHigh if you mean ENFP, id say id like the ability to talk to ppl more easily, i feel like they have an easier time sparking up conversation. Also more positive (as i tend to lean quite heavily on pessimism lol) and just generally i feel like ENFP’s are more adventure seeking and naturally energetic. I can be those things too but its something i have to force more as i tend to be more relaxed, even lazy lol
@@BeeNaaa5 I did mean ENFP :)
Those are all valuable traits so I can understand why you'd want to have them. I like the way you highlighted them - it makes me feel like I have superpowers! Thing is, if you're a turbulent ENFP, which I am, you kind of do all the things but feel anxious and regretful often.
Your harmony-seeking nature is also something invaluable!
ENFP 😊😊 I must say I did the 16personalities test 3 times over the course of 2 years and one time I got INFP instead of ENFP.. almost forgot haha
Yaaaaaay! Hey, Campaigner friend! What's your favourite part about being an ENFP?
@@NaturallyHigh I guessss, I really enjoy every single moment in life. I’m a creative, energetic, free spirit who easily connects with people and never gets bored. ☀️ What’s your favorite part?
@@luciaescobarz THISSSS!!!!! So beautifully put! You sound like a delight to exist around. Do you have any INFJ friends?
I love coming up with ideas - I just have millions of them and for me it's so easy and no big deal. Brainstorming is my favourite activity. Meeting new people and connecting with them beyond just small talk also brings me immense joy. I don't really care about labels or status but I do want to know the 'essence' of others, if that makes sense.
I'm INFJ !
Thanks for tuning in, you sweet empathetic introspective profound soul.
Haven't been on here in ages.. Hope you are doing well. Will look for you on instagram and message.
@@Misana Lovely to hear from you - let's catch up!!!
Your hair is beautiful. How do you keep it moisturized?
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@@NaturallyHigh I sure will. Thank you. 😀
Can you just talk me to sleep I love ur voice😌
Aww bless you, Danielle! Absolutely!
You’re an Ambivert.
An Ambivert is in between Extraversion and Introversion.
I would assume that you can easily be annoyed by people that operate differently than you expect or come to different conclusions given the same information. I'm assuming the "why" question pops into your head a lot when people do things different from you expectation. Very enjoyable video
Interesting assumption... I wouldn't say so - I tend to be accepting of other ways of doing things and other viewpoint - my concern comes in when things start to verge on inflicting suffering. I definitely do ask 'why' a lot! Do you? I'm glad you enjoyed it! Share it - it seems as though fewer people have seen it than usually would by now.
@@NaturallyHigh I will share the video. You are a most animated introvert. As I have gotten older, "why" has become less important because the answer is often elusive or unattainable
@@darinjones4303 yay! Thanks! I'm definitely not an introvert. I hear you about 'why' - whether there's a solid answer depends on whether the decision was made analytically or intuitively; in either case there's so much room for confabulation.
I'm an infj
Hey! Welcome! What do you think about ENFPs?
INFJ here! Lol
Hey! Long time, no see old friend ✨ That's wonderful, you deep introspective soul.
@@NaturallyHigh It has been a long time indeed! I had no ideas they were lots of affinities between INFJs and ENFPs as you pointed in other comments. Have you ever gotten another type before? I took the test 3 times. I got INFJ the 1st and 3rd and INFP the 2nd.
Do you think learning a language is easier living amongst the natives
Yes but you can recreate an immersive experience through frequent interaction with speakers of and material (films/podcasts/books/magazines) in the language.
do you like biology a lot
quite a bit. Do you?
I'm an INFJ. The wink...are you looking for an INFJ guy? :-)
🤣 it doesn’t matter - wonderful INFJs come in many forms.
I feel like you're an Air sign.
Hey! Thanks for your guess - I'm Aquarius - isn't that a water sign?
@@NaturallyHigh no its an air sign but we're the water bearers
@@shainababe321 I see. So you were right! What made you think that?
INFJ here?
Heeey! You are sooooo welcome here, you deep, empathetic, introspective, sweet soul! 😘
Please don’t shave your hair!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽