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A man is not insecure when he prefers his woman not to perform sexual gratification to other men. To men in society an exotic dancer is immoral. Men in the community will be motivated to visualize your woman as a sex object and not as a respectable woman. Men in the community will not look at him as a respectable man having a woman as a exotic dancer. Ultimately men will be disrespecting that man in the community including his household and his woman which can now lead to someone getting hurt or killed.
A secure man is not worried about the judgement of others. Especially not the judgement other's have for his woman. Regardless, people are allowed to have their preferences.
I agree with your comment. However, I would suggest that men stop spending money to sponsor such women. We don't want a woman who is an exotic dancer, but we then go and spend money on them as a hobby!
He knows what he wants. He is well grounded.he seems to be the type of person that don't Judge ppl he give ppl chances to, so when they slipped he seems to try to work things out. If it doesn't, then he goes.that how some ppl are
This guy has no standards, he eliminated and picked for no reason at all. He has kids but no real family orientation or goals. He sounds more like a high-school boy who just want to hangout and let accidents happen.
The black community fell for the colorism scam. Colorism only applies to dark skin women. When it comes to light skin men. Suddenly skin tone is paramount.
It’s not colorism, the same way someone can not like the shape of your nose, is the same way someone can not like the color of your skin. Skin color is exactly the same as Any other physical feature.
@@RodneyDevoss That's how I look at it, at least in this case. Yes some people are ignorant with their skin tone bias but most of the time, it's just a physical preference like big breast, big butt, wide hips, etc
@@thosekickswerefastaslightn7593 yea like I’m not attracted to people too light or too dark And white people typically aren’t my type. Nothing to do with colorism just aren’t interested romanticly
I’d be concerned about having her around my kids and her influence upon them. I’d like to think as a dancer, men are not only looking but touching, feeling and grabbing her. Was he really willing to settle for someone like her?
Is is just me or does it seem like the more well rounded a guy is, the worst he appears on shows like this? Maybe it's the quality of women on the show but the really decent guys seem to get the short end of the stick.
Women gravitate more towards men with rebellious/dark/narcissistic energy.It's the forbidden fruit/story of Eve.That spirit still possesses a lot of them.
I would love to see the dark-skin woman's reaction(in the green dress) when she finally meets her dark-skin dream guy and he says, " I'm sorry, I only date light-skin women ". Her reaction should go viral.
in my youth I dated a few dancers and it never worked out. Relationships can already be challenging but throw in all the various nuances that happens due to that dancer life and it's even more challenging and often times impossible to end up with a good result. So I wouldn't go there myself....has nothing to do with insecurity whatsoever.
@@ZeroOmega-vg8nq it's way more than being worried about that.... Those women can be extremely cutthroat and literally fight and possibly kill over money. Example: one girl danced for another girls regular while he was in the club or someone stole money. Just stuff you normally wouldn't have to worry about in a more typical relationship and it happens a lot.... It's just not worth all the headaches.
I think people, especially women like this dancer mix up the meaning of SECURE and DISINTEREST. A secure man will have standards and morals but a man who's simply disinterested as in, he's just with you for a good time or a short ride has not concern about what you're doing in these streets! Plenty of secure men still have an issue with dating a stripper and it's not because they "can't" handle it, they're choosing for good reasons to simply avoid it!
And they should! I damn sure wouldn’t want my sons to bring a stripper home as a potential wife or girlfriend. I would be wondering what my husband taught them about their manhood!!!!😮
He had to cut the exotic dancer. He's a clean 🫧🪥 cut guy. Explaining what your girl does for a living to your family comes with the territory. I would never be able to explain that one 😂😮
Colorism is just like Racism, there has to be more than just a preference attached to it. For example, saying you only date dark skinned black women is not racist, that is your preference but saying you're only dating Black women because you think every other woman is out to get you is racist. She didn't elude to him being weak, a square, or lame simply because of his skin tone so I'm not mad at her since we all have our personal preferences that are sometimes based on nothing more than our own superficial taste 💯
Girl in the green dress is a baddie! She is MY type. lol But dismissing someone just because of their skin tone and a tattoo you can cover up, is pretty shallow. Now I will say, he seemed to lack direction. Someone that doesn’t have any deal breakers typically does not have healthy boundaries either. They go with the flow and see where they land. That’s a recipe for a lotta time wasting. You must have determined for yourself what type of lifestyle you wish to have and what qualities in a woman won’t align with that. Pleasant personality but he‘s a floater.
I agree, even if there is a wide range. When he could think of neither, I was like, I would have popped my balloon there. He wants to have fun, but it sounds like any ole body that he thinks is pretty and available will do.
That was a honest yet respectful assessment, everyone is quick to judge the ladies but sometimes the fellas are just lacking something that doesn't turn them on
He did not choose her because she was an exotic dancer. He did not want to hurt her feelings. Everyone has a choice. She was out of place to call him insecure .
Grow up, it’s a physical feature like anything else. Same way you can find someone unattractive because their eyes are too far apart or their nose is shaped weird. Stop being so sensitive.
At the end, stripper thought she had it in the bag. She did- for a minute. Bruh lied through his teeth when he said he didn't have a problem with it. You could tell by his little geeky response "Gotta feed your child." So, when the female commentator said "I mean...he's open to it" I shook my head and said no he's not...pop.
Ok, I must be very honest. Took me a while to learn this but as well-groomed and well-rounded as this guy was, his only area of weakness was his not having the masculine presence and energy that commands the feminine response from women. The girl he linked up with winded up back on the show and if I had to guess, she probably lost attraction quickly because of this issue
Pretty nice guy, seems humble. He showed lot respect for all women, gave compliments. Looks a winner but downside he got a 5 year old and 2 year old kid, what happen to the kids mom.
Up to the first question, he acts like he has never seen this show before. How he not have an answer to “ what is your type/ what are you looking for, what are your dislikes”. This is painful. And the show should make sure there’s not that big of an age difference.
A man that doesn’t want a stripper as a girl is label as insecure wow.. I don’t understand why men are still dating at this point it’s not worth the stress let these women be single
That light skinned brother on that dating show app that's looking for love I don't know why that girl pop her balloon because he is a good looking fine looking man and he is light skin that is my type I don't know what's her type is but he ain't ugly though he's a good-looking man and he's a fine-looking light skinned brother I like that
Stripping isn't the worst thing! Standards or not, she has to feed her child! Ladies, do you, regardless what any dude may think! Never revolve your world around someone else's expectations for you! Live free,be free!
Men having standards is insecure, women having standards is knowing their value. Also, why would you want attention from other men when you're committed?
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She's already back looking for love again
I agree with y'all
Nope! She probably tired of standing in the line
She’s been on the show a few times and will probably be back again
She's been around the block too many times, even on the show
Revealing you have kids should be one of the first things anyone looking for love should do. 💯
And their ages, fo sho!
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@@anopeninvitationwithsheila4348right
@@anopeninvitationwithsheila4348they be holding onto that info like a secret weapon 😂
Yup the age says how selfish you really are .. (under 5 , you just wanna have em and not settle!) 🚩
He was too clean cut and well spoken for these women
Glazing
He messed up by being vague on what he wants and deal breakers tho.
How?? @@RodneyDevoss
@@RodneyDevosswhy
@@djsalteenutswhy
my first impression is that he is a respectful and sunny personality type of man.
"sunny personality" haha, I like that statement!
@@etmreactsI haven’t heard that in a while 😅
And women today don’t appreciate men with sunny personalities.
Would pop the long nails .. just me
A man is not insecure when he prefers his woman not to perform sexual gratification to other men. To men in society an exotic dancer is immoral. Men in the community will be motivated to visualize your woman as a sex object and not as a respectable woman. Men in the community will not look at him as a respectable man having a woman as a exotic dancer. Ultimately men will be disrespecting that man in the community including his household and his woman which can now lead to someone getting hurt or killed.
Extremely secure men actually reject things like that so never let a woman try to trick you into accepting anything less than what you want!
@@topfiveclips4997 we can't stop simping bro. There's generally a chain to it as well.
Simp > Single Mother > Absent Father
A secure man is not worried about the judgement of others. Especially not the judgement other's have for his woman. Regardless, people are allowed to have their preferences.
I agree with your comment. However, I would suggest that men stop spending money to sponsor such women. We don't want a woman who is an exotic dancer, but we then go and spend money on them as a hobby!
Most definitely right
He does not know what he wants and he does not have a deal breaker. We must know who we are to know what we want.
At 28 he should have this figured out, unless he's lived a very sheltered life.
Right, everybody has a deal breaker
He knows what he wants. He is well grounded.he seems to be the type of person that don't Judge ppl he give ppl chances to, so when they slipped he seems to try to work things out. If it doesn't, then he goes.that how some ppl are
Facts!
The lady in the green dress is stunning
She looks exotic AF to me, love it
And she knows it too
stunningly big
Really? I think the other women looking way better than her
@@JuJu1546-s8nNaa she's the best
For all the people who complain about finding matches in person on shows like this, if you think this is wild, stay away from all dating apps 😆
They both a waste of time and these broads look like something you find at the bunny ranch.
Thought you was in jail Pdiddy
@@caseypierre-louis6725 He probably slid through cells after lubing up with all the oil
😂😂😂😂😂😅
@@caseypierre-louis6725wow😅😅😅😅😅😅
Don't Try To GUILT Someone, because they have STANDARDS 😇... Congratulations to the Lovely Couple ❣️👍🏾
The little Shorty was the prettiest one, but the other one he didn’t want because she was an exotic dancer. He just didn’t want to say so.
You got that right
This guy has no standards, he eliminated and picked for no reason at all. He has kids but no real family orientation or goals. He sounds more like a high-school boy who just want to hangout and let accidents happen.
The fact that it’s a2 yr old😂
Your last sentence was gold.
haters
@@NeamenYemane you are hating on the haters
They co parent can work,they can work
I really don’t understand how people can say someone is too light skin when dark skin people experience colorism consistently
Nah, it’s just a preference for dating and she’s very direct.
The black community fell for the colorism scam. Colorism only applies to dark skin women. When it comes to light skin men. Suddenly skin tone is paramount.
It’s not colorism, the same way someone can not like the shape of your nose, is the same way someone can not like the color of your skin.
Skin color is exactly the same as Any other physical feature.
@@RodneyDevoss That's how I look at it, at least in this case. Yes some people are ignorant with their skin tone bias but most of the time, it's just a physical preference like big breast, big butt, wide hips, etc
@@thosekickswerefastaslightn7593 yea like I’m not attracted to people too light or too dark And white people typically aren’t my type. Nothing to do with colorism just aren’t interested romanticly
This brother had no real choices and the women who probably had some potential with him weren't really feeling him. Love is definitely a battlefield!
They were too old. They need to divide these couples by age. No woman nearing 40 wants a man 10-15 years younger!!!!
@@Mimi-ht6xrSome of them do or, won’t mind.
He will find someone worth his time and energy
Ole girl was like, "Damn this my 2oth nicca from Ft WhyChukka Army Base." LOL🤣🤣
The girl he marched up with got a season pass to pop the balloon or find love 😂
😅😅😅😅😅😅
12:29 "she said yes as if her heels were killing her." 🤣😂😊
So, a man who doesn't want to be in a relationship with an exotic dancer is insecure? Unbelievable.
I'm telling you, bruh. Talk about delusional. 😂😂😂
It's called having standards.
I’d be concerned about having her around my kids and her influence upon them. I’d like to think as a dancer, men are not only looking but touching, feeling and grabbing her. Was he really willing to settle for someone like her?
@@TM-ys8dyall "dancers" have a price to break the rule of the champaigne room
Exotic dancer??? Isn’t that like a fake professional way of saying stripper?
Delusional is her name😂😂😂😂
Is is just me or does it seem like the more well rounded a guy is, the worst he appears on shows like this? Maybe it's the quality of women on the show but the really decent guys seem to get the short end of the stick.
Standard don't make good tv
Women gravitate more towards men with rebellious/dark/narcissistic energy.It's the forbidden fruit/story of Eve.That spirit still possesses a lot of them.
He didn't want to admit it was the exotic dancer.
I would love to see the dark-skin woman's reaction(in the green dress) when she finally meets her dark-skin dream guy and he says, " I'm sorry, I only date light-skin women ". Her reaction should go viral.
She said this because she doesn't want to be the darkest among the couple 😂😂😂😂
@@rhamondsantos1858 😃😃😃
These women have no clue why they're single and most likely will remain single. Wow!
Kevin Samuel's tried to tell us....
Having Standards in 2024 = Insecure 🤷🏼♂
Word! The word " insecure" has been a detriment in women's psyche!
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@@jayp3687right
The word INSECURE has been misused and abused. 😂😂😂😂😂
Nah, men having standards is insecure, women having standards is knowing their value.
in my youth I dated a few dancers and it never worked out. Relationships can already be challenging but throw in all the various nuances that happens due to that dancer life and it's even more challenging and often times impossible to end up with a good result. So I wouldn't go there myself....has nothing to do with insecurity whatsoever.
aka you always had nightmares of them doing things with johns and they most likely did
@@ZeroOmega-vg8nq it's way more than being worried about that.... Those women can be extremely cutthroat and literally fight and possibly kill over money. Example: one girl danced for another girls regular while he was in the club or someone stole money. Just stuff you normally wouldn't have to worry about in a more typical relationship and it happens a lot.... It's just not worth all the headaches.
If you have kids, that should be shared IMMEDIATELY!
That robbery 😂
I think people, especially women like this dancer mix up the meaning of SECURE and DISINTEREST. A secure man will have standards and morals but a man who's simply disinterested as in, he's just with you for a good time or a short ride has not concern about what you're doing in these streets! Plenty of secure men still have an issue with dating a stripper and it's not because they "can't" handle it, they're choosing for good reasons to simply avoid it!
DING DING DING! 👍🏽👍🏾
And they should! I damn sure wouldn’t want my sons to bring a stripper home as a potential wife or girlfriend. I would be wondering what my husband taught them about their manhood!!!!😮
This brother was raised right, impressed with his manners and respect he gives to all the women over 28 and the host by answering ' YES Mam "😊
That Girl in green is beautiful
yes, she is!!
I think he did pop her balloon because of the exotic dancing but didn't want to "look" insecure
Hes too soft.
@@thadevilzadvocate Hes soft for not wanting an exotic dancer
You’re right
I LOVE THAT YOU GUYS ARE IN LOVE , MATURE & LOGICAL!🔥🥰👏
There's someone for everyone.
I’m going into the weave business. Apparently it’s just as good as the funeral business.
Lol! Yes, or running close to it. Weave is big business. 😊
He had to cut the exotic dancer. He's a clean 🫧🪥 cut guy. Explaining what your girl does for a living to your family comes with the territory. I would never be able to explain that one 😂😮
The lady in green short dress is stunning
😂😂😂😂 the look back shorty that won gave to the exotic dancer was diabolical 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Colorism is just like Racism, there has to be more than just a preference attached to it. For example, saying you only date dark skinned black women is not racist, that is your preference but saying you're only dating Black women because you think every other woman is out to get you is racist. She didn't elude to him being weak, a square, or lame simply because of his skin tone so I'm not mad at her since we all have our personal preferences that are sometimes based on nothing more than our own superficial taste 💯
but if he had sad the thr girl in the green was too dark for him, he would be instantly vilified and, colorist/racist are always hypocrites
Girl in the green dress is a baddie! She is MY type. lol But dismissing someone just because of their skin tone and a tattoo you can cover up, is pretty shallow. Now I will say, he seemed to lack direction. Someone that doesn’t have any deal breakers typically does not have healthy boundaries either. They go with the flow and see where they land. That’s a recipe for a lotta time wasting. You must have determined for yourself what type of lifestyle you wish to have and what qualities in a woman won’t align with that. Pleasant personality but he‘s a floater.
its not even about insecurity... i dont want my woman getting naked for other men =/
A man or woman MUST know what his or her likes and dislikes are when looking for a mate.
I agree, even if there is a wide range. When he could think of neither, I was like, I would have popped my balloon there. He wants to have fun, but it sounds like any ole body that he thinks is pretty and available will do.
Too Complicated Now! in 1970! people would get together in 2 Seconds! and be together for 45 Years!.
That’s my boy. He got my pick from the beginning at the line up. JMO
He is cute, well spoken, nice build, near and groomed. ❤
Thank u for timing ur first impressions
He looks like my grandson …Handsome-Clean cut
This guy's definitely MTR's twin 😂
Lol definitely
Who is MTR?
I want to know what they mean by having fun with somebody, because usually having fun with somebody means them spending their money on them.
I wish y’all would do one episode where you do the follow up right after make it like a 30, 45 min show
She’s back
That’s was good one🎉
We need update of how this match ended please, that we would figure out much about the channel and this people seriousness
Why is Danielle mad? According to her, this guy is a super lame!!!
Danielle was the most oldest and still the most attractive
@@v-campsportsleague6263no she isn’t Alexis and the others were Great looking as well
😂😂😂😂😂
Look good together. 🥰
I like it when they have a match
first impression: He got his stuff together but he lacks command presence.
That was a honest yet respectful assessment, everyone is quick to judge the ladies but sometimes the fellas are just lacking something that doesn't turn them on
Hmm
It’s weird he didn’t choose red , she clearly was ready to go! After that fist pump ohh I’m taking you home.. be like R’Kelly seems like ya ready 😂
It's about respect not insecurity.
Yep now if he played in the NBA or the NFL this guy would have no problems
I think you have now earned my subscription
he's a nice guy, women are not the prize, the one in green can go
He’s chillin 😎
No man is insecure in a relationship, a man protects what he loves
Outstanding choice boy
He did not choose her because she was an exotic dancer. He did not want to hurt her feelings. Everyone has a choice. She was out of place to call him insecure .
Perfect match!!! good luck to them.
Within a 1 min of this video I knew he didn’t know what he wanted lol 🤣😂 she just needs to be able to do her own thang lol what dude lmao 🤣🤣😂
He pick the write one. GOD Bless🎉🎉🎉
My first impression was very clean cut, nothing wrong with him but he was not giving enough masculine energy.
Wahala
Now that’s an adorable couple❤❤🎉🎉
He found his fun.
Wooow didn't expect this match
He made a great choice.
Guy tried his best and still had to settle for less
She was on the recent episode, so was Tiffany. They ain't looking for love at all lol.
That’s true. I knew I seen her somewhere before
Wonder how far this couple went
He’s handsome
As a blackman23 the woman in the green just is just beautiful 💎💎💎💎
Only true love is from the one and only Jesus Christ. His love is unconditional and everlasting. "Love" on earth is temporary.
Dating men with younger kids is always a red flag.
Light skin brothers were killing shxt throughout the 80s and early 90s now women want Idris Alba and Djimon Hounsou on steroids 😂
Lightskin men and women are still the shxt. The African brothers are for the African sisters but many of them prefer white women 🤷🏻♀️
hence why their single moms😂
Lmao
Fa sho I experience that in the early 80's. I, too, am a drk skin brotha brwm skinned. Those one's that were not interested are now interested not.
I'll take him. These ladies are tripping!!!
Same line of time wasters 😂
fine group of looking ladies !!!
Light /Dark comment it's so superficial i wish people left it in their head when they are over 18 y. o
Grow up, it’s a physical feature like anything else. Same way you can find someone unattractive because their eyes are too far apart or their nose is shaped weird. Stop being so sensitive.
At the end, stripper thought she had it in the bag. She did- for a minute. Bruh lied through his teeth when he said he didn't have a problem with it. You could tell by his little geeky response "Gotta feed your child." So, when the female commentator said "I mean...he's open to it" I shook my head and said no he's not...pop.
I swear kids should always be mentioned out the gate. That’s not a light factor or something that could be left on the back burner 😮
Well at least he admitted he has a child as well
Ok, I must be very honest. Took me a while to learn this but as well-groomed and well-rounded as this guy was, his only area of weakness was his not having the masculine presence and energy that commands the feminine response from women. The girl he linked up with winded up back on the show and if I had to guess, she probably lost attraction quickly because of this issue
Hey you two, I've been following you
Hey there! Thanks for the support! 🙏🏼🙏🏽
Pretty nice guy, seems humble. He showed lot respect for all women, gave compliments. Looks a winner but downside he got a 5 year old and 2 year old kid, what happen to the kids mom.
Solid dude
He lied. The exotic dancing was the reason.
Up to the first question, he acts like he has never seen this show before. How he not have an answer to “ what is your type/ what are you looking for, what are your dislikes”. This is painful. And the show should make sure there’s not that big of an age difference.
A man that doesn’t want a stripper as a girl is label as insecure wow.. I don’t understand why men are still dating at this point it’s not worth the stress let these women be single
That light skinned brother on that dating show app that's looking for love I don't know why that girl pop her balloon because he is a good looking fine looking man and he is light skin that is my type I don't know what's her type is but he ain't ugly though he's a good-looking man and he's a fine-looking light skinned brother I like that
Stripping isn't the worst thing! Standards or not, she has to feed her child! Ladies, do you, regardless what any dude may think! Never revolve your world around someone else's expectations for you! Live free,be free!
I have a question. What really happens with someone having children or a child with someone and is going around looking for a wife or a husband?
Men having standards is insecure, women having standards is knowing their value. Also, why would you want attention from other men when you're committed?
Tiffany the one!
Oh nvm
I think dude's don't want to be embarrassed, they aren't insecure if they don't want to date a stripper.
Decent guy 😊
She'll be back on the next show