1. They Change Their Mind. 2. Continuously Reach Out (in indirect ways) 3. Break Up In the heat Of The Moment. 4. Bringing Up The Past Often (Reminiscing/Nostalgic). 5. Fantasizing about The Future.
In my experience, we can say that there is never a complete breakup after a human relationship, even after decades. There is always a reminiscence of the good moments and the painful experiences and the renewal of a close relationship becomes impossible as long as the material and emotional odds are unfavourable for a renewal of a relationship. Once the bereavement has been negotiated we can sometimes see reappearing mutual respect, solidarity and a even a deep affection.
Hey everyone x i have been through a break-up recently in the past 4 months and I am looking at everyone's comments. A lot of us are wondering if they will come back. If they come back now, can you truely look in the mirror and say have you done for yourself to truely love and support your esteem? Have you reached out for friend and family support/ to get out of the house? Have you allowed to grieve for the relationship and reflect while also not letting it your day/ every second? Do you still feel strong emotions of anger or saddness? I realised that i allowed myself to solely focus on my partner, that i forgot to look after myself and keep up with hobbies, life and keeping well. Please look after yourself first, take as much time to heal and give some space from your ex if you can for at least three months of no contact to truely discern what you need to do for yourself x ❤ much love and it is a hard time for all of us x
My DA ex broke up with me with no warning and insisted she had thought about it for a long time.. I was devastated (and still am). I never initiate contact, but she continues to text me several times a week to “check on me” and to share things she’s been up to. Last week she cooked me food and invited me over, where we had a long conversation in her house. She reminisced about the past and things she missed about our relationship, and then just today sent me a song she thought I’d like about not giving up. But every time I bring up a possible future she shuts down and won’t explore it with me. Or she’ll say things like “I can’t predict the future!” Very confusing, and frankly an emotional roller coaster. Some days I think we definitely have a chance and others I just have to remind myself she needs space. She knows I don’t want to “just be friends”, yet she continues to engage with me as if I’m a close friend(?)
My DA gf broke with me, months ago. No signs at all. In your case it is kind of positive. But beware of being put in friend-zone and be there as her back up plan. Focus on positive things but a good talk is unavoidable at some stage… Good luck and stay strong! Being with a DA is like going through the hell…
@@dmitryisaev5955 Three weeks later, and believe it or not she invited me over a few nights ago for “a warm fire in the back yard and a bottle of wine”. I admit I was thrilled… everyone I asked said she wanted a romantic evening. I got there, and “romance” hadn’t even occurred to her lol. She just enjoyed our earlier talk because “she learned a lot”, and wanted another. In fact she made it clear she was enjoying being single and when she envisioned her life 5 or 10 years from now, it was as a single person. Three weeks ago I would have been devastated to hear that, but today I’m thinking she’s an idiot. I would have done ANYTHING for her, and now she’s choosing to take on the world by herself. Why? Because I guess seeing me one night a week was too much pressure. Of course I’m not ruling out possibilities, but I’m rapidly approaching the point where I’m just going to give up trying, focus on myself, and start being open to a new relationship. So yes, you’re spot on… she wants the parts of our relationship that benefit her only (I fix her car, fix things in her house, have interesting conversation, etc), but no physical intimacy and no commitment to spending time together.
My boyfriend told me we better be friends cos he dont have feelings anymore. We dated 7 month. It happen 2 month ago. He calls me 90% of times. Like 2 to 4 times a day. We meet mostly on weekends. We still have sex . When we where together he told me that I need to share him with friends,but now when I told him why he dont meet his friends he told me that he prefers to be together with his girlfriend -me.He told that im far the best relationship he ever had. We text to on messenger he send my hearts is still flirtatious and really cuddly when we are together. We walk on streets holding hands. Im not sure if he is really avoidant type.I know he is avoiding conflict. Past relations he broke up and never contacted them again. He broke up with them after moving in with them like after a month cos he need space. He is ISFP and I know they need to be alone a lot to charge.
Dude you need to set hard boundaries otherwise you are enabeling her to seek validatian from you whenever she wants. She doesn't want you, she is out and you need to set a boundary. You say I appreciate you reaching out to me but i feel like this is going nowhere and I don't wanna be stuck in friendzone. I need distance from you to heal. You wanted the breakup and I respect that, but that means I am out of your life and moving forward so you reaching out to me is inapropriate. Please do not contact me anymore unless something in your decision hasn't change. Take care. And then you go and work on yourself and better yourself so maybe down the road you find someone secure.
She and I left after an argument with a super affectionate day together, a kiss, and a really sweet text . Two days later after and emergency session with her therapist she sat me down and told me she wasn’t good enough for me. Two days to dump me after almost two years of time together
I needed this right now. we are both FA and the last few weeks we have been long distance while trying to reconcile. I have no idea what he wants because he isn't quite the same, but we haven't spent much time online together and that might be my fault. I didn't know anything about attachment styles before but at least now I know to stop making decisions in a panic.
My ex is rebounding. This was her reply to a clean slate a few weeks ago. Mind you I never set clear boundaries with my son's mother who wanted emotional support. My ex felt as though my sons mom meant more than she did. I feel like the rebound is breaking down. Her Reply "I wish you well my friend I do care about you deeply you're my best friend. But I'm ready to enjoy life and not constantly worry about whether I'm not I'm being treated right, whether or not I have to worry about another factor in a relationship I think honestly for me the best way for me to be happy is to be alone I've been in too many relationships where I've just been screwed over for no reason other than selfishness."
My Ex has met 4 of 5 of those signs already. She recently told me that I need to find her when my son is 18 and his mother isn't an issue or factor contributing to our relationship.
My ex (6 year relationship) told me last week that she wanted to move on romatically but still stay in eachothers lives as friends. After one conversation shes now willing to reconsider. She says she's still siding with moving on but is "looking at things from all angles" and needs "time to figure things out". Im hoping she does reconsider.
Hi, Thais. :-) Really helpful video, thank you for covering it. On a related note, I am wondering if you would consider making a video about how to communicate to someone who is breaking up with you that you don't actually want to end the relationship and would be willing to do what it takes on your end to repair the relationship and stay together if possible. I feel like some of us, especially those who have trouble asking for things we want or expressing our needs in general, assume that if someone is initiating a break up conversation with us then we have no say in the matter, we can't even let the other person know it's not what we would want if we could prevent that. Instead we just assume that the power is ENTIRELY in the other person's hands, and so we just act like the break up is fine with us and then hope the other person will be able to mind read well enough to know that it's not really what we want. There seems to be an assumption that if someone is being broken up with they will question that or exhibit clear signs of upset or indicate in some other way that they object to the decision, but for some of us who really suppress our emotions that's not actually the case. It would be greatly helpful if you could address the topic of how to communicate this during the actual break up conversation so that the other person leaves knowing you would want to work things out if that was possible, and thus can reach out to you afterwards if they decide they also want to try again. Thank you for all that you do!! ❤
I’ve never had a guy try to get me back. I think it’s because I say things that are mean and I do apologize but the damage is done. I also don’t allow any game playing or low effort behavior and men love low effort behavior and playing games so they don’t like me.
Yeah well this was long-distance and after not talking for 8 weeks after a fight, I found out I'd been replaced. And blocked on (some) social media. So I don't really see ANY of that happening. When I reached out w/ a belated Christmas gift (arrived after the holidays) I was told I had traits he "couldn't fall in love w/ or conciliate w/ the rest", and threfore wasn't interested in trying again. All the while knowing there already was somebody else. NEVER were any qualms ever put forward. I feel the verdict was given w/o my even being informed there was a trial. Nightmare material.
My ex split off with me 7 weeks ago. The first year of our relationship was perfect, but she had a traumatic event happen to her a few months back that triggered some of her childhood trauma, and then after 3 months of struggling, and a conflict of attachment styles (she is FA and started to pull away, which triggered my AA style) she called things off; Things appeared to be very positive generally even upto a week before, other than a few issues where we struggled to communicate how we felt. She wants to stay friends and reached out quickly after I said I needed no contact to heal, but when i ask about a future reconciliation, she says she needs to feel better in herself for now, and wont know how she will feel in the future, but she still cares about me. How can I tell if this is a temporary break whilst she overcomes the trauma, or if this is really the end? I have used a lot of your videos to learn about attachment theory and am actively trying to become more secure in myself so that I can be there for her.
I think that given what you said about needing no-contact, you should move on, maybe archive or mute her chat so you don't hear from her for a while, and then you can reach out when you feel like getting back together. And if she isn't available or doesn't want to then move on. But you will see it with fresh eyes once you get some distance, and you will be able to approach more securely, more 'soberly' is one way to think about it. Might take at least a couple months to detach yourself, then you can start afresh. If you are waiting for her to reestablish contact then you are giving her control and that's not what you want. She broke it off - you tell her that you will get back in touch with her when you want to. Those are my thoughts anyway Edit: also, you should think through the relationship experience a bit and ask what you really want and need. If there is something you don't feel comfortable about, you should figure out what that is and what you need from her to feel comfortable/secure again. This is what you'll be looking for when getting back together - of that thing that caused the issues isn't going to change then you need to move on and forget about that relationship. But explain yourself clearly and give her a chance to put things right first, don't just lay the law down and tell her you're done if she doesn't change immediately 😅
What’s crazy my FA male friend does all this we never broke up because we were just friends but we did have a disagreement when I criticized him as I felt the closer we got he’d get hold and cold. Me and him haven’t spoke in 2 weeks I told him I can’t read his mind and didn’t deserve him purposely ignoring me when he felt like it when I’m a present friend. After our disagreement I noticed him checking my stories a week ago but I deleted him from my social media since can’t have a friend I feel I can’t trust and be vulnerable with I care for him but he’s got to go through his process without me it was getting mentally exhausting.
FA boyfriend (ex? Who knows right now😅😅), broke up after his fears went to the roof, said he couldn't handle seeing me 'cos even if he tried, he got anxious. 3-4 weeks later he popped up again, using again the same streets I use daily, then it was too much and he avoided those streets again, a week later here he was again (he works shifts and he uses the morning shift to find me 'cos he is sure of when he can find me there); he also re-opened up to me a bit but I see every time that he is on the verge of his limits. Trying to take it lightly until he has done enough work on himself 😅 FA+FA
What if they push me away, said when they where angry and hurt to find another person if I was not happy with them ( they are fearful avoidant and where really really hurt and angry towards me) but still following me on social media?
This is an interesting turn for you Thais. We rarely talk about this topic in all of PDS that I’ve been apart of. My question is- at what point is this person stringing you along? My anxious ex jumped into a rebound relationship 3 months after our breakup. We were together 2 years. He’s maintained contact and has done everything you’ve mentioned here: reminiscing, indirect and direct reaching out, thinking about our future etc. But he is still with his current partner and have been together for almost 2 years. Am I being strung along? I am a recovering avoidant and we had the typical DA/AP connection.
@@anniiKn it’s a sad truth that I’m starting to believe. What a painful and harsh reality as I still hold a place in my heart for him hoping to somehow resolve this. But that’s a fantasy and I’ve begun the process. Ugh 💔
What if they called you and gaslighting and ask for money because door 🚪 is broken and blame you. suggestions that you where there but you where not. I got chocked and angry that she would think would do something bad was her friend that probably fucked up there door if it was true
Thais I have a question. My ex and I broke up in the heat of a 1 sided argument ( his side) He's reached out indirectly and directly. He's also reminisced about the past only regarding our sex life!! So in this situation is that the same? He stalks me on a dating app and texts every 3 months wanting a physical relationship with me. The answer is and always will be NO! So I'm not sure if this is temporary or permanent since this is the 2nd break up. We've been broken up 1 yr. Thoughts????😏
1. They Change Their Mind.
2. Continuously Reach Out (in indirect ways)
3. Break Up In the heat Of The Moment.
4. Bringing Up The Past Often (Reminiscing/Nostalgic).
5. Fantasizing about The Future.
Thank you.🩵🫶
In my experience, we can say that there is never a complete breakup after a human relationship, even after decades. There is always a reminiscence of the good moments and the painful experiences and the renewal of a close relationship becomes impossible as long as the material and emotional odds are unfavourable for a renewal of a relationship. Once the bereavement has been negotiated we can sometimes see reappearing mutual respect, solidarity and a even a deep affection.
So true. My abusive ex-husband called me after, no contact, after 17 years. I dropped my phone, then blocked him.
Hey everyone x i have been through a break-up recently in the past 4 months and I am looking at everyone's comments. A lot of us are wondering if they will come back. If they come back now, can you truely look in the mirror and say have you done for yourself to truely love and support your esteem? Have you reached out for friend and family support/ to get out of the house? Have you allowed to grieve for the relationship and reflect while also not letting it your day/ every second? Do you still feel strong emotions of anger or saddness? I realised that i allowed myself to solely focus on my partner, that i forgot to look after myself and keep up with hobbies, life and keeping well. Please look after yourself first, take as much time to heal and give some space from your ex if you can for at least three months of no contact to truely discern what you need to do for yourself x ❤ much love and it is a hard time for all of us x
I always joke "I keep trying to break up with him but it won't stick" but I'm a FA that's trying to heal.
It is permanent if the break up happened in a fight but the person was thinking about breaking up for a longer time before that…
My DA ex broke up with me with no warning and insisted she had thought about it for a long time.. I was devastated (and still am). I never initiate contact, but she continues to text me several times a week to “check on me” and to share things she’s been up to. Last week she cooked me food and invited me over, where we had a long conversation in her house. She reminisced about the past and things she missed about our relationship, and then just today sent me a song she thought I’d like about not giving up.
But every time I bring up a possible future she shuts down and won’t explore it with me. Or she’ll say things like “I can’t predict the future!”
Very confusing, and frankly an emotional roller coaster. Some days I think we definitely have a chance and others I just have to remind myself she needs space. She knows I don’t want to “just be friends”, yet she continues to engage with me as if I’m a close friend(?)
My DA gf broke with me, months ago. No signs at all. In your case it is kind of positive. But beware of being put in friend-zone and be there as her back up plan. Focus on positive things but a good talk is unavoidable at some stage… Good luck and stay strong! Being with a DA is like going through the hell…
@@dmitryisaev5955 Three weeks later, and believe it or not she invited me over a few nights ago for “a warm fire in the back yard and a bottle of wine”. I admit I was thrilled… everyone I asked said she wanted a romantic evening.
I got there, and “romance” hadn’t even occurred to her lol. She just enjoyed our earlier talk because “she learned a lot”, and wanted another. In fact she made it clear she was enjoying being single and when she envisioned her life 5 or 10 years from now, it was as a single person.
Three weeks ago I would have been devastated to hear that, but today I’m thinking she’s an idiot. I would have done ANYTHING for her, and now she’s choosing to take on the world by herself. Why? Because I guess seeing me one night a week was too much pressure.
Of course I’m not ruling out possibilities, but I’m rapidly approaching the point where I’m just going to give up trying, focus on myself, and start being open to a new relationship.
So yes, you’re spot on… she wants the parts of our relationship that benefit her only (I fix her car, fix things in her house, have interesting conversation, etc), but no physical intimacy and no commitment to spending time together.
My boyfriend told me we better be friends cos he dont have feelings anymore. We dated 7 month. It happen 2 month ago. He calls me 90% of times. Like 2 to 4 times a day. We meet mostly on weekends. We still have sex . When we where together he told me that I need to share him with friends,but now when I told him why he dont meet his friends he told me that he prefers to be together with his girlfriend -me.He told that im far the best relationship he ever had. We text to on messenger he send my hearts is still flirtatious and really cuddly when we are together. We walk on streets holding hands. Im not sure if he is really avoidant type.I know he is avoiding conflict. Past relations he broke up and never contacted them again. He broke up with them after moving in with them like after a month cos he need space. He is ISFP and I know they need to be alone a lot to charge.
Stop future faking and actually do something.
Dude you need to set hard boundaries otherwise you are enabeling her to seek validatian from you whenever she wants. She doesn't want you, she is out and you need to set a boundary. You say I appreciate you reaching out to me but i feel like this is going nowhere and I don't wanna be stuck in friendzone. I need distance from you to heal. You wanted the breakup and I respect that, but that means I am out of your life and moving forward so you reaching out to me is inapropriate. Please do not contact me anymore unless something in your decision hasn't change. Take care. And then you go and work on yourself and better yourself so maybe down the road you find someone secure.
She and I left after an argument with a super affectionate day together, a kiss, and a really sweet text . Two days later after and emergency session with her therapist she sat me down and told me she wasn’t good enough for me. Two days to dump me after almost two years of time together
'not good enough' thats what every FA says, very insecure and never accept they are good enough
@@michaelmich00yes my ex said the same
My break up was sudden. It was 9 months ago. I haven’t heard from her since.
That’s rough. What happened, and have you been absolutely no contact?
How long were you with her?
Same happened to me
I needed this right now. we are both FA and the last few weeks we have been long distance while trying to reconcile. I have no idea what he wants because he isn't quite the same, but we haven't spent much time online together and that might be my fault.
I didn't know anything about attachment styles before but at least now I know to stop making decisions in a panic.
My ex is rebounding. This was her reply to a clean slate a few weeks ago. Mind you I never set clear boundaries with my son's mother who wanted emotional support. My ex felt as though my sons mom meant more than she did. I feel like the rebound is breaking down.
Her Reply "I wish you well my friend I do care about you deeply you're my best friend. But I'm ready to enjoy life and not constantly worry about whether I'm not I'm being treated right, whether or not I have to worry about another factor in a relationship I think honestly for me the best way for me to be happy is to be alone I've been in too many relationships where I've just been screwed over for no reason other than selfishness."
My Ex has met 4 of 5 of those signs already. She recently told me that I need to find her when my son is 18 and his mother isn't an issue or factor contributing to our relationship.
You're the one rebounding.... What a dense mf.
My ex (6 year relationship) told me last week that she wanted to move on romatically but still stay in eachothers lives as friends. After one conversation shes now willing to reconsider. She says she's still siding with moving on but is "looking at things from all angles" and needs "time to figure things out". Im hoping she does reconsider.
Hi, Thais. :-) Really helpful video, thank you for covering it. On a related note, I am wondering if you would consider making a video about how to communicate to someone who is breaking up with you that you don't actually want to end the relationship and would be willing to do what it takes on your end to repair the relationship and stay together if possible. I feel like some of us, especially those who have trouble asking for things we want or expressing our needs in general, assume that if someone is initiating a break up conversation with us then we have no say in the matter, we can't even let the other person know it's not what we would want if we could prevent that. Instead we just assume that the power is ENTIRELY in the other person's hands, and so we just act like the break up is fine with us and then hope the other person will be able to mind read well enough to know that it's not really what we want. There seems to be an assumption that if someone is being broken up with they will question that or exhibit clear signs of upset or indicate in some other way that they object to the decision, but for some of us who really suppress our emotions that's not actually the case. It would be greatly helpful if you could address the topic of how to communicate this during the actual break up conversation so that the other person leaves knowing you would want to work things out if that was possible, and thus can reach out to you afterwards if they decide they also want to try again. Thank you for all that you do!! ❤
How can I know (being in no contact) that the dynamic changes?
I’ve never had a guy try to get me back. I think it’s because I say things that are mean and I do apologize but the damage is done. I also don’t allow any game playing or low effort behavior and men love low effort behavior and playing games so they don’t like me.
Yeah well this was long-distance and after not talking for 8 weeks after a fight, I found out I'd been replaced. And blocked on (some) social media. So I don't really see ANY of that happening. When I reached out w/ a belated Christmas gift (arrived after the holidays) I was told I had traits he "couldn't fall in love w/ or conciliate w/ the rest", and threfore wasn't interested in trying again. All the while knowing there already was somebody else. NEVER were any qualms ever put forward. I feel the verdict was given w/o my even being informed there was a trial. Nightmare material.
You nailed my attachment style or perfectly after I took the quiz! You are so insightful & amazingly knowledgeable!❤
Interesting topic and a great video!!
This gives me hope. But I can’t do his back n forth anymore, it’s hurting me and my kids
Thais usually says to put a strict timeline that works for you. If nothing happens in that time frame, you just move on. God bless your babies
Thank you so much.
You always thank her
My ex split off with me 7 weeks ago. The first year of our relationship was perfect, but she had a traumatic event happen to her a few months back that triggered some of her childhood trauma, and then after 3 months of struggling, and a conflict of attachment styles (she is FA and started to pull away, which triggered my AA style) she called things off; Things appeared to be very positive generally even upto a week before, other than a few issues where we struggled to communicate how we felt. She wants to stay friends and reached out quickly after I said I needed no contact to heal, but when i ask about a future reconciliation, she says she needs to feel better in herself for now, and wont know how she will feel in the future, but she still cares about me. How can I tell if this is a temporary break whilst she overcomes the trauma, or if this is really the end? I have used a lot of your videos to learn about attachment theory and am actively trying to become more secure in myself so that I can be there for her.
I would say do your own healing and if she comes back then awesome and if not you can move on to something new.
I think that given what you said about needing no-contact, you should move on, maybe archive or mute her chat so you don't hear from her for a while, and then you can reach out when you feel like getting back together. And if she isn't available or doesn't want to then move on.
But you will see it with fresh eyes once you get some distance, and you will be able to approach more securely, more 'soberly' is one way to think about it. Might take at least a couple months to detach yourself, then you can start afresh.
If you are waiting for her to reestablish contact then you are giving her control and that's not what you want. She broke it off - you tell her that you will get back in touch with her when you want to.
Those are my thoughts anyway
Edit: also, you should think through the relationship experience a bit and ask what you really want and need. If there is something you don't feel comfortable about, you should figure out what that is and what you need from her to feel comfortable/secure again. This is what you'll be looking for when getting back together - of that thing that caused the issues isn't going to change then you need to move on and forget about that relationship. But explain yourself clearly and give her a chance to put things right first, don't just lay the law down and tell her you're done if she doesn't change immediately 😅
Omg the trauma, lol grow the hell up buttercup, stop being a beta by enabling this behaviour.
my DAs words were :" i love you, but our time hasnt come yet" - while hes keeps dating 10 other guys.
What’s crazy my FA male friend does all this we never broke up because we were just friends but we did have a disagreement when I criticized him as I felt the closer we got he’d get hold and cold. Me and him haven’t spoke in 2 weeks I told him I can’t read his mind and didn’t deserve him purposely ignoring me when he felt like it when I’m a present friend. After our disagreement I noticed him checking my stories a week ago but I deleted him from my social media since can’t have a friend I feel I can’t trust and be vulnerable with I care for him but he’s got to go through his process without me it was getting mentally exhausting.
So how does them moving on with a new partner but still doing these behaviours as well
FA boyfriend (ex? Who knows right now😅😅), broke up after his fears went to the roof, said he couldn't handle seeing me 'cos even if he tried, he got anxious. 3-4 weeks later he popped up again, using again the same streets I use daily, then it was too much and he avoided those streets again, a week later here he was again (he works shifts and he uses the morning shift to find me 'cos he is sure of when he can find me there); he also re-opened up to me a bit but I see every time that he is on the verge of his limits. Trying to take it lightly until he has done enough work on himself 😅 FA+FA
I need help dealing with major depression and betrayal trauma
What if they push me away, said when they where angry and hurt to find another person if I was not happy with them ( they are fearful avoidant and where really really hurt and angry towards me) but still following me on social media?
Thx
This is an interesting turn for you Thais. We rarely talk about this topic in all of PDS that I’ve been apart of.
My question is- at what point is this person stringing you along? My anxious ex jumped into a rebound relationship 3 months after our breakup. We were together 2 years. He’s maintained contact and has done everything you’ve mentioned here: reminiscing, indirect and direct reaching out, thinking about our future etc. But he is still with his current partner and have been together for almost 2 years. Am I being strung along?
I am a recovering avoidant and we had the typical DA/AP connection.
It certainly sounds like you're being strung along. They probably just like the attention. I hope you're not waiting for them x
@@anniiKn it’s a sad truth that I’m starting to believe. What a painful and harsh reality as I still hold a place in my heart for him hoping to somehow resolve this. But that’s a fantasy and I’ve begun the process. Ugh 💔
Your watching these videos and realized your a side piece to use sometimes. Grow some self worth guys dont like chicks with zero class in their past
What if they called you and gaslighting and ask for money because door 🚪 is broken and blame you. suggestions that you where there but you where not. I got chocked and angry that she would think would do something bad was her friend that probably fucked up there door if it was true
Thais I have a question. My ex and I broke up in the heat of a 1 sided argument ( his side) He's reached out indirectly and directly. He's also reminisced about the past only regarding our sex life!! So in this situation is that the same? He stalks me on a dating app and texts every 3 months wanting a physical relationship with me. The answer is and always will be NO! So I'm not sure if this is temporary or permanent since this is the 2nd break up. We've been broken up 1 yr. Thoughts????😏
What if they reached out when they’re drunk? 😭🥺 what does that mean?
Well, If this is a relationship that has almost blocked all contact channels, is it necessary to resume and contact again?
How do we know they are nostalgic or going back to memories if we are in no contact and have been for a year?
I’m extremely confused over my ex and idk what to do does anyone have advice
last time we spoke she was with someone else, I really messed up there's no coming back fml
Bro 3.5 billion girls out there. You can find the right one, just focus on healing so that you don't make more mistakes in your future relationships.
You're right boss, thank you
Superb way of spacing out the ummms today! Thanks your video philosophy is so helpful and I get a world of insight and inspiration from them thx
what about not blocking you in one messaging platform?
They are leaving the door open
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if you're reading this, move on bro
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