Nrauj Txiv Tau Lig Lawm. 12/9/2023
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Koj mas ua yog lawm 👍
Me viv ncaus aws nim no tsis muaj neeg uv tej niag txiv dev no lawm os...nrauj nyob ib leeg kaj siab dua lawm..nrog koj zoo siab koj nrauj kiag lawm👍👍👍👍
Yog lawm qhov koj hais no mas yog tshaj li kuv
Hoyo peb yuav tau cov niag hmoob dawb los yeej phem tag kwv tag tij li thiab os txhob thuam thuam tias hmoob lees phem os thiab kuv twb pom kiag kuv tus niam ntxawm hmoob dawb ib yam xwb los phem txaus nkaus rau li thiab os.Hmoob dawb los tus phem yeej phem tus zoo yeej zoo hmoob lees los tus zoo yeej zoo tus phem yeej them thiab
Why do ppl tell their stories and blame all the Hmong men/women? If you’re telling your story, blame only your husband/wife! You have no one to blame but yourself for staying in a toxic relationship/marriage! Ya need to stop using “all the Hmong men/Hmong women!”
I think the reason why they also talk about other people is because people learn from their environments and the people around them (family, friends etc). The people we’re around can influence our behavior too. If we enable toxic and abusive behaviors of family members, they are likely to keep on with that bad behavior because there’s little to no consequences for them to change to be better. If we see our sons abusing their wives and we say nothing, we are partially at fault for being silent and not trying to help their wives.
Agree...and they only refer to the og people ..
“All” as in “majority”
I let my husband go because he wants a niam Yau. We were ma for 35 years. It’s ok… let them talk. Get out and save your life.
Ab tsi yog hmoob leeg thiaj yuav niam yau xwb os.tag tsho tu txiv neej hmoob xwb ces hmoob dawb hmoob dab tsi los yeej yuav niam yau es siab phem rau tu niam loj li os.cov tshav hmoob ces yeej caij tsuj cov poj niam hmoob xwb os.txhob hai tia hmoob leeg es thiaj yuav niam yau siab phem kuv tsi qhua li os.nyob ntawm koj yuav tau tu zoo los tu phem xwb os.
Kuv los yeej xav ib yam li koj
Yog tshaj plaw lawm os mog
Mu lo tau os mog
Li ko ces. Txob nyob lawm os mog
Twb yog tiam 21 thiab twb nyob mes kas teb lawm es peb cov poj niam Hmoob yuav tau paub hlub lawv tus kheej es yus txiav txim siab rau yus tus kheej xwb tsis need tej nyuag kwv tij, neej tsa qhia yus ua yus lub neej vim tsov yeej tsis tom tsov kiag li thiab cov nyuag neej tsa los xav2 tau ntsej muag thiab so no one is in your shoes and no one is going to care or know that you are struggling with the loser. Its your life and take control of it and show the world that women are brave enough to take are of themselves.
Tuam no txiv neej hmoob Siab pgem dhau lawm....xum ua poj Nrauj zoo tshaj nyob nrog tus niag neeg siab dub ua hnub ua hmo hais lus phem ...tsim yus lub Siab ...hlub hlub yus tus kheej o poj hmoob e.. ua poj nrauj Kaj Siab tshaj ua neej nrig niag txiv Siab phem siab dub tshob cuab....tsis muaj txoj kev hlub...o hmoob dhuav Siab tshaj plaws li o hmoob e
hai yog lm o
Cov me phooj ywg nco qab ntsoov tias lub ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag nawb mog. Cov txij nkawm leej twg yog tus rhuav lub neej ces tus ntawd yog tus tau txoj hmoov phem ntag. Tsis hais poj niam los yog txiv neej nawb tus xub rhuav lub neej ces ntuj yeej foom txoj hmoov phem rau tus ntawd.
Hmoob Lees thiab Hmoob dawb tug phem yeej phem txhob hais tsi nrees rau ib cov xwb, yog nej hais li no tsis ncajncees lawm.
User-id yog maj txawm yog hmoob dawb los tus phem ces yeej.
Hos txawm yog hmoob lees los tus phem yeej phem.
Cov zoo hmoob dawb los yeej muaj cov zoo thiab hos hmoob lees los cov zoo yeej tseem muaj cov zoo thiab tsis txhob hais tias hmoob lees yog cov phem no hos yom😊😊😊
Don’t feel bad…your parents foretold you already about him and his father…an apple 🍎 doesn’t fall far from its tree…
For the man you reap what you sow…😩!
We women just does not know to love, respect, and care about ourselves and know how strong, how much pains we can take, and how important we are, and we can do and fix basically everything in the house. We women think we are weak and give our powers to them thinking that we are powerless and can not do anything without a man or husband in our life. We have to stop thinking and giving our power to others!!!
Tim peb cov pojniam Hmoob cia tus txiv tsimtxom peb. Yuav tsum rua muag saib qhov tseeb, ncajncees hauv lub neej. Kavtsij npaj yus tej nyiaj, hlub yus tus kheej, nrhiav kev tawm txhob nyob rau luag tsim.
sim neej no peb cov txiv neej hmoob ces muaj ib feem yeej liam2 li no o me niam tais aw tos peb xum ua poj nrauj xb lo ua poj nrauj ces kaj kaj siab txawm luag zej zog yuav hais lus phem2 rau yus lo tsuas yus yg tus poj nrauj zoo g tham luag tej txv xb kv ces zeem kiag cov txiv neej hmoob liam ko lawm o
You knew all along he was a loser and a cheat but you kept “ua siab ntev” which got you nowhere. Does his kwv tij pay your bills? Hell no they don’t! NEVER listen to kwv tij. They only care about their human. Glad you got out of that situation. And don’t be afraid to be alone. We all came in this world alone we will leave this world alone.
We Hmoob women need to love, respect, and find ourselves Worthy and leave and not put up these toxic man. Stop trying to be saib ntev. They arent going to change. Love yourselves and leave.
Zaj neej neeg no mas hais tau txaus ntxub tshaj plaws li.
It's not just hmoob lees thiab yuav niam yau xwb! Hmoob dawb los ham tsis siab phem yuav niam yau ib yam thiab ma! Ua cas nej cov hmoob dawb es pheej muab hmoob lees hu ua nplim no na! Hmoob dawb los ham tsi phem kawg thiab ma!!
Lady, nobody will ever advise you to get a divorce, that is your personal decision.
Another story to prove Hmoob men are not good role models. I will teach my sons to be better. 😭💔
Txog txij kwv tij thiab cov niam tsev g pab kj lawm ces kj yeej g zoo
Viv ncau aw xav li koj ma yog tshaj li os
Pab koj zoo siab os😅
Koj kuj tu siab tias cas koj yuav nrauj koj tus txiv tau lig tabsis tseem zoo tshaj. Vim koj hnub nyoog txog 40 xyoo xwb koj twb nrauj lawm tseem tshuav lub zog enjoying lub ntiaj teb yam zoo, qhov koj tsis tau mus, tsis tau pom. Kuv mas thiaj txawj tu siab, luag hais tias xav txog lig ces yog kuv. Vim kv uv ntev tshaj plaws dhau 50 xyoo lub zog twb nraug lawm. Txhob lees nws rov los rau yus tu. Vim thaum nws lub zog quaj ntws nws coj mus rau cov hluas nkkauj sab nrauv noj xwb tsis hlub yus tej niam tub li. Pab koj zoo siab koj lub neej tsis muaj tus txiv, but is happy ending! Enjoy your free life!❤❤
nrog koj zoo siab dim kiag ib tug txiv siab phem lawm os cov txiv neej siab phem2 ces kawg nrauj ib hnub thiaj dim nws lub siab lim hiam
Leej txiv coj tau 1 tug qauv g zoo 6 me nyuam kawm ce txiv liam lawm ce tub yuav liam raw
When a person has had enough, they will muster the courage to leave. Apparently, u stayed bcuz it wasnt bad enough to let him go.
Don’t blame his relatives.. Blame yourself
😢😢😢nrog neeg phem nyob ces tsuas tau lub kua muag xwb. Kawg tawm ntawv cov neeg phem es thiaj kaj siab.
Hmong wives need to start loving themselves & leave the marriage when it’s toxic. Nobody deserves to be abused & cheated on. If he wants to marry a 2nd wife, leave him. It’s never too late to start over & sometimes, it’s better to be alone. Less stress on u & nobody to yell at u, nobody for u to cook & clean for.
Yog kawg
She is shamanism. It actually makes no sense that she’s offended when her man wants to marry another women. The god she worships aren’t offended, in fact they allow it. So why is she offended? Under what standard is that wrong? Obviously not her gods standards..
I’ve never seen so many divorced hmoob ppl at new years now than ever b4 …… the hmoob divorce rate is going out of control
Tus viv ncaus aw nej cov niag hmoob dawb mas thiaj txawj phem tshaj hmoob lees nawb vim kuv tau ib tug thiab, ib niag txiv sai siab ib niag txiv tham hluas nkauj. Nej cov hmoob dawb mas thiaj txawj hais lus phem thiab mob tshaj plaws li os. Hmoob lees es cov phem yog feem tsaug xwb mog cov niag hmoob dawb ces 99% yog tib co txawj2 hais mob txawj hais lus phem thiab yuav niam yau coob tshaj plaws.
Zoo siab koj yog in tug poj niam muaj peev xwm kawg! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Caag tug txwv neej kod yuav phem ua luaj puas taag peb cov moob leeg. Kuv yog moog leeg thab, taab sws kuv mas hlub2 qos puj miv nyuas kawg le hos. Tsw yog khaav has le muaj xwb os.
Zoo siab nrog koj uas tej mi nyuam hlub2 koj tab sis npaj neeg neeg tuaj tham rau ntu laus uas yus pab tsis tau yus tus kheej seb ho zoo li cas os los
Lub neej yog koj lub ces tus txiav txim siab tswj tsav yog koj tus kheej, nobody else. Yog koj lub neej zoo no ces ua rau lwm tus khib hos yog koj lub neej phiam no mas ua rau lwm tus hnyos thiab thuam xwb, nothing else. Ib nkawm niam txiv twg tau sib nrauj taus lawm ces nkawv yeej phem zoo sib xws.
Haj haj niag txiv neej ais mag poj niam ncaws tawm poob tsim kawg
I am not in the Hmong community anymore ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Txiv neej hmoob siab phem phem es ua li koj ua ko os tus niam tsev txhob hlub hlub tus txiv mog cia rau lwm tus lo tsim pauj lo ua kom nws mob siab thiaj paub txiv neej ces cia kom mag tsim kom tuag mus zoo kawg niam yau lo ua pauj tau koj txoj kev chim os tus niam tsev tiam 21 no txhob hlub txjob ntseeg ntseeg txiv neej tcoj kev dag txoj kev siab phem mog
Tsis Yog Tim Hmong Leeg es thiaj li Phem. Hmong dabtsis los Yog nws muaj lub siab Phem xwb.
dag xwb o lawv aw tsis muaj tus txiv ces tsis zoo ab tsi o plaub hau dawb tsis yog nyuaj siab o yog yus laus thiab yog noob plaub hau dawb xwb na tej me nyuam tsis zoo npaum li muaj tus txiv o nawb tiam no koj tau tus phem xwb o
ej ca niam lau as kv lub neej ca nim zoo li kj kiag li os kv tus txiv yuav kv tau 2 3 xyoo no xb tham2 hlua nkj ntau2 kv cem2 kv ce kv me plab hau dawb ntau kawg li lawm os tam sim no kv kiav tuaj kv niam lawm e kv yuav ua kom dhau kv txoj kev nyuaj siab no mu kom tau xb2 li os 🥺🥺🥺
vim koj tsis yog tus nws nyiam ne nws thiaj tsis nrog koj ntxuav tais diav mas koj ua thaj txim2 txiaj ces txiv neej tsis nyiam o txiv neej nyiam tus poj niam xuas2 nkuj nki xwb nawb yuav tsum xuas tau kom ntxim2 hlub thiab laiv es txiv neej thiaj li nyiam thiab nawb thiab yuav tsum yog tus lawv nyiam2 thiab ov
Tus me viv ncaus aw tsis tau lig rau koj li os.
It take you 20 years to learned 😂😂😂
Txhob mus kk cov niag kwv tij os koj tsis need coj mus rau kwv tij hais nawb yeej meem ua li qhov yus ua tau xwb seb puas mob nws siab xwb ho
Tus mi niam tsev yog phem npaum li koj tus qub txiv no ces tsuas yog koj xwb thiaj li uv ntev npaum li no os peb cov uas peb ua txhua yam rau mas lawv hlub peb heev
Yus tsis paub until it happens to you! Koj tsis tau pom dua koj hais tsis tau hais tia nwg yog poj niam ruam! Hnub twg txog koj thib koj mam ua tus poj niam ntse os. When it’s not you, then you say you will divorce but when it’s your turn, you think so many things and think about your life and kids and you still stay until you’re at your limit!! Only then will you know what it feels like and what you will do…let’s not judge others! We are all not built the same way!! Some women are stronger then others but we all still hurt the same!
Twb sib nrauj tag lawm es ua cas koj pheej yuav care txog thiab na,
You chose this life - no one forced you.
Leave as soon is better! The husband sides family’s will always get there back no matter what why cause we woman’s are the outsiders who came into the family’s once you realize it be too late. Having a Bad names will only go on for 2 years the more you stay and be a blindfolded person and being patience not worth your going to hurt yourself more through mentally
Why do women not leave when they are being abuse, but has the courage to leave when he marries a second wife? Physical/emotional abuse is wrost then getting cheat on.
Qhov kuv xav mas yog tos txij cov kwv tij tso cai rau koj tus txiv yuav niam yau ces koj yeej tsis yog ib tus niam tsev zoo thiab koj yeej phem txaus lawm kwv tij thiaj li tso cai. Ib tus niam tsev zoo ces kwv tij yeej cem tus txiv tsis puab yuav niam yau.
Sister, why didn't you leave and divorce him when he first started beating you and abusing you? You should've left him a long time ago. Even after you divorced him. Why are you even wasting your time still talking to him and even entertaining him? He's not your husband anymore. You do not owe him a damn thing. Love and respect yourself. Cut him off completely, ghost him, and block him. Go, no contact. Your children can for its their father. Change your phone number.
Stop listening to those relatives and your parents. Stop catering and being doormat for them Hmong men's to wipe their feet on. You can do better. You can live without them.
Koj thuam2 koj niam pog ruam tamsi koj los yeej ruam ib yam thiab.
Tos luag hai li lo luag tau tu zoo xb
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I am saddened that I only had one son and one child......he is gone from this world and so I never got a chance to have him help me go on vacation........I am happy that tug vivncaug here was able to have that love from her kids. I am very happy for her.
Cov dab neeg no pos tseeb ma ua cas nyob teb meskas no tseem muaj cov hmoob ruam kawg 😂😂😂
You had already given your right to complain about your man cheating when you chosen shamanism. There is nothing wrong with that in a shaman worldview. Your dab aren’t offended, why are you?
That's why we make our own decisions and not rely on others to make those decisions for us. We live in a country with resources to help us. Love yourself!!
Agree
Ham tsis tham hluas nraug goos dua hawb hawb !
Oh…. Yaum nkees nkees mloog lis os cas yus lub neej tsis zoo es pheej tuj ntuas luag tej nej?
Your husband is just pure evil. Dont labeled him Moob Leeg, puag peb cov Moob Leeg ua rua peb poob ntsej muag.😢
Niam ntsuab teev yuav cas thiaj hu tau koj os
Cas rua. Cuag koj nws twb tias koj mus kon no ne
Remember no man will make your husband divorce you, unless he is willing to divorce you. You always have a choice. It’s always better for 1:1 marriages, never a 1:2 marriage!
MAY IS THERE A REAL GOOD REASON WHY PEB COV MOOBLEEG TAU LUB VPE MOOB LEEG NAM NPLIMSUB PEB COVMOOB NJM PHEM RUA MEJ COVMOOB LEEG PNEM RUA MEJ COV MOOB DLAWB NPAUM LE CAAG ES MEJ TIS TAU LUB NPE MOOB LEEG NAM NPLIM
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Koj tau cov me nyuam zoo mloog lus mas koj zoo tham kawg li ov. Cov muaj cov me tsis zoo mas koj ceb muag qhov muag qhuav tau.
Tim kj pheej nyob thob qhia lwm tu os luag g ruam li koj na😊
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Some Hmong men will never learn...SMH
We have been listening to all these cheating spouses stories lately. Making my blood boil, I rather listen to ghost stories
I am so happy for you! I'm so happy you left him and did not repeat the same lifestyle your mother-in-law lived in.
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Lawv muab koj ntxuav hlwb xwb mas pog mej thaub aws cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj
Poj niam hmoob aw txog tuaj tuaj lecture lawm os. Just tell your story.
It's ok with a short little lecture, but I hate when some of these lectures go on and on for like 10+ min. I'm tired after 5 min already.
I don't believe this fictitious story. This woman is not an animal. She's a person. So to tolerate this abuse environment is nonsense
ผัวฉันม้งdawb ตีฉันเกือบทุกวันฉันไม่เคยบอกว่าม้ง dawb ฉันจะบอกแต่ชื่อของเขาเท่านั้น ม้งdawb ม้งleeg อยู่ที่ตัวบุคคลค่ะ
Another Hmong woman entrapped in a hostile and abused marriage due to pressure from kwv tij and can’t make her own decisions even though she’s an adult living in America. Ugh 😑
Bivhiv.. txhais hais tias pog mag tsis tau txaus no mas. Mag leg sab li sab los tseem hais tias yog tawb xwb. Poj Hmoob ruam awd....nej mas tam tseeb li lauj.
You married into a family that doesn't respect women.... not because they are Hmong leeg. Glad you left when you can.
Ntuj aws Moob Dlawb Moob Leeg los tug lim ham yeej lim ham nruab thab nruab qais. Tsi tim yog Moob Leeg xwb. Stupid Hmong people tsis muab kev kawm. Stop using that word "nplim" we have a word for Moob Dlawb, too.😂
Txaus siab kawg heev neeg muaj heev tsim.
ดีแล้วที่คุณเลิก หาม้งด้วยกัน สำเนียงเดียวกันtham จะได้ไม่มีปัญหา ของฉันด่าฉันทุกวันว่า poj hmoob lees
May, going forward every STORY must be ID'ed whether is a Moobleeg or Moobdlawb. Every story so far is about Moobdlawb but you never emphasize his/her dielect, but ONE Moobleeg guy and you emphasize about him. Same thing about Christian and non-Christian. If a non-Christian do bad then you never say anything that he/she is a non-Christian but if there a Christian do bad then you must make sure it is brough up.
Not too meant to men
Not only men was txiv dev. What about whore ?
Kuv xav mas nyob ntawm noob phem noob zoo Noob ruam. Noob ntse xwb os
zoo siab rau koj os me niam tsev
Kuv ntxub cov pojniam uas niag dev liam muab tsim tsim los tseem pheej nrog tham. Ntxim ntxub tshaj
Yog ma
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Thov kom hmoob cov poj mus ua pauj nrauj kom tas nawb. Nej cov poj niam nrauj tus ces tau txiv nrauj txiv ces tau yawg lawm xwb Nej cav tsi paub tu siab li yom. Ib puas tu txiv neej tej muaj ib tug thiaj coj li koj tus txiv dev no xwb. Yog koj zoo2 koj tus txiv yeej tsi liam li ko thiab.
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