4:01 is when she starts talking about the steps to take Step 1: We break out of the story. We have to know the old story so well that we can catch ourselves in our assumptions. Step 2: In reverse visualization, we think through what other reasons things happen. If someone isn't talking to us, it maybe means they are really overwhelmed themselves. Step 3: Practice new responses. What shifts your mind is new experiences. Practice different ways that you can be.
Thanks so much for doing this recap! I really enjoy it and as funny as it may sound, seeing this recap is helpful info feedback for me that actually helps me learn too!
One of the things I really like about your channel is your diagrams and self check methods. Each time I stop myself from slipping into old actions I become aware that I am changing my neuro connections
This is some profound stuff explained extremely well. Many people spoke about this topic but I havent seen anybody else explain it as good as you did. Is your background in psychology or psychiatry? Cos this sounds a kinda similar to CBT+NLP and you've just showed me a major breakthrough in my thought patterns. So, i sincerely thank you, Abby.
Hi Abby, BEAUTIFUL coherent presentation... It’s so good that I sincerely believe if you turn it into a book, you’ll have a BEST SELLER on your hands!! This may lead to a TEDXX talk, which will blossom into multiple interviews on other people’s programs, etc. Of course, I would expect the book to have charts and illustrations to turn it into a full sensory experience. Switching GEARS; for RIGHT NOW, it you created a meditation video with acoustic music as a background and some KEY PHRASES to reinforce the core of this video presentation, I expect your subscriber base to double in a short while.... Stay blessed, my dear! Robert-
Robert, THANK YOU! Thank you so much for taking the time to share this with me. Thank you for the support, the new ideas and perspectives about where the ideas could be shared next! It really means a lot to me and I am grateful to have you in this community! 🙏
Awesome, Abby! I just got done watching this. It's funny how well (synchronistic) this video aligns with the last comment I sent you, about exposing my subconscious beliefs. Your idea of self-visualisation is beautiful! I look forward to implementing this ❤
Abby you are so good at explaining!! I heard somewhere that for the universe manifesting 1million or 1 dollar is the same, can you make a video on this? Or if you have already, could u send me the link or share title? Thankyou for everything
The first thing I'd say is to 1) write down your current dynamic with money.. is there just not enough? Is it there sometimes and then it goes away out of no where? What ever that dynamic is, write it down as much about it as you can. How it makes you feel. Etc... 2) Now I want you to think if there was anyone in your early life who treated you like this or made you feel this way? Does anyone come to mind?
If you wanna get a million or billion dollars you have to have a conviction that you have it right now or will receive it shortly. Having a business or career or a lottery ticket is just a way to convince your mind that you are worth of that money. I've done this myself many times. If you wanna be a perfect soccer player you just have to convince your mind (by practicing working out studying the techniques etc) you don't actually become a better player your subconscious mind creates that new reality by you convincing it (practicing soccer working out etc.)
Thank-you Abby, this was so incredibly helpful and very well put together and articulated. I learned a lot from this video. Many thanks for all you do.
I'M INFINITELY HAPPY & GRATEFUL FOR YOUR VIDEO + EXPLAINING THESE RELATIONSHIP SITUATIONS + QUOTING FROM DR. JOE, NEVILLE GODDARD+ DR. SEGULL(?) W MARISA PEER'S "I AM ENOUGH" + "TELL YOURSELF A BETTER LIE" W NLP. WE 💘 YOU EXPLAINING FOR US AUTISTICS, 😆. YOU'RE BETTER THAN THESE USELESS EATER WALKING DEAD PSYCHOLOGISTS + THERAPISTS, 😆.
Thank you so much for taking the time to share this with me. Your words mean a lot bc this was one of my harder ones to try to put together. How to put into words something that evolved from my own effort to implement new behavior which eventually changed my life! It really is touching to my heart to know this video connected! Thanks again so much for your kind words and support!
Yes. The Course is about getting to the roots and shifting the perspective. It teaches you how to use your Left brain brain to let go of what was fueling your limiting beliefs which then creates space for a new belief. This does not require you to visualize. If you have any other questions or concerns before you buy, just email me at AbbyRustonYT@gmail.com Also there is a 30 day money back guarantee with the course.
Hey Abby ❤love your videos. Are you looking for Anyone to work with that will help you make and edit shorts, thumbnails, and titles? If so I would love to work with you. Please let me know and I have experience in all of this along with SEO and click rate as well. I will help you to make your channel bigger and greater because I can see its potential! 😊 thanks for the amazing content Abby! ❤
Thank you so much for reaching out. I appreciate your support! Currently I do it all myself, but please email me to share your info in case anything changes in the future! AbbyRustonyt@gmail.com
Their issues create an environment for us as children. We don't have any input of the world, we don't have a fully developed mind and our brainwavs are theta and alpha which goes directly into our subconscious as "fact". Since there is a power imbalance and we NEED our caregivers for survival, we take the blame... that blame with that lack of understanding creates a perception of ourselves. That perception is our level of consciousness. You can always call it your self concept. We then live our life through that lens and with that as our magnet of attraction. So it is both.
You cant force someone to like you and even if you did its unnatural. If you are dependent on someones affection its an internal ussue you need to resolve. You play with you can get burned. You want to use mind to solve your problem when the problem is the mind. Manifesting techniques are old and free why people need to pay is beyond me.
The point is not to force someone to like you. The point is to break outside the automatic impulsive perspective that keeps someone in the old story. As I said in the video, sometimes ppl don't like you BUT what value do you put on that. Do you make their value your whole worth. Yes manifesting is always happening and free to do, but lots of people like myself had experiences that created fractures in self and despite how hard I tried and nothing changed. I needed a little help to find what I was missing and it completely changed my life. So what works for 1 doesn't work for all and I want those who are like me to know there is help out there for them.
There are actually sneaky ways how "zero f's given" is actually a form of self abandonment.. While our own view of ourselves is most important and vital, if wounds created a complete avoidance or dismissal of others, that could be more about a fear of betrayal or engulfed by them so can tend to want to actually want lots of space to feel safe, but bc that's what we actually want.. but bc of the assumption we will be hurt or rejected, by them.. so our own view is not honored... the self rejection impulse is there and then the "i don't give an F' pops up to self protect . it's the opposite side of the same wound I talk about in the video.
@@AbbyRuston or it comes from a place of where you know yourself very well and you don’t need anything from anyone who doesn’t have your best interest at heart or are only out for themselves then who cares ..if you realize you create your own reality, and that you have all the power in the world on your side and if someone shows you a reflection of something that you truly believe is from their own filter of experiences and you know within yourself that you love yourself and believe in yourself, and are confident in your own abilities and talents and capabilities if someone wants to come up against you because for whatever reason they’re jealous or they just don’t have the social politeness of treating you with respect or consideration, then it’s perfectly OK to just not care what they think about you because their opinion of you is none of your business. Only your own opinion of yourself is your own business as long as you are impeccable with your own word, you never have to take what other people do personally it’s not about you at that point so it’s not a form of self abandonment it’s a form of self empowerment, which is actually the goal especially when there are wounds how are you going to heal by going around in circles worrying about what other people think of you worrying that they’re going to reject you they can reject away that has nothing to do with you as long as you keep your side of the fence clean at that point it’s oh well so what..
@@TruthIsNot4Sale yes. In this position and perspective, I would agree that if you can be conscious in that moment and know yourself and are with yourself, you can recognize the old energy or energy that you are no longer available to interact with, and move away/create boundaries for your own betterment and out of self love! I also agree that is the goal as well!
@TruthIsNot4Sale go for it if that's what you believe, but you don't. How do I know, it's all embedded in your statements, responses and response time.
Oh how interesting! Also the symbol of venus! Something just popped into my head and I'll share... the idea of feminine energy in the process of doing this work.. Not gender of person.. the reality that every person has both feminine and masculine aspects and more so the symbolism... with that said.. the mini theory would be that the feminine aspect receives the information first to be assessed so that there can be action taken(masc) with more of a higher level of consciousness behind it.. rather than just taking action based on reaction! That was a fun lil idea adventure! Thanks for sharing this!
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If I visualise being with someone, and really believe it and manifest it, that means the other person had no say or control over it. I’d like to be with someone who actually wants to be rather than casting some wacky spell over them.
Everyone has free will. There is a big myth that manifesting is forcing someone and controlling them. Manifesting is revealing our inner beliefs in our outside world.. If part of someone’s plan involves forcing someone to do something.. that in itself gives away power.. and that lack of power will be manifest in rejection or not being seen.. which sometimes makes ppl feel more desperate and that that have to TRY to force someone to be with them.. This is the source of lots of suffering based on a distortion of how energy actually works in my opinion and experience. What I’m sharing is to get clear on yourself and to be internally oriented so that you can more accurately see yourself your power and reality
@slapmyfunkybass That’s not actually how it works. You’re attracting a version of them which is aligned with the version of you. You are not the same person second to second. Your confident version and inconfident version are two different versions of you on two different realities. You can choose to shift to a timeline where you are confident, where what you want wants you back etc. You are not changing any reality. You are just jumping across possible worlds/ timelines
@@Gmmmgm Maybe they don’t want to to be with any version of me. The point remains, if I manifest being with someone and it happens, they had no say in it. Either we can control our reality or not.
@@slapmyfunkybass then you are manifesting a life line where they don’t want to be with any version of you. It’s still your choice and you are still manifesting it. According to this metaphysics, of course. You don’t need to buy into the manifestation metaphysics, but if you do, there is no ethical problem within it, is all I am saying. You are always already manifesting, the good and the bad. It’s not as if the bad is happening to you while you are calling in the good. You are calling in both, you are responsible for both, it is all your choice.
YESS!! Thank you for this! This video took me awhile to create bc I had no idea to explain something I experienced and helped me so much. It actually took me two different efforts to record and to hear it connected really makes me happy!! ❤️❤️😃
4:01 is when she starts talking about the steps to take
Step 1: We break out of the story. We have to know the old story so well that we can catch ourselves in our assumptions.
Step 2: In reverse visualization, we think through what other reasons things happen. If someone isn't talking to us, it maybe means they are really overwhelmed themselves.
Step 3: Practice new responses. What shifts your mind is new experiences. Practice different ways that you can be.
Thanks so much for doing this recap! I really enjoy it and as funny as it may sound, seeing this recap is helpful info feedback for me that actually helps me learn too!
Thank you so much for the notes!
One of the things I really like about your channel is your diagrams and self check methods. Each time I stop myself from slipping into old actions I become aware that I am changing my neuro connections
This is some profound stuff explained extremely well. Many people spoke about this topic but I havent seen anybody else explain it as good as you did.
Is your background in psychology or psychiatry? Cos this sounds a kinda similar to CBT+NLP and you've just showed me a major breakthrough in my thought patterns. So, i sincerely thank you, Abby.
Hi Abby,
BEAUTIFUL coherent presentation...
It’s so good that I sincerely believe if you turn it into a book, you’ll have a BEST SELLER on your hands!! This may lead to a TEDXX talk, which will blossom into multiple interviews on other people’s programs, etc.
Of course, I would expect the book to have charts and illustrations to turn it into a full sensory experience.
Switching GEARS; for RIGHT NOW, it you created a meditation video with acoustic music as a background and some KEY PHRASES to reinforce the core of this video presentation, I expect your subscriber base to double in a short while....
Stay blessed, my dear!
Robert-
Robert, THANK YOU! Thank you so much for taking the time to share this with me. Thank you for the support, the new ideas and perspectives about where the ideas could be shared next! It really means a lot to me and I am grateful to have you in this community! 🙏
I love how you explain this. And you're so passionate
Awesome, Abby! I just got done watching this. It's funny how well (synchronistic) this video aligns with the last comment I sent you, about exposing my subconscious beliefs. Your idea of self-visualisation is beautiful! I look forward to implementing this ❤
🥳🥳🙌🏼 Love it! So happy you are here in this community!
Abby you are so good at explaining!! I heard somewhere that for the universe manifesting 1million or 1 dollar is the same, can you make a video on this? Or if you have already, could u send me the link or share title? Thankyou for everything
The first thing I'd say is to 1) write down your current dynamic with money.. is there just not enough? Is it there sometimes and then it goes away out of no where? What ever that dynamic is, write it down as much about it as you can. How it makes you feel. Etc... 2) Now I want you to think if there was anyone in your early life who treated you like this or made you feel this way? Does anyone come to mind?
I totally agree with you that she is a good teacher 🎉 actually not only a good, she is amazing 🤩
If you wanna get a million or billion dollars you have to have a conviction that you have it right now or will receive it shortly. Having a business or career or a lottery ticket is just a way to convince your mind that you are worth of that money. I've done this myself many times. If you wanna be a perfect soccer player you just have to convince your mind (by practicing working out studying the techniques etc) you don't actually become a better player your subconscious mind creates that new reality by you convincing it (practicing soccer working out etc.)
I love your confidence. It’s inspiring.
WOW🎉! I have seen you on tube before I am so glad this channel found me!🎉🎉🎉 Go Goddess Abby thank 😊 💖 😊
Yay! So glad you are here! Welcome to the community!!
Wow am the first to comment... Thank you Aby for this knowledge ❤️✨
🔥🔥🙏🥳 thank you for watching and being here
Abby, I awoke in 2017. I love you and your channel. Thanks for bringing humanity up to their potential ❤❤. All my love and gratitude to you!!
Subscribed. 😊Sending much love.❤ Thanking Life for guiding me to find you and your channel.🙏❤
🥳🥳 Welcome to the community! So glad to have you
Thank you Abby, your content is always valuable and useful ❤
So glad it’s helping! Thanks for the support and for watching 🙏
Wow another great video. Thank you Abby :)
Love you too Abby❤ Thank you for these videos. I am a completely different person now that i am more conscious of my thoughts feelings and emotions🎉
YES!! So proud of you and so happy for you!! Keep Growing!! 🥳🥳🔥🙌🏼
Fantastic video! ❤
Thanks for watching it and for taking the time to share this. I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
Abby your content is so precious and i often feel so good watching your videos you give me comfy vibes 😊💝💝
🥹🥹🙏 What an honor to get this message. Thank you for being here. Thank you so much for taking the time to share this with me ❤️
Excellent! Thank you Abby.
Thank you for being here! So glad you enjoyed it!
Amazing!
🙏 Thanks so much for the love and for watching!
Thank-you Abby, this was so incredibly helpful and very well put together and articulated. I learned a lot from this video. Many thanks for all you do.
Thank you! I really appreciate your input and so glad this video helped!!
Brilliant! Thanks for sharing!❤
Thanks for watching and for taking the time to let me know you enjoyed it!
I'M INFINITELY HAPPY & GRATEFUL FOR YOUR VIDEO + EXPLAINING THESE RELATIONSHIP SITUATIONS + QUOTING FROM DR. JOE, NEVILLE GODDARD+ DR. SEGULL(?) W MARISA PEER'S "I AM ENOUGH" + "TELL YOURSELF A BETTER LIE" W NLP. WE 💘 YOU EXPLAINING FOR US AUTISTICS, 😆. YOU'RE BETTER THAN THESE USELESS EATER WALKING DEAD PSYCHOLOGISTS + THERAPISTS, 😆.
Great content as always Abby, you have an beautiful way of explaining things very simply.
Thank you so much for taking the time to share this with me. Your words mean a lot bc this was one of my harder ones to try to put together. How to put into words something that evolved from my own effort to implement new behavior which eventually changed my life! It really is touching to my heart to know this video connected! Thanks again so much for your kind words and support!
@@AbbyRuston ❤it definitely connected and was very much needed to be heard! Keep up the great work 😄
Brilliant ! Thank you so much ❤
Thanks for the love and for watching!
"So thats your own self-rejection" 😮
RIght???? When I realized how I was doing it and creating my own rejection and basically hurting my own feelings it CHANGED MY LIFE!!!
Wonderful... thank you
Thanks for watching! So glad you enjoyed it!
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That is absolutely right!
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What a great video.
Thanks so much for the love! Very happy you enjoyed it!
If someone is not good at all in visualising, will the ALIGN course still help to overwrite old beliefs?
Yes. The Course is about getting to the roots and shifting the perspective. It teaches you how to use your Left brain brain to let go of what was fueling your limiting beliefs which then creates space for a new belief. This does not require you to visualize. If you have any other questions or concerns before you buy, just email me at AbbyRustonYT@gmail.com Also there is a 30 day money back guarantee with the course.
Thank you ❤
Just great Abby
I appreciate you Tom! 🙏
Thank you!
🙏 Thank you for watching!
Hey Abby ❤love your videos. Are you looking for Anyone to work with that will help you make and edit shorts, thumbnails, and titles? If so I would love to work with you. Please let me know and I have experience in all of this along with SEO and click rate as well. I will help you to make your channel bigger and greater because I can see its potential! 😊 thanks for the amazing content Abby! ❤
Thank you so much for reaching out. I appreciate your support! Currently I do it all myself, but please email me to share your info in case anything changes in the future! AbbyRustonyt@gmail.com
Yes!
So let me see... Should I be thanking the algorithm for spying in on my counseling session?? Or should I be suing??? (And not this gal, I'm just so 😳🤯
😂😂 I love your response! I'm so glad you are here! So glad you enjoyed the video and the sneaky ways it found itself to you 🙃
U say maybe it's their issues but u also say it's ur state of consciousness only according to Neville so make up ur mind
Their issues create an environment for us as children. We don't have any input of the world, we don't have a fully developed mind and our brainwavs are theta and alpha which goes directly into our subconscious as "fact". Since there is a power imbalance and we NEED our caregivers for survival, we take the blame... that blame with that lack of understanding creates a perception of ourselves. That perception is our level of consciousness. You can always call it your self concept. We then live our life through that lens and with that as our magnet of attraction. So it is both.
I hear a cry for help...
I'm not tracking.. who is crying? 🤔
@@AbbyRuston just a joke.
😊thank you 💕
Thank you for being here and for watching!
Thanks
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You cant force someone to like you and even if you did its unnatural. If you are dependent on someones affection its an internal ussue you need to resolve. You play with you can get burned. You want to use mind to solve your problem when the problem is the mind. Manifesting techniques are old and free why people need to pay is beyond me.
The point is not to force someone to like you. The point is to break outside the automatic impulsive perspective that keeps someone in the old story. As I said in the video, sometimes ppl don't like you BUT what value do you put on that. Do you make their value your whole worth. Yes manifesting is always happening and free to do, but lots of people like myself had experiences that created fractures in self and despite how hard I tried and nothing changed. I needed a little help to find what I was missing and it completely changed my life. So what works for 1 doesn't work for all and I want those who are like me to know there is help out there for them.
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How about make it simple ….zero F’s about what other ppl think
There are actually sneaky ways how "zero f's given" is actually a form of self abandonment.. While our own view of ourselves is most important and vital, if wounds created a complete avoidance or dismissal of others, that could be more about a fear of betrayal or engulfed by them so can tend to want to actually want lots of space to feel safe, but bc that's what we actually want.. but bc of the assumption we will be hurt or rejected, by them.. so our own view is not honored... the self rejection impulse is there and then the "i don't give an F' pops up to self protect . it's the opposite side of the same wound I talk about in the video.
@@AbbyRuston or it comes from a place of where you know yourself very well and you don’t need anything from anyone who doesn’t have your best interest at heart or are only out for themselves then who cares ..if you realize you create your own reality, and that you have all the power in the world on your side and if someone shows you a reflection of something that you truly believe is from their own filter of experiences and you know within yourself that you love yourself and believe in yourself, and are confident in your own abilities and talents and capabilities if someone wants to come up against you because for whatever reason they’re jealous or they just don’t have the social politeness of treating you with respect or consideration, then it’s perfectly OK to just not care what they think about you because their opinion of you is none of your business. Only your own opinion of yourself is your own business as long as you are impeccable with your own word, you never have to take what other people do personally it’s not about you at that point so it’s not a form of self abandonment it’s a form of self empowerment, which is actually the goal especially when there are wounds how are you going to heal by going around in circles worrying about what other people think of you worrying that they’re going to reject you they can reject away that has nothing to do with you as long as you keep your side of the fence clean at that point it’s oh well so what..
@@TruthIsNot4Sale yes. In this position and perspective, I would agree that if you can be conscious in that moment and know yourself and are with yourself, you can recognize the old energy or energy that you are no longer available to interact with, and move away/create boundaries for your own betterment and out of self love! I also agree that is the goal as well!
@TruthIsNot4Sale go for it if that's what you believe, but you don't. How do I know, it's all embedded in your statements, responses and response time.
your stick figure is a female symbol ♀
Oh how interesting! Also the symbol of venus! Something just popped into my head and I'll share... the idea of feminine energy in the process of doing this work.. Not gender of person.. the reality that every person has both feminine and masculine aspects and more so the symbolism... with that said.. the mini theory would be that the feminine aspect receives the information first to be assessed so that there can be action taken(masc) with more of a higher level of consciousness behind it.. rather than just taking action based on reaction! That was a fun lil idea adventure! Thanks for sharing this!
That was absolutely amazing Abby! You just blew my mind right there. Thank you for the insight ❤. I'm binge watching your videos now! Happy Easter 🐰 🐣
She wasted my time
😂 What were you expecting that you didn't get?
@@AbbyRustonyou were fabulous here...Abby love from Delhi India
Alright, genius, keep your code to yourself and don't clutter up my feed.
hmmm, I shared them in the 3 steps. Did you get to that part?
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If I visualise being with someone, and really believe it and manifest it, that means the other person had no say or control over it. I’d like to be with someone who actually wants to be rather than casting some wacky spell over them.
Everyone has free will. There is a big myth that manifesting is forcing someone and controlling them. Manifesting is revealing our inner beliefs in our outside world.. If part of someone’s plan involves forcing someone to do something.. that in itself gives away power.. and that lack of power will be manifest in rejection or not being seen.. which sometimes makes ppl feel more desperate and that that have to TRY to force someone to be with them.. This is the source of lots of suffering based on a distortion of how energy actually works in my opinion and experience. What I’m sharing is to get clear on yourself and to be internally oriented so that you can more accurately see yourself your power and reality
@slapmyfunkybass That’s not actually how it works. You’re attracting a version of them which is aligned with the version of you. You are not the same person second to second. Your confident version and inconfident version are two different versions of you on two different realities. You can choose to shift to a timeline where you are confident, where what you want wants you back etc. You are not changing any reality. You are just jumping across possible worlds/ timelines
@@Gmmmgm Maybe they don’t want to to be with any version of me. The point remains, if I manifest being with someone and it happens, they had no say in it. Either we can control our reality or not.
@@slapmyfunkybass then you are manifesting a life line where they don’t want to be with any version of you. It’s still your choice and you are still manifesting it. According to this metaphysics, of course. You don’t need to buy into the manifestation metaphysics, but if you do, there is no ethical problem within it, is all I am saying. You are always already manifesting, the good and the bad. It’s not as if the bad is happening to you while you are calling in the good. You are calling in both, you are responsible for both, it is all your choice.
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INTERNET PERSON!! Hello! Good to hear from you and glad you enjoyed it! You can do this! 🔥🔥🔥
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YESS!! Thank you for this! This video took me awhile to create bc I had no idea to explain something I experienced and helped me so much. It actually took me two different efforts to record and to hear it connected really makes me happy!! ❤️❤️😃
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