Thanks Abby. My parents were fine but it was my school which was traumatic. I was put in the most elite school of the country but I did not come from an elite or super rich background. The divide between them and me was felt keenly and to this day I try to win the approval of the super elite folks though it is much better now and I have worked on myself enough.
The fact that you can see, this is the first step. You are a miracle, and your life is so much more meaning, and purpose than anything that any elite group could give you. I mean, the funny thing is, you could become a billionaire, and you would still not be accepted. Any day now you’re gonna laugh at that. In the meantime, just know that there are billions of people on the planet I would be happy to know you and we gladly accept you and love you exactly the way you are. Just ask yourself this question: is royalty real? I mean, kings and queens and princesses, somehow better than you or me or different…? They’re treated that way, but isn’t it kind of silly? Look, there’s no doubt that there are the answers to being part of the elite. You get the best education, the best vacation homes, and you get to do a lot of fun things that come with having plenty of money. But only thing that matters is what you accomplish yourself. Think of all the thousands and thousands of people have been to Choate or Harvard. It seems like a big deal for about 30 seconds. But what matters is what they’ve done with their lives. What matters is who they have become. What matters is… Have they absorbed the wisdom of the ages that they’ve been exposed to and are they embodying, wisdom, and compassion and the search for beauty and justice in their lives? We are all being programmed every moment that we are awake and probably when we’re asleep. When you look at the Earth from the moon… There is no elite. There are no elite schools. And no one is any better than anyone else. I will say that there is a way in which rich and elite people have a mindset advantage, as well as a kind of social logical advantage of being surrounded by other people who are high achievers, and who have access to money. So that even if they lose whatever they have, they have a certain kind of confident that they can re-create it and get it back. If you’re watching this video… You’re probably in the right place to begin reprogramming yourself. This is your planet, this is your very precious life… and you belong here. 🌎🌍🌏🌞
This is why I don’t believe in school vouchers. Kids should go to school with kids in their neighborhood and with kids in their economic level. I always looked at the girls who dressed nice and had things that my mom couldn’t afford to buy for me and I felt lack and I’m sure they looked down on me
I'm glad you've been able to heal. I'm curious, what did your parents say when you shared what happened at school with them? Did your parents also feel divided among their peers or at work? Do you remember any sort of messaging about the "rich people" or a huge focus you had to be around the elite to be able to succeed in life?
@@AbbyRuston It’s quite complicated and different from western culture. Just for context in South Asia education is something which in any case belongs to the more or less middle class or the upper middle class. There are vast swathes of the country who are not educated at all. Christian missionaries set up great schools in the Indian sub continent. These convent school have become like what you would call private schools in England and they are modelled on British schools. Now my family might not be Uber rich but they are middle class. They knew that a good education is a ticket to a better life , hence though they knew that cultural differences might occur they still wanted me to go to that school. Btw my mother also studied in the same school and she also suffers/d from the same issues as me so it might be a generational thing. Education in my family is something which is held in high regard so things like mental health or anything else doesn’t even feature because it is a populous country and to do well here is very very difficult. They do acknowledge this and both me and my mom actually bond over it. But I’ve learned to heal from it and so has my mum. So much so that now she is on the board of governors of that very same school. There was a period of time, a long time when I hated the rich but at that time I was also stuck between worlds because after 18 years of seeing and mixing with that society closely I could no longer recognise or connect with middle class people and I also in turn looked down on other such people as well , not overtly but covertly. It was bad I know. But now I have actually healed quite a bit . I don’t hate the extra privileged because they also have problems and sometimes they are reallly really terrible problems and neither do I look down on anyone else. Mostly everyone is suffering. Everyone is a unique individual. But yeah though I recognise my patterns it is so deep seated that it takes a lot of introspection and meditation and really questioning myself to not be carried away by all this.
A couple of weeks back, I had a major (and I mean MAJOR) shift re: carrying around the energies of guilt, shame, and being bad. Still to this day since I was a kid, I l.o.a.t.h.e the word "bad" with a passion! But it's getting better - not such a strong response in my body anymore. Neville Goddard rocks 🧑🎤💥, and so do you. Thanks Abby 🧑🎤💥.
SO HAPPY TO HEAR THIS!! Shedding all that isn't you and as you do the old words and triggers won't effect you the same. That liberation is life changing!
Thank you so much. This must've literally been the piece I needed in the way you just explained it. My manifestations have literally become flawless once I took back ownership and started talking to little me with the knowledge that I now know. Granted I've been on this path for 20 years , but this really really helped. The seeing parents as peers was awesome for me... crazy thing is I knew all of this but never applied it to my parents when I was young.i love it. I love my life and we are awesome!
Hey Abby...your videos have been a beacon of light during my darkest moments, for the past two years, I've found solace and inspiration in your content, which has helped me overcome challenging times. I remember you even made a personalized playlist for me when I commented on one of your videos regarding sp related issues😭. Fast-forward to now... we're in a happy n healthy 11 month relationship now. But I do need your help regarding something... I've started overthinking a lot regarding his past and all the mistakes he made...even tho he's a completely changed person now... whose in love with me, but still I'm holding back into those hurtful memories related to his past and from 2022 and 2023 begining (including a 3p tho they were never actually together). Your insights would mean the world to me... kindly guide me thru it..or if possible make a video abt such topic 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hello! You have been on my mind! Thank you for following up bc responding to this has been on my mind! Thank you so very much for sharing how this channel and videos have helped. It is so powerful and inspiring to hear for me! In regards to your question! Now, are you scared that he will repeat the old mistakes? Does it feel uncomfortable to be happy? are you use to something bad coming along to ruin your happiness? Have you felt heard in regards to your pain and experience in regards to the old mistakes? Or did you feel you had to hold it in and just suck it up in order for the relationship to work? If you don't feel comfortable answer these on here, you can email me the responses at AbbyRustonYT@gmail.com I'll be able to offer more insight after I get a better understanding of your experience right now!
Wow! Thank you Abby! I really like the way you broke everything down, and explained it in easy to understand language. I discovered the Law Of Attraction 10 years ago, and have spent most of my time since trying to imagine the things I want into my life. It has led to feelings of frustration and exasperation, as no matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t manifest what I wanted. To the point where I felt like giving up. This video really helps to explain the subject matter so well, it’s given me hope that I CAN get what I want. ❤
The more you can understand the deeper dynamic... where the impulse is really coming from to get the approval, you can break free of chasing your partner and take your attention to the part of you who needs the healing and support from the old dynamic. It IS possible and you do deserve it! You got this!!!
What an incredible message to get! Thank you so much for taking the time to share this with me. I can relate completely! I am so happy and so excited for you!! You CAN do this and you deserve everything that you want!
Thanks Abby. My parents were fine but it was my school which was traumatic. I was put in the most elite school of the country but I did not come from an elite or super rich background. The divide between them and me was felt keenly and to this day I try to win the approval of the super elite folks though it is much better now and I have worked on myself enough.
The fact that you can see, this is the first step. You are a miracle, and your life is so much more meaning, and purpose than anything that any elite group could give you. I mean, the funny thing is, you could become a billionaire, and you would still not be accepted. Any day now you’re gonna laugh at that. In the meantime, just know that there are billions of people on the planet I would be happy to know you and we gladly accept you and love you exactly the way you are.
Just ask yourself this question: is royalty real? I mean, kings and queens and princesses, somehow better than you or me or different…? They’re treated that way, but isn’t it kind of silly? Look, there’s no doubt that there are the answers to being part of the elite. You get the best education, the best vacation homes, and you get to do a lot of fun things that come with having plenty of money. But only thing that matters is what you accomplish yourself. Think of all the thousands and thousands of people have been to Choate or Harvard. It seems like a big deal for about 30 seconds. But what matters is what they’ve done with their lives. What matters is who they have become. What matters is… Have they absorbed the wisdom of the ages that they’ve been exposed to and are they embodying, wisdom, and compassion and the search for beauty and justice in their lives?
We are all being programmed every moment that we are awake and probably when we’re asleep. When you look at the Earth from the moon… There is no elite. There are no elite schools. And no one is any better than anyone else.
I will say that there is a way in which rich and elite people have a mindset advantage, as well as a kind of social logical advantage of being surrounded by other people who are high achievers, and who have access to money. So that even if they lose whatever they have, they have a certain kind of confident that they can re-create it and get it back. If you’re watching this video… You’re probably in the right place to begin reprogramming yourself. This is your planet, this is your very precious life… and you belong here. 🌎🌍🌏🌞
This is why I don’t believe in school vouchers. Kids should go to school with kids in their neighborhood and with kids in their economic level. I always looked at the girls who dressed nice and had things that my mom couldn’t afford to buy for me and I felt lack and I’m sure they looked down on me
Your life is boys over flowers (anime)
I'm glad you've been able to heal. I'm curious, what did your parents say when you shared what happened at school with them? Did your parents also feel divided among their peers or at work? Do you remember any sort of messaging about the "rich people" or a huge focus you had to be around the elite to be able to succeed in life?
@@AbbyRuston It’s quite complicated and different from western culture. Just for context in South Asia education is something which in any case belongs to the more or less middle class or the upper middle class. There are vast swathes of the country who are not educated at all. Christian missionaries set up great schools in the Indian sub continent. These convent school have become like what you would call private schools in England and they are modelled on British schools. Now my family might not be Uber rich but they are middle class. They knew that a good education is a ticket to a better life , hence though they knew that cultural differences might occur they still wanted me to go to that school. Btw my mother also studied in the same school and she also suffers/d from the same issues as me so it might be a generational thing. Education in my family is something which is held in high regard so things like mental health or anything else doesn’t even feature because it is a populous country and to do well here is very very difficult. They do acknowledge this and both me and my mom actually bond over it. But I’ve learned to heal from it and so has my mum. So much so that now she is on the board of governors of that very same school. There was a period of time, a long time when I hated the rich but at that time I was also stuck between worlds because after 18 years of seeing and mixing with that society closely I could no longer recognise or connect with middle class people and I also in turn looked down on other such people as well , not overtly but covertly. It was bad I know. But now I have actually healed quite a bit . I don’t hate the extra privileged because they also have problems and sometimes they are reallly really terrible problems and neither do I look down on anyone else. Mostly everyone is suffering. Everyone is a unique individual. But yeah though I recognise my patterns it is so deep seated that it takes a lot of introspection and meditation and really questioning myself to not be carried away by all this.
A couple of weeks back, I had a major (and I mean MAJOR) shift re: carrying around the energies of guilt, shame, and being bad. Still to this day since I was a kid, I l.o.a.t.h.e the word "bad" with a passion! But it's getting better - not such a strong response in my body anymore.
Neville Goddard rocks 🧑🎤💥, and so do you. Thanks Abby 🧑🎤💥.
SO HAPPY TO HEAR THIS!! Shedding all that isn't you and as you do the old words and triggers won't effect you the same. That liberation is life changing!
You really tied it all together Abby! Thank you 😊 you’re brilliant ✨
🙌🏼🙌🏼 Thanks for the love! The more I see the common thread the more obvious our power really is! We can all do this!!
This came at a perfect time around Mother's Day.
So happy to hear this!
You have a special charm in your connection and delivery- thanks 🙏
Thank you so much for your kind words. I really appreciate your time watching this video and taking the time to share this with me 🙏
Excellent video! Bravo! 👍
Thank you, i so needed this ❤
So happy to hear that! That you for watching!
Thank you Abbey. You have the gift of teaching and thanks for another wonderful video!
Thanks so much for your love and kindness!
Thank you so much. This must've literally been the piece I needed in the way you just explained it. My manifestations have literally become flawless once I took back ownership and started talking to little me with the knowledge that I now know. Granted I've been on this path for 20 years , but this really really helped. The seeing parents as peers was awesome for me... crazy thing is I knew all of this but never applied it to my parents when I was young.i love it. I love my life and we are awesome!
Hey Abby...your videos have been a beacon of light during my darkest moments, for the past two years, I've found solace and inspiration in your content, which has helped me overcome challenging times. I remember you even made a personalized playlist for me when I commented on one of your videos regarding sp related issues😭. Fast-forward to now... we're in a happy n healthy 11 month relationship now. But I do need your help regarding something... I've started overthinking a lot regarding his past and all the mistakes he made...even tho he's a completely changed person now... whose in love with me, but still I'm holding back into those hurtful memories related to his past and from 2022 and 2023 begining (including a 3p tho they were never actually together). Your insights would mean the world to me... kindly guide me thru it..or if possible make a video abt such topic 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hello! You have been on my mind! Thank you for following up bc responding to this has been on my mind! Thank you so very much for sharing how this channel and videos have helped. It is so powerful and inspiring to hear for me! In regards to your question! Now, are you scared that he will repeat the old mistakes? Does it feel uncomfortable to be happy? are you use to something bad coming along to ruin your happiness? Have you felt heard in regards to your pain and experience in regards to the old mistakes? Or did you feel you had to hold it in and just suck it up in order for the relationship to work? If you don't feel comfortable answer these on here, you can email me the responses at AbbyRustonYT@gmail.com I'll be able to offer more insight after I get a better understanding of your experience right now!
Another great revelation transferred. Thanks Abby!
YES!! So happy to hear that! Time to let go of all the ideas that aren't true about you!! 🥳🥳
👏👏👏I’m doin it! Wooo! ❤
I love how you explain these scientific principles in an easy to understand way!!
So glad it's bringing clarity! Blending them and understanding how they all work together helped me tremendously!
I'm glad that circumstances have led to you making so many great videos!
What a beautiful perspective! Thanks so much for shedding light on this idea to me and for watching!
You are Amazing Abby! Thank you
Thank you for watching and for your kind words! What you see in me is also in you!
Great video Abby! Love watching them.
Thanks so much for the love and for watching 🙌🏼 so glad you are here
Wow! Thank you Abby! I really like the way you broke everything down, and explained it in easy to understand language. I discovered the Law Of Attraction 10 years ago, and have spent most of my time since trying to imagine the things I want into my life. It has led to feelings of frustration and exasperation, as no matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t manifest what I wanted. To the point where I felt like giving up. This video really helps to explain the subject matter so well, it’s given me hope that I CAN get what I want. ❤
Ohhh yes… attracting a completely incompatible partner im seeking approval from 😵💫 def gonna work on this thanks Abby 🤍🤍
The more you can understand the deeper dynamic... where the impulse is really coming from to get the approval, you can break free of chasing your partner and take your attention to the part of you who needs the healing and support from the old dynamic. It IS possible and you do deserve it! You got this!!!
What an incredible message to get! Thank you so much for taking the time to share this with me. I can relate completely! I am so happy and so excited for you!! You CAN do this and you deserve everything that you want!
Lovely. And you are right
🙏 Thanks for the love!
Great job of explaining this!!
Thanks so much for watching and for taking the time to share this!
Thank you Abby.
🙏 So glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for watching and being here!
Awesome stuff as always ❤
G'DAY Mate!! So good to hear from you!! I always appreciate you being here and your support! Thank you as aways for being here and for watching!
@@AbbyRuston lovely seeing your videos, I was busy finishing off uni but now I'm back 😎🦘🤠
@@gingerdad127 congratulations to you on finishing the semester!!
@@AbbyRuston Thank You for your kindness 💓❤️
Abby, we missed you🩷✨
I am back! Got another video coming soon!
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Thank you!
🙏 Thank you so much for being here and watching!
Very good video, Abby 😊
So glad you enjoyed it! Thanks so much for watching and taking the time to share this with me!
very clear explanation
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Sorry, Abby. I should have looked at the spelling of your name and not trust the voice Tron.
😂😂 What is the voice of tron?
111 th like!!!! Hehehe ❤
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Very well explained. Thank you.
🙏 I appreciate you watching and sharing this with me! So glad you enjoyed it!
Great video Abby
So glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for watching you and being here!