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Can you guys do a episode on gender equality in the music industry? I've heard alot of takes on this topic but i would like to hear what you guys think about it... 😌☺️
Yeah. I second her. The aspect of gender in the music industry should be interesting and again, something that needs to be talked about Love love love the podcast. Very real and love to see them talking honestly about everything. You guys are setting a good precedent. Also guys. STREAM Gunshot!!
You asked if there's a subject that we'd like to hear your take on... so how about you guys go a little "Jae from Day6" and tell us what conspiracy theories you find the most believable? You know, bigfoot, loch ness monster, moon landing hoax, aliens, etc... might make for some fun conversation
More idols should do this so people will see this side of them because I think people dont realize the fact that they are human too and have feelings. Like you said they are not worlds away they are just like you and I. That's why I dislike gossip and sasengs because just because they are idols and make it big doesnt mean they stop being human.
I totally agree with you. Content like these make me realize how human they actually are and how they at some point went through similar things as me. The question I've been wondering the most is, how do they do it? How do they keep up with everything and do so well? I know there's A LOT of pressure and that's exactly what I want to talk about. If I ever get to meet an idol I would want to ask so many questions and just listen to their story. Their true story. Right from their heart.
Initially, cancel culture was used to call out actual trash/toxic people but in recent times it’s changed into something more. Now it’s used irrationally & incorrectly & it leads to a lot of unnecessary damage. I won’t lie though, Peniel was very right. Cancel culture can be educational to a *certain extent*. People do make mistakes and hopefully learn/grow from them, however when said people refuse to acknowledge their mistakes, it shows what type of person they truly are. I hope we could eventually change cancel culture into something more progressive & educational.
Right now I feel like those people who make « call out » tweets/ posts just want the approval of the people around, like « Omg facts » « Queen », stuff like that, they just want people to acknowledge them
That's how I feel as well. Some things that are called out are indeed wrong, they need to be acknowledged and not be repeat again. But sometimes, people are canceled over small things that are easily fixed. I see stuff like that on Twitter nearly every time an idol/group has a comeback and many accounts are goaded by others to not stan them because they're "problematic," listing this and that to prove that they're horrible people.
Totally agree. It’s like some people just learned the term cancel culture and are now throwing it around when someone makes a genuine mistake. Also when people try to better themselves or apologize a lot of people don’t hear them out bc they’re “cancelled” and it’s really damaging. People should call others out if they’re doing something that hurts a group of people but not completely bash and degrade them like some people do now
I feel like we should honestly just say "Accountability culture" 'cause some folks out here are consistently harming others, make non apologies and never change. Then there's also folks who've done things like target children to groom them or pressure children to send in NSFW images of themselves-and those folks really need to be held accountable along with not having such a big platform. When back in the day the same folks would've just gotten away with it. (Unfortunately some of the people doing actual crimes against humanity still have a platform.)
I WANT A "MEME REVIEW" EPISODE!!! Like I'd love to hear a full 40 min discussion by them on just memes. Like there influence and impact on modern society, how they started in recent times, what their fav memes are.
I swear Peniel is the chilliest and most down to earth dude ever! ✨ Ashley is such a cutie and she always sounds and looks so genuine and worried about her friends (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤ And BM is the kinda guy who looks scary when you first see him but once you actually get to know him he is a big soft gummy bear 🐻 I love this podcast, y'all are great people with strong personalities 💎 keep going guys 5⭐
I understand we have an opinion, but bm doesn't look scary. Just because he's a bigger dude, and I mean muscular, doesn't make him scary. Sorry, not being rude, but your comment bothered me.
@@nori81t41 oh you're not being rude at all, I think I wasn't quite clear on what I said. It's not scary in the way of I would run from him because I'm afraid, it's more in the sense of he looks intimidating, I don't think if I didn't knew him that I would approach him first.
Totally agree with Peniel, people tend to be different online compared to in real life. The online personas I've encountered: Those fake ones who only post things to make you think they're living their best life but the reality is completely different. The ones that are always in the middle of some drama and have no shame in what they post. The fitness fanatics. The mind guru's. The funny guy, always posting funny shit. The serial liker but no comments. The straight up guys who say it how it is.
Oh I forgot about these ones: The online bully. The ones that think they're always right and try to force their opinion/ideals down your throat. The controversial poster e.g. politics, religion, anything that's not PC.
The worst part of cancel culture is that it leaves no room for people to learn and change.. just like you guys pointed out that runs the risk of people not wanting to educate themselves cause what's the point no one's going to give them a second chance anyways 🙄
An example is that guy who dissed BTS back then. What he did was wrong and I’m not justifying him but do you think he will EVER have a career now? ARMIES will harass him forever. I kinda feel bad for him cuz we all make mistakes
Uh no cancel culture is for the opposite. It’s to hold people accountable so that they’re MORE likely to change. People should only be cancelled though if they actually haven’t changed yet
@@ComedyGlor When ever I go on twitter or social media, especially with the whole keeho thing, they literally accuse him for doing things we don't even know is true, and are saying things like "His career ended before it even started" "Im going to create accounts to hate on him. Cancelled" etc. Cancel culture is commonly to cancel someones career, and not let them change. Barely any people use "cancelling" for change.
I would LOVE an episode on the 16 personalities and comparing your personality type to your actual behaviors and decisions in life, and how you could improve them.... this topic might sound a little absurd and unrelated to early adulthood issues but it really is the key to everything we go through and how we deal with it.... Hope you see my comment. LOVE YOUUUUU ❤️❤️❤️
okay, i dunno who needs to hear this and imma sound like a mom rn, but to those people who are thinking of meeting someone you met online, make sure to share your location with your fam or friends, google maps has an option to share your location where they can see it in real time. also, this is prob obvious, but let people know basic details about the person, where you're going, what time you're supposed to meet, etc, you can never be too safe in those situations! and like they said meet somewhere public, not the back alley of a MCD lol
Guys, we're not celebrities obliged to have Instagram, Twitter or the likes. Likes doesn't measure self worth, it's good to remember, especially in these shallow times.
the excitement i get when there’s a new get real ep notif is insane- this podcast has been so fun to watch and im so glad you guys started it together. I LOVE YALL SO MUCH
ASHLEY IS SO RIGHT. CANCEL CULTURE IS SO STUPID and if people don't like someone just quietly unfollow or hate them. Don't make people hate them too just because you hate them. Like seriously people
but keep in mind that people like shane dawson/jefree star/tana mongeau and other really bad people need to be publicly called out and people need to know how terrible they are and stop supporting them completely. because people can do it quietly but they will still thrive if they aren't called out publically.
fatethebean true. Cancel culture is not perfect. But this is just one way for people to be held accountable since “regular” people have no power over celebrities or people in power. So i think people in this comment section and the speakers in this video should see cancel culture as not black or white but more gray. This is one way people can only get justice. Unfortunately some ppl who don’t deserve to get cancelled do get cancelled. WE NEED MORE NUANCE. And critical thinking.
i've been spamming everything i could letting people know how wonderful ashley's youtube channel is. her adulting series video she posted yesterday was particularly charming. you should, if you have not done so already, stan tf out of. you're welcome.
Sarah T I think it’s more on the side of staying educated. BM is Korean but also American with a lot of different types of fans from everywhere. I think he cares about staying informed because he cares about upsetting people.
Yes. It's like it's sad he has to be afraid of that but I also like that he is responsible as well like he actually cares and stuff if that makes sense unlike some celebs who don't care or don't see anything wrong with what they do
on one side of me it's sad because he has to do that and he doesn't want to like....mess up... but on my other hand it makes me feel kinda....happy...a little...?? I don't know.... I like that he cares about that and wants to stay informed about he should and shouldn't do....😢😢🤧❤️❤️✨
i deleted all my social media accounts this year and it was the best thing i did. being active on social media started to feel like noise to me and i was just causing myself unnecessary stress and anxiety so i deleted them all. i made new accounts just to keep up with current events and artists i like but that’s all i do. i don’t post anything on there. i might have zero followers but i feel so at peace
That was exactly what i did too.. i do have other account in the instagram, i felt like it was more of a pressure than a entertainment so i just stopped using it. But after that i suddenly felt outdated so i recently made another new account just to follow celebrities and no other people really know about that account..
Bibhuti Adhikari yeah i find social media more fun that way. i was very active on kpop stan twitter and that place was an absolute hell hole lol i honestly should’ve left sooner but i’m glad i did. as for instagram, i mostly followed people from high school and i’m like “i don’t even like any of you. why do i still feel obligated to follow y’all when we literally haven’t spoken in 6 years”. it was a combination of that and other personal things that just made me no longer wanna be active
@@xialenlouisse truu dat.. i am a whole lot kpop stan so as many of the idols were pretty active on twitter, i too wanted to give it a try.. but dayuummm like i went crazy the moment i stepped into it. People were being stupid and mean for absolute no reason so i just yeeted out cuz that place was surely not made for me..
I can listen to Peniel talking 24X7 he's the funniest, SO wise and chill in all the right proportions. Love that, keep going. Love this podcast. Ashley and BM I love your vibeeees.
I wish they would recognize that there are some “comments” that are blatantly racist, and many of these people don’t learn and return to their platform so we NEED to bring attention to some things. I do understand the need to acknowledge that people abuse the whole idea of “canceling” someone, but these people do need to be held accountable for certain “comments”.
Yes i see what you mean but i dont think they deserve to be cancelled. Just slowly unstan the person and block them and such, Thats why we see alot of # used to educate and posts and trust me im a muslim asian living in america, I know how it feels to hear racism towards you
New podcast uploaded! Yaaay! Funny because i was busy listening to Peniel’s That Girl and Fly23 when the notification popped out. 😂 Guys! Listen to Peniel’s songs (and BTOB) too! They’re great!!!
I’m loving this podcast so much since the first episode because they are so relatable. I usually check out every episode in UA-cam first and then listen to it on Spotify, ‘cause I gotta see their reactions and ngl their visuals XD
I wont be satisfied with just listening to spotify, I want to see their reactions that's why I dont mind watching this even though I already know what their talking about HAHAHA
I was like Peniel when I was a kid. I was always outside, me and friends pulled apart our wood fences just to make a tree house, hit the beach with friends every weekend, skating to the skate park an hour away, skating in the mall and almost getting security on our ass, staying at the public pool for hours, swimming at our town waterfall and more 😂😂 even started a cow and goat patty fight, my childhood was colourful as hell compared to some of these kids stuck on devices
MinieAnne I have three younger siblings a whole continent of cousins and their friends, also my all of my friends siblings and their friends, do the same thing. Stay inside, on their devices. And there are never any kids playing on the street....but ok
@@MinieAnne he did not generalized the whole f*cking generation. He said "SOME OF THESE KIDS" which is also very evident right now. Low reading comprehension.
Back in 2008 I've met friends online, 2 years later we met at a kpop concert. We're in 2020 I am still very good friends with them. I am so happy I have met them. We don't even live in the same cities but we still call each other, goes to each other's houses for holidays (not that often though cause I live far away). So ok, be careful, but online friends can be good friends too!
I genuinely can't thank dive studios enough for giving us this podcast.. We got to know all three of them I'd say closely in ways we couldn't have. Thank you Dive 💚💚 And to the trio.. 💗 You guys are amazing. It feels like sitting with friends and talkin about stuff casually and as transparently as we can.
Since the beginning of this year especially insta became a way for me to stay updated with activism, like about climate change, black lives matter, lgbtq+ rights, feminism,... and news as well. Stories are a good way to share stuff that's important to yourself with others. And I really like to see that quite a lot of the ppl I follow share the same values and are open to learn more every day
3:47 "if I say too much..its like you shouldn't have said that" That's so true. I remember jae from day6 use to say the least on twitter and everybody loved him but I think he's spending too much time on there he's slowly seeing the toxic side of twt
I'm thankful for their honesty, is the first time (EVER) hearing idols been so open with their opinions and lives. Please, keep doing great and teaching fans how human idols are 💙 Massive love
Everyone need to see this episode specially kpop fans those days being so toxic and attacking everyone out for almost no reason !! I hope we all gonna be careful and more respectful with each other, case we start attacking others people without knowing of us like how they look or they dancing Skills when we have no right to judge anyone for anything except light them up about their mistakes, let’s be more careful and positive with everyone 🙏🏽💙💙🤍🤍
yess i used to relate to ashley about the thing about obsessing over instagram captions and photos and how my feed would look. years ago, i would spend hours trying to think of a witty caption and edit the picture in a way that would make both me and my feed look nice. i remember, one day, i realized that i literally spent HOURS obsessing over how to make this one instagram post look good, and that's when i told myself that i will no longer post on instagram anymore. i cared way too much about what other people thought. i don't even have a pfp on instagram anymore because i don't have a photo of myself that i like, and i can't be bothered to spend an unnecessary amount of time trying to find one. literally, people don't even take more than 5 seconds looking at your pfp and your ig posts. i don't even spend more than 5 seconds looking at someone's photos. i really just like their photo and go
Talk about awkwardness between colleagues like when you were training and had to meet people and meeting people outside your group maybe forcing yourself to be an extravert awkwardness on variety shows forcing yourself to become a outgoing person
I am actually a BTOB fan and loves to watch anything that involves any members of the group. So I am super happy seeing Peniel on this. However, separately I watched Ashley’s youtube videos even before and she’s so relatable. And from sometime, I liked BM guesting on Eric’s podcast because I find him an intellectual. So what I am trying to say here is I LOVE THESE THREE PEOPLE DOING WORK TOGETHER. LIKE PLEASE MAKE THIS PODCAST ETERNAL BECAUSE EVERY EPISODE ADDS UP TO MY LIFE. Thank youuuuuu in advance PDnim 🙌
I fell in love with this show at first episode. It’s like the cultural barrier and the “filter” are taken off (not fully obviously but still) and it’s really... refreshing (? to hear idols talk about this kind of topics
I love the fact that you guys discuss such important topics which us as fans should know. I'm happy to say I've listened to all your episodes and I hope more people listen to it and internalise it instead of just letting it in one ear and out the other. 5 stars to you guys
Ohhh my God team Notification I have been craving for that episode😭😭 was about to sleep since I finished studying but no no sleeping can be delayed but get real podcast can't I am so excited 🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤
I've been off social media for 6 months now (even on UA-cam I turned off notifications of likes and comment replies) and it was the best decision ever. I think we all forget we used to read the news, to talk to our friends and to share our achievements before social media came around. There is life outside of it. I'm fortunate enough to not need it for my professional career, but honestly I couldn't justify the amount of time I used to spend there. It's time I'll never get back and that I could use to be a better person, to educate myself, etc.
I absolutely loved the topic of this podcast. I have to say that I agree with what they said on cancel culture. People do tend to go overboard with it. People need to be educated on what they should and shouldn't do or say, but going to the point of "you will never be forgiven even if you're genuinely sorry and trying to change your ways" is so toxic.
honestly it’s scary stanning someone because you don’t know personally because what has happened with aoa’s jimin and big bang’s seungri...you don’t know how they are. actions speak louder than words. sometimes fans don’t know how someone’s true character is.
jen with luv same, I don't get how some fans can be like "blah-blah-blah is so nice and kind, like the most generous person I know", because they don't actually know them, as fans only see the side of idols that they show. Especially when they are in a very controlled environment (same goes for any media person who you only see in their persona)
@@Sonic-zc8kj yea like some fans are so obsessed with thier idols like it's really necessary for them to know how the idols are like in real life but theirs no source so you better not get obsessed with your idol cause when I was 11 I was obsessed with XYZ idol
It's kinda funny to me when BM said Instagram more like just for posting pictures (which it is), and Twitter be kinda toxic because it was all conversation. But Instagram is kinda the toxic one for me, all the pictures and aesthetic things make me feel the need catch up with trend and post the best of best of me then people be looking and judging the pic i post. Meanwhile twitter is my self place where I can let out anything on my mind the way it is and nobody cares enough to judge (except the immature fan war going on). People on twitter is harsh but they're honest, only say when they meant it, but on Ig people would say "pretty" just to get the compliment back on their post. But I get what he meant too, the critique is sometimes "extreme" for idols to the point it is being toxic. meanwhile on Ig they're mostly the one who sets the trend and people catch up with them (tho they still need to be careful too). Well, no offence nor hard feeling. that's only my opinion.
23:05 Ashley is so right. People need to learn everybody is different. If you love someone that doesn't mean everybody gonna love her/him. People need to learn respect to others thoughts and feelings
regarding online safety: if you're communicating with a stranger online for the purposes of friendship, dating, hooking up, business opportunities, whatever, run it by your friends first. open that up and get through the awkward conversation with them, because it's better than taking an unnecessary risk. now, if you all come to a certain conclusion and it ends up being wrong, that means you and your circle of friends are collectively dumb. and trust me, that's a learning experience money can't buy.👍
i think its like very common to meet or be friends with people online.. especially when you're in a Fandom... i mean fans interact all the time and they just sometimes meet up to concerts, events and etc. I mean its nice to have a friend that has the same interests.. but yeah sometimes its really scary too.. ☺️
Listening and relating to them just makes me laugh. They talk about heavy things in a lighter tone with positive outlook and comfort that what you've been through and going through is normal and it is okay. Thank you for another educating episode. Fighting ^^
Ahhhh I love them so much!! You can tell they’re as honest as possible while still being cared cuz we all know kpop industry is like walking on a tightrope a lot of the time. I just hope they won’t stress over sns that much and just enjoy it
I have to say this is my favorite podcast to listen to ! I feel like you guys are so relatable and the topics are pretty interesting. Also nooooo BM we live for you raw, real moments on SNS !! It’s refreshing to see a Kpop idol be so chill and open about things
I don't want to miss any episode of this podcast, I learn a lot not only about idols but how fans really react to idols. It's like Ashley, BM and Peniel are teachers to me. Haha. ❤️ Right now I use my sns for an update about my idols haha.
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Can you guys do a episode on gender equality in the music industry? I've heard alot of takes on this topic but i would like to hear what you guys think about it... 😌☺️
Yeah. I second her. The aspect of gender in the music industry should be interesting and again, something that needs to be talked about
Love love love the podcast. Very real and love to see them talking honestly about everything.
You guys are setting a good precedent.
Also guys. STREAM Gunshot!!
for real this 40ish minute video feels like only 15 minutes #wewantmore #please
Triller has put a bid on it, and it's in the billions.
You asked if there's a subject that we'd like to hear your take on... so how about you guys go a little "Jae from Day6" and tell us what conspiracy theories you find the most believable?
You know, bigfoot, loch ness monster, moon landing hoax, aliens, etc... might make for some fun conversation
I feel like all the idols in the Dive Studio are really relatable and they don't seem worlds apart from me anymore. They just feel.. closer
100% agree
More idols should do this so people will see this side of them because I think people dont realize the fact that they are human too and have feelings. Like you said they are not worlds away they are just like you and I. That's why I dislike gossip and sasengs because just because they are idols and make it big doesnt mean they stop being human.
sometimes i forgot that they are even Idols lol
I totally agree with you. Content like these make me realize how human they actually are and how they at some point went through similar things as me. The question I've been wondering the most is, how do they do it? How do they keep up with everything and do so well? I know there's A LOT of pressure and that's exactly what I want to talk about. If I ever get to meet an idol I would want to ask so many questions and just listen to their story. Their true story. Right from their heart.
Because they speak English. Mono-lingual Korean idols will always feel distant because of the language barrier.
Initially, cancel culture was used to call out actual trash/toxic people but in recent times it’s changed into something more. Now it’s used irrationally & incorrectly & it leads to a lot of unnecessary damage. I won’t lie though, Peniel was very right. Cancel culture can be educational to a *certain extent*. People do make mistakes and hopefully learn/grow from them, however when said people refuse to acknowledge their mistakes, it shows what type of person they truly are. I hope we could eventually change cancel culture into something more progressive & educational.
Right now I feel like those people who make « call out » tweets/ posts just want the approval of the people around, like « Omg facts » « Queen », stuff like that, they just want people to acknowledge them
That's how I feel as well. Some things that are called out are indeed wrong, they need to be acknowledged and not be repeat again. But sometimes, people are canceled over small things that are easily fixed.
I see stuff like that on Twitter nearly every time an idol/group has a comeback and many accounts are goaded by others to not stan them because they're "problematic," listing this and that to prove that they're horrible people.
Totally agree. It’s like some people just learned the term cancel culture and are now throwing it around when someone makes a genuine mistake. Also when people try to better themselves or apologize a lot of people don’t hear them out bc they’re “cancelled” and it’s really damaging. People should call others out if they’re doing something that hurts a group of people but not completely bash and degrade them like some people do now
this was perfectly explained, thank you :)
I feel like we should honestly just say "Accountability culture" 'cause some folks out here are consistently harming others, make non apologies and never change. Then there's also folks who've done things like target children to groom them or pressure children to send in NSFW images of themselves-and those folks really need to be held accountable along with not having such a big platform. When back in the day the same folks would've just gotten away with it.
(Unfortunately some of the people doing actual crimes against humanity still have a platform.)
Peniel said it, "TRUE FANS KNOW US."
Peniel to Matt: When Ashley asks you to take a picture for her, you just have to take a real bad one and she’s never gonna ask you again
Lmao x10000
At what time
@@ridhwanalli6727 41:11
I WANT A "MEME REVIEW" EPISODE!!! Like I'd love to hear a full 40 min discussion by them on just memes. Like there influence and impact on modern society, how they started in recent times, what their fav memes are.
Yes! I’d love to see this 😂 let’s get ashley on the latest memes
YES!!
Can we have this please? And maybe include Jae because he thinks he's a grandpa but he'd actually be caught up to them well 😂
Omg this!
Hell yeah the meme industry it'd be so fun 😂
I swear Peniel is the chilliest and most down to earth dude ever! ✨
Ashley is such a cutie and she always sounds and looks so genuine and worried about her friends (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
And BM is the kinda guy who looks scary when you first see him but once you actually get to know him he is a big soft gummy bear 🐻
I love this podcast, y'all are great people with strong personalities 💎 keep going guys 5⭐
I understand we have an opinion, but bm doesn't look scary. Just because he's a bigger dude, and I mean muscular, doesn't make him scary. Sorry, not being rude, but your comment bothered me.
@@nori81t41 oh you're not being rude at all, I think I wasn't quite clear on what I said. It's not scary in the way of I would run from him because I'm afraid, it's more in the sense of he looks intimidating, I don't think if I didn't knew him that I would approach him first.
@@uwu_ily I now understand what you were saying, and once again, wasn't trying to be rude at all, and if it came off that way, I apologize.😊
Totally agree with Peniel, people tend to be different online compared to in real life. The online personas I've encountered:
Those fake ones who only post things to make you think they're living their best life but the reality is completely different.
The ones that are always in the middle of some drama and have no shame in what they post.
The fitness fanatics.
The mind guru's.
The funny guy, always posting funny shit.
The serial liker but no comments.
The straight up guys who say it how it is.
Oh I forgot about these ones:
The online bully.
The ones that think they're always right and try to force their opinion/ideals down your throat.
The controversial poster e.g. politics, religion, anything that's not PC.
There was this one guy who seemed interesting online but irl he was honestly not as fun as he seemed :/
and im that fan account 😂
The worst part of cancel culture is that it leaves no room for people to learn and change.. just like you guys pointed out that runs the risk of people not wanting to educate themselves cause what's the point no one's going to give them a second chance anyways 🙄
An example is that guy who dissed BTS back then.
What he did was wrong and I’m not justifying him but do you think he will EVER have a career now?
ARMIES will harass him forever. I kinda feel bad for him cuz we all make mistakes
Uh no cancel culture is for the opposite. It’s to hold people accountable so that they’re MORE likely to change. People should only be cancelled though if they actually haven’t changed yet
@@ComedyGlor But most people just cancel people without giving them any chance for change. Cancel culture is dumb, honestly.
TheLaurie not from what I’ve seen
@@ComedyGlor When ever I go on twitter or social media, especially with the whole keeho thing, they literally accuse him for doing things we don't even know is true, and are saying things like "His career ended before it even started"
"Im going to create accounts to hate on him. Cancelled"
etc.
Cancel culture is commonly to cancel someones career, and not let them change. Barely any people use "cancelling" for change.
Peniel saying he's not good capturing people but he is the photographer for jacket album of changsub solo lollll
Idk why but this is the only podcast I listen/watch.
Same
Same here.
Same
yup
Try "Wind of Change?" It's an 8-episode series about music, politics, and spies.
BM be looking good in that shirt
sanseongi he be lookin good 24/7/365
sanseongi Radiating BIG PAPI energy
@@lorenlaconico8709 ur not wrong
I would LOVE an episode on the 16 personalities and comparing your personality type to your actual behaviors and decisions in life, and how you could improve them.... this topic might sound a little absurd and unrelated to early adulthood issues but it really is the key to everything we go through and how we deal with it.... Hope you see my comment. LOVE YOUUUUU ❤️❤️❤️
Yesss I would really like that.
THIS
Imane Sous yesss omg
!!!! Pls
With mbti, enneagram and star sign even 🤣 that would be fun
okay, i dunno who needs to hear this and imma sound like a mom rn, but to those people who are thinking of meeting someone you met online, make sure to share your location with your fam or friends, google maps has an option to share your location where they can see it in real time. also, this is prob obvious, but let people know basic details about the person, where you're going, what time you're supposed to meet, etc, you can never be too safe in those situations! and like they said meet somewhere public, not the back alley of a MCD lol
Guys, we're not celebrities obliged to have Instagram, Twitter or the likes. Likes doesn't measure self worth, it's good to remember, especially in these shallow times.
the excitement i get when there’s a new get real ep notif is insane- this podcast has been so fun to watch and im so glad you guys started it together. I LOVE YALL SO MUCH
ASHLEY IS SO RIGHT.
CANCEL CULTURE IS SO STUPID
and if people don't like someone just quietly unfollow or hate them.
Don't make people hate them too just because you hate them.
Like seriously people
Really tho and most of the time it's just misunderstandings!!!
Really tho and most of the time it's just misunderstandings!!!
and cancel culture doesnt even work when someone is actually problematic anywayd
but keep in mind that people like shane dawson/jefree star/tana mongeau and other really bad people need to be publicly called out and people need to know how terrible they are and stop supporting them completely. because people can do it quietly but they will still thrive if they aren't called out publically.
fatethebean true. Cancel culture is not perfect. But this is just one way for people to be held accountable since “regular” people have no power over celebrities or people in power. So i think people in this comment section and the speakers in this video should see cancel culture as not black or white but more gray. This is one way people can only get justice. Unfortunately some ppl who don’t deserve to get cancelled do get cancelled.
WE NEED MORE NUANCE. And critical thinking.
i've been spamming everything i could letting people know how wonderful ashley's youtube channel is. her adulting series video she posted yesterday was particularly charming. you should, if you have not done so already, stan tf out of.
you're welcome.
YES YES
Could you please tell me the name of her channel?
@@Naberehe "ashley b choi"
Her adulting series are so therapeutic
BM staying current on sns cause he don’t wanna slip up and get cancelled is basically what he sayin
Brittany Speaks That’s so depressing
Sarah T I think it’s more on the side of staying educated. BM is Korean but also American with a lot of different types of fans from everywhere. I think he cares about staying informed because he cares about upsetting people.
Yes. It's like it's sad he has to be afraid of that but I also like that he is responsible as well like he actually cares and stuff if that makes sense unlike some celebs who don't care or don't see anything wrong with what they do
on one side of me it's sad because he has to do that and he doesn't want to like....mess up... but on my other hand it makes me feel kinda....happy...a little...?? I don't know.... I like that he cares about that and wants to stay informed about he should and shouldn't do....😢😢🤧❤️❤️✨
Peniel be like: i-i don’t remember anything
👁👄👁
One of my favorite podcast, specially with these big 3 personality’s
Peniel is Like a Monk so Enlightened and Knowledgeable
Just found the podcast yesterday, and haven’t stopped watching since! Huge fan of BM.
i deleted all my social media accounts this year and it was the best thing i did. being active on social media started to feel like noise to me and i was just causing myself unnecessary stress and anxiety so i deleted them all. i made new accounts just to keep up with current events and artists i like but that’s all i do. i don’t post anything on there. i might have zero followers but i feel so at peace
That was exactly what i did too.. i do have other account in the instagram, i felt like it was more of a pressure than a entertainment so i just stopped using it. But after that i suddenly felt outdated so i recently made another new account just to follow celebrities and no other people really know about that account..
Bibhuti Adhikari yeah i find social media more fun that way. i was very active on kpop stan twitter and that place was an absolute hell hole lol i honestly should’ve left sooner but i’m glad i did. as for instagram, i mostly followed people from high school and i’m like “i don’t even like any of you. why do i still feel obligated to follow y’all when we literally haven’t spoken in 6 years”. it was a combination of that and other personal things that just made me no longer wanna be active
@@xialenlouisse truu dat.. i am a whole lot kpop stan so as many of the idols were pretty active on twitter, i too wanted to give it a try.. but dayuummm like i went crazy the moment i stepped into it. People were being stupid and mean for absolute no reason so i just yeeted out cuz that place was surely not made for me..
xialen louisse that's good decision
@@xialenlouisse kpop stan twitter is the worst place in twitter 😖
I can listen to Peniel talking 24X7 he's the funniest, SO wise and chill in all the right proportions. Love that, keep going. Love this podcast. Ashley and BM I love your vibeeees.
I wish they would recognize that there are some “comments” that are blatantly racist, and many of these people don’t learn and return to their platform so we NEED to bring attention to some things. I do understand the need to acknowledge that people abuse the whole idea of “canceling” someone, but these people do need to be held accountable for certain “comments”.
Yes i see what you mean but i dont think they deserve to be cancelled. Just slowly unstan the person and block them and such, Thats why we see alot of # used to educate and posts and trust me im a muslim asian living in america, I know how it feels to hear racism towards you
New podcast uploaded! Yaaay! Funny because i was busy listening to Peniel’s That Girl and Fly23 when the notification popped out. 😂 Guys! Listen to Peniel’s songs (and BTOB) too! They’re great!!!
my worst nightmare 25:27 this is the very reason why i don't post selfies on any sns anymore 😩
I’m loving this podcast so much since the first episode because they are so relatable. I usually check out every episode in UA-cam first and then listen to it on Spotify, ‘cause I gotta see their reactions and ngl their visuals XD
Ok lets be honest thats the best podcast in the world, Love this trio ❤
p.s: yeees BM im streaming gunshot like crazy dont worry🔥
I wont be satisfied with just listening to spotify, I want to see their reactions that's why I dont mind watching this even though I already know what their talking about HAHAHA
Never knew I needed BM with blond hair, and it's a completely different vibe, but looks SO good on him
Love this podcast! Listen and watch every week and am never disappointed. Also, stream Gunshot. It deserves better.
I was like Peniel when I was a kid. I was always outside, me and friends pulled apart our wood fences just to make a tree house, hit the beach with friends every weekend, skating to the skate park an hour away, skating in the mall and almost getting security on our ass, staying at the public pool for hours, swimming at our town waterfall and more 😂😂 even started a cow and goat patty fight, my childhood was colourful as hell compared to some of these kids stuck on devices
It's a very stereotype view on young but ok...
MinieAnne I have three younger siblings a whole continent of cousins and their friends, also my all of my friends siblings and their friends, do the same thing. Stay inside, on their devices. And there are never any kids playing on the street....but ok
@@marydavis5700 yeah but that's your experience not everyone so yeah you just generalize a whole generation....
@@MinieAnne he did not generalized the whole f*cking generation. He said "SOME OF THESE KIDS" which is also very evident right now. Low reading comprehension.
I'm Peniel I played outside. I lived under a rock during early 2000s music era.
I've never been into podcasts until now. You guys really have a way of making people feel comfortable. 👏👏👏🙌
"Go support Gunshot by KARD" yes to thisss. ♥️🙌
Back in 2008 I've met friends online, 2 years later we met at a kpop concert. We're in 2020 I am still very good friends with them. I am so happy I have met them. We don't even live in the same cities but we still call each other, goes to each other's houses for holidays (not that often though cause I live far away). So ok, be careful, but online friends can be good friends too!
bruh u can really see and feel their friendship every episodes! LOVE THAT
I genuinely can't thank dive studios enough for giving us this podcast.. We got to know all three of them I'd say closely in ways we couldn't have.
Thank you Dive 💚💚
And to the trio.. 💗 You guys are amazing. It feels like sitting with friends and talkin about stuff casually and as transparently as we can.
Since the beginning of this year especially insta became a way for me to stay updated with activism, like about climate change, black lives matter, lgbtq+ rights, feminism,... and news as well. Stories are a good way to share stuff that's important to yourself with others. And I really like to see that quite a lot of the ppl I follow share the same values and are open to learn more every day
3:47 "if I say too much..its like you shouldn't have said that"
That's so true. I remember jae from day6 use to say the least on twitter and everybody loved him but I think he's spending too much time on there he's slowly seeing the toxic side of twt
Oh my god soooo true..people saying mean things to him about his Insta live and all..there are so many toxic people out there
I was just waiting around for this.
Same I’m subscribed to the podcast on apple podcasts but I prefer to watch rather then just listen
@@annabelle371 I wanna see their expressions.. Peniel's does just crack me up.
I'm thankful for their honesty, is the first time (EVER) hearing idols been so open with their opinions and lives. Please, keep doing great and teaching fans how human idols are 💙
Massive love
Everyone need to see this episode specially kpop fans those days being so toxic and attacking everyone out for almost no reason !! I hope we all gonna be careful and more respectful with each other, case we start attacking others people without knowing of us like how they look or they dancing Skills when we have no right to judge anyone for anything except light them up about their mistakes, let’s be more careful and positive with everyone 🙏🏽💙💙🤍🤍
My takeouts:
Don't take good pictures of friends who love taking pictures of themselves 😁
People behind their posts have struggles too 👍
Gunshot is one massive hit Mathew good work!!
Also blonde looks good on you...완전 멋있어요🙌🏽
This podcast is soooooooooooooooo refreshing. Seeing them talk about these issues so freely, it's like having a cold cola during a very hot day.
These three wholesome people
yess i used to relate to ashley about the thing about obsessing over instagram captions and photos and how my feed would look. years ago, i would spend hours trying to think of a witty caption and edit the picture in a way that would make both me and my feed look nice. i remember, one day, i realized that i literally spent HOURS obsessing over how to make this one instagram post look good, and that's when i told myself that i will no longer post on instagram anymore. i cared way too much about what other people thought. i don't even have a pfp on instagram anymore because i don't have a photo of myself that i like, and i can't be bothered to spend an unnecessary amount of time trying to find one. literally, people don't even take more than 5 seconds looking at your pfp and your ig posts. i don't even spend more than 5 seconds looking at someone's photos. i really just like their photo and go
I am actually watching all the episodes of "Get real" because of their honesty in every topic.
38:49 dang, that's new perspective for me. That's true true. Peniel is a real genius for sure
so eye opening to here ashley talking about comparing her life to other people’s on social media because i definitely do that when i see her posts🥺
it literally took my until 25 minutes in to realize that I clicked on the full podcast and not a highlight clip...whoops
I'm streaming 'Gunshot' sooooo hard!!!
This comeback is soooo good! Love it < 3
B.m in lives is like a whoooOOoolee different thing...
but people really can't get enough of it. It's me, i am people😂😂
Watching the new ep on my laptop while streaming GUNSHOT on my phone, lol. Can't wait for the next one! 🤘❤
Talk about awkwardness between colleagues like when you were training and had to meet people and meeting people outside your group maybe forcing yourself to be an extravert awkwardness on variety shows forcing yourself to become a outgoing person
These 3 are the most down to earth artists, they admit how they are, and well basically are real.
I love the way Ashley talks
this is one of my favorite Dive Studios podcasts!
I am actually a BTOB fan and loves to watch anything that involves any members of the group. So I am super happy seeing Peniel on this. However, separately I watched Ashley’s youtube videos even before and she’s so relatable. And from sometime, I liked BM guesting on Eric’s podcast because I find him an intellectual. So what I am trying to say here is I LOVE THESE THREE PEOPLE DOING WORK TOGETHER. LIKE PLEASE MAKE THIS PODCAST ETERNAL BECAUSE EVERY EPISODE ADDS UP TO MY LIFE. Thank youuuuuu in advance PDnim 🙌
Well, there's always good and bad in everything. Social media makes us feels close, yet sometimes it makes feel left out.
I fell in love with this show at first episode. It’s like the cultural barrier and the “filter” are taken off (not fully obviously but still) and it’s really... refreshing (? to hear idols talk about this kind of topics
I love the fact that you guys discuss such important topics which us as fans should know. I'm happy to say I've listened to all your episodes and I hope more people listen to it and internalise it instead of just letting it in one ear and out the other. 5 stars to you guys
Ohhh my God team Notification I have been craving for that episode😭😭 was about to sleep since I finished studying but no no sleeping can be delayed but get real podcast can't I am so excited 🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤
I watch this get real podcast all day all they talk about so relatable
I've been off social media for 6 months now (even on UA-cam I turned off notifications of likes and comment replies) and it was the best decision ever. I think we all forget we used to read the news, to talk to our friends and to share our achievements before social media came around. There is life outside of it.
I'm fortunate enough to not need it for my professional career, but honestly I couldn't justify the amount of time I used to spend there. It's time I'll never get back and that I could use to be a better person, to educate myself, etc.
I saw on kingdom how Peniel wasn’t speaking much and now I understand why
is it just me or is ashely and peniel *synchronizing* with each other a lot 😂
Started re-binging this podcast series! I really like the dynamic
Favorite podcast series - Get Real with BM, Ashley, and Peniel ❤️
Ive watched every episode with u three THANK YOUUU
international fans love more idol w/ no filter. not fakeee
THIS IS A POWER TRIO. Period.
This is one of my fav episodes so far! I love the fact they really get real about stuff we all think but not everyone dares to speak up
I love how relatable they are, honestly I love their music more cause I get to enjoy seeing them just be real and human.
I absolutely loved the topic of this podcast.
I have to say that I agree with what they said on cancel culture. People do tend to go overboard with it.
People need to be educated on what they should and shouldn't do or say, but going to the point of "you will never be forgiven even if you're genuinely sorry and trying to change your ways" is so toxic.
honestly it’s scary stanning someone because you don’t know personally because what has happened with aoa’s jimin and big bang’s seungri...you don’t know how they are. actions speak louder than words. sometimes fans don’t know how someone’s true character is.
jen with luv same, I don't get how some fans can be like "blah-blah-blah is so nice and kind, like the most generous person I know", because they don't actually know them, as fans only see the side of idols that they show. Especially when they are in a very controlled environment (same goes for any media person who you only see in their persona)
@@Sonic-zc8kj yea like some fans are so obsessed with thier idols like it's really necessary for them to know how the idols are like in real life but theirs no source so you better not get obsessed with your idol cause when I was 11 I was obsessed with XYZ idol
"if im like a solo yeah what's the matter, but i got 6 other members with me" makes me so emo🥺🥺
사랑해요 신동근!!😭💙💙
예지앞사
I was waiting the whole day just for this to be uploaded!!! Love you guys. Y’all always make me laugh ❤️😊😂
I always love how they talk about the topic 👍
Thats why its GET REAL 💙
Can't sleep and i was waiting for that lol, love u guys
My mind and Peniel's seems always in sync. I really like this podcast 💙💙💙
MATT SAID DEESTYLISTIC BY MY SIDE. BISH I FEEL OLD. Deestylistic, 1st lady, Lil crazed, d pryde, j reyez, Lydia paek and so much more omg.
It's kinda funny to me when BM said Instagram more like just for posting pictures (which it is), and Twitter be kinda toxic because it was all conversation. But Instagram is kinda the toxic one for me, all the pictures and aesthetic things make me feel the need catch up with trend and post the best of best of me then people be looking and judging the pic i post. Meanwhile twitter is my self place where I can let out anything on my mind the way it is and nobody cares enough to judge (except the immature fan war going on). People on twitter is harsh but they're honest, only say when they meant it, but on Ig people would say "pretty" just to get the compliment back on their post. But I get what he meant too, the critique is sometimes "extreme" for idols to the point it is being toxic. meanwhile on Ig they're mostly the one who sets the trend and people catch up with them (tho they still need to be careful too).
Well, no offence nor hard feeling. that's only my opinion.
I hope you'll talk about your friendships with other idols/celebrities, how they are in real life, how do you keep in touch without any rumours....
23:05 Ashley is so right. People need to learn everybody is different. If you love someone that doesn't mean everybody gonna love her/him. People need to learn respect to others thoughts and feelings
regarding online safety: if you're communicating with a stranger online for the purposes of friendship, dating, hooking up, business opportunities, whatever, run it by your friends first. open that up and get through the awkward conversation with them, because it's better than taking an unnecessary risk. now, if you all come to a certain conclusion and it ends up being wrong, that means you and your circle of friends are collectively dumb. and trust me, that's a learning experience money can't buy.👍
lets be honest this is the most amazing, enjoyable, funny and relatable podcast!!I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!💜❤️🥰🥰😍
i think its like very common to meet or be friends with people online.. especially when you're in a Fandom... i mean fans interact all the time and they just sometimes meet up to concerts, events and etc. I mean its nice to have a friend that has the same interests.. but yeah sometimes its really scary too.. ☺️
Listening and relating to them just makes me laugh. They talk about heavy things in a lighter tone with positive outlook and comfort that what you've been through and going through is normal and it is okay. Thank you for another educating episode. Fighting ^^
Ahhhh I love them so much!! You can tell they’re as honest as possible while still being cared cuz we all know kpop industry is like walking on a tightrope a lot of the time. I just hope they won’t stress over sns that much and just enjoy it
I love hearing this podcast soo much❤️❤️✨✨
I have to say this is my favorite podcast to listen to ! I feel like you guys are so relatable and the topics are pretty interesting. Also nooooo BM we live for you raw, real moments on SNS !! It’s refreshing to see a Kpop idol be so chill and open about things
Ashley, I got chu with them memes girl 💁🏻♀️
my social media is closed but I still need those messaging apps cause of school and mom but it also adds stress lol dang
I don't want to miss any episode of this podcast, I learn a lot not only about idols but how fans really react to idols. It's like Ashley, BM and Peniel are teachers to me. Haha. ❤️ Right now I use my sns for an update about my idols haha.
It's so good to see famous people talking about this issues, I hope more people do that too. Love you guys 💜
Peniel went 🥺 at 28:03 uugghh my hearttttt