Opening My First Retail Store Update | Candle Business in 2023
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- Trying to open my first retail store has been really hard. It is sickening to think that there are still people in this world trying to hold Black people back from success. I am disgusted by what has happened to me, in the town I live in. Please watch this update!
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I’m a Realtor. It’s against the LAW to “steer” others and to guide them to different areas based upon sex or race.
What she said ^^^^^ That is against the law.
Thank You! ❤ I am weighing my options on how to proceed but I have been granted a hearing from the National Realtors Association. I asked what would happen if the woman is found guilty and she stated, "If the hearing panel finds the Respondent in violation of the Realtor Code of Ethics, the hearing panel will impose discipline on the Respondent. Discipline can include a fine up to $15,000, the requirement to take a specific education course or courses. and/or a Letter of Warning or Reprimand". I don't think this is enough. She will just continue to do the same thing. She may even take it out on other Black people trying to get retail space in this area.
@@ParisNikkole good. I hope she is fined and disciplined. Unfortunately, I doubt she’ll actually change. She’ll just be less crass in the future. I hope the outcome is that they will force her to rent a space of your choosing from her.
Will you be able to do anything about the white folk candle bar that’s being opened? Will it be difficult to prove that you had the idea first with what you’ve documented?
What’s awesome is, you have proof with your UA-cam channel.
Thanks to everyone here for all of the support! ❤I appreciate your words of encouragement so much! Quick update: I was granted a hearing which has finally been scheduled for next month! Hoping that all goes in my favor because this woman was wrong and I am sure I am not the first or last person of color she will discriminate against.
Hey, just a few minutes ago I was listening to a devotional and it had a scripture that says, “If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you.
John 15:18. Immediately this video you shared came to my mind. I pray your hearing goes well and our Heavenly Father will be with you every step of the way. In Jesus mighty name. Amen. 💙🙏🏾
Thanks for the reply madam.
I am so proud of you for taking a stand and not just accepting her behavior as the "norm". I pray that God show up and show out on your behalf. Stay encouraged sis!
You can report her to the Realtor Association. No realtor is supposed to do that.
Thank You! ❤ She has been reported and I have been granted a hearing. Hoping for the best.
That's right fight for what's right. Good luck on your hearing.
Thank You! 💪🏾
i’ve learned so much from watching your videos. you are an inspiration to me. i’m sorry that this happened to you and i’m praying you will have your way. much love 🫶🏽
Thank you so much! 😊 I appreciate you. ❤️
Yeah, it's called "steering" she needs to be reported.
That's interesting. I didn't know that was against the law.
I didn't know about this but I thank you for calling it out. I am going to do my research. I was granted a hearing by the National Realtors Association so we shall see how that goes.
Thank you for sharing your journey. So glad you’re pursuing the fight and doing something about it.
Many others don’t have the means to do this. Rooting for you! Keep us updated!!!
Thank you! ❤ I will keep you all updated.
Yes,our love...QUEEN,STAND UP AND FIGHT 4 YOUR RIGHTS!...You are worthy, and God will steer you where you WANT to be,not where you are TOLERATED!...You are such an inspiration and great business woman.God Bless you on your journey❤.
Amen! Thank you for your words of encouragement. God said “'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future. '”. I am calling on his name in this situation. 🙏🏾
I stand with you friend! I am sorry that you had to go through that.
Thank you so much! ❤ It definitely hurts but I will be the change that this town needs. Fighting for myself and others who are also trying to bring some diversity to this town.
I’m so proud of you Sis! It’s disheartening to know that we still have to deal with this. 🤺🤺🤺
Tell me about it. Thank You for your support! ❤
Wow! So she rented a space to someone else. That wasn't cool at all. I support you sister.
Yes! I was so hurt when I saw this I just broke down and cried. I have been searching for an entire year and this woman knew I was trying to open a candle bar. So for her to try and push me to a minority area and allow this company to open a candle bar is maddening. This company doesn't even have a website and 179 instagram followers! That is a slap in the face! But I will continue to fight. Thanks for your support. ❤.
Its the fact that its so obviois cause they thunk you wont or cant fight it. Dont know much about these things and hope if needed you get outside reps and courts cause who knows how deep is her network
Agreed. I am sure she thought I wouldn't fight for myself but she was wrong. My Mom said the same thing about her network knowing that her family is rich and powerful in this area. But she will be exposed.
This is very sad.. sorry you are going through this..
Thank You ❤
Yes queen! Go TF for her entire head….that’s so messed up. Maybe there’s an update to this video and I missed it, but what is the status of your grievance currently? Ouuuuh this literally made me so
Mad and hurt watching this. I’m in the process of starting my own candle business now and I just couldn’t imagine something like this happening to me I’d be so devastated. Thanks for sharing, standing up and fighting. It’s not easy but we see you 🙏🏽❤️
All this that you’re going through is only going to be a foot stool to all the negativity and discrimination that you’ve been going through and dealing with. Nothing worth having is going to come without a fight. Keep standing your ground and don’t ever give up!! God got you and your business ❤you’re going to get your store front right in that same location. Just make sure you’re ready when you do🙏🏽💜
Amen! Thank you so much! ❤ I receive it. He is able and I can't wait for the day I open my store. It will truly be a Blessing! 🙏🏽
Young Lady! I am so proud of YOU! You must do what is necessary! Hang in there and I will be praying for your success and you're getting into the location you want!
Thank you SO MUCH! ❤❤❤
Expose them and vlog the process so that people all over the world that watch your videos can know exactly who she is. This is uncalled for an blantant discrimation. I would also try to have your story heard at the local chamber of commerce, to get more in town news on the situation, plus most peoplpe that are in the chamber of commerce have businesses in the city or plan on doing business in the city.
Thank You! ❤ I am going to continue to update you all on the process. I was granted a hearing from the National Realtors Association which stated "The ethics complaint that you filed against xxx was reviewed by the Realtors® Grievance Committee. The committee determined that if taken as true on its face, the complaint constitutes potentially unethical conduct and should be forwarded to the Professional Standards Committee for a hearing, citing Articles 1, 3 and 10 of the Code of Ethics." I will also take your advice and reach out to the local chamber of commerce. Hoping my fight will help others. I appreciate your support. ❤
I’m so sorry you had to go thru that but I’m rooting for you girl go for it. It’s not right I’m proud of what your doing 😊
Thank you so much! ❤ Everyone's support and encouragement has really been a Blessing!
Get her girl!! Enough is enough!!❤️
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This is so discouraging on so many levels. I am here for support and will follow your story and share it so other can be aware of the warnings. We as a people have to fight for spaces in the world ,the crazy thing is i feel you are more qualified for this space than the stolen idea behind you. Candle Bars are opening up in alot in major cities and I have a feeling you are going to get a space that you wanted even if you have to build it yourself. You are amazing 🤩
Thank you so much for the support and sharing my story. ❤️ It is a shame that there is a constant battle for our people to get ahead. I literally have a larger following, built out website, online sales and market sales but this company has literally 176 followers on instagram and no website! It is crazy. Candle bars are definitely trending which is why I saw the need in this town because it did not exist when I started looking for a space. I receive building my own space. God has a plan, I just have to do my part and allow him to work behind the scenes. Thank you for your words of encouragement, it is truly appreciated! 😊
Yesssss Queen! Stand your ground ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank You! ❤
Hi Paris,
I’m just listening and smh. This is discrimination on another level. I agree, she needs to be reported to whomever she answers to. But, don’t give up, your blessings are coming 💜
Thanks Samantha! ❤ I have started the process and was granted a hearing so I will be updating you all on that. This is just so crazy that in this day and age people of color still have to experience this. I hope my fight allows more people who look like me the opportunity to open businesses in this area.
Its giving...lawsuit. Good for you for pursuing legal action!
Can you sue someone, if they don't rent a commercial space to you?
@@englishgarden2036she would be suing because of discrimination. She didn’t rent the commercial space to her because she was black. Adding insult to injury, she leased the space to another business owner with the same business idea.
@@Jeniveve Doesn't she have to prove she applied for the rental space? You gotta prove that in court. The judge is gonna want to see applications/documents.
Thank You! ❤ I feel there is a case here as well. I was granted a hearing by the National Realtors Association so if she is found guilty in that hearing then I will take it further.
She never gave me the opportunity to apply for the rental space. She tried to push me to a different town which has majority minorities unlike the town where I wanted to rent the space which has zero minority owned businesses. She lied and tried to steer me in a different direction due to my race which is discrimination.
I pray that ultimate favor & beautiful blessings come upon you. I pray to God that you are favored through what you're going through and that testimony makes changes in your town. A change have to start somewhere and you're the start of this change without fear. You will get a whole lot better than what you're reaching for right in your own town and you'll be the biggest company/business there in your own town. You're going to make other candle owners to want to. go out of business!!!!! Mark My words.
Amen! I receive it. For God gave us not a spirit of fearfulness; but of power and love and discipline. 🙏🏾 I will fearlessly continue to fight and get my story out there and God willing I will be opening my retail store very soon! Thank you for Blessing me with words of encouragement. 😊
Update? I hope you won. ❤ This happens so often. I went through the same thing in my city.
It is so sad to see so many comments from my Sisters who have experienced the same issue. Unfortunately I did not win. It was no surprise that everyone on the judges panel looked the same. No representation of color at all! It was maddening that they summed it up to make it seem like I was disappointed that the space was rented to another candle company. It was a slap in the face and although I was hurt I have not let it stop me from looking for a space. The problem at this point is the same woman who I filed the complaint against, her Father owns the commercial brokerage that manages 95% of the spaces in our downtown area. BUT I am a fighter and I will keep going until I get my space. Were you able to find a space?
@@ParisNikkole yes. I've finally found a space a mile or 2 away from where I originally wanted. Please pray on it. I prayed for my store daily for roughly 2 months. I asked God for very specific details and not only do I have that store, but they agreed to most of my terms and it's in a great location. I hate saying it, but look outside of your desired area. There may be something better waiting for you. And dealing with that horrible, sneaky family for 3-7 years may make you miserable.
Best of luck. Please stay encouraged. 🩷
Oh heck no sis!!!!!
Thanks for sharing. The enemy is made and don’t want you there working through her. But what God has for you is for you. It’s going to be something BIGGER and BETTER In Jesus Name ….🎉🎉🎉🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Amen! I receive it. Thank You! 🙏🏾
This is so disappointing! Keep fighting!
Thank You! I will.
Continue to clog your process !! I’m so sorry that happened to you but count it all joy as you take the proper steps to fight back. It’ll still work out in your favor 🙏🏾❤️ It’s 2023 and the race thing really shows how privileged & evil this world still is smh
I sure will! Thank you for your amazing words of encouragement! ❤
I support you
Thank you so much! ❤❤❤
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Not a bad idea black communities need nice things too
Wow,what she did was evil, sneaky and uncalled for. God has something better for you. No weapon formed against you shall prosper. 🙏 ❤
Amen! ❤️ What she did was pure evil but with God all things are possible so I am going to continue to fight for myself and my people.
Are grants still there in some organizations?? God bless you
I am not sure what you mean?
What can we do to help?
Like, share, comment. Maybe this will reach someone who has the authority to make an immediate change.
It’s NAR- National Association of REALTORS (not NRA)
First question, is she a REALTOR or a Real Estate Agent? Yes, there is a difference. If she is just an agent she cannot be reported to NAR. As a REALTOR myself, make sure you see through w/ the reporting but confirm what she is first so that you’re not wasting time. Also is she a Broker or an agent? There is a difference. If she is an agent report her to her Broker. If she is a Broker, report her to her local affiliation and then to her state board.
Yes fight
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Have you tried to get your products in stores instead of getting a place actually
I have not tried to get into retail stores because the margins are too high. I would need to find a new supplier to get my overall costs down significantly before I can consider retail. It is something I would like to do down the line but at the moment it wouldn't make much sense at this stage in my business.
Okay
Wow! I am sos eru this happend to you. Please remember, what's meant for you,.NO ONE can take away.
I receive that! Thank You ❤