This is the most amazing dude I've ever heard of. Wife wants out, recovers in one night. Instantly adjusts to the new life, cares for his and his daughter's wellbeing. Gets a different girl for each type of fulfillment, completely satisfying the role of wife without cheating on OP. Practically lives separately in his giant mancave to prepare for inevitable separation. This guy had it all figured out and completely embodies the statement "living well is the best revenge"
If you suggest an open relationship and your partner immediately feels uncomfortable, that may be your last chance to back off and try to fix it. If you push it, then all, and I mean ALL the blame is on you. This woman f-ed around and found out. She has no one to blame but herself.
Tbf once it even comes up unprovoked then it is 100% grounds for normal relationship being over. They either already cheated, have someone in mind, or think of you as a pushover. I say unpovoked as in one or the other spouse just brings it up without any lead up to it. Out of the blue. Thats the ultimate red flag and she literally flaunted it around thinking foolishly no one would see it
No he didn't become 'enthusiastic' he mentally and emotionally walked out on you and was just giving you an opportunity to justify him removing himself physically (probably not divorced because he'd lose the house and child custody) Realistically the marriage vows actually meant something to HIM so mentally he needed you to do something beyond all reconciliation in order to break up the family....like actually going through with it and sleeping with some guy
Now what what?it was OP’s idea to open the marriage and the husband probably thought she could’ve told me before having our kid but no so f it let’s open the marriage he got away from her emotionally and physically and when OP’s ideal fantasy of having an open marriage didn’t go as expected OP came crawling back to make the marriage normal and get emotional support when clearly the husband set his own rules….this situation is similar to cheating and wanting to go back to the spouse as it didn’t meet the person’s expectations. Not against people having open marriages but suddenly cracking the idea to a partner who clearly wasn’t in marrying you thinking they could open their marriage in the future is just absurd. It’s embarrassing that she doesn’t get that the husband was trying to get away from her after the day she dropped the bomb on him.😐
Its always the same thing the husband or the wife find someone else then their partner attractive so they ask for an open relationship then when the other half found someone now it's time to stop
This man didn't give her the satisfaction of the divorce. She wanted to boost her confidence by proving that her husband can't live without her, she wanted to see him miserable. Well, this genius completely outplayed the system. True gigachad right there. That's the game she played, now it's time to bear the consequences.
Open marriage = the one who suggests it wants out and doesn't have the guts to say it. Or the will to try and fix what it has and think everything is greener on the other side.
"we do not need to fulfill each others intimate/emotional needs anymore." Okay, right there the marriage is dead. Shes somehow surprised at the results of her actions and dont understand how shes at fault. Or maybe the poast means she does. Its just.. what the hell people. Stop being stupid!
Women want an open relationship until their bf / husband also partakes lol. Everything she did was tk herself and well deserved imo. Dude literally had it all figured out. He saw the red flags Took 1 night to figure it out all planned. Agreed Cut the wife out Wife felt unloved because lo and behold women can get sex but not the emotional part of relationships easily. Vice versa guys can and the dude hired escorts to fulfill the sex requirement. I applaude the dude 🎉👏👏👏👏👏👏 He did EVERYTHING RIGHT when your spouse tells you they want to open up the relationship
For the love of God stop opening up your marriage if it doesn’t start that way. If you just want to sleep around then leave your spouse instead asking to open up the marriage. If you feel like your bedroom life needs a little spicing up then COMMUNICATE that with your partner. There’s nothing worse than having the “grass is greener on the other side” mentality when it’s mixed with “I’m going to have my cake and eat it too”.
Well well well If it aren’t the consequences of your own actions and suggestions 😂 Get bent, you did that to him, to your daughter, and to yourself. And it’s only a problem because he’s happy, your child is happy with him and you are alone and sad. If the show was on the other foot, you couldn’t even comprehend why he could potentially be sad. Again, get bent and stop living in dream land.
there is a saying that those who have infidelity come out stronger when its over... Guess she is strong enough to start over, yeah? Otherwise, she is in trouble...
There must be multiple options, but you should talk to her seriously if she really wants to initiate it, or if she is just finding an excuse to leave the relationship. Open relationships are not okay, if your partner suggests it, either talk to them or leave.
yeah, maybe your fault entirely, OP. even asking for an open marriage indicates to him that you are probably a cheater, or want to be a cheater. no wonder he abandoned you like you are trash. if you cant handle the consenquences, dont even think about doing it.
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Bro summarized this whole video perfectly in 6 words
Was just going to say the same thing
Literally
She fucked around and found out
This is the most amazing dude I've ever heard of. Wife wants out, recovers in one night. Instantly adjusts to the new life, cares for his and his daughter's wellbeing. Gets a different girl for each type of fulfillment, completely satisfying the role of wife without cheating on OP. Practically lives separately in his giant mancave to prepare for inevitable separation. This guy had it all figured out and completely embodies the statement "living well is the best revenge"
Thats not an open marriage. You broke his trust so he decided to separate from you. Deal with it.
How dumb can this be. Ruined a marriage and possibly screwed up that child mentally. She had a good thing. No sympathy from me.
Nah child is fine.
She also saw how the mom was and stuck with the dad.
If you suggest an open relationship and your partner immediately feels uncomfortable, that may be your last chance to back off and try to fix it. If you push it, then all, and I mean ALL the blame is on you. This woman f-ed around and found out. She has no one to blame but herself.
Tbf once it even comes up unprovoked then it is 100% grounds for normal relationship being over.
They either already cheated, have someone in mind, or think of you as a pushover.
I say unpovoked as in one or the other spouse just brings it up without any lead up to it. Out of the blue.
Thats the ultimate red flag and she literally flaunted it around thinking foolishly no one would see it
No he didn't become 'enthusiastic' he mentally and emotionally walked out on you and was just giving you an opportunity to justify him removing himself physically (probably not divorced because he'd lose the house and child custody)
Realistically the marriage vows actually meant something to HIM so mentally he needed you to do something beyond all reconciliation in order to break up the family....like actually going through with it and sleeping with some guy
he didnt sleep with coworker
he said he is not gay
he said He is sleeping with escorts bruh
Now what what?it was OP’s idea to open the marriage and the husband probably thought she could’ve told me before having our kid but no so f it let’s open the marriage he got away from her emotionally and physically and when OP’s ideal fantasy of having an open marriage didn’t go as expected OP came crawling back to make the marriage normal and get emotional support when clearly the husband set his own rules….this situation is similar to cheating and wanting to go back to the spouse as it didn’t meet the person’s expectations. Not against people having open marriages but suddenly cracking the idea to a partner who clearly wasn’t in marrying you thinking they could open their marriage in the future is just absurd. It’s embarrassing that she doesn’t get that the husband was trying to get away from her after the day she dropped the bomb on him.😐
I'm glad the daughter is taking her Dads side she will hopefully grow up with better morals than the mom.
The moment a partner asks for an open relationship just leave them.
Its always the same thing the husband or the wife find someone else then their partner attractive so they ask for an open relationship then when the other half found someone now it's time to stop
This man didn't give her the satisfaction of the divorce. She wanted to boost her confidence by proving that her husband can't live without her, she wanted to see him miserable. Well, this genius completely outplayed the system. True gigachad right there. That's the game she played, now it's time to bear the consequences.
The moment he realized you were asking for an open marriage, your relationship had reached a breaking point.
Open marriage = the one who suggests it wants out and doesn't have the guts to say it. Or the will to try and fix what it has and think everything is greener on the other side.
I need part 2
"we do not need to fulfill each others intimate/emotional needs anymore."
Okay, right there the marriage is dead.
Shes somehow surprised at the results of her actions and dont understand how shes at fault.
Or maybe the poast means she does.
Its just.. what the hell people. Stop being stupid!
Imagine getting sad about what you suggested.
Well well well if it isn’t the consequences of my actions 🤷♂️
I really wanna know what goes through peoples minds when they ask shit like this. Like when has it ever actually worked?
"I want an open marriage."
Husband: *Stays away from her*
"Why is he not spending time with me?"
F around and find out
It was your idea to open the marriage so deal with your decisions
Oh no,the consequences of my actions,this cannot be...
Women want an open relationship until their bf / husband also partakes lol.
Everything she did was tk herself and well deserved imo.
Dude literally had it all figured out.
He saw the red flags
Took 1 night to figure it out all planned.
Agreed
Cut the wife out
Wife felt unloved because lo and behold women can get sex but not the emotional part of relationships easily.
Vice versa guys can and the dude hired escorts to fulfill the sex requirement.
I applaude the dude 🎉👏👏👏👏👏👏
He did EVERYTHING RIGHT when your spouse tells you they want to open up the relationship
For the love of God stop opening up your marriage if it doesn’t start that way. If you just want to sleep around then leave your spouse instead asking to open up the marriage. If you feel like your bedroom life needs a little spicing up then COMMUNICATE that with your partner. There’s nothing worse than having the “grass is greener on the other side” mentality when it’s mixed with “I’m going to have my cake and eat it too”.
Well well well
If it aren’t the consequences of your own actions and suggestions 😂
Get bent, you did that to him, to your daughter, and to yourself. And it’s only a problem because he’s happy, your child is happy with him and you are alone and sad. If the show was on the other foot, you couldn’t even comprehend why he could potentially be sad. Again, get bent and stop living in dream land.
He divorced her without divorcing her 😂
there is a saying that those who have infidelity come out stronger when its over... Guess she is strong enough to start over, yeah?
Otherwise, she is in trouble...
An open marriage is no longer a marriage
That's what you get honestly. Open marriages almost never work and is honestly just an excuse by the person who offers to fool around.
Ain’t gonna lie is what she gets and my gf has been getting me hints she want to open the relationship
There must be multiple options, but you should talk to her seriously if she really wants to initiate it, or if she is just finding an excuse to leave the relationship. Open relationships are not okay, if your partner suggests it, either talk to them or leave.
Just accept it's over and leave now. She's probably cheating already
she fucked around and found out
story didn't sound complete ...
anyone have the full story ???
yeah, maybe your fault entirely, OP. even asking for an open marriage indicates to him that you are probably a cheater, or want to be a cheater. no wonder he abandoned you like you are trash. if you cant handle the consenquences, dont even think about doing it.
Deserved
W man
Play grown up games, face grown up consequences
I can't find the OG post so likely not real
I hate men who do this and I hate women who do this also. You get no sympathy from me when the consequences of being loose catch up to you.
Does anyone have the link to this story
Lmao
I'm not sure if the other night 180 is enough to constitute a red flag, but it would have made me curious if I was OP
This is all your fault.
Karma
Where's the original post?
Did u find it?
Any updates 😂
Part 2
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