There are so many people that grew up with parents that only love them when the are "good." I guess that is why so many people are working on themselves.
the problem is that in this period of live we live Romanticism doesn't exist.Real love doesn't exist,we live in a sexual culture, that's why some of the few romantics left are getting hurt all the time.. being a romantic now a days is tragic and painful.
I totally agree, this is true its our superificial and cynical time. Thats why theres so much divorce and infidelity and all this very loose atittude toward sex and relationships.
To be fair, i think after separation it is normal to feel anger or hurt for a while. However if it doesn't _substitute_ your feelings of love, you still truly feel real love. The anger will fade, the disappointment will go away, as the ego heals, and love will still be present. So don't doubt your feelings, if you're in the middle of a hardship and feelings come and go. Sit with it and ask yourself the same question again in a couple of weeks :)
Damn I must have loved someone a whole lot cause I once told him to go , to leave me and to take his time even if it meant months or years , I told him to experience other women and if at the end he felt like he missed me to come back that I’ll be waiting for him.... I’m still waiting for him.
I M SO SO SO SO SO THANKFUL TO YOU CHRISTINA ... SERIOUSLY U HAVE ENLIGHTENED ME WITH THE DEFINITION OF LOVE !! THANK YOU SO MUCH ... I WAS IN DEPRESSION FOR SO MANY DAYS RATHER 1 N HALF MONTHS DUE TO MY BREAK UP SUDDENLY AFTER 2 YEARS .... BUT AFTER HEARING U OUT.. I SUDDENLY JUST REALIZED THAT YOU CANT DEFINE LOVE WITH --WORDS...FEELINGS...EMOTIONS....BLISS...PAIN....INSTEAD..ITS JUST ABOUT "GIVING UR ALL" WITHOUT ANY EXPECTATION & CONDITIONS WHATSOEVER !!! SIMPLE ! THANKS A TON ! GOD BLESS YOU !! NOW ALL I WANT IS HER TO BE HAPPY, BE IT WITH ME OR WITHOUT ME !! BUT YA STILL A PART OF ME ... U KNOW WHAT I MEAN :p !! GOD BLESS
This is such a perfect description of what I have always thought love really is. The difference between genuine love and what most people except as love is vast. I am going to share this with my grown up children. Thank you.
Banana i was the same. But now instead of “change” i just want the person i love to “grow” and “heal” and if that includes me great, if it does not i love him enough to be happy for him and his individual process. 🥰
Thank you. That is a great explanation. It reminds me of my relationship to my son. Unconditional. I'm learning how to do this in all aspects of my life.
unconditional love is not controllable, it just is, there is no beginning nor end. it is a wonder gift to just be able to be involved... it is wonderful.
Thank you 💕 this is wonderful, I have such a Clarity about myself now. I couldn't understand myself for quite sometime about why could I still be happy watching the person I love being with someone else when I felt that my love wasn't reciprocated, and I was beaming for my first teenage love that way. I must have known deep down, that love should not be forced upon the other to giving back the love we want, I have always felt that I want love to be given to me freely, effortlessly.
I’m scared that I don’t love anyone. If anyone left me, my opinion of them would be diminished and I would love them less. Is this... is that unnatural? This is true for every single person in my life. If you abandon me, you’re not who I thought you were.
To be honest ... I think this is a beautiful theory. Sure it is an ideal. But almost impossible to live in the average day-to-day life. Particularly when there is a lot of pressure from the outside world. I have made the most painful experiences with people who live this ‚love-model‘, this ‚revolutionary idea’ without respect for common ethic or moral, very egoistically. Like I was so stressed out because of my one-year-old girl. She was born 10 weeks early and I was at the hospital with her a lot. My body felt awful at that time after the pregnancy. I felt unlovable. My nervous system was going nuts and I started fighting with my girls father. I felt, that he was leaving me. It was too much for him and I knew he would leave me alone. And that is exactly what happened. He already had found another woman for fun, laughter, massage, singing mantras and doing satsang at the ashram. And that‘s what he would call ‚unconditional love‘. 🤔🥳🙏
I really liked this video, and it gives me some insight into what real love looks like, but I'm not sure if I completely agree. It seems to me that what the video is saying is, "First in order to genuinely love someone else, you MUST genuinely love yourself first." Only then can you move on to the second phase in which Mrs. Lopes is talking about, being able to genuinely love someone else.
Sometimes True Love can mean sacrifice, like if you had done something bad in life but then you met someone and felll in love with them. You cared about them so much, because they were so special to you, you were scared that if you were to be with this person, what if your past caught up with you and they got hurt. You would never want that, so you didnt let that Love grow between the two of you, infact you kind of pushed them away until it got to the point you had not seen them in over 15years, and they more than likely moved on and have a family of their own by now. But you always wondered if that person coming into your life was somekind of second chance from God or something, a way of letting you know that you have another chance to be "Good", because they are so good and pure and innocent and just beautiful and you have always been puzzled as to why it was you they found and fell for. So it becomes abit of a catch-22 thing and you spend the rest of your days never doing anything about it, just always wondering what might have been and forever missing that person.
I know I'm going to get a lot of nasty comments for this, but this explanation perfectly summarises what I feel and understand whenever I hear or read that "God loves us". :D
+Gabboet Henao I grew up with in the traditional christian church. My father was a minister. This is the sort of Love he modelled for me, and why it is the only Love I can really see as Love. People who give you a nasty comment for saying what you understand are basically showing they cannot understand Love at all. I am not a christian, but I do think the explanation of unconditonal love that God gives his children as explained in the bible, is pretty much exactly what this Love is. The christian church at it's core preaches unconditional Love and grace which is supposed to be a gift that one cannot earn or lose through one's actions... That is Love. I often when explaining my beliefs to people use the word Love as many would use the name of God. Essentially in my opinion they are one and the same thing.
Not to be rude but this is ridiculous. Wife: I want a divorce, husband. I met someone else who will make me happier. Husband: Well. Hmmm. I love you so go be with the man that makes you happy. I won't go through any healthy stages of grief except acceptance. I just want you to be happy. I love you, my soon to be ex-wife. I will not get angry, sad or grieve because that is egotistical of me.
+PutMe Down Hi friend, You didnt get the point... Real love is nothing like attached together by physical it relates to mental which you feel in the brain or some quotes it heart.... According to your example...That is not love.. Yes husband has to say yes or women will choose her choice because she has same amount of freedom that husband has....The video explains you if real love is there between husband and wife, there is no word called unhappy.... Because they always happy at heart even if they dont smile on face....Hope you understand the author of the video view point....
Sometimes people can fall out of love, but the other person can still love that person and it can hurt like hell to let them go to the point many dont and it leads to fights or the other person having a affair. When really what they should have done was sit down and talk about it honestly, talk about why that person is no longer happy being with them. But if the person truly loved them, and they want to leave they would let them go. So they can find out for sure, if that is truly what they want. Thats relationships for you. I would be incredibly hurt if that person, the woman wanted out of our relationship or marriage, but If she truly was not happy, I would let her leave, because no point in keeping her there in a loveless marriage, both lying to yourself and trying to act like everything is alright when it is not. If she was truly not happy, I would allow her to leave and end it, even if I loved her because I would truly want her to be happy in life, even if that meant not being with me. Id probably have a real good drink on that night and just basically drown my sorrows at loosing her, then I'd write a song about loosing her and the pain Im feeling in my heart, then that would become number one in the singles chart, make me hugely famous then she would realize and maybe we would find eachother again (all that last part after the drinking part was a joke) lol.
There is no one to make you happier you have to be happy with yourself first then you ll see that you will able to let go becauss the pther person has may be or just like you fall into a love without freeedom .
If I was the husband I would wish her good luck cause no one will make them happier. It's all temporary. I had this situation happen to me. And I realized that this had nothing to do with me but their disatisfaction with themselves. Bc most ppl look externally for happiness. How I handled the situation was give them their freedom, of course I was hurt but once I say I love someone I will always. It's about realizing that ppl are growing and are on their own journey as well. They make mistakes and can get lost in life. Things did not last with the other person bc they again grew unhappy . They tried to rekindle things with me. I told them while I will always love them we should remain friends. I wish only the best for this person. When this happened I realized a time when I broke up with someone for very similar reasons and I then realized we all will get to experience both sides of this coin. The key is will we learn from it.
Honestly I think everybody feels like that at first moment ...feeling angry, sad , ..and after all these egoistic emotions which you need to allow to be felt deeply , the most - pain, you will find your heart again and pure love ...and then you can let your love go for what feels to be happier with.
This gives a loop hole for anyone who is in a committed monogamous marriage a easy escape. And puts guilt of "not really loving " on the spouse who is trying to save the marriage.
this is true you can't love and be unhappy in a relationship, I seen mine looking and talking at someone attractive, then keep stepping cause that's where you want to be.
Yes but if someone intentionally tries to hurt you and you do love them? That’s extremely hurtful and sometimes hard to deal with and yes we are all are human and it’s natural to get mad or be upset. If you didn’t wouldn’t that mean you really don’t care? Thank you for sharing.
that is very good, I just started a friendship and already there are stipulations, what a turn off, I wondered why I feel bad about this ,sometimes its hard to understand my feelings this was wonderful info.
Exactly true ... I was start feeling belongingness with a person in 2017 and than he said friends.. and I was okay than we talk for 2 year on off manner in which my transformation happened and got to knew that he’s my spiritual partner .. then I set all in GODs hand ... and after few months he came back to me with the truth that he has a baby and wife ... with him from back 4 year .. he said I feel you have to know this ... I said it’s okay ... my love for you never be less by any other reason.. just you have to be happy... in June 2019 .. still I m loving him ...myself ... just love ... ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love sets them free Nd you too and makes you strong .. and love ... ❤️❤️❤️ whole in you
OK. But if the person gets offensive to you, wouldn't you want them to change? Also, isn't unconditional love best challenged in difficult times between the 2 partners? Do you really love when the person is near perfect and never offends you, never hurts you, always achieves greatness in caring about you, like when you are soulmates? It's all so confusing.
okay so I know this is so wrong but I actually fell in love with my cousin.. yeah I know so wrong.. but I do love him and I know we cant be together so I'm trying to just accept the fact and move on ;-;
But what if someone said they feel differently about you without actually directing it to you in a serious way and you get a little feeling of rejection, and feel like you get a little bit hurt by that, but go back to liking him in a few minutes? Is that still real love or not?
In my opinion yes, it takes a lot of strength to actually go back to that person and forgive them. While I was pregnant with mine and my husband first child last year, he told me that he no longer found me attractive, and no longer sexually attracted to me. I planned to leave the following week and get a divorce... we hadn’t even been married a year by that time. But something made me stay, probably my child, but still almost a year later it hurts tremendously to think that that happened to me and my relationship. I’m not sure why he felt the need to say that and the next day he told me that he had no clue why he said that. I guess it was the alcohol... anyways, I think that it’s still love. I never stopped loving him, no matter how many times he’s hurt me with his words.
wauw.... I just realized, that my ex and I never loved eachother... we just thought so. No wonder it didn't work out, first, second or third time.... I still want him to change ;-)
It is a little bit difficult to get use to this idea .i may not won’t to possess my lover or wish him grief or hate him cause he won’t love me back but I will be neutral no hate and no love
What do I do if I find out I did have love understood all wrong? How do I learn to love(my husband)? I have so much gratitude towards him, I want to learn how to love
I really enjoy her earlier videos the newer Concepts I'm not too connected with I seem to resonate more with her older videos the new concepts of seem 2 commercial for me
+Ana Kublashvili Real Love (I always use a capital letter as I see it as both a verb and a noun like an entity that is also an action) can never cause you to be hurt. Conditional love however is pretty much sure to hurt, no matter what you do or expect, people change, and they will dissappoint you. If you feel hurt in any relationship that is a blessing because it is an opportunity for learning and personal growth. I honestly believe this is because I have experienced it. If you can't see the lesson in any situation you are going to have to experience it again. Hiding from any interactions can teach you patience, self control, but in cutting yourself off from social interactions and Love, you cut yourself off from Loving yourself too, which is an essential component of being able to truly Love any other. I hope you find what you need to help you grow into who you really are. Brightest blessings and Love.
Thats me now I love and am loved but will never find true love meaning inn love Is there such a thing ? Is there a difference? Thank you Your amazing and vibrant and beautiful 💖
But if that person is cunning he/she can take advantage of that. First they will leave you and u out of love would say - it would wonderful if i m a part of ur happiness but its also wonderful if i m not. And then one day when u r again happy in ur life and that person will return and ask.. would u like to be the part of my happiness? 😉
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So true, to LOVE someone does not mean to own that person, it means to LOVE what that person is...
Sonne Chaud so very true. Love is liberating.
There are so many people that grew up with parents that only love them when the are "good." I guess that is why so many people are working on themselves.
*Unconditional Love*
_A simple explanation_
the problem is that in this period of live we live Romanticism doesn't exist.Real love doesn't exist,we live in a sexual culture, that's why some of the few romantics left are getting hurt all the time.. being a romantic now a days is tragic and painful.
I totally agree, this is true its our superificial and cynical time. Thats why theres so much divorce and infidelity and all this very loose atittude toward sex and relationships.
Perhaps being a romantic has always been tragic
My answer is no. It will always be no. My feelings will never change even if he never talks to me again or gets with someone else.
To be fair, i think after separation it is normal to feel anger or hurt for a while. However if it doesn't _substitute_ your feelings of love, you still truly feel real love. The anger will fade, the disappointment will go away, as the ego heals, and love will still be present.
So don't doubt your feelings, if you're in the middle of a hardship and feelings come and go. Sit with it and ask yourself the same question again in a couple of weeks :)
in a relationship, neither person should be affraid to be the one who loves the most.
Damn I must have loved someone a whole lot cause I once told him to go , to leave me and to take his time even if it meant months or years , I told him to experience other women and if at the end he felt like he missed me to come back that I’ll be waiting for him.... I’m still waiting for him.
I M SO SO SO SO SO THANKFUL TO YOU CHRISTINA ... SERIOUSLY U HAVE ENLIGHTENED ME WITH THE DEFINITION OF LOVE !! THANK YOU SO MUCH ... I WAS IN DEPRESSION FOR SO MANY DAYS RATHER 1 N HALF MONTHS DUE TO MY BREAK UP SUDDENLY AFTER 2 YEARS .... BUT AFTER HEARING U OUT.. I SUDDENLY JUST REALIZED THAT YOU CANT DEFINE LOVE WITH --WORDS...FEELINGS...EMOTIONS....BLISS...PAIN....INSTEAD..ITS JUST ABOUT "GIVING UR ALL" WITHOUT ANY EXPECTATION & CONDITIONS WHATSOEVER !!! SIMPLE ! THANKS A TON ! GOD BLESS YOU !! NOW ALL I WANT IS HER TO BE HAPPY, BE IT WITH ME OR WITHOUT ME !! BUT YA STILL A PART OF ME ... U KNOW WHAT I MEAN :p !! GOD BLESS
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This is such a perfect description of what I have always thought love really is. The difference between genuine love and what most people except as love is vast.
I am going to share this with my grown up children. Thank you.
After watching this, I feel like I never loved anyone before because I always expect someone to change.. omg how sad is this?
Banana i was the same. But now instead of “change” i just want the person i love to “grow” and “heal” and if that includes me great, if it does not i love him enough to be happy for him and his individual process. 🥰
Ur not the only one babe 💝
And the deeper you go down that rabbit hole you realise it is you who needs to heal and change. 💟
This is so true and beautiful! It made me cry. Thank you 💖
Thank you. That is a great explanation. It reminds me of my relationship to my son. Unconditional. I'm learning how to do this in all aspects of my life.
True Love Never Ever Ends....No matter what is chanching between You2 ✨❤️🍃❤️✨
So that meAns that i really love him.
I'm a new subcriber, I just love everything about Christina, her vibes and lessons. I really enjoy your teachings. Thank you!
unconditional love is not controllable, it just is, there is no beginning nor end. it is a wonder gift to just be able to be involved... it is wonderful.
So nice to hear the true definition of Love, I agree ....thanks
I'm viewing this for the first time, eight years after its premiere, and it's relevant to where I AM today.
seriously, you made me cry
for i dont know what for
❤ Love you chistina for bringing light of Love. ❤❤❤. May you be always happy and healthy.
I want to learn all that I can from you Chrisi!
Starting at the beginning. 💞
Me too
For the first time in my life, I can say I agree to this!
I totally agree. Love is a feel not a deal. Love and Light to you beautiful soul💖💓💗
I cannot stop watching this video!! Thanks again and again Christina! Love you!
Thank you 💕 this is wonderful, I have such a Clarity about myself now. I couldn't understand myself for quite sometime about why could I still be happy watching the person I love being with someone else when I felt that my love wasn't reciprocated, and I was beaming for my first teenage love that way. I must have known deep down, that love should not be forced upon the other to giving back the love we want, I have always felt that I want love to be given to me freely, effortlessly.
This is confirmation to what I already understood
I’m scared that I don’t love anyone. If anyone left me, my opinion of them would be diminished and I would love them less. Is this... is that unnatural? This is true for every single person in my life. If you abandon me, you’re not who I thought you were.
This video brought back a memory I told my ex years ago. If he felt like he needed to be with another, be kind enough to let me go.
Wow! I truly love him. I didn't really know what it meant until this video. Thank you, Christina!
I truly love. The hard part for me is to keep on with my life, while carrying this love with me. It sometimes feels it’s so big that it becomes heavy.
I very much like your style of talks. Great insight
Thanks for the helpful knowledge
To be honest ... I think this is a beautiful theory. Sure it is an ideal. But almost impossible to live in the average day-to-day life. Particularly when there is a lot of pressure from the outside world.
I have made the most painful experiences with people who live this ‚love-model‘, this ‚revolutionary idea’ without respect for common ethic or moral, very egoistically.
Like I was so stressed out because of my one-year-old girl. She was born 10 weeks early and I was at the hospital with her a lot. My body felt awful at that time after the pregnancy. I felt unlovable. My nervous system was going nuts and I started fighting with my girls father. I felt, that he was leaving me. It was too much for him and I knew he would leave me alone. And that is exactly what happened. He already had found another woman for fun, laughter, massage, singing mantras and doing satsang at the ashram. And that‘s what he would call ‚unconditional love‘. 🤔🥳🙏
I've never stopped loving my divine counterpart even though I haven't heard from him in months. It just gets stronger each day
I really liked this video, and it gives me some insight into what real love looks like, but I'm not sure if I completely agree. It seems to me that what the video is saying is, "First in order to genuinely love someone else, you MUST genuinely love yourself first." Only then can you move on to the second phase in which Mrs. Lopes is talking about, being able to genuinely love someone else.
Sometimes True Love can mean sacrifice, like if you had done something bad in life but then you met someone and felll in love with them. You cared about them so much, because they were so special to you, you were scared that if you were to be with this person, what if your past caught up with you and they got hurt. You would never want that, so you didnt let that Love grow between the two of you, infact you kind of pushed them away until it got to the point you had not seen them in over 15years, and they more than likely moved on and have a family of their own by now.
But you always wondered if that person coming into your life was somekind of second chance from God or something, a way of letting you know that you have another chance to be "Good", because they are so good and pure and innocent and just beautiful and you have always been puzzled as to why it was you they found and fell for. So it becomes abit of a catch-22 thing and you spend the rest of your days never doing anything about it, just always wondering what might have been and forever missing that person.
That was lovely :) I agree that when you love someone , you just want them to be happy even if you are not really part of their lives ...
So true!!
Unconditional love, love set people free!!
Beautiful message, Christina. Thanks for posting this.
Beautiful, thank you Christina!
This is by far my favorite video from you🥰🥰🥰. I totally relate to this ❤❤⚘⚘⚘⚘
Thank you I believe this to be my truth - set them free to be themselves- just as we are self are love unconditionally 🦋🙏💯💜
I know I'm going to get a lot of nasty comments for this, but this explanation perfectly summarises what I feel and understand whenever I hear or read that "God loves us".
:D
+Gabboet Henao
I grew up with in the traditional christian church.
My father was a
minister.
This is the sort of Love he modelled for me, and why it is
the only Love I can really see as Love.
People who give you a nasty comment for saying what you understand are basically showing they cannot understand Love at all.
I am not a christian, but I do think the explanation of unconditonal love that God gives his children as explained in the bible, is pretty much exactly what this Love is.
The christian church at it's core preaches unconditional Love and grace which is supposed to be a gift that one cannot earn or lose through one's actions... That is Love.
I often when explaining my beliefs to people use the word Love as many would use the name of God. Essentially in my opinion they are one and the same thing.
Cristina you’re an angel ❤️
Thankx so much Gr8 advice yep Love is seeing the other person happy
I guess I always truly in love and loved someone in every relationship, just the different of less or more.
Love makes life wonderful. Namaste!
Not to be rude but this is ridiculous.
Wife: I want a divorce, husband. I met someone else who will make me happier.
Husband: Well. Hmmm. I love you so go be with the man that makes you happy. I won't go through any healthy stages of grief except acceptance. I just want you to be happy. I love you, my soon to be ex-wife. I will not get angry, sad or grieve because that is egotistical of me.
+PutMe Down Hi friend, You didnt get the point... Real love is nothing like attached together by physical it relates to mental which you feel in the brain or some quotes it heart.... According to your example...That is not love.. Yes husband has to say yes or women will choose her choice because she has same amount of freedom that husband has....The video explains you if real love is there between husband and wife, there is no word called unhappy.... Because they always happy at heart even if they dont smile on face....Hope you understand the author of the video view point....
Sometimes people can fall out of love, but the other person can still love that person and it can hurt like hell to let them go to the point many dont and it leads to fights or the other person having a affair. When really what they should have done was sit down and talk about it honestly, talk about why that person is no longer happy being with them. But if the person truly loved them, and they want to leave they would let them go. So they can find out for sure, if that is truly what they want. Thats relationships for you.
I would be incredibly hurt if that person, the woman wanted out of our relationship or marriage, but If she truly was not happy, I would let her leave, because no point in keeping her there in a loveless marriage, both lying to yourself and trying to act like everything is alright when it is not. If she was truly not happy, I would allow her to leave and end it, even if I loved her because I would truly want her to be happy in life, even if that meant not being with me. Id probably have a real good drink on that night and just basically drown my sorrows at loosing her, then I'd write a song about loosing her and the pain Im feeling in my heart, then that would become number one in the singles chart, make me hugely famous then she would realize and maybe we would find eachother again (all that last part after the drinking part was a joke) lol.
There is no one to make you happier you have to be happy with yourself first then you ll see that you will able to let go becauss the pther person has may be or just like you fall into a love without freeedom .
If I was the husband I would wish her good luck cause no one will make them happier. It's all temporary. I had this situation happen to me. And I realized that this had nothing to do with me but their disatisfaction with themselves. Bc most ppl look externally for happiness.
How I handled the situation was give them their freedom, of course I was hurt but once I say I love someone I will always. It's about realizing that ppl are growing and are on their own journey as well. They make mistakes and can get lost in life.
Things did not last with the other person bc they again grew unhappy . They tried to rekindle things with me. I told them while I will always love them we should remain friends. I wish only the best for this person.
When this happened I realized a time when I broke up with someone for very similar reasons and I then realized we all will get to experience both sides of this coin.
The key is will we learn from it.
Honestly I think everybody feels like that at first moment ...feeling angry, sad , ..and after all these egoistic emotions which you need to allow to be felt deeply , the most - pain, you will find your heart again and pure love ...and then you can let your love go for what feels to be happier with.
Thank you for true LOVE.
Thank you, Christina!
If u love someone u always wants their happiness 💖no matter what
I love this so much 🙏🏽💚 Thank you
I’ve always wondered when I see couples if that’s really their soulmate, is that really the love of their life.
This gives a loop hole for anyone who is in a committed monogamous marriage a easy escape. And puts guilt of "not really loving " on the spouse who is trying to save the marriage.
Thank you for this,i learned this lesson very recently.
April 20th 2021 - totally up to date , maybe more than ever
Omg....I'm in love?
this is true you can't love and be unhappy in a relationship, I seen mine looking and talking at someone attractive, then keep stepping cause that's where you want to be.
Yes but if someone intentionally tries to hurt you and you do love them? That’s extremely hurtful and sometimes hard to deal with and yes we are all are human and it’s natural to get mad or be upset. If you didn’t wouldn’t that mean you really don’t care? Thank you for sharing.
that is very good, I just started a friendship and already there are stipulations, what a turn off, I wondered why I feel bad about this ,sometimes its hard to understand my feelings this was wonderful info.
Thank you Christina💕 love you so much💌
Exactly true ... I was start feeling belongingness with a person in 2017 and than he said friends.. and I was okay than we talk for 2 year on off manner in which my transformation happened and got to knew that he’s my spiritual partner .. then I set all in GODs hand ... and after few months he came back to me with the truth that he has a baby and wife ... with him from back 4 year .. he said I feel you have to know this ... I said it’s okay ... my love for you never be less by any other reason.. just you have to be happy... in June 2019 ..
still I m loving him ...myself ... just love ... ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love sets them free Nd you too and makes you strong .. and love ... ❤️❤️❤️ whole in you
Thank you so much!
Thanks for sharing this it truly resonates with me...Namaste!
OK. But if the person gets offensive to you, wouldn't you want them to change? Also, isn't unconditional love best challenged in difficult times between the 2 partners? Do you really love when the person is near perfect and never offends you, never hurts you, always achieves greatness in caring about you, like when you are soulmates? It's all so confusing.
thank you so much.. this video makes me realize if i truly loves him or not :) bless y
okay so I know this is so wrong but I actually fell in love with my cousin.. yeah I know so wrong.. but I do love him and I know we cant be together so I'm trying to just accept the fact and move on ;-;
forever
I love you Christina ❤❤❤❤❤
So alll my life I actually been loving people the rightway... just not reciprocated. I thought I was crazy for STILL loving people who hurt me. 🤦🏾♂️
But what if someone said they feel differently about you without actually directing it to you in a serious way and you get a little feeling of rejection, and feel like you get a little bit hurt by that, but go back to liking him in a few minutes? Is that still real love or not?
In my opinion yes, it takes a lot of strength to actually go back to that person and forgive them. While I was pregnant with mine and my husband first child last year, he told me that he no longer found me attractive, and no longer sexually attracted to me. I planned to leave the following week and get a divorce... we hadn’t even been married a year by that time. But something made me stay, probably my child, but still almost a year later it hurts tremendously to think that that happened to me and my relationship. I’m not sure why he felt the need to say that and the next day he told me that he had no clue why he said that. I guess it was the alcohol... anyways, I think that it’s still love. I never stopped loving him, no matter how many times he’s hurt me with his words.
And love stays forever :)
Love you! ❤❤❤
Great video on true love.
How could someone get o e of these bike chairs for my son he's disabled and i would live tiget tjis for him
wauw.... I just realized, that my ex and I never loved eachother... we just thought so. No wonder it didn't work out, first, second or third time.... I still want him to change ;-)
If only everyone thought this way....
u r perfect the way u r
Love ur videos!
waiting for u
Beautiful🌻🦋
Man, that's deep
I wish I can see it...oneday!
I wanna love u forever ever never let u go..
It is a little bit difficult to get use to this idea .i may not won’t to possess my lover or wish him grief or hate him cause he won’t love me back but I will be neutral no hate and no love
Love is action......
What do I do if I find out I did have love understood all wrong? How do I learn to love(my husband)? I have so much gratitude towards him, I want to learn how to love
love is not special. but we all want that special relationship. that ment to be kind of thing.
and our specialness messes it up?
Thank you.
thx , i am Egyptian and i love Paula Mariana from Brazil love is love
Beautiful!
Thank you ❤
But chrisitina love doesnt happen towards an object, do not know in love whether the question of you or me arises ?
I really enjoy her earlier videos the newer Concepts I'm not too connected with I seem to resonate more with her older videos the new concepts of seem 2 commercial for me
But if we are always afraid to LOVE? i can love my parents, my brother, or my future kids like this... but someone else?....
***** thanks for replying Christina!
+Ana Kublashvili
Real Love (I always use a capital letter as I see it as both a verb and a noun like an entity that is also an action) can never cause you to be hurt.
Conditional love however is pretty much sure to hurt, no matter what you do or expect, people change, and they will dissappoint you.
If you feel hurt in any relationship that is a blessing because it is an opportunity for learning and personal growth.
I honestly believe this is because I have experienced it. If you can't see the lesson in any situation you are going to have to experience it again.
Hiding from any interactions can teach you patience, self control, but in cutting yourself off from social interactions and Love, you cut yourself off from Loving yourself too, which is an essential component of being able to truly Love any other.
I hope you find what you need to help you grow into who you really are.
Brightest blessings and Love.
You are so beautiful ♡ thank you.
Thats me now
I love and am loved but will never find true love meaning inn love
Is there such a thing ?
Is there a difference?
Thank you
Your amazing and vibrant and beautiful 💖
Why didn’t I discover you 4 years ago
It's true, but isn't it natural to want to be with someone you love?
Of course it is.
True that!🤗🤗
But if that person is cunning he/she can take advantage of that. First they will leave you and u out of love would say - it would wonderful if i m a part of ur happiness but its also wonderful if i m not. And then one day when u r again happy in ur life and that person will return and ask.. would u like to be the part of my happiness?
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 God is love Ego love, sounds like codependency to me