Lets Talk about Disability & Adam's Childhood Art - Studio Art Vlog
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We're Adam and Steph, we're a British Art couple that love to make art together despite both having disabilities. Adam is colourblind and Steph has a neurological disorder which means she has a tremor, this throws some extra obstacles our way when it comes to creating art but we still enjoy the process anyway! Subscribe to follow along with our future art adventures :o)
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Holy crap that lil lobster is so cute!! 🥰 Thank you for making this little corner of the internet so cozy and safe 🥰
We cannot do it without the kindness and support from sweet people like you! ❤
jesus is alive with a bunch of christian crosses as the kisses is something out of a horror movie that is sooo funny hahahah
omg maybe they were crosses after all but why so many?! HAHA
Seeing this as the top comment before seeing the card was the most surreal thing haha!
I think a lot of chronically ill/disabled/invisible disability ppl who were raised "healthy" without an diagnosis or also just getting worse you go through grief, grief over the loss of that "normal" life yoy were told you'd have. Mby it's finally accepting that you need a mobility aid, or accepting that you're never getting "better" It's a very specific kind of grief. (I currently cannot use my hands without my hands hurting and I habe adhd so sometimes it takes months between me drawing or sewing)
If you’re in the US, it might be worth it to give edible thc a try for pain relief! I know there’s still a weird stigma surrounding anything marijuana related, but it is so dang effective against pain. It’s an amazing medicinal little plant. 🌱
I've been feeling absolutely terrible this week too, and "Jesus is alive" gave me a big belly laugh when I though tI was totally joyless so thanks for that.
LOL Im so happy this could bring you some joy, i completely forgot i ever made something like this!
Long-time viewer (and mostly lurker) here. Just wanted to share that to me, and probably the vast majority of people, it doesn't matter what you create, as long as you have fun doing it. Don't ever feel guilty. People might have subscribed because they liked something specific, but those who stick around will stay for who you are. I really enjoy your videos because they are relaxing, and you are keeping me company. 🥰
I agree. I'm subscribed for the vibes.
Absolutely! I’m here to see your guys and have fun with art and life! And of course the serious moments too. It doesn’t matter what kind of art you are doing it’s fun to see you enjoy it
Adam is so supportive and kind. I would like to have someone like that around.
He's a total sweetheart and im lucky to have him!! 💞
@@DoodleDate you are both lucky to have each other ❤️
You have no idea how lucky you are to have someone like him.
Steph, it's totally okay if you switch between hobbies! I think I speak for the majority of subscribers when I say that we're here for you, for your personality, for your creativity, no matter what medium you work in!
I always say my hobby is collecting hobbies!
Totally! I love them more for their wholesomeness than anything else. The hobbies are just bonus content. :D
I have a disability that gives me terrible imposter syndrome about it, it makes it hard for me to feel comfortable leaving the house because I'm so afraid of having an episode somewhere and getting into trouble where I can't communicate and have trouble with mobility, I've been considering getting a mobility aid to carry around just in case I need it, but then sometimes I'm relatively able bodied and that's when the imposter syndrome kicks in. Arg! The struggle is real!
Aw. I'm so sorry. I have Fibromyalgia and so I look very able bodied but doing everything is very tyring and painful. I have a handicap placard and I'm always scared of getting yelled at or bad mouthed when I use it. So I can definitely empathize with you! I hope you can find something that works for you in terms of mobility!
Jesus is Alive is exactly the perfect Easter message tbh lol
You're totally right Christine haha
I love that doodle date shows so many mediums of art it has really helped me come out of my comfort zone with my own art :)
Aww thats so cool to hear Bunny, we appreciate your support too! :D
Totally agree! I love how playful and experimental art is on Doodle Date, it definitely helped me try new things!
The way my jaw dropped at the little lobster!!! What a cutie!
Same here !!
Steph has inspired me to ask for help with my mobility and get a aid
This is wonderful new jade! it can be very hard to take the first step but this will only be a positive and helpful thing for you! 💞
I think there are tools to help make applying safety eyes easier! It essentially is a handle with a hole that gives you more leverage to press down the backing
Omg no way i literally just got Steph some of those as well HAHA
I've been watching for years and that's specifically because of the two of you. You could switch off of art entirely and I would still watch. You're my comfort channel and I get very excited every time a new video drops. Being disabled is really hard. I've recently had to come to terms with my own. I'm in a weird place where I'm not disabled enough to qualify for aid in the US, but I'm also not able bodied enough to be able to hold down a job. I'm very lucky to have a supportive partner and I am so very glad you both have each other. ❤
Aww thank you so much for the sweetest words, it's much appreciated! ;u; Also I totally understand what you mean, I feel like most of my life I've been in a category of "not disabled enough" while simultaneously also being "not able bodied enough" It can feel very invalidating which is sad, I wish I'd reached out to more disability communities sooner because they all seem so understanding
I've seen people using safety eye tools that help get them snapped into place. They have different types, and many people without disabilities use them too 😊
I just got some and theyre so helpful!!
the way you edited "jesus is alive" is just perfect 👏👏
HE HASTH RISEN
You definitely aren't alone sweet Steph. In my early thirties I found out that I had a pituitary tumor that shut down my immune and reproductive systems. Because of this I have osteoporosis, Addison's Disease, Hashimato's Disease, and Undifferentiated Connective Tissue Disease. I have a laundry list of disorders, including Autism. It's hard, but I think people with disabilities are made a bit stronger so we can cope. You are awesome, never forget that. ❤
9:00 first of all, crazy cool lobster friend.
about your concerns going through phases in art. I guess I speak for everyone here: we may be clicked our the first doodle date video for the art; but we stayed for you, guys. be you, that's what we love
Thank you so much blue this honestly made me emotional
I have an artist friend who used to stress a lot over something similar. She worried because she knew that most of her followers started following her for what she drew first, but she wanted to create varied art and try different art supplies since she likes a lot of different things. In the end she decided to create whatever she wanted to create, and those followers who weren't interested in more varied content found other people to follow, and my friend got new followers who like the varied content that she loves to make, plus she kept some of the old followers as well. So everyone won, and my friend now loves drawing again :)
Aw I'm so glad it worked out for her! I absolutely love watching other mixed media artists just trot along and chase wherever inspiration takes them next
disability is much more common than we are ever lead to believe, Steph. You are not alone! It's a normal human experience. Losing ability over time sucks and i also understand the need for time to adjust and mourn the things you used to do or want to do.
Most people become disabled if they live long enough and age (not to say it's just old people, just to point out it's so so common as a human and we just dont think of disability that way)
This! Even having to wear eye glasses or contacts is technically a "disability" it's just a VERY common & easily treated one! However, people like me are still losing vision over time & will be really struggling to see when I'm older 😂😭
such a cute lobster!!🥰never worry about not creating when you are having a bad time. Health comes first!
Youre so right 💞
You are definitely not alone Steph. My wish for you is that you will always find comfort in knowing that. ❤️
Im so glad we are able to support one another on here ❤
@@DoodleDate ❤️
Aw, I love that baby Adamo was preaching! 💙💖
That Lobster is AMAZING! You have come so far so quickly with your crochet! Great job!! 💜😊
Thank you! 😊
i have EDS and i relate to what you said about "masking" your disability since its not something people can see from looking at you. i grew up with alot of chronic pain (mostly in my wrists and legs) and before knowing about my EDS, it would suck when id be with people walking for a very long time and them not understanding that i need to sit every once and a while. but after getting my EDS diagnosis it all made sense and i was able to be more vocal about my needs.
im very proud that youre able to be open about your disability and im sending lots of love and support from a fellow disabled/neurodivergent person
@doodle date I think I have mentioned before that I have cerebral palsy and have tremors which I have tried to adapt to especially when I write, type, or draw. I think patience and giving yourself grace is important. It affects my motor skills, balance, and mobility. I can relate to having hip troubles and all of a sudden feeling stuck, that’s the only way I can explain it. Thank you for sharing your experience with us it inspires me to do my best in my drawing class and keep working toward my Art and Foreign Language degree. I hope you know how much you both inspire me and help me whenever I am anxious, feeling down, or in pain.
That Lobster ist so heccin cute!!!
Good job making that!!
Also I wanted to share that I also have a walking disability... and I've been struggling with it a lot throughout the years.
I used to be able to walk quite fast like a speedy lil gremlin and suddenly I started being able to walk less and less and it has gotten more painful the longer I walk. Nowadays I walk like 10 minutes and my legs start seizing up to the point where I can't move them properly anymore , including my feet. They basically turn into stone and I just kind of have to stumble around in extreme pain until i have somewhere to sit and rest for like 30 minutes.
I went on a 3 day trip with my sister last year and I could barely enjoy it because I was just in constant pain walking around all the time to the point where I had to find places to sit around the city that weren't necessarily meant for sitting or sometimes were inconvenient for other people (some German cities suck at giving enough public places to sit tbh... which is not exactly great for disabled people and other people who might need to sit down every few mins while walking around a city) like i had to sit on big (sturdy) flower pots for bigger potted trees n stuff...as well as uncomfy af metal stairs...that people wanted to use multiple times so i could only rest for like 3 minutes and i felt terrible about being a burden to them, chairs at restaurants only to be shooed away because i wasnt a customer, poles (like metal poles to prevent cars driving through an area) rocks...with ants on them...etc. you get it. Wasn't great.
And the thing is.... Idk why I have this, what it is nor what could help and or cure it if it even is something curable...
I want to give some awareness to the people that might have a disabling illness / condition and don't realise it or don't know what it is or dont have anyone that helps them.
I've tried multiple times to go to the doc with it, but all they did is give me shoe inlays. I do have flat feet. I see the reason why they did this. But sadly they don't help. And now that the doc has "helped" me even though ive told that they dont help they are just not giving me any other treatment options. I've been trying to get treatment since 2018. Not one soul has figured out what it is or only have given me speculations like "stiff person syndrome" but then denied it because i didnt have a certain amount of symptoms to validate any treatment plans or the idea thereof. And it feels like I just have to prove myself over and over and over again and then they still dont believe me or try to put any amount of effort to find a treatment plan that isn't just "lose 1kg every month. bye" (cause that's so easy.....when you can't use your muscles to do sports, and gain weight like crazy even when eating healthy for several y e a r s. Hypothyroidism at it's finest....not the thing( or at least hoping) that is causing my leg issues tho) due to that I've had a different type of disability masking that stems from basically being untreated even after seeking help a billion times. Where I just push myself through my pain in order to keep up with others, or get to work on time or stand in the bus for 2 hours straight because all seats are taken...even though I could ask people to let me sit and even sit at the seats for disabled people because im in literal pain just standing up at that point...how is that not disabling is what I want to ask my doctor constantly. So I try to prove it to myself somehow??? But then at the same time I don't take actions to help myself, even tho I'm literally in agony but yet I half subconsciously and consciously dont ask for help because others dont want to help me or even seem to avoid trying to help me. I dont understand myself either....nor the actions of others...but in the moment I feel ashamed and like a liar and tell myself that I dont have a disability even though I clearly have SOMETHING disabling me from doing a normal, standard life thing that humans do a lot of. Something that is expected of you to do since being a tiny lil gremlin child and I can barely do it anymore only 24 years into life.
I keep telling myself that I'm not alone with this. Steph has once again made me realise that THAT is a fact not just a thought or theory. I'm not alone, YOU'RE not alone, STEPH is not alone. And the fact that she has come to terms with it inspired me to also try to beat myself up LESS about it (still working on doing that not at all. It's a tough but doable process) I try to be more open about why I got to work late, why I can't go long walks like i used to, why i cant do a lot of things anymore. And I try to not fault myself for it or see myself as worthless compared to people who walk fine and have to wait for me as i slowly stumble my way over to them after having walked for 15 minutes. It is fine. I'm sure eventually I'll get something that helps me walk better. A lot of people, including the dear Steph, have overcome their fears and worries. Both people who know what their disability is and the people that are left in the dark with pain and many questions left unanswered. You're not alone. You can do it. It takes practice and maybe even a few tries. But it is doable to accept the way you are and give yourself self love and the right care. If that means staying at home because you simply cant make youre body or mind work that day. Let it be. Give yourself rest and love. Ask and seek help when needed and dont try to power through pain and struggles and take time off from activities that are difficult for you to manage. If you are in a similar situation as me and probably many other's try your best at seeking help from multiple sources if possible. I'm in the process of trying to do so... I have yet to successfully find a better doctor that will actually help me but that is just MY situation. Yours will be a different story. But you have to start it.
I'm so sorry if this is a lot to read, if there's repeat sentences or meanings in those and grammar errors, it's because English is not my native language (German is) and even though I'm quite fluent in it there might be a few mistakes here 'n there... cant expect myself to speak perfect English at 1 am in the morning being emotional about a lot of life stuff lol
I can’t tell you how much the last two videos you’ve made mean to those of us in the chronically ill and disabled community. Saying that there was nothing you could change to have a different outcome is possibly the one most impactful comment you made. You have helped me realize when I am “masking” and denying myself the reality of my disability. I got myself a cane 2 years ago at 36 and that was a very hard thing to do. Thank you for sharing and thank you for caregiving for someone so special. If everyone could have that support it would be a different world. Also, crocheting is my favorite hobby…when my hands allow keep it up!!!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Aww cozy piggies! That lobster is amazing 😮
I think its the best thing Steph's made so far! Its such an adorable lil guy!!
I personally just love watching people be excited about art. I don't care what kind, medium, etc. watching someone be excited and want to share their progress is why i subscribe
think of it this way steph: people who love you would want to know if you're in pain and would prefer to slow down in consideration of you than let you silently hurt!
but i know it's a hard instinct to overcome, especially if you've had bad past experiences. speaking on our own behalf is a skill we all need to learn, and it takes courage and time!
I'm too spooked to open up about my disability stuff but I will say that I relate to Steph's fears and feelings about mobility aids and I had the same moment where I got stuck too and it was TERRIFYING! Thank you for opening up Steph, Its really hard and I'm so proud of you!!!
it brings me so much joy to see you learning to embrace your disability! I'm 18 and a full time walking stick user (have been since a few years back) and used to watch you heaps when I first got sick because it made me feel a bit less lonely being stuck at home because the sun caused flare ups and I had all these clots in my legs and my heart was weak and hips crooked and all these issues but sitting in bed doodling and watching you guys felt like a nice cozy hang out with my friends and honestly helped more than you could imagine
it just brings me so much happiness knowing that we're able to help you feel less lonely like you did - and still do! with us
Dearest Steph, I’m so happy to hear an update from you, so sorry to hear you’re going through this, because you and Adam bring me so much sunshine, and I only wish I could bring you half as much of the joy you’ve given me over the years, being like pals I can draw with and not feel alone when I draw. I can relate with chronic illness, it’s very tough to just get out of bed some days. I just adore your channel and the way you two make all of us smile. I hope you will find rest, and even if you don’t pray, you are in my prayers, because it is the kindest thing I know how to do, when feeling helpless, other than supporting your channel by sharing and watching your videos like I have for years now. And Adam, seeing you take such sweet care of Steph is so lovely!
Thank you Adam and Steph for inspiring me to keep creating! Wishing you well!
I don't want to speak on anyone else's behalf, but I personally never subbed to this channel because of you doing only one kind of thing. This channel has adapted over time and the fact that you are so artistic in many areas, adaptive and willing to try new media, is the reason I've stuck around! Not everyone can just do the same thing all the time, whether it's for health reasons or just bc they get bored and want to flex a new creative muscle. We're here for YOU, you do what makes you happiest and we'll keep cheering you on.
I know other people have talked about their experiences with disability, but I just wanted to say I'm so happy you've felt comfortable opening up about your disability, Steph!
I'm 21 years old and have chronic pain in my back and hips and I have to use a cane as well. I'm incredibly proud of you! It's really validating to see other people talk about it. I was really embarrassed and anxious about using it when I got it because I was young and "no one my age uses mobility aids. I'm not old!" but seeing that there's younger people using their mobility aids and talking about their disabilities made me feel so validated.
I've watched you guys for many many years since your mcdonald's mermaids video and it's honestly comforting to know I'm not alone. You guys are doing amazing. Thank you for doing what you do!
not physical disability but as an autistic person i so often am burnt out after doing the "bare minimum" expected of me , and i still live at home and have support with cleaning and dishes. a full time job plus a few chores leaves me with so little energy i can't engage in hobbies or socialize the way i want to in my free time, because i just have NO energy to spare, and it SUCKS
from the outside i feel like i look "lazy" (and have been judged as such), and it sucks when i see other people able to juggle jobs, kids, hobbies, exercise and appointments. where does the energy come from???
some days i don't even have the spoons to call my bf and i have to flake. it sucks! But i've been trying to combat my negative self image by telling myself "if it were true laziness, you wouldn't be upset you couldn't do it"
I watch for art friends not specific things. I watch because our creative minds think alike. I watch because seeing you and adam support each other. I watch because i like to grow with you!
You act apologetic like you didnt just make a coloring book. You act apologetic as if you havent gone from hiatus to lovely weekly vlogs. You're apologizing as if we as a community havent been with you the whole time 😊. Do what you do. People can get art content all over the place nowadays. We are here for YALL!
Love you guys!
Awww the lobster is so adorable!! Steph has gotten so amazing at crochet in such a short amount of time! I've really been enjoying the vlogs but would love to see like a doodles and tea or something like that again!
It sounds like it is grief. Grieving for a life you thought you would have. Hang in there, Steph and allow yourself to feel that and work through, then past it. Disabilitys are hard no matter what they are and we all need support. We are here for you both and love you all regardless. You all are amazing people!😊❤
I really needed to see these last couple of videos, and seeing everyones comments to you, makes me feel less alone/isolated, so thank you. I have chronic fatigue and pain issues from it, and about a month ago got a walking cane, and am really self conscious about using it, and have used it once despite needing to use it. Hopefully I’ll feel more more comfortable using it. I’m in my 40s and this week just gone I got my diagnosis, that I’m autistic. So still a lot going on.
you guys could literally watch paint dry and id still happily watch. I'm here for you as people, you guys bring great comfort to me and make me feel like i'm haning out with friends when I can't irl
This is one of my favorite corners of youtube, it's so cozy !
Such a cute clip to end on!! Just want Steph to know that I find her massively relatable. I found out in the last few years that I'm autistic with hip issues as well, and my sibling has recently been diagnosed with fibromialga, with their own issues with their knees and ankles. We're a pair lol, and we both grew up on your videos through middle and high school! Hearing you talk about your struggles and especially the idea of masking your disabilities is really helpful, and I think it's super important! Much love 💜
Honestly... I stay for the vibes and literal tea ☕️😂 I love putting your videos on for my puppers while im gone for a while too, they like to watch ❤
That lobster is adorable! Well done Steph! And thank you for your bravery when it comes to sharing your health struggles/disabilities. I have a very underactive thyroid that makes it hard for me to lose weight, which is frustrating. It is very hard for children to draw crosses properly, most of them draw plus signs like Adam’s until they are about 6. Love your piggies, they are so cute ( I had one growing up, called Guinness).
Our family found your channel years ago because of art but have stayed because of both of your fun personalities 💙! I’m so glad you feel safe talking to us about your health issues. We think you are both Amazing!
Aw thank you for the support Becky, it means a lot! Its taken a long time to feel brave enough to talk about these things haha D:
Hi! I've been a follower since 2017 which is around when I started noticing my tremor. watching your videos where you talk about your struggles, especially struggles that people often think gets in the way of being an artist means so much to me. Thanks to you guys I've always been able to tell myself that I can make art even though my hands tremble. I actually got a bit teary eyed watching this video. I love you guys, you are a huge inspiration
Sorry, if you’ve covered this and I missed it, but I appreciate you being open to questions, so I wonder if you have a diagnosis that gives you an understanding of your symptoms? I ask because so many of us struggle to find a “diagnosis” or catch all explanation of our conditions, which is frustrating and invalidating of the struggles we face. I have GPA, an autoimmune disorder that causes inflammation that can lead to organ damage. It’s rare, with weird symptoms, like many autoimmune conditions, and it has taken years to diagnose. My daughter, following in my footsteps, seems to have connective tissue issues and we suspect an Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome type. Unfortunately, she feels so badly most of the time that we struggle to get her to a doctor for testing. Slow and steady is the best we can do, but I wish that we understood more about these disorders so they were easier to diagnose. Great to see you feeling supported and soaking in love from the disability community! ;)
I've watched you guys for years and I remember when you first mentioned hand tremors and there was this lightbulb moment for me because for years my hands had been shaky just progressively getting worse sometimes to the point where i'd drop things coupled with blackening vision and fainting spells and fatigue, all kind of fun stuff that made getting around and going to work difficult. Like you, sometimes while out with friends I would have sit down on the floor at the mall just to catch my breath kind of thing. But that video gave me a description for what my hands were doing and helped give me a push to go to doctors and start looking into it. I still don't have a definite diagnosis or anything and I had an incident where my hands shook a bunch, i blacked out and hit my head off a wall. All this to say, it's scary when your body is doing things you can't control and you don't have the energy to do the things you feel like you should be able to. You're not alone. For me whatever this is comes and goes though the past few months i can actually hold my hands steady for the first time in years. But your video back then helped me to kind of stop ignoring whatever it is that's going on with my body and actually take it more seriously and seek help. So thank you for sharing. Also everybody could use an Adamu hype man in their lives. You both have such a wholesomely loving and welcoming vibe that comes through in all your videos
What a beautiful drawing of Steph you made Adam!
That lobster is so cute! Well done Steph!
i saw your cane in the last video, i love the design! i got one with cats on it myself to make it more fun and feel more like me :)
the lobster looks beautiful btw!
Thank you so much Crow!!
I'm so glad that you're opening up about your struggles! I relate a lot to the horror of pushing yourself to the limit and realizing that you can't go anymore - it's such a scary isolating experience especially if you're in a public space. Both sides of my family struggle with disorders, disabilities and the like, and I got just about everything. I just recently finally got a cane after years of desperately needing one! I went to a market the same day and it was night and day difference. Usually after an outing I can't move for days, but thank god for my fiance buying me a cane! It helps exponentially. I hope you both had a great Easter and I hope you're both feeling well!!
Oh I understand the stress of magic circles ! I still haven't mastered them lol
Happy Easter you guys, and I hope you guys are doing okay! ^o^ God bless you both!
Thank you! You too! :)
Thank you Steph for sharing❤ incredibly brave of you. I'm happy you can finally be yourself without having to put a mask on. Proud of you guys❤
Steph with her stick is such a cute and inspiring drawing!
Tag yourself as a sleepy guinea boy. I'm Creston
Your crochet lobster is gorgeous! ❤ would you be able to provide a link to any patterns you use in the description for us who also crochet to join in with you?
As someone who has been watching you for...4 years, maybe 5? I don't care what you do, ya'll make me smile and look forward to whatever video you post. (But I do look forward to seeing the piggies, their antics are so adorable)
Lobster is so cute! I watch for y’all, please make whatever art and content in general that y’all want ❤
i'm just here to say thank you, because when i saw Steph's cane i was like "oh yeah right, canes exist, huh"
i have since gotten one myself and it's such a tremendous difference, it helps so much! i've had my health issues forever and somehow it hasn't occured to me before watching this video that i can just,, you know,, get some help in the form of a cane 😅
like, seriously, thank you so much!!
THE CRAB IS SO CUTE OMG!
Also Thank you for making doodledate a safe space for those with disabilities in the art community and thank you for helping spread awareness!
Hang in there Steph I believe in you and your doing amazing! The same goes to anyone else in the comments struggling with disability! 🫶🏻💖
Also the I love my cane art of Steph is so amazing and gorgeous! Such positive and beauty for spreading awareness! 🥺🫶🏻💖
Jesus is ALIVE and the forest of croses xD
HE HAS RISEN IISJAH
Happy Easter! Thank you Steph for being comfortable with sharing with us. I deal with sciatic nerve pain and often it makes it hard to get around at the same place as others
I've been watching you guys' videos for so many years now and I honestly enjoy all forms of videos you guys made!
As an artist who likes to do every type of art I can, I really like seeing Steph's interests and skill develop!
Omg starting the video with PA-PAYA gave me life! Best event music from FFXIV 😊
Both me and my boyfriend suffer from sleeping and back issues, and as we get older our bodies and mind changes. Looking after ourselves will always be important. Rest when you need to and lissen to what your body wants. You guys gave me a community that is friendly and an amazing place to chat and share art or my struggles. All the love goes to you Steaph and Adam who work so hard on the community that you guys gave us.
I grew up only knowing one other friend having one of the same health issues as me, so at times it did feel lonely not knowing anybody else with my other health problems. Thank you Steph for opening up, it does make me feel less alone! P.S. I love that the Lobster Claws were little hearts! So cute Steph! And I'm glad other you tubers are opening up to explain their own health issues to create some sort of community. If you want to watch someone Molly Burke has a great UA-cam channel too and she also has a guide dog too. Keep up the great art projects Adam & Steph!
I’m so glad I found your guys’ channel. I have fibromyalgia and autism and I can really relate to your struggles with disability, especially the attempting to mask your disability. I also have hip issues from when I was a kid, so it’s nice to see and know I’m not alone :))
Jesus jumpscare card is my fave thing about easter from now on.
I also wanted to add, we autistic people need to acknowledge that mental stress can have a big impact on our physical bodies. So when you're out in public exercising your body & exposing your mind to over-stimulation, it's going to cause hurt to the body. So, please keep in mind that your body is also enduring the mental stress of masking & keeping yourself together while over stimulated. ♡
I realize this is an old video but I can definitely relate Steph. Sometimes i sit down and my muscles tighten up and i can barely get back up and put pressure on my legs.
I'm autistic, adhd, with osteoarthritis and sciatica. I have to use mobility aids. I also have PCOS whoch makes me insulin resistant so I can't eat a whole lot like i would want to before diagnosis. I have times when i can barely get out of bed and that makes my depression worse. Not being able to communicate well my needs and stuff really frustrates me. Causes more depression to where some days i have no energy whatsoever. I can't do art anymore cuz my hands cramp so bad i can barely write my name. Healthcare in America is also awful that i can barely afford to see the specialists i need either. Its not just age but health conditions overall. I get so frustrated that i can't do or enjoy things that others can. I wish i could afford the healthcare to keep my body moving and the surgery/physical therapy it needs to keep going. You're so fortunate to have good healthcare and someone to take care of you like Adam. I'm on my own and i hate having to ask my friends and family for help 😢
J E S U S I S A L I V E
*CHOIR INTENSIFIES*
Hello!! I’m so glad I came across your channel. Although I don’t have a disability, there was a time I couldn’t walk for 5 minutes without my hips hurting for 3 days later and it getting harder and harder to walk. I’m not sure what it is, but apparently my hips were clicky as a baby and it’s something the nurse noticed… I’m 20 and it made me feel super uncomfortable and alone so it’s really nice knowing there are people who can relate ( even though it’s unfortunate ).
I have multiple recurring dreams/nightmares about not being able to walk and eventually having to crawl/stop or my legs just don’t move… I guess it’s because of the issue I have. Thankfully it hasn’t happened for a while but it is so nice to be able to relate.
You guys are so nice and positive and I’m about to binge watch your videos 😁💕🌸
P.s I love the drawing and the piggies!! Sooo cute 💕
Love it you you, Steph, and everyone in the community, to discuss openly about your disabilities, cuz i know too that takes soooooooooo muuuuuucchhhhhhh reflection and bravery to do! recently i've been more accepting myself for taking any small accommodation and it's been so much better in every way. it's so funny when after the acknowledgement and commitment to the accommodations, you realise it's just as simple as "you need something, you find way to tend to the need", but it's just so hard to have that mindset with all the ablist surrounding. talk about it open really does a massive help
My dose of comfort is here, yay! Such a cute lobster! Thank you for opening up, Steph! I am so happy you have such a kind and supportive partner! Hugging you all and wishing a nice week!
I worked at a bakery that worsened my arthritis a LOT. I ended up buying myself a cane to help on the days where my knees and ankles were especially sore from work. I felt bad at first, thinking that I was 'too young' or 'not disabled' enough to need a mobility aid. But the more I thought about it, the more I thought about how me having a cane might show someone ese that there's no shame in seeking out things to make your life easier. sometimes our bodies just need a little help, and if that hep lets you be able to walk, enjoy life, etc, then why not take it if you can?
I love seeing you two try out new hobbies and mediums, and it's helped me dip my toes into all sorts of new things. people aren't/dont have to be masters of a single trade. watching Steph improve her crochet skills makes me want to get better at cross-stitching and sculpting!! Anything is possible with enough practice and patience
When you said "Jesus is alive" I started cracking up. That is genuinely so hilarious. Love you both to bits!
This easter we have been blessed with sleepy piggies and a beautiful lobster friend!
LOL Thank you potts!!
Honestly accepting disability is like giving up having an able bodied life and grieving that. I never apply the word to myself bc most of my struggles are hidden but I've definitely had to accept there will always be more steps involved in me doing things and some things I just can't do. Aging is generally disabling anyhow so I guess it's a path we'll all have to walk. Looking forward to being cane buddies though! Crippin in style 😂💜
I'm glad Steph's feeling better.
I just ordered some things from rebubble as I needed some pouches. My health has made it so that I'm having to spend weeks on end at my mum's to the point we're duplicating some things so I don't have to cart things across the country every other month. Some doodledate pouches and stickers will make this guest room feel more like mine.
That Easter card is fabulous. I remember colouring in Jesus being crucified in primary school, blood included, for an Easter card so I'm not hugely shocked by jesusisalive.
Sending Steph huge hugs, you'd be surprised how many young and younger people are disabilities.
I believe we're about the same age and I'm in pain nearly every day, well actually everyday, it's just different pains. (Be it muscle, joint, nerve or headaches there isn't a day that goes by where there isn't something).
Sadly we're trying to figure out what it is atm.
It's not easy, it's such a struggle but you're definitely not alone.
Speaking about it more will make you more comfortable about accepting it because knowing there are others are going through things (although we all wish none of us were).
The little crayfish is so cute I love him so much... also love the drawing Adam did of Steph with her cane that's so sweet
I so struggle to keep up with people as well!!
Im so glad Adamo knows my speed limit so i can get about a lot easier
Steph, your crochet is looking awesome!
One thing that really helped me was to read about the disability rights movement and disability pride. "Being Heumann" by the late disability rights activist Judith Heumann is one of my favorites. It is really energizing to me to feel connected to all the fierce advocates who fought for our civil rights.
Steph we’re all here to support you and we appreciate your efforts for the channel so much! We love you a lot and your relationship with Adamo is so wholesome it’s so sweet to see you guys support and love each other!
I would love to recommend another lovely UA-camr who is also disabled and also in Britain! Her channel is Jessica out the closet she talks about lots of thing but she is particularly open about her disabilities and her journey through it. Maybe listening to her stories or her perspectives could help you find strength in your quest in understanding your body.
i wonder of those "plus signs" are crosses? makes me remember my own times in a religious preschool and all the bible themed crafts i did
yaa i like to hear ur stories & convos
Dark side crochet makes amazing looking safety eyes and tools to use to put them on, they also make horns for things too
Thanks for the tip Kelly! Theres so many amazing resources for crochet I LOVE IT
I enjoy you both no matter what medium you're trying it. It's entertaining to hear your opinions/experiences on different mediums, or just different things in general. You could review candy or something & it's entertaining to me ♡ don't worry too much about it.
I hope that you get more and more comfortable putting your own needs regarding your pain and disability first Steph. I bet no one wants you to be in pain so I think it´s great that you started talking more about it. ❤
I’ve recently started to use a cane too, and its really scary and upsetting. Thank you for sharing your story and experience. It makes me feel not so alone! I hope I can do the same for you! ❤❤❤
I love how this channel has such a big disabled audience❤. Im not physically disabled, but as an autistic person whos autism can give me physical pains, I related to some of the stuff steph talked about. Steph, you are valid and doing amazing!!! JESUS IS ALIVE 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
i am in love
would be delighted to receive that in the mail
I remember the day I said yep I need a cane. I ended up getting my grandfathers old folding cane and it made such a difference. I was the same saying I’m too young for this (I was mid 20’s when I got it, nearly 30 now) and I was just so scared. I now can walk 3x as far, and can do so much more. I also walk faster with it. I also later got a walker which is great for going to the park or festivals or even just things where I know there aren’t many seats. My friend bought it for me, she had overheard me mentioning needing to get one but
the money was an issue. I cried when she gave it to me. It has given me so much.
I ended up using a wheelchair for a convention and holy moly I was able to do a 2 day con.
I have ehlers danlos syndrome, CAM lesions (bone spurs on the hip), dislocating hips and other joints, knee and ankle problems from playing 15 years of netball, and a few other things. I had a bad wrist injury many years ago that never really healed and my other wrist gets narky with me occasionally.
Oh and I have tremors, endometriosis, migraines and some mental health issues.
And I so relate to the multi media thing. I knit, draw/paint, make jewellery, make resin things, sculpt and sew. I see for humans and dolls.
My bedroom is just a mess of the crafts I do. Right now in my bed I have art books, knitting things and jewellery making supplies lol.
Love your channel ❤️ we all have some kind of issues and the honesty is refreshing. We love you both, and thank you for providing a safe space for people with disabilities.
Hullo Adam n Steph, I just wanted to say hi and Thanks for continuing to create your art in whatever mediums you are feeling like working in at the moment! You both are truly wonderful and so lovely, thank you. Please take care and enjoy your Easter time!
The ending of this video was soooo nice and cozy! Happy Easter, everyone! ❤
Happy Easter to you too Andy!!