I’ve always thought getting asked out myself was amazing, no matter how they went about it. Not only does it show confidence but it shows genuine interest which are two huge factors and attractive qualities
i love your confidence with all of this. you've got it all laid out and you don't play games. but also like what if you don't mind playing a little in the beginning? everyone likes the chase and to be chased even if it's just in the beginning. i don't think you necessarily have to be so straight forward and serious right from the jump. i feel like you can discuss your expectations and boundaries after you've had a few dates so you don't end up turning the guy away immediately
If you don’t mind a little game playing, then play games! More power to you! Lol, I just absolutely hate it because it disturbs my peace, so I prefer to just say what I want and be okay if that scares away more people at the start :)
As a man it is my duty to give some unsolicited insight: the first time I asked out a girl was the most daunting; the second time was the second most daunting; and so on. Sometimes it is like one of those things in which it seems really difficult but then after you do it you realize that it really wasn’t so bad (even if sometimes it is).
I asked my boyfriend out back in September and we've been together ever since. I just went for the direct approach. I'm so glad I made the first move, we live a few states apart so we'd probably both still be single had I not asked him out. It was at a local fair I visited (one of those small town county fairs), I arrived about an hour after dark, that's when fairs are the most fun. I think I even won a few small prizes. Oh on a funny side note, I was wearing the same kind of sunglasses you're wearing in this video the night I asked him out.
A tip I got from my toxic bestie is to "treat them a little better than your dog" which is frustrating cos I'm a cat person and my cat instincts always tell me "asking nicely will get their attention but being mean about it will guarantee you a man".
I've always been shy and full of anxiety that I never approach women. I wish more women would take your advice. There's often a great guy needing coaxing out of their shell.
YesReneau, watched some of your college videos back in 2016. And I lived your voice and delivery. You are so intelligent too. Can't see why a guy wouldn't like you. Maybe you have been meeting blind people.
The trick is not in asking men out. It is asking in such a way that you get the answer you want, which for the sake of argument let us say is "yes." So, you approach a guy and ask him if he is willing to answer two questions truthfully, and each question is to be answered with a yesreneau. I mean, each question is to be answered with a yes or no. If the guy declines to answer any questions, then cross him off the list. But if he goes along with this, then you ask your two questions. The first question is, "If my second question is 'Will you go out with me on a date?', will you answer that question the same way that you answer this question?"
As a man watching this. I am 36 and single and would love for a woman to ask me out. I haven't had a girlfriend in six months, I don't know what signal to give and let them know I'm single.
Jack ma applied to Harvard 10 times and got turned down ten times. He failed his college entrance exam 4 times and then finally got in. He applied to kfc among 24 other people and was the only one that got turned down. The man became one of the richest men in Asia. Rejection is just a setback. Keep trying and cry if you need to.
Guy of your age here. You are approaching men the same way you expect men to approach you. These are all unnecessary. While for youtube it is fine, in real life, just say you are interested and cut the unnecessary humor. Most of it comes off as disrespectful and condescending which no man wants from his chic.
Personally the process is the same and vice versa. I would never say yes if a chick asked me out over text and most women I've spoken too feel the same way. It projects insecurity and confidence is sexy both ways ie from men and women.
I think if you know how to get tone across when you speak then as long as you can hangout, you have an open door in... but if you know how to compliment/entertain an engagement anyways thats better, then you just have to sprinkle the tone depending how forward you want to be. but there's nothing more lovely than company,, ive turned girls down for asking me 'out' but ive never not wanted to hangout. hangout in the city, id do that any day of the week ^.^
Humans are individuals. Not all women treat dating as only going for warm bodies rather than individual humans, as men like you do. Keep your misogyny.
I’ve always thought getting asked out myself was amazing, no matter how they went about it. Not only does it show confidence but it shows genuine interest which are two huge factors and attractive qualities
Honestly, its really easy to ask men out when you treat them like people who matter, and vice versa
K.
i love your confidence with all of this. you've got it all laid out and you don't play games. but also like what if you don't mind playing a little in the beginning? everyone likes the chase and to be chased even if it's just in the beginning. i don't think you necessarily have to be so straight forward and serious right from the jump. i feel like you can discuss your expectations and boundaries after you've had a few dates so you don't end up turning the guy away immediately
If you don’t mind a little game playing, then play games! More power to you! Lol, I just absolutely hate it because it disturbs my peace, so I prefer to just say what I want and be okay if that scares away more people at the start :)
As a man it is my duty to give some unsolicited insight: the first time I asked out a girl was the most daunting; the second time was the second most daunting; and so on. Sometimes it is like one of those things in which it seems really difficult but then after you do it you realize that it really wasn’t so bad (even if sometimes it is).
I asked my boyfriend out back in September and we've been together ever since. I just went for the direct approach. I'm so glad I made the first move, we live a few states apart so we'd probably both still be single had I not asked him out. It was at a local fair I visited (one of those small town county fairs), I arrived about an hour after dark, that's when fairs are the most fun. I think I even won a few small prizes. Oh on a funny side note, I was wearing the same kind of sunglasses you're wearing in this video the night I asked him out.
A tip I got from my toxic bestie is to "treat them a little better than your dog" which is frustrating cos I'm a cat person and my cat instincts always tell me "asking nicely will get their attention but being mean about it will guarantee you a man".
I've always been shy and full of anxiety that I never approach women. I wish more women would take your advice. There's often a great guy needing coaxing out of their shell.
YesReneau, watched some of your college videos back in 2016. And I lived your voice and delivery. You are so intelligent too. Can't see why a guy wouldn't like you. Maybe you have been meeting blind people.
I love this theory 😅
We need more videos like this, also approach in real life and video how lady can get a random guy numbers
This is real good advice
The trick is not in asking men out. It is asking in such a way that you get the answer you want, which for the sake of argument let us say is "yes."
So, you approach a guy and ask him if he is willing to answer two questions truthfully, and each question is to be answered with a yesreneau. I mean, each question is to be answered with a yes or no.
If the guy declines to answer any questions, then cross him off the list. But if he goes along with this, then you ask your two questions.
The first question is, "If my second question is 'Will you go out with me on a date?', will you answer that question the same way that you answer this question?"
K.
I'm weirded out when girls ask me out. Also to be fair I'm pretty masculine, and an executive, so clearly I like the pursuit.
Yuck.
I’m done with traditional gender roles. I’ll be myself
As a man watching this. I am 36 and single and would love for a woman to ask me out. I haven't had a girlfriend in six months, I don't know what signal to give and let them know I'm single.
I’ve found the best signal is to just ask them out 🙃
Most people gonna let you down anyway lol
I made all of these misteaxts with my crush literally 10 seconds before coming across this video. Thanks God
examples of deep questions include:
how do you feel about kanye west?
-taylor reneau 2022
Treat us like human beings and not doings. Be direct. source: a man.
Do you think it’s okay to ask a girl out at the gym?
Jack ma applied to Harvard 10 times and got turned down ten times. He failed his college entrance exam 4 times and then finally got in. He applied to kfc among 24 other people and was the only one that got turned down. The man became one of the richest men in Asia. Rejection is just a setback. Keep trying and cry if you need to.
Guy of your age here. You are approaching men the same way you expect men to approach you. These are all unnecessary. While for youtube it is fine, in real life, just say you are interested and cut the unnecessary humor. Most of it comes off as disrespectful and condescending which no man wants from his chic.
from his chicc sent me
@@hugoherrera2196 Can you re-write this? I do not see any meaning in your incomplete sentence.
Personally the process is the same and vice versa. I would never say yes if a chick asked me out over text and most women I've spoken too feel the same way. It projects insecurity and confidence is sexy both ways ie from men and women.
Cool video. I think the older you get, the more the potential date thinks about things. It's no longer all physical.
relationships seem so freaking complicated :/ just say "I have to go, but we can talk another time". If he is interested, he will act on this.
noooooooooooooo
I love your necklace! And video!🤗
Be feminine. Be girly. Be meek.
Meek?
😬
I’m a guy and this sounds like good advice to ask out ladies too!
How brave women who ask men out! Takes some chutzpah!
Long time fan,
Jaime
I think if you know how to get tone across when you speak then as long as you can hangout, you have an open door in... but if you know how to compliment/entertain an engagement anyways thats better, then you just have to sprinkle the tone depending how forward you want to be. but there's nothing more lovely than company,, ive turned girls down for asking me 'out' but ive never not wanted to hangout. hangout in the city, id do that any day of the week ^.^
Ive liked him for a year so ummm 😶
women asking men out seems kind of odd to me for some reason
Because we don’t see it enough 🙃
Hi Yes or No
;)
I find it hard to believe that a girl like you has to ask a man out. What type of guys are you going for?
Humans are individuals. Not all women treat dating as only going for warm bodies rather than individual humans, as men like you do. Keep your misogyny.